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		<title>By: mizliz</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 02:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John-
You look so sad my friend. What is happening to you? Your smile and spontaneous humor with the press used to define you - (And I do hope you read this)- now it is gone. Gone for the past 3 months or so....Ask yourself why? 
Why so SERIOUS? So somber. 
You, and your music speaks for so many. We are sad...The economy, war, box food - you name it. Crappy jobs. (Waiting for the world to change).
Why are you so sad? We have a pretty good excuse.  Are celebrity blogs really what upsets you? Is it Aniston&#039;s permanent angst? Her problem with her past that she, no matter how much she takes off can&#039;t fix...Sadly... You can&#039;t fix either.
Or is it the world in general?
In this season in particular -Find Jesus. Hope.
Your friend and fan.</description>
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You look so sad my friend. What is happening to you? Your smile and spontaneous humor with the press used to define you &#8211; (And I do hope you read this)- now it is gone. Gone for the past 3 months or so&#8230;.Ask yourself why?<br />
Why so SERIOUS? So somber.<br />
You, and your music speaks for so many. We are sad&#8230;The economy, war, box food &#8211; you name it. Crappy jobs. (Waiting for the world to change).<br />
Why are you so sad? We have a pretty good excuse.  Are celebrity blogs really what upsets you? Is it Aniston&#8217;s permanent angst? Her problem with her past that she, no matter how much she takes off can&#8217;t fix&#8230;Sadly&#8230; You can&#8217;t fix either.<br />
Or is it the world in general?<br />
In this season in particular -Find Jesus. Hope.<br />
Your friend and fan.
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Dec 2008 05:36:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that what he is trying to say is that gossip blogs are OK but they have become so nasty that it really isn&#039;t fun anymore.  It is not just him he is talking about.  For example when britney was having a nervous breakdown some blogs continued to make fun of her and post horrible things.  Is that right?  Do we really need to tear down a human like this?  I think that some stuff that is said on blogs now is so rude.  And look how blogs just post someone is having an affair when they really don&#039;t know.  Can you imagine how hurtful that would be for a marriage.  In the past the careers were up for blogs now it is personal stuff from your life.  Look at Perez so nasty, dlisted, etc.  They pull down women horribly.  I think that JOhn means go for it but at times admit that it is all about money and actually as a blog we like you.  All stars know what is being said in blogs whether they pretend they do or not.  some like to pretend they are &quot;above&quot; the whole thing but you can see that they are not by how they answer questions and how they respond.  I actually like stars better who admit that they do know what is being said about them and sometimes it hurts.  We have to remember that these are people - unfortunately the new way to make money and hits is to be mean and pick at little things.  In all honesty for some stars there is nothing they can do to ever have a good word said about them.  Britney is a good example. I honestly believe that the blogs and tabloids have played a role in her problems.  A person can only take so much hate and survive.  Really sad</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that what he is trying to say is that gossip blogs are OK but they have become so nasty that it really isn&#8217;t fun anymore.  It is not just him he is talking about.  For example when britney was having a nervous breakdown some blogs continued to make fun of her and post horrible things.  Is that right?  Do we really need to tear down a human like this?  I think that some stuff that is said on blogs now is so rude.  And look how blogs just post someone is having an affair when they really don&#8217;t know.  Can you imagine how hurtful that would be for a marriage.  In the past the careers were up for blogs now it is personal stuff from your life.  Look at Perez so nasty, dlisted, etc.  They pull down women horribly.  I think that JOhn means go for it but at times admit that it is all about money and actually as a blog we like you.  All stars know what is being said in blogs whether they pretend they do or not.  some like to pretend they are &#8220;above&#8221; the whole thing but you can see that they are not by how they answer questions and how they respond.  I actually like stars better who admit that they do know what is being said about them and sometimes it hurts.  We have to remember that these are people &#8211; unfortunately the new way to make money and hits is to be mean and pick at little things.  In all honesty for some stars there is nothing they can do to ever have a good word said about them.  Britney is a good example. I honestly believe that the blogs and tabloids have played a role in her problems.  A person can only take so much hate and survive.  Really sad
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		<title>By: I Choose Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 16:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Saffron. You&#039;ve hit the nail right on the head. My advice to JM though is just ignore the negative. Some people aren&#039;t going to like you, some may even hate you - it&#039;s a fact of life, suck it up and move on. As a celebrity you&#039;ve gotta take the bad with the perks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Saffron. You&#8217;ve hit the nail right on the head. My advice to JM though is just ignore the negative. Some people aren&#8217;t going to like you, some may even hate you &#8211; it&#8217;s a fact of life, suck it up and move on. As a celebrity you&#8217;ve gotta take the bad with the perks.
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		<title>By: agent bedhead</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 07:45:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He&#039;s certainly changed his tune quite a bit from just a few months ago when he readily courted the paps.

