Here are some photos of Lady Gaga arriving (white outfit) and exiting (pink outfit) the Z100 radio station in NYC yesterday. That’s right. She had a costume change IN the radio station. I don’t really hate the white/cream sweater dress, but the white coat sucks, and those heels are so damn stupid. The pink outfit just looks like a costume Liza Minnelli rejected. In 1977. I remember a time when every costume change from Gaga would get tons of comments and everyone was obsessed, either with love or with hate. Gaga inspired strong feelings, always. Nowadays… not so much. People just think she’s boring and hacky. But Gaga is still trying to inspire those strong feelings. Which is the only way I can explain what she said during her Z100 interview:
Say what, big monster?! Lady Gaga has complete control on stage and on camera, but back home she’s willing to let her man take charge. The “Applause” singer admitted during a radio interview on Sirius XM’s The Morning Mash Up on Monday, March 24 that she’s submissive to boyfriend Taylor Kinney.
“Yes, actually,” the 27-year-old Grammy winner said. “He’s totally in charge. I mean, when I am home, I am like, shoes are off, I’m making him dinner. He has a job, too, and he is really busy! I’m in charge all day long, the last thing I want to do is tell him what to do. It’s not good for relationships to tell men what to do.”
Confession: the older I get, the more I relate to this whole idea of “I’m tired of being in charge of everything.” Not that I’m like Wonder Woman over here, doing it all for myself, but do I always have to make all of the decisions in my life? Can’t I delegate some stuff to someone else? But I feel like that’s different from what Gaga is saying. She’s trying to make it sound like she’s a good Italian housewife to her macho, macho man and she’s barefoot in the kitchen making him a sammich, keeping her mouth shut because he’s so important. She would never tell him to take out the trash because she doesn’t want to burden him with her lady-demands. Which would be offensive… except that I don’t even buy the idea that Taylor Kinney and Lady Gaga are in the same city more than once or twice a month. She’s just trying to get us to clutch our feminist pearls.
Photos courtesy of Fame/Flynet and Pacific Coast News.
The desperation continues…………..
Call me a pessimist but I’ve always thought that he only dated her to raise his own profile. They don’t seem to have much of a connection in any of the rare photos of them I’ve seen. She’s talking about their relationship as though they’re married and live together. Don’t buy it.
My thoughts exactly, he cant be serious!!
Her shoe game has never been on point. That’s about all the energy I can muster up for Gaga. Fin.
I totally concur.
Lady Blah-Blah…blah..blah blah. She has a great voice, she should go back to singing with less talking. It’s not fascinating or pop art, it long ago reached the point of exhaustion, or maybe that’s just me.
+10000
Nope, not just you.
Since he’s in charge maybe he could tell her to stfu.
Wow! The emergence of Miley Cyrus has really knocked Ga Ga for a loop. The once untouchable Ga Ga was warned that her antics were out shinning her music. The over choreographed G.U.Y. video is to painful to sit through
BTW, pink pink you stink outfit sans the hat would work
QQ the Universe knew exactly what is was doing. Can you imagine dating a male QQ? I mean I’m with you all the way; I’m a stone cold bitch (not really, I fake it) and all I want is for like, Clive Owen to come home and throw me around, but I ended up with the shyest sweetest and most Assbergerish dude on the block (hot tho). Anyway, point being is if you were dating a male QQ, I’m pretty sure the Universe would implode as we know it. It would be funny as hell tho!
ROTFLMAO OMFG Yessss Mimi Let me tell you I cant even with V-days but HE WAS ALL LIKE YES PLEEEAAASSEEE LETS DO THE THING AND i cook and get you a fluffy thing plleeeaassee I was so Shocked.. It’s been a cute thing to have
My experience tells me that this ‘whatever you want dear’ just happens at the beginning of a relationship (let’s say 2 years) and then it changes. My bf was like that at the beginning because he never wanted to disappoint me..but now he has become more of a pain in th ass.
I think I like it more now, I’m very fiery and sometimes I need a good argument to clear the air. oops.
