Sarah Jessica Parker on her marriage: ‘We can only be in the marriage we are’

Can I just vent for a second? Harper’s Bazaar just went through an online redesign and it SUCKS!! Bazaar used to be one of my favorite mags to check online because everything was extremely user-friendly as far as slideshows and accessing the full celebrity interview. Anyway, Sarah Jessica Parker is the September cover girl for Bazaar, so I was wrong – it’s not Scarlett Johansson. You can see SJP’s photoshoot here – she was photographed by Terry Richardson, and the shots aren’t bad at all. The whole shoot is rather dated, though – the clothes look like they’re from Sex & the City (the TV show) and SJP has been Photoshopped to look like that era too. You can read SJP’s interview here and here are some highlights:

She’s collaborating with Manolo Blahnik: “She has a fan base in the fashion world that’s extraordinary, and it’s truly because she’s such a nice person,” says George Malkemus, president of Manolo Blahnik. Recently he teamed up with Parker to create an SJP line of shoes in the $250 to $450 range, to be sold at Nordstrom starting in February. “Were it anyone but Sarah Jessica, I wouldn’t have done it,” Malkemus says. Parker was awaiting the first samples from Italy when we spoke, but expect feminine shapes, plenty of low heels, and unusual color combinations like navy and mocha. “The shoe business is so exciting because we don’t have to think of black and brown as the only neutrals anymore,” she says.

SJP’s tortured history with collaborations and fashion lines: With her new shoes, Parker may finally get real fashion respect. Her cute apparel line, Bitten, bit the dust when her partners went bankrupt. Then came Halston, a label with a great legacy but a nest of problems. Parker still took the plunge. “We’ve all worked with complicated people,” she tells me, “and I always think that I can disarm them. I love collaborating. I’m a great listener and learner, and I don’t think I know more than they do. I’m transparent.” Instead Parker largely got pain for her trouble, and, contrary to media reports, she did not get paid. “I really did work for free,” she says. In the end, “some cultures can’t be undone.”

What she has going on: Next month Parker returns to Off Broadway after a long absence, costarring with the elegant Blythe Danner in The Commons of Pensacola, a dramedy written by Amanda Peet, based on the Madoff scandal. She’s also in the midst of developing a series for HBO, set in New York, that promises to explore the darker aspects, including infidelity, of what it means to have it all. Meanwhile, she is producing a documentary for AOL Originals about one of her passions, New York City Ballet. She also finds time to raise money for Democratic causes, holding events for President Obama and, most recently, New York mayoral candidate Bill de Blasio.

Maintaining her “image”: “I don’t think I’ve ever spent 10 minutes calculating my image. I can’t even recall a conversation.”

Rumors of Matthew Broderick’s alleged affair: “Yeah, I didn’t comment on it,” Parker acknowledges, adding, “People have asked me about my marriage, ‘How do you make it work, and I say, ‘We don’t talk about it.’ That’s not really true. It’s sort of a nasty response.” She thinks for a moment. “Matthew and I come from a different time and place. When we were young people, all we ever wanted was to be good working actors. We didn’t think of fame or money because, honestly, money was never part of the dream. It was to work in theater, to be around those people whose work I was in total awe of. I never saw the trappings; nobody talked about being a celebrity. So when our marriage came up in conversation, it wouldn’t occur to us that we were obligated to respond to allegations or gossip. You have to be a bit circumspect, but you also have to take up a position, and you have to stick to it.

She loves Matthew: “There’s also the reality of your life,” she continues. “I love Matthew Broderick. Call me crazy, but I love him. We can only be in the marriage we are. We’re very devoted to our family and our lives. I love our life. I love that he’s the father of my children, and it’s because of him that there’s this whole other world that I love.”

