Tom Hiddleston talks ‘freaky’ sex scenes: ‘Gothic romance is about sexuality’

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I covered Tom Hiddleston’s appearance at Comic-Con on Sunday. Sorry it took me two days to get through some of his new interviews, but in my defense, a lot of stuff happened this weekend! Anyway, Tom looked lovely at Comic-Con and he was very giving and eloquent in interview after interview. He was there solely to promote Crimson Peak, and he was very prepared to answer all kinds of questions about gothic-horror-romance. Gothic Romance is the new Shakespeare, basically. First up, Hiddles chatted with his dear friend Josh Horowitz at MTV. If we’re being fair, Josh has a massive bro-crush on Lord Dragonfly and it’s so obvious that even Jessica Chastain was making fun of Josh. Here’s the video:

Josh asks Tommy about the “freaky” sex scenes between his character and Mia’s character. Hiddleston says: “It is a little freaky, but it is…it comes from the tradition of storytelling where the supernatural is explained through emotional trauma. So there is inherent freakiness involved . Actually, gothic romance is about sexuality, there’s a lot of that literature around and as we know, the Victorians didn’t talk about sex at all so in a way, through ghosts, you could express sort of taboo sexuality…” Since I’ve missed Tommy so much in the past year, I have to say… I enjoy this. I enjoy that he treats his press duties like an opportunity to give intellectual breakdowns and analysis of the subject matter. And it just goes to show you – I wasn’t far off when I said Tommy would probably have a sex scene with a Victorian ghost.

Next up: Tommy spoke to GamesRadar on the red carpet about gothic sex as well. It really seems like all of the nerds are very pleased that Tommy has a proper sex scene at long last. Anyway, he told this outlet: “There’s something about these opposite forces of sex and death in all of our lives. They are inevitable and they are everywhere, and they war. They come to battle each other in gothic romance.” He also talks about the archetype of the tall, dark stranger full of secrets and mysteries. Video below (full disclosure: he looks amazing in this video).

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  1. Betti says:

    His voice is freaky gothic sex all on its own!!!!

  2. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    He’s very much more appealing “live” than in still pictures.

    • LadyMTL says:

      ITA. Whenever I see stills of him I’m like “why did I find this man attractive?” but then I watch a video like the one above and it comes back to me.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      It’s the energy

  3. Lilacflowers says:

    Thank you! My husband Tom’s lovely voice talking about sex is always a delightful way to start the day.

    Colin has arranged for a delicious breakfast buffet on the porch for all Dragonflies.

    • Secret squirrel says:

      Thanks Lilac. I’ll have a toasty hot crumpet with Hiddlesberry jam and whipped cream.

      Is mine the only boggled mind as to how he researched for this role? :0)

    • p'enny says:

      Lilacflowers, can you tell us more about Hiddleston & Horowitz business ideas now, has he shared with you? since that interview I imagine they have worked out a plan, with Jessica C creative input. I am sure stamps was a cover for something more primal and fun?

      • Lilacflowers says:

        They’ve made Jessica CEO. I’ve heard something about gothic puppy grinders and something else about an accessory line for tennis watching, adorned with dragonflies

      • p'enny says:

        that could work,

        Hiddleston & Horowitz Puppy Grinders
        www. h&hpuppygrindingdragonfliesoffun .com

    • I Choose Me says:

      Ermagherd. I love his voice so very, very, much.

  4. INeedANap says:

    Oh TommyAnna, your enthusiasm for your work (whether genuine or feigned) is such a delight in this era of “too cool for school”, ultra-chill nonsense. It also helps that you’re pretty.

    • Dara says:

      Sigh — so, so pretty.

      I’d say for the most part his enthusiasm is genuine – although maybe amped up a little depending on the circumstances. I think Tom has been fortunate in his career thus far, all of the projects he’s been called upon to promote are things any actor would be truly excited about so it’s been an easy sell. When he eventually has a stinker of a project on his resume (it happens to all actors eventually), it will be interesting to see if there is a difference in attitude or presentation.

  5. daisyfly says:

    *BOOM*

    Pregnant.

