Jennifer Garner really is trying to be boring

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Jennifer Garner wants us to know that she’s trying to be boring. Mission Accomplished! No, no. I won’t go there. Jennifer is still out promoting The Ghosts of Girlfriends Past, and she gave an interview to Movies.ie. She claims that she and husband Ben Affleck are trying to be boring because they think the celebrity gossip/tabloid world is poison. She also talks a little about Violet and Seraphina, but mostly about the film, Matthew McConaughey, weddings and her upcoming film with Ricky Gervais. The Gervais part is the best part, just to let you know:

There’s only one word to sum up life for Jennifer Garner right now – boring. At least that’s what she wants us to think. The truth is that she doesn’t do parties or wild nights our or even breakdowns like other celebs because she’s quietly going about what she really loves – motherhood mixed with just a little Hollywood.

With three-year-old Violet and baby Seraphina, born just four months ago, Jen and husband Ben Affleck have found the kind of happiness denied to so many famous couples.

Jen is making what has become one of her rare returns to Hollywood over the past few years with romantic comedy Ghosts of Girlfriends Past. The movie sees Jen play bridesmaid to her soon-to-be-wed sister and her womanising groom Matthew McConaughey. With Matt’s character struggling with a bad case of cold feet it takes a ghostly and Christmas Carol-like revelation to put the wedding back on track.

Here Jen talks about juggling babies with box office, how she’s coping with life as a famous mother and why she’s doing everything she can to keep her perfect life as boring as possible.

Q: How are you enjoying motherhood second time around?
JG: “It’s the same thing but crazier (laughs). No, everything is going really well, thank you very much. Everybody is happy and healthy. It feels like it’s only one more but it feels like three more.”

Q: What is your secret to keeping your family out of the tabloids?
JG: “We try to be boring (laughs). I try to stay away from it. Ben taught me that you cannot read that stuff, that it’s poison. It is horrible to read anything written about you. I would read the positive stuff if somebody read it through for me beforehand.”

Q: Did you learn anything from this movie?
JG: “Well, I think yeah, of course, there are messages to the movie: that you have to take a chance on love. That it’s worth the risk.”

Q: How weird was it to act out the scenes when Matthew is a ghost and invisible to your character?
JG: “It felt like he was an audience of one. It just gave it a different twist. I liked it. It informed the scene to have Matthew there. It was quite nice to just ignore him (laughs).”

Q: Have you had any experience of wedding angst like your character in this movie?
JG: “I am usually part of the disaster of a wedding if I’m a bridesmaid which I’ve been lucky enough to be several times. One time I had my dress altered and had not tried it on again and there was four-to-six-inches left of the hem and we had to duct tape it up. It was all last minute because I never get ready until the last minute because I’m hanging out and chatting, doing girls’ makeup which I should not be doing. I went to walk down the aisle one time in front of my friend and the curlers were still in my hair. So I’m not a good bridesmaid in that way.”

Q: Did you always want to be famous?
JG: “No. The whole movie stardom ride is totally unexpected. I certainly never expected to be in front of a camera even for one day of my life. Even when I was studying acting, I wouldn’t even go into the film school of my school. I was only about stage. I was a total snob. Then when I moved to New York and was trying to get a job on stage and was broke and got offered a TV movie, I was like, ‘Hot dog! Put me in front of that camera. Let’s do it!” So now that it has continued to evolve, I love my job.

Q: You’re doing another movie with a wild concept, a world where no one’s ever lied.
JG: “That’s right. Ricky Gervais wrote it with Matt Robinson and they directed too. It’s just one of those little movies but it has a very big idea which is to imagine a world with no artifice whatsoever. So for example, an ad for Coca Cola would say, ‘Coca Cola, it’s bad for you but it’s sparkly and tastes good. Please continue buying Coca Cola. It’s really famous.’ Ricky’s character is the one exception to the rule. He learns how to lie and just that one person learning how to lie changes the entire world. It’s really, really fun and there are a lot of great cameos in it. It’s just a kooky little movie.”

Q: What was it like being directed by Ricky Gervais?
JG: “He is very specific about things. The worst thing about Ricky as a director is that if something is funny, if something is funny at all and it was very improvisational, he breaks and laughs and ruins your take. I would say, ‘It’s your movie. Just leave. Just go in another room. Let me just do it.’ He’s like, ‘Just do it again.’ I said, ‘Ricky, it’s not the same. You suck!’ But he knew exactly what he wanted.”