The new HBO show she’s producing (and may star in): “It’s about a woman, a beloved talk-show host out of Minneapolis, whose husband is a cook. He sort of put his career on hold while she had this big success, and ultimately they move to New York to give his career a chance. But they’re floundering. He’s a hothead and he can’t really keep a job. Deeply lovable.” In the emotional turmoil her character winds up having an affair. “When we started working on this,” she says, “it became clear that women in their 40s are having affairs, and if they’re not having an affair, then one of their best friends is. How do we treat our marriages, and how can you be deeply involved and in love with someone else and also be in love with your husband? How are you a good mother? And what does it do to a marriage to be so deeply distracted elsewhere?”

Her daughters: “They come to me and say, ‘I don’t want to wear that; it’s not beautiful.’ I don’t know where these ideas come from because we don’t talk a lot about it in our house. We don’t hold up examples of what’s feminine, what’s pretty.” (And, yes, her girls are into playing dress-up, though not yet with her clothes: “They’re more drawn to hideous cheap fabrics and sparkly colors.”)

On critical thinking: But in a broader sense, she laments that “critical thinking is being shuffled off to Siberia. It’s no good for any of us. It’s no good for my son. Sometimes he has opinions, and I go, ‘James Wilkie …’ He knows I’m going to say, ‘Please don’t be so glib. Let’s talk about it.’ I’m terrified he’s just arriving at a point of view because he’s read a snippet instead of a whole piece.” She laughs lightly. “I feel like a broken record, but I’m genuinely concerned about who we are.”

[From Harper’s Bazaar]

That stuff about women having affairs is… interesting. She talks about it like it happened to her or someone close to her. It probably has happened to someone close to her. As for the allegations of Broderick’s affair years ago… I give her credit for answering the question head-on and not shutting the interview down in a flurry of denial. I think her most interesting statement is, “We can only be in the marriage we are.” As in, she takes it as it comes and she’s not trying to make her marriage sound like it’s the most epic and romantic thing ever. She makes her marriage sound realistic and pragmatic, although… it would be interesting to hear HIS side of it.

Photos courtesy of Terry Richardson/Bazaar.

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  1. erni says:

    sorry, english is not my mother tongue. could someone elaborate what the meaning of “We can only be in the marriage we are.” ?

    • Esmom says:

      I took it to mean we can’t/shouldn’t compare our own marriage to anyone else’s. What works for one may not work for another…

      • Sherry says:

        That’s exactly what she’s saying and it’s true. I have a friend who’s been married for 30 years to her high school sweetheart. He’s chauvinistic and domineering, but he’s a great father, a great provider and he treats her well. I couldn’t be married to someone who didn’t think my opinions weren’t as important as his, so their marriage wouldn’t work for me.

        It’s like Bill and Hillary Clinton. I don’t understand it, but obviously it works for them or they’d be divorced.

        Marriage is not easy, no matter who you are married to, even if it’s the love of your life. You work through your problems and remember why you married them in the first place and keep moving forward without giving up on the relationship.

    • V4Real says:

      Simply put;she knows he’s cheating. When people say things such as “we can only be in the marriage we are ” they are indirectly saying that there is trouble and problems in the relationship.” Unfortunately that is normal because show me someone who has a perfect marriage. Some marriages are are worse than others but people stay tied to it because of the commitment they made.

      As for SJP, there have been rumors of Matt’s infidelity for years. Somehow I think this is her subtle way of acknowledging it.

      • MyLittlePony says:

        Sorry, but I just cannot get over the fact that MB played Ferris Bueller, and she kind of married Ferris Bueller in my eyes 😀 You cannot marry Ferris and expect him (!) to be faithful 😀

      • Debbie says:

        There have been pah-lenty of rumors of her cheating, too. With Chris Noth, particularly. Homina homina.

        I wonder something. If you are married to a person you love, whom you consider your friend and your partner, AND neither of you think it’s a big damn deal to ply your parts elsewhere now and again, why is it my business or anyone else’s?

        It’s one thing to believe you’re half of a monogamous duo when you’re being lied to (Sandra Bullock), or to set yourself up as some paragon of good marriage and condemn people who don’t live your way (Jim Bakker), but … Carrie and Ferris don’t really seem to be doing either. So meh.

