Jesse James: ‘I got divorced and lost a kid I adopted because of it’

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Jesse James has a new video interview with In Depth with Graham Bensinger. Many outlets are running with the headline of James whining that he lost “my son that I adopted.” He’s referring to Sandra Bullock’s adopted son, Louis, whom Sandra introduced to the press in April, 2010 after keeping the infant under wraps since January.

Sandra and Jesse’s marriage imploded on March 10, 2010, just two days after she won the Best Actress Oscar for The Blind Side. That’s the day when, according to Jesse’s memoir, he broke the news to Sandra that he had cheated on her. Sandra’s publicist had told him that In Touch was about to break the the story of Jesse’s first known mistress, Michelle “Bombshell” McGee. In Jesse’s account, he admitted the affair to Sandra (we learned later that he’d had multiple affairs) she cried a bit, stuck her sunglasses on, and then walked out the door, never to return again.

Nowhere in James’ memoir, published in May, 2011, does he reveal that he had adopted a son with Sandra or that he was particularly bonded with the baby. He did have lengthy passages about the births of his children with two of his other ex wives. He later claimed that he excluded Louis from the memoir because “talking about Louis almost felt too intimate.” In this interview, James claims that losing Louis was the hardest part of his divorce from Sandra. He’s done multiple other interviews and has barely mentioned Louis. Here’s some of what he said in his pissy little baby voice.

On the day he broke the news to Sandy
Yeah… that whole thing just ended bad and it was like I made mistakes and did stuff that I shouldn’t have. I handled the situation not the way I should have and you know I got divorced and lost a kid a adopted because of it so….

“What was the hardest part of the whole situation for you?”
I think losing my son that I adopted. For sure. Not being able to see him and see him grow up and all that stuff… whether that’s fair, whether I should have lost a kid due to infidelity…which I don’t think anybody ever does but I think with “Hollywood Law” that’s totally fair so.

On how he handled it with his kids
It was obviously an emotional time for the older kids… They didn’t have a real close relationship with her so… I just told them the truth… the painful part was about Louis, who we adopted.

On the paparazzi
It was pretty bad I beat the shit out of a bunch of ‘em. Just wait til the night until they didn’t see me coming. It’s fair game… you just got to be sneaky about it so you don’t get sued.

On adopting Louis
As bad as stuff was between us we adopted a kid and things got kinda good for a little while. We had that kid to focus on and boom it was over in 24 hours. Gone. Done. So, the relationship part I was able to kind of [put aside]. I had to stand up to [the media]… I took 100% of it right on the chin. Nobody does that. Everybody denies it…

Claims that Sandra’s publicist made Nazi photo scandal worse
I think the adultery part was totally fair… I deserved what I had coming. I think the whole Nazi part of it wasn’t fair. I think it was fueled by her and her publicist. They knew that stuff wasn’t true and they, like, you know someone had sold that picture to US Magazine. Obviously I’m joking… they didn’t try to like [deny it]. Her exact quote to US Magazine was like ‘that’s not the man I married.’… poured gasoline on it and made it erupt.

On why he’s not racist
That stuff kind of hurts me because man I grew up in like an all black neighborhood and we adopted a black son. You know? Like not because he was black. My requirement for the adoption was, like, ‘hey I want the kid that needs us the most.’

[From video on sports.yahoo.com]

He also made a bunch of excuses about how he was “surrounded by [a] negative influence,” as if that somehow explained his serial cheating. We’ve heard this “took it on the chin” b.s. from Jesse before. Again, I don’t remember him talking about Louis much in previous interviews. He did mention Louis in his response to Sandra’s divorce filing. So did he finally become comfortable enough to admit that he misses his adopted son, or has he seen that Sandra has moved on and is he trying to get a dig in at her? Sandra walked away from his cheating ass like a boss and didn’t stick around to hear any of his excuses.

