It’s LeAnn Rimes’ birthday. Today. Not yesterday. Not this past weekend. Not a week ago. Today. I’ll totally understand if you didn’t even realize that LeAnn’s birthday was today, because LeAnn has been tweeting about her 30th birthday for – NO JOKE – more than a month. We even covered some of her “early birthday celebrations” last week, in which LeAnn wore a bikini and drank tequila, which… happens pretty much every day in LeAnn’s life. Anyway, “somehow” LeAnn managed to get People Magazine to cover her 30th birthday party (one of many), and People wrote up a nice article and they even managed to get some exclusive video (which you can see here).
When LeAnn Rimes turns 30 on Tuesday, she won’t be missing her 20s one bit.
“Die, 20s, die!” was the theme of the country star’s birthday party, which she celebrated with 20 friends and family members at a private Laguna Beach, Calif., home on Aug. 18.
“I’ve been ready to leave my 20s behind,” she tells PEOPLE. “I had so many amazing things happen in my 20s, and I also had a lot of hard lessons to learn.”
“I really have been truly excited about turning 30. I’m ready to be stronger than ever. It’s a new chapter,” adds Rimes, who shared an exclusive video of her birthday bash with PEOPLE.
Rimes’s husband, Eddie Cibrian, was there to give his wife a kiss after she blew out the candles on a birthday cake, which was topped with a mini-version of Rimes in a bikini standing atop a coffin. “I’m stompin’ on my 20s, stompin’ ’em out,” she says.
Rimes, who is gearing up for the upcoming release of her latest studio album, Spitfire and a fall tour, says she found the cake topper designed by a friend “hysterical.”
“It’s funny that people have this obsession with me in a bikini,” she explains. “I’m on the beach. What am I supposed to wear?”
“I grew up with chronic psoriasis my whole life and the last six years is the first time I’ve actually been super healthy: my skin is clear, I’m taking care of myself, and since I’m turning 30, between psoriasis and my [bottom] sagging, I only have a few more years to do it so I might as well wear one,” she says with a laugh.
Birthday Gifts
In addition to the sweet smooch, Cibrian, gave his wife another early birthday present: a rose gold and diamond Cartier “Love” bracelet.“I’ve always wanted one. I cried so hard when he gave it to me,” says Rimes. “He’s always so thoughtful.”
Another memorable present? “A friend I’ve known since I was 15 had everyone make a little video about their favorite memory of me, and he put it all together. It made me cry for half a day,” says the birthday girl. “I have a beautiful life – I am lucky.”
LOL. Just… LOL. There are so many details that made me giggle. Like, the exhaustive explanation of why she always wears bikinis – she’s on the beach! She can only wear bikinis for a few more years! She has skin problems! She’s just like us! Etc. But I love the part about her birthday present. I wonder how Eddie knew what she wanted for her birthday? Maybe he knew because she picked it out, bought it and told him to wrap it and give it to her for her birthday? Because seriously, can Eddie even afford to buy a Cartier bracelet? That being said, I can’t believe LeAnn hasn’t tweeted a photo of the bracelet yet. Remember when she tweeted a photo of her fug-as-hell “anniversary ring”? I miss LeAnn’s photos. Truly. She’s just launched a new members-only site in which members have to pay $12 for the privilege of seeing LeAnn’s exclusive photos and reading her mind-numbing thoughts. I was going to offer some kind of prize for anyone who wants to join the site and forward me all of LeAnn’s thoughts and photos, but really… I don’t think this will last very long. Her TMI will come back to Twitter soon enough.
Thirty years of smooth sailing on the S.S. Cray-Cray:
Photos courtesy of Fame/Flynet.
Well stay tuned CB because, having grown up with a person with borderline personality disorder, this mess gets WORSE with age. Not better.
“Die 20s, die”? A cake with her atop a coffin? That’s not cute and funny…that’s deranged.
Yeah, what a f.ckin’ weirdo. She has such a bizarre way of looking at everything in her life. It’s Leann’s Bizarro World. Stomping on a coffin? Oh KAY. Die 20s die? But but…her 20s is when she stalked her now husband and was inappropriate with her stepkids! I thought her 20s were wonderful?!
She has a thing for cakes, doesn’t she…in a bikini, stomping on a coffin. Okay, LeLe , we know you read these, so please, if you recognize my name after you deleted me from twitter, please, for all humanity, do not call me. AND PLEASE don’t hunt me down and kill me because you’re crazy.
I thought your comment was funny Kelly, then I realized you have good reason to be serious.
There’s lots of people who live on the beach in Cali and none of them are photo’ed as much in a bikini as she is. And we all know how much she likes to call the paparazzi and put out her own twitter bikini pics. Same old delusional Leann, different day.
LOL…great post! Love how Ediot high-fived wewe (anything to avoid the awkward smooch)! I think the SS Cray Cray is going to sink soon.
Lol, I was watching the vid after I have read your comment. SO TRUE, hilarious!
What are you talking about? Eddie gave her a big ole smooch at the end of the video.
I loved that part of the video too! And ‘Ediot’ gave me a good chuckle!
the body language is sooo awkward. the strangling kiss was the worst part. you know she’s rewatched that video a few times, how can she not see it?
Leann is nothing special. You can find thirty-something loons anywhere.
Why is it I have a future vision of LeAnn… on the beach at 80… looking like the Duchess of Alba in her bikini? All pasty still desperate to rock the bikini…
I guess those pictures of the Duchess is haunting me from yesterday.
She looks way older than 30 to me…..
ITA! I can’t believe she’s only 30! She looks at least 10 years older to me.
I honestly thought she’s been in her thirties for a while now… I can’t believe she’s only 8 years older than I am.
I know! As I read the title I went: “WHAT?! This crazy tart is ONLY 30?!”
She looks much, much older to me. As in, I kinda justified her in the past for being always in bikinis since I figured she was probably real proud of how her body looked at past 40s. Wow.
