Chris Brown gives expletive-filled rant on how to keep ‘a bad bitch’ in line

Chris Brown

Chris Brown must have decided to take an extended break from his upstanding-citizen act after he completely blew it last week by flying into a rage at a valet over a $10 parking charge. For whatever reason (sheer stupidity?) Chris decided to push a DJ aside and give a little speech at the Emerson Theater in Hollywood in the wee hours of Thursday morning, and naturally, someone shot some video of the incident. TMZ has the exclusive clip, which is terribly NSFW and includes Brown’s take on how to keep “a bad bitch” (i.e., Rihanna) in line. Here’s the text of his revolting rant:

“Every guy in this building has said one thing to their female … If you’re not an insecure n*****, and you let her have fun with her friends, I applaud you. But you gotta say that one thing to her, and I made this s**t up. [sings] Don’t make me have to tell you again, that that’s my p***y baby! It is mine, baby, babe, mine. So you better not give it away! … So every person in this motherf***ing building, if you got a bad bitch you better say that to her. Cause she might f**k another n*****.”

[From TMZ]

The really sad part of all this? Rihanna actually likes being treated in this manner. She actually gets off on this nastiness, and it apparently doesn’t matter if Chris is giving his version of “it” away to Karrueche Tran, but Rihanna had better not do the same! These two so-called lovers are the worst, aren’t they? Rihanna wants this though, and so I guess she’s gotta have it. Incidentally, RiRi cancelled her Sunday night Boston concert due to a case of laryngitis. Let’s hope she didn’t contract the ailment as the result of a screaming match with Chris.

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  1. lune says:

    He never was upstanding. Keep digging that hole.

    • PinkG says:

      I do not understand why Rhianna is with him. He is a scrawny, ugly (inside and out) piss poor excuse for a human being.

  2. marie says:

    I’ve always thought Rhianna likes being dominated by the douche..

    • BB says:

      Chris is in the news every week.

    • Jackie Jormp Jomp (formerly Zelda) says:

      She’s an abuse victim. IT’s not really that simple.

    • Annie says:

      Some women definitely like being treated like crap. It’s complicated, but they just prefer controlling, abusive men. My sister always goes for that type. Always. The worse you treat her, the more she’s there. Her ex used to hit her, he stole her money, threatned her, cheated on her. She still misses him. My cousin is the same. I don’t get it. Guy after guy, it’s always a string of abusive men. If you’re a good guy, they won’t even talk to you. And they didn’t learn that stuff at home, so I don’t understand. When I caught my sister reading 50 shats of grape, I legit yelled at her. Like, you can’t stay away from abusive, controlling men even in fiction.

      • Suzy from Ontario says:

        Women that like that have incredibly low self esteem and self worth. They need therapy and it’s a shame that Rhianna’s handlers haven’t encouraged her to get some. She has the money to pay for it, unlike many women who need it.

        It’s sad that beautiful, talented women feel so unworthy inside that they think they deserve to be treated like this. They can’t see that guys like this are the bottom of the barrel. Chris Brown is disgusting imo. What I can’t understand is the female fans who still adore him. Explain that to me someone!

      • marie says:

        my cousin’s like that too, she’s got a bit of saviour complex and thinks she’ll be the one to change them and instead she always ends up extremely hurt, and I have no idea how to help her stop it. (she learned the behavior from her mother)

      • Flan says:

        I have sympathy for all those women, but none left for Rihanna.

        And not just because she has the money or better options, but because she uses it as a way to rebel.

        It’s the first time I’ve seen a woman who actually celebrates the ‘abused lifestyle’.

        They’re both nutcases and I will never spend another dime on their music (like I’ve done before with her).

      • Annie says:

        She’s no different than those women. My cousin and my sister also used this to prove that they were rebels. My sister used to scream at us “You’re just jealous! We’ll get married, you’ll see! We’ll shut you all up!!” The more you tell them to stay away from the guy, the more they hang on to the guy. Until it gets very dark and you see the pathology behind it and just how bad things really are. She’s no doubt a woman with deep issues. And sadly nobody steps in.

    • Gabriella says:

      Rihanna… So much for being ‘bad but perfectly good at it’. Guess she’s not so great at being a bad b!tch after all…

  3. LadyMTL says:

    Ugh, I just can’t with him. Go. Away. Chris. Brown.

  4. Orange_Blohan says:

    Oh how romantic :)~

    • Eleonor says:

      Yea, I was thinking the same thing and if you notice he can be romantic whithout being cheesy. It’s not easy!

      • Orange_Blohan says:

        Yes, a special one he is. He is gonna have to beat the women off him with a stick……..

      • TheOriginalTiffany says:

        Please tell me there was hidden sarcasm in that post.

        It isn’t easy being romantic when you tell your “bitch” to keep her pussy in line?

        This guy is the lowest. Why would any chick ever be with this loser?

      • Eleonor says:

        @TheoriginalTiffany: yep it was sarcasm 🙂

      • The Original Tiffany says:

        I’m so relieved! 🙂 I couldn’t really see a woman actually posting that.

    • Orange_Blohan says:

      @OriginalTiffany yes my posts were loaded with sarcasm, including the one where he is going to need to beat women off with a stick…..

      • The Original Tiffany says:

        Orange Blohan, it was Eleanor I was worried about!

        I saw your sarcasm, but there was no smiley in her response. 🙂

        Someone with a name of Orange Blohan definitely gets the humor and sarcasm on this site. I bet Fist Brown would love to chase off women with a stick.

      • Orange_Blohan says:

        @OriginalTiffany – I can’t really speak for Eleanor, but I do suspect sarcasm LOL.

  5. Faye says:

    Wow, Chris, what an inspiring speech. You should become a motivational speaker, write a book, go on tour, and do a TED talk next *eye roll.*

    Seriously, this . . .thing is so vile, I can’t stand it. I think he knew he’d be taped and didn’t care. I believe he enjoys rubbing in people’s faces how he got away with almost murdering his girlfriend, and how she continues to support him no matter how badly he acts. I would so love to see someone take him down a peg or ten.