Also, Sandra did have a close relationship with Jesse’s three older children. His claim that “They didn’t have a real close relationship with her” rings hollow. She was said to be particularly close to Sunny, who was just six when Sandra and Jesse split and had been living with them for over a year at that point. The kids were even said to be living with her after the news of Jesse’s cheating broke.

Here are photos of Sandra out with Jesse’s kids in March, 2011.
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  1. Bichon says:

    Nobody cares. I have no idea what she saw in this guy to begin with.

    • BengalCat2000 says:

      As a woman who is attracted to douchebags, I get it. What I don’t get is why he’s bitching and moaning now. He’s a cheater who inexplicably keeps getting married. He needs to go away.

      • aemish says:

        He doesn’t miss Louis. He misses his lost-out child support checks from Sandra. What a loser.

      • DrM says:

        BengalCat that is a really honest admission. You rock girl…and this guys is a DOUCHE BAG. “Surrounded by negative influences” that’s a new reason for cheating by me… what an ass. And if SB did “cry a bit, stick her sunglasses on and walk out for good” then GOOD ON HER! JJ needs to STFU and sit the F DOWN. Now.

    • MMRB says:

      Dear JJ –
      You’re no longer relevant.
      No-one cares.

      Please………
      F**k off.
      Signed,
      The Universe

    • Zingara says:

      Same here, Bichon. If he has a pissy little baby voice, I’m so glad I’ve never heard him speak, because the text is already enough to make me want to chunder. He’s a Banker, with a capital W…

  2. Matador says:

    “she cried a bit, stuck her sunglasses on, and then walked out the door, never to return again.”

    That IS doing it like a boss. Team Sandy.

    • Senaber says:

      I was going to say the same thing! What a boss. That’s how every woman should leave a cheating douchbag imo.

    • Beatrice says:

      Awesome. No handwringing by Sandra over leaving this loser. Just Bye! Kudos to Liberty Ross, Paula Patton, too. A lot more Hollywood types should follow their lead (Jen Garner, are you listening?). I am sick of women who stick with serial cheaters.

      • Sunsetsnow says:

        All of this. I love the way that they handled their cheating losers. Wipe hands and walk out…done.

      • Susan says:

        I have a new girl crush and her name is Beatrice. Why are we women so afraid to leave cheating d bags?

    • K says:

      Amen! That is how you walk out on a disrespectful loser! No handringing no self blame no ok let him explain just nope i deserve better bye.

      This just made me love Sandra bullock more. Yay her! And really if he wanted to be in that little boys life he could have fought to be, he didn’t he can shut up.

    • Lilo says:

      He tried to make her seem cold, but he made her seem incredibly strong and boss. I love her.

      • Addison says:

        Spot on! No one is gonna cry for him. He lost his kid because he said a stupid thing. Sandra heard him, thought, I have to leave now. And then she did.

        This is what more people should do. Always go with your first instinct when confronting a tough situation. Your instinct will never let you down.

        Sandra did the right thing.

        Oh and Jessie no one believes your children were not close to her. If they were not close they would not be hanging out with her a year after the split.

    • L says:

      That’s a woman with a amazing sense of self respect and sense of self. Good for her.

    • cujokay says:

      Absolutely!

    • cujokay says:

      Absolutely!

      He got divorced and lost a kid because he’s a dick!

    • Charlotte15 says:

      One of the BEST things I’ve ever read!! Go Sandy.

      • Pinetree13 says:

        I’m jealous! I could never be that composed and cool in a moment like that. So many props to her!!!

    • Isabelle says:

      Good for her, a strong woman with backbone. He didn’t deserve any of her forgiveness.

    • crtb says:

      I am sorry but I have to disagree. I remember that she had a strong bond with his children especially the youngest daughter. So when she walked away, she also walked away from them. No matter how she felt about him, she had no right to walk away from children who loved her like a mother. They must be devastated.

