DJ Khaled refuses to go down on his wife because ‘it’s different rules for men’

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DJ Khaled: toxic idiot or something worse? I can’t decide. The few times I’ve paid attention to Khaled, it’s been because he’s said or done something idiotic. This is one of those times. Khaled is married, you see. His wife is Nicole Tuck. They have a son together. In case you couldn’t tell from simply looking at Khaled, he has zero interest in giving a woman any sexual pleasure. Some guys just have that look, that “If we have sex, I don’t care if you enjoy it whatsoever” face. And here’s the confirmation of that: Khaled says that he “can’t” go down on his wife, or any woman, I’m assuming. Here’s the interview clip:

He says in part:

“If you holding it down for your woman, I feel like the woman should praise and the man should praise the Queen. But, you know, my way of praising is called, ‘How was dinner? You like the house you living in? You like all them clothes you getting? I’m taking care of your family, I’m taking care of my family.'”

When asked if he goes down on his wife, he replied: “Nah, never. Nah, I can’t do that. Hell nah…I can’t do that. I don’t do that.”

Yee asked Khaled if he would be okay with his girlfriend not giving him oral sex, to which he said, “Nah, it’s not okay. You gotta understand I’m the Don, I’m the King.”

She told Khaled she doesn’t think the double standard is fair. Khaled said, “It’s different rules for men. You gotta understand, we the King. There are some things that you guys might not wanna do or wanna do. It gotta get done. I just can’t do what you want me to do. I just can’t.”

[From Buzzfeed]

There’s obviously a more complicated conversation about respecting boundaries and acknowledging when your sexual partner is not interested in one particular thing. For all we know, Nicole Tuck doesn’t like to receive oral sex either. For all we know, this is Khaled’s only sexual hang-up and it’s the one non-negotiable and he’s otherwise a giving and generous lover. But no one really believes that. It’s far more likely that he’s just a selfish a–hole who believes all sex is transactional and that his wife has to go down on him and treat him like a “king” just because he pays for the house. It’s far more likely that he has never cared about her pleasure whatsoever.

Anyway, what was sort of funny about this was everyone’s reaction to it. When Smash Mouth is dunking on you, you know you should just go down on your wife, bro.

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  1. Babs says:

    What a loser. I wonder why his woman is even giving him the time of day. I mean could he at least be an asshole just in private.

    • Cupcake says:

      Here here! We never needed to know this. I am embarrassed for his wife.

      • Marley31 says:

        To each its own but I’m wondering if his wife is the only woman he has had sex with because now and day going down on your partner male or female is like texting, everyone’s doing it NOW . I don’t get why he choose to divulge that info 1st its none of anyone’s business 2nd we don’t need to know but now that we do if that were my man we would have a 1st grade relationship as in if you don’t I wont. And I understand some men don’t. Like it but I’ve never meet or heard of a man who didnt want to satisfy there woman and in that case they would. When my friend and I went to Jamaica men who were complete strangers were offering to pleasure us and they were complete strangers (there were yelling as we walk.ed down the street) I wouldn’t recommend men or even a women doing that but just saying if a stranger can offer then DJ Khaled could at least have a conversation with his wife about it or pleasure he some other kind of way to her liking. But just to day he’s King that wouldn’t fly with be. You would be beating your own drum and sucking it to. I wondering if he knows that if he were putting it down properly he would be treated like a king. Even though material things are good and dandy. Women can buy there own sh-t but they cannot give themselves a fantastic shagging. They can come close. But a proper shagging is the key.

    • CCBB says:

      more importantly, he’s ugly and gross. so fortunately his wife doesn’t have to deal with this his nasty mug up in her bits. what a loser either way.

  2. Jane says:

    “Nah, it’s not okay. You gotta understand I’m the Don, I’m the King.” He’s freaking delusional!

    • anna says:

      and this misogynist douche is a millionaire? there is no justice in the world.

      • Jane says:

        You are 100% correct. There is no justice in this world when a man speaks like this.

    • Mmmo says:

      It’s kinda hilarious to watch him say that, considering how unattractive and, frankly, slow the guy is.

      Also, if you need to explain to people you’re the king, you’re not the king.

      Honey, just because you have a complex from high school when no woman would even look at you before you had money, doesn’t mean yoy need to compensate for it for the rest of your life. Especially on your wife. Therapy could really help you wih this.

    • Katie says:

      Srsly. Of course his wife deserves to be pleasured, but what I’m appalled at is his reasoning. If he had just said he doesn’t like to do that, it would have been sad, but it would not have become viral. This whole ‘King’ talk and ‘it’s different for men’ talk is disgraceful. It’s like he’s living in a different time period. He basically said that his wife has to give him sexual Savers in order to earn her keep in the house, which would be prostitution? How about being a stay-at-home mom is a job. He is so lucky to be rich enough to be able to afford to support his wife being there at home for him and for his child. I actually just gave him the benefit of the doubt, and looked up where he grew up to see if it was outside of the US. It was not. He was born in Louisiana. What a DB!