Just because he&#039;s temporarily closed his revolving door of famous one-night stands doesn&#039;t mean he can get all preachy and actually come across as believable. 

Even though he&#039;s got a girlfriend, John knew very well how famous Jen was when he started seeing her, and that&#039;s part of the reason he started dating her in the first place. So obvious. 

If he was actually serious and had changed his mind about courting paps and feeding info to bloggers, then maybe he&#039;d take a cue from Matt Damon or Mark Wahlberg and find a girlfriend/wife who isn&#039;t in show business or at least doesn&#039;t live such a high-profile life. If those A-listers can find women they relate to outside of the fame circle, then it shouldn&#039;t be so tough for John to lower himself as well.

He won&#039;t do that though. Personally, I think he&#039;s full of crap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He&#8217;s certainly changed his tune quite a bit from just a few months ago when he readily courted the paps.</p>
<p>Just because he&#8217;s temporarily closed his revolving door of famous one-night stands doesn&#8217;t mean he can get all preachy and actually come across as believable. </p>
<p>Even though he&#8217;s got a girlfriend, John knew very well how famous Jen was when he started seeing her, and that&#8217;s part of the reason he started dating her in the first place. So obvious. </p>
<p>If he was actually serious and had changed his mind about courting paps and feeding info to bloggers, then maybe he&#8217;d take a cue from Matt Damon or Mark Wahlberg and find a girlfriend/wife who isn&#8217;t in show business or at least doesn&#8217;t live such a high-profile life. If those A-listers can find women they relate to outside of the fame circle, then it shouldn&#8217;t be so tough for John to lower himself as well.</p>
<p>He won&#8217;t do that though. Personally, I think he&#8217;s full of crap.
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		<title>By: vdantev</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 04:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have some advice for him, hire a GOOD stylist, not someone who shops exclusively at The Gap !!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have some advice for him, hire a GOOD stylist, not someone who shops exclusively at The Gap !!
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		<title>By: sasha</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 02:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This douche cares waaay more than he should about what people say about him. How insecure can he be? He seems like such a suckup that when he and Jen got back together my first thought was: &quot;he can&#039;t stand how the public has turned against him since the breakup and that&#039;s the main reason he&#039;s going back!&quot;

It&#039;s like his whole life is for the camera. Why hasn&#039;t he hooked up with Paris Hilton yet. they&#039;re just the same!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This douche cares waaay more than he should about what people say about him. How insecure can he be? He seems like such a suckup that when he and Jen got back together my first thought was: &#8220;he can&#8217;t stand how the public has turned against him since the breakup and that&#8217;s the main reason he&#8217;s going back!&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like his whole life is for the camera. Why hasn&#8217;t he hooked up with Paris Hilton yet. they&#8217;re just the same!
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		<title>By: PJ</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 01:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>boomchakaboom: A lot of John Mayer&#039;s music is available for listening on YouTube, so if you want to know more about him than his dating of celebrity women, check it out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>boomchakaboom: A lot of John Mayer&#8217;s music is available for listening on YouTube, so if you want to know more about him than his dating of celebrity women, check it out.
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		<title>By: Kristen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 00:12:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keltilass ~ 

So nice to see you back... how are your nephews?</description>
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<p>So nice to see you back&#8230; how are your nephews?
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		<title>By: live life</title>
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		<dc:creator>live life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 00:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I myself like Jen, she&#039;s just trying to sell her movie like they all do! Many celebs are overbearing media w*ores 24/7, but Jen not so much compared to others...  and John seems too young deep down and comments on things when he should h-u-s-h and enjoy the ride, enjoy life and the moment!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I myself like Jen, she&#8217;s just trying to sell her movie like they all do! Many celebs are overbearing media w*ores 24/7, but Jen not so much compared to others&#8230;  and John seems too young deep down and comments on things when he should h-u-s-h and enjoy the ride, enjoy life and the moment!!!
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		<title>By: Kristen</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 00:08:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Codzillla ~ 

I think he would have to aspire to be able to crawl up to a rock.</description>
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<p>I think he would have to aspire to be able to crawl up to a rock.
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