So she’s ruined in the head AND she does not have that much though, weathering life experience to justify that with. Ugh.
+1. I thought she was well into her 30s by now, until I stopped and remembered that she was only slightly older than I was when she first came out.
Oh and by the way, LeAnn, there are a lot of good looking women who wear bikinis well into old age. One of my aging role models is this lady on our local beach who is apparently in her 70s (!) and is fitter and more able to wear the bikini than most people my age. Truly a beautiful fit woman.
I was stunned to hear her age, as well.
She’s DEF got that Blohan “I look like a badly aging 45 year old” thing working for her.
YIKES 🙁
Um when I turned 30 I was bummed to leave my 20’s behind. Die 20’s die? What a horrible sentiment.
There is no way this chick is younger than me. Man she looks rough.
How does she think up so many stupid ideas for cakes? Is she high?
Bi-atch, – the only way being in a bikini 24/7 would be acceptable was if you worked on Baywatch.
But I don’t think the Hoff would be down with that.
I think this headline may be your best ever, Kaiser.
I believe the SS Cray-Cray is on rocky seas…what will the next 30 years bring? (Seriously, can you imagine LeAnn at 60…)
When are we going to find out that Eddie is cheating on her officially so this mess can come full circle? Can you even imagine how amazing that is going to be?? and all I’ll say is BAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Oh leanne.
This^^^
Wouldnt it be perfect if that National Enquirer story came out today, on her birthday?
It would be like a gift for those of us who are sickened with her hyena face in a bikini everywhere.
Aside from that, Lizzie’s lips in that pic are hysterical, looks like she just had a fresh sausage stuffed in them
She has actually managed again to be the only celeb out there (aside from Courtney whats her name and Kim K) to saturate the tabs with her bikini pics. I really dont think anyone enjoys seeing them other than herself and she’s just too stupid to see that.
That would be heaven sent!!! But something tells me she is bent on nipping these in the bud via attorney threats. Her comeuppance is way past due~~Eddie’s too.
She makes me sick of birthdays all together (mine in 3 days). Grow up and loose some weight while you’re at it, you cow. Gosh, what a fatty. I also hate that she is a fellow Virgo.
I love all the comments about her on people.com
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20624624,00.html#disqus_thread. She likes to make out like it’s just a “few haters”. Riiiight.
It was embarrassing the way her hubby wanted to high-5 her and she went in for the kill. You can hear the theme from “Jaws” if you listen closely enough. He scurried away from her purty dang quickly huh?
Wow, I can be really sarcastic early in the morning.
Here is a secret message for you LeAnn :
Bran-py Birth-di!
Don’t pull your hair out trying to solve the puzzle. Or after you do.
Hee hee hee
That totally made my morning!
That pink bikini would look so cute on me!
“…people have this obsession with me in a bikini”. WTF. It’s called aversion not obsession. And ole Ed sure didn’t look too excited about smooching on you in that vid Leann. Sorry girl.
That was my favorite line of the whole interview! i was reading this on the bus this morning and i snorted out loud when i came to that part. Especially because like every gossip blogs headlines lately are like this;
surprise, surprise guess who is in a bikini (again)
or
Leann’s sexy bikini beach day (with Eddie & kids)
or
Falcor beats the heat in a bikini
“The lady doth protest too much, methinks.”
she will really lose her shit when this guy cheats on her.
up until now, i think we have just seen the surface of her crazy. i get the feeling its like an iceberg.
I was reading up on astrological signs yestrday.The funny thing is they say Virgo is one of the most annoying signs(not you Cam😁)
I can’t believe I share a birthday today with this looney tune…… Geez.
Best wishes (you have my sympathy for having to share the day with nutso).
Happy Birthday! Don’t be sad and celebrate your non-crazy life 😉
nope. Leann has to share her birthday with you! happy birthday & high five;) have a great bday!!!
Thank you guys for the bday wishes !!!! And I should have wrote toon not tune- see getting older sucks! Lol
Kaiser, the prize would have to be a Lamborgini or at the minimum a brand new corvette to get me to spend $12 to join her members only fan site. Ewww, ain’t no way I’m giving that skank my money.
I can’t believe I have the same birthday as this nut job
I just CANNOT with this nutjob.
Hahaha there were soooo many gems in this post! LeAnn giveth bountifully with the crazy.
I want a post of everyone’s favorite memories about LeAnn in honor of her birthday!! Like the Lohan rap sheet someone put together. One of my faves: her saying something like “It’s my first Easter as a wife!” after marrying EC… though she was married to poor Dean Sheremet for seven years prior to that.
I remember that gem, it was classic! She rewrites history to suit her.
She’s such a cheeky b*tch! I’m 36 and my bottom looks just fine in a bikini. And at least I have one, Leann. And all the countless stars over 40 who would blow LR out of the water with their bikini bods. Jen Aniston, Halle, Brooke Burke, and even Brandi. And she continues to wonder why people dislike her.
So, are all of you “experts” diagnosing the Borderline personality disorder, or is there a real expert (i.e. a psychiatrist) alleging that is what she has it? I doubt she has publicly admitted it. That’s a pretty heavy diagnosis to throw around if it’s just speculation. From the Mayo Clinic, see:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/borderline-personality-disorder/DS00442
Speculation-gossip- about a legitimate and serious mental health diagnosis only makes life more difficult for the people who have it and are trying to cope with it. The same for their families.
I could care less about LeAnn-what I do care about is the people with borderline personality disorder who are trying to cope and may be compared to her. She could have a range of mental health issues-diagnosing what she has (or does not have) is the job of a mental health professional.
It could be malignant NPD or ASPD since there are so many cross over traits within the personality disorder family. Sociopathy was(not so long ago) called “moral insanity” and not considered a form of insanity. And to this day cannot be used in a court of law as a defense in a criminal case~~because the disordered one is fully aware of the havoc they create. It gives them a sick sense of pleasure. Twisted, yes???
Best we research these things before expressing bleeding heart sentiments and misunderstandings.
