Diane Kruger: ‘Most women dress for other women. It’s easy to please a man.’

Diane Kruger

Diane Kruger is one of those people we rarely cover because she’s very restrained in her public image. I admire her from afar and would love to look like her and cozy up to Joshua Jackson every night. There are occasional juicy blind items that point towards her private life, but I don’t put much stock into them.

Diane is raring up for the second season of The Bridge, in which she plays a detective with Asperger’s syndrome. She’s also the face of Mytheresa, so she’s given some fashion-type interviews. She did a video interview with Harper’s Bazaar where she raves about her favorite Stella McCartney dress (ack). Diane says, “I think most women dress for other women. It’s easy to please a man, the shorter the skirt and the sexier the dress, they will most likely approve of your outfit.” Do most women really dress for other women? That’s hard for me to relate to. Most of my friends are pretty casual, and working at home means I rarely dress up at all. What do you think?

Diane also did a cover story with the Sunday Times. She talks about a lot of stuff:

She & Joshua threw a bbq for 45 friends: “I didn’t hire any help. We cooked for two days, then had to clean up for two and a half days. We both love cooking, so we made everything from scratch. He smoked the ribs first for hours, and I baked the cake. It was endless, but fun. Well … you can’t spend your life drinking cocktails at the Chateau Marmont. I’ve come to accept that being still for a minute is actually a good thing, and yes, some of that comes from having a partner who gives me a strong sense of myself.” She says they love to “hike, and throw lots of parties for friends.”

The reality of Hollywood: “It’s a tough place, as glamorous as you think it is, and as ugly as you think it is. Everyone in LA is scared. Everyone is worried that if you don’t take this job, it’s over. I see it all the time: men and women who come here and are miserable. You have to have a strong sense of yourself away from it all. There’s a whole other side to me that nobody knows.”

Playing a detective with Asperger’s: “A lot of girls who have it are labelled cold or a bitch. That’s very telling of our society.” Coldness is rarely what it seems, I say. “Listen, I fight that every day. I think men can make comments or have strong opinions, and people will say they’re a genius or intense. Or smart. As women, we get labelled, ‘Oh, she’s a bitch, she’s difficult.’ And often, you’re just trying to get something done.”

Talk of kids with Joshua: Next, she’s making a French film — she tries to do one a year, so she can spend time in her house in Paris. Jackson is “doing a project” in Montauk, Long Island, so they will “probably spend the summer in New York.” “We don’t have kids yet,” she says, “but I assume that if we have some, travelling is going to be more difficult.” She says that LA is “great for younger kids, but for education, I think it would need to be Europe.”

Acting at age 37: “Most of us want to hide, we’re scared of being hurt, but you have to be ready to be open and vulnerable, and that can be exhilarating. Some people say, ‘Oh no, I couldn’t do that, that’s too much.’ I have never, ever felt that. There’s no limit to what you can do if you work hard enough for it.”

[From Sunday Times]

There’s plenty to digest in this interview. The part about being labelled “cold or a bitch” is interesting, not just in the context of The Bridge. Diane is a fashion girl and is often seen but not heard on the red carpet. Her classic, ice blonde looks also contribute to a “cold” look at times. I think Diane is terrifically glamourous, but her words tell me that she’s dealt with a lot of judgy sniping.

The part about Diane and Joshua throwing a huge barbeque party for their friends is kinda awesome. They both did everything and didn’t hire any help. I believe it. Diane is always papped at the grocery store. She buys a lot food for a person who says she forgets to eat. Here she is a few weeks ago with two separate grocery hauls, two days apart.

Diane Kruger

Diane Kruger

Photos courtesy of Sunday Times, Fame/Flynet & WENN

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  1. TheOriginalKittenq says:

    I never understood the “most women dress for other women” crap.
    I don’t dress for men or for other women, I dress for myself.
    I know what clothes flatters me and I know what doesn’t work. I have a very distinct style and I don’t GAF what men OR women think about it.

    That being said, I love her and I love her boyfriend even more.

    • Faye says:

      I think what she means is that a lot of the fashion standards we set for ourselves are formed or influenced by women -whether the ones we know in our community, or the ones we follow in the fashion world. I agree that men’s tastes in women’s fashion are pretty simple, LOL. And I don’t think that necessarily conflicts with dressing for yourself and for what you like.

      • Josefa says:

        Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking as well, and I kinda agree with her. I don’t dress to please other women, but I do listen to their opinions. If they tell me a particular color looks very good on my skin, I’m likely to buy more clothing of that color. If they tell me these jeans make my a*s look amazing, I’ll wear them more often.

        I guess her point was it doesn’t make much sense for women to dress for other men, because men don’t give a damn about it lol.

    • Kiddo says:

      I am guessing you wear very very short-short shorty shorts in beige. 😛 ( see prior reference to coop, thought you were Goodnames, the heat is obviously frying the remaining neurons)

    • Hannah says:

      I’m totally with you, Kitten. Sometimes I feel like wearing something kinda revealing/sexy for no other reason than that I want to, not to attract a man. And other times (most of the time) I wear stuff that men probably aren’t crazy about – because I want to.