    • menlisa says:

      “I believe he enjoys rubbing in people’s faces how he got away with almost murdering his girlfriend, and how she continues to support him no matter how badly he acts.”

      BINGO!

    • Annie says:

      He basks in getting away with it. It feeds his idea that he’s invincible.

      Rihanna needs parents like mine. They did everything in their power when my sister was with her own CB. Because Rihanna will not leave him on her own. Not when soooo many people in her own industry support that relationship. She stands no chance.

      • Flan says:

        And Usher was pressured to apologize when he said something against him.

        There are men in the music industry, who can think of nothing worse than one of their own being taken to account by a woman.

        This is what one of the Grammy producers said:

        “If you’ll note, he has not been on the Grammys for the past few years and it may have taken us a while to kind of get over the fact that we were the victim of what happened.”

        -Yet another piece of trash.

      • jaye says:

        Unfortunately, her parents seem to be just as damaged as she is.

    • Kate says:

      I honestly wouldn’t wish bad on anyone I’ve ever met. But I think Chris Brown is up there with the odd homicidal dictator, in being someone I genuinely hope meets a sorry and extended end.

      He’s like the popular culture reminder of how much naked misogyny there is in our culture.

  6. Amy says:

    To paraphrase an old friend of mine, I wouldn’t go to a postponed rat luau with this guy. And I wouldn’t want anyone I care about to go, either.

    Bleah.

  7. apsutter says:

    Ugh…what an asshat. Can we PLEASE just wash our hands of him now?! Makes me sick how they’re inviting him and celebrating him at the Grammy’s.

    • jaye says:

      I used to kind of feel for him because of his childhood. What he did to Rihanna was disgusting, but he grew up seeing his stepdad beat his mother. Now, I can’t even muster that up despite his upbringing because he’s doing absolutely NOTHING to become a better person. I look at him now and my flesh crawls. He’s disgusting.

  8. lucy2 says:

    Charming as always.

  9. MARIA says:

    someone should tell these kids that if you have to tell the other person that their p*ssy/d*ick belongs to you, it really doesn’t belong to you at all. Probably never did.

    god those two are disgusting.

  10. pfeiffer87 says:

    Isn’t that a Miguel song?

  11. allons -y alonso says:

    The only “bad bitch” I see around here is Chris Brown.

    Chris Brown, you are a nauseating waste of skin.

  12. Ranunculus says:

    He is either embarrassingly dumb or he is making these comments deliberately because this is the only way he has to keep himself in the news.

    Apparently he can get away with saying things like that too, because just last year BET gave him an award for Best Male R&B Artist and Entertainer.

    Shocking isn’t it!

    • Suzy from Ontario says:

      I really think he IS embarassingly dumb. I guarantee his IQ is less than 100. Have you seen him in interviews? He can barely string a coherent sentence together. He’s just…yuck

    • littlestar says:

      He is dumb. Like Suzy above me said, he cannot say anything intelligent. The scary part is, he probably think he IS smart and we’re all the STOOPID ones.

    • jaye says:

      My money is on embarrassingly dumb.

  13. Nemesis says:

    And this is why nobody likes you Chris.

  14. Chordy says:

    Chris Brown is a terrible person. That said, I’m incredibly uncomfortable with the ‘Rihanna wants this” narrative. It takes an abuse victim an average of 7 times to leave her abuser. That’s not because every abuse victim out there is an idiot who loves to get beaten. While, no, it’s not our responsibility to get her out, we don’t have to create an environment that is so hostile to victims still caught up in the cycle. This affects not only Rihanna, but every abuse victim that puts their eyes on this story.

    • Lulu says:

      ^^This!!

    • Jackie Jormp Jomp (formerly Zelda) says:

      Thank you.

    • Nemesis says:

      But the average victim doesn’t have the support of thousands of people. The average victim doesn’t have all their secrets splashed across magazines and the web. The average victim also doesn’t have the resources she has.

      I just don’t understand how a beautiful successful woman such as Rhianna puts up with this abusive cheating douchenozzel.

      • Chordy says:

        Since Rihanna doesn’t fit your image of the “average victim” we should feel free to blame her for her abuse?

      • Jackie Jormp Jomp (formerly Zelda) says:

        That’s not how it works. There’s not enough fans in the world to make someone with that mindset believe they don’t deserve abuse, on some level.

      • Nemesis says:

        @Chordy, I didn’t say it was her fault.

      • Joy says:

        I know everybody likes to get their panties in a twist and call her a victim and I agree that the first incident she truly was. But she got away from him for years and yes having MILLIONS OF $ in resources does change the game for her. I’ve worked at a women’s shelter and I can tell you that the fear of being homeless and penniless is a major concern for the average victim. Also they can’t afford mental health services. She can afford all the help in the world but I truly believe she likes this attention. I’m sorry but with all the resources she has and as much as she tries to portray this image of a tough chick I just can’t muster any sympathy for her.

      • Chordy says:

        @Joy – okay, I don’t want this to become another big thread, but I do want to respond to you. Just because some women don’t leave their abusers because of fear of homelessness, doesn’t mean that’s the reason all of them stay. Abuse psychology and victim grooming are incredibly complicated, and abusers use what they have at their disposal to control victims. Abuse knows no boundaries or socioeconomic groups. Rich women, poor women, middle class women, all kinds of women end up in abusive situations. We are not well educated as a society as to how that works, and the social narrative tends to skew toward blaming the victim. So, yes, my panties are in a big, huge, nasty bunch about the amount of victim-blaming I see hurled in Rihanna’s direction.

      • Flan says:

        Even if just the money made her none average, I would be able to feel sympathy, but that’s not all there is to it.

        Rihanna uses what happens to play the rebel and that’s what weirds me out. Abused women I’ve known hide it with a quiet smile during it, are ashamed or express a lot anger afterwards.

        That’s another reason why she’s not a average victim.

      • Marie Antoinette Jr. says:

        I think you guys are sort of saying the same thing: on some level, Rihanna gets off on this crap.

