Camilla Parker-Bowles finally gets accepted by the Queen after 7-year marriage

Believe it or not, we do get requests for more coverage on Camilla Parker-Bowles, the Duchess of Cornwall. Much like Duchess Kate, Camilla will always be known by her pre-royal name, I think. Most people outside of the UK draw a blank with “the Duchess of Cornwall” but everybody knows “Camilla Parker Bowles.” Anyway, these are some photos of Camilla over the past few months. The pics where Camilla is packing heat are from her trip to Denmark, where she made a visit to the set of the Danish TV show The Killing. Would you like to know what today is? It’s Camilla and Charles’s seventh wedding anniversary. I can’t believe they’ve already been married for SEVEN years. Crazy. So to celebrate their union (eye roll), the Queen has finally deigned to make Camilla a “Dame Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order.” It’s basically the fanciest award the Queen can give her:

The Queen has finally given her daughter-in-law the Duchess of Cornwall the seal of approval by awarding the royal her highest personal honour. Camilla is to become a Dame Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order to mark the seventh anniversary of her wedding to Prince Charles today.

The couple married on April 9, 2005, in a civil ceremony at the Guildhall in Windsor after a controversial relationship spanning several decades. Once seen as the other woman in Charles’s marriage to Princess Diana, Camilla has become an integral member of the Royal Family since she married Charles.

Awards under the Royal Victorian Order are in the Queen’s personal gift and unlike others are bestowed independently of Downing Street. They are given by the head of state to those who have served her or the monarchy in a personal way.

The order was founded in April 1896 by Queen Victoria as a way of rewarding individual service to her. In becoming a Grand Dame, Camilla – who will now have the letters GCVO after her name – will join other senior female royals including Princess Anne, the Countess of Wessex and the Duchess of Gloucester. Some royal observers say they would have expected Camilla to receive the honour before now. Sophie Wessex, Prince Edward’s wife, was appointed to the order in 2010.

But Palace sources stressed there was no snub and said the award recognises the 64-year-old duchess’s hard work as a member of the monarchy during the past seven years. At a time when most women her age would be looking forward to a slower pace of life, she now carries out hundreds of royal engagements each year. The duchess has also taken on a wide range of patronages and travels extensively overseas with the prince on official visits.

The honour suggests Charles’s wife is now fully accepted in the royal family despite the pair breaking royal convention with their marriage. As a divorcee, previously married to Andrew Parker Bowles, Camilla was disliked by the public as the woman suspected of diverting Charles’s affections from Diana. But after his divorce, Charles made it clear that his relationship with Camilla was ‘non-negotiable’ and slowly brought her into the royal circle through a series of carefully organised public appearances. This eventually led to her sitting in the royal box behind the Queen for one of the Golden Jubilee concerts at Buckingham Palace in 2002.

Recently, she has provided valuable support to the new Duchess of Cambridge, who has turned to her for advice on entering royal life. Camilla was spotted at a London hotel last year advising the then Kate Middleton on her upcoming wedding to Prince William. A Buckingham Palace spokesman said Camilla will be invested with the insignia of her rank, which she will wear at official functions, at a later date.

[From The Mail]

Many are taking this as the Queen’s long-awaited acceptance of Camilla. It’s been said for many years that the Queen never cared for Camilla as a person, or as a daughter-in-law. But while Camilla isn’t setting the world on fire with her amazing personality, she has become a conscientious hard-working member of the royal family. Camilla is often described as “accessible” and “down to earth” – she was recently photographed giving a lecture to a horse! And for God’s sake, they’re letting her play with guns. That’s pretty accessible. So it’s nice that the Queen has finally let Camilla come into her special little Victorian Cross club. I tend to think that Duchess Kate has much more in common with Camilla than with Diana – maybe Kate will end up with the same medal after a few years? Or maybe Kate will just go on a few dozen more vacations.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Happymom says:

    Camilla has put in her time-definitely loves Charles and has continued to up her duties. It seems like William and Harry have always been close with her, and close with her kids and grandchildren. While Diana was a superstar, she definitely had emotional issues-there’s none of that with Camilla. I was a huge Diana supporter back in the day-but with the wisdom of age, I can see Camilla’s attributes.

