Tori Spelling is either in deep denial, or she’s messing with us. As we’ve already discussed in great detail, Tori’s husband, the greasy Dean McDermott, (allegedly) cheated on Tori with a Canadian random last month. Tori has refused to publicly comment on Dean’s wandering wang, but she has reportedly made his home life “hell.” Now she’s posted a “happy family” New Year’s photo on her website with a faux-enthusiastic message: “I can NOT believe it’s 2014. Time flies when you’re having fun. We rang in the New Year with (kid-friendly) cocktails, lots of yummy treats and some quality family time.” She also promised a year full of “love fests,” whatever that means. As you can see, Dean is front and center in the photo, so I am assuming she’s planning on love festing with him.
There are some new stories about Tori & Dean’s marriage. Here are some highlights:
* Tori went out for dinner on Sunday night with her four kids and a nanny. She was not wearing her wedding ring. E! Online has the web exclusive pics. Tori “seemed stressed out and was not happy to see photographers” after dinner but during the meal, she “was very notably pleasant and receptive with her kids.”
* This week’s issue of People has a story about how Dean will do anything to save the marriage. Their source says, “He’ll fight hard for her. They’ll think very hard before making any decision about their future as a couple.” Well he could have tried keeping it in his pants for starters.
* E! (via the Mail) says Tori was blindsided by the cheating report. She is now arguing with Dean nonstop and threatening to leave him, but a source says, “The marriage isn’t over yet.” I bet she’ll stay with Dean because Tori thinks an intact family is key to maintaining her image.
* Here’s the most interesting tale although I’m not sure if it’s true. Enty says Dean’s cheating partner, Emily Goodhand, is telling people she might be pregnant. Oooh boy. I bet Tori and Dean are regretting not springing for that vasectomy right about now.
* Tori’s store, InvenTORI, has gone out of business. That really sucks.
Photos courtesy of ToriSpelling.com & WENN
Maybe they should’ve borrowed money for the vasectomy.
Regardless if the side piece is pregnant or not, I’m sure Dean’s getting a vasectomy soon.
Llooolll, 2014 really starts with a Bang!! Dean really looks like Brad P in the 2nd picture.
But she claims they are too broke for a little snip job–yet can go on vacations with the kids costing mucho money! Priority in this family may be to downsize the spending in the budget and get the clip job done. Then she won’t have to worry about another pregnancy for her and for Dean’s possible side pieces!
Toe, I want what you’re smoking.
bluhare, I agree with whoever said Dean looks like Stephen King. A creepier, douchier version.
Or he could have used condoms. I can’t believe there are men afraid (?) of condoms.
Didn’t the chick say he used condoms when they had sex? So… I know condoms fail sometimes, but… Yeah.
I haven’t followed all the story, I haven’t read anything about this girl, but you know when I read about male-celebrities going in trouble because the side piece is pregnant I always think: what about using condoms? I bet Leonardo Di Caprio is always very careful, for example.
It’s not about a fear of condoms, it’s about NOT having a fear of getting pregnant. That and I think they just don’t want to deal with them, because you know it might take a few moments of their time. Add to that the fact that it might cut down on their pleasure, poor babies. If they were the ones dealing with a pregnancy, their whole attitude about birth control would change. Right now, it’s not their worry.
And Nicolette, you’re absolutely right. They don’t have the fear of getting pregnant. They should have a fear of getting any STD though! I remember in high school there were multiple cases of the clap going around because people just kept having sex without condoms or getting treated for the STD. It scared me into not having sex for a while!
Jessica, embarrassed as I am to admit it, I remember reading she insisted on condoms as well.
A vasectomy here in TN is about $450 (from a reputable surgeon). You can even file for Care Credit to cover it and make monthly payments. My ex boyfriend got a vasectomy last year. It was no more than $500. They have the money, don’t know why they would lie about such a thing.
Exactly.
And high five to fellow Tennessean.
I have a friend in NC who is 30 and no doctor will give him one; stated he was too young and will change his mind. Nice doctors eh?
I also have a friend in NY who had to see two different doctors before he got one (he is 32 with 4 kids). his wife said after the first doctor refused to give him one asked if that doctor was willing to pay for the more kids he was going to have. LOL
Both stories horrified me. Since when did one’s beliefs be pushed on one’s patients start occuring in the US?
Andrea I had a myomectomy for fibroids. I really wanted a hysterectomy but my gyno said I was to young and might change my mind ( I was 35 at the time).
No way should Dean get a vasectomy.