    • Allegra says:

      Try this one too with Tom and Del Toro at Nerdist Podcast:
      youtube.com/watch?v=TPh2YDP75-4&app=desktop

      • Lucretia says:

        Loved the teasing. Interesting to watch Tom in repose, when del Toro was speaking — I’m not sure he can sit still. It’s a whole different thing to watch him teased (and ganged up on) and responding to that, in contrast to when he’s being interviewed and the intellectual soliloquies.

      • NUTBALLS says:

        I love it too Lucretia. The only time his loquaciousness is cured is when he’s being teased about his nudity, his “pogo stick” or his adoring fans.

      • TotallyBiased says:

        Nutty–you mean Loki’s POKY stick!? I’m still laughing at that one. Along with “enjoy your Hiddlebabies” and “I’ve been trying to get pregnant by that guy forever!” from the CP panel earlier.
        What is it about shorter guys and their mancrushes on our Lord Dragonfly?

      • NUTBALLS says:

        TB/Allegra, Is there a better audio/video of the Nerdist podcast? Tom being roasted and teased is awesome, but I think I missed a bit what was being said.

      • Dara says:

        @Nutty, I think the official version will eventually be here http://nerdist.com/podcasts/ – they also usually go in the podcast section of iTunes. Not sure if there will be official video, which might be a great loss for humanity. Watching Guillermo mercilessly tease Tom is really something that deserves to be seen in HD. Also, if you haven’t listened to the Nerdist podcast Tom did for Thor:TDW I really recommend it http://nerdist.com/nerdist-podcast-tom-hiddleston/

      • Allegra says:

        @NUT:
        Like Dara said, not yet. They just released this one:
        http://nerdist.com/nerdist-podcast-live-from-sdcc-with-sir-ben-kingsley-and-peter-capaldi/

      • Lilacflowers says:

        It is driving me crazy that they haven’t released that podcast yet. Just seeing that excerpt over and over everywhere is driving me nuts because it is only a small portion of the podcast and I want to hear/see the rest. Somebody posted a link to a poor quality video of it, which had decent sound, that contained much more of the podcast but even that cut off before the end, with Tom in mid-sentence about I Saw the Light.

      • NUTBALLS says:

        Ladies, please let us know here when the podcast is up. I want to hear the whole damn thing. Especially if he’s talking about SEX or ISTL.

      • Allegra says:

        @NUT:

        Here is the link of the second part of the interview. It just has 2 minutes because the lady that was recording the video was caught and asked to stop it.
        The sound is not good but at least we can see our handsome Tom:
        http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WDb0nszhmvw

  6. Secret squirrel says:

    Thanks Tom, but I’m struggling to understand and I’m going to need a one-on-one private lesson. I’ll bring the ghost costume (searches online for a Casper the friendly ghost costume)…

    • p'enny says:

      Casper? not my idea of gothic-freaking one on one role play with Tom #blush
      Of course, Tom did rock that gown in Coriolanus – sort of Casper looking.

      okay, you can play ghosts and when Tom is released and comes to my house for a private lesson, I will ask him to dress as Mr Rochester to explain things…and I will dress as Bertha, because she’s more fun.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      He’s not allowed to wear clothes at home unless I feel like dressing him up

  7. Izzy says:

    I cannot WAIT to see this movie. Not just because of Tom Hiddleston and his panty-dropper voice, but that certainly helps.

    • Allegra says:

      Me too. Here is another interview:
      eonline.com/videos/238006/tom-hiddleston-shows-off-his-hot-butt

      • Izzy says:

        Thank you Allegra. You are a true friend.

      • Allegra says:

        You’re welcome!
        And here another video the fans found it. Tom´s interview started at 5:40. Enjoyed it!
        youtube.com/watch?v=3ZaMIBx5FOE&feature=youtu.be&a

  8. kri says:

    Ain’t no sex like Gothic sex, cause the Gothic sex don’t stop. Sighhhhhhhhhh.

  9. Lama Bean says:

    I just adore this man. He seems like such a good guy who I really grateful for his success.