  2. The Original Mia says:

    I have to give Camilla props. In light of Diana’s overwhelming popularity still, she isn’t ever going to be as loved or respected, but that hasn’t stopped her from working hard as a royal.

    She really shined in Denmark. She seemed earnest, approachable and good time, especially when she pulled that pistol on set. What royal would do something like that?

  3. Agnes says:

    ugh, hate to be the grammar police, but either “grants Camilla a medal” or “decorates Camilla with a medal”. 😉

  4. Ravensdaughter says:

    I saw a tape of Camilla at “Jamie’s Farm”, a farm where urban kids can spend time out of the stress of living in Metropolis, and I was impressed.
    I am firmly in the Diana-is-a-Saint camp and always will be. Yet, I was so impressed with Camilla’s ease with the teenagers-one kid even back talked to her and she was totally cool about it-and her comfort with farm animals and obvious joy at being in the not-so -tidy hustle bustle of a farm.
    She won me over. Unbelievable.
    Meanwhile, Charles is doing his little tours and when he interacts with adolescents, it’s like he came from Mars. Did anyone see the film of him attempting to shoot basketball-I think it was in Scandinavia-in one of his Saville Row suits? It was a pretty surreal scene. He is also so red-faced these days I honestly wonder if he has issues with “the drink”.
    My conclusion-Camilla deserves a medal for being married to him. It is so unfortunate that those two didn’t get together in the first place so that Diana did not have to be sacrificed (my take on what happened).
    On the other hand, we never would have had the pleasure of knowing Diana, or her wonderful sons (with the Prince), Wills and Harry.
    Life is full of twists and turns-for royals and royal watchers alike.

  5. Leah says:

    Can’t stand this rottweiler.

  6. Kathy says:

    I think perhaps Kate needs to pay a bit MORE attention to Camilla. Camilla works. Kate plays. I had expected more of Kate and have, so far, been unimpressed with her. Hopefully with age Kate will mature and step up to the plate a bit more. But I fear she will soon use kids as her excuse to not “over-exert” herself with royal responsibilities.

    I like Camilla very much. I don’t think to like her or Diana one must automatically dislike the other. They are/were so different as people, it is unfair to both to compare.

  7. Maya says:

    The queen should have accepted her from the very beginning, and not be so uptight about her lineage – for her to marry someone else, for charles to marry Diana and so on.

    • fairy godmother says:

      It was a different era back then. HM grew up with an expected standard that does not exist today.
      The virginal bride was the standard & Cams did not fit it.
      Cams married before Charles so it was too late for them to consider marriage. Cams wanted marriage & chased after her 1st husband because he was highly popular & desired in his hay-day.
      I wonder if HM would have accepted Cams as Charlie’s new wife had Diana lived because the divorcee image is frowned upon by HM. In fact HM said she will not ever grant another divorce for the remainder of her life.

  8. Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

    The queen doesn’t care for anything that isn’t a corgi, brandy, or her awful husband. I don’t think we’ll get anywhere by using her as some kind of friendship barometer.

    This is a family that breathes infidelity into its lungs but this particular coupling sets people off. What makes this case different? Her plain looks seem to be a bigger affront to the public’s sensibilities than adultery ever could. I mean, whatever–but when did physiognomy come back?

    The Windsors have to stop telling people who to marry, they’re not good at it.

    • bettyrose says:

      “The queen doesn’t care for anything that isn’t a corgi, brandy, or her awful husband.”

      Hey, no judgement. If I had all the money in the world . . .

    • Jane says:

      Because you would know what Queen Elizabeth likes because you hang with Her majesty all the time right?

      Of course she cares for her husband whether or not he is “awful” but I am sure she cares about other things her country, her family and her duty. Which she has done outstandingly all her life. Over 300 functions a year isn’t all that easy for the over 80’s.

