Jennifer Lopez wanted to dump Marc Anthony last Christmas

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Ugh, there are still a million stories about Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony. For a quick recap of our previous stories: Marc was crazy, controlling and jealous of Jennifer’s fame; Marc wanted Jennifer to be a more conservative wife-type, and he hated when she wore sexy clothes; and Jennifer was such an insecure wreck that her mom emailed Ben Affleck to get HIS advice on what Jennifer should do. Now for the eleventy billion other stories:

*Jennifer went to the Ukraine on Tuesday to perform at a private wedding. She got paid $1 million and she arrived with a gigantic entourage and stayed at the best penthouse suite. Sources say she was in a good mood, she was nice to everyone, she signed autographs and “smiled a lot.” When she performed at the wedding, she said, “Are you happy? I am happy, because I am here with you today!”

*Jennifer wanted to dump Marc as far back as Christmas 2010. They also stopped having sex, because Marc is obsessed with his fancy trainsets, and he would lock himself in his gigantic train room. Oh, and Marc was jealous of Jennifer’s relationship with Steven Tyler.

*Marc cheated on Jennifer with a stewardess he met on a private plane. A source tells Us Weekly, “Marc and Jennifer almost split up over it. Jennifer was going to leave him then, but Marc begged her to stay. They went to marriage counseling and she decided to give it another shot. He was someone she truly loved.” Sources also claim that “Marc go out without his wedding ring and flirt with women in clubs in NYC and Las Vegas.”

*Also, Marc was a horrible businessman and he made terrible decisions acting on behalf of Jennifer. Marc was responsible for Jennifer firing Benny Medina (the man who developed Jennifer’s career), and Marc was pissed when Jennifer hired Benny back. A source says: “Marc has always been a dominating husband. He wants to control everything Jennifer does, including her career. Jennifer feels like she hit her lowest point careerwise because of Marc’s decisions. Marc was the king of bad decisions, but you couldn’t say no to him or it would cause a big fight.”

*He was a crappy father, a source says: “She’s a really hands on mom — so loving and nurturing while he seemed to feel bothered by [their twins].”

*Marc is “aloof and visibly sad” in the wake of the split. Sources say that behind-the-scenes of his concert in Colombia, “He didn’t allow anyone to talk to him or anyone to come to his dressing room. The people who worked with him said he was a little bit upset, so because of that, they tried to keep everybody from him.” When he wasn’t performing, he just stayed in his hotel room and ordered room service.

Do you think this is the end? It’s not. This is going to go on for a while, especially when Jennifer gets a new boyfriend. Which should be happening any minute.

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  1. RHONYC says:

    ‘Marc is obsessed with his fancy trainsets’

    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

    this confirms it. he really is an Elf!!!

    😆

  2. NancyMan says:

    Whenever I see her, I want to dump too.

  3. Emily says:

    Next to him she always looks big, which we know isn’t actually the case.

    I don’t know where all these stories are coming from. Even if they are true, its in very bad taste to dish the personal details of your relationship to the media. Either she is that concerned with her image, or he reall f**ked her over, and this is payback.

  4. Cherry says:

    Let’s face it, this divorce is the best decision she’s ever made in her entire career. Just last year, nobody cared about jLo anymore, and look what happend now! We’re all back talking about her!

  5. lin234 says:

    lol This sounds straight out of Jen’s personal CON list you know she made and handed to an “anonymous” source aka her mother to give to the press. She forgot to add to the cons of being married to Marc: She always looked bigger than him.

    Also that email her “mother” sent was more of a Hey Ben! Wanna make Bennifer 2.0 happen again? I’m about to be single notice.

  6. Liz says:

    I never see why people give her appearance and looks so much laud. maybe around the time she was dating BA, she looked cuter than usual, but she’s never been this gorgeous beautiful woman.

  7. ladybert62 says:

    Jennifer’s team seems to be in public relations overdrive: It is all his fault!

    Well there are two sides to every story and I doubt that she is the angel her pr team is portraying.

    Why all the back stabbing? Why cant they just separate and go their separate ways without all the accusations?

  8. Tierra says:

    That is just one creepy looking guy.
    I dont know anything about him other than he’s married to her but he is just seems creepy.
    I’m already tired of their separation stories. I dont think people really care too much about these two. There’s nothing likable about either one of them.

  9. Sue says:

    I think half is BS media stories and the other half is from JLO’s PR team.

    Tierra@ I don’t think it’s that people don’t care but that it’s too much to fast you get like 5 different stories in one day and the next another set of stories and so on.