    • tigerlily says:

      Agreed. He is so earnest and sweet. I like what he’s wearing too…casual outfit but good color jacket for him. I like the shoes but not sure I like them with those pants. But really…when I saw the post I was like…squeee. Am looking after my elderly mama this afternoon as she recovers from a tummy bug….I think i’ll put The Hollow Crown on dvd to watch.

  10. Original Cyn says:

    I’m always disappointed when he poses with his hands in is pockets. It’s just not the same when he doesn’t flaunt the Hiddleconda in his pants.

  11. Tig says:

    The second video-!! I think the interviewer’s arm was cramping up-LOL! Tom was going on and on while the guy holding the mike is looking like “when does he stopppp???”. I really enjoy his enthusiasm and eloquence-nice for a change.

    • p'enny says:

      The interview made a beginner’s mistake with Tom, and should have followed the lead of previous interviewers and asked him something funny and imaginative, like “what would loki do in a haunted house? he loved that question and thanked the interviewer.
      I loved his pretending to be ghosts going ‘oooooh’

  12. Lk says:

    I love me some Tommy but damn, can’t take me eyes off of Jessica Chastain- she’s stunning! And i love that Mia is sitting there in between those two being all her lovely chill self.

    • NUTBALLS says:

      She does have the old Hollywood glamour. I think she’s gorgeous and her and Tom look striking together.

      I like their playfulness with each other too.

    • esthetix says:

      Not only that, she has charisma! Never saw an interview with Chastain before. Maybe because she’s always in serious movies and kinda low key, I always imagined her being one of those “serious” actors that only talk about “the process”. But, goodness, she is appealing. I would devour a romantic comedy with Tom and Jessica. Much ado about nothing?

      • NUTBALLS says:

        I would enjoy seeing them in a love scene together, more than him and Mia.

      • esthetix says:

        It would certainly be more fun. Chastain has a naughty sense of humor that I think Tom shares but tries to suppress during press junkets.

      • NUTBALLS says:

        Yes, Jessica does seem to have a naughty sense of humor, as does “Push-harder!-That’s-what-they-all-say” Tom. I bet the two of them were enjoying all sorts of dirty jokes on set.

        I do wish he would loosen up and let that side of himself come out while promoting this film. It doesn’t seem to be a part of the persona he wants to project. But it’s a really fun side of him… makes him more interesting.

    • Dara says:

      Jessica is gorgeous – and I never realized how fun she is, I think I’ve only ever read print interviews and haven’t seen her on junkets. I was also surprised at how tiny/short she is. Even in heels she’s inches shorter than Mia. Has anyone else seen her photo with Gwen Christie? Next to Gwen the Magnificent Jessica looks like a child.

      I have a soft spot for Mia as well. You could tell she wasn’t in her comfort zone at SCDD but she’s lovely and sweet and anyone that can hold their own onscreen with Tilda and Tom has my blessing. She still drank Ian though, and I can’t quite forgive her for that.

  13. meme says:

    You all can have Hiddles. Does Charlie Hunnam have any sex scenes? I want to see those! Charlie’s a god.

    • p'enny says:

      he certainly is, I’m watching S7 Sons of Anarchy, I need a cold shower afterwards.

      • meme says:

        that ASS!!!! Charlie’s got the best butt ever. I miss Jax and SOA. Can’t wait to see Charlie in CP.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      They’ve all been extremely secretive about what Charlie actually does in this film other than to say how much they all love him and Jessica thinks he’s gorgeous

  14. et alors says:

    I posted these cute interviews in the last TH post, but I’ll put them here, too, as they’re worth watching. Tom and Mia discuss their sex scene, with Tom apologizing to Mia; Tom mimics Jessica and does his Chris Evans impression; and Jessica talks about how sweet Charlie Hunnam is.

    http://www.eonline.com/videos/238006/tom-hiddleston-shows-off-his-hot-butt
    http://www.eonline.com/videos/238007/watch-tom-hiddleston-impersonate-chris-evans-and-more
    http://www.eonline.com/videos/238011/is-jessica-chastain-in-love-with-charlie-hunnam

    • p'enny says:

      I love those interviews, brilliant.
      I can’t see the last one though.
      Bring on the CP tour!

