Gwen Stefani allegedly upset with Gavin’s nanny-banging & money-hungry ways

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Here are some photos of Gwen Stefani at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center on Saturday. She was not wearing her wedding ring (following last Monday’s divorce-filing announcement) and she wore a somewhat odd outfit. I’m not a fan of overalls on grown women, but I understand that they are the choice du jour for some women on laundry day. What I really don’t understand is the flannel shirt being worn as a cape. Is that a thing? She doesn’t have her arms in the sleeves.

As we heard last week, Gwen possibly believes that Gavin Rossdale was cheating on her and that was one of the big reasons for their marriage ending. TMZ left it at that, that sources were telling them that Gwen believes Gavin cheated. Radar took it further by claiming that Gavin was “pulling an Affleck” and banging the nanny. Because every man in LA is a walking cliché. Anyway, Radar had some additional details about it:

According to a source, Gwen Stefani and the nanny, who cared for Kingston, 9, Zuma, 6, and Apollo, 17 months, “were very, very close…Gwen loaned her clothes, and was very generous with the younger woman. The nanny was very attractive, but in the beginning, Gwen trusted her and treated her as a younger sister/best friend.”

According to insiders, they were even known to dress alike! The woman was also a fixture on the set of The Voice and even accompanied the family on vacations. But over time, “Gwen had suspicions that Gavin and the nanny had become romantically involved,” the source revealed.

Both Rossdale and the woman strongly denied it, and there was no real evidence of any fling, but Stefani’s rising suspicions eventually drove the nanny to leave the job and Los Angeles and move back East, according to multiple sources. Said one source, “The constant stress and scrutiny just became unbearable for her.”

However, a separate source insisted it was Stefani who pulled the plug. “Gwen absolutely fired the nanny,” the source said. “She wasn’t going to have this going on around the kids.”

[From Radar]

The sources also say that Gwen is “inconsolable” and Gavin “always denied” the nanny-banging. Sources say Gwen and Gavin were “sleeping in separate bedrooms for months… so it really didn’t make sense for Gavin to move out and upset the kids.” Meaning Gwen and Gavin are still living together for the time being.

As for how long they will live together and the divorce details which will be worked out in the months to come, Radar says that Gwen already offered Gavin a financial settlement so that she won’t have to significantly break up her alleged $120 million fortune. Sources tell Radar that Gavin’s really going after the money and Gwen is pissed about it. Everyone’s making a big deal about how Gwen didn’t make him sign a prenup, but they were married for 13 years and they live in California, you guys. In California, once you’ve been married for a decade, all sorts of community property laws come into play. So yes, Gwen is going to have to give Gavin a chunk of her fortune.

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Photos courtesy of Pacific Coast News.

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  1. Daria Morgendorffer says:

    Meh, as someone who came of age in the 90s, I will always love Gwen but this seems odd to me if it’s true. There have been so many people over the years who came out and told stories of having affairs with Gavin over the years and claimed that Gwen knew all about it. Rumors of a break up have followed them for years, so I just assume that their relationship was probably rocky at best more often than not. Maybe this was the last straw, but it’s not like it’s the first or only time his cheating was brought to her attention. Personally I think Gavin is gay and has a problem with it so he tried to be married and cheats to overcompensate.

  2. aims says:

    They were married for 13 years and have three kids together, this wasn’t a quickie marriage. I think it’s totally fine that he gets something. Not everything, but something. As far as the nannies are concerned, it all sounds so cliche. I do think this was a real marriage and it’s always sad when a family breaks up.

    • Sunshine Gold says:

      I do not get the line of thinking that when two well-off adults break up that one should give the other “something.” They should each contribute to the kids’ care, but they both have careers and can support themselves.

      • justagirl says:

        I agree. Unless he specifically abandoned his career altogether to be a stay at home dad, I don’t see why she has to give him anything.

        Two people entered into a marriage and they’ve decided to part ways, if both have careers & are well-off & self-sufficient, then why does one need a “parting gift”?

  3. nelly says:

    this outfit is quite disturbing! she looks her arms have been chopped off

    • annaloo. says:

      It reminds me of ho my brothers and I would freak out our mom by wearing our clothes like that. We’d get a smack from her and a warning that playing at being limbless would only lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy of losing a limb, etc…

  4. Louise says:

    ..I dont know, there is always something unseemly about a man taking a woman’s money. I know that is completely sexist, and I KNOW everyone will scream at me, but I dunno…like Guy Ritchie taking god knows how much from Madonna and the country estate. I kind of look differently at men taking a woman’s money, I dont know why, I have absolutely no eloquent argument for my thoughts at all! [Assumes crash position].