Tori’s trust fund pays out $10 million lump sum per child upon birth.
Getting a vasectomy would be way too costly.
But that guy must have 2x the swimmers of the average man if the one nighter is pregnant by him. Between Emily and Tori’s “Irish Twins” (Hattie and Finn) , Dean may be worth his weight in fertility gold.
I’m not *totally* sure, but I think I remember reading that he slept with her two nights. But your point still stands.
….is that really true about her getting a big PAY OUT with each baby??!?
Oh, this is getting good. She risks her life to have 10 million and now the back-to-back pregnancies make sense in the terriTori of her mind AND his. Have you seen her warehouse that stores all the stuff her career career bought, so irresponsible with money. You know they are broke and birthing their way out of the fix they’re in. How is this trust in her control, it’s going to be gone and she’ll have Duggards style 19 kids and counting. Where did it say this?
I feel sorry for the kids since they are innocents, but I really couldn’t care less about the adults. For whatever reason, they both gross me out. It’s probably the excessive attention seeking for no other reason than that they were born into privilege and/or attached themselves for those benefits.
Not to mention that they got together while both were married to other people. I’m not wasting my sympathy on anyone but the kids in this picture.
Totally agree.They are both cheaters.
Yup I agree!! I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for either of them!! Someone said on this blog earlier this week “How you get em is how you lose em”! Oh well, it couldn’t have happened to a nicer couple!
I wonder if Tom Hanks cheats on Rita Wilson if people will say ,”how you get em is how you lose em ” Doubt it
Tom cheated on his wife with Rita .
There always seems to be some blind about a REALLY nice guy you’d never expect to be cheating. Everyone guesses Tom and then hopes against it. You just never know. Not that I wish it on them.
@Kim1 and Kiddo – Yeah, those rumors have been around for years that Hanks isn’t as squeeky clean as we would all like him to be. He’s just very, very good at hiding his dirt. The strongest whisper I heard was a long term affair with Ginny Goodwin…which while juicy I sorta hope isn’t true.
kim, i will shade tom and rita with you
Everytime I read something about Tori Spelling being broke I have to remind myself she hasn’t inherited nearly nothing from her famous father.
Indeed. Apparently her dad changed his will to leave everything to his wife, specifically because he didn’t want Dean McDonut to get his hands on it!
Guess we have different definitions of “nearly nothing”!! I have a bit of a soft spot for her, but this guy seems to have really dragged her down – I think people would embrace her more if she got rid of him – he seems gross and lazy.
I don’t find it unusual that she didn’t inherit much from her father’s will. Family recently discussed legal affairs and wills, and my pop is leaving almost entire estate to mom ( and vice versa). the kids inherit when both parents pass. In fact, bulk of parents estate is left to the grand kids and I am perfectly fine with this. We got to earn our own way and family is stii family no matter what. I guess with as much money as the spelling fortune is people are surprised it didn’t get spread around more, but I don’t think it’s a particularly unusual situation.
Might I add Dean looks like a sleaze ball since day one.
I guess I am lucky my mother is a hateful woman because I inherit everything when my dad dies and my mom gets a stipend. I also will mention she wants no part of the money either and considers it “not hers” yet complains that she asks my father for money and he tells her no a lot but when I ask, he says yes. She is bitter and annoying honestly. She should have worked more throughout her life to have had her own money to play with, instead she just whines that dad has money but she doesn’t. My comment, why did you retire at 55 then? well, dad told me I didn’t need to work. Ugh, vicious cycle.
That New Year picture’s Tori’s best acting. Ever
Dean’s embarassed smile says it all…
This woman is a hell of an actress. I don’t think I could keep up the whole happy family act.
Correct me if I’m wrong, but didn’t Dean dump his wife to hook up with Tori? And she was “blindsided” by his cheating? Who would have thought a cheater would, you know, cheat?
Yeah, that’s really shocking, isn’t it??? These dumb broads who think it will never happen to them because he loves her more than the wife– wake up Tori and LeAnn!
Don’t forget Gabrielle Union.
BTW, it seems like both couples are using the same PR advice: put out happy pics and tweets to show all is well and the news about their relationships is BS. The only BS is what these celebs are throwing.
Yes, and she cheated on her husband to be with him.
And had her therapist tell her then husband.
You know what? If you’re going to cheat, man up and own it!
