Comments on: Tabloid covers: Kate Gosselin ignores kids; Jon speaks out http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/ Stylish celebrity escapism Tue, 14 Feb 2012 11:11:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Rebecca http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-352624 Rebecca Sat, 13 Jun 2009 00:16:03 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-352624 There was a reason why God did not make it so Kate could have children to begin with. Now that she took it all into her own control and made herself a clown car, now she makes money whining about the 8 blessings she had a friend write about in a book, to make more money. She spends her time playing victim because she is a mom of multiples (good grief, I have relatives who have had 12 kids, they made it and treated their kids with huge love and respect. Unlike the pieces of work Jon and Kate are. Self indulging immature narcissists. They have this unbelievable self entitlement and lack of gratitude. If it is not top line, top everything and given to them, they will discard of you. They expect it all and then to treat everyone below them. What God giveth's He can taketh away, if they are not careful, those kids will be taken from them, either by the harm and risk they put the kids in, by them growing up old enough to call their parents greed and see they were used by Mom and Dad and they discard their parents like Kate does everyone from their lives, or God may send the right professional in to file the abuse forms, the verbal, emotional and mental abuse the mother displayes and in how she humiliates her spouse and kids for money. Denies the kids of her love unless playing up for the camera. Jon whines, drinks, smokes weed, is a wus and immature. He is a girly boy who thinks he is manly by sleeping with young chicks as if he is in college (wait until he gets one of them prego now too), and he rides a silly JD tractor to haul his trash out, ooooooo, hard working, both of them. Put them on a farm, make them slosh through manure and work out in the hot sun in fields for a summer. Then they may have reason to whine, but they gripe and moan about the life they do have, about the kids they did want and have because Kate originally could not have kids, once they get some thing, they don't want it or complain about it, or want better, or the biggest and best, and they feel entitled to it, even if it is lying to churches to get love offerings still saying how they don't know how they will afford colleges. Sorry but I'm not giving a love offering so Kate can get her nails done or so Jon can go buy shoots for women 10 years younger then him, so they can continue to use people for their own greedy agenda? They exploit and use their kids and those kids will probably never be allowed a dime of it, and it is the kids who made them the money, no one tunes in to see Jon and Kate, only the smiling 8, when theys mile, but when mommy is unhappy, they are all unhappy which is the majority of the time. Kate is an awful woman and a horrible role model for any child, look how they will grow up, abusing their spouses, entitled to the world and what others have, they won't work for anything, they'll just assume and expect it should be catered, it's all they know, the fame and fortune will go away and they won't know how to cope, turn to drugs, behavioral problems, suicide, the worst is yet to happen in this family. Some one save the children NOW, before it is too late. Some professionals and advocates need to step in and insist on parenting classes, frequent counseling, frequent stops in when cameras are not on and when kids can be honest, although Kate will have them forever living in fear of her and scared to have a voice of their own, without mommy dearest prompting their every move, the way they dress. They have no private or personal boundaries, they are unhealthily enmeshed and isolated, not encouraged to have friends over or engage in play with anyone but their siblings, not encouraged to be individuals or dress apart. Jon and Kate, you are ruining 8 innocent lives. You even use God and His word, for your own agenda, when you want to put Him in your life or appear, for outer appearance sake. I think you both need to re-think your priorities, look where your greed has taken you so far, me me me me me me, all about me, my instant gratification, sex, alcohol, drugs, affairs, things, clothes, money, big toys, big houses, me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me. It will catch up to you both and the ones you hurt are the innocent 8, you don't deserve the precious 8, you deserve to have them taken away so the children can have a private childhood in the last years of their child development and a chance at a future as an adult. They need to be with loving parents who do appreciate them, love them unconditionally (not for what they can make their kids make in money for them, watch how unhappy those faces are on TV, in photos, they don't smile much, unless prompted or when Kate pretends to play or care about them.) Heaven forbid if Kate had to lift a finger to take care of them or cook, clean, or if Jon had to