Jennifer Garner talks babies & Ben, complains about her first trimester

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In a pre-taped episode of Ellen, Jennifer Garner is talking about being pregnant for the third time and how great everything is in her life. Which… I mean, I hope for her sake that she and Ben Affleck are a lot stronger than I think they are. I hope they both are looking forward to this baby. I hope they’re both committed to their family. Garner doesn’t confirm the gender of the baby, and she also makes it sound like she doesn’t really care if it’s a boy or a girl – contrary to reports throughout the years that Ben really, really wants a boy. Here’s more:

Violet, Seraphina and…Daisy Duck? Expecting her third child with husband Ben Affleck, Jennifer Garner opens up for the first time about her pregnancy — and its pitfalls — on Tuesday’s Ellen DeGeneres Show.

“The first trimester is just yuck,” the Arthur actress, 39, tells Ellen DeGeneres. “Kind of an all day sickness.”

“But after that, [this pregnancy] is not a big thing except there is one big thing,” Garner says, “And that is, my bottom.”

Explains the star: “You know how once you have kids you never ever pee by yourself again? At least one of them is always in there with you at all times.”

Married for five years, Garner and Affleck, 39, have daughters Violet, 4, and Seraphina, 2; they confirmed they were expecting again in late August. “So the other day… [Violet] is in there with me and all of the sudden she went, Oh Mom, we have to have a talk…She said, ‘Mom, your bottom has gotten so big that your panties don’t even begin to cover it.”

The Alias actress cleared up the confusion with her eldest: “I said, ‘It’s called a thong, you wear it when you’re a grown up. She was like, ‘Uh, that is so gross!”

Meanwhile, Violet and her little sister Seraphina “have a lot of opinions” on their sibling-to-be, Garner says. “They don’t really care about the gender as much as long as we name it what they it to be named.”

Some of the cuties’ suggestions? “Ralphie, Frankie, Minnie Mouse, Daisy Duck. Rosemarie.. Daisy Duck Affleck. I can see us going that way,” Garner cracked, laughing.

As for the Hollywood couple’s own hopes for their baby-to-be’s gender, “Obviously we’d be happy either way,” Garner says. “It would be so weird to have a boy and cool and different. And I’m sure it would be fun for Ben he likes baseball and all that stuff. But a third girl, three girls is a great way to grow up.” (Garner herself grew up with two sisters.)

For now, Affleck is content playing not baseball but “baby doll” with his little girls. “My husband plays a lot of baby doll. He is really cute,” Garner gushes. “I will walk in and he will be sitting on a little chair. He’s so tall! And he’ll have a baby doll and I’ll say, ‘What are you doing?’ ‘I’m watching Frankie (the baby doll) here.”

[From Us Weekly]

Oh, I could totally see Ben and Jen naming a third girl Rosemarie or Daisy. Either of those names would fit in perfectly with “Seraphina” and “Violet”. So maybe that’s the signal… she’s having another girl? I think Garner would probably love another girl. And Ben would just have to deal with being permanently covered in glitter and doll hair.

Also – I’m thinking that Jennifer is doing Ellen’s show because she’s promoting her new film, Butter, where she plays the wife of Ty Burrell’s character. Apparently, her character is less than sweet-as-pie, which Jennifer recently discussed with Entertainment Weekly. You can read the full interview here, but this quote was one I found of particular interest: “The whole point of being an actor is to play different roles. And I don’t think that I’ve been pigeonholed — I feel like I’ve gotten to play a lot of different characters and do a lot of different things — but it did feel like, ‘Oh, I am feeling awfully nice these days.’ I’m ready to spin this around, you know? I’m a little over myself.” Thank God. The Don of the Hollywood Mother Mafia is finally ready to shake it up a bit.

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  1. Franny says:

    she looks so so beautiful in that first picture. she needs to do this for every event.

  2. Sue says:

    From what I hear the movie comes out in December so why is she promoting it now 4 months early?

    I agree with Jen over her too.

  3. Franny says:

    also, im confused why violet is wearing soccer cleats with a ballerina outfit?

  4. Alix says:

    That thong story is pretty funny!

  5. Sohpie says:

    Now who wears thong while pregnant?? She wants the world to know that although she dresses like a nanny she is still sexy for Ben… anyways never liked this super calculated bitch.

  6. Jen says:

    Just watched a clip from the interview on Ellen, and it is really cute. Made me laugh. 🙂

  7. ahoyhoy says:

    Little Violet looked at her mom and said, “We need to talk about your bottom.” That is the most adorable thing I’ve ever heard!

    As a third of 3 girls, i will say that I’ve noticed it’s always men who have been sexist or treated women as objects who end up with all daughters. Like a karmic lesson that girls are people.
    Notice how many rock stars had ALL DAUGHTERS? It’s a long list.

