Heidi Bivens is sick of Justin Theroux & Jennifer Aniston being loved up in NYC

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Throughout this whole Jennifer Aniston-Justin Theroux “romance (from behind) for the ages,” Justin’s ex-girlfriend Heidi Bivens has stayed quiet. The closest she came to telling her story is when one of her “friends” went to Page Six in June to confirm that Heidi and Justin had just broken up after 14 years together – putting the date of their official breakup as the second week of June.

Now, Justin and Jennifer had been seen together in public several times before the second week of June, and as one of Aniston’s Five coworkers said in an interview to People, Justin was hanging around the Five set and being introduced as Jennifer’s “boyfriend” back in April. There’s also the hair conspiracy with the first batch of Terry Richardson photos, as well as unnamed-source-driven stories in Us Weekly, claiming that Justin and Jennifer had an affair last year while they worked on Wanderlust. So… I don’t know, I think it’s pretty clear that Jennifer and Justin started (at some point) BEFORE he had ended things with Heidi, and definitely before Heidi moved out of the NYC apartment they shared.

And now another “friend” of Heidi’s has gone to the press to talk about how much Heidi hates Jennifer and Justin’s New York lovefest:

Justin Theroux’s ex would like Manhattan all to herself!

New York City stylist Heidi Bivens — whom Theroux left after 14 years to take up with Jennifer Aniston, sources say — “has stopped talking to Justin,” a pal tells the new issue of Us Weekly (out now).

“She doesn’t want to know anything about him and Jen,” the pal adds, “though she’d like a heads-up on any marriage or baby news.”

The insider adds that Bivens, 35, “wishes they’d leave NYC already. It’s hard to move on, knowing they’re in the same city.”

Theroux, 40, and Aniston, 42, arrived in NYC in mid-September. They are currently cohabiting at the Horrible Bosses star’s West Village apartment and have often been spotted looking at home good together.

[From Us Weekly]

Is it just me, or is Heidi a truly sympathetic figure in this whole mess? When Justin dumped her, Heidi really wasn’t left with much. She had to move out of the apartment they shared, she (likely) didn’t have much of a savings and Justin wasn’t legally obligated to pay her any alimony because they weren’t married… although if Heidi wanted to fight that, I’m sure she could have made a case for common-law marriage. After all, they were together for 14 years. I’m also sympathetic towards her because she hasn’t personally come out and said anything, and even on the rare occasion when her “friends” say something, they’re not doing a hatchet-job on Justin or Jennifer. It seems like Heidi is just hurt and struggling with the fact that her ex screwed around on her and is now acting like a D-Bag Supreme all around NYC, HER city. Poor girl.

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  1. Angelina Stevens says:

    I think that you may be incorrect in your statement “I’m sure she could have made a case for common-law marriage. After all, they were together for 14 years” because currently, only nine states (Alabama, Colorado, Kansas, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Iowa, Montana, Oklahoma and Texas) and the District of Columbia recognize common-law marriages. In addition, five states have “grandfathered” common-law marriage (Georgia, Idaho, Ohio, Oklahoma and Pennsylvania) allowing those established before a certain date to be recognized. New Hampshire recognizes common-law marriage for purposes of probate only, and Utah recognizes common-law marriages only if they have been validated by a court or administrative order. http://www.ncsl.org/default.aspx?tabid=4265

    • bee says:

      Justin is lady-killer. He has no love any of his women but he just use them. Jenifer Aniston old, ugly …Sure he will kick her out someday. Wait and see!

      • Sallyann says:

        Jennifer Aniston is not ugly perhaps you should go check your own image in the mirror you may find you are much worse.

        Jennifer has lots of friends not like her nemesis Molie.

  2. mln76 says:

    I feel really bad for Heidi she’s such a pretty woman .It’s actually striking the difference between her natural good looks and the bland fakeness that is Aniston.

    As for the situation Aniston has ‘won’ herself a real creep. He spent 14 yrs with Heidi and didn’t even have the manhood to tell her the relationship was over. Did he really think he’d get away with dating one of the most visible women in America without word getting back to Heidi? The Jesse James part deux watch is officially on.

  3. PrettyTarheel says:

    @ Kaiser, when/where were these pics of Heidi and Justin from? She’s pretty, but she kinda has dead eyes. Justin’s a sparkle-killer.

  4. lisa says:

    She is very pretty.. and looks younger than her 35 years.

    And actually her ONLY released statement said a lot.

    I will not comment unless they do (something to that affect)..

    so I guess she is putting the ball in their court. And since Jennifer has said she won’t talk about her relationship. I think you can read a lot into that. Besides Justin is not an A-list male star. He is not going to be on any talk shows or whatever. but they are getting lots of pictures taken. Kind of negates the need for talking. Maybe they are worried Heidi will tell her side and it won’t be so rosy.

    We don’t know.. But anyone can speculate.

    regarding the Common Law marriage. I think you have to be living a life in which people assume or believe you are married. That they consider you a married couple. I think they have always been seen as boyfriend/girlfriend.

    Being married doesn’t mean the relationship will last. If it did there would be no divorces. I just think things are not as clean as the Aniston fans want to believe. But hey she has guy so they are all just happy.

    LOL.. just noticed.. look at the last picture of he and Heidi and the photographers.. no one is snapping.. WOW.. what a change. YOU GO JUSTIN..LOL

  5. Shelley says:

    There’s something very un-manly about a man who cares this much about how he looks, he’s like a creepy, insufferable little fashion doll – and an ugly one at that. He and JA must have homes with wall-to-wall mirrors. Heidi is beautiful and very natural looking. The wonder is, how did she put up with him so long?

  6. Jules says:

    Just another douche that is going to use Aniston and move on. Aniston deserves it. Team Heidi here.

  7. Madrid says:

    Truth, this happens all the time everywhere: insensitive breaks-ups. No problem, people change their feelings and you don´t have to be with someone if you dont feel in love anymore. But it´s about friendship and love and being in the media all the time showing off your five months story must be soooo painful. I´m sorry, life is a circle and we´re passing trough every spots at different moments. She´ll be fine in time to come

  8. Rita says:

    A good indication that a breakup is imminent is when a man goes out in public wearing an ugly hat and a bad suit that is too short in the arms and the legs. I’d expect Pee Wee Herman to wear such a thing in pink.

  9. cherryberry says:

    While she is truly sympathetic, she just has to get over it. Everyone else has to live in the same cities as their exes. She should be happy that NYC is so massive so her chances of running into them are limited.

    PS I don’t think he acts like a douche, I think he just IS a douche. And why has JA started dressing like him? It makes her look desperate, cheesy and totally w/o her own identity.

  10. Eve says:

    Apparently, sensitivity chips are in short supply in New York City…

    I kinda prefer that she keeps her mouth shut though — if she starts giving interviews telling how she cried at the ocean I’ll lose my respect for her a little bit.

    P.S.: The girl is really pretty, she has small, delicate features and beautiful blue eyes.

  11. Shanta says:

    I live 3800 miles away and I’m sick of these two being loved up in NYC.

  12. Eleonor says:

    Yes it’s true everybody who has an ex has to struggle with his new relationship, but normally the ex doesn’t take photoshoots once a week,and put them everywhere to celebrate the new love, like JustJen have been doing in these months. I think they have a great chemistry, but their attitude is so uncool.

  13. Kath & Kim says:

    Why should she get any alimony? Unless she gave up her career to support his, I don’t see why she should get anything at all.

    And he DOES look like a douche. Good riddance, girl.

    • Nieman says:

      Hey, idiots. If Bivens take Justin to Court. I’m guarantee she will get Alimony. Because under the eye of Common Law. She will get it. Shut up. skanks you are kissing ass Chinifer Manstealer so bad. Shame on you Jen fan

  14. Jenn says:

    There is no common law marriage in NY. It’s not recognized. Heidi, hopefully, is not dumb enough to have lived off Justin and has her own money and career. NO female should use a man as her security. That said, it *must* be hard to see your boyfriend of 14 years blatantly cheating on you and being turned into America’s Sweetheart’s partner and being touted as the love story of the year, to boot. Maybe she was okay with not being married or having kids and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, they were in a committed relationship, and neither he nor Aniston had any respect for that. Maybe now Aniston will stop whining about Brad’s lack of senstivity, etc- wasn’t she the one hurt by his photo shoot with Angelina? Is it fine now that she’s the one with the boyfriend? And why is a balding, semi-successful man who thinks he’s still 25 such a prize, anyway?

  15. Ashley says:

    A few things, his left eyebrow gives me the creeps. I HATE to say this but Heidi as someone else mentioend has dead eyes and he has a lot of sparks(again hate to say this) in his eyes and looks like he is full of life and wants advantures but she looks half dead like a corps. I know what I said is mean but just my observations from a couples of photos. I sort of have no sympathy for a 35 year old that apparently has a job and has lived with a guy for 14 years and at this point & time doesn’t had shit to live by. She should have been smart knowing she is not married (so legally she has nothing to hold on to)and had saved up some money and at least thought a bout a day like this happening. I have no sympathy for stupididty. She is still smart not to have children because as we all know guys move on and leave single mothers takeing care of babies for the next 20 years. The piece about Jen and Justin should move out of NY is bowlshit. Get over it woman, get up shake yourself, walk the pain and be strong. You should be able to look them in the eyes everyday and don’t show any pain. You gotta be strong, you are young, pretty and healthy with a whole lotta life ahead of you…move on and STOP feeling sorry for yourself. BE STRONG, YOU CAN DO IT. This is actually my message to anyone who has been dumped and hurt.

  16. Eve says:

    @ Kath & Kim:

    Kaiser didn’t say she should get alimony payments, I think that what she meant was that because they weren’t legaly married, after the break-up she didn’t get anything, not even that (like some sort of reparation for being so mercilessly dumped).

  17. lisa says:

    I just noticed in the pictures of Jennifer and Justin on the roof..

    why is she dressed for Spring/Summer and he is dressed for Fall/Winter

    where are the body language experts when you need them.. or the Fashion Police.. I don’t know who handles these kinds of questions.

    I don’t know much about him. Not sure if he is a douche or not. But he seems to enjoy having his picture taken.. at least in the ones above.

  18. Jayna says:

    Beautiful girl. Heads up, women, don’t spend 14 years off and on with a man without marriage. New York is a tough place for women to meet eligible men. Tons of women there. I feel for her. A broken heart is hard and having Jen stage photo-ops to willy-nilly release to the public for no reason is odd. But life goes on and you find love again. This time get a ring.

  19. vic says:

    Especially irritating for her if he’s seeing places and friends that shared together for 14 years.

  20. whitedaisy says:

    Heidi is the sympathetic character in this; she has not commented beyond her initial statement.
    Of course it is difficult to see your ex- splashed all over the news, DAILY, in photo ops …… it is much harder to move on when they are in your face every day.

  21. Robocop says:

    How “dead eyes” can she be if cool guy Justin stayed with her for 14 years!!!! That’s a helluva lot longer than cool Brad hung around dumb Jenny.

    We all know little Jenny’s going to be dumped within a year. She’s a modestly talented and somehow A-listed star in Hollywood — but beyond that the “empress has no clothes!”

  22. Flan says:

    Why should he pay Heidi money?

    Am not a fan of J&J but find the notion that men should always pay for the women they are with ridiculous. She should have made her own money.

    Heidi seems like the nicest person in this whole mess, but women should know by now that if you rely on someone else for your own financial situation, you’re likely to get burned.

  23. PrettyTarheel says:

    A bit more on why I think her eyes are dead: When you look at her and Justin, he appears to be having a genuinely good time-the muscles around his eyes are lifting (which happens with a genuine smile). Either Heidi has had hers frozen, or she is not having a good time-the muscles around her eyes are tense and wide, even if her lips appear to have a slight smile. It looks like the smile I give at the DMV for a license, not a good time out with her man.

  24. Jen D says:

    Let’s get ready to rumble!!! Oh my god, this article is going to cause a ton of fights.

  25. Kath & Kim says:

    @Eve: I got it that the article didn’t state that she SHOULD get alimony. I still find it odd that that would even be mentioned. Why should a man have to pay when he leaves a relationship? Like I said, unless she gave up her career to take care of his crap, why even bring that up?

  26. Jenn says:

    Aniston is an actress who courts the camera. She has fun in front of it. Heidi is a stylist with no interest in being in front of the camera. Isn’t it possible she was just feeling self conscious? Furthermore, the pictures of J/J are taken at the beginning of their relationship, which is when you’re at your best. Plus, theirs was illicit, which is always and unfortunately more exciting. I don’t think the photos of H/J were taken when they first met. I don’t think anyone deserves money for no longer being in a relationship, unless one person gave up his/her life at the other’s request. You should always make your own money and have your own life. However, if you have kids, you should absolutely have to pay for them and pay what is fair. That said, I still think that if you want out of a relationship, get out of it and then pursue what you want to pursue.

  27. MorticiansDoItDeader says:

    Who says Heidi got nothing? I suspect she’s been suspiciously quiet precisely BECAUSE she got SOMETHING. Most likely, a good chunk of change (that may or may not have come with a confidentiality agreement).

    @Lisa, “why is she dressed for Spring/Summer and he is dressed for Fall/Winter”

    she is dressed appropriately for a NY summer, he is a douchey hipster that wears knit hats and leather jackets to look cool. The knit hat in the summer is practically hipster dresscode.

  28. Eve says:

    @ Kath & Kim:

    All right, I see what you mean now.

    But I still think that people tend to wonder about these things anyway: being dumped (after having lived together for 14 years!!!), then having to cope with that without any sort of “compensation” and that’s where I think people like Kaiser are coming from.

  29. gina says:

    poor little heidi looks like a lolipop kid from wizard of oz. she owns nyc does she. sorry schmidget, jennifer was born in nyc. move forward

  30. Kaiser says:

    I was talking about money and financial compensation because they lived together and shared an apartment, which Justin made Heidi leave. Even if he was the only one paying for the apartment, Heidi (likely) still built a home for the two of them over the course of 14 years, and invested financially and emotionally in the place.

    A few months ago, there was a report that now she’s living in a crappy little place, which was all she could afford on her own.

  31. Eve says:

    @ 29:

    Nope, she was born in Sherman Oaks, California.

    http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000098/

  32. MB says:

    I agree that the alimony thing shouldn’t have been brought up but only because of the catty comments on this post that make it seem like Heidi was the one complaining about no alimony. For all we know girl has plenty of money and doesn’t need anyone to support her.

    As for people saying that she needs to get over it, I find that incredibly and disgustingly simplistic and harsh. A) there is no evidence that she isn’t getting over it except for the speculative comments made in this article; and B) she was committed to someone for 14 years! Her partner very likely cheated on her with one of the
    Most “pappped” celebs on the planet and continues to flaunt that relationship! That would be beyond painful. I wouldn’t wish that situation on my worst enemy.

  33. e.non says:

    he’s just trying way too hard with that hipster image b.s. that only reinforces his d-bagness. 14 years … and to be treated like that. good thing there aren’t any kids.

  34. Mitch Buchanan Rocks says:

    Uh oh, did Jen pull an Angelina?