      • redfrenchdoor says:

        While I loved that Sandy did that, I cannot bag on other women who cannot or do not make that choice. For one, she is extremely wealthy. That isn’t the case with most of the women who are in a marriage with infidelity. Homes, security, children are all considerations that real women have to make. .

      • Veronica says:

        I do think it’s wrong to completely cut off children from partners who were previously married if you’ve bonded with them, but if she wasn’t a legal guardian, she had no parental visitation rights. It’s entirely possible she wasn’t in a position to demand the right to see them.

        This being said…it’s a really hard position to put yourself in either way. In this case, it might have been just as hard and awkward for the kids to see her knowing that their father was the reason they broke up and having to deal with all the fallout aftewards.

      • Bob Loblaw says:

        Come on, he screwed up, he destroyed the relationship and his children suffered the consequences of his callous and irresponsible behavior. Shame on you for suggesting Sandra Bullock has a greater obligation then he does to ensure his children’s lives are not impacted by his misbehavior. He very obviously does not care about anyone but himself, it’s sad for his children, but nobody can or should forgive his crap behavior to spare his kids. It is wrong to hold women to a higher standard of behavior. He is a father, he needs to take responsibility for his actions and act like a man not a spoiled child.

      • Melanie says:

        ^this.

      • susiecue says:

        Well said Bob Loblaw!

      • Anna says:

        Thank you, Bob.

  3. Josephine says:

    If he actually adopted the boy, he could have tried to get some custody. The story he’s telling just does not ring true. He seems to feel perpetually sorry for himself and always too willing to blame anyone but himself. He comes across as an enormous baby.

    • swack says:

      Thank you. I was going to say the same thing. If his name was on the adoption papers then he could/would have gotten some type of custody. What I say to him is: Boo Hoo, get over it!

    • Naya says:

      As I recall, Louis arrived after the breakup, I really doubt Jesse has ever even met him. Having said that, if they began the process together, he could have sued for custody. He didnt, and I always assumed it was because 1) he didnt care for another kid and 2) he milked Sandra into paying him to stay away.

      • Bridget says:

        Louis had been living with then but the adoption hadn’t been finalized.

      • Naya says:

        @Bridget That makes him an even bigger dbag, no court would have denied him some custody under these circumstances. Plus, As passive aggreessive as he was with endless interviews and a whole autobiography, he cant claim he abandoned Louis to avoid a court battle. Contentious is his middle name.

      • CL says:

        In the People cover story where she announced her new (little) man, some of the photos are grainy because JJ was cropped out. She was also wearing her wedding band. The photo shoot had been done prior to the split.

        From that story: “Bullock says she is now finalizing the adoption as a single parent.” So Jesse never actually adopted Louis.

      • Bridget says:

        He put the entire adoption in jeopardy. Part of why he walked away and why Sandra adopted as a single woman was because there was a very real chance that the adoption authorities wouldn’t have given them Louis. Even then, Sandra is lucky (and probably had an excellent attorney to advocate for her) that she was able to continue the adoption under those circumstances.

      • MC2 says:

        @ Bridget- I totally agree. He’s the biggest narcissistic d-bag! I was so po’ed for Sandra (I have no attachment to her) for him talking about how he “adopted” Louis and she had no real relationship with his kids. He’s a real piece of work…..I mean POS.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        “From that story: “Bullock says she is now finalizing the adoption as a single parent.” So Jesse never actually adopted Louis”

        Thank you, CL! That clarifies things a lot!

      • nic says:

        Thank you Bridget… I hadn’t thought about it that way but he did put the adoption in jeopardy and now he’s trying to play victim. That’s despicable.

      • Anna says:

        And honestly, given his white supremacist “games” (yeah, right), I am sooooo relieved that that little baby boy is in no way connected to him anymore. It makes me ill to think of him being part of raising a black child given his admited and continuing engagement with such hate.

