Did Ashton Kutcher cheat on Demi for “tough love” for her substance abuse?

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The ongoing Ashton Kutcher-Demi Moore debacle takes the covers of this week’s Star Magazine and Us Weekly. Us Weekly’s story is basically just a rehash of Star’s cover story last week, plus some of the newer details that The Daily Mail had a few days ago re: the hot tub and “Where’s the vodka at?” Still, it’s nice that Us Weekly got some independent confirmations of what went down:

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How did Ashton Kutcher ring in his sixth wedding anniversary with Demi Moore on Sept. 24? With a raucous, Demi-free party at the San Diego Hard Rock Hotel — which, a source tells the new Us Weekly, culminated in a sexual encounter in a hot tub with local blonde Sara Leal (pictured here) and her pal in his $2,500-a-night hotel suite. (Moore, 48, was elsewhere in the U.S. promoting her directorial work for the Lifetime short film project 5.)

Prior to that early morning hot tub session, Kutcher began his night drinking vodka tonics and prowling for women with pals Danny and Chris Masterson at Fluxx nightclub — where the pickings weren’t to his liking. “He said none of the girls were ‘hot-tub worthy,'” a Fluxx onlooker tells the new issue.

But Kutcher liked what he saw when he met party girl Leal and her friend past 4 a.m. in his 1,200-square-foot suite back at the Hard Rock.

“Ashton told them he was separated from Demi,” one source says.

After some “hard-core” flirting, the Two and a Half Men star was “totally into it,” another source says. “Within five minutes, they were all naked in the hot tub, making out!”

Reps for both Kutcher and Leal didn’t respond to repeated requests for comment.

Moore, meanwhile, is “struggling. She’s been alone a lot lately,” another pal says.

For more on Kutcher’s wild night, whether he’s really strayed before, why Moore still may not be ready to let go and the scoop on Leal — pick up the new Us Weekly, on stands Friday.

[From Us Weekly]

Meanwhile, Star Magazine’s cover story is all about “the photos that ended their marriage” – apparently, in the midst of all of this hot tub action, photos were taken and Star Mag “got” their hands on the photos. “Got” meaning “paid a great deal of money for”. Hollywood Life has details:

It’s no wonder the Two and a Half Men star Ashton Kutcher has kept unusually quiet amidst allegations that he cheated on his wife Demi Moore on the eve of the sixth wedding anniversary – Star magazine has obtained damning new photos of Sara Leal, Ashton and several other girls from his alleged sex-filled night at his Hard Rock Hotel penthouse suite. Will this end Ashton and Demi’s marriage for good?

“All of the girls were throwing themselves at him,” a source says. “But Sara’s a hot girl and I’m sure he noticed.”

Sara was reportedly very upset when she couldn’t reach Ashton after their one-night stand. After all, Ashton kept saying he and Demi were “separated.”

“Sara really liked Ashton,” the source tells Star. “He didn’t seem like someone who would just sleep with her and walk away. Ashton was telling people that he was separated from Demi, so she didn’t ever believe that it was just going to be a one-night stand. That’s when she realized that Ashton had used her, and she got very, very angry.”

Angry is right. Sara has ponied up with high-powered attorney Keith Davidson and she’s looking for upwards of $250K to tell her story.

Ashton reportedly brought more than a dozen girls back to his hotel suite at 3am following a night out at San Diego’s Fluxx nightclub. Although Ashton claimed none of the girls were hot tub worthy … Ashton reportedly had a change of heart when he saw Sara.

Ashton’s bodyguard stood watch guarding the door claims Star and also made sure Sara didn’t have her phone with her.

Just hours after Sara claims to have had sex with Ashton, she reportedly sent a text that read: “I [bleeped] Ashton Kutcher Friday night, lol.”

[From Hollywood Life]

This Sarah chick seems like a real gem, right? And since I know some of you will yell at me for saying harsh things about Sarah, let me just say: I think it’s established that Ashton Kutcher is a massive douche. He’s a womanizing prick, an arrogant p.o.s., and he deserves all of the hate coming his way. But let’s not pretend that Sarah Leal is just some discarded victim of mean ol’ Ashton. She’s a hooker who’s looking to get paid, paid by Ashton and paid by the tabloids. She sold the photos to Star, and she sold them this “pity poor me” interview too.