Relax! I highly doubt people will get offended by the diagnosis on Celebitchy! It’s a celebrity gossip site not Psychology Today!
so true since I work in mental health celebitchy has become my fav hangout after a tough day @ the office
I suggest you do some research on all of Leann’s sociopathic behaviors, this site is a great place to begin. Just do a search on her name and read the articles and posts giving very detailed proof of her behavior. Many of us who have watched her over the past few years are frightened for her step sons and the people she is stalking.
That video was embarrassing. All her “friends” and Eddie tried to quickly run away from her after they pretended to care that she was blowing out her candles. I cringed. Hard.
I like her party theme; I’m planning something similar. I don’t see a problem with with her explaining why she favors bikinis, either. I know everyone hates on her because of her marriage and events leading up to it, but she doesn’t need to get ripped on for every little thing she does.
What theme is that? Standing atop a coffin in a bikini for your cake? Stomping out your 20’s to forget you cheated on your ex-husband and stole someone else’s in that decade? Partying with tequila for 30 straight days? How is this a THEME??? Find a different idol.
Idol? Ha. I like the party theme, and yes, stomping out your 20s is a theme, regardless what you’re stomping out.
I hope she reads these posts. People here talk so positively about other celebrities like Angelina Because even though she’s had a troubled past she is graceful and is leading a good life. This girl is so full of herself that people hate her. You are absolutely right. She stole someone’s husband and pretends like she is a first time bride. I think people don’t like the way she looks because they can read her personallity off her face–hard,high on herself and crazy!
Leann as always is an idiot. Me, me, me, I, I, I. I’m not in a good mood so please forgive me if I just don’t give a shit about this hideous human.
Ironically, my itunes just started playing a LeeAnn Rimes song right when I started reading this story. Remember when all she was known for was her amazing voice? I miss those days. I can barely listen to her music anymore and that’s a shame. Thanks, famewhore.
I saw some comments about the People video where after singing happy birthday to LeAnn, Eddie extended his hand to give her a congradulator “high-five” instead of a kiss.
Some people might think Eddie has lost his passion for her but a “high-five” is an expression of deep affection for a man.
Case in point. A few years ago I was holding a baby and my husband said we looked adorable just as he was leaning in to kiss me. At that moment, the baby vomitted pea soup all over my blouse and my hubby smiled and gave me a high-five instead of a kiss.
So, see a high-five for a man is…..heyyyy, wait a minute.
Hahaha! This is awesome.
I’m visiting family in laguna and was walking past the beach a while ago (around the 18th) and saw a woman in a string bikini sitting in an odd place (grass above the volleyball courts) bc it was so conspicuous–right between the road and the beach’s social epicenter. Hard to explain w/o a visual, but my family’s lived here 30+ years and I’d never seen someone in a bikini there, cross legged in the grass facing the road. So I looked at her curiously, and my first thought was that woman is quite skinny and, when she looked up at me, wow, that woman has crazy eyes. And from her look she thinks (hopes?) I recognize her as someone important. Must have been LR. I considered it at the time, but didn’t know she’d been in Laguna.
just saw the people pix –yep, same beach, recognize the rocks and picnic tables.
OMG! I know the exact spot. I like St. Anne’s because it’s a couple blocks down and less busy, but in a bikini on that grass facing the street?
Where the protesters hang out? Love it.
if this is true.. wow.
‘“It’s funny that people have this obsession with me in a bikini,” she explains. “I’m on the beach. What am I supposed to wear?”’
I think the question is, why are you always on the beach?
I have no desire or energy to even comment on this nasty human waste of space. I am BURNED out. Barf-o-rama.
You and I have the same thought pattern today.
Mornin….can I high-five you on those sentiments?!
If you are up for hearing the first pebbles of the avalanche….the Examiner has a article about Meann stalking….
Link?
@ theskinny (hope this works)
http://www.examiner.com/…/leann-rimes-blamed-for-influencing-rhobh-st...
Is there a rumble in the distance?
darn it!
I got a Forbidden 403 error when I clicked that. Does that mean you have to be registered to read it or something?
Try this:
http://www.examiner.com/article/leann-rimes-blamed-for-influencing-rhobh-star-brandi-glanville-s-followers.
It looks like the whole link wasn’t showing.
I’m still hung up on the fact that people pay $12 to see photos and read her masterful insights??? Wow. I can’t even watch the vid. Still photos of LR is all the crazy I need.
Seriously! Who cares about this person other than themselves. Is there another celebrity anywhere who charges people to see their pictures? Look at all the people who have commented here. People hate her!
I meant to say other than herself! That’s all she seems to care about she’s either the most insecure or stuck up person on the planet.
Oh this fuschia bag will bring my outift together perfectly!!
baaahaha. too perfect.
I leather jacket with a bikini? Really? That’s the most crazy thing here if you ask me!
Exactly! If it´s cold enough to wear a leather jacket you should probably not be in a bikini, right?
I wonder if they are trying to have a baby? Must be hard for Leann to choose between trying to keep Eddie by having his children (like he cares) or keep her bikini body.
Somewhat Leanne related, but I’m in need of some advice regarding SWFing and husband poaching. The low class fiancé of my husband’s friend needed a job. She works for cheap and he said ok. I didn’t like the fact that she worked for him and told him to fire her after she used a racial slur to insult a customer. He told her he had to let her go because I didn’t want her working there. That was approximately a year ago and, ever since then, she’s been facebook stalking me (naming 2 of her dogs after my dog and one of my sons and liking about 90% of the tv shows, movies and music I have listed in my profile as interests). She also started posting phantom status updates about wishing she could tell someone about their cheating husband. I talked to her on the phone and asked her if her status had anything to do with me and she said no. However, I recently got a text from an anonymous texting service that said “your husband is cheating on you.” I confronted him and he vigorously denies it. Also, I know I can’t count on her to reveal it because she wouldn’t want her fiancé to find out and leave her. I’ve been acquainted with the woman for 14 years and she just recently expressed an interest in SWFing me. She even asked me for her job back! I don’t know whether she is just screwing with me because I had her fired, or if something happened between her and my husband. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated and sorry for the thread jack!
holy shit. this is beyond creepy – restraining order maybe? 🙁
Sorry to hear this but you should inform your husband of every aspect of the SWF situation and then never respond or acknowlege these people in private or in public. They feed on the acknowledgement. Ignore them always until you have to report them to the authorities.
