Taylor Swift talked about the future, marriage & babies with Calvin Harris ‘a lot’

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Am I loving the gossip around Taylor Swift & Calvin Harris’s breakup to a crazy degree? Sort of. The gossip just reminds me of how much I missed scandalous, boy-crazy Swifty, when she would cycle through three-month relationships like Kleenex and devote entire albums to the intricacies of how those dudes screwed her over. Her fifteen-month relationship with Calvin Harris is an outlier in her dating history, and as such, I can’t help but think that this might take her songwriting to the next level. But judging from the petty he-said/she-said drama in the tabloid press, probably not. Maybe this will be just like all of the other breakups and breakup albums. Anyway, “sources” keep spilling their guts to various outlets, so here we go.

Tay-Tay thought Calvin Harris was The One. So says Us Weekly’s source. This source could just be me though, because this is what I always thought, that Taylor was in love and that she thought Calvin would propose to her. The source tells Us Weekly: “She used to talk about their future a lot — marriage, babies. And although he wants all of that, it just felt a bit like she was all full-steam ahead, whereas he is more of a slow and steady, let things progress organically, kind of guy. It’s a shame because Taylor is a lovely girl. But it just obviously wasn’t meant to be.” Just to defend Swifty for a moment: fifteen months is a decent amount of time. That’s plenty of time for a relationship to progress “organically” to engagement or marriage. My point is that I don’t think Taylor was crazy or clingy for discussing marriage and babies with her boyfriend of 15 months.

Calvin Harris was trying to ease out of the relationship. The continuing narrative from Team Calvin/Adam is that HE has known for a while that Taylor wasn’t the girl for him and that he’s been itching to dump her for months. E!’s sources now say that Taylor and Adam’s lack of chemistry was obvious and they are simply “very different people.” Team Calvin also says that “Taylor wanted more attention than Adam gave. Adam did care very deeply for her but the breakup was bound to happen.” How crazy that Taylor wanted to spend time with her boyfriend of 15 months. I’m sort of itching for the breakup album now! Oh, and E!’s source also insists that “marriage or engagement was not talked about.” More like HE didn’t want to talk about it.

Calvin didn’t like Taylor’s “Hollywood” life. This is TMZ’s take on their breakup, with sources claiming that Calvin “grew more and more uncomfortable” as Taylor wanted him to attend more events as her plus-one, or… you know, just publicly acknowledge her. Allegedly, Calvin is “all about his music, working out and keeping a low profile.” Team Calvin also disputes the idea that Calvin was intimidated by Taylor’s success because Calvin – Mr. Anti-Hollywood – is the most successful DJ in the business.

And finally, Calvin returned to work in Las Vegas on Friday. He told the crowd that he feels “good.” Of course he does. He’ll feel good until the breakup album comes out. Then he’ll have to go into hiding because unhinged Swiftlunatics will come for him.

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  1. Jayna says:

    Meh. Calvin stopped leaking stories and said that they are both good people and broke up, so I don’t think he keeps leaking stories. So here comes a lot of filler.

    I don’t believe she brought up babies to a guy that wasn’t discussing marriage. Taylor is very career driven right now, at the peak of her career and focused. She may be a serial dater and fall in love easily, but I hate how it is discounted how busy her career is, busier than his, on the road for most of their relationship. Yet, now she’s being painted as the desperate girl wanting babies. Ugh. I will give Taylor credit, and that is she’s like Beyonce, very professional and driven about her career. Taylor isn’t rushing into mommyhood either,

    • Erinn says:

      If anything, I could see her talking “well I want to do x when I have kids” or something. I seriously seriously doubt it was “when we have kids” etc etc.

      I’m Taylor’s age. I don’t think it’s absurd if she does want to talk about her future with a guy she’s been with for over a year. If she DOES want kids, she’s probably thinking about the future in general – not necessarily with him. And you SHOULD talk to your SO about those things so that you don’t wake up one day after years of being together and realize neither of you want the same things.

