Sarah Paulson wonders why bro fighting isn’t a thing like cat fighting

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Before we talk about this, can I get your opinion on Sarah Paulson’s hair? (I will be traveling today and will be away for a bit but I will read all your comments!) I am considering doing a dramatic asymmetric cut like this with two tone color. Evan Rachel Wood has this same cut and it is giving me such 90s nostalgia, I love it. I very much realize that it’s a reactionary cut, like when you get a dark pixie cut after a bad breakup, but it’s also bold and lovely. I want to wait until the summer to see if I still like it but for now I want it. My hairdresser says it will be a bitch to grow out but that hair is fashion too so we may as well go for it.

Paulson is costarring in the Oceans 8 movie, with a heist team made up of badasses like Sandra Bullock, Mindy Kaling (I didn’t know she was in it but I just saw these set pictures, squee!), Anne Hathaway, Helena Bonham Carter, Cate Blanchett and Sandra Bullock. It’s out June 8th next year and maybe I will be sporting a short new ‘do just in time for that. I think I have a plan now. Regardless she was interviewed by The Wrap about the fact that the “women infighting” narrative has been in the press. Director Paul Fieg said at a conference recently that some producer told him that if he got too many women together on set there would be “cat fights,” which of course hasn’t been the case. In this new interview, Paulson very expertly shot that speculation down as sexist without using the term. I love her.

TheWrap caught up with the newly-minted Golden Globe nominee to discuss her nod for “The People v. O.J. Simpson” and broached the doubts and analysis that plagued last summer’s all-female “Ghostbusters” to see whether Paulson expected the same scrutiny and even suggestions of actress in-fighting.

“Not in the slightest. I’ve never had anything like that happen on that set, I don’t come from a world where I expect that … I just think it’s sort of sad, really, that that would be the expectation,’ Paulson said. “I promise you it would not be like that if a bunch of boys would get together — ‘bro fights.’ I hate to support that narrative or that idea and it certainly couldn’t be further from the truth.”

As Paul Feig promoted “Ghostbusters” in July alongside stars Kristen Wiig, Melissa McCarthy, Leslie Jones and Kate McKinnon, he reflected on advice he was dispensed early in his career to avoid a women-heavy set.

“These women that (‘Ocean’s 8’ director) Gary Ross has gathered together are some of the great women of the world and some of the greatest actors. Everyone is getting along like gangbusters, I can promise you that,” Paulson said of co-stars Cate Blanchett, Sandra Bullock, Rihanna, Anne Hathaway, Mindy Kaling and Nora Lum.

At the Produced By conference in June, Feig said his male colleagues once told him to expect “cat fights” if a film had more than one leading lady.

“I had some male producer say, ‘Oh boy, get ready. It’s going to be tough, you’re going to have cat fights,’” the director said. “And I said, ‘Who the f— are you?’ It was the most wonderful experience I’ve had,” said the filmmaker, who has directed the female ensemble comedy “Bridesmaids” and the Bullock-McCarthy buddy comedy “The Heat.”

[From The Wrap via Jezebel]

Kaiser and I were brainstorming to try and remember when the “bro fighting” thing has come up in the tabloids. There have been quite a few things – but usually there’s very solid evidence and it’s not the vague “fighting on set” claims you hear about women. There was The Rock vs. Vin Diesel, but Dwayne Johnson brought that up himself on Instagram. There was Orlando Bloom vs. Justin Bieber, but those two were in a longstanding feud over Miranda Kerr and Bloom was witnessed taking a swing at Bieber. So often the tabloids run rumors and innuendo about women fighting on set, but they’ll only pick up the stories about the guys fighting when the bro fights play out in real life. Why aren’t bro fights more gossiped-about? Paulson has a point. Also, good for Feig for telling that jerk to shut it.

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  1. SnackieOnassis says:

    Helena Bonham Carter’s hair/wig looks amazing too! Can’t wait to see this film.