    If it is Marcs fault for the split I think it’s sad that JLO wants a pity party, I would have more respect for her if she handled her split like Sandra Bullock did hers but I guess she needs people to feel sorry for her because she has to seem more likeable to the public after her 3rd marriage and diva attitude she needs it.

  10. brin says:

    If that’s the case, why did she marry/stay with such a loser?

  11. Sigh. says:

    So JLo was without fault, flaw, or defect in this marriage? Yeah. As I’m sure she was in the other two. And in that engagement that was cancelled at the last minute. Uh-huh.
    She’s about to become another Halle Berry (every breakup is about him alone…and the accusations are definitely one-sided), and she needs to back-off all of these glaring apparently planted “leaks” before they bite her in the (HUGE) ass…

  12. oklady says:

    Is it just me, or is her turning gray at the roots in the 2nd and 3rd pics?

  13. Relli says:

    I have really mixed feelings about this whole thing, if the stories she is reporting are true then good for her for getting out; no one deserves to have a crappy partner in life. HOWEVER whether she realizes it or not she perpetuating some very bad Latin man stereotypes. I have even seen commenters on here using those cliches, which IMHO is incredibly sad and moronic. They may be Latino but they are Puerto Ricans, from new york no less so its not like they are fresh off the island. An island that is commonwealth of the United States that has things like Target, Hoe Depot and the citizens receive ALL the benefits of being US citizens.

    @ Emily is right this really bad taste to air your dirty laundry. Look had she come out and said he sucks at money management and i am tired of paying for business mishaps I would have been right on board with her. But the fact that she is trotting this crap out like Evil Longoria makes me CRINGE.

  14. mln76 says:

    There have been blind items that go along with this scenario out there for a while so I totally believe he’s a controlling machismo bastard. Heck even Howard Stern hinted ages ago that there was dirt on Jlo’s marraige. I think Marc basically bankrupted and trapped her to her so she couldn’t leave because after she had her babies she was done. Jlo has horrible taste in men.

  15. Jess says:

    I think all those stories are hogwash. Jennifer has never been one to dish on an ex boyfriend and I doubt highly that she would start now especially when it comes to the father of her children. Neither one of them has made a public statement . All this is coming from a “source”.. Garbage. Marc Anthony loves her and I doubt very much that he cheated. Marc Anthony jealous of Steven Tyler? Oh please!

  16. You don't say says:

    She, (her people, PR person) have accused this man of everything short of child abuse. If any of this is coming from her camp, it might end up being a bad move on her part. You don’t denigrate the father of your children in this fashion in public, no matter what he did to you because he is going to be in the children’s lives and therefore her life forever.

    She should behave more like Uma Thurman who said she would never knock the father of her children no matter how angry she was. Now, that is class and acting like an adult.

  17. BeckyR says:

    This is her 3rd divorce: something is wrong wih her.

  18. Maritza says:

    The only thing I don’t believe is that Guadalupe emailed Ben the rest is quite believable. I think he will have a fit if ever he sees her with someone else. Jennifer is a workaholic and she loves the fame, besides she knows these are the best years of her life.Deep down I think she thought he would change but Marc likes to stray and no woman will put up with that nonsense.

  19. Pyewacket says:

    I cannot stand JLo, and am sorry Anthony didn’t do the dumping.

    Everyone always bitches about how rotten and diva-like Mariah is, this woman makes her look like a fluffy kitten by comparison.

    JLo is no victim in all of this. The only ones making her out to be are her “team” of rumor spreaders.

  20. Jackson says:

    MA and his train sets? And his train room?? LOL, IDK why but this made me laugh. Tired of hearing their story already! Either put out some real dirt or let’s move on.

  21. Truthful says:

    I will NEVER beleive that this break up was alllll because Marc is so bad, never.

    her folks are working OT, I see.

    cause JLo was/is soooo perfect and oh, she sings really well too, LOL!

  22. mia girl says:

    Why leak all this stuff? Divorce and move on. One day your kids will read all of this stuff about their father (“he was bothered by his twins” “cheated”, etc). If Lopez is not leaking this, then she should issue a statement saying that it is false.

    I agree its not over by a long shot and if this keeps up, I’m sure Marc will fight back with some leaks of his own.

  23. Quest says:

    Choo-chooo…chaga, chaga…LMAO

  24. hateonit. says:

    this is so dumb. she’s tryna make a come back and he was just in the way of her big ego. her stupid diva demands and her i wanna bare my belly on tv even tho i’m like 50 and just had twins. she’s never had good choice in men. but marc can’t be that bad…..she’s just jealous because he’s a better singer by far. she couldn’t sing to save her life. and yes I am entitled to say this because I sing also. her voice isn’t anything I’d be proud of. those poor kids 🙁 she annoys the living crap outta me. and wasn’t she voted the most beautiful in the world or something?!? that was the biggest joke I’ve ever heard. Halle berry wouldve gotten my vote *shrugs* just sayin.