A few more things – one, the British tabloids are talking about Demi’s weight loss. Everybody’s noticed it before – she’s looking really skinny, like she’s lost about 20 pounds really suddenly. Life & Style’s odd report goes along with this, saying that Ashton’s cheating isn’t the issue with Demi’s weight – sources (“sources” named Ashton Kutcher) claim that Demi has “fallen back into some dangerous habits”:

A family friend exclusively tells the new issue of Life & Style—on newsstands now—that their relationship had fallen apart weeks before Ashton’s reported cheating incident—and Ashton has moved out. The reason? According to the friend, Demi has fallen back into dangerous habits and while Ashton has been urging her to get help, he made the decision to move out in early September.

“Demi had been sober for a long time — decades — but recently it’s gotten bad,” the insider reveals to Life & Style. “Ashton loves her, but he can’t stick around and watch her do this to herself.”

While a rep for the star denies the report, the insider tells Life & Style that Demi’s family has united behind Ashton’s tough-love approach and wants her to get help.

“Her daughters, Scout, Rumer and Tallulah, and her ex-husband Bruce Willis want her to be healthy,” says the family friend. “The whole family is taking a stand to help Demi.”

Ashton’s reported affair with 23-year-old Sara Leal has certainly made matters worse between the couple but the friend insists Ashton loves his wife.

“He may have fooled around with this girl, but his wife is his priority,” the family friend tells Life & Style. “Ashton’s trying to deal with Demi’s problems.”

Demi battled substance abuse in the early ’80s and briefly spent time in rehab while shooting St. Elmo’s Fire.

[From Life & Style]

WTF? Do you think that means alcohol abuse or drug use or both? I’ve always attributed Demi’s glazed look to all of her surgical and Botox interventions, but now that I’m thinking about it… sure, she could have some substance abuse issues. It wouldn’t surprise me at all. And it would make a certain amount of sense re: “why hasn’t Demi just dumped him already?” That being said, I doubt that Ashton is all “this is tough love, that’s why I’m boning these young chicks.” Idiot.

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  1. Diane says:

    So the Kutcher PR machine is turning the tables on Demi to explain Ashton’s moronic behavior?

  2. Kimbob says:

    Hmmm…this is interesting. Although there is NO EXCUSE as to why Ashton slept w/this girl other than he’s a prick..plain & simple.

    Again, I’ve heard the marriage was a sham…publicity.

    Hell, I don’t know what to believe now!

  3. Kloops says:

    Boning other chicks = marriage therapy? Ok. Sure why not. She seems stupid enough to fall for it.

  4. brin says:

    That’s the equivalent of “the insanity defense”. Even if that was true, he’s one to talk with his “where’s the vodka at?”.

  5. Praise St. Angie! says:

    if you cheat, it’s on YOU.

    there’s no “well, he/she didn’t do X for me” or “he/she always did X, so that’s why I did it”.

    your SPOUSE/PARTNER is NOT why you cheat and to blame Demi’s alleged substance issues is only going to make him look like more of a douche than he already is.

    he cheated, odds are it’s not the first time, and she needs to dump him.

  6. ladybert62 says:

    If I had to live with him, I would be a substance abuser myself!

    If she would dump him, she would probably gain her self respect back and dump the substances also.

    Do I think creepy ashton is practicing touch love on demi? That is ridiculous.

  7. Happymom says:

    I wouldn’t be surprised-but that certainly doesn’t excuse his cheating. But it’s a Hollywood marriage-not exactly conventional relationships here.

  8. Mikki says:

    Yeah right…it’s a selfless act on his part, he didn’t want to do it but for the good of Demi he forced himself! LMAO…

  9. the original bellaluna says:

    Um, I’ve never seen anything about cheating being a method of “tough love” for an addict. And I’m from SoCali.

  10. Jezi says:

    I feel really bad for Demi. Yes she is vapid and has really annoyed me since she got with Ashton. But I feel like she’s really insecure and really loved him.

  11. Nancy C. says:

    i’m really beginning to feel sorry for demi. he’s turning into an ass.

  12. Quest says:

    He will always be a sleeze

  13. Mitch Buchanan Rocks says:

    I liked Demi with Bruce, wonder why they split up in the first place.

  14. WhiteNoise says:

    I have never understood this infantile moron’s attraction. Get rid, Demi.

