We haven’t been covering the story of Ramona Singer of the Real Housewives of NY catching her husband of 20 years at their Hamptons home with his mistress. It’s getting more interesting, though, and I would love to talk about it.
After Ramona caught her 60 year-old husband, Mario, cheating with a 32 year-old personal trainer she filed for divorce. That was in January, and Ramona reunited with Mario in late April, attending couples therapy with him and giving their marriage another chance. In response to Ramona’s reconciliation with her husband, the mistress, Kasey Dexter, sent Ramona a letter detailing her relationship with Mario and claiming that Mario loved her. (This sounds just like Mr. Selfridge, and in that case the wife realized that the letter meant her husband had broken up with the mistress.) So now Ramona is sending Kasey a cease and desist to stay away from her and from Mario. Give me a break.
And now, Life & Style reports that Singer had her and Mario’s attorney send a cease and desist letter to his mistress — warning her to back off!
According to the report, the RHONYC wine maker , 57, had her and Mario’s attorney send Dexter, 32, a letter telling the personal trainer not to contact them “in any manner, fashion, or form… in person, telephonically, electronically, by mail or by any other means.”
Singer filed for divorce from Mario, 60, in January after his cheating allegations surfaced, but later had a change of heart and took him back, even though Dexter had allegedly penned a shocking letter to Ramona about her explosive affair with the reality TV hubby. In it, Dexter reportedly gave the housewife an ultimatum—either you leave Mario or I will!
[From Life & Style via Radar]
Is this a Leann Rimes type situation, where the mistress is stalking the husband and his on-again wife, or is this just a way of Ramona trying to assert her authority over something she has no control over? A C&D is not going to keep her husband’s dick in his pants. He’s the one who cheated, if it wasn’t this woman it would have been someone else. Maybe it’s a bunny boiling situation, though, or maybe Ramona just wants us to think that’s what it is.
Meanwhile I’m sure you heard about Ramona throwing a wine glass in Kristen Taekman’s face on an episode of RHONY and cutting her lip, drawing blood. I’m sure that Ramona has been scripted as the crazy bitch, but she surely threw that glass on her own according and she could have seriously hurt Kristen. I don’t watch this show but from what I know of Ramona she has drinking and anger issues. She also has a cheating husband issue obviously, and she’s focusing on the wrong party if she’s blaming the mistress.
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I don’t really care about their marriage and whatnot but that lady has some crazy eyes, like kill you in your sleep crazy.
I remember some years ago of a publicized story where in a woman had an eye job botched to the point that she couldn’t completely close her eyes, and so she filed a lawsuit, Maybe Ragin’ Ramona had the same surgeon? http://abcnews.go.com/Health/nj-woman-close-eyes-sues-plastic-surgeon/story?id=13259843
Exactly, if I was the mistress I would run far, far away from both these two idiots…
I agree she has the crazy eye! Lots of people don’t get that when I say it but I know a few people with that creepy Manson stare. No thanks! Other than that, I don’t get why these women are so insecure they all look amazing for their ages! Just dump the husbands and move on.
don’t know who these people are, but that’s a pathetic move. have some dignity, woman.
All of you just get out! Mario is mine! He’s so hot with his sweaty face and paunchy belly. The man has class, obviously. He married Ramona didn’t he? Who doesn’t want to carry on with this sexy, in his sixties, swinger who HAS HIS OWN BUSINESS making religious jewelry and medals. I’ll fight you all over him. Swoon……
She’s crazy as hell and hyper controlling. It will be interesting what she says about this matter at the reunion because she completely shuts down if anyone brings it up.
The delusion is strong with this one. She is a truly nasty, selfish piece of work. Either her behavior is scripted, or she is completely off her rocker.
It’s pretty disgusting to watch grown ass women acting like fools. Whatever happened to a little self respect and manners? I didn’t pull that crap when I was in High school. Let’s put on our big girl panties and start acting like you have some sense.