        Lots of people do physically abusive things to themselves (substance abuse, smoking, eating disorders) because they get a pay off from it. I think Rihanna gets a sexual thrill from this guy knocking her around and berating her. But at the same time, just because it might be erotic for her–it doesn’t mean it’s not dangerous. It means she’s an emotional mess.

      • jaye says:

        @Flan…but that’s her defense mechanism. It may be her way of masking her shame. She plays the bad ass, but she may feel incredibly ashamed and weak because of the physical and emotional abuse.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      Yes, Chordy! Completely agree with you…always enjoy your comments..

    • Annie says:

      It’s not that she “wants” it, it’s that for some twisted reason she gravitates toward that. Right now she loves him, wants him, and to a point, she enjoys the crap he said in the video or how he treats her like property. But then it’s scary when she remembers she has no control over herself and he has no limits when it comes to hurting her. Yet she will not leave until she’s scared for good. And sometimes that never happens.
      It’s complicated, but after everything I’ve seen with my sister some women will not take anything better. It’s like this saying “We take the love we think we deserve.” Tons of times my sister has met good guys. She’s just not interested. The love of her life is STILL the guy who abused her. She still wonders where he is, if he’s seeing anyone. He hit her, abused her verbally and mentally, didn’t let her have friends or work. My dad had to legit threaten to kill him and had a group of scary guys pay visits a few times so he’d finally back off. 5 years of abuse and the worse it got the more she hung onto him. And you can’t make them understand. They grow this mentality of “us against the world” and feed each other’s sickness. His need to abuse. Her need to be abused.

      As a family we tried everything. She still doesn’t get it. I know that when she dates again, it will be an abusive guy.

      It’s not always like this. Some women don’t choose this fate, and they don’t love the man who abuses them anymore, but believe me when I say plenty of them do. Rihanna definitely gravitates to him not because he’s changed. She knows he won’t, ever. She’s not a mentally healthy person. She’s not stupid. She can’t help it. She has deep issues. This goes beyond making a bad decision.

      • Adeli says:

        Annie, I think yours is the most well-reasoned comment on here about this clusterf*ck.

      • Layale says:

        I agree that your comment is well-reasoned. And I have a dear friend who is exactly like your sister. She’s beautiful, smart, capable…but married a guy who abused her physically, verbally, and mentally. So many times I helped her “escape”, and she’d just go right back time and again. She had resources. She had support. But he had some sick need or something that kept her drawn to this guy. Finally, after 10 years with him, she finally left him on her own and divorced him. Her family and friends were all so happy. She dated a few nice guys, went back to work. We thought all was well…but a year later, she re-married him! I do not understand it at all. But I do see it’s some sort of sickness. 🙁

      • jaye says:

        Well stated, Annie. I do believe that a large portion of women who stay in abusive relationships don’t feel they deserve better. I think Rihanna is one of them. Behind that bravado is a seriously broken young woman who believes that the kind of chaos she has with Brown is what love is. I would bet money this is not the first abusive relationship she’s been in. Add to that she comes from an extremely dysfunctional family and one can see that the deck is stacked against her.

    • Kate says:

      Thank you.

    • I Choose Me says:

      Thank you Chordy and Annie down-thread.

      Sad that this needs to be stated again and again. Bless you for having the patience to do it.

      • Annie says:

        It’s sad because people are like “She’s so stupid, I would NEVER. Whatever happens to her, she brought this on herself. No sympathy!!11” No, and thank your lucky stars that you’re not into abusive relationships. But for someone women it’s all they will ever know. Are people not considering that her mental health might not be ideal when she prefers these men no matter what? And this men loooooove their broken women. The girls that don’t love themselves. The girls that secretly think they are worthless. The girls that put up with everything imaginable. Because those girls let the real monsters within them come out and play.

        Chris Brown doesn’t have demons. He IS a demon.

      • Lulu says:

        Annie, your posts were awesome. And I believe you are right about Chris Brown being a demon. That is the sly, self-satisfied yet not very intelligent or clever thing we see peeking out of his eyes.

      • Chordy says:

        Annie – I’m glad your sister had family that would watch out for her when she couldn’t do it for herself! And thanks for showing the side that’s frustrating for the family without throwing the victim under the bus!

  15. Amelia says:

    How to keep a douche in line ~

    CUT *IT* OFF.

    • Poink517 says:

      Yes!!!!!!! 🙂

    • alc says:

      I was just thinking that! Along with “oh buddy, I’ll cup your balls (I absolutely HATE that gesture he does!)!! with a big old twist and shout!” I know, it is childish, especially after all of the great posts about victims, abusers and public perception but I hate this guy so much, I just want to inflict pain, hit him where he lives, so-to-speak. As for Rhianna, I hope she gets some real help before it it too late. It has all of the blueprints of yet another Tinseltown Tragedy and afterward, everyone says “Oh, we didn’t know or we would have helped”.

  16. Jayna says:

    He’s a douchey, whiny, very angry punk. He has zero charm or wit or it appears intelligence to really ever overcome his image.

    • Marie Antoinette Jr. says:

      and he’s ugly. That’s what I just don’t get. He’s not even nice to look at!

      He has ZERO redeeming qualities!

  17. Mr.Smurf says:

    Oh my God…he’s must be a freaking idiot. I don’t understand how she stays with him. I would have dumped him alone on those comments. Does he seriously think that he’s not going to get backlash for this, sooner or later? Just wait until he beats her again and gets caught. He’s gonna get blacklisted for sure if he keeps spouting crap like this.
    God, I hope my self worth and self esteem don’t degrade to the point of staying with an asshole like Brown.

  18. EscapedConvent says:

    I hope that Rihanna will eventually grow tired of tip-toeing around his crazy ass & fly, fly away. Walking on eggs so you don’t “upset” the nutty boyfriend—that is *no* way to live.

    You in danger, girl.

  19. Samtha says:

    I totally don’t get it. He’s not that talented, and he’s a troll. How did he get famous?

  20. Gine says:

    He is astonishingly stupid.

  21. Eve says:

    Call me pessimistic but I honestly think he’ll end up killing someone.

    • I.want.shoes says:

      My thoughts exactly. He was always a rage-filled idiot but he seems to be quickly accumulating violent incidents in the last couple of months.