        Also, that Photoshop. Wow.

    • Emily C. says:

      The reason you can’t figure it out is because it’s meaningless.

    • trudy347 says:

      Your english is PERFECT. . . . I take her statement to boil down to another fairly meaningless phrase. . . “it is what it is.” That’s how I take her statement. Her marriage is what it is, warts and all. . . . which probably really means he’s cheated, she’s cheated, they’ve had other problems, but in the end, they’re in it for the long haul, come what may.

  2. Nev says:

    Awesome. Go on SJP!!!

    • Liv says:

      I love her. She seems like a nice and humble person. And she must be pretty tough to endure all the talk about his affair. If he has had an affair. What an idiot to cheat on her.

    • sirsnarksalot says:

      She is one of my absolute favorites, beautiful inside and out.

      • nicegirl says:

        me as well, I have loved SJP since Square Pegs! Anyone remember that show? Or how about her AWESOME zest for life in Girls Just Wanna Have Fun?

        LOVE YOU SJP! Loved Bitten . . .

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        I love her too. These pics of her are great and her hair is REAL, not extensions!

      • littlestar says:

        I absolutely love her too, so much. She is beautiful and intelligent, and she is articulate and educates herself. I cannot wait to see the shoe line she is doing with Manolo Blahnik – I think I’m going to have to buy a pair or two.

  3. Esmom says:

    I’ve always liked SJP and this interview affirms my feelings. I’m near her age and can appreciate her comments about marriage and infidelity.

    I’ve witnessed a few friends fall into affairs in recent years, it seems this is about the age that it starts to happen if it hasn’t already. Couples may drift at this point, it’s dangerous. Kids need less attention and you realize your marriage may not be as solid as you’ve thought since you’ve been so busy with the kids.

    In any case, I’m happy that she and Matthew seem be making their relationship work. I like her attitude and her style.

    • j.eyre says:

      I identify with her comments on marriage as well. Mr. Rochester and I have a version of it that we say which is “it may not work for us, but it works for them.” By that, we just mean that although me may not have sought those qualities in a partner or relationship, the two people in said relationship did and they are happy and that’s what matters.

      I also like what she said about her kids and critical thinking. I liked a lot of what she said int his interview.

    • Lucinda says:

      I agree about relating to what she says. One of the few interviews I can connect with.

  4. susiecue says:

    Wow. Her comment, “Call me crazy but I love him” and then the stuff that followed really felt like an acknowledgement of his affair…color me surprised (that she would make that statement, not that the affair happened).

  5. epiphany says:

    I bet SJP sits at home, reads her own interviews and thinks, “God, I am so profound! They should be teaching ME in Philosophy 101!”

    • V4Real says:

      LOL because you’re probably right. Another thing, SJP isn’t as nice as everyone thinks she is. She has a lot of people fooled.

  6. LB says:

    I thought she meant she and Matthew could only be married to each other, like its meant to be. Either way, its a good interview. I’ve never disliked her and I doubt I ever will.

  7. lisa2 says:

    Actually she use to make her marriage to Matthew sound the most romantic and awesome ever. Her response was a bit sad to me. Yes I totally agree that each marriage is different; because the people involved are different. But this part..“I love Matthew Broderick. Call me crazy, but I love him.

    that was strange to me, then she went on to say the quote about Only being in the marriage they are. It just feels like she has come to some acceptance of her marriage and life. Kind of found a peace about it being something different than she wants or thought it was.

    I could be wrong, but it was sad to me.

    Anyway her daughters are the cutest little things to me.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      I thought it was sad, too. As if she was admitting that he’s unfaithful, but she loves him and has accepted it, or feels helpless to change it. I’m not judging her for her decisions, but couldn’t bear it myself, and don’t understand why someone settles for that.