Q: Would you like to do more romantic comedies or are you itching to go back to action roles?
JG: “I’ve been lucky to be able to change because I did become known out of the gate so much for action. I’m really happy that I didn’t get stuck there. The whole point to me of being an actor is to get to do different things or else you might as well just go to an office and show up every day. Of course, you’re always looking for how to flip it for yourself, as well as how can I surprise people. That’s the fun.”

Q: Would you like to do another movie with Ben?
JG: “A big part of it is that somebody’s got to raise the kids, so if we’re both at work, that’s a bummer for them. But there’s no rush. We’re not looking for anything to do together just now.”

[From Movies.ie]

See, the Ricky Gervais part is the best. It’s as if Ricky’s humor has infected her boringness. No, I said I wouldn’t go there! I actually don’t have a problem with Jennifer Garner, she seems pretty harmless, and I’ve liked her in several films. But she doesn’t give a great interview, and her wholesome-seeming personality puts me to sleep. This is the woman who abandoned her husband (Scott Foley) for her co-star (Michael Vartan). This is the woman who dumped Vartan for Affleck, and got pregnant two seconds later. I’m not judging, I’m just pointing out that she’s made some interesting choices – she should be more a more captivating interview. So my only explanation is that she’s telling the truth about trying to be boring.

Here’s Jennifer at a local park in Boston with Violet and Seraphina on Wednesday. Images thanks to Fame Pictures .

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  1. Sunnyjyl says:

    Good for her even if it’s not as much fun for us tabloid junkies.

  2. Kris says:

    I agree Sunny…it’s refreshing to see a “normal, boring” woman in H-wood…

  3. twokids2 says:

    I like Jen, but even when I don’t like it when actors/actresses leave their spouses for another actor/actress I liked the her better when she was with Michael Vartan. I think they were a cutest couple but Ben Affleck was her choice so I hope it lasts, for the kids sake.
    BTW, Michael Vartan is a HOT HUNK.

  4. kiki says:

    yeah
    look at Ben
    He looks bored to death with her

  5. kiki says:

    they just purchased a $12 million dollar house surely it must have a nice backyard with a swing set. I dont get it why she takes her kids to public parks where paps can photograph her boring day.
    what are you saying that Viloet might be Vartans kid?? ummm
    did you know that 40% of children arents the bio children of the man who thinks its their own bio kid.

  6. Katharine Jaynes says:

    “This is the woman who abandoned her husband (Scott Foley) for her co-star (Michael Vartan). This is the woman who dumped Vartan for Affleck, and got pregnant two seconds later. ”

    SOOO true! This is what I want to hear about too!!
    She gets away with a lot because everyday soccer moms look at her as one of them, but she pulled some shady moves early on with Ben. After dating for a few weeks she went off birth control and got pregnant, when they got married I think she was 5 or 6 months along…

  7. cherryblossom says:

    I think I’ll save this interview for later tonight when my insomnia kicks in.

    Seriously, I don’t dislike her…I just often have to go “WHO?” after I see her name.

  8. kiki says:

    excuse me
    its a $20 million $ home that jen and Ben purhased from divorcing Brian Grazer its 3 acres 8,000 sq foot home that sits on its own private compound. \( source The Real Estalker blog)

    why is she hanging around public parks?

    I sure wouldnt

  9. Annie says:

    Vartan’s so hot too….sheesh.

  10. Cinderella says:

    She may not have been an angel in the past, but I think she’s redeemed herself as a good mom and committed wife.

    I like her more now than I did back then.

  11. anastasiabeaverhausen says:

    It’s funny I had the same thought: I just saw their huge house/compound they just bought. BUT that house is outside of LA and the caption here says she’s at a public park in Boston. So I guess they were out of town. That would make more sense.

    Eh, I don’t blame her for trying to keep her life boring. I do the same because I hate drama. HATE it. (I don’t mind reading about other people’s drama, just don’t want any in my life, thankyouverymuch.)

    Besides, how boring can it be with two kids and loads of money?

  12. lrm says:

    yea,park is in boston…but even so,a stay home mom with 2 little ones-you can go stir crazy….and may need the park,paps and all….just once in awhile. Regardless of how big your home/yard are….you just need to get out of the house,ya know?

  13. ash says:

    Oh man, I love Michael Vortan, he is extremely good looking. And when he was in Never Been Kissed? Holy Sh*t I wish that was my highschool teacher.

  14. KateNonymous says:

    So am I reading that right? She and Ricky Gervais are making a movie that’s a twist on “Crazy People”?

