“Next Great Baker” contestant killed himself in Oct, TLC announces it now: tasteless?


I’ve actually watched the first episode of this second season of “Next Great Baker” as it was free on iTunes. Just last night I bought the second episode because it was pretty interesting and I wanted to see what happened to everyone. The show is a baking competition judged by “Cake Boss” head Buddy Valastro, who leads a panel of 13 bakers on different timed challenges. It’s similar to other ongoing competition reality shows in that a contestant is eliminated every week. (I prefer the one-off cooking competition shows on The Food Network like “Chopped” and “Cupcake Wars”.) One of the contestants this season, an Iraq war veteran named Wesley Durden, committed suicide in October after filming was completed. Instead of notifying the public when the guy died (which was well before the season started airing at the end of November) TLC decided to air all his episodes first and then put up a little “in memoriam” note after the guy was eliminated from the show! I find that shocking and tasteless. I’ve only seen the one episode, but Durden seemed like a stand up guy and I know he had fans. Here’s more:

Sergeant Wesley Durden, 28, a contestant on TLC’s baking competition “Next Great Baker,” committed suicide after production wrapped in October, according to the Jacksonville Daily News. However, TLC did not mention Durden’s death until after his elimination from “Next Great Baker” on Monday night’s episode.

The network delivered the news in a memorial note after the episode. TLC then released this statement: β€œTLC extends its deepest condolences to the family, friends, and colleagues of Sgt. Wesley Durden, who died Oct. 24. He will be warmly remembered by the cast and crew of Next Great Baker.”

Durden was a Iraq War veteran who had been deployed to Iraq twice. According to the Jacksonville Daily News, Durden was a cook with the 82nd Airborne. He is survived by his wife, his seven-year-old son and his two-year-old daughter.

[From Huffington Post]

I understand why they didn’t edit this guy out of the show after he died like they tried to do with “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” following Russell Armstrong’s suicide. It would have been impossible to cut Durden’s scenes and maintain continuity. There are group baking challenges and he figured prominently in the show. Producers should at least have told the audience prior to the season airing. They could have better honored his memory that way. And/or they could have aired a brief segment in which some of the contestants got together and discussed what Durden meant to them. It just seems so callous to air all those shows and then put up a little note about his death afterwards, like a footnote. It’s like “Oh, by the way, this guy is dead now.” As for Durden’s suicide, I don’t blame the network or the show at all. Who knows what that poor guy was going through. They could have handled the announcement so much better though. I found RHOBH’s response to Armstrong’s death superficial, but at least they tried to talk about it. “Next Great Baker” didn’t even bother.

Here’s a video of Durden’s elimination. He seems so upbeat and positive about the experience. It’s so sad. He was a veteran and a father and it’s just a shame.
(This may only play for US visitors. Sorry about that!)

And here’s his cast interview.

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28 Responses to ““Next Great Baker” contestant killed himself in Oct, TLC announces it now: tasteless?”

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  1. Holly:) says:

    It is so sad to hear things like this. I have to agree, TLC didn’t really honour his memory very well.
    + The first video you posted, when he gets eliminated does work for people in the UK, well, it did for me anyway.

  2. Me says:

    Wow…poor guy :'(

  3. Assistantrachel says:

    I guess expecting TLC to handle such a situation with any sort of class is unrealistic. After all these are the same people resposible for inflicting such programs as Toddlers and Tiaras & My Strange Addiction.

  4. baby says:

    WTF? thats so sad!!! πŸ™

  5. Jess says:

    Tasteless! Good one.

  6. Cathy says:

    Wow, that wasn’t cool at all. Poor family.

  7. GoodCapon says:

    RIP πŸ™

  8. Kendall says:

    How sad and what a poor move on TLC’s part πŸ™

  9. ella says:

    That is so tasteless….I Hope that doesn’t happen in their family . My cousin commit suicide also so I kind of know how his family is feeling

  10. Heine says:

    It is really sad but I understand why they did it that way. They probably assumed that watching the show knowing that one of the contestants was dead would be depressing.

    TLC really didn’t handle it well though and I feel sorry for the guy’s family.

    • Iggles says:

      Yea, it is but then again the network was in a bind.

      I didn’t watch this season of BH Housewives because of the suicide… It’s morbid knowing the person they’re talking about (or complaining about in the case of RHOBH!) is dead.

  11. truthful says:

    this is horrible and they handled it horribly…

    RIP

  12. the original bellaluna says:

    Disgusting and reprehensible. TLC now stands for The Lurid Channel.