      • Esmom says:

        I hear you. But I’ve come to realize that what one sees as “settling,” another person sees as “compromise,” especially when kids are in the picture. It doesn’t have to be sad. For all we know she has a side piece keeping her happy (although somehow I doubt it). And I think SJP acknowledges that just because it works for her doesn’t mean it works for everyone.

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        Good point, Esmom. I have a good friend who has a marriage that would never make me happy, but it seems to work for her. I get that everybody doesn’t want exactly the same thing. Ok, I won’t be sad.

    • mzizkrizten says:

      I think marriage is often different than what one thinks it will be… and part of being happily married IS finding peace with what marriage in general and your marriage specifically actually is.

    • Melissa says:

      I agree, lisa2, it seemed sad to me. It doesn’t just sound like she’s admitting he had an affair and they got past it. She says she loves him, but it doesn’t really sound like she does. It sounds like he’s the father of her children, they have this family together and she loves them, and that’s why they’re still together. To each their own, but it doesn’t sound like they’re working on making their relationship better – they’ve just come to terms with what it is and it’s the kids keeping them together.

  8. MissBB says:

    Always liked her, always will. Something I’ve been wondering about: do her friends en family call her Sarah or Sarah Jessica? I was reminded of it again when I read that she adressed her son as James Wilkie. Wouldn’t it be easier to just call the boy James? Where I’m from, the second (and maybe third and so on) name is a ‘silent’ name, people don’t call you by it on a day to day basis.

    • Masque says:

      Where I come from (Texas) middle names are used frequently. Sometimes it’s used to show the parent is less-than-pleased (usually my parents call me nicknames used only by them and my bro but when I was in trouble they pulled out the Elizabeth Ann card). Sometimes it’s used as an identifier (every other male on both sides of my family is named John so we have to use middle names or initials to differentiate between them (my bro is John Stephen and my uncle is John B.)

      So the James Wilkie thing is pretty normal.

    • Kim1 says:

      I heard Kelly Ripa and Jerry Seinfeld Refer to him as James Wilkie too.My uncle and cousin are named Edward so we call my cousin Edward Charles.Maybe there is another James in the family.

  9. Mrs.Darcy says:

    I have to give her props for being as honest as possible without gory detail, for not glossing over things and trying to perpetrate an image of a perfect marriage fuelled by hot sex (cough GOOP), when everyone knows there have been problems. Did he cheat? Probably, but I think that he was just stupid enough to get caught, am sure there are way more Hollywood couples putting on a happy front that don’t get caught. At least he stuck with his family, pretty sure that is mostly down to SJP’s efforts but who knows what goes on behind closed doors. She clearly loves him and for them that is enough.

  10. Tessa says:

    I get the impression that Matthew Broderick has a lot of issues. I don’t want to come out and accuse him of being a drunk or on drugs, but it’s the impression I get when I look at him. He’s bloated, he’s got massive bags around his eyes, it looks like he rarely bathes and rarely sleeps. Something’s up with that dude. She’s dealing with it all because she loves him and she loves their family. He doesn’t work as much. He’s very introverted these days. I really do think there’s more to the story.

    • bns says:

      I agree. Something’s not right with the both of them.

      • Elle says:

        I agree too.

        Personally, I think he is just there, that she can present a Husband. If she would find someone she truely loves, she would leave him.

    • Bored suburbanhousewife says:

      +2. I have heard in years past from people who work in NY theater that MB is well known for a serious drinking problem. SJP also was with RDJ for a big chunk of his drug years. Maybe she is attracted to tortured talented men with problems. Can she save them?

      • Tessa says:

        Yeah, they’re beautiful and talented, but they’re also chock full of issues. It may be her thing… who knows?

      • TG says:

        I thought that is why she finally left RDJ because of his problems. So if this Broderick jerk is causing her problems I feel bad for her. I too have always liked her even if she overacts in most of her movies.

  11. Anastasia says:

    She’s never thought about her image? She wanted to be an actress but never thought about the trappings of fame?