  4. Nancy says:

    Turn the page douchebag, it’s over Johnny. Trying to get new ink on an old story is desperate and annoying. Hopefully that child will never know you existed. He should go back to his tattooed hoochie mama, she’s more his speed than Sandra. No pun intended on “Speed!”

    • Yoohoo says:

      He’s mad she has a new bf. What a jerk. It was well known that Sandra was very close to his children. He is so gross.

      • Nancy says:

        @Yoohoo: Yep. Weak men whine about what could have been. He seems to have a selective memory. All the public humiliation he put her through, but she’s obviously the winner in this situation.

  5. Veronica says:

    A High School Criminology class teaches you that “the more someone’s story changes, the less likely it was the truth to begin with”. He’s a cheating scumbag who’s screwed over every woman he’s ever been with. Sandra was the first one who walked away clean.

    • sills says:

      I’m sure a lot of us have known guys like this (or gals), they’re all the same, I swear it’s like they come out of a factory. Chronic manipulators, sweet talkers who promise you the moon, only to become cruel on a dime, nothing is EVER their fault, blame everyone else for their mistakes, and lie, lie, lie without blinking an eye.

      These people are poison and you cannot change them. Sandra did well to never look back, but judgey me wonders how she fell for it in the first place at her age?

      • Esmom says:

        Yes, preach. Poison is the perfect word for him. It does seem hard to fathom why she ever fell for him. Temporary insanity, maybe.

      • Bob Loblaw says:

        As the victim of a secret abuser, I can assure you most of these creeps do have incredible charm and charisma; it’s a two sided coin, they have one side, they show you at first, that draws you in and then the flip side, that eventually tries to destroy you. And you can be as beautiful and talented as Sandra Bullock and still get trapped by one of these evil, manipulative losers.

  6. Vee says:

    Not buying it Jesse. She had a very close relationship with your kids, she provided loving stability to them and you blew it all.

    Why are you whining now? Go away.

  7. NewWester says:

    Let’s just say Sandra was willing to forgive this guy for the affairs, wouldn’t the fact one of the women “Bombshell Magee or whatever her name is” and her admitted racist views be enough for Sandra to keep Louis away from Jesse? That on top of the Nazi stuff. I certainly would not feel comfortable having my child around such a person. Why all this concern over Louis now? Didn’t Jesse just get married to some heiress?

    • qwerty says:

      Yep. The last thing a black kid in America needs is a white nazi father.

      • Lauren II says:

        I thought Jesse was supposed to be a Nazi biker-badass.
        Nope. All he does is emasculate himself with his pathetic whining and self-pity.
        Jesse misses the lavish lifestyle that Sandra provided. She works her ass off while Jesse has unlimited freedom to screw strippers and other degenerates.
        JJ is Repugnant in every possible way.
        Sandy deserves so much better, and is a power player in Hollywood. She might have questionable taste in men – but Sandy is obviously an astute businesswoman.

  8. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    Shut your fat face.

  9. Lucy2 says:

    well that was a whole lot of lies.

    If the adoption had been finalized, he would have been the baby’s legal father, right? So he did have rights and could have fought for custody or at least visitation. But I don’t think he really cared about anything but himself .

    • Zapp Brannigan says:

      I thought at the time that he said he gave “his blessing” (barf) for her to proceed with the adoption alone? He is such a jerk for talking about any of this especially so many years later.

      • lucy2 says:

        Yeah, something like that. He’s just changing his story now because he’s a whiny a-hole looking for attention. Plus she’s moved on and seems happy. People like him can’t make peace and be happy for someone else.

      • Cindy says:

        I think he was on his good behavior than, trying to suck up,to Sandra and get her back. It didn’t work and she has moved on, so he has to play the victim of “Hollywood law”. I heard him interviewed on Howard Stern about a year after the divorce and he was whining about his expulsion from Sandra’s life, by “Hollywood”.