Also, I might suggest cutting off the peen from a cadaver down at the morgue and propping it up in a vase full of flowers for the dinner table. No need to “fishwife” him. He’ll get the message.
If you had to ask him about the cheating, then your trust and marriage are in more danger than you think.
Good Luck Mort. We’re here for you!!
Rita…who the hell are you? Cause I LOVE you!!!!!!!! Everything you said sister!
That’s awful, Mort…sounds like she is messing with your head but a restraining order isn’t a bad idea.
God, I’m sorry Mort! Sounds like a nightmare. Don’t let this fool make you doubt your husband.
An ex friend of mine did the whole anonymous “your husband is cheating” thing to a mutual acquaintance that she had a vendetta against. She would call her at work repeatedly and say “your husband is cheating” or “your husband has been having an affair” and hang up. She would also call their home from pay phones and blocked numbers and hang up so that the woman would think the person was calling for her husband. She even sent her “your husband is cheating” poison pen letters via snail mail. It was all BS. She just wanted to plant the seed of doubt and create problems for this woman in her marriage. She was a very jealous, spiteful person and it was really effed up. I made sure the acquaintance found out what she was doing but had to be very careful because my ex friend would have turned her attention to getting revenge on me if she knew that I was the one who spilled the beans. As for the weird SWF stuff, very unnerving and bizarre. Suspend your Facebook accounts for a while and if you reopen them, make them completely private so that she can’t get info on you.
Mort, I’m sorry. I agree with Rita – you need to tell your husband the full extent of what this woman is attempting to do to you and your marriage, document EVERYTHING, and file for a restraining order. PLEASE do this.
(I’m here if you need to talk.)
Mort, please let the hubs know what’s going on and shut down your social media as well. You cannot reason with or dissuade this type of nutjob. If at all possible, break off any contact-being a target ups the risk.
I am serious-please take care of yourself.
Me too if you need to talk. In addition to everything Bella listed (where are you on the Cracken thread?)
I hoped you blocked her from your FB page and your husbands.
I went through this a couple months ago. He also called her on the phone in front of me and told her to never contact any member of our family again and to never show up to another of his shows or concerts. Crazy, delusional starf*cker.
I also had a stalker who was stalking my kid and SWFing her, even trying to share a birthday party with us after having been banned for life from anything Cirque related.
I love that block function!
Why would your husband tell her he was firing her because you wanted him to? Way to set himself up for a lawsuit for unlawful termination. He should have said it was based on the racial comments she made. She just sounds like a harmless loon. I would suggest you completely cut off contact with her and stop looking at her facebook.
I’m with Rita And the OBLuna. Also
I hate to say this but you need to make absolutely SURE he didn’t cheat with her or you will really set her ire. Snoop girl-snoop like you’ve never snooped before. phone records, computer records, Credit card records and you need to talk to her fiancee immeditately.
Girl look me up if you need to talk-eileenyover on twitter. Just get on & I can fill you in on some things that can help. After the last 3 years-I am VERY aware of stalking and SWFing from crazies…directly and at others.
You can never be too paranoid.
So sorry this is happening to you Mort, there are some of us on here who have been stalked and swf’d and it is horrible. I would suggest speaking with an attorney or two (several give free advice even over the phone) before a restraining order. Sometimes the stalker uses the restraining order to amp up their actions towards you. Even negative attention is attention to them. I also suggest doing a google search and looking up information from the stalking websites. Many people are stalked and harassed and have been able to get through it. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance, I also suggest a book called “The Gift of Fear” written by a personal security expert and considered a go to read for victims of crime. It really helped me. Also it is such a seller, Oprah did a show on it when it came out and then another on the tenth anniversary of it’s release.
Something I have found the most helpful: TELL EVERYONE. Stalkers thrive on lies, manipulation and covering up their actions. Have no shame and tell everyone in your life everything possible about the situation. Even if you did something involved that you aren’t proud of but is relevant to the situation, and will help others understand. Live courageously and honestly. Be good to yourself, take care of yourself, this is a very tough situation and may get worse for a long time. Give yourself lots of grace and lean on others for support. And remember the Winston Churchill quote when fighting the Nazis. “Never, never, never give in.”
If the situation is not going away and you’ve had enough, might I suggest before proceeding with legal action you do the following:
Your husband calls her and allows her to respond with a few words so she is clearly identifiable. Then your husband cuts her off and clearly informs her that the conversation is being recorded before he insists she Cease and Desist all public and private action concerning the matter before informing her that legal action will be the next step.
Your husband must confront her and stand up for his wife and marriage, unless there’s something he hasn’t told you.
Luv Ya, honey.
That is EXACTLY what I was going to tell her. Yep-if your husband isn’t standing up for you with this girl, that is a warning sign.
Oh no!! I know I don’t know you at all and I don’t have any advice, but I really hope everything works out in your favor.
Thank you so much everyone! He does know about the SWFing and thinks its creepy. I’ve told him everything i’ve said here, and he doesn’t see the need for alarm. He just thinks i should unfriend her or get off of facebook like others here have suggested. As per his suggestion, I unfriended her several times and she kept messaging me to be added again. She was super nice about it, and made me feel bad, so I re-added her. After the anonymous text I deleted her for good and she started posting over at our Facebook business page.