  15. LadyJane says:

    ya. totally. Guys cheat to punish their spouses and teach them a lesson. Not because they think with their willy and want a bit of strange. PUH LEASE.

  16. ShanKat says:

    Way to throw her cokey ass under the bus, Team Ashton. Classy.

  17. WillyNilly says:

    The article never says she’s actually doing drugs or taking a drink (safe/can’t sue) which means this story is just horsehit and they’ll turn it into a ‘dangerous attitude’ or something like that next week, to explain that they have no real source or a story.

  18. MorticiansDoItDeader says:

    He is a pig and the longer she stays with him, the less respect I have for her.

  19. Mew says:

    I think it’s a downward spiral. Aston’s been effing up, Demi’s been upset, she might or might not started substance abuse and things have got worse… Aston just does more and more BS and Demi escapes it all more and more the wrong way.

    I think Aston’s a full on douche. Never liked his smug a*s.

  20. Happy21 says:

    Don’t care for them as a couple period. Never did. Her face looks whacked out and I’m sick of people saying she looks so good for her age. Puh-lease! She barely even looks like the same person she did in the 90’s. As far as Ashton goes, I don’t care if he’s a douche, I find him mildly entertaining.

    Bruce & Demi were a great couple. I was sad for them when they ended their marriage. Have always thought it creepy that they stayed SUCH good friends.

  21. Original Tiffany says:

    I agree Bellaluna. And I think she looks like a chick who knows her hubby is boning whores and maybe you don’t eat so much.
    That’s what I attribute it to. I can smell douche all the way from Toronto turning it around on the wifey. He’s a a gross ass. Really gross. And we wondered if he was douchey enough to replace Sheen? Question answered! DING, DING, DING!
    God, we now have another celeb we have to do shots of delusion for. LL, KA, KK, Ashton. I’d be in rehab for all the delusional celeb shots if we really did ’em all. Do they go to delusional classes along with acting classes? It’s a celeb pandemic! Gosh, I’ve missed SoCal!

  22. lucy2 says:

    Agree it’s probably stress and not eating. She should dump him and tell everyone she’s tired of babysitting.

    Agree that Sara chick sounds like a hooker. Why do these stupid celebs keep falling for that trap?

  23. NeNe says:

    That’s the biggest load of crap I’ve heard in a while.

  24. tracking says:

    Wasn’t there a revealed blind about Ashton’s PR team adopting the ‘trash the girl’ strategy during the last round of cheating rumors? The ‘close family friend’ here translates to friend of Ashton imo, as he’s now trying to trash his flings and Demi in an effort to come out smelling like a rose (good luck). He is a vile POS and I don’t believe this.

  25. Elizabeth S. says:

    I’m not surprised that he’s trying to smear her in the media – I heard something about the two of them trying to smear the women who came forward before this. It’s not like this would be new behaviour.

    But would this really work? It looks like the people who would side with him already think he’s a real stud. And the people who side with Demi (women, basically) even if they think she’s pathetic, are going to hate him no matter what.

    And if he told the women in question that he was separated, then that’s on him. Yes, people should wait until the divorce is final, but I really can’t hate on the tramps who slept with him if he said that. If nothing else, he should have just gone to some really discreet hookers.

  26. Lady_Luck says:

    Why would some chick act like complete trash, bone a guy within hours of meeting him whilst coked out and drunk beyond belief THEN expect him to call her later ? Is this girl living on planet delusion of what.

  27. Joanna says:

    oh, please. This chick’s trying to act like she really believed he wanted a relationship with her. b.s! yeah, he takes you and other girls back to the hot tub, that’s a sure sign he wants a relationship with you! the only sign she saw was dollar signs!

  28. ZenB!tch says:

    I’ve never gotten what anyone sees in him – Demi included sees in him. I saw some blurb on 3 and 1/2 men on ET or something. He took off his shirt. I was repulsed. Technically he is in great shape but something about him has always repulsed me. For me it was the equivalent of seeing Chris Christie Topless.

  29. the original bellaluna says:

    Original Tiffany – I know that when I was in the process of leaving my (now ex) husband, I didn’t eat. I couldn’t. Just the thought of food made me physically ill. But my Mom (God love her) told me it wasn’t just about me, I had two little ones to be healthy for and take care of. I lost a lot of weight, along with a piece of my heart, at that time.

    (I miss it too. I’m in NoCali now, but at least the sun is out, for now. It won’t last.)