  35. mln76 says:

    Heidi is a ‘stylist’ that’s not really a steady job with a huge income unless you are Rachel Zoe or something. She probably isn’t getting much work now, ESPECIALLY since people in the business would rather be associated with Jen Aniston then someone like Heidi who has no notoriety.
    Should she have saved up her own money over the years and carved out her own life YES. Does that mean she actually did that probably not. Just like many women married and unmarried who unfortunately believe their partners when they say the are in it for the long haul and then get left in the dust. I am sure she is strong enough to recover and build her life back up on her own terms AND NEVER AGAIN let some classless douchebag treat her like that.

  36. mln76 says:

    Oh and BTW she could have sold her story to a tab and gotten 20 or 30 grand so eventhough she’s letting her ‘friends’ leak info I think she’s handling this whole thing with class.

  37. Jayna says:

    They didn’t live together for 14 years. They were an on and off relationship. But they did live together the last six years.

  38. shiba says:

    Where’s Justin’s bronzer and eyebrow pencil in the pics w/ Heidi?

  39. Ell says:

    Kaiser, your sympathy for Heidi wouldn’t be influenced by your intense hatred for Jennifer by any chance;)

    I was just thinking most of us have been through similar at some point in our lives. My ex moved his girlfriend a few doors up from me, I had to witness their marriage and birth of first child and at the time I was going through serious health problems. So it’s a bit difficult for me to muster up sympathy for someone who can’t stand her ex and girlfriend living in the same CITY as her.

  40. Mac says:

    Justin has a cartoonish quality about him and appears totally disingenuous.

    Probably practices arching that eyebrow to give him a devil-may-care look.

    Heidi is beautiful, talented & well respected in her field and better off.

  41. Pat says:

    “Uh oh, did Jen pull an Angelina?” Yes she did and I love it. The fans on this site were all Brad/Angie never cheated, good for Brad he was bored he moved on, Jen needs to quit feeling sorry for herself, it is different leaving someone if they don’t have children. On and on it went. Now in exactly the same situation with Jen the same people are like poor Heidi, what a jerk for leaving her after a years together, etc. It is funny to read actually. Jen acted the same way that Angelina acted and yet the same people that defend Angie for the same actions critize Jen.

  42. knew it says:

    I knew there was a reason behind Aniston’s decision to sell her house so suddenly. Moving to NY with Justin was her plans that whole time. I saw right through that whole “I made a decision in London that the house was over-whelming for me”. B U L L. Aniston and Huvane are genius as making Aniston the “poor Jen” found love and is better than Brad” good girl.

  43. Lucy says:

    not saying that Heidi deserves some kind of palimony from Justin, but she could sure be a real pain in his ass and really cause a media circus if she hired a lawyer and sued him for it instead of just quietely going away…revenge would be kinda sweet, no?

  44. Rudypatudie says:

    That, ladies, is exactly why you should be married.

    They can’t just walk out on you, and take everything with them. Especially if you worked together as a team. And especially if you supported him and his career, and what woman doesn’t?

    I personally think she got paid a little bit of hush money, probably from Aniston and her people.

    She’s a beautiful girl. She should have no problem getting another man if she wants one. But this time Heidi, choose a man. Not a boy.

  45. brin says:

    I do feel bad for her…it’s awful being dumped but it’s worse when you have to see your ex and his new gf all the time.

  46. serena says:

    She is very beautiful and pretty and looks a lot more younger than her actual age -I mean Heidi-.
    I feel really sympathetic..they were together 14 FREAKING YEARS! It’s a life! And before she knew it she was left with nothing for an Hollywood blondie who hates homewrecker but is one herself, and put on a ‘sweet lovely girl’ image. The fuck that.
    And Justin is just a major douche at this point..How could you do that after 14 years..at least he could give her the apartment and money.

  47. Agnes says:

    FYI – Very few states recognize common law marriage (see: http://www.ncsl.org/default.aspx?tabid=4265). So, unless you sign a domestic partnership agreement, a contract that enumerates each party’s rights and responsibilities, you’re out of luck (legally) when you split up… Sad but true.

  48. lisa says:

    I thought Heidi was a costume designer on movies. And unless they stop making movies she will have work. She may not be well known to us or as well know as Jennifer, but she seems to be well respected. And has worked on many films.

    And seriously how many people recall Justin before someone researched him. Heidi does not seem to be some weak woman. She obviously has support of friends. Justin and Jennifer seem to be hanging out with Jennifer’s friends or people like that Richardson guy. I’m sure a lot of their friends are supporting Heidi. Thing is we have not seen Jennifer with her usual friend’s circle for a long time.. Courteney, Cheryl and the other members of the Goddess Circle.

    We don’t know anything about Heidi..and since this all happened she has not been seen or photographed. I think she may be hurt but not every woman spends YEARS getting over a relationship. No matter how long it lasted. Maybe Heidi sees that all is for the best. Maybe someone better for her is in her future. I recall a lot of the JA fans saying Heidi had a new boyfriend.. well maybe it is just a friend.. like they said Justin and Jennifer were up until they got together.

  49. Turtle Dove says:

    Justin certainly has a type. Jen and Heidi could (almost) be doppelgangers. The coloring is different, but damn these two women look alike.

    BTW, I call foul on “owning NYC”. It’s a huge city and it’s not like they’ll run into each other. News is easy to avoid and requires the friends to stop the reporting also.

  50. palermo says:

    and this is why you don’t stay with a guy for 14 years who won’t marry you and can’t “commit”; hope she finds happiness elsewhere. I think Jen is going to be let down at some point, this guy seems a big douche

  51. CallieTrichid says:

    No, she’s not sympathetic. People break up all the time. It’s not “her” city, it’s shared with many other people.

    If he left her after 14 years, that sucks, but she wasn’t stuck for the rest of her life with him, at least. Nor does she have to bother with divorce proceedings, etc. She’s lucky, even if she may not realize it.

  52. yadicakes says:

    That is so “uncool”

    Is it just me or does Heidi look like a Jennifer Aniston in her early Friends?

    Jennifer probably did her a favor…Heidi move on to better things and live your life with someone who will commit to you especially after 14 years of dedication

  53. HeidiBitchy says:

    Nothing could be worse than what Brad did to Jen: fooling around with Bitchelina and right after that he fathered her 6 children and they travel the world appearing on every cover of every magazine! OMG! Das is zu viel!

  54. smh says:

    His first girl is beautiful, talented and modest, everything that Jennifer Aniston wishes she was. He’s an idiot for having left that for fame and money. Those two illusive things are fleeting but a true companion is what the whole world is after. And 14 years together should have been enough proof that she’s the one. He’s a god damn idiot and after Jeniston stops showering him with gifts/attention he’ll see that fact but it’ll be too late. Heidi is better off without him. Wishing her the best.

  55. Cherry Rose says:

    God, those black & white photos of Justin…so freaking hot! Finally, Jen has snagged a hot one.

    Heidi is probably not talking about what happened because she could easily get blacklisted, and she can kiss her career as a stylist goodbye.

  56. kira says:

    These PDA photo-shoots for the presses are really gross, esp. considering the cheating/lying start to this relationship. Are they intentionally rubbing it into Heidi’s face? Both seriously have no feelings. After all of Aniston’s carping on about sensitivity chips and others being uncool, she has turned into such a hypocrite. Can’t believe she still has fans? Well, wonders never cease.

    I remember someone winning support for a live-in relationship long ago? She proved she contributed to her ex’s income, and won a small settlement. When you live together, sometimes people can take advantage of a partner’s $/time/goodwill. I wouldn’t sue for $, but I certainly wouldn’t look down on someone else who does. I know of many women who put a lot of themselves into relationships, and well, you know how it goes…sad, really

  57. lee says:

    well I’m Canadian and we have common law marriage everywhere, so I clearly have a different opinion than a lot of you on that issue.

    But can I just mention that we don’t know Heidi DOESN’T have plenty of security, financial and otherwise, right now? We’re just wildly speculating. Which is fine, I enjoy it as much as the rest of you. But calling her stupid for not supporting herself is too far in my opinion. She has a job. She probably has her own money. It just may not be as much as she had with Justin. Which is a separate issue anyways.

    As for the whole common-law thing, I think it’s important to remember that being in that type of long-term committed relationship, even if you don’t give up your career for someone, you are mutually supporting each other. If he’s off making six figures while she’s at home walking the dog and cleaning the house AND working her own job, I personally think she’s still entitled to something. But that’s not the way the law works in NY, so that’s fine. I just don’t think we should assume she isn’t prepared and capable of taking care of herself right now since we haven’t actually heard that from anyone.

  58. The Original Mia says:

    I feel for Heidi. She was blind-sided by this relationship. She thought they were a couple and in reality, he was cheating on her. This douche didn’t even have the cajones to break up with her, instead he strung her along until it became obvious he was with Jennifer. What a prince!

    Heidi is a beautiful woman. It may hurt now, but in the end, she’ll be better off without this hipster douche in her life.

  59. smh says:

    I watched an independent movie starring Uma Thurman made last year (I really can’t remember the name!) and the costumes were brilliant to my surprise it said Heidi Bivens did them. So that is why I said that she is talented btw. Just wanted to clear that up to anybody suggesting that she doesn’t get work and was financially dependent on Justin. How do you even know that about her? and she and Jen look nothing alike Jen is all plastic and still terrible looking. And I can’t believe the commenters telling Heidi to move the fuck on already. It’s been only months since she was replaced by a celluloid star–and that after 14 years of a commitment. When Jeniston cannot move on and still has to succumb to emulating A.J. and making passive aggressive comments after 6 years, it’s almost always forgiven but Heidi is not. I wish some women would have more empathy in this situation.

  60. Lady D says:

    “It looks like the smile I give at the DMV for a license,”
    I renewed my driver’s license last year (B.C.) and things have changed. My pic is now black and white and you are no longer allowed to smile in your pic or have any expression on your face. After being read the riot act by the picture-taker, I was hard-pressed not to smirk. First bad DL picture.I look terrible in black and white.

  61. kira says:

    @Pat. So true, and it works the other way, too. It’s funny to read the comments saying that Heidi’s long relationship means nothing because she wasn’t married, that cheating/lying is ok now, Heidi should move on, that she looks like a “dead corps,” and she doesn’t deserve any sympathy. Nice. Some of the same people who have been carping on Brad/Angelina as being the worst people in the world–are now like, “Hey, it’s ok. Shit happens.” Funny that.

  62. lisa says:

    @53

    Brad and Angelina have been together for almost 7 years. 6 children. and the fact that Brad is the father of those children shows that he and Angie have a very committed relationship. Hardly a fling or an affair.

    I guess for you as an Aniston fan her finally having a MAN still doesn’t heal your wound. I wonder who is hurt more by Brad and Angie still being together; Jennifer or her fans. Jennifer has not been locked in a closet all these years. She and Vince were together a few months after she and Brad ended. hmmm was she still hurting when she was in his bed, or John Mayer.

    I think you JA fans are more emotional about Brad/Angie then Jennifer. You may want to ask yourself why. After all Brad was not yours to loose in the first place.

    If Jennifer is happy why are you bringing up Brad and Angie.. WOW you really are hurt.. again Why?

  63. Cheyenne says:

    That suit looks like it shrunk in the rain. The hat looks like a clown hat. And the face just screams “smarmy”. I’d be embarrassed to be seen in public with that guy. Bivens may not realize it yet, but that douchebag did her a big favor by leaving.

  64. Cheyenne says:

    lisa: If Jennifer is happy why are you bringing up Brad and Angie.. WOW you really are hurt.. again Why?
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    Over-identification. The more time passes, the worse they hurt. These losers are going to go to their graves hating on Angie for taking Brad away from Jenny-poo. They’ll never get over it.

  65. mln76 says:

    @53 Thanks for showing the blatant hypocrisy and insensitivity of Jen Hens. First off Heidi is a private citizen as opposed to Aniston who has chosen over and over to expose every aspect of her life, her home, her marriage, her subsequent boyfriends, her plans for children, her exercise and diet choices for public consumption. So if the way things went down for Aniston were bad in her divorce I am betting the shock for Heidi was worse as it would be for any civilian to suddenly have their partner dating ‘America’s Sweetheart’ behind their back.
    Heidi has not done anything at all to deserve name calling and anyone who thinks calling her a name eradicates the 14 years she spent with Justin is kidding themselves.
    I personally don’t blame Jen for the way Justin treated Heidi. I blame Justin. But Jen Hens if Justin could not find the cohones to tell Heidi to her face that their relationship was over and let her instead find out in the tabloid press that for months he was running around being introduced as Aniston’s boyfriend just wait and see how he’ll treat Aniston sooner or later. Of course when that happens to Jen she’ll be the victim again right? And somehow it will be Angelina’s fault? 😉

  66. i.want.shoes says:

    He looks like a little peen in that hat.

  67. leetruth says:

    Heidi, show your claws. Stop being so nice. If Jen had been in your shoes, we would not have heard the last of it.

  68. lambchops says:

    Girl, you could do a lot better than this d-bag. You will find happiness. Never ever wait 14 years for marriage, if that’s what you want. Remember, the best revenge is living well.

  69. echolocate says:

    I could be wrong, but it might be that Heidi is not only having to deal with the pain of a breakup, but is also contending with the fact that she didn’t really know the guy she was with all those years. If he took up with some indie actress or artist, it might make more sense to her, but Jennifer Aniston has always seemed like the quintessential Hollywood/LA celeb.

    I suspect he’s one of those guys who has sold himself as a hipster, indie type who is more interested in the art than the money and fame. He may have just reached an age where he realized that he really does want those things (or is having a midlife crisis)–the shiny, new experiences that someone with Jen’s wealth can buy.

    But I could see how it would irk Heidi to have him continuing to play hipster in NYC, transforming Jen into his hipster sidekick and having the requisite Terry Richardson B&W gritty cityscape photo shoots.

    It might be easier to handle if he just went to LA and embraced Jen’s existing lifestyle and increased fame, rather than trying to do both. I also think it’s weird that I perceive him to be in control with Jen when she should have the upper hand, or they should be equal. Hopefully I’m wrong.

  70. Tpass says:

    But we still do not know if Justin cheated on her. He could have been nice enough to let her stay in the apartment until she found a place. Until she say something not sources I’m going to withhold opinon about Jen.

  71. Scout says:

    @mln76 – Well stated!

  72. allie says:

    Move on Heidi! I personally am happy for Jen and Justin. They deserve to be happy. You dont know what went down between Justin and Heidi. He is man enought not to speak of it. But I understand he has been trying to break up with her for quite some time. Some women just wont let go. Too bad for them. This is what happens. They did not live together 14 years. They knew each other that long. I believe it was 6 years. They broke up on and off during that time. I dont know why she didnt get the message?? I dont feel sorry for her. People deserve to be happy. Maybe Heidi should go back to Virginia where she is from. Jen was brought up in New York.

  73. DetRiotgirl says:

    ITA with everyone who’s calling BS on owning NYC. As for the pictures, her ex and his new gf are both celebs, so there would be pictures of them everywhere no matter what.