  2. Bitchy says:

    Bros don’t fight because they understand that cooperation pays more than competition.

    Whereas women do fight because they haven’t gotten that yet.
    Evidence?
    Just look on certain web pages who trash talk other women’s wedding dresses with a seriousness as if it were the governments policy on women and families.

    • Ramona says:

      Off the top of my head, Tom Hardy, David O’Russell, Shia Labeuof, Alec Baldwin, Bruce Willis, Ed Norton et cetera. ALL of these men have been multiple on set conflicts FORMALLY CONFIRMED by co-workers. 3 of them were PHYSICAL conflicts as in they hit a co-worker. Please post an equivalent list of 6 major female actors or directors, 3 of which were also physical assaults, formally confirmed by colleagues as opposed to “anonymous” sources.

    • QueenB says:

      i dont know where some people get the impression that men cooperate. far from it. the men at the top have no problems sacrificing every men below them to get there or stay there.
      men are way more competitive than women because traditional masculinity only sees the top men as men and the rest as losers.
      men also ususally compete romantically, also in most animal specicies.

    • detritus says:

      Hahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahshahahahahah *gasp* ahahaha ah haha ha

      Girl, them’s be fighting words. You just wanted to start your morning with some flames instead of coffee eh? Kind of ironic isn’t it, considering your post.

    • NatalieS says:

      Men do the same thing except with different topics -sports etc.

      The reason why we don’t have the concept of “bro fights” is because men in general tend to empathize with and validate the viewpoints and behaviors of other men over the view points and behaviors of women. Men are still mostly in charge of nearly everything so their opinion is the default opinion. Also women are still heavily socialized to defer to the male point of view even over their own interests.

      As long as the guys in question didn’t do or say something too out of place, their behavior is minimized.

    • Melly says:

      You’re being sexist against both men and women with your statement.

    • Otaku Fairy says:

      “Just look on certain web pages who trash talk other women’s wedding dresses with a seriousness as if it were the governments policy on women and families.” Well from spending time on sites devoted to video games, anime, things related to DC comics, and other entertainment where there’s a large male fanbase, (and just youtube too), I can tell you that men and boys get very serious, bitchy, sensitive, and aggressive even from people just lightly criticizing a videogame system, a work of fiction, or a fictional character they like. I think it just depends on the audience you have. You see this on MRA sites too.

    • anon33 says:

      Girl, I have no idea what you’re even talking about. I’ve never witnessed a “cat fight” in my life, yet I’ve had to break up several fights between dudes who claim to be friends. Nope. Sorry, your argument does not hold water.

    • minime says:

      LOL did you ever work with men??! I think it’s a human nature thing (unfortunately) but it’s not really exclusive to any gender…In my experience, when men are bitchy they can be thousand levels worse than women. I’m sure Donald Trump also believes cooperation pays more than competition (rolls eyes)

  3. Alyse says:

    They look like they’re having a blast!

  4. SusanneToo says:

    I love SP’s hair.

    • Melly says:

      I’m so obsessed with her hair. I’d get that haircut but I just don’t think I have to face to pull it off.

    • minime says:

      I also love this haircut!! It looks pretty cool but I wonder if it’s really so practical in the morning when you have to run out of home…I would definitely do it if I had the balls and if it wasn’t so cold eheh Need my shoulder long hair in the moment. Go for it Celebitchy!

  5. astrid says:

    I think Sarah’s hair looks awesome. I’d get it cut like that but my face isn’t the right shape.

  6. Londerland says:

    I can’t remember who, but someone once said of being an actress, “if you’re in a movie with a man, people assume you’re f*cking. If you’re in a movie with another woman, people assume you’re fighting.”

    Basically, it’s a sexist cliche that women = drama. All dudes together is natural and proper; add a woman and it stops being a neutral space, a workplace, and it gets TENSE. Dudes together get stuff done, women cry and throw their tampons and bitch about each other’s hair, and they’re gonna be screwing someone, what else are women FOR?