Wow, didn’t know that bluhare. Have to say, people are insane and horrible when it comes to relationships, and that’s pretty widespread. Not condoning what either one of them did — I just think it’s terribly common to lose one’s mind when it comes to affairs and such, b/c I’ve heard the craziest stories. Makes me happy for a stable and loving marriage.
She should move on and follow in the footsteps of her friend Jennie Garth who is doing just fine on her own with her kiddos since her split with Peter Facinelli.
What image! She banged someone else’s husband and use a ‘fake’ inheritance
Dean truly thought Tori was slated to get a piece of that Spelling fortune. Little did he know, her parents are/were sickened by Tori’s behavior
God I wish her mother would just give her some money already. Geez.
Why? She chose to have four children and she needs to take care of them herself not demand Mommy foot the bill. She should tell her leech husband to get a job if she wants more money. She doesn’t have to live in a mansion, she can suck it up like the rest of us and live with in her means.
ita nina, being on 90210 all those yrs was basically a cash prize. would any other show have given her a break? there was merchandise for a few years too incl dolls that i’m sure she was paid for. not candy’s fault she seems to feel entitled to more.
i bet if she had stayed with the first husband, she would have got more in the will. (like joan fontaine in suspicion)
Wow this is almost a Leann Rimes degree of fuckery. Dean looks so… so creepy. Like he can’t move his face properly
The similarities are there, aren’t they? I think she’ll keep up the charade as long as possible (just like her child singer counterpart appears to be doing).
Anything to save face for those two! They have both put out the “happpeee happeeee” so much that to admit the failure of the marriages now is just unthinkable. So both of you, Tori and LeAnn, just live your hurting lives like you are doing. No sympathy here! I feel bad for the kids who are hurt in these mockeries of marriages and all because of selfish people!
After being ‘treated’ to LR Christmas album at work, I don’t think Tori’s singing voice could possibly be any worse than Leanns and don’t know how Eddie can stand it if she sings alot around him. Dean and Leann would make a creeptastic coupling.
How did you make it through listening to LR without barfing? Bet you are doubley glad the Holidays are over!!!
I thought in the interview (that was in US) that chick swore up and down that they used protection??? NOW she pulling out the prego card…..hmmmm. She’s hanging on to that 15 minutes hugh.
I thought I read something about Tori claiming that they used lots of birth control methods too. And look how well that worked for them!
Dude, the mistress’ name is Emily Goodhand? She’s a Bond Girl AND a homewrecker! 🙂
I admire her. I think she is a true realist. She has 4 very young children and it seems to me she’s going to do whatever it takes to create a family that works for her. She never ever lets that guy down publicly. (whatever is going on privately…we don’t know!) That takes enormous strength and ability to look at the big picture.
I agree with you.
The big picture of him having no respect for himself or that family that is so important by putting them at risk for any number of diseases. I know HIV isn’t the death sentence it was when I was a kid but infection rates have been on the rise for straight women for years and this is one good reason why. That’s without talking syphilis which has reared its head again…ever seen pics of a child born to parents with that? So no….I don’t ‘admire’ Tori at all for allowing a man to put her and her children in a place like that. You can’t respect someone who has no respect for themselves.
Sorry, but I don’t respect anyone that stays in a bad marriage “for the children”. My fiance’s parents did that and the younger children are MESSED up in the head. It’s unhealthy to stay around toxic people.
Apparently people are very casual about STDs these days. I remember a post in here last year talking about HPV and most of the commenters were very casual about stating things like most people have come I to contact with the virus and so on and I was dumbfounded. I have several co-workers who frequently have unprotected sex, both of them female. I have a real fear of SDT’s and would never date anyone with one no matter how minor. Of the the females even had HPV but it finally cleared so she is no longer required to tell her sexual partners that she had an STD, which I think is scary because I would never trust that the virus is really gone. I was amazed that people don’t care. I hope to hogs my step-daughters and daughter don’t become casual like that.
@TG – I admit, the first thing that usually comes to mind for me is the fear of pregnancy (especially seeing as I don’t even know if I *ever* intend to have children, let alone ‘unplanned’), & I’ve always known how super carerful I intended to be in that regard (which includes condoms, of course, but paired with other options as well).
But because my personal decision is not to have ‘casual’ sexual relationships/encounters, I admit I *don’t* often think about STD’s (but definitely *not* because I don’t care or think it’s no big deal). I find it strange too, that in a society *so* obsessed with sex that it permeates everyday life in countless ways, there isn’t more *open* conversation about awareness (where-as there’s a lot of emphasis on not getting pregnant).