I will add that (sometime ago) she posted on the wall of facebook business page wall that her sister saw my husband out at a club at 2am when I was home sleeping with the new baby. He claimed that he was at the pizza place nextdoor to the club and paid the club owner $500 to let me watch the security footage. I watched the footage and he was not there. The stalker later told me her sister must have been mistaken and saw him in the adjoining parking lot. I don’t know if she made a mistake or her attempt at sabotage was foiled, but he did prove himself to be innocent on that occasion.
@thetruth, He talked to her about the slur and the customer (who she directed it at) thought it was funny and “said playfully” and told my husband he didn’t want her to get in trouble for it, but when I caught wind of it I told her he needed to fire her. So when he did, he said we talked and I thought she should be let go (a way of deflecting blame I suppose).
@rita, I may just have him call her to talk while I listen, to see what she’ll say if she thinks it’s just them talking.
@Eileen, I’m going to start by ordering copies of his phone records. I’m not on twitter, but I may sign up to get in touch with you and see what you have to say. He doesn’t stick up for her per se but he doesnt think she’s the one who sent the anonymous message. He thinks it’s a former friend who told everyone he wanted revenge because my husband wouldn’t perjure himself as a false witness in a personal injury suit where the guy stood to make $150,000.
@bells, @rita, @eileen, Full disclosure. My husband and I have talked about my obsession with cheating. My father was a real dog who ran around on my mom and I have always been suspicious of every man I’ve dated (even without evidence). This woman’s preoccupation with me, coupled with the text and her phantom Facebook status updates are just enough to get me super fired-up.
@keats, @lori, @sapphire, @beclove, @brin, @Lizzi, thank you so much.
@caroline, I hope I’m just dealing with a sick-o like your friend (and not a cheater and a sick-o). Thanks for sharing.
Dear Mort,
Distrust is the most corrosive thing to a marriage. It will eventually cause a man to seek solace and comfort in the “innocent” confiding of another. Deeply rooted distrust can easily shackle your brighter angels with a simple mood change. Distrust is worse than the sudden revelation of betrayal because it is omnipresent and so debilitating.
Trust is the foundation of my marriage. It is the foundation of the man I married. I have told him that he is my hero, lover, confidant, life partner, and shoulder to bare my moments of weakness. Should he ever cheat, he understands that he betrays himself and the man he expects of himself so much more than he has betrayed me. Then, he is no one of substance and is adrift to the circumstances and justifications of life.
I will never allow distrust in my marriage. Should he ever cheat, I want to know it immediately and I want to hear it from him, but I will never doubt because of a rumor. If such a thing should happen and I am the “last to know”, so be it but then I will have kept my vow to trust him and played no part in the demise of my marriage or my husband as a man.
Explain this to your husband. Ask him if you can trust him and if he says yes, then let go of all the mistrust. Chase it away with the first inkling of thought from the darker angels. In the end, if he cheats, you are not the fool. He is.
Take Care
Mort-I’m here if you need to talk or bounce things off. I DO know stalkers well. Follow your gut and don’t let your past chose your future in your husbands circumstance. But if you truly FEEL something is wrong-don’t ignore it.
Preach it Rita!
So sorry Mort:(
My husband and I have trust as the number one thing. That’s why when that chick texted him and showed up across the country at his show, he called her right away in my presence and told her to piss off.
Message me if you need to!!! ANd block her from every page you guys have. Not defriend, BLOCK! She can never see your page again or contact you and neither can you. Its like poof, gone.
I’m sorry to hear this!! She does seem unstable. There is software you can buy to load on his computer that catches everything he writes. I don’t know the name of it but this is how my friend caught her husband cheating. I know it’s a bit invasive but it might be worth thinking about. If you need more info, let me know. I wish you the best. xoxo
This post above ^ is for Mort.
@dana, I did think about doing that. However, before he opened up his own business, he was a computer programmer and may be able to detect spyware. I’ll do some research and see how tech savvy one has to be in order to figure that kind of thing out. Thank you.
@Rita, wow! Beautifully said. I’m going to copy that and save it to reread when I’m in doubt. As I said to @Caroline, I’m hoping that I’m only dealing with a sick-o stalker (and not a stalker AND a man with a wandering dong). Marriage was/is very important to him and he seems to be willing to do *almost* anything to put my mind at ease. Perhaps it is best to let things be unless more convincing evidence arises.
Jeez, celebitchy readers, y’all seem to know a lot of crazy stalkers….
@tiff, I decided to talk about it here because I gave him my FB password the other day so he could go back and look at her inbox messages, commenting history etc. So I didn’t want to message you guys there, just in case he happened to read anything else. He’s super private and gets pretty embarrassed when I tell him that I discussed anything personal with friends. I was thinking how difficult it must be for you to have a famous husband and thought you probably came across these type of women (since that seems par for the course in the business); so I’m glad you came over here and read this. I also showed the Facebook stuff to a friend that’s known my husband for some time and she thinks the girl is just a crazy stalker and doesn’t believe my husband cheated. He hasn’t talked to the stalker (as far as I know) for a year. However, she’s been messaging me, calling me and Facebook stalking me this entire year (on and off). I manage our finances, so I pay the credit cards and there’s nothing suspicious there. He doesn’t have his own Facebook account and he’s not suspicious with his phone. I am going to get his phone records though, and if there’s anything suspicious, I’ll make him call her so I can listen to what she says to him when she thinks it’s just them.
I don’t get that too much. My husband is the most loyal man, so he shuts that down right away.
The other day we were fighting about some stupid thing and he told me he loved me so much it hurt and he’d die if I ever left. I totally cried.
I completely trust him. Through almost 24 years, even when the skanks descend on the band, he is always on the phone with me, he is always exactly where he is supposed to be and calls a million times a day. He’s never put a foot wrong and loyalty is number one in our marriage and both our lives.
So, if your hubby is doing what you think he should, trust him. I have had women long ago tell me in the bathroom I slept with your boyfriend last night, and I’m like oh, cool very strange he slept with me last night. Whatever you jealous bitch.
Oh, you should change your FB password again. I wouldn’t want my hubby reading my messages and stuff. Screen shot anything she does, but keep your privacy.
