Comments on: Chris Brown expected to cop a plea today in court

By: dr.princess

dr.princess — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 19:12:42 +0000

its no certain way that a person that was abused in any type of way should act i have been family psycologist for 5 years and i have come across many different types of abuse victims be it sexual, mental, physical abuse people make up their own ways to cope most of their tactics are harmful to self but they cope how they know best. i believe rihanna is coping unhealthy because for some reason she believes its ok. and that she was in the wrong for him being prosecuted. also no one was with them that night so who knows what happened theres always 3 sides to everything what she said, what he said, and what really happened. i believe the truth to the story is some where in between rihannas story and chris story. something i notice about this story is no one ever gave chris’s side a chance . w never even heard chris’s side. i bet its Much different. and to persecute someone without letting them speak is wrong. i have dealt with cases where the man is the victim of verbal, mental and even physical abuse until he gets fed up and makes the wrong decision and acts on emotion. acting on emotion doesn’t mean your a horrible person it means you made an awful decision. its my belief that yes you should be punished but not alone if you where pushed to that breaking point

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By: Prissa

Prissa — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:43:34 +0000

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By: Ophelia

Ophelia — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:20:16 +0000

I rarely say something like this, but Whatever, if you truly believe what you wrote, you are a really f*cked up person. There is no “right” way for a victim of any sort to act. And shame on you for thinking there is.

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By: j. ferber

j. ferber — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:02:42 +0000

Whatever, you really need to post a list of Do’s and Don’ts for domestic violence victims. So, I gather a domestic violence victim is never allowed to “flirt, party or get drunk” or her she clearly deserves a beating. Would another be “STFU when he tells you to”? Because a neighbor of mine said her husband told her he wouldn’t have beaten her if she had shut up. So you know what she did? She apologized. To him. So, I think that should be added to your list. “Shut the f-ck up when your man tells you to.”
But, you know, woman beating is all about controlling the woman, so no matter what is on your list, it will never be enough to stop a single beating. But I love the concept of a “worthy” victim. A worthy victim is above reproach in all things, right? And if she steps over the line in any way, a man has a right to beat her back into her place. I will never understand people, especially women, who condone woman battering. Never.

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By: Valensi

Valensi — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:54:20 +0000

Even if he doesn’t go to jail, he’ll still be alienated. Think about it; I’m pretty sure Rihanna lost her CoverGirl deal just for being a victim of this type of abuse - and not stopping it.
Imagine the heat Chris Brown’s going to get career-wise for pounding the crap out of her!
Maybe that’s punishment enough… and one would have to have a lot of nerve to sit there and say he doesn’t deserve it.

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By: Hieronymus Grex

Hieronymus Grex — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 16:24:51 +0000

wow, I was hoping to hear about him getting traded around like baseball cards in prison, but oh well

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By: whatever

whatever — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 16:03:47 +0000

yes,he is young and does not deserve the extent of the backlash he is getting..i hope for his sake he does not get back together with her and rebuilds his life and moves on..He does not the drama that girl has brought him..i have no simpathy for her at all because yes i still believe that this case was not DV but just a fight that got out of had between 2 kids..If DV victims flirt with men, party all over the place and now most recently get drunk and party in barbados after a beatdown then good for you.. im my world dv victims do not act like that..Give me halle berry, robin givens and any other woman who has been through dv and i feel sorry for them but not rihanna!!!!!!

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By: Mme X

Mme X — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 15:02:41 +0000

wow, if nothing else, those photos really expose how young he is.

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By: CandyKay

CandyKay — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:54:53 +0000

He may have his freedom, but he’ll never have his sex appeal again, at least not for me.

I used to be a Burt Lancaster fan before I read a biography that indicated he liked to bat women around. After that, looking at him was like looking at a painting. Nice to look at from a safe distance, but nothing to take home.

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By: RAN

RAN — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:51:54 +0000

He’s an ugly little putz. She could definitely do a lot better looks wise and personality wise. It IS time for her to move on.

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