Prince Harry: ‘There’s been times I’ve been put off having children’

Prince Harry is already in Florida ahead of the Invictus Games. Yesterday, he did an event for Sentebale, his Lesotho charity for children with HIV. He also played a charity polo match… in the rain! Honk for Wet King Harry. Honk for a damp ginger snap! Anyway, People Magazine is still parceling out their exclusive cover interview with Harry. It really was a far-ranging interview, which is nice. Harry is not “above” answering personal questions in service of promoting the Invictus Games. Here’s part of the interview where he discusses whether he’s been “put off” fatherhood.

For Prince Harry, children are the “upgrade of us,” so it makes it doubly important to make sure they are always involved in what he does. The prince, who set up his children’s charity Sentebale in Lesotho, Africa, more than a decade ago, tells PEOPLE in this week’s issue that whatever he and his brother Prince William and Princess Kate are doing, they hope to bring in the next generation.

“All the amazing things that are going to happen in the future, it’s all going to be them,” says the royal, 31, in an exclusive interview just before heading to the U.S. to bring his Invictus Games in Orlando. “I never want to lose touch with that generation.”

As for having kids of his own, he says, “There have been moments through life, especially when we do a tour abroad, when I think, ‘I’d love to have kids now.’ . . . And then there are other times when I bury my head in the sand going, ‘All right, don’t need kids!’ There’s no rush. I think . . . I tell you what: There’s been times I’ve been put off having children.”

Not, however, when it comes to his own niece and nephew, Prince George and Princess Charlotte.

“No, actually, I’ve got a couple of mates and being around their children just brings me back down,” he says, noting that he hopes to be a “fun uncle” to George and Charlotte: “Nobody wants to be boring.”

[From People]

I can’t imagine there’s ever a time when Harry doesn’t light up around a child, so I have to wonder which kids and parents have put him off fatherhood? They must be some aristocratic brats (the parents and the kids). But I understand the sentiment. Every time I see or hear a child’s tantrum in a restaurant, grocery store or mall, sweet relief floods my system. Every time a child screams and throws themselves to the ground, I’m just grateful that I’m not the one who has to deal with it. Harry probably feels the same way… sometimes.

Photos courtesy of Getty, WENN.

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  1. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I couldn’t even focus on the article because Harry in the rain. Oh my.

    • kri says:

      I know, GNAT. I actually spoke these words”oh my god is he wet?!!” I think I need Ginger Intervention. I have no dignity. I am Madonna .

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        No no no, this a GOOD HEALTHY gingersnap obsession. It’s cute when we do it. We have dignity, we just don’t choose to use it today.

      • Zimmerman says:

        Honking for Hottie Harry! Yum rain or shine.

    • zinjojo says:

      That last picture. Yes, and more please!

    • bluhare says:

      The trim on his shirt matches his eyes.

      I am truly pathetic.

  2. Nur says:

    Hey, don’t feel bad, Harry! I have been put off having more children by my own child, whom I love dearly! But my gawd, its hard work! I’d have your child any time though! LOL!

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Ha! That was funny. I’m sure every parent has a moment of What Was I Thinking but I love that you admit it and laugh about it.

      • Nur says:

        Thanks! I keep having those thoughts during moments of sheer exhaustion. Wonder if they will ever go away…
        On a different note, sometimes it feels like Harry will never have children, despite his great rapport with them.

    • Sixer says:

      Ha! Like wot GNAT said. I was put off having more children by being pregnant. Awful state of affairs. I was fine with the sproglets once they came out, but when they were in? Ugh.

  3. aims says:

    My stress level goes up to a 1,000 when I hear a meltdown, and I have kids. So, I love kids and I’ve always known I wanted to be a parent. However,my tolerance for rude, entitled and bad behavior is very very low.

  4. Amelia says:

    HONK!

    Forever honking for all things ginger snap <3
    I still get the warm and fuzzies at the picture of him with the adorable chubby-cheeked Nepalese baby.

  5. prissa says:

    So damn sexy. That is all.

  6. lower-case deb says:

    if you ever doubted how hard Harry promotes Britain…
    let’s just say he brought British Charm and British Freakin Weather to the Sunshine State. only half kidding.

  7. RuddyZooKeeper says:

    I took it to mean he’s seen some harsh, heartbreaking stuff and in that moment thought he wouldn’t want to bring a child into a world like that. Or maybe even due to his own celebrity and all that nonsense. Not so much that he witnessed a spoiled tantrum or sat by a brat on a plane or something.

    • Solanacaea (Nighty) says:

      This..

    • Isa says:

      That’s how I took it too. Sometimes I read or see things and it makes me wonder what was I thinking to bring innocent souls into this world? I just want to protect them forever.

    • The Original Mia says:

      That was my impression as well. He would love children, but it’s a huge responsibility and he’s seen some horrible things. Not only in battle, but in his travels.

  8. Solanacaea (Nighty) says:

    On the second picture, he seems to be shivering.. Here Harry dear, I’ll wrap my arms around you to keep you warm….