I don’t. Tori didn’t care about his family when she broke up his marriage. I’ll bet he had dollar signs in his eyes when he left his wife for a Spelling. Things didn’t work out how he planned. Now he’s stuck with a washed up, no talent broke ass nobody! Karma’s a bitch
I think that women will sometimes have a lot of children with a man when they are in an unstable relationship in the belief that it will make him stay, or that at the very least it will make it very difficult for the father to leave. She may see herself as a pragmatist or a realist for doing this, but the reality is that it never works long term, so, no, she really isn’t one. Her big picture is being married to an alcoholic and investing all her time in keeping him around before inevitably becoming a single divorced mother of four. Sad by all accounts.
Oh gosh, I at least hope the part about the woman being pregnant is not true. What a NIGHTMARE that would be.
the us Weekly story that brought this all to light pointed out they used protection, i dont think they would have specifially mentioned it if she was pregnant.
I think this is a scam. Tori is probably planning a new book or something. Doesn’t she has a new show with Jenny Garth? This all sounds fishy.
If this is true he is as stupid as he looks. And she is as desperate as she seems.
How anyone could sleep with that d bag is beyond me, eck!
Why is there no picture of the Emily woman yet? I feel bad for these kids….
What sickens me about Tori is she wears THAT SAME SMIRK on her face like LeAnn….like they think we’re actually jealous *gag* of their amazing awesome ability to catch a man. They seem to have no clue that their men are low-down dirty dogs (no offense to dogs) who are with them only for their $$ and that NONE of us women want those douchebags. Ah, delusion.
Agree! I hate their crapeating smirks!
I read in the Daily Mail that Tori didn’t literally mean they had no money left for a vasectomy & that she spends loads of money per month on storage units full of stuff she could sell if she wanted to. So I’m thinking that when she said that about a vasectomy costing money, I’m thinking what she really meant was that a vasectomy would cost them future income. Imo, she thinks that having a large brood gives her publicity , keeps the offers coming in for tv, books, merchandise sales, etc., paid interviews, and possibly money from Candi for each grandchild.
Pretty pathetic when a person thinks of a child as being income potential! How sad for the child.
Could be the wealthy version of welfare kids. Mom and daughter may not always get along, but I doubt Candy lets those children go without.
I suspect there is a large trust fund for the grandchildren (Tori’s kids). My understanding of the way such trust funds work (I’m not exactly in the income bracket to know from first hand experience) is that they pay the children’s expenses. This can include housing/travel and more importantly, expenses for guardians as well (can’t expect a young child to live separately from the parents/travel without parents etc.).
Of course, if such conditions exist, they will only last until a certain age – the more kids there are, the longer the pay check comes in.
Dean’s nails on his right foot are black. That kind of says it all about him.
Tori is looking really really skinny in that NYE pic, all cheekbones and chin (kind of like the scream mask). I bet it’s true, and she’s stressed and not eating.
Also, I find it interesting when someone who has had a ton of plastic surgery has kids. Nobody can ever say that the kid looks just like that parent currently because genetics has nothing to do with how the parent currently looks. I wonder if it screws with the kid’s self esteem later? As in, my parent hated the way he/she looked so much that he/she had surgery to change it, and I look like the before pics, so my parent must hate how I look? Oh, how sweet, you have momma’s pre-op nose, bless your heart!
The kids are cute, I hope they don’t feel the pressure their mother did to go under the knife.
Sorry not sorry, I don’t feel bad for her. What did she expect, a faithful husband? Or did she forget how they first got together. Tori is now unfortunately feeling some of the pain of what his ex wife experienced when she learned he cheated on her. Tori luckily wont have to experienced the pain of Dean leaving her, instead will have something far more worse to deal will, having those feelings of trust peck away at the back of her mind causing her to be insecure.
They both are looking foolish with this recent scandal. People were expecting something like this to happen eventually with how they got together, question was, who was gonna cheat first.
Tori can tweet the happy family pictures, but they are fooling no one. I’ve always wondered the reason Dean left his ex for her was because he thought she was richer than what he knows now, just my opinion.
Candy Spelling has always been an example to me of why you don’t marry a homely man for money. Tori looks just like her father and Candy always made it clear that she thought Tori was ugly. I have enough insecurities with my looks/body after being raised by loving, supportive parents. I can’t imagine growing up with the knowledge that your mother thinks you’re ugly and tells you at a very young age that you need a nose job – something that Candy has in common with Kris Jenner.