      We use her as a barometer because like it or not that is her role as head of that family. It may not be as palatable these days but it is tradtion. Plus what mother doesn’t interfere a little with her childrens love life. She just does it on a more formal bigger stage.

      Camilla was always widely disliked and this was mainly due to comparisons between her and Diana. Not as many people were thinking oh she isn’t good enough for Charles because the Queen didn’t like her prospects 30 years ago.

  9. fairy godmother says:

    If QM’s decision to give Cams the medal was based on Cams hard-work the Queen must have been comparing Cams work schedule to Waity’s poor-work efforts.
    The medal is to be awarded based on excellence & hard-work. The medal is not to given based on acknowledging Cams has become part of the RF. The medal is meaningless now.
    But, heck she is the Queen- she can do what ever she wants.

    • flowerpot says:

      It’s not really a medal, it’s an order, you get to wear a sash and ‘badges’ at grand functions, it’s about time Camilla has it, QEII’s other daughter in law Sophie, the Countess of Wessex has had one for years. BTW Kaiser its not the grandest order the Queen could give her The orders of the Garter, Thistle and British Empire are higher. This one is strictly given for personal service to the Monarch.

      Neither Diana or Fergie were awarded the RVO……interesting.

  10. daz says:

    she’s looking a little tooooo happy holding that gun, and it’s slowly being pointed at that poor girls face!!!

  11. Nymeria says:

    Ack. The way Camilla is handling that handgun is making me cringe. Never, ever point a gun at anything you aren’t willing to destroy. (Yes, I know it is probably a toy gun, but it is best to get in the habit of handling every gun, even toy ones, properly.)

  12. Eleonor says:

    Well Camilla waited Charles for all her life! Waity senior!

    • Nikkers says:

      Camilla didn’t wait for Charles. Quite the opposite. She wanted to get married and have a family, and he was waiting so she said bugger off and found someone else.

      • JulieM says:

        Just so Nikkers: If Charles hadn’t been such a dithering fool, he and Camilla would have been married long ago. She could only wait so long. Then she married someone else.

        Camilla has her faults, certainly, but she understands Charles much better than Diana ever did. I’ve grown to like her; she seems to be a very down to earth sort. And Waity could learn a thing or two from her work ethic.

  13. jferber says:

    Camilla and Charles are and always will be pigs. The queen is a disgrace. This is like The Great Gatsby in some ways, with poor Diana as Jay Gatsby (yes, there are some differences, too). Charles is a coward and a cad.

    • Jane says:

      Seriously? The Queen is a disgrace? No evidence to back up this generalized harsh comment about a woman who has spent her entire life serving her country? The Queen has over 600 charities that she supports, what a villain and disgrace

      You can’t compare what you see on the outside of someones life to a fictional story. We know a lot less about the royal family than the media make us think.

  14. Emily says:

    I like Camilla, and I hope she really is helping Kate adjust to royal life. And, not that this has anything to do with anything, but I reckon Camilla would be a lot of fun to have a few drinks with.

    • Laura says:

      I agree – I would love to have a beer with Camilla because she seems like she’d be funny! Plus I’ve never got any vibes that paints her as being fake or self absorbed like some others (such as Kate).
      I loved Diana but I also love Camilla. I think she is Prince Charles’s soulmate. It’s unfortunate that they had to hurt Diana in the process to getting to where they are today, and their behaviour was definitely NOT cool, but they are human and make mistakes like the rest of us. That said, they have loved one another for almost their entire adult lives and it is very nice to see them be able to live out the rest of their lives together.

  15. crtb says:

    I lke her. I think that she and Charles have the ultimate love story. She was and remains his one and true love. Pople couldn’t understand how he could love her and not the thin and beautiful Diana. The queen made a mistake not letting Charles marry her and forcing Diana upon him.