    I do have sympathy for Heidi. I can’t imagine having a famous ex; seeing his face on all the tabloids at the grocery store or seeing his new girlfriend on tv all the time. That has to be very painful. But, it’s ridiculous to claim that you can’t learn to share NEW YORK FREAKIN CITY. There are seven million (or more?) people here to shield you from ever running into your exes. That’s part of the beauty of living in NYC. It’s not like she’s talking about sharing Podunk, Alabama here.

    Heidi is a very pretty girl. I hope she gets over Justin. I get serious douche vibes from him.

  74. wemmz says:

    well i’m glad Jennifer Aniston’s finally happy. she’s had to watch Brangelina do it for so long, she should milk the hell out of it.
    that’s all really.

  75. Maritza says:

    Heidi’s best revenge would be to find herself another more famous and more handsome boyfriend loaded with money.

  76. svetlana says:

    @cheyenne “Overidentification”

    As has been said on the Simpsons: the ironing is delicious.

    Overidentification can easily be seen on both sides of this fan war. The way people make these deeply held character judgements and get so het up over every tabloid story (again, both sides) continues to amaze.

    Anyway, of course Heidi’s a sympathetic figure. She was the dumpee in what’s now a breakup that people are interested in. I don’t see how she can be a villain. Even if this (likely made-up) story was true, I think most people would understand that it would sting to see your ex at all the placed you used to visit together. I admit to thinking that J/J are cute together, but I wouldn’t blame her at all if she was pissed off (and talked about it). Best of luck in the future, to everyone.

  77. lisa says:

    @allie
    Wow. boy so because Jennifer lived in NYC YEARS AND YEARS ago Heidi needs to head to Virgina where she is from..

    that is such a hoot. and what message was Heidi suppose to get. You said he was trying to break up with her over the last few years. Well really and how do you know this. Oh wait that is the spin the JA fans are using. Heidi was a leech around Justin’s neck and could not get the message that it was over. So now you all are painting Heidi as the hanger on.. and Justin the poor sap that had a girlfriend for 14 years who would not let him go. So he meets Jennifer and all is ok.

    And you are right PEOPLE DESERVE TO BE HAPPY..

    even “people” that leave Jennifer.. But the rules are different for her.

    The JA fans really need to be careful with all these new rules you all keep writing. They are going to bite you in your collective asses if Aniston and Justin boy ever break up.

    I saw some new pics and they are not looking all lovey dovey. I wonder if Jen will be told to leave LA if they end. I mean according to you NY is her place.

    too funny.. Your comment really is funny; sad but funny

  78. Tiffany says:

    Boy, Wanderlust really needs to be a hit because if Justin is looking to be in films more, he would need to justify it. Aniston and Huvane is trying to take a chapter out of Bradgelina’s book. She won’t talk about her relationship and is only vague talking about him as a costar, as Brad and Angie did for Smith,and that film was a monster hit. The only difference is that Brad and Angie has BO clout and Anniston has proving time and time again that she does not despite her fan base. Why Justin has hitched his wagon to someone who at best is tabloid fodder and wants to be taken more seriously in HW, I just don’t understand the logic.

  79. pwal says:

    Heidi hasn’t asked for money, but if she did, she sure as $h*t has more of a right to do so than Tiger Woods’ jumpoffs.

    But one thing’s for sure, I have more confidence in Heidi bouncing back quicker than Aniston did and she doesn’t have Aniston’s money, Aniston’s agent, Aniston’s access to magazine editors/writers or an overly-‘sensitive’ fanbase ‘rooting for her’.

    This is likely the best thing that could happen to Heidi. Standing on your own two feet, being solely responsible for your own successes (and failures), and continuing to build on a reputation not affiliated with a past relationship — THAT’S EMPOWERING!!!

    And to put on the ‘Hen’ hat… maybe Heidi will earn herself an Oscar nomination before either of these two. And ole Heidi won’t have to make a meal out of walking a red carpet for merely presenting.

  80. Cheyenne says:

    allie: I personally am happy for Jen and Justin. They deserve to be happy. You dont know what went down between Justin and Heidi… Some women just wont let go. Too bad for them. This is what happens… I dont feel sorry for her. People deserve to be happy.
    ================================================

    Now substitute Angelina, Brad and Jennifer for Jennifer, Justin and Heidi, and see if you feel the same way. And if you don’t, you’re a hypocrite.

  81. Angi says:

    She should have had him put a ring on it.

  82. MissyA says:

    My, how the worm turns. . .

  83. The Original Mia says:

    Like a ring would have kept him from straying. Heidi thought she knew him. That he respected her enough to tell her he wanted out of their relationship. Instead, he didn’t. He had Jen on the side & Heidi at home, and only came clean when it was reported in the tabs.

  84. Emma says:

    @Ashley, 15 … “I HATE to say this but Heidi as someone else mentioend has dead eyes and he has a lot of sparks(again hate to say this) in his eyes and looks like he is full of life and wants advantures but she looks half dead like a corps. I know what I said is mean but just my observations from a couples of photos.”

    @Prettytarheel, 23 … “A bit more on why I think her eyes are dead: When you look at her and Justin, he appears to be having a genuinely good time-the muscles around his eyes are lifting (which happens with a genuine smile). Either Heidi has had hers frozen, or she is not having a good time-the muscles around her eyes are tense and wide, even if her lips appear to have a slight smile. It looks like the smile I give at the DMV for a license, not a good time out with her man.”
    ——————-

    Dead eyes? DMV smile? Right. Perhaps the woman was simply tired after working all day and then going to an evening event. Heidi’s 9 – 5 job in dealing with high maintenance, self-important, (often) spoiled and childish, diva celebrities isn’t at all like the 9 – 5 job you and I go to every day. It may seem glamorous, but I’ll bet that working ‘with’ and ‘for’ the Industry and not being ‘of’ the Industry can be pretty taxing…especially after working for them all day and then having to tolerate them all night.

    My point is … though she looks perfectly normal to me in the photo above (to me it looks like she’s telling Justin “Let’s just go already”)
    , there can be many reasons why her eyes appear ‘dead’ to you. Perhaps she just doesn’t love the camera as much as Justin?

  85. Kloops says:

    The only thing funny about this situation is that Anistion is proven to be a hypocrite. And if her camp (PR, friemds etc…) hadn’t made such a big deal over how wronged she was this would barely be a gossip footnote.

    JT looks and acts like an aging hipster douche. Or a Budget Brad circa 1994. It’s hard to see him as this indie artist when he repeatedly allows the release of photos with him posing like a teenager with the poster woman for big budget rom coms.. It seems desperate for relevancy.

    I am someone for whom a long term committed relationship is on par with marriage, but we have common law marriage here and it affords many of the same rights and responsibilities as traditional marriage. I see Heidi as the wronged party but she’s clearly taking the high road. Good for her

  86. Emma says:

    @Morticiansdoitdeader, 27 … “Who says Heidi got nothing? I suspect she’s been suspiciously quiet precisely BECAUSE she got SOMETHING. Most likely, a good chunk of change (that may or may not have come with a confidentiality agreement).”

    I’m beginning to suspect the same. I could very well be that Justin handled Heidi an envelope with a large check from Jen and a confidentiality contract from Jen’s PR/Management team. A couple of hundred thousand or even a cool million is nothing to Jen.

  87. mln76 says:

    Why on earth would she have wanted to marry that epic D-bag? She should be thanking her lucky stars she didn’t marry that sleazeball and is well and rid of him.
    I am not putting down marriage but I hate it when people put forward the notion that a piece of paper prevents a man from cheating IT DOESN’T. Now would Jen have been less likely to go PUBLIC with this relationship as long as he was married you bet your bottom dollar. But that says everything about Aniston’s fakery and nothing about the value of marriage to prevent infidelity.

  88. Erinn says:

    Everyone’s freaking over this whole owning NYC thing, but I doubt that Heidi even said anything about that. Supposedly it was a friend who reported it, right? Just because I tell my friend something, doesn’t mean that it’s going to come out the same in their own words… it could be a mistake/the friends opinion. Everyone wishes they didn’t have to live in the same place as their ex, and Heidi might have been exagerating for effect, and the friend could have made it sound literal.

    ALSO
    @allie
    Yeah, he must have tried SOOO hard to break it off for good over those years. One person can’t keep a relationship going. He let her keep coming back/ he kept going back to her. If he was really done with her, it would have been over after his first ‘attempt’ at breaking up with her. It sounds insane for you to say that she kept clinging on to him and forcing him to be with her. You can’t do that. Maybe if he was as much as a man as you make him out to be, he could have maned up and dumped her like an adult, and not acted like a pathetic teenager.

  89. minnie says:

    double standards again.. nothing coud be worse that what BP and AJ did to poor Jenny? He was at least honest, her friends said that themselves. She has milked he break up and go a ton of money out of it, and has been cleansing for over 6 years.
    In the HB, JT, JA affair, somehow it is all Heidi’s fault… because she was probably in love with him and stayed with him for more than a decade…
    It ws HEidi’s fault that he did not marry, not to have money, and that he cheated on her, because she should have foreseen that…
    And she should get over it ASAP! hens, please at least out of female solidarity give her 6 years to whine about her break up… yes, those Richardson pictures should be uncool in Jenny’s book, even if she makes funny face.

  90. newtsgal says:

    He looks like he’s hung like a stud hamster!

  91. anonymous says:

    Justin is a struggling actor/writer I read is resume on a famous web-site, he only had a few acting jobs and tv sitcoms appearances and is co-writer on a major movie, I guess he desperately wanted an A-list status career as Brad Pitt, Cruise, etc. Aniston gived him that apportunity and he grabbed it, don’t blame him what can Heidei do for him? You didn’t hear about him until Aniston! Notice no A-list star grabbed on to what Aniston was offering because they did not need her, the only person looking bad in this whole sordid affair is Aniston. Aniston should have held out for far better than a struggling actor/ director who is trying to build his career and maybe looks good in bed. Even though I am a Jolie supporter I think she deserves somebody equivalent to who she divorced, Brad Pitt went up Angelina Jolie, is Hollywood’s leading actress and highes paid, she should have done the same get herelf a bilionaire, like Selma Hyak. These days you don’t see them out together, he must be tired of her games, Aniston plays a lot of pr grames.

  92. Emma says:

    @Ell, 39 … “Kaiser, your sympathy for Heidi wouldn’t be influenced by your intense hatred for Jennifer by any chance;) I was just thinking most of us have been through similar at some point in our lives. My ex moved his girlfriend a few doors up from me, I had to witness their marriage and birth of first child and at the time I was going through serious health problems. So it’s a bit difficult for me to muster up sympathy for someone who can’t stand her ex and girlfriend living in the same CITY as her. ”

    Again … you can criticize someone’s behavior without ‘hating’ them. But as I’ve noted before, this seems to be something Jen-Hens have trouble understanding. Where in Kaiser’s article did she call Jennifer Aniston a ‘skank’ or a ‘wh0re’? Where did she say “I hate Jennifer Aniston, I just can’t stand her. She’s such a lying, stoner and alcoholic?”

    I’ve never seen anything like that in a Kaiser article about Jennifer Aniston. All she has ever done is ‘dare’ to question Jen’s motives and call her out on her behavior. Where is the hate in that? Isn’t that what gossip sites do with celebrities?

    I’m sorry to hear about your past relationship, but so many of Jen’s fans projected their own failed relationships and hurt feeling onto Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie that it’s sometimes hard for me to separate Jen-Hen angst from Jen-Hen sympathy with Jen’s ‘angst.’ You guys are uber sensitive about every word uttered by Brad and Angie (Brad can’t even talk about ‘his’ feelings and how ‘he’ felt before and during ‘his’ marriage), and yet Jen can do and say whatever she wants … and no one had better dare say anything negative about Jen … because she was ‘hurt’ just like you.

  93. DrM says:

    Interesting how if they were cohabiting in Canada, Australia or New Zealand (to name just a few) they would have been considered on par with a married couple in the split and she would have been entitled to half of their joint possessions etc. All places I’ve lived in and a law I heartily endorse. Fourteen years is a hell of a long time…legal paperwork is not the only prereq for a mutually beneficial relationship under law. Guys a douche. And JA? Well no comment..bit ironic with all the screaming when her own marriage broke up under similiar circumstances – she’s been pulling the victim sympathy vote for YEARS.

  94. Camille says:

    @mln76 2#: ITA with you. I feel sorry for Heidi too. I do think she has handled it all well though, as much as I would love to hear her side of the story, I think it is great she hasn’t run to the press and had massive pity parties for herself.
    Giving 14 years of your life to someone *IS* a big deal, whether marriage is involved in it or not.

    And yes the difference in looks between Heidi and Aniston is definitely as perfectly as you described it mln76. Heidi is naturally pretty and Aniston is all fake and bland and unattractive IMO.

  95. newtsgal says:

    An someone please explain to me, why is it that when Jen was shit on after a 4-5 yr marriage that was “UNCOOL”.
    But when she is the shitter of a 14 yr. relationship everything is fine and hunkydory?
    By the way, I have never bought into that all-american good girl image she puts out there!

  96. Kit says:

    relationships and marriages break up all the time, but it must be really hard if you have to see your ex all loved up all over the place, she probable can’t get away from it since they’re all over the tabloids etc.
    he strikes me as a major douche so I think Heidi should count her blessings and find herself a really great guy, she probable had a lucky escape

  97. Emma says:

    @Pat, 41 … ““Uh oh, did Jen pull an Angelina?” Yes she did and I love it. The fans on this site were all Brad/Angie never cheated, good for Brad he was bored he moved on, Jen needs to quit feeling sorry for herself, it is different leaving someone if they don’t have children. On and on it went. Now in exactly the same situation with Jen the same people are like poor Heidi, what a jerk for leaving her after a years together, etc. It is funny to read actually. Jen acted the same way that Angelina acted and yet the same people that defend Angie for the same actions critize Jen.”

    (Blinks) Say what? Wow. You elevate ‘projection’ and ‘spin’ and ‘deluded justification’ to another level.

    It’s not exactly the same situation, is it? The very big difference here is that Brad talked to Jen and explained why he wanted to leave their marriage, and then he separated from her and waited until ‘after’ she filed for divorce before humping Angelina. But Justin and Jen humped for months before Justin (finally) told Heidi that he wanted to break up. And that wasn’t until ‘after’ she saw the first photos hit the tabloids in May. Then he lied to her (and to her mother) for another month before admitting the truth, probably around the time Heidi moved out of their apartment on June 14th.

    Again. Brad talked/explained, separated, waited, and ‘then’ humped. And Angelina made it a point to be on another continent while Brad and Jen had their discussions, went on that vacation together in February 2005 with Courtney Cox and David Arquette, and when Jen finally filed for divorce in March 2005.

    On the other hand, Jen was introducing Justin as her boyfriend in early April (which indicates that they were probably together before April) without Heidi’s knowledge of the situation. How do I know that, you ask? Because Justin and Heidi attended the “House of Blue Leaves” Broadway premiere on April 25, 2011 as a couple. I know Jen’s PR team wishes that wasn’t true, but with pictures of them out that night from different news outlets, there’s no way they can deny it happened.