      • Hudson Girl says:

        Agree with you Erinn. Nothing odd about making sure both people are on the same page. He was probably attracted to her but, I feel using her for the publicity/name recognition which bugged me.

        I’m not into her musically but, I would absolutely adore it if Taylor Swift’s next album contained not one word or story referencing him. I think his ego is going to love the attention from the press. If she stymied that it would be the best revenge like, “Meh, you’re not even worth the effort.”

      • Jayna says:

        It inferred she talked marriage and children a lot. Again, she on was on a massive tour a good portion of their relationship. They were not joined at the hip, inseparable, both with such busy careers. If she brought it up, that’s one thing. That’s not how I took it. I still say I don’t believe Taylor was harping on about their future and babies and marriage.

        ““She used to talk about their future a lot — marriage, babies.”

      • Original T.C. says:

        ” I would absolutely adore it if Taylor Swift’s next album contained not one word or story referencing him.”

        But what else would she sing about? Her albums are about the latest famous guy she dated and full of references to famous pap shots of them with cute little word clues spelling out their names. That’s how she makes her money. Her next album will probably be named Adam.

      • JustVisiting says:

        As my 2 cents in this Taylor was talking kids with Conor too. As something down the road, but also a topic she initiated. By how this information was relayed anyhow.

        I have the strong impression she’s the girl who speed dates. She’s either uninterested or all in. So, I have no trouble believing she was moving very quickly and very frequently on these topics. And while Calvin might have been all in for a time those feels of infatuation can fade fast and suddenly maybe he wasn’t as interested anymore. Maybe felt smothered?

        And while 15 months is time enough to start talking about becoming more serious these talking points likely did not begin at 15 months.

    • Kitten says:

      ITA Jayna.

  2. CornyBlue says:

    Such a beige PR war for such a beige couple

  3. Margo S. says:

    I can’t stand Taylor Swift. And I think talking about marriage with your man of over a year is crazy. You can say things like “one day I’d like to be married with kids.” But not “I want to marry you and have kids.” Also, they had zero chemistry. ZERO.

    • nicole says:

      I don’t understand this. How is that crazy at all? Not even with this couple but in general. Of course you discuss where your relationship is going after a year. I’d argue that not to is more unusual.

    • ThatGirl says:

      See, I disagree. My boyfriend (now finance) and I were talking about marriage after a year. A year is quite a long time, and I would want to know if the relationship was going somewhere. I agree 100% on the zero chemistry though.

      • Nicole says:

        Well I’m finally engaged, together 8 years now. We did not even talk moving in until 3 years.

        Edit: I did say I didn’t want to marry and that was very early on, I can’t believe I changed my mind.

    • Tara says:

      Really, it’s crazy? They were together well over a year. My husband proposed after 6 months. I don’t know if Taylor really wants children, or if this is just the narrative that has been set around her and now it can’t be changed, so the media just keeps writing the same story. But if she was talking about marriage and children with her serious bf of a year and a half, well, that’s completely normal.

    • Pinky says:

      She was probably going there after three months, which was probably around the time he started scaling back. Per all her past relationships (buying houses next door after a few weeks and whatnot), she’s 0-60 in 3 seconds. He’s a VW Bug. Hate to break it to that fauxminist, but she needs to play at least a teensy bit harder to get.

      –TheRealPinky

      • Lahdidahbaby says:

        Fauxminist. Love that.

      • AnnaKist says:

        Yeah, I’m with you, Pinky, and came to say the same thing. Except for “fauxminist”. That’s all yours and pure gold!

        That said, people – male and female – often talk, in general terms, about how they’d like their future to look. If you’re in a relationship, it’s a good way to gauge whether the other person wants similar things. Some people are absolutely set on never having children, for example. If one half is planning on children and the other has ruled them out completely, it’s best that that’s out in the open sooner, rather than later, especially if you’re heading towards or beyond 30. It depends on the people involved, their commitment to each other, how they interact and many other factors. If the relationship “runs its course” for either party, at any time, it’s kaput.