    • Godwina says:

      Or he’s using misogynist double standards as cover for his closeted sexual preferences that he doesn’t dare admit to or indulge in because patriarchy. Either way, patriarchy needs to die in a fire.

  3. Roe says:

    I wouldn’t be with a guy like that but her choice

  4. A says:

    Before you lot bring in islam like on twitter. It’s not haram to give oral (only the booty stuff) and it’s expected of man to please his wife if he doesn’t she has the right to divorce him. I’m seeing alot of people say it’s because his muslim and that’s not accurate. Plus he drinks alcohol so it’s not like he cares.

    • Anna says:

      Have experienced people of every religion and background claiming the religion as the reason why they don’t xyz. It’s really too bad.

  5. Millennial says:

    Thanks for letting us know you are bad in bed!

    • Say what says:

      Co-sign

    • Bella DuPont says:

      Ffs. DJ KHALED, YOU CAN KISS MY AAA………oh wait….

      Oh, no need to worry about going “down” or “there”, DJ Khalid. Relax. The Chef or Chauffeur on your payroll are probably *”working overtime”* for your Queen. 💃🏽 👑

    • Abby Rose says:

      This! So what he’s saying is his wife is not as satisfied as she could be, basically.

  6. Gigi LaMoore says:

    If she likes it, I love it. I, for one, would rather be waterboarded than put my mouth or hands on any part of this idiot.

  7. Snowflake says:

    I’ve met several men who don’t like to go down. Unfortunately my husband is one of them. He’s a great guy and husband though. I don’t think you can really change it if a guy is like that. He’s kind of apologetic about it but says he doesn’t like doing it. I know I can say, well, I’m not going to give you a BJ but I feel like that will start a big fight. And everything else is great so I don’t want to do that.

    • goofpuff says:

      well why is it ok for you respect his boundaries but not ok for him to respect yours to the point you are afraid it will start a fight if you make your stance known? he clearly doesn’t worry about starting a fight with you.

    • anna says:

      girl, maybe it’s time for that fight.

    • Anon33 says:

      Take a look back at what you wrote.
      You don’t feel comfortable saying no.
      That’s a real problem.

    • Snowflake says:

      Well, I don’t mind giving a BJ. It’s not that I’m doing something I’m not comfortable with

      • Nanny to the rescue says:

        Then all is well.

        I think nobody should feel forced to do something they don’t like sexually. But if you like giving a BJ and he likes to receive it, then go for it even if you don’t get oral back.

        And I think real partners shouldn’t think of everything in bed as a bargain, either. That “I won’t do it if he doesn’t do it” mentality that some people preach is wrong on so many levels. Sex is an act where both should do things they enjoy, even if that means one does something and the other something else.

    • Ladykeller says:

      That’s my husband too. I’ve pretty much given up. If we have any straight men in the comments today man up. If she does it the least you could do is return the favor once in a while.

    • Hikaru says:

      It makes me angry to think that women are groomed into going along with whatever men want since the time they are girls (nowadays teen girls are coerced into anal sex by porn addicted teen boys and blowjobs are considered no big deal that goes without saying, there are even cases of prepubescent girls having boys in school force it on them) but men get to give less than the bare minimum and it’s accepted as perfectly normal.

    • Bella DuPont says:

      @ Snowflake

      Don’t be argumentative with him. Just very, very apologetically explain (the way he does with you), that you’re not in the mood, next time. By the 3rd or fourth apologetic refusal, when he starts to get testy…..again apologetically explain that you’ve never particularly enjoyed giving h**d, but you’ve gone out of your way specially for him because you love him and want him to feel good.

      Stop there. Hopefully, he’ll get the picture that it’s not really a picnic for anybody, it’s more a gesture of love than anything else, and so should be reciprocal.

      Good luck! 😘😘

      • JosieH says:

        I don’t think she was asking for advice, so why give it?

      • Snowflake says:

        I’m fine with advice, thanks! I want him to go down 😁

      • Bella DuPont says:

        @Josiah:
        I didn’t ask for your comment either, so why give it? 🤭

        @Snowflake:

        😉💋👍

    • magnoliarose says:

      I would like to speak delicately, but this is an issue for frank discussions.
      If a man or woman refuses but requests, then they get a refusal as well. It is part of a woman’s body and a pleasure center so if a partner refuses in my mind they have issues with women’s bodily fluids. They are telling their partner they love them but not that part. If they aren’t into oral then ok we can refrain, but it can’t be one-sided.
      What good reason is there to refuse? It seems selfish.