    • flowerpot says:

      I wonder if Camilla would be getting such flak if she wasn’t such a plain Jane and looked more like her great grand mother Alice Keppel (Edward VII’s mistress and perhaps the love of his life) there are some strange parallels between Alice/Edward/Alexandra and Camilla/Charles/Diana

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice_Keppel

  16. Jones says:

    QUEEN GOT INTO A DIFFICULT SITUATION, Camilla blackmails her, so the queen goes to the small concessions.
    Catherine, Pippa – Camilla’s protégé, Chelsy also works in her firm. Harry does not love Chelsy and does not want to marry her, Chelsy confessed that he cheated on her and not once, all of these novels are designed for newspapers and are Camilla’s pretence.
    Harry tearfully begged his brother not to marry Catherine.

    • Insider says:

      Camilla earns money on different famewhores profiles’ improval. These girls are just public mattresses.

    • Mr.Truth says:

      Harry gave a fierce resistance, he escaped Charles/Cam anniversary. Today Charles expressed his dissatisfaction, Harry went alone to Romania, notice – without Chelsy or any other famewhores, with whom according to Camilla’s version he’s in love. Why did not he take on vacation “head over heels”? why Chelsy pursues him everywhere in vain? I know, he was sending secret signs to his real girl, I just hope that all these Camilla’s tabloidstories will not affect their relationship.
      and when Harry talks about “someone to fulfill the role” – of course it’s not about Saturday Club Girls!

  17. Resident Evil says:

    what Camilla this for? I think when she will become the queen, Diana’s boys will be under control of her bogus barren bittches, thus she wipes off their mother.
    I hope before Camilla gets this,Royal Institute will be eliminated, this is the evil that is trying to take decent image.But instead looks grey and ugly.

  18. Boo Boo says:

    prostitutes to the Queens!!!!!!!!!!! Camilla, put the order on the place with which you earned it

  19. I was never a big fan of Princess Diana although would never wish her any harm.
    I am very fond of Camilla it could be that we are the same age.
    The Dutchess never puts a foot out of place , she never embarasses the Royal family.
    Thumbs up for Camilla.

  20. booty says:

    i will never ever,ever,ever like this inherit mistress camcUm wrinkly whorey, of her grandma high prosti social climber dead n living evil n demons

  21. booty says:

    ok.make camilla queen n u will see what will happen to the country UNITED KINGDOM n she will do everything to do all the CRUELTY to the 2 son of My PEOPLE PRINCESS & PRINCESS of the WORLD Ms.DIANA SPENCER,PRINCE WILLIAM & PRINCE HARRY & PRINCESS KATE…mark my word,n it will happen…

  22. booty says:

    camilla never embarrassed the royal family oh c’mmon see a doctor sally taylor, r u blind n deaf of what scandal they made n went up to killing of the princess of the world & peoples princess Ms.DIANA SPENCER,bringing the 2 handsome son,william & harry cut the mother image that can princess diana can give to her 2 son,well i cant help it ms.taylor if u choose camcUm homewrecker n this charcam emotioanally attacked princess diana to death,n if u think Princess Diana embarrassed the royal family,if u are being emotionally attacked n u can see on ur 2 eyes this 2 adulturous living evil,what will u do,just waiting n sitting on d 4 corner of the home,while they r happy n enjoying their adultorous,LOOK!PRINCESS DIANA IS A VERY BEAUTIFUL N SEXY N BEUTIFUL OF HEART,WHO WILL NOT BE SMITTEN TO HER PERSONALITY,SHE CAN EVEN MS.UNIVERSE IN UNITED KINGDOM N MS.WORLD IF SHE RUN FOR IT…IF I AM A MAN,DO U THINK I WILL NOT BE SMITTEN TO HER BEAUTY,KINDHEARTED,DOWN TO EARTH LADY,of course I WILL,it so happen i am a female like her…i love princess diana,william,kate n harry…xxx

  23. booty says:

    to all over the world…xxx my love for princess diana,prince william,princess kate,prince harry will be forever n ever amen…xxx make all blah,blah,blah,my love for them n respect will be intact all the rest of my life…xxx