  98. Dana M says:

    I too think that perhaps Heidi was paid off by JA’s team to keep quiet. If I were her, I would totally let people know he was a Cheater (if in fact that was what happened). However, I would not date/live with someone for 6 years or 14 years without a commitment. Just me though. Everyone does their own thing differently. Too bad Heidi got burned in her case. Heidi is beautiful… Better looking than JA, IMO.

  99. Lucky Charm says:

    @ Ashley #15 “Get over it woman, get up shake yourself, walk the pain and be strong. You should be able to look them in the eyes everyday and don’t show any pain. You gotta be strong, you are young, pretty and healthy with a whole lotta life ahead of you…move on and STOP feeling sorry for yourself. BE STRONG, YOU CAN DO IT.”

    So why exactly haven’t you been telling Jennifer Aniston this for the past seven years?! If anything, Heidi has MORE reason to be upset, since she was in a committed relationship for 14 years, and Jennifer was only with Brad a total of 6 and 1/2 years. Your hypocrisy and lack of sympathy is really outrageous.

  100. Ola says:

    I BET THAT HEIDI GOT MONEY FROM JENNIFER FOR BEEING QUITE ABOUT THE WHOLE STORY.

    Jennifer is very very rich. Its the same what Julia Roberts did with Danny Moders thenwife. You have an affair and if the ex dont quit talking, just pay. everybody has his price! Jennifer has a image to loose, and her image is everything she have. if she looses it, she´ll fade away!

  101. LeeLoo says:

    If it makes Heidi feel any better, we are sick of listening to how loved up Jen and Justin are from any coast they are on. I liked Justin well enough in Mulholland Drive but I don’t know of anything else he’s been in. I think Jen just plays carbon copies of herself all of them neurotic and desperate just like her.

    However, I don’t think Heidi has a right to claim ownership on NYC, it’s a big city. I think she can share and if she is that torn up about it then she needs to move. Also, I don’t see why she feels she is entitled to know about any marriage or baby news. Obviously they have gone their separate ways. So I don’t think she has a right to that sort of information.

  102. Deltona lakes says:

    @#41
    the difference is JA wasn’t blindsided and we had to hear about the breakup for 6 years. Although she dated about 5 guys since then.. I hope Heidi takes the Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman route…

  103. april says:

    Heidi looks so lackluster in all of her photos. She shows no emotion and her eyes have no sparks. I can see why the two split up.

    I know of couples who met at work and are now divorced and have to see each other every day at work and get on with their lives.

    I know of couples in long-term, committed relationships who work together and split up and have to see each other daily.

    How about divorced people with children? They also have to deal with each other.

    I guess if you don’t protect yourself with marriage, you are open to financial problems and lack of public sympathy.

  104. P.J. says:

    I feel bad for anybody who gets rejected and then has to endure seeing their ex with his/her new love splashed all over the tabloids. It not only rubs salt into the wound, it’s humiliating when the whole world knows you got dumped.

    I have a little more sympathy for Jennifer than Heidi because Jen’s whole persona was the beautiful, desirable movie star–wife of the world’s coolest guy–and then she’s dumped very publicly. In contrast we know next to nothing about Justin and Heidi’s prior relationship, so it’s hard to judge.

  105. Emma says:

    @April, #102 … “I know of couples who met at work and are now divorced and have to see each other every day at work and get on with their lives. I know of couples in long-term, committed relationships who work together and split up and have to see each other daily. How about divorced people with children? They also have to deal with each other.”

    Really? Is that why Jen-Hens have a cow whenever Angie and Brad talk about their kids, their love, or their lives together? Is that why Jen-Hens say that Brad and Angie are just “rubbing Jen’s nose in ‘it’ (whatever ‘it’ might be)?

    I guess if you don’t protect yourself with marriage, you are open to financial problems and lack of public sympathy.

  106. Cheyenne says:

    newtsgal: He looks like he’s hung like a stud hamster!
    ==============================================

    Oh no you didn’t. ROTFLMBAO!!! 😆
    *Collapses over keyboard*

  107. Ida says:

    Come now people, how the hell do you know that H.B. even wanted to get married? Or get paid alimony or whatever? Or that she was blindsided about the breakup? You don’t get to fuck a man for 14 years and sleep next to him and wake up next to him and watch the fucker eat and drink and piss etc., and not have a clue that things aren’t going well.

    Is Aniston pulling “a Jolie”? Hell to the yeah. Was she probably as pissed back in ’04 as Bivens is(if we are to believe the report)now? Most likely…but that’s precisely the point. It made sense for Aniston to be pissed then just as it makes sense for Bivens to be pissed now. It makes sense for Aniston to be happy now (you have to admit she seems in love) just as it made sense for Brad and Angelina to be happy when they fell in love and came together a few years ago. My point being, if you can’t understand that this “situation” is not actually the epitome of hypocrisy or irony or whatever else you might want to call it from Aniston’s point of view or anyone’s really, then I’m afraid you’re guilty of the same logic/philosophy one finds in most Aniston films…which as we all know…

  108. Learn the lesson says:

    To all of you that are saying her relationship was longer so she deserves pity, etc…MARRIAGE ISNT JUST A PIECE OF PAPER!!!! Get the ring or get out.

    I bet she regrets it!!

    Again, MARRIAGE ISNT JUST A PIECE OF PAPER.

  109. Poor pathetic celebitchy! says:

    There are TOONS of Justin interviews in the last years saying he was single. He and Heidi were obvious not stable, so it’s just hilarious you trying to say she could get money of off him because they were pratically married for 14 years! LMAO!

    Also, the whole “theory” about the Terry picture only exist in your delusional head! Jennifer was wearing extensions because of Wanderlust reshoots. In her fan sites people posted tweets from THAT NIGHT saying they were having dinner and saw Jennifer – that was before Terry released the pics.

    ALWAYS BUSTED. It’s embarassing, really.

  110. N.D. says:

    @cherryberry: “I don’t think he acts like a douche, I think he just IS a douche. ”
    I agree wholeheartedly.

    @lisa “Thing is we have not seen Jennifer with her usual friend’s circle for a long time.. Courteney, Cheryl and the other members of the Goddess Circle.”
    Yea, it’s pretty much seems like she broke up with them or they broke up with her. At first it looked like Courney’s separation was the reason but now I think it was her affair with Justin. Her girlfriends didn’t take it easy it seems and she moved on to the likes of Chelsea Handler.

    And I agree with whoever said that Heidi and Jen do not look alike at all because Heidi is naturally beautiful and Jen is all fake and made up.

  111. N.D. says:

    @Poor pathetic celebitchy!: ” in the last years saying he was single.”
    Really? There is recent interview of Heidi where she talks about them going to vacation together and tehre a tons of photos with them goint out together at the same time when he was hooking up with Aniston as we do know now – from Five set insisers and such.

  112. Learn the lesson says:

    To #105, prepared to get banned…lol (I’m getting ready to be banned too, u know cuz the people at this site cant handle the truth)

  113. minnie says:

    I can remember, but it would take me a while to search, that when Brad and Angelina went to LA to liv, they somehow where living “not far” from Aniston. Sorry, I don’t remember the exact neghborhood, gotta look it up.
    What I can remember waas that the tabloids and Jen fans where complainng about how they could dare to live close to Jen… Now it’s the same situation
    BP and AJ wouldn’t even show PDA in front of cameras almost until after they had Shiloh. Even hens where claiming they were done because they never showed affection.. and hey are still together. It was probably to avoid hurt jenny more, and she still complained. Now, she’s not so nice to the ex.
    In my country, a man and woman living ogether after 5 years get the same rights and obligations as in a marriage. He was lucky to be living in NY, I guess.

  114. allie says:

    Im not sick of Jen and Justin. Love this couple. They look really happy. By the way Cheyenne I didnt mention Brad and Angie in my comments. You did!!

  115. Viggo says:

    All of this is bound to blow up in Jennifer Aniston’s face. As wrong as Brad Pitt was for his transgressions in their marriage, she should have respected herself enough not to do this to another woman.And I find it curious that her supporters aren’t harping on her about this. And good on Heidi for keeping it classy, even in her pain.

  116. Allia says:

    It’s called Karma,Jen!! He’ll leave your ass too! How easy was it to leave his wife (pretty much) for u? What comes around goes around! Just saying!

  117. Jamie says:

    She can’t dictate what city they live in. If she’s not talking to him, good for her. She should cut all ties and move on. No one knows what type of relationship Justin and Heidi had. Maybe it was an open relationship, he was allowed to hook up with Jen, and he fell for her. Obviously it hurt Heidi that he ended the relationship, but we can’t assume it was cheating when we’re dealing with the “alternative,” hipster crowd.

  118. Learn the lesson says:

    Allia Said
    How easy was it to leave his wife (pretty much) for u?

    ***************************

    When will you people get it? Nearly cannot kill a bird. Its either you ARE married or you AREN’T!!! There is no in between. No almost. Even if it was a different scenario and they were engaged for 14 years, in the eyes of the law (and God) they STILL AREN’T Man and Wife.

    THEY WEREN’T MARRIED. Should they have been? Who knows, but the point is there was no marriage so therefore they arent legally bound to eachother. Basically that means that either partner is free to up and leave whenever they like, without breaking any vows or having to deal with divorce proceedings.

  119. Learn the lesson says:

    @N.D

    Thats weird, you know, the whole thing you just pulled out of your arse that Jen and Court arent close and such, because Courteney is visiting Jennifer and Justin (with Coco) in NYC right now…I know this first hand. They came to a store my sister works at.

  120. Julia says:

    There are TOONS of Justin interviews in the last years saying he was single.
    —————————–
    There is also an interview about him “end of may”, which carry more validity and is more relevant timewise than interviews “over years”. An interview in which Heidi’s mother said that she had a conversation with him regarding the rumors between him and Aniston.

    He said to her that it was a big misanderstanding and that everything was fine between him and heidi and that he had no intention to break up.

    I really don’t care about what happened I don’t want to speculate about that, shit happens all the time but lying blatantly at this point when he knew something was going on made him worse than a douche..worse than even ultimate douche john mayer.

    He is an Asshole with a captial A, with no basic code of integrity. That doesn’t bode well if he can lie straightforwardly to a woman who was familiar to him since he dated her daughter for years. He can lie to anyone with the same ease and pretend and fake like a pro.

    As for Aniston, don’t have much sympathy for hypocrites who not only have reached mature age but have made a business out of martyrdom to garner maximum sympathy to a level of obscenity rarely reached in Hollywood and elsewhere. Yet, i hope it was all worth it and that she is happy with him.

    As for Heidi, hope she’s focusing on her work twice as much as before. It’s the best therapy. She looks really young and fresh and sweet and I am sure there are out there better options than a guy, she introduced to her family capable of lying to her mum’s face about his true intentions related to her.

  121. lisa says:

    Well Jennifer said on some entertainment show that she was not moving to NY. That she wanted a place to lay her head when she was there. That doesn’t sound like someone that is passionate about a place. I am curious. The media says that they are living in Jennifer’s home. But Justin has a place of his own. Are he and Jennifer living together or is it a dating thing. what happened to his place. She sold her home and is renting a small place. It is the two of them together renting or her. I say this because the media is painting them as getting ready for marriage. But if you look at it, they both have their own places in NYC. He is a New Yorker. So I imagine he and she at some point will have to pick a place. Jennifer is not working right now, and it looks like neither is Justin. I know he is a writer/Actor, but I have not seen anything about him getting any work. Same with Jennifer. I don’t see her name attached to any projects. So it will be interesting to see how they manage the relationship when they are both working. Right now they both have a lot of time to go back and forth between LA and NYC. But when you have to work that may be the real test of how they stay strong as a couple. Distance has ended a lot of relationships.

    I am not a fan so I say that up front, but I actually hope she and this guy work. Maybe the silly drama will end. but I am waiting to see.

  122. anne_000 says:

    Wow. Look at all these posters who have a cookie-cutter, white bread view of what a committed relationship is… Being married is not the end-all, be-all standard for what a committed relationship is. If it was, then there’d be NO such thing as a DIVORCE. Some people need to get over their ‘one-way or no-way’ classification of SOMEONE ELSE’S committed relationship.

    Anyhoo…. From what I’ve read, Heidi & Justin were still living together & on Heidi’s part, she thought they were still a couple up to the point where she found out thru the tabloids that Jennifer got her hook into Heidi’s man.

    Now, according to what I’ve been hearing from the JenHens, this is EXACTLY THE SAME thing that happened to Jennifer with the Brangelina circumstance.

    So here it is several years later, and Jennifer is doing the same thing to ANOTHER woman as she & her JenHens were complaining about all these years.

    When in actuality, it seems as if Brad got with Angelina only AFTER both Jennifer & Brad were separated & not living together, while Justin & Heidi were still in a living-together relationship when Jennifer got together with Heidi’s man LAST year before Heidi & Justin actually broke up THIS year.

    So TWO DIFFERENT circumstances. Jennifer = not the odd woman out undone by a homewrecker. Heidi = had a homewrecker come into her life and was kicked out of her own home where she had lived FOR YEARS.

    As for the posters complaining that Heidi should have gotten over it by now… uh… it’s only been a few months for her, while it’s been SEVERAL YEARS for Jennifer YET she & her JenHens are STILL NOT OVER IT with Brangelina.

    Also, it was NOT Heidi herself who said she wants NYC all to herself. It was the US Weekly writer & the source/supposed friend. The supposed friend said that Jennifer & Justin going overdrive on promoting their new relationship in NYC (& the world) is making it harder for Heidi to ignore it as easily as it would be for other women who don’t have their ex & his new side piece always flaunting their new relationship in the mass media.

    For all we know, Heidi could be doing her best to get over Justin regardless of how much Jennifer & Justin are working SO HARD to make sure EVERYBODY in the world know that they’re in a relationship.

    Also, how about a previous article saying that Jennifer’s friend said Jennifer saved Justin from his negativity (with skin toner, hair cut, & shave… O_o )? That’s the same as saying Heidi was bad for Justin, but Jennifer is better for him. WTF?!? That was a DIRECT HIT against Heidi from the Jennifer camp!

  123. Jojo says:

    bivens looks like a dark, young, naomi watts to me. and justin still looks like a douche with his head up his ass…a cute douche with his head up his ass..

    edit: here’s heidi with blonde hair
    http://bfanyc.com/home/photo/100975#anchor

    http://www.broadway.com/shows/house-blue-leaves/photos/rock-the-house-ben-stiller-edie-falco-and-the-blue-leaves-company-celebrate-opening-night/162129/house-of-blue-leaves-opening-night-heidi-bivens-justin-theroux

  124. Joanna says:

    when a guy hasn’t married you after 14 years, that’s a pretty good sign he’s doesn’t think you’re the one. And they might had issues we don’t know about. Unless you’re one of the people involved, you never know the whole story. And at her age, you should know better than to depend on a man financially, which I doubt she did anyway. Isn’t she some kind of well-known stylist? So I imagine she can survive fiancially without him. Sometimes you have to scale back your lifestyle when it’s only you, and it’s an adjustment. but life goes on and she will find someone else.