Tori has made a lot of mistakes, but sometimes I really feel for her. She had a cold, unloving mother and a distant father. You can’t be rich enough to make up for that. I was moved by the ambivalent feelings she had when carrying her first daughter. Tori and Candy famously had an unloving relationship, but Candy had that same relationship with her own mother. Tori was anxious because Candy was determined not to have that same type of relationship with Tori, and yet she did. Tori had a loving relationship with her nanny, but that doesn’t make up for a cold mother.
@mayamae your post reveals that you are beautiful inside.
I don’t know–I feel bad for her, because she sounds like she had horrible parents. But at some point, you have to move past all that and move forward with your life. I’m lucky that I had loving parents; my mom didn’t. Her father never beat her, like some of the other relatives, but he always ignored her and her siblings. And she said that felt worse. Because she never felt like he cared about her at all. She told me this story about how when she was in the Navy, she had a friend whose father died. She went with the girl to the Chief’s office, and waited outside the door for her. She said that girl screamed so loud that you could hear her down the hall, through the door. But that didn’t happen with my mom, when my grandfather died soon afterwards.
But my mom doesn’t dwell on that. She and my aunts and uncles have gone through things, were if they were the ‘product of their environment’ they would’ve been to prison, two, three times, if not more. But they aren’t. They moved on. Tori just seems like she’s stuck in the past, with me. And I have honestly never heard of her, until I had got onto this site–so I’m at a loss to know what she’s famous for beyond 90210.
Do you think he used the same “my wife doesn’t understand me” lines he used on Tori (or, I guess, they used on each other)? Why any woman thinks he’s a prize is beyond me.
Tori, stop with the Tammy Wynette “Stand By Your Douchebag” act!
ick! Every time I see a pic of this guy I feel the need to take a shower. He makes me feel dirty.
I’ve liked Tori since her 90210 days but feel that lately she is following the Kardashian model that even negative publicity is better than none. Some of the comments in her book were to purposely incite controversy …so Katie Holmes acted aloof, bid deal? I’m not sure I believe that Dean cheated even though he has proven himself to be a cheater. He was never great looking, but he’s not aging well and looks like he may be a heavy drinker.
Couple of things:
1. What if the cheating story is fake? Not everything published in the tabs is true. It was a well crafted story with no evidence to back it up.
2. Why doesn’t Tori ever show her teeth when she smiles? Her closed mouth smirk bugs me.
3. Cheating does not always mean divorce. I know people who worked thru cheating and stayed married. Maybe Tori doesn’t have that automatic divorce after cheating mindset.
I think the closed mouth smile is because she doesn’t like the way she looks when she smiles. Shannon Doherty used to do the very same smirk for years.
1. This isn’t some made up story by the tabs–this girl talked to them. So either she’s lying—which I’m pretty sure to be even taken seriously, she would have to prove that she met Dean when she said she did—or she’s telling the truth. Why I don’t know–I’d hate to be the one who banged Tori Spellings douchey, funny looking husband.
2. I agree with Mayamae–some people don’t like their smiles. That’s why Victoria Beckham never smiles–she doesn’t like the way it looks.
3. If that were the case, she wouldn’t have divorced her first husband.
Dean and Tori were both jerks and I have no sympathy for anyone but the kids. However, who is this woman who sells information by saying she wants to apologize to someone’s wife and then claims she could be pregnant? Is Dean her (alleged) lowrent Simon Cowell? Why would you not be careful with a one night stand?
A pregnant mistress? Oh my.
Tori once said she and Dean would create their own little hockey team. I didn’t know they would be drafting players and coaches from the outside.
Because I am old, I have that Jill Sobule song, Supermodel, on my workout mix. Every time she gets to that line that goes “And I wish that I was like Tori Spelling” I think “Yeah, not anymore. Maybe I need new music.”
Dean is a d-bag. Wouldn’t but it past him to cheat – what bothers me is the fact some stupid chic actually wanted to bang him (if it’s true). Not sure if I believe this story yet, or maybe I just don’t care – my point here – Tori kind of reminds me of LeAnn with this post – here’s my man, yes I know he’s a cheater (cause he cheated on his then wife with Tori back in the day) but I’ll prove you wrong by showing you our love is strong and precious.
Why do these celebrities have the need to ‘prove’ their love? I’d prefer they just keep it behind closed doors, or do a regular photo op of them going out and about doing ‘normal’ things – staging a photo op screams there is something to prove/hide – lame!
And again with the possible “whoopsie” pregnancy. These idiots who eschew condoms should have their d*cks fall off.