    • Mr.Smurf says:

      All abusers are capable, “accidentally” or not. From what I heard/read about what happened with Rihanna, if they hadn’t been in a public place, she would most likely be dead right now.

      I guess there’s nothing you can do until they want help themselves. I had a great aunt who was abused by her husband/boyfriend. Every single time he’d beat her up badly, she’d call and they’d get her out. But a while later, she went back. This happened over and over again. This same dude knocked out almost all of her teeth!! I hope I never understand it.

      By the way, Eve, your icon is amazing!! Every time I look at it, I think I’m looking at you.

      • Eve says:

        “By the way, Eve, your icon is amazing!! Every time I look at it, I think I’m looking at you.”

        But I’m a girl…although I don’t mind in the least that people see my comment and read it in their minds as being voiced by Stefon :).

    • Gine says:

      Yep. It wouldn’t surprise me at all.

    • Annie says:

      Yup! It’s what I said on the previous CB post. I totally see him killing a person. He’s more than your typical abusive a-hole.

  22. Ms Kay says:

    “Don’t make me have to tell you again, that that’s my p***y baby”

    or what Chris, watcha gonna do????

    • Arock says:

      For reals. If I ever see him in an airport, were going to the courteousy lounge.(starts taking earrings off, turns rings around.) poor Rihanna. I get that she’s made her choices to an extent but this has to be embarrassing. It’s surprising her pr/handlers don’t do more to counter or tone down her association.

    • Annie says:

      “Don’t make me tell you again” coming from HIM is scary as shit.

      Rihanna won’t make it without professional help and a good support system. And sadly everyone in her life likes Chris! Her family, her industry peers, her friends, her bosses. The way she talks about him, she adores him. She can’t help but run to him. This is scary because we are witnessing an example of one of the worst types of domestic abuse but we can’t do anything because we don’t know her. Those who know her are failing her.

      I honestly wonder if those who attack her and blame her don’t realize she’s mentally ill? When you go back to your abuser and love your abuser, there are issues there. It’s not simple.

    • Flan says:

      Rihanna is tiny, so he dares.

      Like to see him try that shit in Scandinavia. If one of those women picks him up, his feet will hang high in the air, as he cries for his mother.

  23. elceibeno says:

    Yes, RiRi does like being treated rough by a bossy, abusive, controlling boyfriend. Poor girl. What is the psychology behind girls who like bad boys.?

    • Tulip Garden says:

      The thing about Rihanna is that where we all read what he said and think that it’s disgusting and vulgar, she seems to believe that she has been complimented. I don’t know what makes her view herself/him that way but it is sad…and makes her look so pathetic.

    • paranormalgirl says:

      Many abused women believe that on some level they deserve this treatment. They also believe that this is the best they’re going to get (probably because they’ve been told that so many times). It’s sad and it’s scary and it takes years of therapy for an aubused woman to understand that she deserves BETTER. She deserves MORE. Someday, hopefully sooner than later, Rihanna will believe this and break the cycle.

  24. NerdMomma says:

    I feel like I’m the only one reading it this way, but I haven’t watched the video- doesn’t this sound like she DID f**k somebody else? And he’s, like, complaining or upset about it? He’s saying he should have told her that her ***** belongs to him, but he didn’t and she gave it to somebody else. Off to watch the video *gritting teeth*

    • Wif says:

      Doesn’t matter if she did or not. Men don’t own women, which is what he’s saying.

      • NerdMomma says:

        Uhhh I wasn’t like defending Chris Brown there…I was just wondering if anyone else had interpreted his rant that way. Duh, men don’t own women. DUH.

    • Britt says:

      Well she did allegedly have something going on with Drake. He also just released a song “5Am in Toronto” supposedly referencing her…

    • swack says:

      I can see where you are coming from but there are other ways to do that and not to do it publicly. Also, he has no room to talk about that type of thing because he was sleeping with Rihanna and his girlfriend at the same time. I just think it’s disrespectful no matter what. It is also something that should be discussed (if he had an inkling to do so) in private.

      • NerdMomma says:

        Hahaha again-it’s like I came off as defending Chris Brown. Arg! Please understand I was merely pondering an alternate interpretation of his words, which also come from his evil soul, but not in any way defending them! I KNOW he has no right to be mad about her cheating, since he does it constantly- that would actually make this little fit worse.

        I would like my posting name to be forever associated with the following tenets:
        1. Lohan belongs in jail
        2. Chris Brown belongs in jail

      • Marie Antoinette Jr. says:

        I know what you are saying Nerdmom. I thought the same thing–I thought, well at least she is out f**king around on him!

    • Laura says:

      I feel like Chris is probably pissed off that Rihanna slept with other guys after they broke up. He seems like the kind to feel that even if they’re not together, she should be keeping her ‘p*ssy’ (I hate that words) for him.

  25. tabby says:

    OK I get it nobody likes Chris brown can we please stop talking about him then . Damn its getting old.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      Sure, we’ll stop talking about him and his ragecapades when he stops acting like a spoiled bully and he stops throwing tantrums like a 3-year-old. All he has to do is STFU, stop being violent and lay low for a while but it doesn’t seem like he’s capable of doing that. So yeah, keep making an ass out of yourself, and people will continue to talk about you.

      …and most of us would LOVE to see this kid go away. TRUST.

    • Ranunculus says:

      Agree with you tabby. Brown and Rhianna absolutely thrive on negativity. Just like the Kardashians, they don’t give a shit about not being liked, all they want is being talked about so they can get endorsement deals and what not.
      Rhianna is not an abused woman she is very much a contributor in this PR plan. These are celebs of the lowest level.

      • Lulu says:

        @Ranunculus: She is NOT an abuse victim? The mind boggles at your inane conclusion. Sorry to be rude, but we all saw the photos and read his rant. Please dont insult our intelligence.

    • Annie says:

      We should never stop raging against him and protesting against him being welcome in the industry after what he did.
      He should know how the public really feels, and that’s what Internet commentary is for.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        Yup. THIS. RIGHT. HERE.^^^^^

      • Flan says:

        Well said.