  125. The Original Mia says:

    @Learn the Lesson, you should tell that to Goldie Hawn. She’s been with Kurt Russell for decades and he hasn’t put a ring on it. I guess if he dumps her, people will say the same thing you’re saying since their decades long relationship isn’t in the same realm as a marriage.

  126. Tazina says:

    Looking at these photos, it appears Justin and Heidi’s relationship probably had lost it’s sparkle anyway. They don’t look overly enthralled with each other. He didn’t marry her in 14 years and he never would have. They were both single, free to move on and yeah, he did…so what.

  127. Emma says:

    @PJ, #104 … “I have a little more sympathy for Jennifer than Heidi because Jen’s whole persona was the beautiful, desirable movie star–wife of the world’s coolest guy–and then she’s dumped very publicly.”

    But what exactly does that mean … “and then she’s dumped very publicly?” Jen was dumped privately when she and her husband discussed their marriage and decided ‘jointly’ to separate in January 2005. Jen was given space and privacy to file her divorce (and she did so citing irreconcilable differences, not adultery). Photos of Brad and Angie together didn’t hit–and hit hard–until April 2005. By that time, Jen was already 4-months dumped, wasn’t she? So how could Brad have ‘publicly’ dump her? She knew Brad was interested in Angelina Jolie and she knew photos would hit the tabloids. Jen was not blindsided by Brad and Angelina.

    Now, a public dump is when photos of your boyfriend of 14-years begin showing up in tabloids with a famous blond actress, who he’s told you is ‘just a friend,’ just days after the two of you attended an event as a couple, with captions saying “Jennifer Aniston and her new man, Justin Theroux.” A public dump is being forced to move from the apartment you and your man shared together for 6 years under the glare of flashbulbs and being trailed by reporters for days afterwards, all shouting out “When did you find out, Heidi!”

    Now *that’s* being dumped very publicly.

  128. amanda says:

    I used to feel sorry for Jennifer and her pathetic self image. I wonder if she would consider her behavior to be “uncool”. She is a cheating old bitch and can keep that stupid douche. I was team aniston but now definitely not. Heidi will find herself a real man. She’s pretty and not at all manish like stupid Maniston.

  129. Katherine says:

    “Heidi’s best revenge would be to find herself another more famous and more handsome boyfriend loaded with money.”

    How about George Clooney? Heidi’s prettier than some of his exes. Her job may be flexible enough to spend time in Italy.

    Now this I would pay to see.

  130. Jen D says:

    So, according to some of you, Justin didn’t really love Heidi because he didn’t marry her after fourteen years.

    Some of you may have to sit down and clutch your pearls over this, but believe it or not some people believe that it isn’t just a man’s decision whether or not a couple gets married. Some women don’t even want to get married! I know! So crazy! Get the smelling salts! I mean, what else could they possibly want (other than having lots of kids, of course)?

    Ladies, I’d love to discuss this further with you, but we’d better get back to churning butter and hoping for a man to come and marry us.

  131. Katherine says:

    In those pictures of Heidi with Justin in late April 2011 she has beautiful, sparkling blue eyes. Dead eyes, indeed! Please, the Jen defenders are grasping at straws.

    As for Heidi’s well being following her forced relocation, I ceratinly hope the man helped her relocate. That was her home for a long time and it isn’t easy to find a new place overnight in NYC.

    Justin strikes me as a slick one and may have convinced Heidi that, “of course the apartment is as much your as it is mine and, of course, I’ll put your name on the property . . . eventually. It’s not like I’m going anywhere.” Haven’t many of us seen that happen?

  132. Sasha says:

    No common law marriage in NY but she could make a claim for palimony after 14 years. She doesn’t seem the type to do it, though.

    And Jen looks like a total a–hole in that first pic of her & Justin. A pout isn’t cute on anyone over the age of 4, much less a 42 year old woman, I don’t give an eff who you are.

  133. smh says:

    @sasha she was probably practicing her “blue steel” look a la derek zoolander.

  134. N.D. says:

    @Learn the lesson: “he whole thing you just pulled out of your arse that Jen and Court arent close and such, because Courteney is visiting Jennifer and Justin (with Coco) in NYC right now”

    Yeah. pics or it didn’t happen.

    It’s been over a year since the last time those supposed best friends were actually seen together. They don’t support each other at premieres or other important events, they don’t vacation together, they don’t go out together – over the years they’ve been doing all of the above regularly plus there were always quotes from Courtney in Jen’s stories and the other way around. The last time anything like that happened was over a year ago. Since then Aniston was only seen with Handler, her publicist and now with Theroux.

  135. PUHLEES says:

    TO ME A MAN IS SINGLE UNLESS HE IS MARRIED OR HAS KIDS WITH SOME OTHER WOMAN. WHEN A GUY IS MARRIED, THEN HE IS TAKEN BUT WHEN HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND I DONT LOOK AT IT AS ANYTHING. WOMEN NEED TO STOP FOOLING THEMSELVES AND MAKE A MAN PUT A RING ON IT. AS MUCH AS I WANT TO FEEL SORRY FOR HEIDI, WHAT KIND OF GIRL WOULD DATE A MAN FOR 14 YEARS WITH NO COMMITMENT? GOLDEN HAWN AT LEAST HAD A KID WITH THE GUY SHE IS DATING. ANYHOO JUSTIN WAS FREE TO LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE WASNT MARRIED.

  136. Emma says:

    @Sasha, #132 … “And Jen looks like a total a–hole in that first pic of her & Justin. A pout isn’t cute on anyone over the age of 4, much less a 42 year old woman, I don’t give an eff who you are.”

    I still think she’s spoofing Angelina. 🙂

  137. The Original Mia says:

    @PUHLEES All caps is annoying. If your point was to shout it from the rooftops, we got it. Still won’t change anyone’s opinion that Jen is hypocritical and uncool and that Justin’s 14 year relationship with Heidi held just as much importance as a marriage.

  138. N.D. says:

    Anyone is free to leave any relationship.
    Marriage doesn’t equal slavery.

  139. lisa says:

    gosh.. I need to buy a thumb drive to save some of these comments.

    So Justin right now is a free agent. He can do whatever he wants. If he cheats (oh wait.. what is the steps out) that is fine because he has no children with Aniston and had not put a ring on it.

    I not being a fan am hoping this works. but a very dark side is hoping for something to happen just to see what her fans say then. They are all so evolved all of a sudden. so enlightened. SO future.

    the future in gossip is going to be fun to watch. I think I will save some of these gems. they are going to come in handy one day.

    @N.D..
    just saw you comment. and Spot on..but in Brad’s case he was suppose to stay single until forever. Never was suppose to be happy or move on. It was the rule then. Because he was flaunting his love in her face. Even though she said many time she was not the wronged wife. But hey I guess rewriting history has become an art.

  140. Memphis says:

    Sometimes things just end. Feelings change. It happens… BUT Justin definitely should have put on his big boy pants and told Heidi it was over before moving on with Jen.

    No matter how long the relationship, be it months or years, if you’re in a committed relationship the person you’re with deserves the respect to be told you’re moving on.

  141. DarkEmpress says:

    The only thing I can think of reading this article, is that you shouldnt waste your life with someone unless they have made a commitment to you. They have broken up and she has been with him since she was 21 years old. She is now 35. What does she have to show for it? At least if they had been married or had a child, but its just the same as if they had been dating for a few month- a quick dismissive break up.

  142. Cheyenne says:

    @Learn the lesson: They weren’t married… so what? Hawn and Russell have been together over 20 years and haven’t been married. Depp and Paradis have been together 15 years without being married. Your point is, you don’t have a point. And if you think getting married is going to keep a couple together, you’d better think again. It didn’t work for Aniston, did it?

  143. Cerulean says:

    I would have thought in this day and age people would stop thinking that not getting a ring is somehow the woman’s fault. That it’s an excuse for her being treated like crap in the end. Not everyone in the world thinks they need a ring to be committed. Especially if you don’t want children. A commitment is in your heart and it’s about trust. Married men cheat just as much as single men. This is not 1950 people.

    If he had more money than her then the decent thing to do was to man up and give her time to make plans for a future without his financial input.
    Jen had plenty of money when she divorced. She didn’t have to worry about scaling back etc. That is an extra burden on an already hurtful situation.
    He was cheating and lied. To her. To her mother. Come on. That’s a super douche move.

    I am sooooo glad people are starting to see just how phony and fake Anniston really is. It is galling that she would do this when she made a career off of being jilted. Which was a lie to begin with. She should not have flaunted the relationship. If it had been kept quiet maybe it wouldn’t have looked so uncool. She wouldn’t seem to be missing a sensitivity chip.

    Another thing to consider… If he is an ex addict maybe Heidi didn’t want to marry him until he was healthy and more stable. Being with an addict is chaos. Hence the off and on.

    In the end. She is so much better off. It’s a blessing. Let those two losers run around NYC. She is younger, prettier and more talented. She can be happy and start fresh. No more wasted time and energy on orange boy. Jen will always be a crappy neurotic human being destroying her image for lame hipster sex. That is revenge in itself.

  144. Cerulean says:

    Somewhere in the world Angelina and Brad are laughing their asses off.

  145. yasmine says:

    at least he was smiling when he was with heidi :/

  146. april says:

    If a couple, like scarlett johanson and ryan reynolds, gets married and stays together a couple of years they get quite a bit of attention and sympathy when they break up.

    If a couple who is not married goes through the same scenario, it’s not a big deal.

    So marriage pulls a lot of weight in the courts, the church and public opinion.

    I go by the book “He’s Just Not That Into You” when it comes to a guy committing or not. Before I would have been like Heidi and taken crumbs, but after that book I realized for me it was get rid of the guy if he keeps stalling or has excuses.

  147. crtb says:

    When Justin dumped her, Heidi really wasn’t left with much. She had to move out of the apartment they shared, she (likely) didn’t have much of a savings and Justin wasn’t legally obligated to pay her any alimony because they weren’t married…

    This is BS. This was an off and on relationship. She had moved out before. Seh knew what to expect. She should have been prepared for the day if they should break up again. If both of their names were on the lease, she didn’t have to move out. If only his name was on the lease, then it wasn’t her apartment. Why didn’t she have much of a savings and why is that his fault? She is a grown woman who should know how to manage her money. If they were living together for 14 years didn’t she put anything into the apartment? Did she just left without her stuff? I feel bad for her but this is not about JA. These two people would have ended breaking up eventually. He just wasn’t into her.

  148. Heine says:

    Who says she had to move out of their apartment? She moved out but no one knows the exact circumstances of why she moved and he didn’t.

    There is no common-law marriage in New York, so she can’t make trouble that way.

    I suspect she’s been payed off by Aniston’s people to keep her mouth shut.

    I also suspect that she knew something was going on but was trying to hold on to him. Women do this all the time. Men stick around for the easy sex and companionship even if they aren’t truly committed.

    Who says their relationship was just perfect before Aniston came on the scene? We have no idea what the state of their relationship was before he was messing with Aniston.

    I think she has every right to be pissed off about the pictures and them flaunting their relationship all over town, same as I thought Aniston had a right to be pissed off when those W magazine pictures of Brad and Angelina being a “happy family” came out.

    I think in both cases there was some suspicious timing and everyone was trying to save face by not admitting that any cheating went on. But personally, I think in both cases there was cheating and in both cases, all parties should just keep their mouths shut about everything.

  149. Jamie says:

    Some of you go really overboard. All of these caps, essays and exclamation points… for situations you don’t truly know much about. When celeb gossip becomes that serious to you, you really need to take some time away from the internet. If it’s not all in good fun, you’re doing it wrong.
    Sometimes I enjoy watching the circus on a JA/BP/AJ thread, but sometimes it’s truly creepy. Like, ‘I bet you talk about this all the time in real life’ creepy.

  150. Learn the lesson says:

    Cheyenne

    Vanessa and Depp have kids.

    Goldie Hawn and Russel have kids

    In their scenario, their children bind them–forever.

    Justin and Heidi have nothing to show for being together that long. THAT is the point. THAT is the difference

    I hope to God you don’t ever waste your life with a man “because Johnny Depp and Vanessa have been together for 15 years”.
    If anything, they are the exception, not the rule.

  151. Isa says:

    At least she wasn’t dumped for someone prettier than her.

    I really don’t understand why people are so quick to dismiss their 14 years together because they weren’t married. If they had gotten married, they would more than likely just be getting a divorce right now.

    Not every couple feels the need to sign a piece of paper.

  152. Julia says:

    @Darkempress

    I thought sharing the same roof, probably the same bedroom, the same meal the same bills was enough to show society that indeed you are committed towards the person you share your roof with.

    You share a HOME wether married or not. The prerequist is that you have a tacit or non tacit agreement to commit towards each other that has lead you to agree taking that physical step of moving in together and building a home together. That’s very much the definition of COMMITMENT..

    That’s why when the commitment is debunkt, one move out. If it wasn’t the case Heidi would still be living under the same roof since according her detractors she wasn’t committed to Justin, then why bother leaving the place ?

    What’s the point sharing a home for years and probably the same bed in that home if you are not committed but just an occasional f*ck buddy? That doesn’t make sense, except if you agree to have a relationship where you are allow to see other people.

    Commitment is a state of the mind and the heart, it’s a tacit agreement you both take prior deciding moving in together to build a home, which makes the commitment more official when you move in together.

    It’s a total different concept than marriage which is a civil and legal union that grant you legal rights but not more moral than mere commitment. Yes, it usually goes hand in hand but nowadays more people fall in love first, then are committed towards each other and usually move in together after a while as a way to physically show society that they ar in a committed relationship as loving partners, to officialize their commitment towards each other, hence they build a home together then eventually marry to LEGALIZE the commitment and make it a civil union that grant legal rights for you and your future children as well as bigger protections by the law.

    The only difference is there : on a legal point of view, certainly not on the moral nor on the emotional background.

    You are not more committed when you are married, no guarantee whatsoever in that department, you just have more legal rights and more civil protection.

  153. Chloe (not chloe) says:

    Oh, I am enjoying this particular piece of gossip a lot, even though I’m convinced US Weekly is making it all up.

    Still, so curious how Jen “I threw a chair at a director” Anniston and Justin “spray tan biker” Theroux are going to spin this. Because the tabs *will* continue to bring it up (the chronology, the contradictions, everything).


    edit: For those commenters who don’t like HB’s eyes in those pics: maybe she simply doesn’t like or isn’t used to being photographed. That he likes it very much we already know.

  154. smh says:

    I can’t believe some of you. “So what, they weren’t married?” How would you feel if you were replaced by another woman when you were in a relationship with somebody you loved? of 14 years no less? And some implying that it was Heidi’s fault that he didn’t stay with her. So I guess Jennifer Aniston gets a free pass no matter what she does? And because he is currently with her, so does Justin? I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t have wanted people to have this perspective if it was your relationship which got broken this way.

  155. LOVE ANGELINA says:

    How is it pretty clear that Jen and Justin started to date before he broke up with Heidi? So far there has been alot of hearsay and tabloid reports, two things which don’t make things any clearer.