    I think Jen is a good wife & a good mom. I hope Ben appreciates that and doesn’t screw it up!

  8. Courtney says:

    she was asked and she answered the question there’s a difference. I’ve never liked her much either but in my case it’s because I think her acting is wooden being used to more dramatic type actresses like Ava Gardner Elizabeth Taylor and Vanessa Redgrave. at least Ms Garner isn’t the type that has morning sickness her entire pregnancy like about 15% of expectant mamas do

  9. brin says:

    I think she is a great mom and I hope she and Ben are happy because they have an adorable family.

  10. wtf says:

    I’ve been a fan of her since she guest starred on Felicity, so I’m biased. But I think the story is hilarious and her kids are so cute I can’t stand it

  11. Sweepea says:

    Violet looks so much like her mother.

    I’ve always liked Jen, wooden acting or not.

  12. Becky says:

    I know it was in the context of a cute story about her kids but I really didn’t need to hear about her thong-TMI. Couldn’t she have picked another cute story to share?

  13. Isa says:

    I’m so glad I was never one for much morning sickness. According to a study I read you’re slightly more likely to be having a girl when you have morning sickness.

    I hope she was wearing a maternity thong, for comfort’s sake.

    Blondes with really, really dark eyes like Violet’s creep me out.

  14. the original bellaluna says:

    Well, it’s true. Hubs says to me “Close the door!” when I’m in the bathroom. I asked “WHY? If it’s not a kid, it’s a cat or dog! Who cares!”

    And that little Violet quote is PRICELESS!

    (She should consider herself lucky that only the first 3 months are bad – I had the perma-barfs for all 9 months of both my last pregnancies.)

  15. gee says:

    I like her and Ben Affleck.. I really hope their marriage is strong behind it all.

  16. Turtle Dove says:

    “The Don of the Hollywood Mother Mafia is finally ready to shake it up a bit.”

    I always had the feeling that Reese Bitcherspoon was the Don. Perhaps I elevated her too high and she’s just the enforcer?

    ahoyhoy (7) – I was reading an article recently and it said that there is a biological tendency for very attractive couples to have more daughters. It is also scientifically universally accepted that women/girls ARE getting more beautiful. With that in mind…..

    I’ve long thought what you have, that it’s funny that these men who gave many a father cause to worry have a household full of daughters: Affleck, Damon, Wahlberg and a plethora of other singers, actors, etc.

  17. e.non says:

    those girls are just so damned cute and normal looking. they could spill their drinks/food on their clothes and mom would just wipe it up; can you imagine what jlo does — i’m sure she has an army of stylists with a trunk full of toddler clothes at the ready just for such an emergency…

  18. tracking says:

    No doubt she’s a great mom, but the gender stereotyping is annoying. Because girls can’t like baseball and bond with their dad?

  19. RocketMerry says:

    My God, she’s beautiful. Drop-dead-gorgeous. Wow.

  20. pollo says:

    What is it with people and the lack of decorum? I love her, but talking about thongs with her daughter? c’mon.

  21. DarkEmpress says:

    That thong story is hilarious. Violet is the cutest kid in Hollywood.

  22. Liamarie says:

    If one never discusses thongs with their children, then thongs are always a mystery.

    She’s in her first trimester. I’m sure a thong is fine right now.

  23. Devon says:

    This woman cannot dress to save her life. You’d think that since she has a stylist she’d be a bit better dressed. Rachel Zoe must die when she sees Jen out and about. I get that a lot of what she’s wearing is comfortable “mum” stuff but that photo with the jeans and boots? Barf.

  24. atlantapug says:

    I agree that I LOVE that Jen lets her kids dress themselves (at least it appears that way). No high heels, no makeup, no matchy poufy expensive dresses. Just mismatched playclothes like everyone else.
    Very down to earth.

  25. Franny says:

    and courtney has made a triumphant come back with all the old hollywood gossip. lolz.

  26. Rennie says:

    Her make up is really nice here…I saw a full picture of this dress (that you only get a peek of here) and I got the feeling she was trying to sort of copy Kate Middleton’s Jenny Packham gown from a couple months ago.

    @22..I kind of agree with #21. Why is she wearing a thong while pregnant? Do they make special maternity thongs? Can’t Violet wait a few more years to find out what one is? No one is saying NEVER tell her but why does a 5 year old need to know what it is? Heck, I didn’t learn what they were till much later in my teens!

    And #17 Why mention Jennifer Lopez and compare? You don’t know how either women is in private. Why must people pit mothers against each other?

    Lastly, I wonder if she’ll have another girl? Either way happy for Jen and her family and I agree with every bit of Kaiser’s post.

  27. Kelly says:

    Ummm, girls like baseball too. And the thong comment is TMI.

