Celine Dion on her marriage: ‘We made it through, so everybody else can, too’

Lord, I have become a late-in-life Celine Dion convert. I used to get so annoyed with Celine and her schmaltzy personality, but I’ve grown to love her over the years. She’s harmless and kind and she’s really sweet and generous to her fans. She knows how to stay private, but she’s not “above” posing with her children. I had actually forgotten that Celine has twins now – she gave birth to twins Nelson and Eddy in 2010, but we rarely see photos of them, and of course there is her oldest son, Rene-Charles, who is 12 years old now! Anyway, Celine has a new interview with Vegas Deluxe and it’s all about how she keeps her marriage, to Rene Angelil, so strong. Here’s a hint: he’s 71 years old! I mean, let’s be real. He’s super-old. That’s why their relationship “works”.

Love is grand! Communication keeps love alive and well! Celine Dion and Rene Angelil have one of the most tender of love stories and longest of marriages in show business. Their relationship began 26 years ago, and they became engaged 22 years ago in 1991.

To this day, they still smooch, sometimes unabashedly in public with a peck on the cheek or a full-on lip lock. They still hold hands and wrap their arms around each other’s waists. In fact, it was a mutual love tap or gentle pat on their backsides that prompted me to ask Celine a question about her secrets to a happy marriage.

She had an instant, one-word answer: “Communication.”

We were at the premiere night in Bally’s for their new singing discovery, impressionist Veronic DiCaire and her show “Veronic Voices.” I joked with Rene, who is co-producing Veronic’s show, that he couldn’t run off with her because her voice is so incredibly identical to his wife’s.

Their love story is now of legend: Rene and Celine met when she was 12 and he was 38 after her mom sent him a demo tape. That was in 1980, and Celine was 19 before they had a first date. She was 23 when they became engaged. They married in December 1994 and will celebrate their 19th anniversary this December. In January 2000, they renewed their wedding vows here. After many years failing to conceive, Celine underwent treatments for in-vitro fertilization. Their first son, Rene-Charles, was born in January 2001 and, in October 2010, her fraternal twins Nelson and Eddy.

Celine told me: “Up until seven years ago, we weren’t communicating properly. A very good girlfriend talked to me about the real meaning of communication, the right way to communicate and really properly communicate on an equal and respectful level. It changed the way we related to each other. My husband is also my best friend. We trust each other with our lives. We live for each other.”

I complimented the two of them on their obvious long-lasting and intense affection for each other.

Celine admitted: “Before my girlfriend taught me fully about communication, Rene and I had our tough times. It wasn’t always easy. We had tension between us. It’s never easy being husband and wife, but add to that we are in business together dealing with all the added pressures of shows, concerts, tours, traveling. It was hard — a lot of hard work. I was old school and kept it hidden. Forget about it, and it will go away. I talked about it with my best girlfriend, and she taught me it never goes away. It sits there and gets worse. She taught me how to say things the right way. It’s lessons that every married couple should know to hold their relationship together.”

Celine said that before learning from her girlfriend’s advice, she didn’t realize that things could be said differently — instead of nagging or being accusatory and instead of letting problems or differences fester by sweeping it under the carpet, as we do in England!

“It’s sad that so many people break up, their loving relationships end and divorce happens when, if there was proper communication, they would be able to hold on to the beauty of their early years together. We made it through, so everybody else can, too.”

Celine says as a couple, Rene and she share everything. “We made a commitment to each other not once but a second time here in Las Vegas. Those promises are for a lifetime together, and, because we respect each other, we will keep them forever. Talking openly together about everything might start out as a challenge, but, once you are through it the first time, it gets easier from then on.”

The loving couple spends time at their homes in Lake Las Vegas, Jupiter, Fla., and back in their hometown of Montreal. Celine is now into the beginning of her third year of her second residency show at The Colosseum in Caesars Palace. Rene has said that he has extended the contract through 2019.

I asked Celine for the glue that holds a long happy marriage together. She summed up: “We laugh. We joke. We kid each other. We want our marriage to last forever. Talk over everything, and you’ll find you are still on the honeymoon. We still miss each other when we are apart. We couldn’t imagine life without each other. Communication — it’s the most important. It’s the secret.”