    • Bitca says:

      Exactly! This belated narrative James is floating, that he unjustly “lost” his “adopted son” is ridiculous (for infidelity???? Plz, dude) . That it’s probably a last-ditch attempt to whitewash his bigotry, though, makes it ~revolting~.

      On the bright side…. At least some racists still sense their prejudices are wrong & shameful enough to lie about? x[

  10. MSat says:

    I wish this tool bag would drive his stupid motorcycle off a cliff. Guys like this are masters at deflecting, manipulation and playing the victim. Boo hoo. Nothing is ever his fault, poor me, blah blah blah.

    Louis is better off without this jerkface in his life, and everyone knows it!

  11. Kylie says:

    Go away Jesse.

    Sandra left him in true style. I don’t blame her for protecting Louis from this racist.

  12. Alice says:

    Oh, boo hoo. Just STFU, loser.

  13. Peggy says:

    So why did Sandra drop Sunny like a hot potato after going to court to get the biological mother rights strip away.
    Sandy acts like butter would not melt her her mouth, but is best friends with racist Chelsea Handler.
    She knew Jesse was married to a porn star and had a history of dating porn/hookers, so why act surprise when he did what was natural to him, and he dates younger woman.

    • K says:

      Sandra has no rights to be in Sunny’s life without her parents consent. Being she hates her father and her mother isn’t a big fan of hers I would venture a guess that when the divorice was finalized she wasn’t allowed to, because up until then she was in their life a lot.

      And the woman’s rights were being taken because she was a drug addict if I remember correctly who was neglectful and abusive not because Sandra didn’t like her.

      • funckes says:

        Janine was on the Howard Stern show to explain her war with Jesse at the time this was going on. Janine was in a halfway house and met some ex convict. She said she was going to marry this dude even though she only known him for a short period of time.
        The judge told Janine that she had to show some signs of stability before she could be in Sunny’s life. And marrying an ex convict while being in a halfway house is not stable. She basically chose a stranger over her child.

    • Josephine says:

      Possibly because she had no legal rights to Sunny and Jesse wanted it that way? That situation was horrible, but I don’t think there was any way for Sandra to have a long-term presence in that child’s life. I just feel bad for the girl having a revolving group of mother-figures going in and out of her life.

      • Jayna says:

        Jesse in an interviewer when promoting his book. “But the way Sandy was with Sunny was amazing and Sunny still loves her and considers her mom. It just sucks that because of the divorce, things have played out the way it has, because I would have no problem having her maintain a relationship with Sunny. There’s a big hole there in Sunny’s life without Sandy there.”

      • Naya says:

        I remember that quote and feeling that he was really just trying to publicly shame Sandra for walking out on him. You just know that Jesse would have tried to exploit Sunnys connection to Sandra. Its different if Sandra had some legal relationship with her but having that already tenous relationship at the mercy of this narcisist would have been too much.

      • Tammy says:

        Sunny had a very close relationship with Sandra and probably did see her as her mother. And no one knows if Jesse was being sincere or not with him not having an issue with Sandra maintaining a relationship with Sunny. I do find it odd that Sandra walked away without looking back at all. I am not saying she should have staid with Jesse or maintained a relationship with Sunny, I just find it odd that it appeared so easy for her to do.

        And ready for the attacks 3….2….1

      • Bridget says:

        We don’t know if she walked away without looking back. That’s pretty personal information to divulge to the general public and not exactly something that comes up in a movie junket.

    • MSat says:

      As someone who was cut off from my stepchildren after divorcing their father, I can tell you that Sandra had no legal footing in regards to seeing Jesse’s kids. My stepsons were in my life for ten years, starting from the time they were 3 years old and 9 months – I raised them as my own. But when their dad left me (serial cheater as well), he stopped letting them see me as punishment for filing for divorce. Only now that they’re both over the age of 18 do I get to see them because they’re adults and drive over to my house for visits.

      • Jayna says:

        That’s so sad. What a selfish man, only thinking of his vendetta against you, not what was best for his children.