        His fans and music industry sycophants (of the kind who think an abuser’s rights are most important) will talk about him anyway.

        I praise this website and the people here for having a different voice.

      • I Choose Me says:

        I feel like I need to get my tambourine. Preach Annie. Preach!

  26. Agnes says:

    There’s no bottom to his a$$holiness, is there?

  27. DeltaJuliet says:

    I just want to kick his nuts into his throat. That’s all. Or someone else can do it, I don’t care. Just make it happen.

    And if anyone ever said that to me, he’d be hitting the pavement before he finished the sentence. My P**** belongs to me and no one else, along with every other part of MY body.

  28. bea says:

    That really gives you an idea of how low Rihanna’s self esteem is. There is nothing in the world that will get her out of that situation until he hurts her bad enough to scare her or she leaves in a body bag.

    Seriously. My sister was with an abusive a-hole. Getting thrown out of truck didn’t do. Getting arrested for something he made her do didn’t do it. Burning all her clothes on the front lawn didn’t do it. Nope, it wasn’t until he broke all the bones surrounding her eye socket by kneeing her in the face that she finally realized the next time was death.

    I feel for her. Hope she gets some INTENSIVE THERAPY when she finally does get away from him or she’ll just find another abuser.

    • Tulip says:

      @Bea. I’m glad your sister finally left and hope she’s doing better. Good for her for getting help.

    • Annie says:

      Seriously, Bea. It was the same with my sister. Nothing put her off. Nothing made her leave. He never sent her to the hospital by his fists but she did try to kill herself. They had broken up and she had all these issues so she tried to kill herself, ended in a coma and after surviving she told him “I did it for you.” She didn’t quite do it for him, they had been over for a while, and she has millions of issues, but in her mind she thought he’d be impressed by how much she loved him that she’d kill herself over not being allowed to see him. He then told her one day “you’re useless, you even fail at killing yourself.”

      Not all abusive relationships are the same. Some women legit want to leave but are terrified to try. Others WILL NOT leave. No matter what, they love these men. This is Rihanna and our sisters. And they’re mentally ill. They need help. This is not your typical girl and asshole relationship. It’s worse. It involves horrible things only those close to them know. Plus, everything we don’t know. And it’s not their fault, or they don’t provoke it or look for the abuse. They just… Want to be there.

      Rihanna needs help. Sadly, those around her are useless so I don’t see a happy ending here. Another horrible thing will happen again.

      • swack says:

        I was lucky. My daughter had a boyfriend at 16 that started to want to have a relationship that only included her and wanted her to get rid of her friends. I was leary of this young man and kept an eye on the situation because he could charm you. He had a bizzare childhood (hearing stories from my daughter). She broke it off (thank goodness) but with doing that he threatened to get a shot gun and kill her, her family and pets. We got the police involved. I’ve known women that were abused and it is a hard thing to get out of.

      • bea says:

        Thanks – I’m glad it’s behind me as it was the worst experience of MY life. It’s like watching someone refuse to jump out of the way of the a train. It makes absolutely NO sense to anyone around it.
        @Swack – I’m certain it was your early involvement, reliance on your instincts and the sense of good self esteem you instilled in your daughter that allowed your family to avoid this kind of nightmare.

  29. Micki says:

    His mother must be mortally ashamed of him.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      Nope. His mother is a big reason why he is the way he is. He has no sense of shame, much less a sense of accountability because he has been coddled by a mother who indiscriminately defends his disgusting behavior at every turn.

      • Micki says:

        Really?
        I take your word for it as I haven’t watch/read any defence from her.
        I thought she wasan average middle class mom, proud he made it in the show business and then he lost his track completely. If she excused him in every turn: yes, I guess he’s the was he is because if it. I must admit he came on my radar after he beat Rihanna.

      • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

        His mother survived abuse and he witnessed it. Sympathies aside, if she continuously condones that behaviour instead of learning something from the ordeal then it seems the apple doesn’t rot far from the tree.

    • menlisa says:

      His mother is one of his biggest enablers.

    • Annie says:

      With abusers, they generally have enabling mothers, and there’s usually never a dad around. Moms justify everything they do, they built up that ego and they make them believe no woman is good enough for them. They create that superiority complex.

      An abusive man never learned limits or respect.

    • A says:

      What about his father? Oh that’s right, he comes from a fatherless home like most African American boys and girls, and I see this pattern all the time.
      Yes, I am black.
      I go to whataboutourdaughters dot com daily and it’s scary what OOW births do to our communities. 70 +% are born oow and without fathers present int heir lives, it’s terrible and harmful.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        I’m aware of the lack of paternal guidance in the black community but I just have to add that I have mostly male friends and with the exception of two, the rest all have a father who left, who isn’t involved in their lives, or who is generally a terrible parent. None of the ones I’m thinking of are black.

        I’m not arguing with you at all-just saying that I see it as a societal problem, not *just* relegated to (although likely more common) the black community .

        Personally, I think that there is SO much pressure and emphasis on mothers and the importance of us caring for our children, but as a society we tend to lessen the importance of the paternal role in the child development process. It’s infuriating and sad. I’m in my 30s and all my friends are in their 30s and 40s so it’s upsetting to see how not having a good male role model still affects them now, even as adults. Dads need to step up and be present and involved in their children’s lives ya know?

      • Micki says:

        @A: Sorry, that’s sort of generic saying. As I mentioned above CB came very recently on my radar.
        About your father point: I do agree that the best for a child is a home with regular role models. Now here we may open another big discussion about gay couples adopting ets, which is not my intention.
        What I want to say is : Yes, I agree that the father has to take his responsibility and act is part.
        I think it’s too late for CB to change something and I don#t think he sees the need to.
        I hope the children you mentioned will find their own way and it will be better than his.