[From Vegas Deluxe]

Good lord, she’s going to be playing Vegas through 2019? Yikes. But I guess she still brings thousands of people to her shows, right? Right. As for all of her talk about communication and the “right” kind of communication to make a marriage better… sure. Okay. I think it’s a little bit weird that she’s 45 years old and she’s been with Rene since she was 19, and it was only 7 years ago that she learned how to properly communicate with him. Is “friend” some kind of code for “marriage counselor”? Could be.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Anna says:

    God, the beginning of their relationship sounds so pervy. If they went out when she was 19, he probably already had his eye on her for a few years…ugh. I totally have the creeps.

    • Jo says:

      Ikr?? This guy will gross me out forever. He was FORTYFIVE to her 19. Even if we believe that he never touched her until she became legal (and we are not fools, so comeon!), that age is exploitative to say the least.

      And thats not even addressing the disturbing trend of managers marrying their talent to keep them locked down. Think Tommy Motola/Mariah Carey. Its also very common in the athletic world and many later report very controlling relationships. Celine has never been a very smart woman or one with any agency or even personality. A perfect Stepford wife.

      • Apsutter says:

        Yea even if the manager had no alterior motives there is still a power dynamic very much in play. Just listen to Mariah’s song “Petals.” She says that she predictably gravitated towards a patriarchal figure and was resigned to living in misery.

    • Erinn says:

      Likely, he was conditioning her for the years prior. Someone doesn’t just turn 19 and you’re miraculously interested in them.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Their relationship has always creeped me out for all of the reasons above. Ick.

    • eb says:

      I thought I read that he became her agent when she was 13?

      According to wikipedia they met when she was twelve.

      • RHONYC says:

        bin-go!

        i saw the E! True Hollywood story ages ago on her being 12 when they met and may i just say:

        EWWWWW! 😕

      • Jo says:

        Yes, he became her manager at 13 ( father figure!). Divorced his wife when she was 15. Claims to have started dated her at 19. Super creepy.

    • Sherry says:

      I know! It reminds me of John and Bo Derek. She was just 16 when they got together and he was married to Linda Evans at the time.

      Yet that marriage lasted until he died.

      Still, as the mother of a 16 year old, thinking about her with some old man … NO!

    • Meaghan says:

      I assumed this was common knowledge all over, but apparently its just been overly discussed in Canada! It was NASTY when they started dating, everybody talked about how disgusting it was. I am still skeeved out by it. He is her first and only, and you KNOW he had nasty Roman Polanski thoughts long before she was legal. However she is talented, and you have to respect the way she has dealt with the limelight. She keeps stuff private, it always gracious to the papparazzi… can’t say much bad about her though I still cannot stand her, or her music. I got my mom ticktes for her birthday to her show, she LOVED it, said it was amazing. She wanted me to go but I said my aunt would enjoy it more because the thought of a 3 hour show puts me to sleep.

  2. Kate says:

    Good for them for making it work…but their origin story will never not be squicky.

  3. GiGi says:

    Glad it’s working for them… but I just keep thinking if my daughter became involved at 19 with someone who had managed her since she was 12, I would completely freak out. It seems all creepy and groomy – whether that’s the truth or not.

    • Pinky says:

      Word up. A 19 year old and a 45 year old who is now 71 with three year old twins. I wonder if the age gap actually makes communication easier for them? I wonder if the business arrangement and manager/client aspect helps. Roles were set and defined fairly early on. Is Rene her father’s age?

  4. Lake Mom says:

    Wasn’t it about 7 or 8 years ago, there was all that press when some woman accused him of sexual harassment or trying to cheat on Celine with her?

    • MinnFinn says:

      Accused of sexual assault and not long after news about huge gambling debts.

    • holly hobby says:

      Yup yup I remember that scandal. It was insinuated at that time that Celine took an active interest in working Vegas because Rene loves the casinos. I actually think the casino bit led to the downturn of her music because she hasn’t put anything out in awhile.

      He most likely settled this out of court because you don’t hear about it anymore.

      I think he took advantaged of her. She was naive and young and he looked at her like a cash cow. Very unfortunate.

  5. Eleonor says:

    At the beginning their relationship was sketchy,that’s true but sometimes it works.
    BTW if I ever had the chance to go to Vegas I would totally go to see her.