  25. arock says:

    trains…hahahaha
    i can just see him sitting in a basement of a giant mansion somewhere looking like an underfed gomez addams.

  26. Chloe says:

    I’ve always had an overwhelming sense of wtf when seeing them together. I know it’s terribly superficial on my part, and they were supposed to be in love and all that, I’m just saying I’m not at all surprised at what’s going on now.

  27. wunderkindt says:

    @oklady

    Yes, those are gray roots.

    ANd it’s probably Marc’s fault too. His Train Room shenanigans proabably made her turn gray early.

  28. luls says:

    I dont believe 90% of the crap thats being put out there concerning their split. And I certainly dont believe that hes the bad guy that hes being made out to be.

    Its a real shame they couldnt make it work. But then again, they ARE both stars in their own right, and when CAN stars EVER make it work? Especially ones with track records like those 2.

  29. lola says:

    I don’t buy most of this stuff, but howard stern once said he knew why jlo did idol and there were hints it was her ticket out of crazyville with marc anthony. I sorta believe that now.

  30. Liz says:

    I do believe that he’s a bad guy in the way that the media is pointing him out to be and this goes in line with the way he’s been showcased by his own latin media and fans – but I also think that she’s just a total c-u-n-t, and I never use that word

  31. the original bellaluna says:

    If she has a lick of sense (and that’s a big IF), she’ll put the kibosh on whoever is “leaking” this stuff to the media. It’s not making her look good, and I agree with the previous poster who said it’s going to backfire and bite her in the arse.

    My ex slept with a side-piece in OUR bed under OUR roof while I was working my SECOND JOB. I still didn’t badmouth him to the kids. Hell, when I went back to work for the same company I worked for when were married, no one there even knew what happened. They just knew we weren’t together any more.

  32. Nanea says:

    The poor kids.

    Once they are old enough to venture out into internet land, they will have to read all this stuff, whether true or not.

  33. sapphire says:

    @arock-that’s hilarious!

  34. TG says:

    @Sigh – You are probably right but I love reading about this train wreck so hope it keeps on coming. And I remember Benny Medina said she brought him along on her honeymoon with Chris Judd so she is not a likable person who does that. I always felt sorry for him he looked like he didn’t belong in her world.

    Oh and am I the only one who things JHO and Steven Tyler look like twins?

  35. Findley says:

    Emily! I always thought that too–she is bigger than he is–or appears to be…

    (It’s just “Ukraine”–not “the Ukraine.”)

  36. Diane says:

    Can you believe the mother decided to meddle (that’s what she’s doing) in Affleck’s life? Daily Mail article said MA was too controlling and poor little Jenny from the Block (who, let’s face it, knows a thing or fifty about being controlling) just couldn’t take it anymore. Actually, I think Jlo is a talented actress. She’s done a couple of really good films. She was a great dancer in her prime, but I hate her singing. And why does she always squint? I hope she doesn’t think it makes her look sexy. Or maybe she just needs glasses.

  37. SUNSEEKER says:

    I can’t understand why people who are in the public eye have to malign the father of their children. Nobody knows what happens in a relationship and what are you teaching your children by such vindictive behaviour. Jennifer is going the same root as Halle Berry, not a likeable trait.

  38. Violet says:

    Aw, poor JLo. Marc has been so mean to tiny, powerless, shy JLo. Everything is his fault and none of it hers.

    Yeah, right.

    JLo has a string of broken engagements behind her, and is now getting divorced for the THIRD time. That’s hardly the track record of someone who has a clue about commitment or compromise.

    We’re talking about a woman who literally pushes people aside — Mary Louise Parker to talk to Prince William and Marc’s previous wife to snag Marc for herself, to name just a couple of examples — to achieve her goals.

    I’m really starting to dislike JLo. I’m sure that she and Marc both made their share of mistakes in this marriage, yet JLo’s so eager to make herself look good that she’s willing to launch a smear campaign against Marc. She needs to remember that the man she’s throwing under the bus is the father of her children.

    For all of Marc’s faults, he’s not trash talking her and I’m sure he’s got plenty of ammo if he wanted to stoop so low.