    Heidi has a job. She wasn’t some house wife or anything. Why wouldn’t she have savings? Even married women have savings…I am sure Heidi did as well. There has been no evidence she is struggling or there was a huge issue moving out of their apartment.

    Walking around NYC like King dbag supreme? Come on. I am sure the way he is walking around NYC hasn’t changed one bit. Thats where he is lived for a really long time. I don’t get this dragging whoever Jennifer Aniston dates through the mud thing. Its tiresome.

  156. I see the bitter jen hens are attacking Heidi now. Thats sooooo UNCOOL…

  157. lisa says:

    @heine.

    WHAT..

    Brad and Angie doing a magazine photoshoot to go with a MOVIE is not them being a happy family. It was FAKE. not the real thing. Seriously. Every actor/actress does a magazine spread to promote a film. And that photoshoot went along with the concept of the film. It’s not like the magazine came out to hurt her. Gosh.

    And why was Aniston hurt. Those pictures were not of their children. I think she was mad because the pictures showed this “perfect couple” that was not what it was pictured as.. I think she was pissed because it was too close to home.

    A photoshoot in a magazine is not the same as picture of you and you girlfriend on the internet. Angie and Brad were not seen together until late April. And after that it was months before they were seen again together. Hardly flaunting anything.. especially since Jennifer had filed for Divorce. Why did Brad have to wait.

    boy the spin to protect this 43 year old woman.

  158. Cheyenne says:

    @Learn the lesson: If you think kids are going to prevent a relationship from breaking up, married or unmarried, then you really have a few lessons to learn.

  159. cwasy says:

    jen and justin are together and heidi doesnt seem to mind if not she would telling her side to some cheap tabloid. you people both the jen and non jen fans are stupid for taking advil for someone else headache. step away from the computer and resolve ur own life issues.

  160. dony says:

    justin did not cheat nor dump heidi, they both ended things mutually. i wish jen and justin aka j&j aka theroxton all the best. i hopeing for a baby soon.

  161. tina says:

    heidi shuld hv been smart. thats why i dont like when women say marriage is just a piece of paper. it is not just a piece of paper cuz if she was married, she would hv probably gotten the apartment and a couple of millions. i like jen and justin as a couple. hopefully heidi finds another bf and this time she better make him put a ring on it.

  162. Lucky Charm says:

    For all the people saying that Heidi should just get over it and quit complaining about J & J showing pictures of their lovey dovey selves all over the place: Why then, just a month ago you were bitterly and LOUDLY complaining that Brad owed Jen an apology for hurting her feelings by talking about how dull & boring he was in his marriage. She certainly shouldn’t have any hurt feelings after all these years, and should “be over it” by now, if you expect Heidi to be after just four months.

  163. Emma says:

    @Heine, #149 … “I thought Aniston had a right to be pissed off when those W magazine pictures of Brad and Angelina being a “happy family” came out.”

    The photo spread was ‘not’ about a happy family. Aside from the obvious promotion of “Mr. and Mrs. Smith,” it was also Brad’s take on unhappy marriages. The kind of marriage where everything looks fine on the surface, but really isn’t fine underneath. In the photo spread, Angelina portrays a wife and mom so much like those Moms in the 1960’s who could only cop with ‘not’ having the life/career they prepared for at college by drinking or taking prescription meds.

    This spread … http://www.wmagazine.com/celebrities/archive/brad_pitt_angelina_jolie#slide=1 (don’t forget to scroll down and read the article) … was published in “W” in July 2005. That was 7 months after Brad and Jen separated, and 4 months after Jen filed for divorce. It was also the same month that Jen began dating Vince Vaughn.

    Do people really not see a connection between that spread in “W” magazine and the film “Mr. and Mrs. Smith?” Were the guns beneath the pillows on their bed no clue at all?

  164. allenpoe says:

    Wow – a lot of speculation going on here based on very little actual fact or non-tabloid information. First, I doubt that anything in this US piece is true from Heidi’s “friend” calling Aniston “Jen” as though they are close, to her saying Heidi doesn’t want to know anything about them, but wants a heads up on wedding/pregnancy news – it all sounds ridiculous.

    Here’s the facts: Heidi and Justin dated for some unknown amount of time. They knew each other for 14 years, but during this time there have been several interviews of his that have him saying he was single, and others where he was dating someone other than Heidi. They apparently lived together for about the last 5 or 6 years, in an apartment he owned.

    There are no indications that Theroux and Aniston were together before late May. The comments from one of the director’s on Five were about Aniston being on the set of her production, since as executive producer this would be part of her job (the director would have no reason to be on the set of Aniston’s directing portion, nor were there any pics of her being there and there were several sets of pap shots from that time). This director filmed her portion of the project in June, proven by the tweets of the star of her short, Fonseca. So, that means Theroux was introduced as Aniston’s boyfriend in June – when we all knew he was that.

    The June Richardson pics are not controversial at all. They were taken on June 16th – a fact proven by looking at the digital DNA of the pics which records the date they were shot. At the time Aniston was wearing extensions for Wanderlust reshoots, and was shot in other NY candids with them in on June 15. This explains the longer hair. By the next week she was back to her own hair.

    Several named sources from the set of Wanderlust have said there was nothing between Aniston and Theroux during filming (Malin Ackerman, Katherine Hahn, Lauren Ambrose). In fact during the time of filming through early May Aniston was linked to several other guys by the same tabloids that are now insinuating that something might have happened between her and Theroux before May (Phoenix, Brody, Cooper, Hopkins, Morton, a NY business man – just to name a few between September 2010 and May 2011).

    And if you want to hang your hat on tabloid sources, why is it that you don’t want to believe the part where all of them agree Theroux and Heidi split in March (People, US, Star, etc.)? We know he wasn’t living with her from at least May onward as he was in LA doing Wanderlust reshoots while Heidi was in NY. Even Heidi’s own mother wouldn’t say they were a couple in May when asked.

    I feel for Heidi that her ex is now with someone so famous so she obviously has to see them in the press (however she is a successful stylist in her own right, so no need to pity her on that front). But that would be the case whether they lived next door to her or in another country. She has been spotted out with a guy as early as June as well. And Theroux’s friends all seem to have embraced Aniston (some were spotted with them in Hawaii, and others like Ansari, Stiller and Bateman have been quoted saying what a great couple they are). If there truly was any cheating or douchey behavior by Theroux someone would have gone on record about it, but that hasn’t been the case. I’m tired of massive speculation being used to bash someone/people or something, particularly when facts are out there to dispute the speculative claims.

  165. Oh Brother says:

    So, according to Jennifer fans, Justin is still on the market and open for business.

    When he finds out that all Jennifer is good for is spending her money and getting his picture taken. Which he seems quite fond of doing both. Like, his name is on the papers for her apt. or the lease papers for the place that they’re living in in L.A.

    But,when he realizes she really doesn’t have any clout in HW to get him to the next level. He’ll leave and move on. But, that’s OK. Cause, they’re not married. He’s a man for hire, after all.

    He scores, she loses. Same ole, same ole for Ms. Boringston.

  166. kira says:

    I’m sorry but they are classless. His ex-girlfriend left the apartment they shared–”Heidi and Justin have been together for 14 years,” Bivens’ publicist stated. “They met when she was 20 years old and he 24, and yes, she just moved out of their home last weekend. She has no comment.” This was on June 14th. Jen had been phtographed with Justin in early May–pics on X17.
    They were out together. And, then he told Heidi’s mother there was nothing going on with Aniston, they were friends, and it was all a “big misunderstanding.” She confirmed this to several outlets. Jen’s PR said they were only “friends” to People, US Weekly
    and many outlets. WHY spew out LIE after LIE if everything was on the up-and-up? Give me a break.

    ONLY days after Heidi leaves, out pops Aniston and Justin wearing matching rings, and having oh-so-cute PDA shots taken by that porno-guy, Terry Richardson? Does she really expect people to believe that they just started dating? That they went from 0 to full-blown public PDA and spending every moment together in a week or so? Don’t buy that at all.

    And rubbing it in your ex’s face with the full publicity blitz is tacky. I feel bad for Heidi. To get treated like that after you’ve known someone for 14 yrs has to be hurtful. And to think, I actually felt bad for Aniston once. Well, not anymore. 🙁

    It’s also sickening to see people come up with excuse after excuse for what amounts to a lot of cheating and lying. It’s gross, actually. People are grasping at straws–anything to defend this tacky duo.

  167. The Original Mia says:

    @Emma…You’re absolutely right. That photoshoot was about a dysfunctional relationship, but all Jen’s fans can see is Angie + Brad + kids.

    @Lucky Charm…they can’t see the hypocrisy of their rants. Jen’s feelings are so delicate that 6 years later is still too soon for Brad to discuss his life, his partner and his kids, but Heidi should be just fine after only 5 months with seeing the JustJen photoshoots every week. Hypocrisy with a capital H.

  168. dee dee says:

    Jennifer deserves to be happy for once. Anjolina has stolen quite a few men in her life and all seems to forgiven because she hides behind her children and all this great work she does now -probably to make up for all the hurt and pain she caused woman to go through due to her selfishness. Remember how she stole billy bob and married him while he was engaged to laura dern??? Poor girl didnt know until she read it in the tabloids!! Give Jen a break and start harping on Anjolina who is a selfish person.

  169. LOVE ANGELINA says:

    LOL dee dee that was ridiculous. None of the things you believe about Angelina are true and this post has nothing to do with Angelina. In fact Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie don’t have anything to with each other.

    I understand you want to defend Jen in this post and you can without talking about Angelina. Its not hard. Alot of people seem to desperately want to believe that affairs were happening on both sides…fact is…there is not a shred of f*cking evidence in either case. So alot of the BS being spouted should stop on both sides.

  170. Emma says:

    @Allenpoe, #165 … “Several named sources from the set of Wanderlust have said there was nothing between Aniston and Theroux during filming (Malin Ackerman, Katherine Hahn, Lauren Ambrose) … And if you want to hang your hat on tabloid sources, why is it that you don’t want to believe the part where all of them agree Theroux and Heidi split in March (People, US, Star, etc.)? We know he wasn’t living with her from at least May onward as he was in LA doing Wanderlust reshoots while Heidi was in NY. Even Heidi’s own mother wouldn’t say they were a couple in May when asked.”

    Why do Jen-Hens lie? Why do they feel the need to lie? Why do they just make up stuff and call it ‘fact.’ That’s what I really don’t understand. It would be one thing if what they said couldn’t be disproved. That entire post is filled with nonsense.

    The only ‘named source’ I found saying that Jen and Justin weren’t humping on the “Wanderlust” set was a piece credited to Malin Akerman in “In Touch Weekly” and recited at “Female First.” There’s nothing very official about either one of those sources, is there? And if ‘all’ the tabloids agree that Heidi and Justin split in March, please reference two of them for us here to prove your point.

    I haven’t read any article anywhere that says Justin and Heidi were together for less than 14 years. And ‘if’ Justin and Heidi broke up in March, what the heck were they doing out as a couple on April 25th at the “House of Blue Leaves” Broadway premiere?

    Oh and broadway.com http://www.broadway.com/shows/house-blue-leaves/photos/rock-the-house-ben-stiller-edie-falco-and-the-blue-leaves-company-celebrate-opening-night/162129/house-of-blue-leaves-opening-night-heidi-bivens-justin-theroux is ‘not’ a tabloid.

  171. Josephina says:

    Allenpoe-

    Wasn’t it also stated that Heidi moved out of the apartment in the middle of June?

    Heidi’s mother went on record in either May or April and said her daughter Heidi was still with Justin, that Justin clarifed that he and Jen were friends. Then, in June, the mother changed her tune and said her daughter was doing as well as can be expected.

    At this point, Justin did Heidi a favor. He is not a celebrity but he is now dating a celebrity. He signed up for it…and his business will stay in the press.

  172. Dudette says:

    It seems Jennifer Aniston has quickly forgotten how it feels to be the person left for someone else. She sure told us often enough, over the years, how hard it was, how she was coping, by screaming at the ocean. And yet now, she has no problem dating a man who left his girlfriend of FOURTEEN YEARS (far longer than she ever was with Brad, married or not) and immediately being seen out and about with him, posing for happy pictures, endless dinners and expensive holidays and shopping trips. No problem at all. Where’s her sensitivity chip now? She’s not even being discreet in these first few months and yet she expected Brad to be? It’s a wonder her fans can’t see the overwhelming hypocrisy at play here. Or should I say, choose not to see it. Pathetic.

  173. Nikki Girl says:

    He’s a total creep. And those pictures of Aniston and him are really cheesy and fake looking. You can do better Heidi, keep your head up.

  174. Jaxx says:

    I don’t get the attitude that since Heidi and the douche weren’t married their relationship doesn’t count. That is utter B.S. Fourteen years is fourteen years. That is a long damn time especially for Hollywood types. After that long marriage rules applies rather it is legal or not. He should have had the decency to break it off privately with her before word EVER leaked about him and Jennifer. If he did that to Heidi then he can just as easily do it to Jen. The old saying applies:

    If you marry a man who cheated on his wife you have a husband who cheats on his wife.

    I predict that Jen’s going to be screaming at the ocean again some day. Sooner rather than later if her career falters.

  175. Josephina says:

    Dee Dee-

    Sticking up for Laura Dern is like sticking up for a pedophile.

    Laura Dern was pregnant with her first child at the same time Ben Harper’s wife WAS PREGNANT. As in, he was still married and papers were not filed. She later married him, after he filed for divorce and had another child. I am not sure if they are still married because I read here on CB that Ben filed for divorce from Laura.

    Bily Bob DID end his relationship with Laura. Their affair began while he was married. Apparently, Billy Bob was not interested in marrying Laura even though they were “engaged” and ended it. However, Laura kept pursuing him in hopes to rekindle and keep the relationship going. Sound familiar? Billy Bob meets Angelina, and puts a ring on it. That’s not cheating, that’s stalking.

    She made damn sure Ben Harper did not slip away from her like Billy Bob did.

    Prior to that Laura has had a history getting into relationships with her co-stars. And she is one of those silly women in Aniston’s Goddess Circus of Friends.

  176. Victoria says:

    @Emma screw prop8 and my heteros status, wanna marry you! Everything you said in your posts, yes, yes, yes AND yes.

  177. coconut says:

    i am not necessarily for or against any of these characters but justin and heidi’s body language in these photos and those on http://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C1CHKZ_enUS431US432&gcx=c&q=justin+theroux+heidi+bivens&um=1&ie=UTF-8&hl=en&tbm=isch&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&biw=1174&bih=760 doesn’t show any signs of them really being into each other (never looking at the other one, she never looks happy, bodies not really together in the photos on this page)…far different from the obvious chemistry between justin and jen (bodies smushed together, looking at each other, mirth and joy in their eyes).

    it’s possible that j and h’s relationship had been on autopilot for a long time and they were staying together cause nothing better came along. the fact that they were on and *off* multiple times is telling. maybe heidi was in denial. maybe he’d had one talk too many and was just *over* their relationship or what little remained of it by the time jen arrived on the scene. i don’t know and none of us know what goes on in others’ intimate relationships.

    what is wrong with him being a dandy? is it criminal for a straight man to be into clothes? to wear a style that you personally feel is silly/ugly/fill in the blank? what about freedom of expression? he looks to me like he has a certain aesthetic and likes to try different personas but could very well be a solid, decent person underneath the dandy.