      • Tulip Garden says:

        I find the lack of a decent father or father figure in the lives of children to be so sad. Having said that, an absent father, an abusive father, an asshat father, all teach their children something. If the father isn’t around, it’s very easy for male children to emulate that behavior when it comes to their own children.
        I personally know a thirty year old man who has eight different children by, I believe, five different women. Out of all of these children, he parented two of them for five years and then took off. I don’t believe he has met all of the others and the ones that he did see, it was more of a meet and greet. His own parents were married but Dad was an abusive asshat with whom he has a love/hate relationship with til this day. At times, they see alot of one another and then after another seeming selfish betrayal, they won’t speak for months or years. My point is that these situations can definately continue in an endless cycle. Parenting means not only to show up but to show up and do a damn good job! BTW, this guy is white. I think the problem has become widespread within all ethnicities although it may be even more common in the African American community.

      • T says:

        Thats no excuse. Me and my siblings never had a father either. And i know many people who grew up without their dad. I am tired of people making this excuse. like not having a father makes you into a violent offender.

      • lady mary. says:

        so true ,agree with all the comments abt havin a dad in one’s life ,i dated a guy once , he was white ,his dad had left him even bfore he was born ,as an adult due to the lack of guidance and control he was mentally child like and emotionally very abusive ,extremely adamant ,irrational ,when i see chris brown iam reminded of him sometimes ,it took me a very long time to get myself out of his loop of douchebaggery and stunted childhood ,i guess i can understand rihanna ,if chris is anything like this guyi dated riri must be havin a hard time comin out ,coz i guess he might b e pullin her back equally

      • Annie says:

        It’s the worst thing in the world because boys need paternal figures! A cousin of mine is a complete mess of a man at 24 because his dad abandoned him. No career, no job, rocky love life, alcohol, drugs, brawls, hot mess. He is still a cousin that I love like a brother, but he won’t listen when I talk to him. He also has his issues. Not CB level, but big issues still.

        His mom works hard and our grandparents give him everything he wants, but that’s where they spoil him. There’s nothing he can do that will get him in trouble. His mom has not had it easy, poor woman, BUT she cooperates because she inflates his ego, she never talks to him about how he treats his gfs, she never tells him to get a job and she justifies everything he does.

        Funnily enough, his sister is the cousin I mentioned up-thread: she only dates abusive guys.

        Bottomline: broken homes mess boys up.

  30. KK says:

    chris looks (face gauntness and expessions, pupils, emaciation) and acts like he’s on meth especially lately. definitely not helping his rage issues and general skeeviness.

  31. Tulip says:

    “that’s my p***y”. Oh please, Chris. You wouldn’t know what to do if your p***y got a yeast infection or had a kid being pushed through it. Go back to playing around with your d**k and learn about boundaries.

    • Masque says:

      Ha! This guy IS a yeast infection. Maybe that’s why it’s so hard for Rihanna to get rid of him. 🙂

    • Kate says:

      That’s a bit harsh on yeast. I think he’s more like herpes. Or maybe syphilis.

  32. Lisa says:

    Way too early for this shit. But I could read it at 9 tonight and be just as infuriated. Literally, fuck your bad vibes, bro.

  33. ruby says:

    Lawd when will his 15 minutes be over… I can’t with that sexist abusive arsehole. I purposefully avoid his songs and just don’t want anything to do with him. He’s the worst. I don’t understand why anyone still invites him and talks about him in the media like nothing happened. It’s repulsive.

  34. RHONYC says:

    someone please kick this punk in the nuts immediately. 🙁

  35. TriedTru says:

    Is anyone else genuinely surprised that this guy has not been worked over or jumped over this? I mean, between RiRi’s fans and just people with a sense of justice, how has this guy been walking free and unscathed for so long? NOTE: I am not condoning violence but I’m a little shocked.

  36. phlyfiremama says:

    Riri really seems more and more like a mental case in general to me. With all her other “antics”, and this disgusting pitiful excuse for a relationship with Fist Brown, this is all just…vile.

  37. Dawn says:

    He will never learn because nothing ever happens to him. He can be nasty, he can beat women, he can punch other guys (as long as he has posse with him) all he wants and he NEVER pays a price. And that is on us, all of us as a society. This guy should be sitting in jail right now just for what he did to Rhi- god only knows what he has done to less famous women he picks up. You want this piece of garbage to go away…then don’t buy or let your kids buy his shit. Don’t watch anything that celebrates him. Let him lose his marketability and the dude will be gone and most likely in prison before too long because he just can’t help himself from being violent.

  38. swack says:

    It is now being reported on TMZ that he is saying that “This is just a song . . . ” blah, blah, blah. He doesn’t really own her pvssy – didn’t watch the video. Don’t care if it was a song, why do what he did in a very public forum? He knew what he was doing and the reaction he would get from everyone.

  39. Wif says:

    You have no sympathy for that kind of woman because you aren’t one. I’m glad that you have self esteem and a strong ego, but for people who don’t have those same gifts it is important to extend our compassion. Comparing them to your own perspective (“I always say…”) does no good, you and “that kind of woman” have completely different psychological make ups.

  40. Britt says:

    They both need to just go away.

  41. Annie says:

    It’s awful that you think a woman doesn’t deserve sympathy and that just because ~you~ would never, no one should either.
    Some women stay or gravitate toward these men because they are mentally ill. It’s frustrating, but it’s a serious problem. Do you think Rihanna is a mentally healthy woman? She could leave at any time she wanted: she has tons of money, a thriving career, freedom. Unlike most women trapped in abusive homes, she has her own resources and can escape. But she won’t leave him because she has issues that he feeds. It’s not that simple.

    • Ranunculus says:

      Sorry, but she does not deserve sympathy for publicly endorsing an abusive relationship. She is not doing all this behind closed doors.

      With her willingness to accept even his most disgusting behaviour she is sending a very dangerous message to millions of women, most of them a lot less fortunate than her, that this kind of male behaviour is OK and acceptable. Her sick PR shtick is actually very disgusting.

      • erika says:

        nah, i think the young ladies have gotten the message loud and clear. i really don’t think/i hope there are any young women who think of rihanna as a role model.

        i hink they view her as role model anymore…how could U

      • anonymous fan says:

        +1 Ranunculus, I actually think that women should stop supporting Rihanna while she supports and endorses this terrible man.Chris has shown over and over that he is not sorry and is proud of his ahole abusive behavior.And the way she insults her fans that DEFEND her!Calling them nobodies and stupid….Sorry but I am over her and haven’t bought her music in years.The fact that she is just a jerk herself doesn’t excuse it for me.