I love Taylor Kinney. I was so disappointed when I found out that she was his girlfriend. It’s like the hot just disappeared. Kind of like Antonio Banderas-he used to be hot, then he hooked up with Melanie Griffith, then suddenly he just wasn’t any more.
+1
I agree. She has Lohaned him.
It happens to all the men Lindsay Lohan hooks up with. After she’s been with them they suddnely become STDs carriers and the hotness goes down the drain.
Oh man! So many men I’ve lost all interest in since that list of Lindsay’s came out. Garett Hedlund hurt the most
i´m with you !! i only watch Chicago Fire for him and every time his on screen im like WHY TAYLOR?? WHHY?
I always said that too about not wanting to be in charge at home but I do not do well with a type A in charge guy in a long term relationship. I find it sexy at night, annoying and fight-worthy during the day. Sigh… well I married the nice laid back non macho guy and I definitely run our house but he steps up a lot too. And I do like how he brings me tea in bed every morning.
Same with my husband. Work, football practice for me. Him? Work, Diablo III/FFX reboot, et. al.. Dinner? “No, beautiful, what do YOU want to eat?”
I’d smack him but I knew what I was getting into 12 years ago in HS LOL.
They are dating and rarely together and have assistants, maids, etc. I hate women who emasculate men, and I dote on mine and love to do things for him, but day to day living he’s not the king coming home while I wait on him and he’s totally in charge. In a big picture way, I understand what she’s saying, but these celebs take it to another level with their painting of their relationships when they don’t share finances, a home, a child, etc.
From an equality point of view, I don’t understand the whole “I’m in control all day at work, I just want to be submissive when I’m at home” thing from women when men are in control all day at work and then have to come home and be in control of their home life too when the woman is submissive. When do they get to relax and not be in control? Why do all these women seem to mind being in control all the time when men don’t? Or am I just not getting something?
@Jessica
Precisely. Dont people just share decision making anyway? Surely, one of the most awsome things about marriage is that you dont have to be any one thing, because we pick up each others slack. This whole dominant submissive people talk about is just plain disfunctional.
very good point. im annoyed by those women moaning about having to be the breadwinner. well, what did guys have to do all the time?there was no choice between stay at home dad and career guy. or both. no they had to spent most of the day at work. just like women had no choice but with guys its less discussed.
it annoys me even more because i expect more from women in that regard. we have more advantages from that and still women complain about it. how do men feel about that? women fighting for that for decades and when its finally in place we nag about that too.
so many women want to earn more, have huge authority but still want a guy who is in charge and makes more money. that wont work.
you cant be angry at men not falling head over heels for career women when women dont really go for the submissive men or complain about a guy that shows his feelings.
i dont want to be a man that has to work his whole life and never really cant show weakness and vulnerabilities. no wonder so many of our grandfathers were just those empty shells, dropping on the couch after work.
generally its always portraied as the “fragile male ego” but i think its acutally women who have bigger problems respecting a submissive, caring guy.
Yep. In my circle, the loudest of the self-proclaimed feminists never stop bitching and whining about how hard it is when they get exactly what they (supposedly) want. Personal and professional success, money, status, power, etc…they are just so oppressed! For some of these women it’s all about entitlement not equality, it’s about control and having others conform to their particular view no matter how inconsistent and erratic it may be. Basically, they are never, EVER, happy and satisfied and I don’t think they ever will be.
Translation = Shakira got a bunch of headlines for that sort of talk, so Gaga has to do it now too.
OMG I had the same thought. Lol.
hahaha so true!!!
If i was Lady Gaga i’m sure my boyfriend would feel the urge to be in charge of my wardrobe.
Actually I feel somebody should do something to stop this nonsense. Doesn’t she have any true friends able to tell her she looks like crap?
BS from lady bla bla. This whole submissive/dominate conversation is getting stale. We all bring something to the table in a relationship if we don’t its not balanced and it topples over. Regardless of gender it’s all about balence.