  6. DanaG says:

    Wow it is creepy that he got with her when she was so young. Still they have been together for 26 years which is still a huge effort creepy or not. I am glad she has her kids I would off loved her to have a little girl. Why can’t other celebs be more like her? You never feel like she is using her kids she keeps them out of the tabloids.

    • Teddy says:

      Nobody cares about Celine, not even her kids can buy her tabloid space. Who wants to look at that horse face anyway.

  7. Jayna says:

    People get in bad habits the way they communicate or talk to each other as time goes on and different stressors in life are added on, i.e., children, booming business, financial hardship, whatever. Most people live on that way until a breaking point threatens the marriage and then they seek help. So t doesn’t surprise me they settled into a way of dealing with other which was fine for a whiie and then ultimately didn’t work.

    I think Celine is a driven woman, and, really, any marriage she would have had would not have lasted with her career in overdrive the way it was for so many years. Her husband, as her manager, made it that they weren’t apart really, so that gave them a chance, since she was on the road all over the world more so than a singer gone for eight months a year and the hubby home doing his career or in the same business goine on his own stuff.

  8. Latisse says:

    Who cares when they got together, I remember reading an interview she gave a while ago about how she came onto him initially and he freaked out and ran out of her room and she felt sad and rejected and tried it again a year later.

    Seriously they have been together for 26 years. TWENTY SIX years that is so much longer than so many marriages where both participants are the same age. If 26 years together doesn’t buy them some slack on how old she was when they got together (19 and perfectly legal by the way) then I don’t know what will.

    • Rose says:

      I dont care if they stay together for fifty. This is a truly messed up situation. Shes too stupid to see the lines he crossed and hes to perverted to care. Gross Couple.

  9. Kate says:

    Is Celine really only 45? God, I thought she was at least a decade (maybe even two) older.

  10. Jane says:

    I simply cannot stand this woman. I thought she went away and now she is showing up again. Ugh!

  11. lisa says:

    the title sounds like she is talking about salmonella not something you choose to do

  12. Shelley says:

    I dont find their age difference creepy at all. There are guys I would definitely date now, who I knew when I was a teenager and they were adults. I don’t see her as someone who was “conditioned” into a relationship. It is totally posible for feelings to change from platonic to romantic/sexual as people grow.

    • Erinn says:

      Difference is, he had a place of authority in her life. That’s what REALLY skeeves me out. It wasn’t just an acquaintance that you end up dating later on. They traveled together, he managed her career.

  13. Rita says:

    All right ladies, let’s stop clutching our pearls. When Celine was 12 her brother asked Rene to start managing her career. So, yes they’ve been together since she was “12”. I’m sure this relationship grew from a business relationship, then to one of a mentor and protégé, and then to a budding romance when Celine became an adult.

    I give Rene a lot of credit for Celine’s success as a gifted singer, exemplary celebrity, and beautiful woman. He’s protected, guided, and nurtured her every step of the way.

    Whatever the marriage/relationship appears to have been, is, and will be is for them to decide and it seems they have chosen well.

    Celine is my first and best example of a beautiful woman and what a celebrity can be.

    • Teddy says:

      Rita: Celine is no beauty. Not unless shes being lined up against thorough breds. I wouldnt let Renee anywhere near any teen girls frankly. He is the stereotypical kid groomer, training up his wife and boy did she come out perfect. Bland, no will power, no brain. So both fugly AND stupido.

      • Rita says:

        Superficially, what you say has some merit but in Celine’s case, she is the epitome of feminine loveliness. Rene has been married 3 times and has 9 children. In addition, he has two character black marks against him but Celine’s character is without blemish.

        While it is true she grew up in the bubble of a large and doting family and ensconced in the guardians of her career, she’s developed into a woman to admire. Some are put-off by her quirkiness, but you must remember that she is French…..and you know how they can be (lol).

      • Sassy says:

        She does have a trim body, though!

  14. Emily C. says:

    They made it so everyone else can? I despise that attitude. You are not “everyone else”, Celine, you know less than nothing about their lives. Go back to whine-singing onstage and stop thinking you know anything about anything else, let alone being judgy about other people’s relationships. Ick.