    I can’t even think of any job I ever had where the worst office bitches weren’t men. They get nasty as hell, competitive, gossipy, cutthroat, and emotional with it, always trying to undermine each other – but that doesn’t count as cat fighting because they don’t have vaginas. No, that’s just business.

    • Suzanne says:

      You support that stuff by visiting sites like these though.

      Look at this site it’s full of horrible bitchy women, but it doesn’t count right?

      • NatalieS says:

        Bitchy with a sense of humor and in the right context is enormous fun.

        Being critical, analytical and discerning is not default “horrible.”

      • Kate says:

        Suzanne, do you include yourself in the “horrible bitchy women” group ?

      • Veronica says:

        Visit a sports website or MMORPG sometime, and you’ll see plenty of “bitchy” men. My brother used to show me some of the more ridiculous arguments he’d run into on those forums. You see more women here because celebrity gossip is more female-dominated, that’s all. An idea isn’t validated because it exists inside a vacuum.

    • Kezia says:

      I’ve always found men are much bigger bitches then women, and have a much meaner streak in the bitching too. I’m glad other people notice it too Londerland!

  7. minx says:

    Love her.

  8. Jellybean says:

    Obviously the bloke who made the comment is a jerk, but I don’t recognise this as a general problem. I have heard a lot of comments about all male groups being prone to loutish behaviour and that including women can reduce or prevent the problem, but I have never heard anyone express concern about an all female group.

    • Melly says:

      Oh man, then you’re lucky Jellybean! I hear that about female groups all. the. damn. time. Sexism is everywhere!

      • Jellybean says:

        I have worked in scientific research, organising and running adventure holidays and education. Honestly, when it comes to problems with large groups of a single gender, the negative talk has always been about males. I have usually been regarded as one of the lads too, so blokes don’t tend to tip toe around me and I generally get their uncensored opinions.

        The one exception to the rule would be teenage girls, 13 to 15, in groups they can be hellish and are usually much worse than boys of the same age.

  9. outoftheshadows says:

    That picture of Helena Bonham Carter and Anne Hathaway is amazing. It actually made me like Anne Hathaway about 50% more.

  10. Lucinda says:

    Ugh, I hate this. It’s like the powers that be want female ensembles to fail. Kind of related, last month my daughter and I were shopping in the toy section and we came upon Ghostbuster action figures….of the male version from the ’80’s. My daughter and I were both like WTF? We had just watched the new one and had LOVED it. But here were the stores promoting men who are now old instead of the amazing and current female versions.

  11. QQ says:

    Celebitchy: YES TO GOD. To This Hair and ERW as adjacent YES YES YES YES YES ( But full disclosure in #shorthairGang and Cheerleader for good sexy haircuts

  12. jerkface says:

    I’m purposely going to see this in the theaters no matter the reviews or tabloid chatter just to show support for and in hope of encouraging hiring more women in general.

  13. Otaku Fairy says:

    I like the haircut, just not the super dark roots with the pale blonde hair.

    • Veronica says:

      She might be growing it natural again. There’s a point when you’re leaving behind the bleaching where you just have to put up with the two tone hair because the ends are fried.

  14. Abbess Tansy says:

    I like that Paul Feig sounds like he supports women and women centered films. Will keep his work in mind.
    Try the hair style, it looks fun and easy to maintain. The 90s was fun fashion wise to me.

  15. Veronica says:

    I hate the term cat fight so much. One, because it belittles the idea that female violence can be just as damaging as male. And two, because of the implication that women’s fights are inherently petty and somehow less meaningful than those between men.

  16. SM says:

    I love that cut. I have even more severe asymetric cut and I looovvve it. It is much easier to handle and I always feel clean and stylish as opposed to bad hair days I would get from doing a long hair blow outs or keeping the hair under a hat. I am not a fan of two colours like Sarah has here. I know it is in now but it looks to me like long overdue hair colouring situation.