actually use his JD tractor to mow the yard, but no, nannys, gardener, cleaning ladys, the works, hate to break one of her manicured nails or have Jon actually lose a few pounds doing some MANUAL labor. There was a reason why God did not make it so Kate could have children to begin with. Now that she took it all into her own control and made herself a clown car, now she makes money whining about the 8 blessings she had a friend write about in a book, to make more money. She spends her time playing victim because she is a mom of multiples (good grief, I have relatives who have had 12 kids, they made it and treated their kids with huge love and respect. Unlike the pieces of work Jon and Kate are. Self indulging immature narcissists. They have this unbelievable self entitlement and lack of gratitude. If it is not top line, top everything and given to them, they will discard of you. They expect it all and then to treat everyone below them. What God giveth’s He can taketh away, if they are not careful, those kids will be taken from them, either by the harm and risk they put the kids in, by them growing up old enough to call their parents greed and see they were used by Mom and Dad and they discard their parents like Kate does everyone from their lives, or God may send the right professional in to file the abuse forms, the verbal, emotional and mental abuse the mother displayes and in how she humiliates her spouse and kids for money. Denies the kids of her love unless playing up for the camera. Jon whines, drinks, smokes weed, is a wus and immature. He is a girly boy who thinks he is manly by sleeping with young chicks as if he is in college (wait until he gets one of them prego now too), and he rides a silly JD tractor to haul his trash out, ooooooo, hard working, both of them. Put them on a farm, make them slosh through manure and work out in the hot sun in fields for a summer. Then they may have reason to whine, but they gripe and moan about the life they do have, about the kids they did want and have because Kate originally could not have kids, once they get some thing, they don’t want it or complain about it, or want better, or the biggest and best, and they feel entitled to it, even if it is lying to churches to get love offerings still saying how they don’t know how they will afford colleges. Sorry but I’m not giving a love offering so Kate can get her nails done or so Jon can go buy shoots for women 10 years younger then him, so they can continue to use people for their own greedy agenda? They exploit and use their kids and those kids will probably never be allowed a dime of it, and it is the kids who made them the money, no one tunes in to see Jon and Kate, only the smiling 8, when theys mile, but when mommy is unhappy, they are all unhappy which is the majority of the time. Kate is an awful woman and a horrible role model for any child, look how they will grow up, abusing their spouses, entitled to the world and what others have, they won’t work for anything, they’ll just assume and expect it should be catered, it’s all they know, the fame and fortune will go away and they won’t know how to cope, turn to drugs, behavioral problems, suicide, the worst is yet to happen in this family. Some one save the children NOW, before it is too late. Some professionals and advocates need to step in and insist on parenting classes, frequent counseling, frequent stops in when cameras are not on and when kids can be honest, although Kate will have them forever living in fear of her and scared to have a voice of their own, without mommy dearest prompting their every move, the way they dress. They have no private or personal boundaries, they are unhealthily enmeshed and isolated, not encouraged to have friends over or engage in play with anyone but their siblings, not encouraged to be individuals or dress apart. Jon and Kate, you are ruining 8 innocent lives. You even use God and His word, for your own agenda, when you want to put Him in your life or appear, for outer appearance sake. I think you both need to re-think your priorities, look where your greed has taken you so far, me me me me me me, all about me, my instant gratification, sex, alcohol, drugs, affairs, things, clothes, money, big toys, big houses, me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me. It will catch up to you both and the ones you hurt are the innocent 8, you don’t deserve the precious 8, you deserve to have them taken away so the children can have a private childhood in the last years of their child development and a chance at a future as an adult. They need to be with loving parents who do appreciate them, love them unconditionally (not for what they can make their kids make in money for them, watch how unhappy those faces are on TV, in photos, they don’t smile much, unless prompted or when Kate pretends to play or care about them.) Heaven forbid if Kate had to lift a finger to take care of them or cook, clean, or if Jon had to actually use his JD tractor to mow the yard, but no, nannys, gardener, cleaning ladys, the works, hate to break one of her manicured nails or have Jon actually lose a few pounds doing some MANUAL labor.

