Ben Affleck has anger management issues: ‘it’s not something I have control over’

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I worry about Ben Affleck. He regularly tells journalists his issues, to the point where Kanye West uses him as a cautionary tale. Maybe the guy is calculating how much to share in order to score headlines, but I think there’s an earnestness to him, like he thinks that if he keeps it real people will relate to him and understand. I also think he just starts talking to someone and lets his guard down. Hence this interview with The London Sunday Times, where Ben admits that he relates to his upcoming role as Batman, because he too has anger management issues. He seems to come to this realization during the course of his discussion with the journalist, and maybe it’s part of his process of getting into the role. Affleck also compares himself to Scott Peterson in terms of how much the press turned on him in the early ‘aughts, which he’s done at least twice before. He has his talking points and in some cases he’s stuck to them for years. At least he didn’t bring up J.Lo again.

Compares himself to Scott Peterson again
Gone Girl, in part, borrows from the Scott Peterson case. And I remember, when [that case] was happening, I thought, “He and I are getting about the same degree of negative publicity – and he killed his wife!”

On why he took the part in Batman
To get the exposure to a movie of this scale is an education.

You’re always thinking about the momentum you’re trying to build in your career. There are dual thought processes – on the one hand, you’re going, “What’s interesting to me?” On the other hand, you’re thinking, “How do I give myself the opportunity to do those things?” And that calculus, I think, consciously or subconsciously, is part of any career thought process.

On the criticism of his casting as Batman
I don’t worry too much about what other people say about me versus my own ideas and standards, what I’d like to do. Particularly given that when I set out, in 2002 or so, to be a director, if I had listened to all the things people said about whether or not I’d be successful and what kind of movies I’d make, I never would have done it. It was a really good lesson in self-determination and trusting my instincts.

On Batman’s suppressed rage
I think it’s a necessity, historically, in the tradition of these films. For me, anger is so deeply buried and contained that when it does kind of come out, it comes out in stronger bursts. I tend to be respectful, polite, get along, put up with, put up with, put up with … then, when it finally emerges, it’s not something I have a ton of control over. I’m not gonna go into a Wolverine berserker rage, but I do have a, I do… That is an interesting thing that you point out. That’s my personality… By the way, that’s a character flaw, I think.

[From The Sunday Times via US Magazine]

Affleck also talks a little about his wife, Jennifer Garner, and how she helps soothe his neurotic self-criticism prior to taking on directing projects. He admits that he catastrophizes the situation until she tells him that he was just as insecure with his last movie. He said that “she’s so on the money.

In terms of his anger issues, he doesn’t seem to be saying he flies into a rage so much as he doesn’t say anything until things get really bad, at which point he reacts more severely than he normally would. Affleck is under a lot of scrutiny. I think that if he had serious anger management issues, like his predecessor Christian Bale, we would have heard about it already. Maybe his statement was a kind of nod to Bale and an acknowledgment that outbursts happen.

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  1. Tiffany27 says:

    I think Kanye is a stan of Ben. Seriously.

  2. MrsBPitt says:

    Wow…that body!!!! Zowee!!!! Excuse me a minute…..be right back…

    AHH…SWEET MYSTERY OF LIFE, AT LAST I’VE FOUND YOU….

    whew…that’ better!!!!!

    No wonder Kanye has the hots for Ben!!!!!

  3. Al says:

    Love him. He is a Class A man.

  4. Jayna says:

    My father was like that. Sweet man. We didn’t see his anger often, but when it blew, it really blew.

    He’s right about directing. Few believed in him when he took on Gone Baby Gone.

  5. Lori says:

    The Scot Peterson Reference is thoughtless and careless of him. I wish he’d stop using it.

    • A says:

      In the article, it talks about how the film used that case as a reference point. So I think that’s why it’s been on his mind in the past couple of years.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      He need to stop comparing himself to Scott, it’s weird and it misrepresents the past. Affleck may have felt as persecuted and hated as Peterson but he wasn’t and it’s gross exaggeration to suggest otherwise.