      • Marley31 says:

        On a episode of Sex and the City Samantha said a BJ is a job and by gosh if you give a good one it is. I never hear a man complain about there jaws hurting☺

      • Anastasia says:

        Yep. Hey Snowflake, my man is one of those, too. So guess what? He doesn’t get any, either. He totally understands. He loves blowies, but he gets none because I get none.

      • SilverUnicorn says:

        I must be the only one who is quite happy in giving and not receiving. My husband would happily go down on me but I never enjoyed it and let him go for it only because I was giving him BJs. Thank God he’s not asking anymore lol

      • SK says:

        I totally agree Magnoliarose.
        A man who refuses to go down on their woman strikes me as someone with issues.
        The only people I can imagine saying they could “never” go down on a woman are my gay men friends! Which is legit, obviously – they all seem scared/disgusted by vaginas.
        But if a guy is straight, attracted to the woman he’s with and yet unwilling to perform an intimate act on her shows he is selfish and just doesn’t quite get what sex/making love is about

    • Veronica says:

      It’s fine for your husband to have sexual boundaries, but the same goes for you. If you don’t like doing something, say it. That’s not an argument. That’s an assertion. Your husband of ALL people should be the person you feel you can express your intimate boundaries with.

    • stinky says:

      :: thx for being honest here, in this way & just speaking your truth ::
      :: getting some air on a situation is usually the first step toward some kind of transformation ::

    • isabelle says:

      Seriously, why not fight? Its actually way more healthy than surprising that sh** and he will NEVER respect you until you stand up for yourself.

    • Ann says:

      Oh, honey, no. You married a douche.

    • Geekychick says:

      And you don’t like oral? cause if you don’t like receiveing it, okay. but if you do, I’m sorry, but I don’t see it as a fair sexual partnership: he loves bjs, he gets them. you like oral, you don’t get it. You are not in equal positions.

  8. Uglyartwork says:

    And yet, she has to dig under his fat fupa to even get to his sweaty little dick. Yeah right.

    • Kate says:

      Crying with laughter over here!!!

    • Beth says:

      Lol. Yuck!! 😂

    • It’sJustBlanche says:

      See, that’s actually where I was going with this. I was thinking that with a face and a body like that should be spending most of his time down south. And he should be grateful for the opportunity.

    • LittleWing says:

      Dying! Qotd.

    • Imqrious2 says:

      OMG THE VISUAL!!!! There is not enough brain bleach in the world!!! D D. Y. I. N. G!!!!! !! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • RedOnTheHead says:

      I barked out a laugh so hard I almost wet myself!! Yes, Uglyartwork, you nailed it. F this misogynistic douche canoe. He’s lucky that anybody would even be looking for his sweaty little dick.

    • AnotherDirtyMartini says:

      LOL! 😂😂😂

    • ol cranky says:

      I wonder if Weight Watchers will stop using him in their commercials since most WW members are female and may not take kindly to the whole women should be subservient to their king BS

    • NotSoSocialButterfly says:

      Seriously. If I were to give advice (hehe), I would tell her to get some bangin’ sex toys and use them in front of him with abandon and satisfaction. He needs to know he is *not* all that, and can quite easily be replaced in that department. All together, in fact. What a colossal butthole.

    • Jess says:

      Literally. My. First. Thought. There’s probably curdled jiz congealed under there. Omg no thanks.

    • Pandy says:

      Perfect thanks for the laugh!!

  9. minx says:

    I really don’t want to think about this guy in the sack, thanks.

  10. Patricia says:

    Evan Rachel Wood’s tweet got me all hot and bothered. She’s so sexy.
    I can’t imagine a life where my husband won’t go down. Like come on now! We have one life to live and once you have a husband that’s your only lover. For me, it would be unfulfilling if mutual oral wasn’t part of our sex life. I feel like most women who don’t like it just haven’t had a lover who is good at it and gracious about it.

    • TrixC says:

      I thought it was weird how she made it all about her. You’re bi, we get it, move on.

    • SilverUnicorn says:

      Ahem no… what a stupid generalization… I don’t like it because I don’t like it, period 😂😂

    • Dee says:

      She really is so hot and cool, but a really terrible partner. I know someone personally who dated her for over a year and he was a mess when she broke up with him ‘just because’.

  11. Masamf says:

    My goodness, why would he discuss his wife like that? What a disgusting individual!!!!

    • Brunswickstoval says:

      My first reaction as well. Who tells the world this sort of stuff? I have no idea what he actually contributes to music apart from saying “DJ Khaled” periodically during shitty songs. And now I have this.