    Asston is an asshole. What a total and complete nerf-herder for trying to justify his behaviour by bad-mouthing Demi. I don’t think she’s perfect, but this is just lower than low.

  30. Firecracker says:

    Ashton = winning! On being a douche 5x

    I’m starting to feel sorry for Demi too.

  31. Kim says:

    They never should have married in first place. To big an age difference and she had 3 older children – 1 closer to his age than her. These types of marriages rarely, if ever, work.

  32. Chloe (not chloe) says:

    So wait. He’s sleeping around to make her come to her senses and stop abusing whatever she’s abusing, and he’s also leaving her because he can’t stand watching her do these things to herself?

    I’m having a major case of WTF.

    edit: I’m not surprised by the fact that their relationship is falling apart. I’m stunned by the spin above.

  33. the original bellaluna says:

    ZenBitch – He just oozes…something. Smarm? Skeeze? IDK, but I’ve never been able to stomach him.

    Chloe(nc) – I’ll join you in that pool of WTF. He’s an asshole, covered in essence of douche and slime.

  34. Barbara says:

    She was estranged for many years from her mother due to drinking. Her mothers drinking that is, she was quite the alcoholic. Maybe it is alcohol that is her problem. I know I can’t tolerate alcoholics and I distance myself from them.

  35. F5 says:

    ..so he’s the half of Two & a half men. ب_ب

  36. Rudypatudie says:

    Doesn’t it seem like exactly the same coverup public relations the 2 and 1/2 men publicists put out to cover sheens douchebagginess?

    It has the same pr spin to me. These whore women turn into victims, while the wife ex wife is trashed.

    Hollywood is full of delusional perverted egomaniacal entitled overpaid morons.
    And let me clear, to all the whackjobs who are going to declare I’m jealous or something. I am not jealous. I read these gossip sites because the people involved in the shenanigans are such train wrecks, that it is entertaining.

  37. Truthful says:

    I wonder if she got hooked on painkillers after having sooo much surgery…

    Ashton was in this movie 2 yrs ago, I think–it went straight to DVD, maybe but he played a good looking stud, that only dated older rich women and he moved into their hollywood homes, used them up and screwed other chicks in their homes while they were at the office.

    Anne Heche was his co star for most of it and the scenes of them being freaky was VERY explicit, and seemed VERY real. he had his hand covering her vadge and on camera nibbled her breast..

    I was surprised Demi allowed him to film such explicitness…

    the character was himself, smdh

    forgot the name of it, sorry. He played the part VERY well.

  38. Izzards Chick says:

    look, i’ll applaud Demi for this…no lip fillers! What a relief not to have to look at that line above the filler!

  39. Original Tiffany says:

    Ooooh, Bellaluna, whereabouts? I’ll be living in SF until Christmas, 7 weeks in London, then back in San Jose until late May. If you are anywhere near, I’d totally host you to come and see TOTEM, the Cirque show we are on. And cracktails, of course!
    And yes, when hubby and I even have a big fight, the appetite goes out the window. I’ve got two kids to be around for as well, so I try to be a living human being. I’ve even curtailed my wild horse riding (100milers through the mountains) a bit.

  40. gg says:

    I cannot wait until these over-tweeting idiots break up. So sick of their attention-seeking BS.

    Original tiffany – you sound like a very interesting person! 🙂

  41. Ed Zacharias says:

    Note to self:

    If my wife develops a substance abuse problem, the best response for me will be to immediately have sex with a stranger in a hotel hot tub.

  42. Orange Cone says:

    why do all these articles refer to this Sarah-Ho ‘Hot!’? She is average at best! She thinks Ashton was going to be w/her?? OMG! LMFAO!

  43. buubly says:

    Have you noticed how women with the name Sara or any similar variation are nothing but slutty whores? too much of a coincidence….

  44. LeeLoo says:

    Please, if Demi is doing drugs Ashton is right alongside her doing them too.

    Ashton didn’t cheat out of tough love, he cheated because he’s an unfaithful mysogynistic douche who can’t keep his dong in his pants.

  45. Maritza says:

    Soon we’ll hear Demi went to rehab and they have reconciled again like nothing happened…if she goes back to him the woman has no shame.