You know my dad was a cheater too, so I used to get jealous, but realized there was no need. I figure also with hubby’s position if something had ever gone on, there would be some dumb groupie waiting to post pics.
@tiff, my husband is very much the same. When we seriously argue my husband gets sick to his stomach. He also calls me several times a day and doesn’t go out with his buddies. My only reservation was that text and coupled with this woman’s mystery status updates and her weird obsession with me. Anyway, thank you for the advice. I’m going to try and get those phone numbers and, if there’s nothing suspicious, let the whole thing go. Also, I’m changing my FB password at the end of the week.
I’ve always gotten the impression from the staged photos of LeAnn and Eddie, that she is really into him and he does not reciprocate the feeling at all. This video just cements that for me. He tries to high five her and she launches herself at him, wraps her arms around him and kisses him. He was literally walking away from her when she did it. Why would she put that out there for the world to see? I makes her look pathetic. Then again, so does celebrating her birthday for an entire month. I don’t know if she is technically mentally ill, but there is something really wrong with her for sure.
CB, Don’t think your cleaver tie in with the ‘S.S.Cray Cray’ & her new ‘SSC, Sh-tfire Social Club’ did not go unnoticed. That’s some good headlining.
That’s all well and fine and good, but there are more important things going on. Like MY birthday on Thursday (it’s my husband’s birthday on Thursday as well, but I’m more important).
Seriously though…she’s beyond weird. She’s an ADULT. You don’t get birthday months when you’re an adult.
True…wonder how she explains that to bonus kids.
Happy upcoming birthday to you & your hubs!
Happy Birthday Samigirl and Mr. Samigirl!!! (Wow, birthdays on the same day? This sounds like a love-stalking to me).
Shhhhh…it took me 5 years to get him! 😉
“30 years sailing the SS cray-cray” this made me lol. Thanks for making my lunch break festive.
pfft, birthdays just mean you’re one day closer to death. Nothing to celebrate really.
Stomping a coffin, yeah… we get the not so subtle message there, Le.
I like how she threw herself on Eddie after all he gave her was a high five..you can almost hear her screaming..LovE meeeee, damn it! LovE meeeeeee!
Everybody just seemed really drunk, but yeah, she did go for it at the end!
I seriously cannot imagine what the baker must think every time LR comes in with her newest idea for a cake. Can you imagine what she was thinking with the sex cake & now “Die 20s Die”? Seriously who puts a coffin on their cake at 29? LR has the oddest sense of humor. I truly will never understand her.
As for the baker….I’ve read the baker’s twitter timeline before & she seems like a normal woman, wife & mother. She’s also, it seems, very religious, as she tweets Bible verses & tweets about her morning devotions. I have to believe that this lady thinks LR is a complete nut, but knows her bakery’s name will be in every mag, so she figures any publicity is good publicity?!
I don’t know. Every cake Leann has had from her has been ugly as hell. Either she makes crap cakes, or she’s not standing up to Leann’s directions and telling her, no, I’m not making this fug cake for you, or at least trying to make ‘pretty’ the bizarre ideas that Leann has for cakes. Even that family one with the photos looked like crap. I’d rather no publicity than Leann’s publicity!
its called group-think and many people surrounding celebs will not tell them their ideas are crazy b/c they want to keep their job, so they’ll agree to anything the nut says or does
@claire I haven’t been impressed by any of the cakes (except her wedding cake) that she’s done for LR, either, but I have seen cakes & dessert bars that she’s done featured in The Knot & they were pretty. I wouldn’t say she’s the best decorator, for sure, but I think she can do a decent job. I agree though, I wouldn’t want this kind of attention.
Well, good to hear she’s getting other publicity besides Leann!
Aw, LeAnn! Happy Birthday, you bat$**t crazy, hot mess of a person!!
PS: CALL ME.
hahahahahahaha
My planning for Leann birthday: (Hold on, it’s beautiful, I never felt so inspired)
Meet up at Leann’s house, for some photo-ops. Leann will pretend you dropped by by accident, play along (You were not invited, I repeat, not invited! It was all coincedence!)
Then all aboard the crazy train which will bring us to the beach. Bikini, headscarfs, mobile phones (for Twitter) available for everyone.
The one who posts the most ‘I love Leann-ish’ photo/tweet will get a french kiss while Ediot watches.
Presents aren’t necessary, just bash Brandi on Twitter. The best basher gets the honor of calling one of Leann’s haters, while she smirks in the background. Extra points if u deny Leann knew anything about it. Even when you are taken to court; Leann didn’t know anything about you bashing haters!.
Oh, and free tequila shots and free pics with Brandi’s kids. That famewhoretrain gotta keep running, so we need to get as much attention as possible! (using the kids for this is not a problem!)
Oh, and if u kiss Leann’s ass throughout the whole day and afterwards say nice things on Twitter you will be guaranteed to get invited for next year’s (cough Brandi cough)-bash.(well 11 months, since the party lasts a month).
TADAAA Happy birthday Leann!
Oh and if u replace the word ’20’s’ with ‘Brandi’ in the article, you get a better idea of her party/feelings.
Example:
“Die, Brandi, die!” was the theme of the country star’s birthday party.
“I’ve been ready to leave Brandi behind,” she tells PEOPLE
‘Which was topped with a mini-version of Rimes in a bikini standing atop a coffin. “I’m stompin’ on Brandi, stompin’ ‘em out,” she says.’
BEAUTIFUL!
You read my mind. The b’day theme is the product of a warped mind around which innocent children should never be.
Now that she made August all about her, what will her next months attention seeking maneuver be to keep her bones and bolt ons in the news. I think it’s really funny that all the “pictures for members eyes only” all end up out there for Free. Jeez LoonAnn, at least send them a t-shirt with a pix of you in a bikini so they can wear it proudly. *snap* 🙂 next months attention seeking maneuver solved!