      • Kitten says:

        WOW. That is truly despicable.

      • CL says:

        That must have been heartbreaking for you and the boys. You must have raised them well if they are coming to see you now that they’re adults.

      • Scarlet Vixen says:

        I had a similar situation. I was married to my ex for 5 1/2 years, and his son was 6 years old when we married. When we divorced my ex stopped letting me see my stepson. I wouldn’t say that it was simply to be spiteful–I think he just thought I wasn’t a step-parent anymore and therefore I was disposable. He also hasn’t ever done anything to encourage a relationship between my stepson and the son we had together, even tho their half brothers. It’s been difficult, sad and strange, but some people are just able to compartmentalize and write off entire pieces of their life.

      • Bob Loblaw says:

        This is the crux of the issue with Bullock and James, he’s clearly using his children as pawns, and has done so all along. My Dad was the same, the divorce and custody issues, it wasn’t about love or what was best for the children, it was about anger and petty revenge, childish behavior that scars the children and mars the relationships forever.

    • Kath says:

      She didn’t walk away. After Sandra left him, Jesse (in a creepy stalker way) moved the entire family to Austin to be near her. Even after the divorce was finalised there were photos of Sandra with the kids.

      But after Sandra made it clear there was no chance of reconciliation with Jesse, there is NO WAY he didn’t run interference in her relationship with the kids. Plus, after a few years and a few more girlfriends (and yet another stepmother on the scene), the kids were older and probably became less attached to Sandra.

  14. L says:

    Someone is feeling thirsty …

  15. ldub says:

    I would feel sorry for him if he wasnt a CHEATING RACIST!! HELLO!?
    and then i would only feel kinda sorry cause he just looks like an assh*le.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      Why feel sorry for him regardless? Racist or not, cheater or not, he had no craps to give about Louis all this time and suddenly he’s a “deprived” adopted parent? It’s ludicrous. Cheating racist is just the cherry on the douche bag cake.

  16. Luca76 says:

    I think the reason he lost Lois was all the Nazi and racist crap that came out. You can’t have a black child raised by a white supremicist or even one that collects that crap because he thinks it’s badass. I’m sure authorities could have even stepped in.

  17. Aussie girl says:

    Well there’s a new show pitch for the networks, “Hollywood law”. That would slot nicely in with law and order and CSI. And the show could work on some levels, with how celebrities seem to only get a slap on the wrist for crimes,but a big Nuda to his claim.
    While infertility doesn’t warrant losing a child,I feel their circumstances where different. And I believe that IF he really wanted to be in Louis’s life than he would have fought harder. In the end I think he signed over his rights after putting Sandra through his cheating scandal, perhaps their was some heat applied or it was a sign of remorse. Never the less he did it.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      He had no rights to Louis in the first place, she adopted him alone, James is just trying to exaggerate his loss for sympathy. Even IF he had adopted Louis, they had only two months living together before James exited his life, never to return. Louis has no memory of him, I’m sure, and James made no effort at all to assert parental rights to him. This is just a ploy for attention and sympathy.

  18. Blackbetty says:

    Too little, too late now, Jesse James!

  19. Jayna says:

    Jesse is a whiner. He blames the women for everything. Every relationship he repeats the same thing.

    The adoption wasn’t finalized when they separated. I’m sure they were told the chances of the adoption going through with both of them now divorcing was little to none. And obviously Sandy didn’t want to adopt with a man she was now in the process of divorcing. That would be crazy.

    • funcakes says:

      Jj is a sociopath who love to play the perpetual victim.
      Sociopaths dole out the blames but never shares it. He has jail house mentality. The jails are filled with innocent people at the wrong place at the wrong time.

  20. Talie says:

    Sandra helped him get custody of his youngest daughter because the mother was strung out. If he really wanted to be in that little boy’s life, he could have.