  6. MrsBPitt says:

    I know exactly what BA is talking about….I do the same thing…I push every resentment and anger deep down, until someone drops a chip on the floor and its like the Incredible Hulk comes out….I have problems….lol

    • Micki says:

      Ha, I’ve just discovered I need Anger Management too.
      I just hate when people take my self-imposed patience for weakness and keep jumping merrily on my tail and then complain I bit the head off.

  7. Jaderu says:

    I’m still hesitant to say that Ben is a good choice for Batman (I wanna see it first) but I do like Ben. More so as a director though. I really liked Argo. I do think however that he rambles too much in interviews and over talks certain things. Rein it in Ben.

  8. kennedy says:

    I actually really like him in interviews. I think he’s very honest, almost to a fault. But it never rubs me the wrong way. The fact that he has a personality is vital considering his wife is the definition of BEIGE.

    • Happyhat says:

      I’m starting to think that Jennifer may be the perfect woman for him. What better colour to temper the red mist than beige!

    • A says:

      Agreed. He’s way more reserved in interviews than he used to be but he still wears his heart on his sleeve to a certain extent and it makes for great interviews.

    • Dee says:

      I disagree. Jennifer is the funny one. Watch her on YouTube, like The Ellen Show, for example. She is not boring. Ben’s interview are very entertaining. You will never know what will come out of his mouth.

  9. Hawkeye says:

    Jennifer Garner doesn’t get enough credit for how much she’s helped his image.

    • don't kill me i'm french says:

      +1,000
      Without Jennifer Garner and her 10,000 photo-ops with their kids ,he always would be the idiot stroking JLo’s butt on an yatch in a video clip in the mind of all

    • Lori says:

      I think she gets all the credit all the time for the change in his public image. And that a big part of the problem. Its the women in his life that direct the PR. GOOP, J-Lo and the Garner. He just truck along working and gambling and lets his woman handle his image like she’s folding his laundry.

      • tabasco says:

        That’s a really good point. His image is/was distinctly different with all 3 and matched *their* vibe. He seems to need to be with a controlling/dominant woman. Garner might not seem “dominant,” but she definitely is in the way she keeps his shit on lock.

      • Emma - the JP Lover says:

        @Lori, who wrote: “I think she gets all the credit all the time for the change in his public image. And that a big part of the problem. Its the women in his life that direct the PR. GOOP, J-Lo and the Garner. He just truck along working and gambling and lets his woman handle his image like she’s folding his laundry.”

        Thank you for saying what I’ve been thinking. I think people see Ben and that good looking ‘bad boy’ they crushed on in high school. I like Ben well enough, but I think he has ‘ego-itis’ and is a tad too heavy on the ‘little woman’ speech for my taste. It’s not just Ben’s gambling that his wife puts up with. It’s the ego, drinking/substance, and the occasion ‘stripper’ she puts up with as well.

      • A says:

        I don’t think he has changed in any real way, except for maturing and working harder. He was always candid and articulate in interviews, politically engaged, casual style.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      He rehabbed his career by making better movies. Nobody gives a crap about gossip, they care about the bottom line. His image is not as important as his box office, look at Woody Allen, still making movies that sell, still has a career, despite marrying his stepdaughter.

  10. Dawn says:

    I like Ben and I find his honesty sort of refreshing. I think he looks bad-ass in the above photos, what a body! I will say that while reading the book I didn’t imagine Ben in Gone Girl, but I plan on seeing the movie anyway. I wish him luck and much success.

    • Size Does Matter says:

      Agree on all points. Maybe it’s because I was in my more formative years when he became a big deal, but I have a soft spot for Ben.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      I’m not a Ben fan, he’s made too many bad movies for me to trust him but the trailer for Gone Girl looks very intriguing. I hope it’s good.