I hope i look better than that at 30! yikes, u sure she’s not 40?
die 20’s die….that f-ing crazy
Did this cake have a figure of Eddie in the coffin and she stomps on it? Someone mentioned the movies “Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?” and “Sunset Boulevard” as the script for Leann’s life story so I thought maybe she put it on the cake.
That face is never ready for a close-up, Mr. DeMille.
LOL Brin!!
Too funny because in the photogallery that People mag created using the photos from Leann’s “Since it’s Lizzy’s birthday, then it’s also my birthday” birthday party, there are photos of Leann and a very drunk Eddie prancing around in the water on the beach and of Leann sitting on a rock at the beach!
No wonder someone got upset when I pointed out how Leann’s beach photo-ops are the modern day version of the ending of “Whatever Happened to Baby Jane”.
*Raises Glass of Tequila*
Here’s to another 30 years of squinty eyes, garbled singing, and bat sh*t crazy stalking!! CHEERS!
What sort of juvenile a-hole feels the need to celebrate their birthday for a whole freaking month?? Talk about being desperate for attention, ME ME ME MEEEEE!!!! Besides, that’s the kind of stupid sh*t that Paris Hilton pulls….
She is so beyond desperate. Birthday month? Seriously? And a cake with her in a bikini stomping on a coffin? WTF? The most hilarious part of the video was when Eddie tried to give her a high five and she jumped onto him like a predator pouncing on it’s prey.
Leann didn’t just get People mag to do an exclusive, she also gave them photos from that party so that they could create a photogallery of the party for today . Can you guess what the funniest part of the photos were? Eddie is SO drunk that he can’t even stand up straight, Leann is holding him up. And yeap, Eddie has alcohol in his hands. Poor Leann. Why does Eddie have to be drunk just to touch Leann?
You left out the best part of video that People magazine’s posted. They write that Eddie gives Leann a kiss, but when you watch the video after Leann blows out the candles, Eddie tries to run away. Leann grabs him, jumps on him, and then kisses him.
Leann must be paying People magazine very well because why would they write a story that greatly contradicts what they are saying?
Oh wait, isn’t Leann saying that the paps are ALWAYS following them? So then how come Eddie was able to “buy” the bracelet without one pap getting photos of him “buying” it? That’s right because the paps are not following Leann, she is calling them.
So Leann posts photos and video from her birthday to her “Eddie isn’t cheating because…” website, only to turn around a week later and give the video and photos from that party to People magazine. Are her fans upset? Do they feel betrayed? For those people who actually joined the site, if they had just waited a week or so, they could have viewed the photo and video on People mag for FREE!
The sad part of this is that the media isn’t asking the right questions. Leann thinks that turning 30 is a BAD thing because Eddie thinks that turning 30 is a BAD thing. The only person obsessed with Leann being in bikinis is Leann, hence why she changes them twice in one day, tweets to bikinis companies about how she loved the free bikinis she received, and is always taking photos of herself in them when Eddie is “struggling” with Lizzy. How is Leann any different than Courtney Stodden, who also has a habit of also using bikinis to get attention from the media? How far will the media go to faciliate Leann’s farce?
Can you image the mega media blitz she scheduled for Tuesday? If we thought that last years back to back bikini photo-ops and 3 bikini changes in one day were bad, imagine what she invited GSI/FameFlynet to capture.
I see that Leann was tweeting on Eddie’s twitter account in June. You can tell that Leann made the posts on Eddie’s twitter account because she posted a photo of the “last day” that Eddie was on the set and she made sure that the photo didn’t include Josie D. It’s just one of Eddie and the guys. And of course the dead giveaway that it was Leann posting on Eddie’s account is the fact that “eddie”(aka Leann) posted the same retweet that Leann had posted to her twitter account that same day. Also notice how “Eddie” doesn’t answer anyone back. “Eddie”(aka Leann) makes a general tweet and then all other responses made to him by his “fans” are ignored. Someone asked when the movie was coming out and “Eddie” didn’t bother to respond? Wouldn’t Eddie know when the movie as coming out? But Leann, the person posing as Eddie wouldn’t know.
What really makes it obvious that Leann was tweeting from Eddie’s account. The photo was posted on Jun 25th, the day that Eddie had to skip Leann’s concert and everyone thought that Eddie lied about going to work because he was trying to cover up the fact that he was with his mistress. Just because she posted a photo on the set on the last day it doesn’t mean that he wasn’t with another woman. Wasn’t he cheating with Leann in his trailer when he was on the set for the Lifetime movie? I find it funny that Leann says she has nothing to prove yet she keeps doing all these things that says otherwise. Eddie looks drunk in the photo too. So in the staged photo-ops that he set up before going to “work”, Eddie was drunk.
So did Leann make Eddie take a picture with Eriq L and Micheal to prove to Leann that he really was at work and not off with his mistress? And Leann claims that her marriage to Eddie is solid.
sorry the link is long. this is the main thing that bugs me the most about this whole saga: leann has zero boundaries, with everything. now she puts out more photos of her and the youngest boy to her ssc club and then charges her fans $13 to see these photos of her and the boys.
i’m only guessing these are from the ssc and then obviously put up by a fan. they were just posted in the last 24 hours,they are completely public and visible to anyone.
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.218275058228342.63464.218125291576652&type=3&l=909fd2601a#!/photo.php?fbid=402593389796507&set=a.218275058228342.63464.218125291576652&type=3&l=909fd2601a&theater
So the famewhoring continues. Staged beach pda/ devoted bonus mom/3-4 bikini changes in one day photo-ops in 3, 2, 1. Since Leannn wasn’t able to exploit the boys in the staged “Eddie isn’t cheating because we hold hands as we leave Nobu” staged photo-ops that she set up yesterday, she has decided to set up a “candid” happy family beach pda photo-op. What a great bonus mom, right? What kid doesn’t like to be exploited because his stepmother has something to prove? How selfish of any child to think that they deserve privacy because what matters most is Leann, Leann, and Leann.