  21. Lama Bean says:

    He is hinting they had problems prior to the cheating bombshell. My guess is that this is the straw that broke the camel’s back simply because it was going to be exposed to the public and she needed to save face.

    Don’t hate me.

    • Ughhh says:

      Don’t hat you for your opinion. I suspect the two of them had different ideas about the problems. Some men inflate any issues as a way to justify cheating, which is really just about their D–ks.

    • Josephine says:

      I don’t think he’s hinting at all – he outright said so multiple times when it was happening. There’s not a cheater who doesn’t say that. If she didn’t have it in her to leave him until she was about to be publicly humiliated, so be it. It wouldn’t shock me, and it doesn’t make me feel any less about her.

    • Ange says:

      I think the only problem was he wanted to screw randoms but his wife was in the way.

  22. Marie says:

    He is a douchebag but I have a problem with Sandra as well. She was married for years with that man so except being totally clueless she must knew how he was. I Don’t buy the total surprise of him being Likely a racist. Now she walked away from him, good for her. But look at her close friends… In France we say tell me Who you befriend with I m going to tell Who you are. Chelsea Handler really? Give me a break

    • FingerBinger says:

      I disagree. Jesse could have kept that part of himself hidden. Women marry conmen all the time. She’s not the first or the last woman who will marry a man she thought she knew.

    • Lady D says:

      I don’t think she knew. I’d like to think she wouldn’t have chosen to raise a black child with a racist.

    • Junior says:

      Same here. If this was Goop, Angelina, Anne, Madonna or Natalie, people would be singing a different tune. But Sandra Bullock is well liked and is America’s sweetheart whose butter wouldn’t melt so no, she didn’t know. SMH.

    • lisa says:

      ita

      i dont believe she didnt know about his racist/nazi tendencies. she knew while he was married to janine, she worked in porn. they werent young or starving, i would find that to be an odd arrangement and more drama than i can handle.

  23. Lis says:

    Awww … life is so hard when you can’t keep your d*ck in your pants. Poor baby.

  24. saras says:

    Oh yeah screwing porn and tattoo models plus his wierd Nazi thing makes him such a sympathetic character! Lol thank goodness she took off with that child asap.

  25. Common Sense says:

    “It was pretty bad I beat the shit out of a bunch of ‘em. Just wait til the night until they didn’t see me coming. It’s fair game… you just got to be sneaky about it so you don’t get sued.”
    somehow I find this hilarious, I can’t stop laughing. seriously, how old is this guy? what he did was a blessing in disguise to both Sandra and Louis, they are both better off. I can just imagine him teaching Louis to sneak up on paparazzi and attacking them. I just can’t with this guy.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      Oh yeah, that believable story, sure, JJ, I mean what paparazzi won’t keep their mouth shout if some z-list pseudo-celebrity jumps them and scampers off. Yeah, totally believable, much like when Bombshell McGee was telling us, he’s misunderstood and they’re in love so it will last forever, shut up haters. All VERY believable.

  26. kri says:

    Jesse,shut up. You got Bye, Felisha’d a long time ago. You were stone cold busted back then, and you are still busted.

  27. Misere says:

    A shameless attention and sympathy grab–using poor little Louie and Sandra. Does he ever not use people? He’s so effing unconscious and narcissistic it’s gross. STFU and start some self examining you psychopath.

  28. Dani says:

    Admittedly he was never a looker but he REALLY isn’t aging well.

  29. funcakes says:

    To the left, to the left. Everything you own is in the box to the left.

  30. Bridget says:

    Shut your trap, Vanilla Gorilla.

  31. alihar999 says:

    Does this loser expect any sympathy or support? Louis is way better off without him as a role model or influence.

  32. DEB says:

    Oh, and that wasn’t totally self-inflicted, was it? Oh, no, not at all. Dickweed!!

  33. InItToWin says:

    Jesse…like many other well stated posters before “well what did you expect dude?” Glad to see with this new douchy whatever mess you realized you screwed up. Or not. Clearly SB was not like every other woman in your life…..and whether she was right, wrong or in different she was not like the others….hence we are hearing this now ala so long after….