    • adastraperaspera says:

      He’s looking for ways to keep himself in the news. Saying something outrageous in an interview will do that. We have no idea if it’s even true. He’s laughing all the way to the bank.

    • LittleWing says:

      Because he’s macho like that. A real man!!

  12. Eric says:

    Boy is he missing out.
    And all so ever unique in physiology and response

    Oh well…

    More for me

    • AnotherDirtyMartini says:

      Yay for Eric! That’s the attitude 😃

    • Slowsnow says:

      That’s the thing my husband tells me: it’s exciting to see me excited. And the he gets more and more…
      Nailed it @Eric.

    • K-Peace says:

      Eric,
      I always look forward to your political posts. And your post here on this topic was really cool too! 🙂

  13. Beth says:

    A good relationship takes a lot more than sex, but thankfully my man doesn’t have this guys attitude. If she’s alright with it, that’s her choice, not everyone cares about things like that. Why is he talking about their private sex life though?

    • abby says:

      ITA. Sexual preferences and behaviors is such a personal issue, I cannot imagine why he was even discussing this publicly.

      That said. For me, oral sex is absolutely reciprocal. We both indulge. No one gets shafted. My first serious boyfriend was into oral and any lover since also was. I’ve never seriously dated anyone who wasn’t into it.
      Does that mean I cannot live without it? No.
      But I probably would be far more cranky.

      Regardless that’s not a path I am looking to take. It’s just too alien a concept.

      Anyway, I guess as long as his wife is happy with what they have going on, then good for them. Whatever works. Everyone is different.

      • c8h10n4o2 says:

        Wait. No one gets shafted? That’s my favorite part!

        But I’ve never dated a guy who wouldn’t go south and probably wouldn’t. I reciprocate enthusiastically, though. To me, getting your partner off is one of the biggest turn-ons. It says a lot about this caveman that he doesn’t care about his wife’s pleasure outside of material goods.

  14. Bex says:

    And don’t forget these are the guys that are writing the song lyrics that all our kids are going round singing.

    • anna says:

      “hey where my neck at? i’m the king, the king of the double chin!”

    • Jay (the Canadian one) says:

      To be fair, I don’t think kids are going to be brainwashed when his lyrics consist of nothing but “yeah”, “DJ Khaled”, and “we the best” repeated ad naseum.

      One could say failing to satisfy orally is actually his trademark.

  15. Merritt says:

    Ugh. I can’t stand men like this. I refuse to date guys like this. If your girlfriend’s or wife’s pleasure doesn’t matter to you, you are a bad partner.

  16. Maum says:

    Ultimately it’s all very Victorian, isn’t it?
    There is still an expectation that women should be willing to fulfill their men sexually but not the other way round.

    No wonder all those men keep telling women that feminism is aggressive and outdated. They don’t want to have to treat their sexual partners as equals in their wants and needs.

    • Bella DuPont says:

      @ Maum

      Speaking of which……..I discovered the most enlightening program on CNN last night, about how some maximum security inmates were using feminism to breakdown, understand and address their own hyper negative behaviour and non assimilation within society (including the refusal to give oral sex to a woman).

      It was very surprising and enlightening:

      The Feminist on Cellblock Y:

      https://edition.cnn.com/videos/us/2018/04/18/the-feminist-on-cellblock-y-doc-orig.cnn

      • Maum says:

        Thanks for that link it looks fascinating! Have saved to look at later.
        I’m greatly increasingly scared for women these days.

        Between the religious (far) right and the incel freaks I’m starting to think the world will shift.
        We’ll either get Gilead or rape squads roaming the streets.

        You guys seen The Purge? I can see that happening to women. That’s what the incels want isn’t it? Women ‘owe’ them sex, whether or not they want it themselves.

    • Godwina says:

      This. AND many women who aren’t getting reciprocal oral keep giving unearned BJs because they’re afraid of the old male entitlement to BJs, which dictates that hubs will get it outside if he ain’t getting it at home. I’ve had a few friends confess this to me and nothing in how our society is set up compels me to doubt this.

  17. Eric says:

    Oral Haiku

    Each Flower’s Unique
    The Woman’s Response Reveals
    When She Is Ready

  18. Bettyrose says:

    So in college one of my female friends admitted she wasn’t into giving her bf oral and actually didn’t really like the look of penises at all. Turns out, She’s not attracted to men and has happily been dating women ever since.

    • Aud says:

      LOL! Same here. Happily married to my wife for 11 years next month.

      • Bettyrose says:

        Congratulations on your anniversary!