  178. Green_Eyes says:

    Wow the hypocrisy on this page. If roles were reversed and it was Jennifer not Heidi that was left after 14 yrs together marriage or NOT bet thru would be foaming at the mouth that he did that to Jennifer… She’s not a saint, she’s human but bet for some she could walk on water….

  179. ShanKat says:

    #86 Emma — I think you nailed it. There is no way Heidi Bivens walked away without a couple hundred thousand.

  180. Bec says:

    I’ve been having the feeling that Heidi cheated on Justin right before he left her and that’s why he had no problem leaving her in such a public manner…

  181. Addie says:

    Urg..I don’t get how this relationship failing is Jennifer Aniston’s fault??!

    As stated above, HB/JT has been shakey for years (So actually it was not 14 years but on -again off- again 14 year relationship) NOT the same thing as a marraige or homewreching, cos clearly factors other than Jen has broken them up before.

  182. lisa says:

    @coconut

    Just saw some new pictures of Jennifer and Justin..

    *not looking at each
    *bodies not together
    *no mirth or joy in their faces.

    Seriously you all need to stop trying to make Heidi some fool.

    Why was Jennifer not a fool in her relationship with John Mayer. Why was John trashed for dumping Jennifer so publicly. Why didn’t she get the message and went back to him. Why did her fans trash him for months for that break up. They were not married. Not together for years. Not living together. But it didn’t make a difference then. Some of you need to take a field trip to the archives and read the comments of her fans when that break up happened.

    that spin was different then. But it always is when it comes to this woman.

  183. Julia says:

    You jen hens’s favourite hobby is moral gymnastic and hypocricy with a capital H.

    It’s not enough to blame Heidi for not being married, for not getting over it quickly. It’s not enough to insult every unmarried couple in the process, it’s not enough to blame her for the ‘supposed’ cheating where she is the left one and should have known better. Now you go as far as creating a fiction where she is the one who was cheating just to justify Theroux’s way of leaving her. Typical jenhens diffamation process.

    After that you act all oversensitive and hollier than though, using the moral card that you didn’t show once in this case, going as far as saying Heidi probably cheats first, insulting a guy who characterized his own former marriage to your idol and himself at the time as dull, 7 years after it was ended besides.

  184. JulieM says:

    I am having so much fun reading all the experts on both teams so sure of themselves; so sure they alone know the absolute truth; so sure they know the inner workings of the minds of everyone involved. These Jen stories are always very entertaining. Thanks for the laughs, everyone.

    Julia: (nice name, that’s mine too) Please stop with the moralizing insults and posturing aimed at people who don’t agree with you. Just a suggestion.

  185. Julia says:

    @ JulieM

    Using the moral card is a speciality the jen hens have used for the past 7 years when it suit them. They took that badge for themselves and put themselves in the position as the defenders of morality for wronged women left by their men.

    Today they use another tune and made a 180 tuirnaround and go as far as discrediting unmarried couples and blaming women who are not married, just to discredit the wronged woman who in this case was left for their idol.

    So who is really morally insulting here ?.

    I am pointing on to them that they use moral everytime it suit them but don’t hesitate showing how immoral they are when they disrespect unmarried couple and invent cheating event on the part of the woman who was left.

    This is hypocricy and moral gymnastic at its best and i won’t stop saying it and writing posts because you prefer to view my post as a way for me to insult people who don’t agree with me than viewing and questionning the message in it.

  186. Leticia says:

    Heidi is beautiful and is publicly handling this well. I wish her all the best.

    My husband and I married 22 months after our introduction, so I can’t imagine 14 years without marriage. But maybe Heidi is the one who did not want to get married, I don’t know. I do know that in general, if you want a man to marry you, don’t let him hang around for years without putting a ring on it.

  187. Munkey says:

    “Sticking up for Laura Dern is like sticking up for a pedophile.”

    Say what?? Look, I couldn’t care less about Laura Dern — or any of the fools in this stupid triangle, for that matter — but your comparison is offensive and shamefully over the line. Maybe you, and your fellow nuts (on BOTH sides), should take some of the other posters’ advice and turn off the computer, get a little fresh air, and reassess your priorities, because you’re taking this nonsense way too far.

  188. Rudypatudie says:

    I also think that if you haven’t been married, you certainly cannot speak out against it, or devalue it or criticize it.

    Marriage is so much more than a piece of paper. It’s a soul commitment, a security in knowing that you both want to be there, and neither is looking forth next one. If the marriage fails, it fails. But it is much much more than just a piece of paper. And at the point of sounding condescending ( I don’t mean to ) you cannot possily understand until you have experienced a good one. It’s bliss.

  189. Rudypatudie says:

    Oh, and one more thing.

    Real Men Marry. And usually want to stay married, and don’t cheat

    Boys don’t marry, boys cheat and boys don’t take marriage seriously.

    Find a man! Don’t settle for a boy!

  190. Mikamoo says:

    JA did the same thing to Heidi that was done to her… what is wrong with these women? Wait until a man is single before doing these things. And, IMO, JT looks like a d-bag… he really does. I feel for Heidi.. they are flaunting their relationship all over the place. I no longer feel sorry for JA after what happened with BP. Maybe she is just a selfish person.

  191. Emma says:

    @Coconut, #178 … “it’s possible that j and h’s relationship had been on autopilot for a long time and they were staying together cause nothing better came along. the fact that they were on and *off* multiple times is telling. maybe heidi was in denial.”

    People keep repeating the ‘on again, off again relationship’ quote like a mantra, but the only time I ever saw this in print was right after Heidi moved out of their shared apartment in June. I think it was an attempt by Jen’s PR machine to downplay any overt public sympathy for Heidi. Can’t have America’s Sweetheart breaking up a 14-year committed relationship now, can we? So one of Justin’s unnamed ‘friends’ was quoted as saying that the relationship had been over for a long time and had been at best an ‘on again, off again’ thing.

    But then someone posted a photo of Justin and Heidi out together as a couple on April 25, 2011 and suddenly the official ‘Jen and Justin started dating’ time changed from June to May, and the ‘on again, off again’ line stopped … but the Jen-Hens have latched onto it like a lifeline. I don’t think that Jen’s PR machine knew about that “House of Blue Leaves” date. And even though several people have posted links to photos of Justin and Heidi out together on April 25th, Jen-Hens refuse to see the photos or even acknowledge the links, nor do they seem to realize the significance of that ‘date night.’

    @Rudypatudie, #189 … “Marriage is so much more than a piece of paper. It’s a soul commitment, a security in knowing that you both want to be there, and neither is looking forth next one. If the marriage fails, it fails. But it is much much more than just a piece of paper. And at the point of sounding condescending ( I don’t mean to ) you cannot possily understand until you have experienced a good one. It’s bliss”

    No one is discounting marriage, they are only saying that you don’t need a marriage license to have the same feeling you’ve just described. And as you’ve said, if you haven’t experienced it you won’t get it … but the commitment and connection between two people is just as valid and real as that between a married couple. The only difference is the license.

  192. mln76 says:

    @190 &191 I haven’t seen anyone denigrate marriage. But instigating your morality onto others and stating only people who are married have soul commitments is false. Did Britney Spears have a soul commitment when she married for 72 hrs? The fact is some marriages are deeply committed soulful unions and some aren’t just like some people who live together consider themselves to be just as committed and genuinely don’t feel the need for a ring or formal pronoucment.
    And I do believe that good people can fall out of love with their partners whether or not they are married and regardless of what their intentions are. A decent man doesn’t let someone he’s known for 14 years and lived with for 6 find out through the media that he’s got a new girlfriend. Anyone who could be so callous isn’t capable of
    Making a vow and honoring it.

  193. Linda says:

    OMG…can you hate on Jennifer anymore??? You defended Angelina to the hilt and now you are trying to make a villian out of Jennifer…double standard much..and there is a difference from breaking up a relationship to breaking up a marriage.

    First off – if Heidi wanted marriage then she should have put her foot down. If both parties don’t believe in marriage that is one thing – but if one party is not interested in marrying YOU then something is wrong…

    I feel sorry for the girl – absolutely – a 14 year relationship would be hard for anyone to get over – but for some reason I’m thinking Justin wasn’t all into her – he didn’t put a ring on it…and trust me – when a man likes it – he usually puts a ring on it!

    Also – note to Heidi – Jennifer and Justin could go anywhere and there is still going to be media attention paid to them…so it might be best if you found a place to hide for awhile while you lick your wounds…

  194. Eve says:

    @ Isa:

    At least she wasn’t dumped for someone prettier than her.

    OUCH!

    But I disagree with that…to me it’s actually worse when you’re dumped for someone who looks like Fabio in drag.

    @ HorsePoorHanna:

    How dare you! It’s always cool, everything is cool, fair and square if it’s done by “Jen”, my dear.

    She can milk the end of (any of) her relationships and whine till the end of days, but Bivens is not allowed to, not even for a few months, get it? For many of Aniston fans, it’s always the opposite side (to hers) that is wrong. Always. Forever and ever. It’s that simple. Infuriating, I know, but rather simple to understand. She can do anything she wants, but nobody can do anything against her (even if it’s a fair complaint).

    I think that should be clear to all of us by now.

  195. Chloe (not chloe) says:

    The gymnastics performed by the staunch defenders of the Theroux-Aniston tandem and their attempts to actually blame Bivens for everything (incredible, I know) won’t change a thing. Their chronology is more than suspicious, and their current behavior questionable especially in the light of how JA acted in the last couple of years.

    We all believe what we chose to believe but this thing reeks of dishonesty and hypocrisy, and that’s why it is and will be brought up.

  196. Pat says:

    @ mln76 “A decent man doesn’t let someone he’s known for 14 years and lived with for 6 find out through the media that he’s got a new girlfriend. Anyone who could be so callous isn’t capable of Making a vow and honoring it” so true – you speaking about Brad here?

    See Brad and Justin are made of the same material -both follow where ever their heart takes them and once they move on they move on with no regard for the woman they left behind. If you speak one way about Justin you are saying the same thing about Brad.

    And yes believe it or not Jen found out from the media that Angie/Brad were together with the picture of them in Africa. As she said she was shocked. Brad and Justin are exactly alike. And I agree with you Brad is not someone who can make a vow and honor it. His leaving Jennifer shows that. Unfortunately Jen has probably picked the same type of man again. Sad but true. However I don’t think that Jen really believes in that whole we will be together forever thing since Brad. Once this ends I think she will move on very well and just enjoy life

    And Eve I have no problem with Heidi milking her breakup. That is her right. I don’t think that anyone disagrees with you. Just makes her look pathetic is all and I don`t think she wants that. I think that she wanted to move on with dignity but the blogs don`t want her to do that. They want the poor Heidi stories. I am sure that Heidi wants nothing more to do with this guy – but people like you keep it going. I do feel sorry for Heidi = not because they split but because forever now it will be poor Heidi – no one wants to be in that place.

  197. rudypatudie says:

    Oh, Min76.

    Is that the best you can do? A ridiculous Britney Spears analogy? Come on. If you are discussing and attempting to debate marriage vs long term relationships , please, cite something more useful. Those 2 aren’t serious , mentally stable people. They’re ridiculous.

  198. Zelda says:

    Ugh. I’ve always hated Jennifer Aniston and her “poor me” pleas to magazines about Brad Pitt. She’s a dumb, thoughtless publicity whore who cares about nothing but getting her picture in the tabloids and miking it look like she hates them. It’s old. We know you’re shopping for a cover. Add to that- she can’t act and should be thanking her co-stars for the past 10 years for carrying her sorry ass through plastic, self-conscious performances. For all the complaining she’s done about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s “insensitive behaviour” over the years she should really check her behaviour and her photo ops at the door.

  199. Zelda says:

    PS- What are these posed brick wall pictures about?! Anyone? I thought Aniston was all about her privacy…

  200. anon says:

    the biker outfit .. Is it his uniform? gee..some bodyguards dress better.

    I can’t get over his eyebrows too ..what’s up with that?

  201. Chloe (not chloe) says:

    @anon

    I’m more amused by his spray tan. Way to go, biker. You’re so hard core.

  202. Eve** I failed to realize that since Heidi was not married,that makes her fair game to be a jenhen doormat. My Bad…LOL!! I think Heidi could use a hug from behind,right now!

  203. Kim says:

    Heidi is so much naturally prettier than Jennifer. I know relationships arent based on looks alone but he downgraded in looks with Jenn big time.

    Jenn, (I dont love or hate her) but she totally went after an attached man. She should have waited til they were broken up & then waited at least 6 months to date him. You dont date & live w someone 14 plus yrs and get over them overnight. This will be an issue down the road for them – actually im sure it has been already.

    If they even do make it to the alter he will eventually leave her & sooner vs later im sure. Maybe she knows this and doesnt care because she just wants a child.

  204. guest says:

    two ways to seal relaysh: marriage, kids. in march, april justin was in la, so heidi knew he was with jen whether or not he tells. j&j is showing pit that she is not boring — reason for photos. lastly, like passive aggressive!

  205. CornQueen says:

    Heidi has certainly handled herself better than Jen when Brad left her for a real woman Angie.
    Shmuck Justin has traded down for sure…
    Im soo sick of Jen Aniston. Almost as much as Lindsey Lohan. not thats bad!

  206. mollination says:

    I’m confused why Justin is the bad guy (unless he actually cheated, wwhich we don’t know). I don’t think that meeting someone you’re more compatible with after spending a long time with someone makes you a bad person. I don’t think Jen’s ex is a bad person for moving on, and I don’t think Justin is a bad person for moving on either. I think in a way, it’s a bad situation for everyone. The ex has to be heartbroken, the person who chooses to leave is painted to be a horrible human being, and the person he leaves for is a “home-wrecker”.

    And also, why are we so sure she had little savings or financial cushion to fall on? This is all just really stupid speculation.

  207. april says:

    mollination – good post! You summed it up nicely.

    Also, Heidi is a beautiful woman and I do feel for her for what she’s going thru, regardless if you are married or not. I just don’t get living with or dating a man for years and years without the benefit of marriage, but that’s just me.

    I hope Jennifer didn’t get stuck with another Brad Pitt.

    For all of them, I hope for the best.

  208. mln76 says:

    Ugh so pointing out that some people enter marriage for dubious reasons (prime examples both of Britney Spear’s marraiges )is ‘ridiculous’ EYE ROLLING @ hypocrisy.
    Pat the difference is according to Jen and Courtney Brad was honest with her. According to Heidi’s camp Justin lied to her face when People mag detailed one of their dates.

  209. Runs with Scissors says:

    @Eve, bwahahahah, thank you for that mental image, priceless! *Big hug from behind* hi Hanna!