      • Alex says:

        I agree Pinky…I think it was much sooner than a year. She is very very quick to move with any relationship.

        If in a year you are talking about what you want for your future that’s normal. But considering how Taylor is…I’m sure it was much quicker than that

      • Tiffany :) says:

        “She was probably going there after three months,”

        So he stayed for another YEAR after that? That doesn’t make any sense. If she was talking babies after 3 months and it scared him, he would have left then.

    • Trixie says:

      “I think talking about marriage with your man of over a year is crazy. You can say things like ‘one day I’d like to be married with kids.’ But not ‘I want to marry you and have kids.'”

      I think it depends on the relationship and the two people involved. I have a friend who was engaged to her boyfriend after just over a year, and married to him at the two year mark. Every person and every relationship is different. There isn’t one set of rules for how to behave in relationships.

    • Mia V. says:

      It’s very normal to talk about your relationship with the person you are with, crazy is not to talk about it.

    • Palar says:

      Really? isn’t it critical to have that discussion at around a year, so that you know you are on the same page and if not you can move on?

      • Christin says:

        At their ages and particularly being financially secure, I don’t see an issue with broaching the subject by the one-year mark.

    • Brittney B. says:

      Umm, no.

      I guess you’d definitely shake your head at my story, then. But for all the wrong reasons.

      My boyfriend and I discussed marriage during the first three months of our relationship. Not as in “let’s decide now” or “will you marry me”… but as in: what are your expectations? Do you even WANT to get married?

      And I’m so glad we did, because neither of us care about marriage. I told him, point-blank, that a proposal wasn’t my idea of the “next step”. I wanted to grow and learn and enjoy my time with him, and figure it out as we went.

      Seven years later, we’re still together. And still want nothing to do with marriage. But I’m really glad we sorted it out at the beginning, because we’ve been on the same page for years. I wasn’t waiting for a ring; he wasn’t planning a proposal. That’s why you discuss it.

      • MI6 says:

        @Brittney B. – yes. Totally agree. Good for you. Lots of women walk around like there’s an expiration date stamped on their ass and if they don’t get married by a certain date, they’re worthless. Nonsense. It’s not a prison sentence or the “time” you’ve done in a relationship. It’s about two people and what works for them.
        Plus men are far needier then men – that’s not sexist; it’s just the truth. They are complex, amazing creatures. Give them their space and they will thank you. If they taught us this secret early on, there would be far fewer problems in the world – and many more successful relationships.

      • MI6 says:

        …I meant men are needier than women, dammit.

      • raptor says:

        I agree.

        My husband and I actually discussed our beliefs about marriage and children on our very first date. Not in an “I want to marry you” way (at the time, actually, both of us said we didn’t think marriage was important, but later on, we realized health insurance was!), but as a compatibility check. We’d both had longterm relationships end because we wanted different things than our partners and both felt that it was best not to waste anyone else’s time.

      • KiddVicious says:

        My husband and I were together 20 years before marrying. When we first started dating I told him I wasn’t interested in having kids or getting married. He was fine with the kid part but a little disappointed with not marrying. When we finally did get married a few years ago it was for the mundane reasons of insurance and taxes. Didn’t have a wedding, just headed to the courthouse. I did get a big diamond though, which was a surprise. I jokingly told him if I’d known about the big diamond I’d have married him a long time ago. LOL

    • kibbles says:

      There is nothing crazy to discuss your dreams and desires with a person you are in love with at that time. Many people fall in love with each other within one year. The problem is when one person is ready for something serious and the other person isn’t. But then again, how do you know what your partner wants unless you talk about these subjects? Why waste 2-3 years with someone then find out that person doesn’t want marriage and children? Better to know early on than to waste another person’s time.