      • Lee1 says:

        Lol! Same here! I remember being 19 and “joking” with friends that I wished I was gay because penises were just so weird and unappealing. Then I finally just went on a date with a woman and realized, “oh wait – I AM gay!” Happily married to my wife for 7 years now and have 2 little kiddos!

  19. Aud says:

    Kudos for everyone for saying boundaries are ok and if that’s his, well, … but this guy is a douche. He says he should always get what he wants because he brings home a paycheck. This poor woman. She has to be drowning in humiliation right now.

    • Venus says:

      Exactly. I don’t care if he goes down or not, but this quote creeps me out: ” There are some things that you guys might not wanna do or wanna do. It gotta get done.” So — even if she doesn’t want to give head, tough shit, she has to???? NOT OKAY.

      • abby says:

        Yes, Venus.

        I have no problem if his argument was about boundaries/personal preference (which I initially responded to up-thread).
        But this is about power and control. Very different.

        He is blatantly saying he and his spouse are not equals partners. He is in control and he gets what he wants, to hell with her desires.
        That is far beyond sex. That’s their entire dynamic.

        And what’s with the two questions about whether he goes down on his wife and then whether he would accept his girlfriend refusing to go down on him?
        Did they misspeak or does he openly acknowledge having a wife and a girlfriend?
        I would not be shocked if he does and openly admits to it. He’s a d#ck.

    • Deering24 says:

      Any husband who constantly harps on the fact he’s the breadwinner and you owe everything to him is an insecure, controlling scumbag. Such men deep-down resent being married and “obligated” to wives. I hope his wife cleans him out in the inevitable divorce.

    • Godwina says:

      Yep.

  20. Shambles says:

    Bro…….. you think you’re in the position to dictate what happens in the bedroom? You think without all that money any woman would give you or your stupid misogynistic d!ck the time of day?? No child. No. Not with men like Idris Elba and Sebastian Stan in the world.

    I used to date a guy who “didn’t like” to go down on me but expected me to please him in a myriad of ways. He turned out to be a closeted bisexual (not wrong in any way, just plays into the narrative), and a narcisstic sociopath who psychologically abused me and cheated on me constantly. So……..

    ERW forever. She can school me anytime.

    • deets says:

      Boooooooo. Sorry Shamby. I’m glad you’re done with that guy and his baggage.

      It always surprises me when men say things like this. It’s like bragging about not only being bad at sex, but not caring enough to change.

      The crazy part is most women have dated a man like this, but how many women say the reverse? Or can say the reverse without being deemed giant prudes, or frigid.

      It’s funny because I’ve never seen Khaled called either frigid or prudish, despite his juvenile opinions.

  21. S says:

    How do you not have The Rock’s amazing response in here?

    see: https://twitter.com/TheRock/status/992986744445222915

  22. Cynical Ann says:

    Okay, I’ll be the pearl clutcher over here-but why, or why, must this be a public conversation?! TMI all the way around.

  23. LOL says:

    Evan Rachel wood for the win, she is the best

  24. DragonWise says:

    I’ve known women who don’t enjoy their partner going down because they legit don’t like the sensation. I can’t relate to that at all, but whatever. My fiance is very good at it, and it tends to inspire me to cook him things from scratch, lol!

    Khaled’s wife is grown, so the bargain she strikes in her relationship is her businsss. That’s what angers and disgusts me about his comments– he shared with the world that he doesn’t care if his wife gets a nut, but literally demands that his wife service him because he’s a misogynist. Awdsome. 😑 He not only doesn’t respect her pleasure and autonomy, he doesn’t respect her privacy. If he’s saying it for publicity, that’s even worse, actually, because he’s willing to exploit her. Either way, this man is hot garbage.

  25. Bettyrose says:

    So, dude is all “I’m not aroused by female sexuality…” And we’re meant to read that as hetero alpha male? Mkay.

  26. MoAnne says:

    Surprising to hear that there’s something this guy won’t eat.

    When your lady steps out on you–and she probably will–we’ll all know why! You’re the king, baby. You rule over nothing.

  27. Harryg says:

    Why is it that every day someone idiotic has to pop up and say something idiotic? It seems ninety percent of people are just goddamn idiots.

  28. Froggy says:

    I don’t know why but this made me remember the Sopranos episode where Uncle Junior didn’t want anyone to know he liked going down on his gf and said gf mentioned it in a beauty parlor with Junior’s friends’ wives present. The guys teased him and he flipped out. I never understood why it was something to be made fun of and why he was so ashamed.
    That said, our neighbor of 15 years is on his third wife and things aren’t looking so good with this one. When I asked my husband why he thinks said neighbor can’t keep a wife happy, husband said that at a poker game when talk turned to sex neighbor said that he can’t sleep w a woman w any hair down there and that he isn’t into going down. In my husband’s words ‘the guy’s a freak’

    • AnotherDirtyMartini says:

      @Froggy – me too! Uncle Junior! That was a hilarious episode, but it did show an odd dimension of the older Mafia I wasn’t prepared for 😂 He thought he’d be shown as less manly for going down. Umm, no honey, no! So, it’s interesting DJ Dicklick calls himself a “Don”.