    Heidi must be having a blast watching these two morons do EVERYTHING they can to get attention, but are unable to open their mouths about each other. Genius.

    After 14 years they probably had lots of friends and lots of spots they used to go to in NYC. It would bug me too to have this liar drag his new plastic ATM machine around to all my hang outs. How embarrassing.

    To all the apologists trying so vainly to defend Justin (the acrobatics were jaw dropping), what’s your line going to be once he dumps her? Oh right, he’s gay too, right? The fall out will be hilarious.

    @Emma, Julia, Lisa, Chloe… awesome posts 🙂

  210. guest says:

    think brangelina gagged jen so no cheating. if jen says so, courtney has to say so. everybody lies!

    j&j showed affection after pit’s dirty mouth. so blame pit, not jen!

  211. Emma says:

    @Victoria, #177 …

    Big 😀 !

  212. Emma says:

    @Pat, #197 … “And yes believe it or not Jen found out from the media that Angie/Brad were together with the picture of them in Africa. As she said she was shocked.”

    How in the world could Jen only find out that Brad and Angie were together by the photo in Africa, when Courtney Cox confirmed Brad’s sequence of events … that he talked to Jen about Angelina prior to their separation, and again (how else would Courtney know) during that vacation they took with Courtney and David in February 2005. That ‘shock’ you’re describing was Jen playing the victim game.

    Brad talked/explained, they issued a joint separation announcement in January 2005, Brad and Jen went on vacation together with Courtney and David in February 2005 where there was much crying and hugging on the beach, Jen filed for divorce in March 2005, and Brad (finally) pursued Angelina to Africa in April 2005, and humped.

    Justin started humping Jen shortly after meeting her on the “Wanderlust” set in October 2010, he continued to have clandestine ‘humping’ meetings with her in L.a. and NYC after the film wrapped (all the while lying to Heidi, saying they were meeting so much to discuss a future film project), he was introduced to Jen’s friends as her man at a dinner she hosted in the middle of May, and we still don’t know if he ever explained or confessed a thing to Heidi.

  213. ola says:

    You know what will be funny? When Justin dump Jennifer for another woman or goes back to heidi, her fans will say OH HOW COULD HE? they wont care if married or not! They will hate him for leaving her. They just care about their superrich idol Aniston.
    @Dee Dee, Laura Dern? Realy? you are pathetic honey! go back to viply bit@h, there you can spread your false information for the airheads.

  214. hana says:

    its realy sad that some people feel sorry just for the rich and famous woman. but not for a woman like us, ordinary woman with no millions.
    Some idiots realy feel that Miss Aniston is a personal friend of them. thats sick.
    Heidi would be more a friend of you then jennifer. jennifer lifes in a world that you will never enter or come close.

  215. TVAnnie says:

    Will you feel sorry for Ms. Aniston when he dumps her? I feel bad for Ms. Bivens although I believe she is a very sought after stylist and has a lot of connections. That being said, I don’t blame her for wanting Aniston and her man of the minute out of NYC. It is a big city, but not when you’re a stylist and your ex is dating a high profile person. They probably have to work at it not to be in the same place together. Team Heidi for sure.

  216. guest says:

    justin upgraded, much as pit did

  217. blonde on the dock says:

    @Emma: why do we need tabloids when we have you to tell us what actually happened? LMAO

  218. amcarcamo says:

    She definitely should receive some sort of support. In my country, Brazil, if you live together for more than 5 years you have nearly the same rights as married couples do, in some cases even more, if there is a prenup separating all assets..

  219. guest says:

    really feel sorry for jen because it is really hard to find love if one is rich — has to be equal. if famous, don’t know if one is being used.

  220. Pat says:

    Please fans of Brad/Angie don’t try to make it look like Brad/Angie did nothing wrong when Jen/Justin did. The circumstances of these two getting together are exactly the same. It is impossible to try to defend either couple. Brad is exactly like Justin. When they saw what they wanted they went after it. No one knows exactly when either of these two couples has s*x. Fans pretending that they do just make themselves look foolish.

    Trying to excuse Brad is really pathetic. Angie does great things, the biggest mistake she made is getting with this loser. What I don’t understand is why the fans of Angie try so hard to defend Brad when he throws her and his family under the bus for attention for his movie. Pretty sad. Angie would do way better without this guy. Jen sure has. Brad is a self absorbed pathetic man. I really don’t know why people defend him. I understand defending Angie but not Brad. I am sure that Angie is regretting the day she got with him. But unfortunately for her she is stuck with him becuase of the children.

  221. Emma says:

    @Blonde on the Dock, #218 … “@Emma: why do we need tabloids when we have you to tell us what actually happened? LMAO”

    I’m frankly surprised that I should have to tell anyone, or remind anyone of, anything. 90% of what I’ve posted is from memory. I’m just so amazed by all the twisting, half-truths, and down right lies from Jen-Hens about events that are (mostly) a matter of public record. And I’m not talking about tabloids, either … I’m talking about televised and print interviews from the principals. Jen, Brad, and Angelina have all spoken for themselves. The only missing link is Heidi Bivens, but her mother surely counts as a reliable source. Justin has spoken for himself in past interviews.

    You want to know what’s most shocking? I remember how many Jen-Hens just refused to see the pictures of Jen and Vince Vaughn when they got together in July 2005, the many followup articles about them in the Tabloids, or the notice of their breakup a year later. I recall an exchange on a thread where someone was going on and on about how despicable Brad was, saying it didn’t matter if Brad and Jen were separated and she’d filed for divorce when he got together with Angelina because he was ‘still legally married.’ Someone posted and said that meant Jen was despicable too, because she and Vince started dating before the divorce was final as well. The person actually posted that they didn’t believe what the other person was saying because they hadn’t heard anything about Jen dating Vince Vaughn, and they accused the person of lying because Jen just wouldn’t do anything like that.

    It’s like the Hens have a weird blind-spot for Jen where nothing negative or that strays from the ‘pristine’ image they have of her enters. The Hens just simply block it out.

    It’s pretty much the same thing surrounding the big breakup in 2005. I simply can’t believe how many people think that Jen just opened up a Tabloid magazine one day and saw a picture of Brad and Angelina together, and that it tore her poor little heart to shreds. These people honestly believe that Jen found out she was ‘dumped’ when she opened up a tabloid magazine and saw Brad and Angelina together. Now how in the world could anyone have missed the joint separation announcement Brad and Jen issued in January 2005. It was big news because they were the golden couple. Every news outlet carried it, not just the gossip rags. So how did SO many people miss it, or the fact that Jen filed for divorce two months later?

  222. Eve says:

    @ HorsePoorHanna:

    Eve** I failed to realize that since Heidi was not married,that makes her fair game to be a jenhen doormat. My Bad…LOL!!

    Tsk, tsk, tsk…you got it wrong again. It would have been fair EVEN if they were legally married. Get with the programme, girl! It is always fair if it’s done by Fabio, I mean, “Jen”.

    I think Heidi could use a hug from behind,right now!

    So I see you’re giving away hugs from behind like they were nothing…like they didn’t mean when it was about us…*HUMPF*

    @ Runs with Scissors:

    *MWAHHH*

  223. guest says:

    seal it with marriage, kids — that’s all

  224. Anon says:

    This story smells like Huvane planted it. Poor, poor Jen.

  225. Steph says:

    According to Lainey Gossip he cheated on her a lot in their 14 years together and she had been long suffering before he stepped out on her with Jen. I guess I don’t understand why she is so shocked. If he didn’t want to marry her after 14 years together maybe they weren’t meant to be. If he was telling her he didn’t believe in marriage and cheated all the time she should have pulled the plug awhile ago. I feel sorry for her but at the same time I think she could see the writing on the wall.

  226. smh says:

    @Eve I think by now it should be clear to us all that there is no talking sense to jen fans. they will defend her no matter what she does. i stopped trying a while back but i was sad that they’d talk so badly at the expense of a completely innocent person (Heidi Bivens) and how they could do this to a woman who was really wronged. tsk there’s no point in writing about it anymore, even though a few objective people have seen the situation for what it is and are now calling themselves ex-fans of jeniston.

  227. nicole says:

    i live in iowa we havent had common law in a decade. as for heidi i think shes a baby to complain about living in the sAME CITY ITS MANHATTAN NOT A TINY TOWN. plus she apparently sponged of the guy for 14 years if she wanted savings she should have saved her own money

  228. Eve says:

    @ Smh (# 227):

    I already said that long ago…that it’s pointless. That’s why I’m usually sarcastic and make fun of most of the posts written about these people (Jolie/Pitt/Aniston).

    Don’t get me wrong, I do appreciate the comments by people like Julia, Emma, Josephina, Cheyenne and Lisa (you guys have the patience I’d NEVER have). But I feel like they’re just wasting their time sometimes.

    I think I used all my willpower to argue with some of the die-hard Aniston fans back when I was a regular poster on Popsugar. I can’t do it anymore, sorry.

  229. smh says:

    @Eve (229) yep, i was agreeing with you.

    btw you guys have you seen jeniston’s new pics on jj i almost called it the last time but now i’m sure: she had another nose job lol here it is: http://justjared.buzznet.com/photo-gallery/2588523/jennifer-aniston-justin-theroux-fedora-meeting-04/ unfortunately she messed it up real bad this time. they took away the whole bridge (like eminem’s nose) and they made it too pointy-narrow like Michelle pfeiffer’s nose it almost looks like a piggy nose under this light. it’s unfortunate. her real large nose was much better. why oh why do people pay to look this bad. i do believe that hollyweird changes people’s perceptions of themselves!
    http://justjared.buzznet.com/photo-gallery/2588175/jennifer-aniston-justin-theroux-snl-after-party-05/ and in this one it looks like she got another chin trim too, but it could be the low quality of the photo making it seem that way. she thinks a small change to her hairdo will take away the attention from all the recent surgeries. it’s her money but why would she lie about it? kelly rowland was honest about her boob job. i can’t understand why most celebs lie about getting work done. like we can’t tell, bish please.

  230. Emma says:

    @Eve, Smh, Julia, Josephina, Cheyenne and Lisa … and anyone else I’ve forgotten … Sorry! (blush)

    Hey Sibs. 🙂

    I know it’s a losing battle and I’ve lurked through some bodacious B.S. inspired comments, but this latest round of …

    “OMG! You Loons are SO obsessed with a relationship that was over SO long ago! All the parties have long ago moved on, why haven’t you? Why are you hating on Jen? She deserves some happiness after all that she’s suffered, I’m getting verklempt just typing about it! She hasn’t done anything to anybody and she’s moved on and she’s in love and happy and he’s HOTTER and BETTER than BRAD ever was so who cares? … That Brad needs to keep his nasty, cheating mouth shut! Why does he feel the need to hurt Jen by talking about how ‘he’ felt before and during ‘his’ marriage, especially after publicly humiliating her? He MUST be jealous!”

    … crap has taken everything out of me. I’m done. It’s back to lurking for me, except for the odd comment now and then.

    But you ladies et al (you know who you are), you ladies seriously rock the shit! Can I say that here? 😀

  231. Maeve says:

    Are we forgetting that Jen & Justin were sasahaying all over NYC for a week or two in June 2011? Basically right after Heidi had been dumped and EVICTED?

  232. Shawna says:

    The big difference, “HeidiBitchy” is that Angelina and Brad did not have an affair, so they did nothing at all to Aniston. Sluttifer broke up a 14 year relationship. And btw folks, despite the lies and spin from Aniston fans, Justin and Heidi were not ‘on and off’, they were together solidly for 14 years.

  233. Shawna says:

    Learn the lesson, when will YOU get it???? This is NOT the 1940s. Marriage is totally and completely passe and irrelevant. Sorry you can’t handle the TRUTH, but the truth is marriage has NOTHING to do with how strong a relationship is, and IS *only* a piece of paper. Stop using that as an EXCUSE to excuse Aniston’s actions. There *is no excuse*. This is 2011. Wake up. Your little marriage argument is null and void and will NOT excuse Aniston’s dispicable actions. Got it?

  234. Shawna says:

    “Several named sources from the set of Wanderlust have said there was nothing between Aniston and Theroux during filming”
    Allenpoe, that means nothing to those who slammed Brad and Angelina based on tabloids yet sources too, said nothing was going on onset during Mr and Mrs Smith. Your whole post is apologetic and excuses. Btw, it is indeed fact that Heidi and Justin lived together for those 14 years, not ‘off and on’ like some of the Jenloons invented out of thin air.

  235. Shawna says:

    dee dee, since when has Aniston NOT had a break?! She has had break for seven long years! When is Angelina going to get a break? Huh? Its long overdue for Angelina. Time to even up the score. And Angelina has been villified for something she never did, for seven long years. TeflonJen has gotten away with *far* too much for FAR too long. Its about time people gave Angelina a break, and called Aniston on her homewrecking, conniving, and scheming for once and for all. Btw, Angelina, unlike Aniston, has never stolen any man. The tabloid lie about Dern (who wasn’t even engaged to BBT) was debunked a long time ago. Dern and BBT were over a couple of months before he married Angelina, and Dern’s publicist states this as fact. Yet Dern, who Aniston is good friends with (2 peas in a homewrecking pod?) has homewrecked twice, and was beeping Harper when his wife was heavily pregnant with their child! So that exposes that lie, and shows who is credible. Angelina has been villified for far too long when she and Brad never had an affair and didn’t do anything wrong. I’ve been so sick of Aniston getting away with everything for 7 years. Its time for ANGELINA, to get the break, and for the homewrecking hobag Jen to be exposed for the deceitful, conniving and manipulative homewrecker she truly is.

  236. guest says:

    heidi knew from timeline but chose to ignore. jolie can’t take a break because her face looks like evil.

  237. sandylou says:

    Emma you are missing the boat. Brad took Jen on a holiday and they still looked very much lovey dovey when they got home then he told her he was in love with Bitchelina and Jen threw him out. You seem to have very tunneled vision. Only see what you want to see. I would have thrown him as far as I could have got him after telling me that with that witch who has broken other marriages and slept with more than quite a few Americans beside Brad Pittiful and would you tell me you would want him in bed with you after he had bee screwing Bitchelina. I certainly wouldnt.

  238. Emma says:

    @Sandylou, #238 … “Emma you are missing the boat. Brad took Jen on a holiday and they still looked very much lovey dovey when they got home then he told her he was in love with Bitchelina and Jen threw him out.”

    I don’t think I’m the one with tunnel vision. How could Jen kick Brad out after they came back from vacation when they issued a joint separation announcement before they went on vacation? But you’re right … they ‘did’ look lovey-dovey when they got home, even though they was much crying and hugging on the beach.

  239. Dove says:

    JENIFER ANISTON IS UGLY DIRTY BITCH. KARMA WILL HAPPEN TO HER. WAIT AND SEE!

  240. point of view says:

    Heidi Bivens is superficially pretty, but in every photo she has dead eyes, I’m amazed so few have commented on that. Heidi and Justin look really bored and unhappy together, it’s obvious that relationship had stagnated a long time ago. Just look at the photos of Justin and Jen, and see how in love and happy they are. What more is there to say?