  11. I actually kind of like the way he talks about how he handles anger. That last bit, where he identifies it as a flaw, is so much better than the vast number of people who have a, “Hey, this is how I am, so deal with it” attitude–and that’s not limited to celebrities.

  12. JenniferJustice says:

    A lot of people bottle up emotions that later erupt or come out too strong. I don’t really see it as a flaw so much as just a certain personality type. Some people don’t voice disappointment or resentment until a pattern emerges and then they lose it. Or they keep taking on too much until they’re overly stressed and explode. Anybody that knows them knows when this happens it’s because they’re stressed or feeling pushed upon. I wouldn’t take it personal. It’s just how they cope.

    As far as Ben being Batman. I’ll have to wait and see. So far, I prefer him much more in the director’s chair v. in front of the camera. I don’t find him beleivable in much other than Good Will Hunting which was sort of comical – his character. The lateral lisp is distracting. I don’t find him attractive at all, but he seems like basically a pretty good guy. Most of that, though, I credit Jennifer Garner with. She’s done wonders for him – not just his career, but the way he thinks and sees himself.

  13. pnichols says:

    I can relate. You just let it roll and then one day someone drops a pencil and you explode. I’ve always liked him since the Dazed & Confused days, He’s a good egg.

  14. whatsmyname? says:

    Ah I’m the same way, I just bottle it all up and the thing that makes me burst is always something not worth it. People always asume I’m good with letting things go but I’m just saving it up for another time haha.
    I also for some reason find him attractive, mostly in the first pic,even though he is 20 or so years older then me I would still hit it. That is all.

  15. OTHER RENEE says:

    I don’t have that problem. If you do something that pisses me off, you’ll know immediately.

  16. Emma - the JP Lover says:

    @Celebitchy …

    Squee! Our man is returning as Jason Bourne with Paul Greengrass directing! Doing the Happy Dance, Oh Yeah, Un-huh! 🙂 🙂 🙂

  17. tabasco says:

    He looks enormous in these pics! He’s so jacked right now, he can’t even put his arms all the way down by his sides! I think Jennifer Garner is as much a mother to him as she is a wife. That doesn’t really say positive things to me about either of them, but I think a divorced Ben would be a hot mess – double the mess, minus the hot!

  18. PrairieLilly says:

    He’s huge right now and pretty hunky. BUT I think he has a lot issues: alcohol, gambling, fatherhood, maybe fidelity. Kinda like a grown toddler and probably pretty selfish. Still hot tho. But not what I’d want in a husband.

    • A says:

      A grown toddler? Have you ever watched a Ben interview? Particularly when talking current affairs, he comes across as smarter than almost anyone in Hollywood. I think his marriage is solid too – he’s a workaholic but Jennifer seems happy with their life.

    • Dee says:

      There are so many blind gossips that you somehow almost believed some of them. I also agree with Tabasco, a divorced Ben will be a hot mess, not a hot sexy one, but a mess. Hopefully, they are into this marriage because they do love each other not because of staying for kids type of thing. Jennifer deserves to be her own person not just as a mom or the wife of Ben Affleck.

  19. A says:

    He has always been unguarded and straightforward in interviews and I find it really endearing.

  20. Velvet Elvis says:

    Ben Affleck is obviously a huge movie star but he seems so approachable to me. Kinda like the guy next door who made good for himself but you can still hang with.

  21. Dirty Martini says:

    I’m a fan of Bens….and a fan of Jenny with Ben. The dissection of their marriage has always confounded me. They speak honestly and in doing so, all too often, nefarious intent is suggested where none was intended. Marriage isn’t for the weak of heart….you do have to work on it. And its seldom 50/50 all the time….the scales swing back and forth, sometimes wildly, sometimes gently. He has a winner with Jenny–I hope like hades she is getting her share of the pendulum action.

    Feel free to read double entendre meaning into that last sentence.