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What is wrong with people when we have a society that actually looks DOWN on people who want their children to have the benefit and stability of marriage. It has honestly devolved so far that unless a new mother is a single lesbian career woman working 80 hours per week and conceiving via artificial insemination because she “needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle,” then…people want to throw rocks and make a lady feel bad for wanting babies in a traditional setting.

I applaud ANY couple with the sense and foresight and self-realization and MATURITY to wait to have children until the relationship has become marriage and until the marriage is well-established. There isn’t anything even remotely shallow or phony or plastic about such motives. There isn’t anything abnormal about discovering a desire to have kids after marrying, either. It’s natural. For all our protests, it’s a biological fact that women feel an urge to couple and procreate. Some women are repulsed by children and motherhood…sure. Other women want careers and wait…and then find they’ve waited too long and no longer wish to procreate. But any woman who claims she’s never “felt it” even one time by the age of 40 is either in some serious armpit-deep denial or she’s a bald-face liar.

What these lovely celebrity newlywed women (Ellen and Portia) ARE…is women who know what’s best and CARE what’s best for their kids instead of caring first about making some sort of “I’m independent and don’t have to follow convention” mindset in order to be considered whole, valid, or deep people. Just because they didn’t jump into raptures about wanting to have kids together until after the wedding doesn’t mean they never talked about it in private…and it’s perfectly understandable that they would be thinking about it more seriously now.

LOL…wanting kids after marriage is hollow and phony…OMG. That’s just so out there, I can’t even put myself in that place.

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Guys, I’m sorry I’m always so long-winded. Just skip my crap if you don’t want to read a long one.

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” Born in the small town of Aurora, OH, on May 25, 1969, Heche was raised as part of a fundamentalist Christian family. Her father, an itinerant choir director, was constantly running from both debt and his immediate family; the former was due to his lack of a steady job and the latter to his secret life as a gay man.

Both conditions resulted in a tumultuous childhood for Heche, who began performing in dinner theatre at the age of 12 to help pay her family’s bills. Her life changed dramatically when she was 13 and her father died of AIDS, something that revealed his other identity and confounded Heche’s entire family.

Compounding the tragedy was her brother’s death in a car accident just months later; following this double blow, Heche lived with her mother in Chicago and kept acting to help pay the rent.

When she was 17, she moved to New York and was cast as identical twins on the long-running soap opera Another World; Heche stayed with the show through 1991, earning a Daytime Emmy Award for her work in the process. ”

SOURCE: http://allstars-online.net/Hechebio.html

Is that a trip, or what? Extremely interesting background & start.

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BTW, how did Heche ever get her foot in the door in this industry? Does anyone know? How?

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Its also nice seeing a gay couple so publicly open. We have a high rate of gay/bi here, but the area is also largely conservative because its mostly mennonite/amish. So even tho “somg anarky rebel” kids aren’t public about it.

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