  28. Carolyn says:

    Celebs don’t appear on tv or get interviewed in the press unless they’re promoting something..and there’s always an angle/tie in to the movie. I like Ben n Jen and the girls together. No-one’s perfect…hopefully they’ve got enough in common and shared goals to try and make it work.

  29. Andie B says:

    @ahoyhoy..I agree. I am third of three girls. It’s karma for my Dad who thinks women are inferior to men and has firmly set mysogynistic views. Ha ha!In his next life he might get the boys he wanted.

  30. Pix says:

    Wow, married five years and three kids already? That’s tough on any marriage never mind a Hollywood couple. I never realized their real situation. I sure hope he’s a good dad to those little girls and not running around like the rumors.

  31. vivien says:

    wow she looks so beautiful in that first picture!

  32. manda says:

    I agree with the people that think the thong story was too much, because it really was. And I think it’s weird that she wears thongs so often, just because you really don’t need to wear them for so much (most) of what she wears, you know?

  33. hmmmm says:

    I like Jennifer and I love that she tries to give her girls as much of a normal childhood as possible. They are pretty grounded, and I hope Ben really appreciates what a great family he has. Don’t screw it up, Ben!

  34. Poppy says:

    Ben probably does screw it up on occasion, but JG went after him with a vengeance and took a long time to land him so she will never let go of him, when he does behave badly (women,gambling,boozing,drugs) she most likely turns a blind eye or fogives him (over and over) like many other wives in Hollywood and beyond, which means the marriage will probably last a long time. More power to you JenG.

  35. atlantapug says:

    Give it a rest about the thong! Why shouldn’t she wear a thong? Moms can only wear huge granny panties?
    Yes, they make pregnancy thongs, but you can wear a regular, low cut one too if you want. Some people don’t like panty lines.
    I have a daughter the same age as Violet and she would TOTALLY say something to me about my thong too.

  36. Nancy C. says:

    as a woman who was lucky to have only one child, but wanted more – i hate when women who easily get pregnant complain about their pregnancy, child birth, or motherhood. they really need to have a little sensitivity to woman who cannot conceive and stop being such cry babies. my pregnancy was wonderful and i cherished every moment. i would have given anything to get pregnant again and would have gladly suffered through anything without a complaint.

  37. Lindy says:

    You know, I can’t really explain why, but I feel like she is really growing on me lately. That top picture is gorgeous–her hair and makeup are perfect. And I know people run her down for looking a little schlubby when she’s just out and about, but I guess I do feel like that makes her more relatable.

    When I’m in work mode, I’m totally put together, but the red hot second I’m not at work, I love just being in jeans and tees. And I only have one kid to wrangle–two or three I swear I’d try to avoid any extra prep time.

  38. maggiegrace says:

    I would love to know what foundation she has on in that first picture. I’ve always liked her too — and their two girls are so adorable. She seems like a very hands on, regular, attentive mom.

  39. Rabbit says:

    She’s as boring as hell, and I hate how she constantly whores her kids out to the paps.

  40. Isaidit says:

    Rabbit, how can you “whore” your kids out to the press when every pic I’ve seen them in they are just going about their lives in a normal way?

  41. KateNonymous says:

    @Nancy C. (#36) As someone who is–well, if not in your shoes, then at least in a similar pair, I get where you’re coming from, and I’m truly sorry that you’re having so much trouble.

    But me having trouble having a second child does not mean that someone else is less nauseated by their morning sickness. It can be hard to hear about, but in fact they’re completely separate things. People are living their lives, not yours or mine or anyone else’s, and no matter how aware we may try to be, we’re going to tread on one another’s toes far more often than we realize.

    Beyond that, I think the post title is harsh. I’m not sure that Garner’s comment, as quoted, would even register with me as “complains about her first trimester.” It’s a single, barely descriptive sentence.

  42. ames says:

    Wow, some of these comments. Talking about a thong is not that risque people, especially coming from a celeb, I have heard much worse. And talking with her 5 year old daughter about it, who cares? Her daughter made a comment and she explained, was she supposed to hush up and make her think it’s a bad thing? She explained they’re for adults, it’s not like she went out and bought one for her. And yes, girls can like baseball, but maybe HERS do not.

    I don’t see anything wrong with being married 5 years and have a third child on the way. Her children appear to be space by about 2-3 years…that’s pretty average I’d say. Besides, she’s 39, what do you want her to do, wait until she’s 45 for her next one?

    All that being said, I like her a lot and they seem like a very down to earth family, raising their kids themselves without nanny’s and glitz and glamour.

  43. zoey says:

    Nancy C,

    Bitter much? Maybe YOU should be happy to have one child when there are many women to struggle to have one.

    I guess you never complain about anything right, because there is always someone who is in a worse situation? You don’t know how she felt during her first tri…you say now you’d gladly take it to have one more, but that doesn’t mean you wouldn’t be miserable and feel crappy if you were barfing 24/7.