      And this disgusting DJ Khaled should be kissing her feet in addition to her nether regions. He’s truly gross looking AND a dick. Be thankful you have anyone willing to even touch you and your micropenis.

    • Valerie says:

      “I don’t go down enough” 😂 That mindset always baffled me. But I tried to put a practical spin on it: If you’re going down on a woman, your back is probably going to be to the door, or you’ll at least be lost in what you’re doing (you should be!) One of the rules mobsters follow is to always sit facing the door, and of course, be aware of your surroundings. So, not eating a woman out is a question of survival. 😂

  29. HeyThere! says:

    There is so much wrong with this…I don’t know where to start? I guess I’ll start with his poor wife! Why is this being talked about?! This is very private!!! Let’s be honest…if she refused to go down on him their relationship would be OVER. I can’t believe men think like this?! The power dynamic is off.

    I wonder if he is insecure he is bad at it so he just avoids it all together? She might not even know what she’s missing but she is REALLY missing out. How unfair! This crap wouldn’t fly in my home and thankfully my husband is the most unselfish lover ever!

  30. Veronica says:

    I lost it at the Alf picture. Twitter, stop.

    He sounds like a pig, but his wife is an adult. She can make her own choices where her happiness is concerned.

  31. slowsnow says:

    Wow, this was brutal. Some guys are like that in secret but this one goes all Macho-small-dick with pride.

  32. ISSAQUEEN says:

    It’s the whole women are unclean narrative that have been around for ages. For all the progress that have been mysoginists are still perpetuating the idea that women’s pleasure is not as important as men’s and it’s being bought by generations of men after generations of men.
    The other day a very popular site that I follow on intagram posted a photo of a girl in a revealing bikini and the first thing a commentator said is “I bet if you touch her your hand would smell like tuna and used toilet paper”. And loads of people thought that was really funny. Mysoginy is alive and well.

  33. Jayna says:

    The best lovers are sensual men, who love everything about a woman’s body. He just wants to get off. That’s what the sex act is for him, all about “him.”. He just outed himself as one big bore in bed, because in everything he said, he pretty much showed what he thinks women are for, cook him dinner, pleasure him, not complain.

  34. Nicole says:

    First of all I’m embarrassed for his wife because she’s not getting the oral and everyone knows it.
    Second if you don’t give oral you shouldn’t expect me to reciprocate. Went on a few dates with a guy like that and quickly exited stage left. And if you can’t talk to your partner about this and other sex boundaries then how the hell are you having sex at all?

  35. Incognita says:

    I can’t believe DJ Khaled put his bedroom business on Front Street like that! It is such an embarrassment to himself and most notably, his poor wife. Like, how old is he? 16?!! I must note that I have enjoyed reading the reactions from folks on Social Media. One post in particular noted, “DJ Khaled eats all of those Popeye’s Chicken boxes – yet, can’t eat his wife’s “box”?!”

  36. Svea says:

    Doing a poor job representing Muslim men. Apparently he is willing to eat anything else.

  37. me says:

    You know I always wondered had he had a daughter instead of a son would we even see her? He brings his son everywhere and even gave him “producing” credits on his album. He’s one of those “I need an heir” type mf’s isn’t he? He’s the King? Ughhh.

    • ParlerBleu says:

      Yeah, his obsession with his son makes me uneasy. It doesn’t seem like love, because he seems like a narcissist, and it just feels like his baby son is his current source of narcissistic supply. I feel bad for everyone in his orbit, to be honest. He never struck me as a psychologically healthy person.

      • me says:

        I really hope he never has a daughter. Is this what he’s going to teach her? Men are Kings and women must obey !

  38. Theodora says:

    It’s always the most unattractive and ugliest ones who say crap like this. The Rock, who is a 10 as far as male looks go, takes pride in his bedroom skills, and this guy, who is a 3 in his best days, takes pride in being a crappy lover. King my as*, maybe King of Vomit.

    • Slowsnow says:

      A 3? You’re very kind (and I usually don’t comment on someone’s look but this excuse of a man has me lifting that rule momentarily).

  39. Rosemary says:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boca_(The_Sopranos)

    Anyone else remember this episode? Uncle Junior is humiliated when word gets out he goes down on his girlfriend.

  40. Nicegirl says:

    Have you seen the POP ” Power of Pussy” video he did with Blac Chyna? I thought he was all about the ladies, what a joke.