      • Lulu says:

        Anyone who allows their child to follow Rihanna as a roll model is NOT doing their job. And if you are old enough to make your own decisions and think she is a role model, you STILL weren’t brought up right or are mentally ill. In Rihanna’s case, I think she’s both. Still insist on blaming the victim?

      • jane's evil twin says:

        LULU IF HONESTLY YOU THINK RIHANNA IS A VICTIM AFTER ALL THIS TIME THEN YOU ARE THE MENTALLY ILL ONE.

      • Lulu says:

        It’s amazing how angry people get when confronted with an uncomfortable truth.

      • Chrissie Malcolm says:

        Agree with you 100%, Ranunculus.

    • Grace says:

      People are weird like that. They claim to be sympathetic to the mentally ill but if the mentally ill person isn’t a “good girl” and richer than they are then there’s “no excuse”. The “excuse” is mental illness. It doesn’t go away when you get rich.
      This thread shows how quickly sympathies fluctuate about people with mental illness.

      • axelfoley says:

        @Grace Who are you to call her “mentally ill”?Are you her doctor?no Have you ever treated her? no Stop acting like you know what you’re talking about.If she wants to be with a man like this because she loves it and you want to support her fine do what you want.But your armchair diagnosis crap makes you seem stupid.

      • Ranunculus says:

        The point is Rhianna wants publicity for herself being the abused woman. She wants to be photographed with Brown and calls the photogs.

        She is not talented or what I would call an artist. Her status was always achieved by PR tactics – her latest is very questionable and irresponsible.

  42. Jennifer says:

    I just don’t get it. He’s a douche, his “fans” are abuse victim wannabees. And he’s making tons of money. How the h@ll did that happen? Ugh.

  43. Flan says:

    Trash.

  44. T says:

    He is so ugly.

  45. erika says:

    ohhhh gosh….whoo…thanks fer puttin’ me in my place mr. brown. I was nuttin’ but a prissy, whitebread and frozen yogurt girly girl till ya put me in my right place!

    You’re such a bad boy…

    i just can’t. i don’t have words for this prick. I would just love to stick my foot out on the red carpet and laugh hysterically while he trips.

    these two are a match made in Hell. I could really care less if Rihanna ends up a veggie on life support. I don’t. don’t bother hatin on me for being mean either. I’m not the mean one here…(chris is…)

  46. Lizzie K says:

    Sometimes I just despair of humanity.

  47. bullpin says:

    Just read the post. Now I’m going to watch the Chris Brown and RiRi episode of Law and Order.

  48. lisa says:

    he’s super homely to me. everything about his “celebrity” baffles me.

  49. Thiajoka says:

    I swear, I wish bad juju was real so that I could conjure up some 3-4′ demon vaginas to plague him until he had to go to the nervous hospital for good.

  50. Kelly says:

    He’s awesome. Eye roll. Really I have no sympathy for Rihanna.

  51. palermo says:

    I think he will eventually kill Rihanna

  52. Lexi says:

    That’s his view on rihanna, i guess, that’s pretty disrespectful, but i can’t feel sorry for her anymore cuz she went back to him

  53. Kizzy says:

    O.M.G. Can’t believe I ever felt sorry for this douche. Didn’t comment on the last douchey post about him although I felt the same as I do now. Sucker I am for thinking he’s probably changed and learned. Stupid, stupid guy.

  54. Jane's evil twin says:

    I am sorry to tell you nice white girls this but Rihanna is NOT a victim.There are women who like men who are abusive and keep up drama.She loves all of this stuff.She is getting excited by him talking about hitting her and sleeping with other women.She wouldn’t even be interested in a nice boy like Drake she wants a thug.And there are alot of women who are like that.They love their roughnecks and are stupid enough to think that crazy, dbags like Chris are exciting.Don’t feel sorry for that twAt.She is going to sing a song at the Grammys next year how terrific he is for saying all this.

  55. Brickyard Ute says:

    OJ said this to Nicole before he killed her. So many warning signs but she is unable to get away.

  56. DetRiotGirl says:

    Ok, this first part probably won’t be a popular comment and, please, I in no way mean this to defend Chris. I sometimes like my boyfriend to say that he “owns” me during sex, so I can see where someone might find this language sexy.

    HOWEVER, I would never tolerate my boyfriend saying that seriously or in any context outside of us having wild sex. And I would definitely be horrified if he said it to a whole club full of people. But, my boyfriend would never do that because he understands the concepts of role playing, respect, privacy and he is also not a total moron. Chris understands none of those things and is a total asshat, so his rant is definitely offensive.

    I also have to say, I find it disgusting and baffling that he would include the “or else” sentiment after what he already did to Rihanna. This man is either profoundly narcissistic or profoundly stupid. Actually, he is probably both.

    I also wonder if Rihanna’s “sickness” is actually a black eye or alike since Chris’s rant does sound rather threatening in context. It’ll be interesting to see how quickly she goes back to touring. It’s my understanding that Laryngitis takes awhile to heal. If she’s back quickly, that’s a strong indicator that her illness is a cover story. Given her admittedly incredible work ethic, the tour cancellation is worth raising an eyebrow for IMO.

    I wish I could stop reading about these two. The whole thing is so tragic. Whether you care about Rihanna or not, she has MILLIONS of young female fans who look up to her and are now idolizing this toxic relationship and idealizing it as a story of true love. Even if you don’t fear for Rihanna, fear for the girls who stan for Chrianna and defend this sh*t. Rihanna is one person, but how many people will her actions affect? I’m sad to say, I think it’s more than we like to believe.

  57. delia says:

    Fist is truly a moron. He already has a court date coming up, in either March or April, in CA regarding his probation for beating the crap out of Rihanna. His mommy was allowed to supervise his community service in North Carolina. The community service was allegedly performed at her children’s charity after hours when there was no one there to witness it. The local sheriff, with whom the Browns have a personal relationship, instructed the probation dept. to stop supervising him. Some of the community service dates that Mommy Brown signed off on were at times when he was out of town touring. The CA judge is now reviewing all the info to determine if the community service was ever actually completed or even partially performed.