    • Wren says:

      Why crazy? A year is enough time to know if you’re invested in the relationship or not. She was, he wasn’t, simple as that.

      It’s not crazy to talk about future plans and what you want in life. If you don’t talk about it, how will you know what the other person wants? Too many people assume their partner wants what they want and that just leads to heartbreak. It sounds like they wanted different things and thus the relationship ended. Better sooner than later in that case.

    • Wren33 says:

      I moved in with my husband after a year, and we most definitely had the “talk” at that time. We were engaged after another 6 months and married at the two year mark. Particularly if you are in you late 20s, I think this is fairly normal.

    • Alyce says:

      I don’t think it is abnormal at all to discuss the future with your boyfriend of 1 year. I think it is odder not to discuss the future.

      Beliefs about marriage and kids are important to discuss rather early so that you know you’re both on the same page. Better that then to discover after three years that your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t believe in the institution of marriage while you were waiting for a proposal. Or finding out that while you’re happy childless your partner wants 3 kids.

    • kanyekardashian says:

      The general rule is that you should be talking about your future after four entire seasons together – one whole year. I say seasons because people behave differently from season to season. You should know if your SO gets the condition SAD in the winter, things like that, so you know you can handle being around this person long-term.

    • ohdear says:

      I have a different perspective because I married my husband 4 months after I met him 17 years ago. A friend of mine has been with her guy for 3 and a half years and they are experiencing a very long break up because he doesn’t want to get married and have kids and she does. This just came out – she assumed, he led her to believe but it came to a head. It’s been really hard for her to decide between a man she loves and has devoted so much to, and what she believes she wants.

      This is how I imagine these conversations went down: I cannot even think about a marriage and family for the next 2 years because 1) tour 2) then new music 3) new tour to support new music and current popularity. So any potential timeline for big wedding and family would be 3 year away. But I want them. How does that line up with your timeline?
      Taylor is first and foremost a business woman whose product is her entertainment. And I think she is smart enough to capitalize when she can.

    • byland says:

      I’m with most everyone else. A year into a relationship I’d expect people to have talked about where they see where said relationship heading, but beyond that the sky is the limit when it comes to what “should” be done or happen.

      My husband and I almost got married six months into our relationship, (my) personal intimacy issues and all. We ended up just getting engaged, but eleven years and four kids later we’re still here, happier than ever.

      My parents, on the other hands, got married less than two months into dating. A disaster from start to finish. They were divorced in under seven years and I’m the only thing that kept my father there that long.

      My best friend and her boyfriend were together for seventeen years before getting engaged and married this year. Everyone thought they would never get married since they’d been together so long and hadn’t yet, but they waited until it was right for them. Turns out they decided long ago that they wanted to wait until their thirties to get married. They talked and worked it out together. Our other best friend and I never asked, because we both agreed it wasn’t our business, so she never told us, but let us know when they announced their engagement that she would have if either of us had.

      (We both told her why we hadn’t and her response was to pause, then say “and that’s why the three of us are soulmates.”)

      It’s different for everyone one and there’s no one right way to go about things. Rules don’t have a place in love, as long as no one is being abused, lied to, or taken advantage of. It’s not a one-size-fits-all kind of situation.

    • tacos and tv says:

      Margo! I kinda love everything about this… everything!!! They are/were a basic ass couple, with basic ass chemistry and I am so glad he dumped her! I know, it’s mean, but I really don’t like Taylor Swift Bangs at all!

    • Zuzus Girl says:

      Eh, I knew within weeks my husband was the one and we married 6 months after getting together. Twenty years now. Fifteen months is enough time to know if you want all in or at least starting talking about it. Sounds like Adams team is leaking stories though or the media is flat out inventing it.

    • Ange says:

      I brought marriage up a few weeks in. Not crazily but just that it was something I wanted one day. It’s a great way to weed out guys who don’t want that because they run like hell hahaha. That guy didn’t run and he proposed just before our one year anniversary, we married at two years. If the person you’re with is generally on the same page there’s no wrong time to discuss things, obviously Calvin wasn’t on board so Swifty got burned.