    • Neah23 says:

      Well I’m glad you realized your completely sexist views on this.

      • Lauren II says:

        I agree with you. Gwyn works her ass off, makes tons of money, has 3 gorgeous children, then has to pay off her cheating husband? Ugh. This is far too common.

        A friend of mine is a Lawyer, and her hubby ran off with her best friend!
        He quit his job to avoid paying child support. Then he took legal action to get her to pay Spousal support, while he lives and bangs with her best friend – six houses down the street.

        I love Gwyn. She does not deserve this sh*t.

    • JenniferJustice says:

      Sexist or not, I agree with you Louise. It’s not like he stayed home with the kids and so could not work. They both continued to work and had nannies (obviously). She just happened to be more profitable with her talents than he is/was. I also find it seedy that he would cheat and then take her money. It wreaks of punishment.

      • Louise says:

        Me too. Not like I personally know her(!), but I always liked her and it just seemed to be more and more drip drip drip of stuff coming out about him. We have all been there. We choose to believe what we want to and ignore the rest, because its painful. Perhaps she DIDNT know the extent of his relationship with Marilyn. Then there was the daughter (which admittedly he didn’t know) but still. Its a lot to take on. Imagine if it was your husband and you were finding out something new every so often. very tough. I can’t even name one song or anything he has done. He isn’t known for music in the UK at all. He is known for being Gwen’s husband.

        On a different note, I saw her wedding dress in an exhibition in London. Looks better in pictures and surprised by how petite she must be.

    • klein says:

      I get it. I think it’s because it’s always the woman who has to actually give birth to the kids and therefore physically and mentally sacrifice a little more to start the family so if she is also the main source of income it seems more unbalanced that way.

      I know it’s not the right way to think, but I do understand why you feel like that..

    • funcakes says:

      I was just thinking that if this involved a woman everyone would be screaming that she deserves the money because she gave up a career to take care of the kids. And now that it’s a man he’s a dirty,rotten bum.
      I guess it’s the way society program people to think.
      I have no idea if it was staged but there are a lot of pictures of Gavin attending to the boys and taking them out. But I still give him the side eye.

      • Tanya says:

        If he’d actually sacrificed his career in any way to take care of the kids, I’d agree. As it is, he basically didn’t have as much talent and once his music went out of style, he didn’t have backup plans.

      • treyyfhfhfh says:

        “but there are a lot of pictures of Gavin attending to the boys and taking them out”
        true! Plenty of paps pics of him while spending time with his kids and family, whereas there’s no evidence of this supposed “nanny affair” Gwen is so obsessed about! .. I hope Gavin gets what’s he’s entitled to … He should have toured more to promote Bush’s last record, instead he’s gone no farther than USA, I imagine to keep his wife happy , because of her complaining and blah blah blah.. and what does he get now? A kick in the a++ and hardly any money?? I’m a woman, , but I’m on Gavin’s side.. she kinda didn’t want him to work and earn more money of his own, now she must pay, period! besides… she’s appeared a bit too flirty lately with the likes of Pharrell .as they say.. pot calls the kettle black

      • Andrea says:

        Honestly? Why shouldn’t he get half if she didn’t get a pre-nup? If Gavin had been the one with the most money, we would be screaming for Gwen to get half wouldn’t we? Double standards abound here.

    • Ronda says:

      As long as you are also cool with earning less than men its fine.

    • 5thHouse says:

      I’m with you on this, Louise. There should’ve been a prenup with a cheating clause. Do those exist? Man or woman, I don’t think it’s fair to cheat and then be able to take half the money.

  5. MSat says:

    In another set of photos she has a jacket tied around her waist.

    Maybe she’s preggers?

  6. funcakes says:

    It was no secret that Gavin had a colorful past when she met and married him. It truly is bafling how rich celebrities fail to have a private investigator to look into the past of a significant other before marrying. Or just simply Google. Celebrities are such easy targets for not so well meaning people.

    Now a three children and a decade later she sees the light.

    Love is truly deaf,dumb and blind.

    • Daria Morgendorffer says:

      I agree. She didn’t even need a P.I., all of the information she needed to know was already out there. A lot of people, both male and female, talked openly about having affairs with Gavin and claimed that she knew.

  7. Penelope says:

    That’s a ridiculous, age-inappropriate outfit.

    • funcakes says:

      I guess accidentally bleach patched shirts are in this year.
      And is this a recent picture? It’s summer!

      • Jonathan says:

        Hooray! All the laundry I accidentally bleached and only wear for doing housework gets to go outside, now, too!

  8. sirsnarksalot says:

    Its gross that he’s going to take a big chunk of her money, and I think it would be equally gross if their genders were reversed. I don’t think a 50/50 split is at all equitable just because the marriage passed the 10 year mark.