    Also isn’t this the dude who was jumped by the security at Coachella?

    What an idiot.

  41. Marty says:

    While I definitely believe that ever couple should figure out what works for them, sexually, he makes it very clear he expects it from her because he provides her things. A disgusting and dangerous sentiment.

    As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become a big believer that pleasure should be shared. An ex of mine wanted to uh, try backdoor sex, and I told him yes, as long as I got to peg him in return. He was NOT happy, and I knew he was on some weak s**t because he kept on trying to pressure me into the act without even considering me doing it to him. That’s when I realized he thought his sexual gratification was more important than mine. That’s also why he’s an ex.

    • Betsy says:

      Very well put.

    • Godwina says:

      *applause*

    • Kitty says:

      “Back door” as you put it, can be very pleasurably for a woman if you do it right. Me and my hubby do it every now and again, I wouldn’t expect to do it to him in return though, nor would I want to. He has no idea what it’s like to penetrated like that, can’t imagine it would be good for him or me.

  42. HeyThere! says:

    I couldn’t even watch the entire video clip….he is horrible! Putting their bedroom details on blast like this! His poor wife.

  43. Yup says:

    Dont care.

    The Alf with the kitten in the sandwich was cute ☺️

  44. Kiki says:

    DJ Khalid is an untalated individual, who can’t make music to save his. I do agree, that his tongue is not strong enough to rhyme, what do expect that his tongue would be strong for pleasure.

    I knew this man is a self centered untalented Hype man that can’t rhyme

  45. Neelyo says:

    A friend of mine in publishing worked on a project of his and says he’s barely literate.

    I hate how he carries his kid everywhere. It reminds me of Paris Hilton and one of her little dogs.

  46. me says:

    “Different rules for men”? What??? He’s assuming all men provide for their women. Hmmm that’s funny because A LOT of women are making more money than their men now a days. It’s just gross he expects “favors” from his wife just because he earns a lot of money. He even said he takes care of her family. So she feels obligated? That’s horrible.

  47. Kate Kack says:

    In the Black community this is extremely common. They have a weird hang up about it.

    • Patty says:

      First DJ K is not black and second let’s not generalize about the Black Community. It’s offensive and insulting. I’ve yet to meet a black man who didn’t like to eat. So please let’s not start posting comments about how this is an issue in the black community. I know a few black men who won’t go down on women they aren’t serious about cause they just trying to hit it and quit it. But they all go down on girlfriends and women they are serious about.

    • Jenn says:

      DJ Khaled is Palestinian not Black. So not sure why you’re bringing up “the Black community”.

  48. themummy says:

    I have a very different situation at my house. My husband prefers oral over penis-in-vagina sex–to the point that we almost never do it p-in-v. It is all oral for us, all the time. I know, TMI, but it is the topic at hand. My husband loves going down and gets kind of pouty when I’m not in the mood for it (but not in a truly pouty, jerk way, just in a cute and kind of adorably bummed way). I knew this about him before he and I ever had sex for the first time and I’m fine with it. It’s been 17 years now and we’re still going strong. Oral for the win! 🙂

    This guy seems like a major douche, though. And not because of what he likes or doesn’t like. It’s because of his outlook on it and the underlying philosophical reasons behind that outlook. He’s just gross (in every way, to be honest).

    • Bettyrose says:

      TheMummy-

      All that matters is what works for a couple, and I’ll go TMI to say for me oral is foreplay not the main event. But I’m highly suspicious of any man who feels uncomfortable around vulvas. If you enjoy/seek sex with women, it’s incredibly weird to be grossed out by our bodies.

  49. cee says:

    Look, for me this kind of thing is a trade of. If you won’t go down, I won’t go down either. It’s about giving the other person what they enjoy, and vice versa.
    With that said, I have many girlfriends who despise going down and will not do it. And the idea of someone going down on them is even worse. So perhaps this woman does not care for it?

  50. tearose11 says:

    Man why would anyone want to not indulge in oral is beyond me.

    Giving and receiving is what makes sex great, and I love both. Glad Hubunit is def into it anytime, he wants it more than me sometimes lol

  51. Jacob says:

    Truly baffled. How does someone NOT like doing that??? To each their own I guess, but I can’t imagine not having that be a part of a relationship. Dudes who don’t go down…you’re missing out big time. It’s so damn sexy.

  52. nicole says:

    ugh, imagine having to do anything sexually with him, gross.

  53. Jag says:

    I can’t believe that I clicked on this, but I have very strong opinions about such things, so must state it for the world to see:

    If two consenting adults decide that they want to do sexual things together or not do sexual things together, it is no one’s business but their own. People on Twitter or wherever should not be telling him what to do with his partner because it’s not their decision.