  39. tropicalchica says:

    I just watched part of the J Lo E! True Hollywood Story yesterday and they said that she fired Benny Medina while she was with Ben, and sued him for taking millions that she didn’t think he was entitled to. That was WAY before she hooked up with Marc, so it’s ridiculous that she’d blame him for that. In fact, Medina’s response was: “Jennifer Lopez, by making false allegations against me, is now trying to add me to the long list of people whom she has used and discarded after she took from them all she could get … I look forward to the opportunity to have the world come to know the real Jennifer Lopez.” I don’t think Marc was the best husband, and maybe he was controlling, but he did seem to adore her (God only knows why), and I think it’s really tacky to use the media to blame everything on him. Seems like that’s her MO to protect her image though, since she doesn’t have any real talent to actually keep her in the spotlight.

  40. Raised Brow says:

    Wait now, Kaiser. Didn’t JL fall out with Benny Medina when she was still with Ben Affleck? She addressed it in her interview on Dateline, which you posted yesterday. Nit-picking, sure and I’m not a fan of Marc Anthony, but let’s not blame him for EVERYTHING.

  41. Jana says:

    The guy with Us Weekly was on The View, and he showed a great cover shot of JLO and said Marc put the kibosh on it and said it was too sexy for a mother of two at forty. He said it took like six months to get approval for then to use it on another cover because of Marc’s interference.

    And now because of Idol, Jlo’s career has taken off again. Surprise, she has a big hit off her album and her album is selling well. She will tour. She’s doing a movie. Her huge career drive is back now and she’s over Marc. Let’s face it, with two kids, a Latin husband who wants her around a lot, and a career-driven woman traveling all over, it was going to happen, the breakup. I believe they are throwing some of this stuff out there about Marc and long-suffering JLO, because JLO doesn’t want the jokes about her fast marriges.

  42. karena says:

    Please make this go away. I hate seeing parents air their dirty laundry in public. Some day these kids are gonna read this crap.

  43. Rainbow says:

    I think, she has wright not to hide, what was wrong in their relationship, and when children grow up, they should know the reasons for the divorce of their parents. I mean, I would like to know the trueth and from both sides, her and him. Now, as much as it’s not ok with the scandal, it may affect kids when they go to school, but why would she hide, or lie for him. Who really hurted children? Why daddy had to chead?

  44. Nancy C. says:

    don’t get the appeal of her. she’s average looking (unless all dolled up with million dollar makeup and clothes) and has a brooklyn accent worse than mine. she’s ridiculous! two big egos can never be married. one always has to defer to the other. unless you want to do like brad and angie and make it all about the babies.

  45. Paula Berry says:

    I can’t understand why there hasn’t been a story about his drug use?! I mean look at him! I’m not a fan of Jennifer, never have been never will be. Her only talent (my opinion) is latching on to men to help her career, everything she’s does is so calculated. They lasted 6 yrs longer then I thought they would be what did you exspect when they got together a month after he renewed his marriage vows w/ mrs universe?! And her breakup w/ ben, he knocked up Jennifer G less then 2 months after calling of their engagement, jlo wanted to show him and the world she was moving on. I feel sorry for the kids that personally, I don’t think she even wanted. I’m not saying she’s a bad mom, I’m sure she’s not. It just seems like everythings always about her and I knew when she was back on top she would leave. All the stories are about him being nasty and controling but give me a break! She’s no weakling! She’s known for outragous diva persona. I’m sure she will break up another family soon enough.

  46. Ann says:

    There had been rumors YEARS ago about him that he had beaten his first wife.

  47. Camille says:

    Wow, they are really trying to push JLo as a victim aren’t they. Bet the truth is somewhere in the middle of all of this mess.

  48. teehee says:

    Well even if it is supposedly ‘all the guys fault all the time’, then SHE is to blame for picking these “faulty” men. That is a totally one-sided approach, but it still definitely doesnt leave her looking blameless.

    She has several failed engagements and failed marriages, so no matter how she may try to play the victim role, obviously she is not smart enough to pick a decent man. And you know there would have been or are enough men out there, who would want her, so she could easily take her pick. Who else would accept some guy who drops his wife in favor of you? Its always a bad sign. YOU will be his next ‘wife’.

  49. REALIST says:

    Damn, Marc looks hammered in two of the pictures above. If he’s a sloppy drunk, that’s just another reason for J Lo to dump him. She’s so self-disciplined; I am sure she can hold her liquor.
    On the other hand, she needs to use this discipline to zip her lip (via her handlers) and take the high road in this divorce.