    • funcakes says:

      That’s right. Do they have to go by California Law? And there’s no prenup. What a mess.
      I thought they were married in Scottland.

      • taxi says:

        Doesn’t matter where they got married. They live in & are divorcing in California. Scottish law applies to divorces in Scotland, between Scottish residents.

    • lucy2 says:

      Generally I agree – unless one person sacrificed their own career to help build the other’s.
      I can’t believe she didn’t have a prenup.

  9. Hawkeye says:

    I am Team Gwen so hard I don’t think there’s anything she can do to make me back away. When Tragic Kingdom came out, I was a young, awkward teen who hoped and prayed every day to be a fraction as cool as Gwen Stefani. “Spiderwebs” was a staple of school dances at the time. 90s Hawkeye is so annoyed with Gavin Rossdale.

    • Daria Morgendorffer says:

      Hahaha, I can totally relate. I loved Bush also though. My 90s playlist is laden with music from both bands and gets heavy rotation.

  10. ViktoryGin says:

    Rumors have floated for years that they had an open marriage but it never seemed to be a truly two-ways street. It seemed to me that she cared for him more than he did for her, so she tolerated his sexual proclivities. I guess this was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Everyone saw this coming. I’ve always found him sleazy.

  11. Dvaria says:

    why can’t their combined net worth just be split in half and call it a day?
    my best friend’s parents got divorced last year after 28 years and her dad was just disgusted he had to give her mom anything at all. Mom got the house because it was built on her family’s land but the dad took all the furniture and I’m talking everything…down to the bath rugs and shower curtains. People get petty in divorces

    • aims says:

      Divorces are the worst!! The division of property, finances. My bestie is almost done with hers and about the last few months were unnecessary.

    • funcakes says:

      It’s sad after being married all those years people just can’t divide everything up equally and call it a day without playing games.
      It would save a lot of money and emotional distress. I wonder if someone has a guess total on how much money it would save if people never had to get a lawyer, or in some cases lawyers, involved.

  12. Freddy Spaghetti says:

    They were together for twenty years. I think she’s devastated (wasn’t he her second real relationship?) and he’ll keep playing tennis and tour sometimes.

    I hope they can split amicably and she doesn’t have to pay spousal support.

  13. Britta says:

    I don’t understand why people don’t hire exclusively hire nannies that are 50+ years old. Hire a young, hot thing and flaunt it in front of your husband 24/7. It’s going to happen…

  14. yea says:

    Get that money Gavin. Fair is fair and the courts will decide. Had Bush stayed on top and Gwen been a stay at home mom she would take half too. He shouldn’t have to change his lifestyle because he needs to give his kids the same level of comfort when he is with them. To be able to live close by, travel to see them or what ever else is needed. Sorry but I say get it Gavin and deal with it Gwen. $$ is petty.

    • Wellsie says:

      I don’t think Gavin was a stay-at-home parent, though.

      • yea says:

        well she wasn’t either with all she was doing so someone must have been home more often. He seems hands on and so does she.

      • ShuFlyDontBotherMe says:

        Evidently, Gavin was a stay-at-home Dad while Gwen was working. Banging the Nanny is a full-time job, done while the wife is away…

  15. Ronda says:

    The Nanny story is ridiculous but it seems to be working with a lot of people. its just a good way for Gwen to get sympathy and for Gavin to keep his stunts with men undercover.
    Its best for both from a PR pov.

    • yea says:

      this 1000X. The blonde that was mentioned a few years ago turned out to be his sister. I feel she just lots all trust with him after his love child story came out.

      • Andrea says:

        She is super insecure and it shows from the fact she never wanted him to see her without her makeup. Who does that??? I am having doubts now that this was another nannygate. Wouldn’t the nanny be trying to get some money out of this if it were true?

  16. Aren says:

    That’s a “Please look at me, I’m so speshul!” outfit if I’ve ever seen one.

  17. lasagna_jones says:

    looks like her left arm is tucked inside her overalls. maybe she’s hiding something and wanted to be sure it wasn’t in pics.. is there an injury? did she have a tattoo she’s getting lasered off? boob job and she’s trying to sort of hide her chest? just hiding the ring finger? or maybe she’s just a weirdo, who knows

  18. Jenn says:

    She looks cute. Makes me sad that some people seem to bash others for everything they do. This outfit is not “age inappropriate”, give me a break. She looks great.

  19. Bella2 says:

    Seriously, what the heck is she wearing!?

  20. Blast01 says:

    I think she’s impossibly awesome. She never tried to be anything other than herself. She could be facilitating that image, I get that, but…she’s just…awesome.