    • kri says:

      I’m thinking that she means maybe in LA alot of dressing up is competitive, Red acrpets would scare the shit out of me, even if I had the body, the dress, the money and the treatments, etc. I really like her. She has that ideal I admire in actors when they are really more about doing good work than being” famous”.

    • Godwina says:

      I dress for myself some days, and for men other days (I’m newly single–believe me, I’m dressing for men a LOT, but even then it’s for the kind of man who I think is attractive–there lots of men out there I deliberately do NOT dress for). I never really think about “dressing for women.” More like “general public,” which is made up of men who don’t give a toss about fashion, women who don’t give a toss, and men and women who *do*. I dress for the demographic among human beings to which I want to belong (bookish intellectuals who like classic clothes). Style has a lot to do with that. I think ultimately different people have different motives on different days (and some days zero motives).

      I’m with you guys. Ugh to this generalizing essentialist crap.

    • Bernice says:

      Not to be argumentative, but you say you know what clothes “flatter you”. So, you are dressing for some one other than yourself. Those who dress for themselves don’t care if it flatters them, they dress for what FEELS good to them, what makes them feel the best whether it’s comfort or a style that suits their inner sense of themselves.

      • mmerain says:

        What feels good to me is to wear clothes that flatter me. Sometimes i’m lazy and wear whatever and other times I want to look good, for myself. Nothing to do with other women or men. If they like it, good, if they don’t, too bad 😀

  2. alexi says:

    My hubby says the sameee thing.

  3. starfan says:

    Love the “cold b!tch” comment. The things that are considered endearing, strong or admirable for men are seen as annoying or bitchy for women.

  4. Audrey says:

    My husband is so low maintenance.

    He is honestly fine when I’m in yoga pants and a tank top (I’m a stay at home mom so this is my normal).

    Really when I dress up its more for myself and so I feel good enough to be out with him. He is fine with my usual but I’m not

    • Dan says:

      Deep down inside he probably isn’t. He doesn’t want a frumpy wife he wants a sexed up mistress. He may say one thing but if you wore something sexy or tight every day he would be delighted

  5. Snowflake says:

    I think women do dress for other women. I don’t think men care if you have a Louis Vuitton bag or a walmart bag. Plus women cAn often be very judgy about other women’s appearance and dress.

    • stellalovejoydiver says:

      I only dress for myself, but a compliment from a woman feels so much better than from a man.

    • Eleonoy says:

      I’ve never met a man who knows what a Birkin is.
      My boyfriend couldn’t tell Gucci from Louis Vuitton.

    • Jeanne says:

      Agreed. Men notice sexy or not sexy, but they aren’t nearly as concerned with brands and trends.

  6. Whatwhatnot says:

    I say this all the time

    Most hetero men don’t even notice when you’ve changed your hair color, much less care what you wear. You can easily impress them by wearing some cheap, tight frock from the $10 store and Payless heels and they won’t know the difference

    When I was younger it was all about going out dressed to the 9’s cuz some girls can get catty with the whole OMG what is she wearing? Her makeup is hideous, those shoes are so fug” type comments lol.

  7. Jess says:

    I get what she’s saying. I dress for myself but I know it’s much harder to impress women with what I wear. So I appreciate a compliment from a woman more than one from a man.
    Ps I love that cover shot!

  8. Dame Snarkweek says:

    I’ve always dressed for myself. My tastes run towards the conservative, preppy, Brooks Brothers/JCrew/LLBean look so I wasn’t going to have the girls’ approval anyway. Oddly enough, when I used to go out I would totally dress for my bf or the guys in general. Short, skimpy, stilettos, tousled curls the whole nine yards, lol. But I enjoyed it in my own right. I only got grief from my mother if she happened to see me before or after a night out lol.

  9. Godwina says:

    Cheesy Jeezy, when will celebs learn just to NOT make gender statements, period? They always come off so ignorant, and are bound to annoy/lose fans. This is just way too 1950s for me. Diane ought to speak for herself, not for women at large–THAT I could respect.

  10. INeedANap says:

    Her commentary on the difference in the way men and women are perceived is nuanced and spot on. Very insightful and very true. We are punished for being focused and ambitious. Sugar and spice and everything nice is nothing but a cage. Bah.

  11. Nene says:

    I agree although it’s hard for us women to admit this. But at the very back of our mind we know it’s true.
    However this doesn’t negate the fact that one also dresses to look good for themselve without a hoot what anyone else thinks.
    More often than not I dress how I see fit which is for comfort,to suit the occasion or weather and my body type.
    Am more of a romantic/sporty dresser so basically I hate to show much skin.
    I love to play up my tiny waist,flat abs,lean shoulders and arms which are the best features of the pear shape.
    My point is when you focus on your best feature(s),you look and feel better about yourself,then you wouldn’t care less what anyone else says or thinks about your outfit.

  12. Mrs McCubbins says:

    I agree with her.