    And if JJ wanted to keep SB involved in his children’s life he could have…he had the kawyers to tell him how…so yeah so not buying what he is trying to sell now…..

  34. Kitten says:

    He is repulsive.

    But LOL @ people making it seem like Sandy is Superwoman for leaving this dude whilst demonizing Jen Garner for trying to maintain a friendly relationship with the father of her children.

  35. Bej says:

    This guy is so repulsive. He has no true introspect, cannot see that he destroyed his marriage, lost a child, whatever, through his own selfish behaviour. All the extra, like the Nazi sympathiser creep factor, just makes him such a dreg. He should really go back to not talking. His thoughts are irrelevant.

  36. shannon says:

    Wow. Not very well spoken, is he? I have no idea what she saw in this guy. A year long fling maybe, but never marriage. And certainly not a kid. I say this as a woman notoriously attracted to @ssholes.

    • Tara says:

      I second that. I’ve been attracted to a$$h0les in my life, but they had way more going for him than this guy. She was scraping the bottom of the bargain bin, and he’s what stuck to her fingers.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      I think you might be surprised at how charming these insidious bastards can be, think of the long parade of women who have bought his nonsense, anyone can be taken in by a con artist, no matter how smart or successful.

  37. Pmnichols says:

    He has always been a liar and a cheater. He never truly apologizes and when he attempts to he still plays the blame game never taking accountability. He only had himself to blame for all of it. If he would just show a shread of remorse I’d have a tiny bit of respect for him. A lot of people have had rough lives, stop using it as a crutch for your choices. He preaches all the time about what a hard working, honest, sleeves up guy he is. He had zero integrity. Stop having your own pity party. Everyone is over you. Keep it moving Jesse.

  38. iheartgossip says:

    He is completely whack. Not a smart one at all.

  39. Apple Tartin says:

    I truly hope Jesse’s new wife’s father has cut her out of the will. She is the daughter of a billionaire who owns the Paul Mitchell line. I can’t have Jesse in line for a billion dollars, God can’t be that cruel to us. Assuming the marriage even makes it that long. For every bad boy there is a sucker that thinks they are the one that will ‘tame’ their heart. Sandy was no different she just had more money and better PR agents.

    Men like him are never sorry for what they did, just sorry they got caught.

  40. Andrea says:

    Does anyone know if Janine sees Sunny at all anymore?

  41. Elisha says:

    His dig about “she wasn’t that close” to his kids isn’t even a good dig. A better dig would’ve been that his kids loved her soooooo much and she abandoned them! Learn how to media, douche bag.

  42. Frosty says:

    Oh dear. He’s kind of a whiner, innit he?

    • NGBoston says:

      @Frosty—-Whiner is putting it mildly with this douche-canoe. Like, get a HUGE OAR and row me down the river Douche-tastical Douche Canoe!

      Here is what bothers me—-he made his choices. He married a Hollywood Actress and had already had some success of his own with his Bike shops—so he knew and wanted exactly the life he married in to. Complete fame whore if you ask me and to boot, Sandra B. appeared to really be in love with this Man.

      Is it true that Sandra is a Lesbian in hiding? This rumour has been circulating HWOOD for years now. Whether she is or is not, makes no difference me thinks. She truly is America’s Sweetheart and what you see is what you get with Sandra.

      I loved her before she married this Lummox, and will love her after. Jesse J deserved every thing he got, up to and including losing a Son he helped to adopt.

      TBH, although he does appear to try with his own kids bc he had such a shit childhood himself- I am not certain that he is the best parent around. He is selfish and all about himself and his pockets though he tries to claim otherwise.

      He is fake, he is a liar and a cheat and he has some serious balls to come out now trying to make Sandra look bad. He is throwing himself a pity party, and I don’t think many people care to attend.