  15. CiCi says:

    Sigh. As if Jennifer got HERSELF pregnant on HER OWN. Yeah.

    Unless you’re insinuating she’s tricked him like a Jerry Springer guest?

    As for Michael Vartan – few people are scrawnier or wimpier looking. I don’t blame Jen for moving on – she probably wore a bigger clothes size than him.

  16. Pete says:

    Bullshit. If she thought it was poison she would have her daughter play in her own backyard instead of out in public for all the paps to see.

  17. kathleen says:

    I just love her. She is a real woman and I think that she is just herself…not a PHONEY!!!

  18. Rosy J says:

    I agree with Kathleen she is a real woman. Not boring at all. I love that she doesn’t dignify the lies regarding her personal live with Foley, Vartan and/or Ben. This is what a lot of interviewer’s find boring about her. She gives the most entertaining and intelligent interviews with the proper setting. Case in point, her latest appearance on the David Letterman Show. I found myself smiling during the entire interview. I even watched it again and again on “You Tube”. She is so engaging and adorable. I love her..She is the best!

  19. Granger says:

    I had some questionable relationships before finally realizing “the error of my ways” and settling down with my husband, so I reserve judgment on Jennifer Garner’s past.

    She used to bug the crap out of me, but I’m starting to think she’s actually pretty genuine. My favourite phrase from that interview is “Hot Dog!” Too cute.

  20. Elle says:

    What is “normal and refreshing” for a woman to leave her husband for a co-star (who just happened to be more famous than her husband), dump her co-star for another co-star (who just happened to be more famous than her boyfriend), get knocked up, have a shotgun wedding, and get the ex-boyfriend fired, causing your show’s ratings to plummet and subjecting your network to a fan protest?

    What’s normal about exploiting your kids to daily photo ops while you argue that you want privacy?

    This woman is a lying, scheming, conniving, backstabbing hypocrite.

    Period.

  21. Linda says:

    Actually, she waited a lot longer to get pregnant than did Angelina Jolie, Katie Holmes or Nicole Richie after they met Brad,Tom and that musician guy. So it wasnt TWO Seconds, it was more like seven months (July 2004 when they got together and February 2005 when she got Preggo)

  22. Linda says:

    Plus, Brad was stilll married, Tom was ages older than Katie, and that dude (name escapes me now) Nicole snagged had broken up with Hiliary Duff a nano-second before meeting Nicole. WHere is your outrage against those women, Katharine Jaynes? Or am I wrong, and you are outraged with those instantly pregnant women also? I think those that are bothered by Jen Garner are just (those few) Vartan/Scott Foley fans who are mad she’s more famous than they ever got.

  23. tess says:

    i think she has “sown her wild oats” and “settled down” — two expressions commonly used in the small town i grew up in when girls who had ‘colourful’ pasts married and hit their groove.

    i think she is a great mum. i like that the parents pick Violet up from school and if they are taking the kids to public parks, more power to them. public parks are where “real” people hang out and given that jennifer is snapped at farmer’s markets, on city streets, etc – that is what she is trying to raise her kids to be – not rarified brats who don’t know where they came from.

  24. DiMi says:

    She’s always been boring. She doesn’t have to try.

  25. czarina says:

    What I got from the interview is that she and Ben are working to project as boring an image as possible.
    They WANT you to be bored of pics of her watching her daughter swing in the park, or her selecting food at the market. They want the price for any picture of them to drop like a stone making it unworthwhile for the paps to be following them.
    She is very smart to make sure she is seen in public often enough to not be mysterious (having people wonder-where is Jen? Is something wrong with the kids? We haven’t seen Seraphina in X number of weeks, etc,are they divorcing?).
    I don’t blame her. If I had to read about myself something like what Elle wrote here, I wouldn’t give the paps or blogs any ammunition at all.
    Let them yawn.

  26. Katharine Jaynes says:

    Linda – I’m not outraged with jen garner, she does not illicit such an intense response. I don’t care for her as an actress, she is boring to watch. Both on and off screen she is frightfully plain. Personally, I prefer a capitaving and intriguing on screen personality. Jen Garner is bland. She’s watered down. She’s just not my style at all, and that’s my opinion.

  27. caribassett says:

    what is wrong with public parks? Boston is an absolutely lovely place.

  28. Magsy says:

    Well she can always stop making movies.

  29. lb says:

    Her torn underwear won me over. She seems happy with her choices and I appreciate that she does the everday things for her kids that mean a lot to them: taking them to school, to the park and to the market. I have yet to see her use a herd of nannies to make her life/career easier.