    • Egla says:

      I dated a guy once that after two months started talking marriage , babies and RULES for his future wife. It was very passive aggressive in his way of talking. I felt almost trapped, Because i didn’t react he started justifying with “Obviously not with you”. I said THANK YOU. He left me, I run free and went on with my life. He wanted me back i said NOP.
      Now this two, i might see things but it didn’t seem to me they had any chemistry really. It seemed more PR. But it’s not the end of the world to separate from someone and usually both parties played a role. I just think it ended for them and he made the move. But yes a new Swifty album on the way with the title : “Eva f…d Adam”

    • Kristin says:

      Look, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with making sure you’re on the same page with your man with regards to what you both want in the future, but she’s barely 26! I don’t care if they were together for 15 months, I think that’s a little young to be hankering after marriage and babies. I’m not criticizing anyone for marrying young, and I’m not trying to villainize her, but this sort of seems to be her M.O. Remember, this is the same girl who bought a house a stone’s throw from the Kennedy compound when she was dating Connor Kennedy who was all of 17 and still in high school. I just think she’s read too many romance novels and seems to move awfully fast when she gets with a guy. But that’s just my take on the situation. I could be totally off. I truly wish her the best and she seems like a romantic at heart, but she might be better off if she slowed down a bit.

  4. Lucy2 says:

    All seems pretty normal to me. They were together over a year, and had different wants for the future of the relationship, so it ended. Both have seems pretty chill about it. The media will turn this into another oh my God Taylor is crazy story, but they both seem fine.

    • michelleb says:

      Agree. I’m not really seeing the drama either.
      15 months is a good point to go your separate ways if you have differeing ideas about your future.

    • arabella says:

      Lucy2, that’s exactly what I was thinking! Seriously, that’s how almost all of my girl friends’ relationships have ended. A year or so, even less many times, and the guy says he doesn’t want marriage for, like, another 5 years, so it’s over.

    • G says:

      +1
      Their reputations are what make people want to believe that this breakup is anything more than that (though of course it could be more complicated, who knows). She’s 26 and he’s what, 32? Seems perfectly normal to want to know if, after over a year together, the person you’re with wants the same future as you, with you.

  5. ItDoesntReallyMatter says:

    He was probably scared away by those bolt-ons… 😉

    • Jules says:

      She will just get a larger set for the next dude.

    • Jegede says:

      Why would he be?

      Calvin himself is no stranger to plastic surgery to err, improve yourself.

      • Christin says:

        I saw the before and after photos this weekend. No, he’s no stranger to big makeovers.

    • Kitten says:

      I don’t understand why people have to point out her breast implants in every thread about her. It’s a really weird thing to be preoccupied with…like, she’s not the first celebrity to have breast implants, guys.

      Additionally, it’s a personal choice and not something she should be shamed for.

      • Erinn says:

        +1000 -as usual.

      • kanyekardashian says:

        Taylor Swift does not have breast implants. I don’t know where you got such a stupid idea from. She’s way too confident for something as insecure as that.

      • Kitten says:

        @KanyeKardashian-Who gives a sh*t whether she does or doesn’t was my point.

        It’s a personal choice and nobody’s damn business.

      • paranormalgirl says:

        not all women who get breast implants are insecure.

      • Brittney B. says:

        Especially when the man in question changed his name to sound more “black”, then changed his face/body when he became successful.

        But no, Taylor wanting bigger boobs is the shameful thing.

      • G says:

        Yeah, seriously. In Hollywood of all places it’s hardly worth mentioning. I think the constant attention is because it’s seen to go against her brand, but… So what? She’s an adult woman with a largely adolescent brand appeal, big surprise that she doesn’t live her whole life according to branding expectations.