  13. laylajanelovesgossip says:

    Oh wow, I didn’t watch it Monday. So, sorry to hear that:-(

  14. jasmine says:

    wow, i watched the episode when he was eliminated and was wondering what was up.tragic.i was thinking maybe he had gotten sick or a car wreck.its so sad to hear that someone was hurting so badly.i pray his soul finds peace in Heaven

  15. qwertygirl says:

    What’s repulsive to me is that I’d bet part of the reason they didn’t do anything when it happened is because then you’d know that at least HE didn’t win. They’re protecting their ratings. You could very well have had people who would have said, “Oh that’s the guy I’m rooting for!” and when they found out he didn’t win, would bail on the show. Is that a huge percentage of the population? Proably not, but it’s one scenario, and TLC is just slimy enough to think of that (“We must take care not to reveal the winner!” PLEASE).

    His family suffered a terrible loss. They have my condolences.

  16. ambergesa says:

    This is tragic and sad. Right now we have record #’s of war veterans committing suicide, homicide, suffering severe PTSD and becoming homeless. It bugs me so bad to hear Repubs bash the other side about not supporting soldiers then continually voting down soldiers pay raises, increases in benefits or increasing $ to their treatment funds. While okaying the businesses that supply contractors to bill the government up to 100x their pay. It can take up to a year for a veteran to get into treatment for PTSD. Then they have to jump through all kinds of hoops to stay in. I’m a pacifist, but I firmly believe that veterans deserve the absolute best of care from the government that sends them to war. That said TLC disgusts me in this case as well. I think they saw the massive neg publicity Housewives got and the ratings ding, as many people couldn’t stomach the exploitation and wont watch. They didn’t want advertisers to back out or the show to be downgraded(paid less by advertisers) thus hid it till after hopefully sucking in viewers. They’ve exploited this man and exacerbated his families suffering.

  17. Lucinda says:

    I can understand not announcing his death before airing any episodes because that could have been interpreted as sensationalistic and done to draw attention to the show. But the “in memorium” should have been posted at the end of the first episode. Then it would have been classy and understated as we see that kind of thing at the end of shows all the time although it is usually in reference to someone behind the scenes.

    • Dhavy says:

      I agree…there’s no win-win situation here but I think if they would have announced it before it aired then the network would seem even worse because they would be accused of exploiting the situation. I hope the family of this young man are ok with this arrangement

    • Bamafresh says:

      I totally agree. If they would have announced in a timely manner, they would have been accused of trying to gain attention for ratings. I think they still could have handled better. Possibly more attention to the issue of the care of war vets and their high rates of suicide and PTS issues.

  18. only1shmoo says:

    This guy seemed really sweet and genuine, which makes the reality of his death so much sadder. TLC pretty much epitomizes poor taste, given the nature of most of its programs, & they handled this badly, as if the ‘in memoriam’ was just a side note; awful >: (

  19. Mooshi says:

    Actually, it seems to be a compassionate move for TLC. If they cut Mr Durden from the episodes his surviving family would not have been able to benefit from the money created from it airing.

    I hope he has found peace and much love to all the veterans serving in hell in the middle east, coming home with PTSD. Hugs to his family.

    Thanks TLC for making sure he is remembered (cause the fake American politicians dont give a damn about our military).

  20. MsCatra says:

    I completely disagree, CB. If they had aired a special show they would have been accused of trying to profit (with ratings, anyway) from his death. I honestly can’t think of a better way they could have handled that. Posting the “in memoriam” after or before the first episode would have made watching the episodes leading to his show elimination seem somewhat morbid. I think they did the best they publicly could in a difficult situation. Also, it’s possible that his family had some say in how TLC handled the “announcement”.

    • Debbie Clark says:

      I totally agree. I would have felt very uncomfortable watching the show knowing the guy had committed suicide soon after. I also agree that it would have looked like they were capitalizing on it. Their announcement showed their sympathy. I think they handled it the only way they could.

  21. Seal Team 6 says:

    I think a prior announcement would have been as bad, if not worse, and TLC would have been rightly criticized for using a death for ratings. I think, after his elimination, they could have had a nice montage of him, like a short bio, and maybe have a military buddy talk about him for a minute.

  22. Elizabeth says:

    This is just so tragic. My heart is so heavy and I didn’t even know him personally. I feel so sorry for his family for this loss. It’s so sad.

  23. JustMe says:

    I disagree. It was not tasteless. Had TLC announced it sooner they’d have been accused of using the tragedy for ratings. My heart goes out to Wesley’s family. πŸ™