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]]> By: Jazz http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-343971 Jazz Fri, 05 Jun 2009 11:39:09 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-343971 I think US Weekly need to give this a rest now. I think US Weekly need to give this a rest now.

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]]> By: suemad http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-343460 suemad Fri, 05 Jun 2009 07:39:20 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-343460 I honestly feel bad for both of them but Jon and Kate's marriage appears to be over. It seems like Kate is somewhat interested in trying to reconcile at least their friendship aspect of their marriage, however Jon's attitude towards her and his family comes off careless and overwhelmed. I mean these kids are 5 and 8 years old. Its like he's going through some kind of thirty-something crisis. How do you care for a child for so many years and then "admit" or begin to feel like "its too much" or that you need freedom. We all feel like that all the time, that emotion doesn't just appear one day, lol. It is apparent Jon and Kate spent too much time together or were around each too much and became overwhelmed, but making excuses about not having time for themselves when they clearly have nannies and helpers is stupid. Normal Americans don't have those luxuries and many of us don't complain. I think its the fame getting to both of them and realizing, with the amount of money between them, they don't really need each other anymore to take care of their children. Kate is out there trying to promote her books and make a career out of what she has learned from being a sextuplet's mother. Whats so wrong with that? I don't want to take sides but, what is Jon doing? Going to Utah with his girlfriend while his daughter is with him and "helping handicap children ski" on his wife's birthday? There's nothing wrong with helping the handicapped, but on your wife's birthday? Its apparent he is not interested in mending the relationship whatsoever. He should have stood up for himself from the beginning. If he really didn't want to be belittled by his wife, he should have sat down with her and put his foot down. If Jon's affair is real and still going on, she is clearly more interested in the fame and money to make herself sit next to him and pretend they are "working things out." From my experience, being apart physically sometimes does help relationships by allowing you to clear your mind and think about what solutions can be brought forth to save a relationship. Personally, don't think they are exploiting the children. The children have gotten used to having the camera people around and it seems they have built a positive relationship with the crew, which has not come off negative at any point. The kids say a few lines here and there but it isn't anything they are being forced to do. This is just my opinion, and I can see why others would feel different, but the children's overall attitude and mental state appears to be good. They don't look sad or upset and don't appear to be acting out. I really like this show and have watched it for a long time, but I think its time to pull the plug. Not only will Jon and Kate suffer more emotionally in the long run, but eventually the children will understand and will act out their frustrations. It would be nice to see them back as a happy family like in Season 3 and 4... but I can definitely see a spinoff of a Single Jon Gosselin or Supermom Kate with her 8 children. Hopefully TLC will maintain their fairly positive image and pull the plug soon. I honestly feel bad for both of them but Jon and Kate’s marriage appears to be over. It seems like Kate is somewhat interested in trying to reconcile at least their friendship aspect of their marriage, however Jon’s attitude towards her and his family comes off careless and overwhelmed. I mean these kids are 5 and 8 years old. Its like he’s going through some kind of thirty-something crisis. How do you care for a child for so many years and then “admit” or begin to feel like “its too much” or that you need freedom. We all feel like that all the time, that emotion doesn’t just appear one day, lol. It is apparent Jon and Kate spent too much time together or were around each too much and became overwhelmed, but making excuses about not having time for themselves when they clearly have nannies and helpers is stupid. Normal Americans don’t have those luxuries and many of us don’t complain. I think its the fame getting to both of them and realizing, with the amount of money between them, they don’t really need each other anymore to take care of their children.

Kate is out there trying to promote her books and make a career out of what she has learned from being a sextuplet’s mother. Whats so wrong with that? I don’t want to take sides but, what is Jon doing? Going to Utah with his girlfriend while his daughter is with him and “helping handicap children ski” on his wife’s birthday? There’s nothing wrong with helping the handicapped, but on your wife’s birthday? Its apparent he is not interested in mending the relationship whatsoever. He should have stood up for himself from the beginning. If he really didn’t want to be belittled by his wife, he should have sat down with her and put his foot down. If Jon’s affair is real and still going on, she is clearly more interested in the fame and money to make herself sit next to him and pretend they are “working things out.” From my experience, being apart physically sometimes does help relationships by allowing you to clear your mind and think about what solutions can be brought forth to save a relationship.

Personally, don’t think they are exploiting the children. The children have gotten used to having the camera people around and it seems they have built a positive relationship with the crew, which has not come off negative at any point. The kids say a few lines here and there but it isn’t anything they are being forced to do. This is just my opinion, and I can see why others would feel different, but the children’s overall attitude and mental state appears to be good. They don’t look sad or upset and don’t appear to be acting out.

I really like this show and have watched it for a long time, but I think its time to pull the plug. Not only will Jon and Kate suffer more emotionally in the long run, but eventually the children will understand and will act out their frustrations. It would be nice to see them back as a happy family like in Season 3 and 4… but I can definitely see a spinoff of a Single Jon Gosselin or Supermom Kate with her 8 children. Hopefully TLC will maintain their fairly positive image and pull the plug soon.

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]]> By: CeeJay http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-343303 CeeJay Fri, 05 Jun 2009 04:28:31 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-343303 I agree with the People magazine cover story..."Enough is Enough". These folks have chosen their way of life and they have a right to live it. Leave them be and move on already. We all have our opinions and surely they would have opinions about how each of us raise our kids, but would I care? NO! Neither do they. I agree with the People magazine cover story…”Enough is Enough”. These folks have chosen their way of life and they have a right to live it. Leave them be and move on already. We all have our opinions and surely they would have opinions about how each of us raise our kids, but would I care? NO! Neither do they.

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]]> By: Zoe http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-343298 Zoe Fri, 05 Jun 2009 04:18:27 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-343298 ::I’m tired of everyone bashing Jon–can’t you see that Kate is playing this out perfect to be the victim??:: I have zero sympathy for either of these two. But I must say, as much as I dislike Kate, what kind of man allows his wife to speak to him like that? If he can't respect himself enough to grow a pair and have stood up to her once and contributed to a pattern that has lasted for years and destroyed his family along with their rediculous life choices, he shares a lot of blame as well. People do to you what you let them do to you. I can't imagine where those kids are going to get inspiration and a role model from. ::I’m tired of everyone bashing Jon–can’t you see that Kate is playing this out perfect to be the victim??::

I have zero sympathy for either of these two. But I must say, as much as I dislike Kate, what kind of man allows his wife to speak to him like that? If he can’t respect himself enough to grow a pair and have stood up to her once and contributed to a pattern that has lasted for years and destroyed his family along with their rediculous life choices, he shares a lot of blame as well. People do to you what you let them do to you. I can’t imagine where those kids are going to get inspiration and a role model from.