    • AnnieRUOk says:

      I’m glad you mentioned that. I was wondering why she looked so thin, but her breasts looked absolutely contrary to her chest/rib cage.
      Nothing kills an appetite like a public dissolution. Hope she gets another Grammy for the next breakup album.

  6. escondista says:

    I was 30 when I had my first date with my (then) 26 year old husband. I told him that I wanted to get married and have kids soon and that if he wasn’t interested in that then he should move along. While I can admit that I maybe should have waited a bit, you just have to be honest about what you want. I’d rather get dumped for what I am than get married for what I’m not.

    • Jegede says:

      Oooh what happened immediately after you said that?

      • escondista says:

        Ha. He looked at me like I was slightly insane and said, “okay?” And then I bought us a second round and we talked about normal first date things. I think he wanted the same thing because we were engaged four months later, married 6 months after that, and a year after we got married we were expecting. And I’m so happy with him!

      • Jegede says:

        Aww that’s wonderful.)))

        But I agree with your points be honest up front.
        “Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours.”

        Though I was hoping you would say he bailed and you had to run after him!!!!!!!!!

  7. LuluPolly says:

    Calvin broke up with her so that her next album will be about him.

  8. Bey says:

    But Taylor already ruled out having kids because of her career.

  9. Lahdidahbaby says:

    It’s unseemly of Calvin & his minions to put out the private deets about Swifty wanting marriage and babies while he, on the other hand, didn’t happen to feel she was the one.

    Hell, I don’t even like her and I think it’s mean and small-hearted of him. She – in spite of all her obvious vanity and pride – felt safe enough with him, and in love enough with him, to make herself vulnerable in this way by opening up her heart to him. And now the whole fecking world has to hear about it?

    What an assh0le he has turned out to be if this came from him. And if it didn’t, why didn’t he immediately say so?!?

    I’m so over Calvin. Had a bit of a crush on him. Now he’s dead cabbage to me.

    • kanyekardashian says:

      Why would you automatically assume that this guy is leaking anything to the press about her? Don’t you understand the implication of “sources”, as in a “source” is just some lying hanger-on, not a true friend or anyone who knows anything that went on in their relationship. Was this person in the room when Taylor supposedly said these things? Doubtful. Neither one of them seems like the type to have people in their inner circle they don’t trust completely. All of these supposed “sources” are just made up by TMZ and the other tabloids.

      • Lahdidahbaby says:

        Perhaps you missed this part of my post, in which case you could have saved yourself a long diatribe with no purpose:

        “What an assh0le he has turned out to be if this came from him. And if it didn’t, why didn’t he immediately say so?!?”

        And most people know that “sources” at TMZ and other sites like it are often working in the service of whatever celeb is the topic du jour.

  10. kiki says:

    This is why I can’t stand PR getting involved in their clients affairs. I know it is their jobs but come on, should the PR protect their clients’ image instead of advertising their disastrous moments?

    Anyways, I knew 15 months ago that Taylor Swift and that man-baby Calvin Harris will break up. I am waiting for her next break-up song about Calvin Harris.

    • Tig says:

      considering this was a PR relationship and his contract ended 5/31… yeah, the PR is involved. I love all of the spin like it was serious, marriage and babies 🙂

  11. Susanne says:

    15 months is enough time for talk about marriage and babies?

    • Erinn says:

      When you’re not 14, yes. Why waste a bunch of time if you have certain things you want out of life only to find out that the other person doesn’t want those as well?

      • trillian says:

        Seriously? At 14 you shouldn’t even think about marrying or having babies … I think 15 months is NOTHING at her age. People change so much during their 20ies. I am 41, my boyfriend and I will be together for 3 years in July and we have a 4 months old daughter and everyone I know thinks (and I sort of agree) we went crazy fast. But then, we didn’t have that much time left.