    I like her, but I could smell BS all over this interview.

    Why did she call him by his first and last name? That struck me as odd.

    Anyway, like I said, I like her. I just think there’s some baloney here.

    • emmie_a says:

      I had the same reaction — I really do like her… but something smells fishy. I don’t think she’s as down to earth and innocent as she portrays herself to be nor do I think her family life is all that.

    • Tara says:

      I lived in NYC and i can explain a little. When she said that she did not get into acting to be a celebrity she was pretty much telling the truth. She was a child actress on Broadway in the 80s and it was a totally different world. Theater actors were as far removed from Hollywood glitz and glamour as could be and they liked it that way. In those days if you could get the respect of a Jessuca Lansbury or a Hume Cronyn that was like winning ten Oscars. NY actors prided themselves on their craft and celebrity status was only a goal for a few. Movie franchises, cable network super stardom and cult-like fangirling was still 15 years away when SJP was becoming more experienced. She, of course, dreamed of success but probably wasnt wishing for something so very hard for a Broadway actress to even visualize. I believe her statement and that is also why lots of Broadway stars are so down to earth and likeable in person. You can see them everywhere in Manhattan, in and around Clinton and just doing the same old crap that the rest of us are doing. Of course with huge Starbucks cups in hand.

  12. daisy says:

    The “call me crazy but I love him” quote sounds like an insult. Nice..

    • UsedToBeLulu says:

      Yes. I very thinly veiled insult. But I don’t doubt that he deserves it.

      • Emily C. says:

        There is no excuse for insulting one’s spouse like that. I see it as emotionally abusive. Either get counseling and fix the marriage, or end it. Don’t pull this kind of passive-aggressive crap.

      • UsedToBeLulu says:

        @Emily C. People will say that we are in love.

    • Aras says:

      I don’t know. It sounded like an acknowledgement of the rumors and her response being (to those who can’t understand why she’d stay) “Call me crazy, [you folks who don’t get why I’m still in this thing with him], but I love him.” Not an insult to him but an asnwer to them…whoever “them” happen to be.

  13. Kiddo says:

    I like the hat photo a lot, but I can’t stand Terry Richardson. The rest of the shoot is a whole lotta meh recycled from the 90’s.

  14. bns says:

    I can’t stand Carrie Bradshaw, but I’ve always liked her.

  15. cat1 says:

    Interesting interview. At least she talks in an interesting manner vs. some celebs who don’t really say much of anything. That being said, a cover seems like a bit much. A feature, yes. At the same time, I’m tired of seeing the same 20 somethings (and younger) on covers so perhaps I should be thankful!

    Also, Sex & the City had dramatic effects on the transformation of New York City (not in a good way), something she now laments. I just have mixed feelings on her overall but I also thought this was a decent, honest interview.

  16. Jacqueline says:

    Nina Debrov didn’t wear the peacock dress as well. I love to see SJP captured like this! Terry Richardson and white-out shots are so played out.

    • Tessa says:

      She has an uncanny ability to wear clothes. She’s a great model, and almost everything looks absolutely fabulous on her. If a designer wants something to look as it’s intended, they should always give first look to SJP.

  17. Talie says:

    It always amazes me that she could play someone as cool as Carrie Bradshaw because every time I hear her speak on talk shows, she’s so nervous, like a basket-case. She rambles like crazy.

  18. RHONYC says:

    i hate that she removed the lump on her nose.

    hate, hate, hate, hate it. 👿

  19. Jayna says:

    I roll my eyes at all the gay comments on the Clooney threads, etc. But I have always gotten a gay vibe from Matthew; yet, you rarely see it mentioned.

    • Kiddo says:

      Are you kidding? It’s mentioned all the time. He hangs out with Nathan Lane and does musicals, and many gossip sites have used the stereotyping to infer this, for years.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      I’m more surprised that nobody ever brings up the fact that Broderick killed a woman and her daughter.

