Taraji P. Henson proudly does her own laundry: ‘That keeps me normal’

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There are certain people in Hollywood who became famous a bit later in their lives. While Taraji P. Henson was a working actress in her 20s, she didn’t really become a major star, a “name,” a magazine cover fixture until she was well into her 30s. And I think that makes a difference in how we talk about Taraji and how we feel about Taraji. I’ll speak for myself: I love her and I love that she’s famous. I want her to be in half of all of the movies Hollywood puts out. I want her on all of the magazine covers. I think she’s funny, talented and interesting, and part of that is because she became famous a bit later in her life. Fame isn’t something that bothers her. She embraces it. She loves it even. And I love that about her. Anyway, Taraji covers the October issue of Marie Claire – you can see MC’s cover package here. Some highlights from the interview:

A street paved with diamonds: “I’m drawn to people who’ve got passion, who’ve got their bigger picture.” That’s when you realize that every piece of her ensemble means something. Take, for instance, her René Caovilla strappy heels. When her father was dying of cancer, “People would come to the house and cry, and he would ask them, ‘Why are you crying?'” she says as she takes off her sandal to reveal its glittery sole—a detail that reminds her of him (he died in 2006). “‘Where I’m going, I’m going to be walking on streets paved with diamonds.’ That’s what he said.”

She propelled her own narrative: She is the girl who “came from the g–damn hood and put myself through Howard University” to nearly insurmountable heights in an industry that doesn’t center women, especially black women who, as she writes in her best-selling memoir, Around the Way Girl, don’t “have the look of, say, a Halle Berry, or the ethnic ambiguity of a Gugu Mbatha-Raw,” but the look of “an everyday, round-the-way girl.”

Being cast in ‘the ghetto role’ in ‘Baby Boy’: “I just knew [I’d be typecast]. They are going to think this is all I can do. So I was like, ‘Never again a ghetto role. I’m not saying I can’t do it later, but right now, I have something to prove.’ My mission became showing that I’m a character actress. I can give them as many different performances as Meryl Streep—who is the one they look up to? Meryl Streep. Watch this. You think black women can’t do it? I’m trained just like she is.”

On supporting other women in the industry: “How can we get ahead if we’re feuding and hating on each other all the time? I made a pact years ago that I would never hate on another female, ever, especially in this industry.”

On the legacy she wants to leave: “I love black people. I love telling stories. I want these little girls to study me like I studied Meryl and Bette Davis and Carol Burnett. I want them to study my work, because I put a lot of work in, a lot of blood, sweat, and tears.”

On dating: “I would love to [be in a relationship], but he has to see how I move and deal with it, because I don’t have time to explain. I’ve got work to do.”

On doing her own laundry: “That keeps me normal. That keeps me feeling like, Yeah, I’m not too Hollywood.”


[From Marie Claire]

I don’t think “doing your own laundry” keeps her real but that’s fine. She’s real in many other ways. The way she talks about Meryl and wanting to prove herself as a character actress… it reminds me of the way Viola Davis talks about Meryl too. There are basically two generations of black actresses who love Meryl Streep and want to be just like her. And that’s great. Taraji is a great character actress.

Also: I think Taraji is single? Or single-ish, maybe, since she keeps her romantic life pretty quiet. People are always trying to set Brad Pitt up with party girls and Charlize Theron, but what if Brad got with Taraji? They’re friends, they’ve been friends for years. I would actually love it if they got together.

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  1. Lorena says:

    Love her! Love her in Empire!

  2. Lucy says:

    She has the worst eyebrows I’ve ever seen…. all I can see when I look at her.

    • LaBlah says:

      I clicked on this story just to say that I finally got around to seeing Hidden Figures yesterday and the entire time I was uber distracted by her over botoxed eyebrows, they look ridiculous and completely wrong for the character. Took me right out of the film.

  3. Ourobo says:

    I don’t care how rich I could ever be, you’re damn right I’m doing my own laundry.
    I mean, if money were no object, would I send someone else off to the dry cleaners? Sure.

    But sorting my clothes and putting them in the washing machine – yeah, that’s never even something I’d consider making someone else do.

  4. lucy2 says:

    I’ve been a fan of hers for a long time, and am so glad to see her doing so well. Hidden Figures was great, and though I’ve lost interest in Empire, she crushes it in that role.
    Brad Pitt? Really? Maybe 10 years ago Brad Pitt, but the current one is busy laying in the desert, crying about how he torpedoed his life.

  5. SoulSPA says:

    On the laundry making subject: I promise myself not to read the DF anymore. Anytime I hear about laundry I remember an article about NOT having a washing machine in the kitchen. And the fact that I will have a laundry room in my dream house.

  6. Beth says:

    I also do my own laundry. I’ve got 2 loads to do today and I never let anyone do it for me, because they might not do it the way I want. Does 2 loads make me twice as normal?

  7. Patricia says:

    I would never give up my laundry. It’s the only chore I love doing. I love how clean and warm it is when it’s done. I love hanging certain pieces to dry. I love LOVE folding it all perfectly. It’s the zen in my week, with a toddler and a baby and a lot of house hold chores that I don’t like.

    But if I hit the big time I would never clean a bathroom, a kitchen or a floor again haha.

    • poorlittlerichgirl says:

      Completely agree! I find it so satisfying to do laundry. As for the rest of the cleaning, I would gladly leave that to someone else.

  8. MMC says:

    I don’t mind the washing and drying, but if I had unlimited discretionary income I’d have someone do the folding. My clean stuff sits in the basket for days.

  9. adastraperaspera says:

    Streets paved with diamonds. Lovely, lovely image. Now there is a dad who loved his daughter! I found this very moving.

  10. JA says:

    I don’t mind the washing and drying but the sorting, folding and hanging up drives me insane! My husband always loses sucks m socks and I’m constantly just trying to make even pairs. I would hire someone to do everything after I washed and dried.

  11. Lightpurple says:

    I adore this woman and I’m glad she’s getting covers but that is a horrible picture. How can they do that to such a pretty woman?

  12. Anners says:

    NOOOOOO to Brad Pitt. He’s so messy and seems selfish. She’s amazing and funny and smart and beautiful and deserves someone who is her equal!

  13. Her Higness says:

    I LOVE HERRRRRR

  14. Lucy says:

    She really is a breath of fresh air.

  15. hey-ya says:

    …the business with her son showed she is far far from real…anyway she was good in 4 bros…

  16. AnotherDirtyMartini says:

    I say this every time, but I adore her. I ran into her outside my hotel in London & she was so sweet & down to earth. Jumped out of her car to hug me and pose for selfies. She made my week!!! And she can act. Very talented.