      • Mira says:

        @Erinn
        When you spent most of that time on tour? I feel like people forget she was on tour throughout most of their relationship. Theres no way they would have known eachother as well as a regular couple who dated for 15 months. It looks like once she came back from tour and got to know each other better, Calvin-Adam quickly realised they weren’t a match.

      • Erinn says:

        trillian – did you actually read what I said?

        I said it’s normal if you’re NOT a kid.
        I’m her age. 15 months might not be ‘anything’ but it’s still a decent amount of time. I’m married. I got married at 24. I’ve been with my now husband since we were 14. Of course we didn’t talk like “So when are we getting married” when we were kids – but we both always wanted to have a settled down life. During highschool I knew that he eventually did want to have the marriage and kids thing at some point down the road. I’m in no rush to have kids – but you can’t deny that there ARE more risks the older you are. And everyone is different. Just because you were able to have a child when you did, doesn’t mean the next person could.

        Mira – yes. I think it’s fair even if they haven’t spent that much time together. It didn’t need to be “So are we going to get married?” it could be as simple as “Do you plan on getting married someday? Do you want kids someday?”. I don’t think that’s absurd to even bring up after a few dates.

        Why should you tiptoe around what you want out of life just to make the other person happy? Her friend JUST got married – I don’t think it’s abnormal for someone involved in a wedding to talk about weddings in general, or what they’d want to do when they eventually get married. When you’re immersed in wedding mode with a friend, it’s bound to happen.

      • Mira says:

        i can see how that could happen but on the other hand they would not have known each other as in they wouldn’t have had a normal day to day life together up until the last few months. Most people would like to get to know each other, see how they function together in every day life before they talk marriage.

  12. lower-case deb says:

    someone in the one of the previous TS/CH breakup post bet that the next Taylor Breakup Album will be an electropop album. what i want to know is if she’ll be going down Kylie Minogue’s route, or Imogen Heap?

    • Erica_V says:

      She worked with Imogen on 1989 for one song and it’s one of the best ones on the album so yes hopefully they will work together more!

  13. serena says:

    He feels good because he wanted out and now he’s single and ready to mingle again. I’m on Taylor side on this, because I always got douche vibes from him.

    • ohdear says:

      a few months back one of the Celebitchy readers had posted that Calvin was trying to pick up a friend of hers at a bar. I think he stayed around as long as it was useful to him. And I know that he is the most popular DJ right now, but that’s kind of a small world. Being with Taylor would provide a much larger name recognition.

    • Lauren II says:

      Calvin dated Rita Ora for over a year. Then a model for a few months.
      How did Calvin end up with Taylor? This was a PR relationship, that suddenly ended when Taylor’s tour was finished.
      The kissing vacay pic on Instagram-with Tay’s heel kick- gave me some false hope.
      As usual, Taylor is dumped and humiliated.

      Calvin is underestimating Taylor.
      Tay has so much Power–her PR team will cause Calvin ruin, and Tay will have another #1 Album in 2 years.

      • Nicole says:

        Didn’t he date Eliie Goulding also? And have a really dramatic bust up with Ora?

  14. NewWester says:

    If this story is true, I am actually glad that a couple is discussing marriage and children early in the relationship. Rather that than marrying someone and then finding out they don’t want children(or want children). Nothing wrong with having a discussion like that if you have been dating for a period of time. Then you can both decide if the relationship is what you really want.

  15. Ally.M says:

    Taylor seems to be pretty low key so far with this break up….most of the leaks are coming from his team apart from the ‘intimated by her success’ one, which the b*tch in me loves . I think he’s milking it – lots of pap pics the last few days and all these leaks, so much for him hating Hollywood. What a douche.