I had an (ex) boyfriend put 12 staples in my head from throwing a plastic water bottle at me during an argument so hearing Ramona did that to someone WITH A GLASS BOTTLE, makes me want to cry. That is so unbelieveable horrible and could turn disastrous. Ugh.
It was a wine GLASS not a bottle! The lip didn’t even swell for God’s sake. It’s just drummed up drama….and yeah, it’s wrong to throw stuff at someone…but they totally milked this one for all it’s worth. Romona is nuts…no doubt about it…but like most women…she’s focused on the mistress and not the cheating husband. How does that happen? The wife always blames the mistress…but her husband is treated like he’s totally vunerable and led astray by the mistress. BULLS**T. Put the blame where it belongs. The married partner is the cheater…he’s the one in the union…not the single mistress…assuming she WAS single. Regardless…the husband is equally guilty…but always gets a “FREE” card when it comes to these pathetic wives who don’t want to accept that their husbands cheated ON THEM. That makes THEM look bad so they blame the mistress.
Play victim all you want…HE’s the one who needs to cease and desist!
I find your anger very offensive. I am in no way playing the victim I said that I can’t believe someone would throw GLASS when a PLASTIC water bottle put staples into my head. You completely missed my point.
@Suzanneg444
The name of the person she threw the wine glass at is not the same as the name of the mistress so I don’t understand why you conflated her anger at the mistress with what she did throwing the wine glass. The fact that it was a glass as opposed to a bottle doesn’t significantly negate the woman’s actions as the injuries could have been much worse and any decent human being knows full well you don’t throw glass (broken or not) at someone’s face. It doesn’t matter that it’s all drummed up drama unless you’re asserting that the entire glass throwing scene was scripted and choreographed with the injured party willingly consenting to being on the receiving end of a glass to her face.
Your little diatribe reads as if you a either Ramona Singer or one of her friends trying to minimize her actions and deflect
It doesn’t really matter if the lip was swollen, Ramona threw the glass at Kristen, it hit her lip and it was bleeding. Why would anyone consent to being on the receiving end of an object like a glass being thrown at their face? That doesn’t even sound logical and I believe a lot of reality tv is scripted. Bottom line, If you draw blood, that’s a serious thing. Also, Ramona tried to hit her with an oar.
I would say that Ramona DID direct her anger at Mario. She started divorce proceedings when she found out. I think she filed a C&D when she got that ridiculous letter from the mistress. “either you leave Mario or I will”?? The easy response to that is “Girl BYE!”.
“A C&D is not going to keep her husband’s dick in his pants.” AMEN. (And don’t forget that both Mario and the mistress have openly stated that she got pregnant by him last summer and terminated the pregnancy.)
I honestly cannot wrap my head around completely delusional wives who not only 1. Stay with the men they without question KNOW are/have been cheating on them but also 2. Insist on “blaming” the other woman for all their marital problems and relationship breakdown giving the husband a partial or total free pass! (My favorite act of ppl on this level of crazy was the-now thankfully waning-trend of wives staying with their philandering husbands but SUING the other woman.)
I mean, this dude not only doesn’t see you as being good enough but also disrespects you enough to PUT HIS PEEN IN ANOTHER PERSON. And on top of it all, you’re fighting to keep him????
At the end of the day I guess these two idiots deserve each other. They’re like a sadder 50-something version of Tom and Kristen from Vanderpump Rules.
…yup. And not just once. Again and again and again, for maybe a year, and other sites say Mario Singer has texted the other woman. I do hope Ramona copied her husband on her cease and desist.
Ramona is a disgusting human being. She whipped a hard plastic glass at another woman’s face – after tossing wine in this woman’s face, twice – cut her, and then tried to grab an oar to continue to go after the woman. She deserves any and every bad thing that happens to her.
I didn’t see your post until after I posted mine and it appears we are on the same page with regard to the cheating husbands always getting a free pass. I agree…the dumb wives always wallow in self pity and smear the mistress when their own louse of a husband…gets off scott free. He’s probably cheated before…and will again. He just picked one this time that wasn’t going away quietly.