    At such a time, a person with an IQ over 40 would probably stay home and out of clubs and fights, dig out that old sweater/bow tie/ church going ensemble that he wore in 2009 when he first said he was “So sowwwwy” and generally keep a low profile. His legal team must want to strangle him for his latest public a-hole behavior. Because he is a rich celeb he’ll still only get a love tap on the wrist. But I really, really hope the judge at least makes him do some community service at the LA County Morgue like Lohan did. Let’s see how tough you are there, without your giant bodyguards, Fist.

  58. Grace says:

    I don’t know where the he** Rihanna’s mother is but she needs to pay attention now. Chris is going to snap and end up killing her. Abusive langauge in public is the first signal of a ramp up to a blackout rage.

  59. skuddles says:

    Where’s Hannibal Lector when you need him? Oh Dr, we’ve got your “free-range rude” here… bon appetit!

    Really, what’s left to say about this disgusting waste of skin that hasn’t already been said? He’s completely out of control – likely wacked right out on drugs – and one tantrum away from his next assault, likely on Rihanna. It’s just a matter of time before he or someone else ends up dead. Jail at the very least.

  60. ms. hart says:

    Here is a really sad but true anecdote: I went to drop my 10-year-old daughter off at a birthday party and overheard the girls talk about Chris Brown and RiRi. one of the girls said “he can beat up on me anytime. he’s sooo fine” another one said : “Rihanna probably did something stupid and deserved it. You know them Island girls and their tempers.” I literally cringed. I talked to my daughter about that conversation afterwards and she said; He is a disgusting ugly pig and R. could do sooo much better, but I guess she hasn’t learned her lesson and waits for him to beat some more sense into her. ouch.

  61. Victory says:

    I’m sorry but i kinda want to punch him in the face after this.

    I hope he never gets to lay hands on another woman ever again. He doesn’t deserve it.

  62. kelsey says:

    If you all would STOP GIVING ATTENTION to these two pieces of gutter trash, then they would go away!

    You all keep giving him a platform for this crap and all that does is reward him with what he wants (attention and therefore money) and gives him and her a megaphone for their garbage. FFS

  63. Samtha says:

    Didn’t Rihanna grow up with an abusive father? I could swear I read that somewhere. If so, she’s just repeating a pattern. It is difficult as hell, when you’ve grown up with that influence and experience, to break the cycle of abuse.

  64. Dragonlady Sakura says:

    Brown is such a d-bag. Why doesn’t he just lift his leg and pee on her and get it over with already?!

  65. Liz says:

    I honestly think Rihanna gets off sexually on how ‘dominating’ (abusive) Chris is. I think she can’t stay away from him because the sexual chemistry is too overpowering. Having a guy great her right just doesn’t do it for her, emotionally or sexually.

    • Bijlee says:

      I said it on a thread a few days ago in agreement with another posters views on the subject that women who typically experience some sort of sexual trauma (I’m implying Rihanna has been raped) go off and do more “twisted” things sexually. Promiscuity and “sexual deviance” are often responses to rape. I put it in quotes because I don’t want people to get offended because I’m sure alot of them have had fun times doing crazy nasty dirty thing and weren’t abused or anything. but when you meet a certain person you get to see the distinction.

      I’m worried Rihannas has. She just seems like some of them women I know who engage in similar behaviour. I’ve been on Internet forums and women share their experiences you really get to know their histories and you kind of see a pattern. And they also engage in similar behaviour. But for some reason they seem better engaged with the world then Rihanna but that’s probably because they are way better educated. I don’t know. I just tend to see a similar pattern and it disturbs me because many of them are so gung no about certain things that they do that just seem morally wrong or downright stupid to me. I’m not taing about sexual acts, but rather how they treat sex and intimacy.

  66. Beatriz says:

    I can’t stop laughing at that first picture, he looks like a bum who is offering to clean your windshield on the street.

  67. Jaded says:

    Chris Brown is a big part of a major influencer (the music industry) of a filthy, misogynistic culture that celebrates violence, bling, guns, drugs and the treating of women like cattle as some sort of God-given right. Unfortunately this has earned him a ton of money and fame, and until the music industry stops rewarding vulgar, violent and bone-headed people like him, they will continue to influence young men AND women like Rihanna who seem to condone and accept it.

    Very sad situation, I thought we were heading towards a more enlightened society but apparently not.

  68. Asdfg says:

    If I had kids I would never allow them to have Rihanna as a “role model”! She is lost! She could do so much better than Chris Brown! It’s honestly a sad situation!

    Once a abuser always an abuser! His actions speak louder than his words! The way he talks about women is just the icing on the cake! TRASH! POS!

  69. LittleDeadGirl says:

    Clearly, men that don’t insult women just don’t have the balls like he does. What a man what a man what a might fine man. (sarcasm implied).

  70. Reese says:

    This jerk needs to get his ass kicked. Pronto. So sick of his attitude toward women. Equally sick of Rihanna telling us all that it’s, like, SOO not like that anymore and we need to forgive him because he’s learned his lesson. Whatever.

  71. Chrissie Malcolm says:

    What a perfectly charming sentiment … he must be so proud when he compares his body of work with that of other lyricists, Bob Dylan, Patti Smith, Bruce Springsteen to name but a few. Why in the name of God would Rhianna stay with this walking scrotum? Run for your life, Rhianna.

  72. Shy says:

    I’m so embarrassed for Rihanna.

    She is like Andrea from Walking Dead 🙂 Andrea knows that Governor is piece of crap. Who will lie and do awful things. Because he wants to and he doesn’t give a crap what other think about it. But to be polite – in front of Andrea he will try to look civilized and good.

    And then everyone around tells Andrea why kind of monster Governor is. And what he did. And Andrea knows it. And still she runs back to him every time. For no freaking reason…

    Rihanna is stupid Andrea! 🙂

  73. Str8Shooter says:

    Dumb, arrogant, trashy PIECE OF SH*T