  16. Leyla says:

    Nothing crazy about this. I’m not a fan of her, but I feel like people forget how old she is due to her immaturity/instagram squad and other high school stuff. But she’s 26 and not 18, Calvin is in his early 30s I believe? They had the ‘right’ age to settle down. She’s so rich, she doesn’t have to think about the bills/not having a stable job/an house unlike any normal young woman of her age….I’m with her on this one, it’s normal to have these kind of thoughts when you’re in a serious relationship

    • Tay Tay does not leak info about her bf’ s like a common peasant, oh no, she writes(trashes) them into “songs” Ask John Mayer! i bet her calvin trashing would have bagpipe music. I really like bagpipes.
      Anyways, i like her. Her songs are extremely useful when you want to irritate your roommate!

  17. Mira says:

    It wasn’t that different. She was on tour for most of their relationship, so in actual time spent together it probably amounts to the same as all her other relationship.

  18. Mike says:

    I don’t see her ever getting married or having kids for some reason.

  19. jetlagged says:

    Oh good god. There must always be a reason why a girl is dumped, right? Either she’s too career driven, wants to settle down and have kids, or she cheated. It can’t be just the relationship didn’t work out or they both fell out of love or grew apart. Nope, the reason why they split must be something bad because it’s Swift. *SMH and rollseyes*

  20. Kk says:

    I don’t believe this because, as others have said, Taylor is all about her career right now. I think one of two things explains the story: (1) Taylor is planting it to appeal to the minivan majority and set up album sales (the aniston approach?), or (2) it’s purely speculative made up bs based on tired stereotypes. Either way, Taylor Swift just turned 26 and is at the top of the entertainment industry. I highly doubt she’s obsessed with babies.

    • Tig says:

      Taylor’s team is definitely planting all of these “we were serious” stories, because they were only together for photo ops..

  21. Wren says:

    If it’s true he was trying to gradually exit the relationship, I feel bad for her. An ex did that to me (while denying it strenuously, of course) and it really sucked. He was doing it to try and soften the blow but it did just the opposite. The last few months were full of stupid fights, canceled plans and him just mysteriously (to me) drawing away. When he finally found the balls to actually break up with me, he admitted that he’d wanted to for awhile. That was so painful. On top of being dumped (wheee), I got to deal with the fact that for some time I’d been pouring my heart and soul into keeping our relationship going while he was just sort of hanging around for the opportune moment to end it.

  22. nicegirl says:

    I KNEW that guy was trouble when he walked in.

    • Don’t you worry, she will begin again.

    • Lauren II says:

      Calvin dated sex bomb Rita Ora for over a year. A while later, “Adam” dates Taylor? Very strange. Or a calculated PR contract.

      I like some of Tay’s music, and she has a brilliant PR and Management team.
      However, Taylor’s girl squad seems very contrived, and don’t imagine any man would want to be immersed in that elitist Hollywood culture long term.

  23. MoochieMom says:

    I was lazy and didn’t read the comment above, but when at 18 months my boyfriend (then) and I were getting a huge apartment together and making financial decisions together I flat out asked, “Are we getting married because I’m 25 and not going to waste my life playing games.” I got lucky when he said, “Let’s go get you a ring. I was always gonna marry you.” I don’t think Taylor would be so bold. I was over the fantasy proposal (he delivered though). I’ve always been let’s do this or I’m out though.

  24. Tessa says:

    I have nothing to base this on, but I have a feeling he will come crawling back

  25. KiddVicious says:

    I Paris was the most successful DJ in the business. 😉

  26. Naddie says:

    I just really wish Taylor and Karlie Kloss get married and live happilly ever after. And I’m serious.

  27. JRenee says:

    15 months is not too short a time to discuss marriage and children imo.

  28. pk says:

    I don’t know why but I have doubts that this relationship was very genuine

  29. Caz says:

    I can’t get interested in this. If they got engaged they would have broken up anyway. Nothing to see here…move on,

  30. Katie says:

    I think Taylor may be the kind of girl who talks about marriage and kids with all of her boyfriends.

  31. Sarah says:

    My point is that I don’t think Taylor was crazy or clingy for discussing marriage and babies with her boyfriend of 15 months.

    Well we don’t know if she brought up marriage at 15 months or from say the first month…