      • et alors says:

        Really, p’enny? I just clicked on the link, and it worked fine. You can find it on the page with the other videos, though, if you want to see it. Jessica talks about the birthday gift Charlie got her and elbows Tom when she mentions how they lucked out with the gorgeous men in the film.

    • esthetix says:

      Thank you et alors, you are a treasure!

      • et alors says:

        Aw, you’re welcome, esthetix. I have so many work deadlines this week that I should be focusing on, but all these new interviews are so great! I’ll leave you with this MTV Vine of Tom flirtatiously asking Josh Horowitz, “What bodily functions happen when you’re happy, Josh?”

        https://twitter.com/LoverHippie/status/620756824711671808

        You can hear Jessica laughing in the background. I love her.

      • Lilacflowers says:

        Is that interview in its entirety any where?

      • et alors says:

        You mean the interview that the Vine is from, Lilacflowers? No, unfortunately, that’s all I’ve seen.

  15. Samantha says:

    I’m a huge nerd, but I think I like him best when he’s babbling about literature. Swoon.

  16. Lucretia says:

    So, del Toro was asked about nudity and pretty much admitted we see A LOT of Sir Thomas. Tom feigned embarrassment, so we shall SEE . . .

    • Ava says:

      I am not going to hold my breath. It’s rated R for bloody violence some sexual content and brief strong language. I feel like they like teasing him. I feel like his butt and some passionate kissing. Which is still good…lol

      • Lucretia says:

        Sigh. I expect you’re right. Some things are better left to imagination (or very tight trousers) anyway . . .

  17. et alors says:

    AAHHHH, the elusive Hiddleston/Laurie pic! Fashion plate Tom is in a blue button down with what looks like black basketball shorts, and wow, Hugh is tall.

    https://twitter.com/maryxglz/status/620947048230162432

    • p'enny says:

      And, the bad shorts awards goes to….

      all of them. 🙂

    • NUTBALLS says:

      Oh Tom, let me help you get those god-awful shorts off, dear.

      While we’re at it, let’s take that lovely blue shirt off as well…

    • TotallyBiased says:

      What the heck??!! Were they filming such that they were visible only from the waist up?
      I just can’t imagine Tom combining button down shirt w/board shorts.
      Wait. Actually (remembers yellow ski pants and disco shirt)–yes, yes I can.

      • Lilacflowers says:

        They were partying on a boat near the end of the shoot and the picture seems to have been taken at some point during or after. One of the woman seems to be wearing a cover-up over a bathing suit. Probably multiple random changes in/out of wet bathing suits/random cover-ups for sun protection were in process

  18. j.eyre says:

    Lord Dragonfly developing a taste for gothic sex most welcome news indeed.

  19. koko says:

    After all this “gothic sex” talk, If I don’t need a cigarette after this movie I’ll be disappointed.
    But only slightly….

  20. p'enny says:

    The Save the Arctic campaign has been released this week, with an Andy Gotts exhibition in London during July. Tom’s pic is included, of course. I can’t believe it was a year ago, during the filming of High Rise, that those photos were taken and now they are on public release.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      Gotts got most of the High Rise cast to pose: Tom, Luke Evans, Sienna Miller, Jeremy Irons, Elizabeth Moss. Now, if we could only get some news about the film other than Sienna Guillory’s tweets about how excited she is. I’m beginning to view Lego Loki’s production as the definitive version.

      • TotallyBiased says:

        Wait, you mean it isn’t? 😉
        Seriously, even Laurie Rose was retweeting Brick High Rise–that makes it legit in lieu of the ‘real’ thing until it shows up!

      • Lilacflowers says:

        Brick High-Rise is a masterpiece and Tom signed it

  21. browniecakes says:

    I am not a horror fan and was going to skip this one. In October, I am counting on you guys to tell me if a non horror fan could stomach this film.

  22. karen says:

    I would be lying if I didn’t wish the sex scenes were between Hiddles and Charlie….sigh.