  46. ambergesa says:

    Demi Moore couldn’t be abusing hard drugs to hard or long or she’d never look as incredibly beautiful as she has at the age she is. Regardless of the amount of work. Serious abuse of hard core drugs takes a heavy toll on your appearance. Look at Blohan, I feel so sorry for the harsh mockery/criticism of Demi. We’ve all made mistakes in love and people are just excoriating her. The constant ripping apart of her looks? Get real she looks better then most teenagers out there. It’s ageism, it seems our society can’t handle sexually confidant beautiful older women. Thus all the stereotypes/mockery of the unattractive/ predatory old crone. It’s rare to see socially approved spectacular sexy women over a certain age. They are usually represented as exaggerated object of derision. We women(if we’re lucky) will all be there some day.

  47. Camille says:

    Once upon a time Demi had a cocaine and booze problem. But I think that last story is BS.

    And I too wish these two would just hurry up and announce the break up already. Its become beyond tiring all of the speculation at this point.

  48. runswithscissors says:

    i smell a conspiracy. after all, didn’t he just start on two and a half men? Charlie Sheen is laughing his ass off right now.

  49. wresa says:

    “And we wondered if he was douchey enough to replace Sheen? Question answered! DING, DING, DING!”

    @ Original Tiffany – There is no way I could have said it better. Is there like a Two and a Half Men douche curse?

    OK, and “Blonde Sara Leal” cracks me up. Sweetie, you f*cked a celeb in a hot tub. Big. Effin. Deal. I wouldn’t let it define your youth just b/c you’re mad you didn’t get anything out of it. Oh, and ya know how your name is all over the internet and tabloids? Yeah that NEVER goes away and it might just put off future guys you’d like to be your boyfriend, just like you supposedly wanted more with this douche cake.

  50. Roma says:

    Oh. This just reminded me that months ago I commented that Demi looked like she was on coke. Now I do feel sad for her – I actually believe this. She seems hellbent on recapturing her youth & drugs can temporarily make you feel that way, especially if you had an addiction when you were younger.

  51. Original Tiffany says:

    gg-I’ve had a pretty cool life so far. Been lucky enough to have a successful career in Nuclear Radiology while my husband has played with some major acts/gigs. Then the horses with the endurance riding-doing that helped get the cancer stress from my job out of my head.
    I’ve even gotten helicoptered off the side of a mountain and got sewn up after a great fall. All while juggling the two kids and job.
    Then hubby got this job and I have been super lucky to travel all over the world with him the last two years and my kids get private schooling, 8 kids, 3 teachers. I’m retired right now at 42, but world travel and photography and bitching here are my thing now. I get to explore all these cool cities in depth and de-stress.
    It’s been a cool thing, I just miss my horses. They are at my friend’s in NoCal.
    I am trying to really enjoy my life and take it how it comes. As long as my family is happy and loving, I’m good. Cirque treats us super well, so no complaints from me!

  52. Francesca says:

    Wow she and Kyle from RHOBH could be sisters.

  53. LuckyLilGem says:

    Ashton’s douche ways have probably driven her back to her bad habits; it’s her way of escaping the humiliation he’s doing to her very publicly.

    Hope she leaves him. They had a good run. She can find another cradle to rock.

  54. Scarlet Pimpernel says:

    Charlie Sheen, David Duchovny and Ashton Kutcher all seem to have confused their actual selves with the characters they play on their shows. The camera has stopped rolling, fellows! But wait, perhaps it hasn’t …

  55. kibbles says:

    She looks like an older sister of Pippa and Kate Middleton. Too much plastic surgery.

  56. lisa says:

    What about their Humanitarian causes. What about all those women they were suppose to be helping. When Demi started tweeting pics for herself in bikinis I knew something was wrong. She has not been working much and her movies are not doing well at the BO. Ashton is having more success. Don’t know if she is taking drugs or drinking, but she looks bad and she looks like someone trying hard to cover it up.

    I never really got them as a couple, It just seemed like Demi became Ashton. Did all this stuff to keep up with his interest. Everything seemed to be about him. That makes a woman loose herself. I think that is what happened to her.

    And I wonder where Bruce is in all this. They were always so visible in showing how “close they all were”. But I have not seen that in a long time.

  57. Lauren says:

    I think this has been an open marriage from the start…for Ashton.
    Demi is an egomaniac, who was trying show Bruce Willis that a younger stud wanted her. Well, that backfired. A six year marriage in Hollywood is still admirable. Demi looks very unhealthy.