      An accident, but still…

      • blue marie says:

        fill me in OKitt, I don’t know that I’ve ever heard the story.

      • Carol says:

        When Matthew Broderick and his then-girlfriend Jennifer Grey were in Ireland back in the late 80’s (right when Dirty Dancing was being released), he crossed to the wrong side of the road and hit a car. The mother and daughter in the other car were killed instantly and Jennifer and he were both severely injured. The authorities said he had not been drinking. He was fined $175 for reckless driving. He said it took therapy to come to terms with the accident. The family, initially outraged at the low fine, later said he sent them an apology letter and they forgave him. I think many years later they were trying to set up a meeting with him for closure and he said he was willing to meet with them, but I don’t know if that happened.

      • Emily C. says:

        Well, it seems that it really was an honest-to-goodness accident, and that he was truly contrite about it.

      • Kiddo says:

        @TheOriginalKitten, Yeah, I forgot about that. That’s seriously messed up. I’m surprised he doesn’t talk about it to exercise demons.

      • Kiddo says:

        @Carol, I always heard the story as he was driving on the wrong side of the road, not that he crossed over into the wrong side. I considered that he may have been confused as the lanes are different in the US than in the UK.

      • blue marie says:

        oh ok, thanks Carol..

      • Kiddo says:

        @myself(Kiddo), I am a twit. I meant exorcise not exercise. But it would be funny to watch him take the demons for a walk, on a leash, in NYC.

  20. mzizkrizten says:

    I adore SJP. She is in some of my all time fave films like Miami Rhapsody, Honeymoon in Vegas, Footloose…. and I love that she married to Ferris! Perfect couple imo.

  21. Nicolette says:

    Love the pink dress.

  22. Aud says:

    “We can be in the marriage that we are?”
    WTF is that?
    That is like saying…
    I’m alive because I breathe in air.
    Can’t stand her.

  23. Hm says:

    I think Sarah Jessica is an interesting celebrity, and I think she genuinely reads and thinks about..stuff. Issues. Life. I think she works on herself. I also think her unusual face and frame – she’s very long-legged and skinny for someone just 5’3″ or so – make her a fabulous model. The shot with the feather is great – I wish they didn’t erase every single line from her face, because she could be 24 in that picture. But still nice.

    All that being said — marriage is complicated, but there is something sad to me about ‘being in the marriage we’re in’ as an acknowledgment of sorts of serious rumors about infidelity, or maybe substance issues (noted upthread that this is the rumor that’s dogged them forever — MB killed 2 women in Ireland because he drove drunk). Marriage is wonderful and valuable and complicated. I do think there’s a bandwidth of issues where remaining in the marriage makes sense – dealing with how boring marriage to one person can be (yes, I’m married!), limited non-serial, non-long term infidelity, substance abuse if the abuser enters rehab. Where there’s hope and honesty and issues are worked on.

    This does not sound like what SJP is saying frankly. It sounds more like accepting serial betrayal in the manner of the serenity prayer so that the kids don’t have split time with the parents. Yes, I’m reading into it but it’s a big 180 from prior interviews – and that alone says that well, yeah, SJP pays attention to her image. She’s an actress. Of course she does.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      He was not charged with drunk driving, ever–he was charged with “dangerous driving”.

      • Kiddo says:

        I vaguely recall some gossip that he had been drinking(?) Maybe the laws are different, I have no clue. Maybe he wasn’t drinking.

      • taxi says:

        He wasn’t drunk. He was on the wrong side of the road – easy to do in Ireland & UK.

  24. anon says:

    “call me crazy but i love him”
    who says that about their husband?! why would anybody call someone crazy for loving their husband?!

  25. lisa says:

    holy airbrushing

    it is like the lens is covered in mayonnaise

  26. henderswife says:

    It thinks she is saying “it is what is it is” about her personal marriage. Other married couples chose different ways to figure things out or just end it completely. Whether Matthew cheated or not, it doesn’t matter. They are together and they make it work b/c it’s their own marriage not everyone else’s.