  23. Boston Green Eyes says:

    I just came over here to cleanse my palate and to put my mind at ease. A Hiddleston thread always calms my nerves after all the vitriol that I spew on other threads. Lord Hiddles always has a way of turning me into a soft, sweet kitten. I think it’s the voice, which sounds like warm honey.

    • NUTBALLS says:

      He was once described as “a sugarball rolled in charisma and honey.”

      The PuddleTom brings sunshine, humor, charm and warm fuzzies to a blog that usually features people we want to slap hard and silence with a ball gag. Thank God the Hiddle-drought is finally over.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      The Guardian described his voice as “volcanic sand laced with honey.”

  24. seesittellsit says:

    Toddles is quite right: that daddy of all gothics, Bram Stoker’s “Dracula” is not too heavily disguised erotica. (If you haven’t read the original, beware: it is ten times scarier than all the movies based on it, and I had to leave the bedside light on for a week after reading it.) I can barely wait for the film to open out here in my area!

    I am guessing that Cumbers made a huge mistake in turning CP down – the eroticism of this is going to jump Toddles beyond cult status and bring him the kind of romantic leading roles that keep escaping Cumbers.

  25. Madly says:

    I love how he talks about his work. This is what I mean about specifics and grounding your work to something tangible.

  26. et alors says:

    Looks like Tom and Jessica did a photoshoot together in LA after SDCC. My posts with Instagram links usually disappear, so I’m posting a tweet that links to the source, where you can see a photo of Jessica as well.

    https://twitter.com/Time4Hiddles/status/621487262174310400

    Also, the Nerdist podcast is supposed to be available on Monday.

    • Dara says:

      I was looking through the photographer’s portfolio and some of his work is…interesting. His celeb stuff is pretty cool though. Looking forward to a proper photoshoot with the Tomster – there hasn’t been one in a few years.

      That was a quick trip – Chastain has already landed back on London. I’d forgotten she’s filming with Hemsworth in England.

    • TotallyBiased says:

      I’m not seeing the pic of JC???
      But Tom looks every bit as HOT as I ezpected with that jacket OFF!

  27. Dara says:

    TotallyBiased has already witnessed how I geek out at how big events like this are coordinated – it’s like a big jigsaw puzzle or Tetris game.

    For anyone interested, the LA Times has a great piece following the GoT cast through their day at SDCC. It’s a nice glimpse into how things like SDCC actually run.
    http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/herocomplex/la-et-hc-game-of-thrones-comic-con-20150712-column.html#page=1

    • TotallyBiased says:

      What a fun article! Sounds like the HBO staff really learned from their mistakes and now has their act together.

      BTW, I’m gonna call Maisie Williams a total Hiddlestoner fangirl. Not only did she tell Chris Hardwick at the Nerdist Podcast Saturday night that she was “all over the Tom Hiddleston tag on Tumblr”, but in this article’s pic where she is photobombing, she is waving a clutch with a speech bubble proclaiming “Say My Name!” clearly visible!

  28. queen says:

    There is a short article about charlie hunnam in the daily mail. It’s about him meeting his fiends. I think the friend he was meeting was tom. And the blond girl is jane arthy.

    • Allegra says:

      I saw the article, but i don´t think the guy in that table is Tom.
      Right now, Tom´s hair is blond and the person in that pic has dark hair. And the shap of the body is also diferent.

    • Allegra says:

      From ‏@angie13713:
      “Hope you didn’t have to wait too long for your luggage from LA @twhiddleston”

    • Anon222 says:

      If his friend in that meeting was Tom, I’ll be shocked Daily Mail didn’t mention Tom in that article. Tom is a bigger clickbait than Charlie I’d assumed. Allegra’s post of that tweet, looks like Tom arrived at Heathrow a day later.

      • Allegra says:

        @Anon222:

        You´re right!
        That pic with charlie hunnam was taken on Wednesday night and Tom arrived in London yesterday.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      And in the brief period of time between SDCC and that picture, he gained 30 pounds and put all that gray in his beard as a disguise, right? But the back of her head clearly gives them both away because nobody else looks like her from that angle.

  29. Bea says:

    Photo evidence of TH and EO on tumblr. Well well well, this was an unexpected turn of events after the Chris Evans plug.