  50. Rainbow says:

    There are many kind of abuce, and strong women very often get abused by their husbands. It isn’t that they are soft inside, it is just that, well, Im no psycologist, can’t explain ! But it is the trueth. All people have insecurities, moore or less, but we all do. And maeby it All was different from what I picture, but we can only guess. Mark also cheated in previous marriage. He was awair, of that Jennifer is an artist and he knew what is her clothes style, howecome all theese attempts to change her? Its not wright to try change a parner. Its good with bad. I dout that she told him not to wear something becose he is”too old for this image of sexy macho”. Thats the compromice we do, in love. He was gealous and was afraid that she leaves him? and what man wouldn’t be. when a wife is hotter star than a man (with their ego and ownership instincts…) and the love is there. But different men would choose different ways to handle those gealesy issues. He chose to reasure himself in her, and in public eyes, by beeing a controll freak. It is actually So Hard Not To Be, when you’re in love over your head. But controll, and with comments that this and this you Can Not wear becose look at your age- even a wife who never was a star will get offended and tired of that. Dont any woman wish her man to support her? Like I think that I nead some weight loosing. I dream that my man would say- darling your weight is perfect, you can get 20 moore pounds, you would even get bether. Yeah;-( no luck with men like that for me:-/ I would amagin, his comments infront other people that mother of 2 and at her age(she’s Only in a middle age do!) can not wear something, that must of been hursh to take. When everybody heared back then, that he cheated on her, and she stayed, I would guess, that made him along with the regreat that she found out, feal moore powerful instead of grateful. But all asides, I certainly don’t think he is a horrible person, just a controllive man who has wrong ideas about how to look and be strong, (as so many guys do) he can’t be faithful even to his true love, and to get his way he is able to play on wife’s weak spots, so ocationally abucive. That is quite many men, just like that. That’s not the worst what a man can be. And they Both loved eachother powerfly. He just wanted it All, all his ways. It did last 7y. So they both tried their best.

  51. DethHammer says:

    Again, let us all gather and cry for poor innocent, blameless JLo.

    All of this just makes BOTH of them seem like complete skunks; Marc the unfaithful, abusive, train-obsessed control freak, and JLo, the immature, mud-slinging, image-obsessed control freak whose PR team seems to be in overdrive dishing all of their dirty laundry for the kids to read in the future.

    The truth is always somewhere in the middle.

  52. boxy lady says:

    Re: JLo’s grey hair
    Years ago, when the tabloids were doing that “baby watch” thing that they do with new couples, JLo was photographed somewhere with her grey roots showing and the tabs speculated that she was pregnant since she obviously wasn’t dyeing her hair. Her reps stated at the time that she wasn’t pregnant just busy and that she has been grey since her late teens or early 20s.

  53. BabyCakes says:

    Either they are both on heroin or they are both baked out of their gourds.

  54. Jojo says:

    Liz, are you serious?
    I have always found Jlo amazing looking. Her overexposure detracts, but I remember the first time I saw her i was blown away. Who do you think is a beautiful woman if not her?

  55. Rainbow says:

    Im with Jojo. She is very beautil. Grey hair at 20s… Sh, howcom it’s like that??? I had the same problem. They went grey So early. I was thinking I’m a freak but then learned that many have same thing… WHY can’t they invent something for it ???

  56. Kosmos says:

    I don’t know what’s true, what’s not, but do NOT care for Lopez and her infatuation with herself. She comes off as vapid and definitely superficial 100%. Sorry, but I don’t see her as being much more than that. Anthony I imagine is close to being the same as they chose one another. Their marriage was bound to go south sooner or later. I feel sorry for the next guy she dates.

  57. Andie B says:

    I have always thought he looks unwell, whereas she looks beautiful and healthy. Let’s face it, they were an odd couple. If any thing good has come out of the marriage, it’s the two little twins. Sadly for them they look more like Dad than Mum, but never mind. LOVING the colour of her dress in the first photo.

  58. Meanchick says:

    I’m glad others saw those grey roots too. How did her stylist miss that? Anyway, I like JLo, I knew the marriage to the rat wouldn’t last. She’s a rolling stone.

  59. Rafaellicious says:

    Bullshit.
    i dont believe any of this. Maybe he was a bit controlling and jealous but she is a bitch for throwing all this mud towards the father of her kids. Shut up and move on diva.

  60. cprincess says:

    who is writing this crap???
    she fired Benny Medina when she was with Ben Affleck and then begged him to come back after to revive her career…
    As regards his being a father-its always been really obvious that he’s much more comfortable with the kids-shes too self obsessed…
    this is coming straight from her PR team and its all crap…

  61. @iampaparazzi1 says:

    I’d be jealouse of her and Stevens relationship to I mean damn ! If you watch the first season of idol she couldn’t stay off of him and this season they have been flirting backstage and have allready kissed like 3 times and he’s engaged !