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]]> By: girlygirl http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-342562 girlygirl Thu, 04 Jun 2009 20:07:47 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-342562 This entire situation is unhealthy for everyone involved. However, it appears to me that Jon is turning into dead weight. Kate is often seen with all 8 kids shopping, at the beach or sight seeing. Jon is never pictured with all 8 kids doing anything constructive. When Kate is away from home she is working (making money). When Jon is out and about he is drinking, shopping, on his quad or driving his sports car (that does not fit 8 kids). Granted, Jon does not want to be part of the TV show but maybe he really does not want to be part of the family either. Just because he can not stand Kate does not mean that he should skip out on constructive family time. Is it me or is Jon turning into a free loader? This entire situation is unhealthy for everyone involved.

However, it appears to me that Jon is turning into dead weight. Kate is often seen with all 8 kids shopping, at the beach or sight seeing. Jon is never pictured with all 8 kids doing anything constructive. When Kate is away from home she is working (making money). When Jon is out and about he is drinking, shopping, on his quad or driving his sports car (that does not fit 8 kids).

Granted, Jon does not want to be part of the TV show but maybe he really does not want to be part of the family either. Just because he can not stand Kate does not mean that he should skip out on constructive family time. Is it me or is Jon turning into a free loader?

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]]> By: TaylorB http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-342528 TaylorB Thu, 04 Jun 2009 19:12:50 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-342528 I will only address one part of this story, I am going to agree with MSat here, all mommies are 'mean' from time to time in they eyes of their children. I remember wanting candy as a child and when my mom said no I announced to everyone in earshot that she was a 'mean mom' and that I hated her, in hindsight after two root canals I thank her for not letting me eat as much candy as I wanted or I would have had way more than two root canals by now. That being said Kate can come across as quite a task master, and a serious b*tch, but to be fair if I had 8 little ankle biters in my face all day and night I suspect I wouldn't seem all that pleasant either. Not that I am necessarily pleasant to begin with. I will only address one part of this story, I am going to agree with MSat here, all mommies are ‘mean’ from time to time in they eyes of their children. I remember wanting candy as a child and when my mom said no I announced to everyone in earshot that she was a ‘mean mom’ and that I hated her, in hindsight after two root canals I thank her for not letting me eat as much candy as I wanted or I would have had way more than two root canals by now. That being said Kate can come across as quite a task master, and a serious b*tch, but to be fair if I had 8 little ankle biters in my face all day and night I suspect I wouldn’t seem all that pleasant either. Not that I am necessarily pleasant to begin with.

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]]> By: Danielle http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-342513 Danielle Thu, 04 Jun 2009 18:53:56 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-342513 I need to point out that Kate is not the one who stays home and takes care of the kids. Ever. She travels for book tours and speaking engagements three weeks out of the month and Jon is a stay at home dad. They have even admitted this. It's part of what led to their marriage problems.. her constantly being gone. And when she IS home, she is not the caretaker or the hard worker she wants you to think she is. Jon and the nannies take care of those kids. Her only mothering is for the benefit of the cameras. Kate is not a poor, hardworking, victimized mom of 8 kids. I need to point out that Kate is not the one who stays home and takes care of the kids. Ever. She travels for book tours and speaking engagements three weeks out of the month and Jon is a stay at home dad. They have even admitted this. It’s part of what led to their marriage problems.. her constantly being gone. And when she IS home, she is not the caretaker or the hard worker she wants you to think she is. Jon and the nannies take care of those kids. Her only mothering is for the benefit of the cameras. Kate is not a poor, hardworking, victimized mom of 8 kids.

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]]> By: OXA http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-342384 OXA Thu, 04 Jun 2009 16:41:49 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-342384 Jon insists his children’s happiness will remain his focus – even if keeping them happy means quitting the show. Does he have a death wish, Kate will not allow the kids to quit the show as long a she is happy. Jon insists his children’s happiness will remain his focus – even if keeping them happy means quitting the show.
Does he have a death wish, Kate will not allow the kids to quit the show as long a she is happy.

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]]> By: teehee http://www.celebitchy.com/54110/tabloid_covers_kate_gosselin_ignores_kids_jon_speaks_out/#comment-342348 teehee Thu, 04 Jun 2009 16:13:48 +0000 http://www.celebitchy.com/?p=54110#comment-342348 Im sorry but I find Jon atractive as a buttercup. I mean, like so adorable. :D Ooey... LOL Im sorry but I find Jon atractive as a buttercup. I mean, like so adorable. :D Ooey… LOL

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