Did you see the Corona in Leann’s chair? How inappropriate was that? What a great message to send to Brandi, right? Leann, DB, DB partner, Mateo, and her fans gave Brandi so much trouble for her DUI, and yet here is Leann holding Brandi’s son as she proudly shows off the CORONA she is drinking while she is being
a “devoted” bonus mom to him. And it’s more than obvious why Leann posted the photo holding the boy in her lap. Leann is just taunting Brandi because of Brandi’s old interview that ROL resurfaced during the week that SMJ was making a comeback.
So are these bikini beach pda devoted bonus mom photo-ops going to be like the bikini beach pda devoted bonus mom staged photo-ops that Leann set up last year? Her Nobu photo-op with GSI was sorta similiar to the one that she and Eddie set up last year too. The only difference is that they made sure that GSI took the photos in the morning and not at night.
So Leann wants us to believe that Eddie loves her and isn’t cheating on her, yet she makes him out to be a liar by constantly posting photos of the boys or tweeting about them after Eddie made it very clear that he didn’t want his kids to experience any type of public exposure and her tried to sue Brandi twice for having the boys on RHOBH!
She truly knows, no limits! I cannot believe she’s posting these for her creepy fans. Nevermind, I forgot who we were talking about for a minute. SMDH!
Leann’s famewhoring just keeps getting worse. Did you see the Question and Answer exclusive interview that she gave Celebuzz about how she celebrated her birthday on Tuesday? Why would she give Celebuzz an exclusive interview about her birthday when she gave People magazine TWO exclusives about it, complete with a video and photos?
What type of person makes this much of a fuss over their birthday? Someone who is desperate for attention. Leann comes off more like a 6 year old rather than a 30 year old woman. I don’t recall very many celebs giving back to back exclusive interviews about their birthday’s the way that Leann has done. And now it seems that her famewhoring continues on with beach bikini pda devoted bonus mom candids. Why? Eddie is cheating and Leann is trying to deflect from the fallout of the recordings and the lack of support she is getting for her “Eddie isn’t cheating because…” website.
It’s sad that Leann’s validation as a person is now defined by her birthday , how many times a drunk Eddie can be photographed kissing or holding her hand, or the number of times she is spotted in a bikini. It’s obvious that Leann only makes a big fuss about her birthday because she is trying to compete with Lizzy. Why does she feel the need to compete with Lizzy? Eddie is sleeping with Lizzy!
The Question and Answer exclusive that she gave to Celebuzz, reads more like a “There is absolutley nothing going on between Lizzy and Eddie” damage control campaign. She is trying to convince us that there is nothing going on between Lizzy and Eddie because Lizzy threw her a birthday party at Nobu. Seriously? No one is buying that. Leann set up her own birthday party and is trying to pass if off as something that Lizzy set up because she can’t deal with the fact that Eddie doesn’t want to be alone with her unless Lizzy is present.
We were right. Eddie didn’t buy Leann ANYTHING for her birthday. Leann bought her own gift. When the interviewer asked Leann what gift Eddie gave her, what does she do? Instead of answering the question right away, she goes into this song and dance about what a great person Eddie is and that she would have been happy if Eddie hadn’t bought her anything. She then goes on about how Eddie, now keep in mind this is the same man who can’t even bother to get his kids ready for school or help his kids with their homework, wrote her two letters. And then only after that she tells the interviewer what Eddie “bought” her. So why the deflection tactic? Because she bought her own gift. Poor Leann. How long before we see Lizzy wearing that same bracelet? I wouldn’t be surprised if Lizzy has that same bracelet.
Why does Leann act like turning 30 is so devastating? She says that she isn’t depressed. Why would turning 30 make anyone depressed? Well her husband is a cheater, so at this point everything in her life makes her depressed.
And as usual Leann attempts to fuel pregnancy rumors because as we pointed out the only talking about Leann getting pregnant is Leann.
Eddie must be very verbally abusive and obviously something must have happened between Eddie and Lizzy during both parties beause why else would she be doing so much damage control?
ROL, People magazine, Celebuzz, x17, DM, JJ, US Weekly, and Eonline act like Leann is the only celeb who has a birthday in August. There were other celebs who celebrated their birthday this month, yet you would never know it. Each year the amount of time Leann spends famewhoring her birthday gets worse and worse. She went from setting up 2-4 staged photo-ops in 2009, to setting up a staged photo-op for about 4 days for 1 week in 2010 and about 2-3 staged photo-ops in Sept while in Vegas, to setting up a staged photo-op 2-3 times every week in 2011, to setting up some form of a photo-op via twitpics and/or actual photos everyday of this month for 2012. Is this an indication of how Lizzy and Eddie’s LovE(did you know that the L in Love can also stand for Lizzy too!) has progressed? The more serious Lizzy and Eddie’s relationship gets, the more Leann famewhores her birthday during the month of August?
Why didn’t these other celebs who have birthdays in August give People magazine TWO exclusive interviews about their birthday party? Or give Celebuzz a special Question & Answer exclusive interview about what roles Eddie and Lizzy played in making her birthday special? How come those same celebs didn’t give US Weekly, the same one who exposed Leann’s affair and of course has ties to Fame/Flynet, an exclusive interview about how she celebrated on their actual birthday? The person who I thought would famewhore their birthday and bikinis the most was Courtney Stodden. How can Leann possibly beat out Courtney Stodden in bikini and birthday famewhoring? Leann is 30 and Courtney is 18. Speaks volumes about Leann.
Where did Leann get the money to pay US Weekly, People mag, Celebuzz, JJ, x17, DM, and Eonline to do these back to back fluffpieces? This means that Leann must have been paid to do the Salk concert and she and Salk were being dishonest. So when they report what they actually made for benefit, they are going to have to subtract the amount of money they paid Leann. No wonder People magazine, Celebuzz, and Eonline hadn’t posted much about Leann’s birthday until AFTER she did the concert for Salk.