A quick Google search shows that Kasey Dexter has shown this sort of obsessive behavior before. She needs help. A cease and desist order may be the first step in encouraging her to get help, but probably won’t happen.
Since when is having a longterm affair with a completely willing and able married man and telling his wife about of considered “obsessive”?
Your comment sounds a lot like the “stalking” BS that Brandi Glanville ran to US Weekly about back when she and Eddie were still married and he was banging LeAnn all the while. Obviously her “stalking” didn’t bother him too much nor does Kasey’s “obsessiveness” bother Mario. The only one laughing here is Mario while Ramona throws away her dignity by the second and the mistress continues to be involved with him.
She’s currently being sued by her former boyfriend, who was also her boss, for similar actions – began the same way and became obsessive. It looks like she’s just changed targets.
Exactly. I do not believe all mistresses are crazy, but I think this one could actually be dangerous. Bunny Boiler for sure.
She ADMITS to her own “obsessive” behaviors. She said she had an “unhealthy obsession” with her last boyfriend, who is suing her for it. I don’t blame Ramona one bit, and I’m not a huge Ramona fan. This is a smart move.
NEW REALITY SHOW COMING! Ramona is definitely a bunny boiler too. Are these stories some kind of set-up for a “Celebrity Wrestling Match?’
Thyroid Eyes Ramona Singer is Bat$hit Crazy, and I’d be seriously surprised if she has a 2-digit I.Q.
How this woman ever made any $$$ is beyond me…life is not fair. I’d be afraid to associate with her in real life…she is just plain NUTS.
Need to add a P.S. to this: Taking Mario BACK proves she is Bat$hit Crazy.
Ramona is pathetic. She is a vile, nasty and mean spirited woman who had no trouble mocking LuAnn De Lesepp’s husbands infidelity BUT wants privacy and respect reharding her own husbands transgressions.
She should have gotten a letter from Taekman’s lawyer over that glass throwing incident.
Cannot stand Ramona.
Ditto.
She could have put that woman’s eye out and justified it by saying the other woman had thrown “water” on her. Yeah, Ramona, you MORON, water is not going to damage any body parts, but sharp shreds of glass certainly will, and it gave your “victim” a black eye. You are lucky that’s all she got.
Ramona is both vile and ignorant beyond belief.
No idea who they are, but she looks all kinds of frantically desperate, and he looks completely checked out of the relationship.
I could care less about these people but she has an ‘ugly shoe’ issue that’s for sure.
I don’t even like Ramona but this mistress sounds like an scary person. She has no right contacting Ramona and demanding anything from her. She’s the outsider here and needs to step back.
Yep, this sounds like something Ramona would do!
The mistress is a well known nut job.
Ramona was totally correct to take it to the lawyer and she was also SMART, not stupid, for taking her husband back. Long term, two fold, nothing BURNS “the other woman” more than taking the husband back AND shes in it for the long haul. She really loves Mario, why shouldnt she forgive him?? Forgiveness and moving on is what marriage is all about. Going the distance. They built a huge, successful life together. Why should Ramona go anywhere just because some RANDOM piece of ass mistake thinks she can edge her out of the picture??? The mistress is the one who needs to check herself, not Ramona. Say what you will about Ramona, fan or not, she is no fool and she has her priorities straight. If anyone needs to “pull their big girl panties on” its the mistress to get a life and stop getting with married men. Delusional loser tool.
Lots of women decide that their marriage is worth salvaging, despite infidelity. I don’t judge her for that, it’s her decision. I do, however, judge her harshly for being SO volatile as to throw a glass at someone over them splashing her and ruining her blow out. Those are the actions of a person who has anger and self-control issues.
This will sound terrible, but I don’t really care. If i was married to Ramona, I would cheat with anyone wiling, just to get away from her.
Ramona might be the most disgusting, arrogant, violent, delusional, narcissistic piece of crap I’ve ever seen on my screen. She’s a F*cking train wreck. And honestly, there is a part of me that is happy that she’s feeling some pain over this.
That’s horrible isn’t it? Oh well.