  27. Nev says:

    Remember folks she also stood by RDJ for a long time throughout his struggles. So that alongside her husband and father to her kids I give her NUFF credit!!!! Go on SJP!!!!!

    Fabulous all around.

  28. Emily C. says:

    We didn’t think of fame or money because, honestly, money was never part of the dream.

    Oh bullhockey.

    I don’t think I’ve ever spent 10 minutes calculating my image.

    Double bullhockey.

    We can only be in the marriage we are.

    What does that even mean? It sounds like psychobabble. Marriage is a choice. How you behave toward your spouse is a choice. Whether you stay married is a choice. These things are within your control.

    She feels deeply fake to me.

    • Kiddo says:

      I think she is completely enamored with projecting quirkiness. All of her characters are basically the same quirky/cutesy/girl-woman people. Maybe that’s who she really is or maybe it’s a put on, I couldn’t say. I’m pretty neutral on her as a person, or maybe I just don’t care enough.

    • Jayna says:

      I took it to mean, you can dream about the fairytale marriage, but that’s not real life. and her marriage is like the above poster said, is what it is, whatever their issues are, and she loves him and their family. All couples have issues unique to them, and what one person might accept another wouldn’t. I tend to believe, like someone said above, that he is an alcoholic.

  29. truthful says:

    Seeing as though I am getting married later this yr, and I am terrified…

    to me, it sounds like–it is what it is and just make the best of it…because you’re stuck and this is how your life will end or something.

    oh god.

    I am one of few that could date my fiancee for the next 50 yrs and not have to get married..after dating for over 5 yrs folks start hounding you and then he starts hounding you..

    • msw says:

      Don’t worry, if you are getting married for the right reasons, you’ll be fine. If you respect each other, marriage can be a wonderful thing. When i got married, nothing changed, which is exactly how i wanted it. I liked the relationship the way ir was, that was the whole point. 🙂 good luck!

    • Kiddo says:

      It’s really none of my business, but if you are getting married because you were hounded into it, I’d take a long hard look at that motivation. Are you doing it to shut people up, or are you marrying someone who you really love and are willing to go through shit with? I don’t need an answer, but you might.

    • Ally8 says:

      After a while, the romance won’t be there every moment. The question is, do you want him to be your family?

  30. taxi says:

    I’ve liked her since her days as “Annie”. She’s hard-working and seems appreciative, rather than entitled, about having the life she’s worked for. Also, she’s undeniably talented and in interviews I’ve seen, more insightful than a lot of celeb females on talk shows.

  31. homegrrl says:

    Isn’t it strange how the carrie character can more than pull off avante garde fashion, but the actual woman SLP cannot? What’s that spark that’s missing?

    Oh and that hbo movie plot has been done already- “five year engagement “with paul rudd? right? he puts his career on hold and is a hot head and she has an affair?? right?

  32. Mitch Buchanan Rocks! says:

    In this shoot she looks like Elle Mcpherson with a feminine flair.

  33. user00005 says:

    She is a fashionable lady, not a designer. Stop trying to make her one, NYC fashion industry. A small accessories & beauty line is good enough for her.

    Also the length of her veneers does not help the ‘donkey-horse’ face jokes. She should get them shortened.

  34. Tara says:

    I see an actress with poise, sensitivity, introspection and decorum. Where i’m from we call that dignity. After so much Lohan/Cyrus/Roberts/Paltrow/Perry/Rihanna/KStew BS i am happy to read an SJP interview. Its like chilled bottled water on a hot, sticky day.

  35. abe says:

    she wasn’t born in america?

  36. Ally8 says:

    Frankly, the rumors of the affair were the only thing to counteract the waves of “he’s gay!!!” directed at them at the time.

    I always wondered whether they decided to let their publicists cook up this affair story to quash the gay-husband, sexless-marriage storyline about them.