  9. laprincesita says:

    <3 Harry! come to me ginger!

  10. qwerty says:

    Oh, there’s been times like this for me as well. About 7 since yesterday morning to be exact…

  11. kat says:

    honking for harry staring wistfully upwards into the rain… of course he’s probably wonder what’s for dinner.

    • notasugarhere says:

      I think he was worrying about the polo match and praying the rain would stop. It rained most of the day yesterday where it was set. If they had had to cancel, it would have been a big loss to Sentebale fund raising this year.

  12. kat says:

    Does anyone know the significant of the bracelets that Harry wears? He seems to have had some of them right back to his Eton days.

  13. antipodean says:

    Good King Hal is WET, in the rain, for charity! I died and went to heaven! Don’t worry Harry, you will have children when you find the right partner, and he/she will be the perfect other half for you. Take a lesson from your work shy brother, and don’t rush into anything. Marry in haste, repent at leisure is a tried and true maxim. I am looking forward to the day he has a gorgeous, accomplished wife, and a whole horde of ginger haired off spring running around. He will be an awesome Dad!

  14. hmmm says:

    Why does he always insert the Terrible Twosome into his answers? They don’t bother about him. And he’s only a third wheel. He certainly is becoming their mouthpiece. He needs to go solo and divest himself of these alabatrosses.

  15. right says:

    This is actually very thoughtful of him, being a parent is a really tough job and not for everybody. I love kids, they feel comfortable around me too but I don’t feel like having kids at all and I’m on my 30s. And quite frankly, if I had all the access he has, I would think of all the good things I could do to so many other people that I wouldn’t mind not having a little one waiting for me at home. There are many ways of feeling fulfilled, having kids is not the only one.

  16. Vava says:

    I don’t have children myself, haven’t felt the urge – but I’m glad some people do!

    Honk for Harry!

  17. senna says:

    I think one can feel both ways at once, right? I love kids, though I am on the fence about having them. I love being around my niece and nephew and there’s nothing that’s given me more of a sense of pure joy in life than watching them grow up. At the same time – I’ve been there with them all day some days, and having kids is a buttload of work. They have meltdowns. All planning revolves around their needs (as it should). There are moments of extreme stress and moments of existential worry over the future. Your life is no longer your own and it never will be. So I feel this, Harry; I do.

  18. JenB says:

    Prince Harry….I have no doubt some lucky woman will have your babies, lots probably. We all know you’ll be an awesome dad. I hope there’s at least one ginger baby!
    On a side note: To my fellow perma-exhausted parents I recommend watching the redband Bad Mom trailer. Some good laughs!

  19. HappyMom says:

    Dude-I have 4 of my own and sometimes I feel that way!

  20. Magnoliarose says:

    I totally understand people who don’t want to have children especially when my stubborn child collapses bonelessly to the ground at the park and refuses to leave. I have to climb those all in one contraptions and haul her away sometimes. I am very sure some couple is watching and smugly congratulating themselves for avoiding child rearing altogether.

    Honk for my sexy ginger.

    • JenB says:

      Those “spaghetti legs” moments are fun times, no?

      • CuriousCole says:

        Then there’s the opposite of noodle legs, when they discover keeping their bodies ramrod straight impedes you from buckling them into their car-seat. That’s fun when you’re running late. *sarcasm*

        Honks for ginger cheer!

      • Size Does Matter says:

        @Curious, I call that “starfish position.” Makes you want to bang your head on the car.

      • ClaireB says:

        My third one just discovered she could turn around quickly and grab the metal poles of the headrest in front of her and hang on for dear life. I can’t get her off without seriously applying force or taking for-freakin’-ever. Kids are so much fun!

        They do show you who you are, though.

  21. TyrantDestroyed says:

    I think is possible to have this dilemma, especially at your thirties when everybody around you is settling down and starting families. It has nothing to do with not liking kids or finding some mischievous ones in your life.
    Harry and I were born the same year and even though my husband and I lean towards a childless life, there are moments where I’ve felt I wanted a baby and after changed my mind quickly after analyzing the reasons why I don’t want to become a mother in a first stage. I enjoy my nephews a lot and I think this also has to do with the fact that I am not their primary source of education, so the relationship is very relaxed most of the times.

    I hope he can live a life doing what makes him happy despise his duties and obligations adhered to his position.

  22. Megan says:

    Honking for Harry! Here’s to a terrific Invictus Games!

  23. OctoberSong says:

    I know the feeling, Harry. I’m sometimes put off having children too…..unless those children are yours…..

  24. TeamAwesome says:

    Oooh, just honk, honk, honk. All the honks for Harry in the rain.

  25. Rae says:

    Honking again!

    I’m loving the news stories all coming out around the Invictus games. It’s keeping my Harry quota topped up.

  26. Flossie says:

    Check out Harry meeting competitors and fans at Invictus preparations today. Uk Daily Mail newspaper.