    I have dated three men who didn’t return the favor. In hindsight, I see that I was settling for what I could get, and that the relationships eventually would have ended had I still turned into the person I am now. (Everything must be reciprocal.) Obviously, those relationships didn’t last anyway, so that’s a moot point, but still a valid one.

    If she is okay with how they are together, then good for her. If she’s not okay with his attitude, then I hope either that she divorces him and finds someone who does please her completely, or that they have an open relationship and that she finds someone great on the side. I seriously doubt that he’s the type to have an open relationship, and I hope that she doesn’t cheat on him because he really sounds like an allegedly abusive ass and I wouldn’t want to hear what he’d do if he found out that someone was cheating on him. Good luck to her.

  54. Beer&Crumpets says:

    It’s not like she married him not knowing what a ridiculous douche he is. Maybe she figured all them clothes and the house and the money and all the stuff was worth marrying that moron to get. I don’t know. It sure as hell wouldn’t be my choice. I’d never even pull my pants down for a dude that refers to himself as The King, let alone blow him.

  55. Ladykeller says:

    Breaking news- the Rock as weighed in on the debate. If you needed another reason to love the Rock this is it.

    • Jane says:

      I saw the comment and it was EPIC just like the man himself. No one is going to mess with the Rock on this subject. I totally loved it.

  56. cas says:

    Men are more likely to contract oral cancer, so there is that. I don’t think enough attention is being paid to this in the media. It’s the way he speaks that’s objectionable.

    • KB says:

      That is if the woman has HPV. If they have unprotected sex, they both have HPV. His risk of oral cancer is higher and her risk of cervical cancer is higher. Why is his health a priority over hers?

  57. isabelle says:

    Men like this are in the end weak, for one they are very insecure & care a lot about what people think about them, especially the dudes. So they say and do stuff like this to get approval from the dudes Weak. Who the heck bases their masculinity on going down and the opnions of their bro dues?? Weak sauce men.

    • KB says:

      Which makes it all the funnier. He thought he was being macho, but other men are making fun of him for not satisfying his wife now.

  58. DP says:

    Eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwww! He’s delusional and repulsive.

  59. Egla says:

    I had a boyfriend once for a short period of time (we got together with the knowledge that it would be short lived) and he was fantastic. He didn’t go down on me because I didn’t let him (I was ashamed of my bush back then, he didn’t seem to mind, stupid me) and sure he didn’t force me to go down on him so no oral for us but he took good care of kissing me all over and cuddling afterwards me AND most importantly he talked to nobody about us. People were guessing about us till the end, let alone knowing our stuff.

    My current boyfriend started only recently going down on me (After almost three years together!!!!!) and I returned the favor. He was shocked that I liked and surely he liked his turn. He told me he thought I didn’t like it as I had never asked him and that’s why he hadn’t done it before. Also this guy doesn’t talk at all about us let alone our private stuff. If he did that he knows I would be done with him. No King shit with me.
    As for this guy boh. She has been with him for 11 years and has a son with him so I think she is getting something pleasurable of him. Oral is not the most important thing in the world. My issue is the language he is using there that makes it not OK.

  60. Luanne says:

    The wife gets a life of wealth and leisure due to her man’s success. If the trade off is oral, I think he has every right. She probably gets oral on the side with her bodyguard while he gets his groupies anyway.

    • Tigerlily says:

      So sex is totally transactional? I don’t think so.

    • Deering24 says:

      Any man who would disrespect his wife like this is not much of a man, no matter how much money he makes.

  61. BJ says:

    Not that it matters but when did they get married? They weren’t married last year.

  62. Darla says:

    Who knows what his wife likes, it may not be a big deal for her. I’ve rarely orgasmed that way, but I do every time from PIV. I still won’t be with a man who isn’t into it because men who are really into giving oral are the most sensual and best lovers hands down. Plus, I like getting high and doing 69. Either way, he has disrespected her by speaking this way and I would divorce his ass the next day.

  63. Leviathan says:

    “When asked if he goes down on his wife,”

    Who asks a question like that?

  64. sza says:

    I am the King I am the Don…wtf you fool?! Why are you talking like a one-man production of The Godfather!? Yeah..you are so gangster you can’t give a woman an orgasm. I applaud you,Don.

  65. Pixie says:

    I’m sure he probably eats the booty tho.
    My DL radar is pinging

  66. Shambles says:

    Coming back to this because I’ve had a hard time processing it all day. I couldn’t really get why. His words feel predatory and harmful to me but I couldn’t find the right way to say it. Someone else helped me. Violence. This is violence

  67. Godwina says:

    Welp, thanks for flying your ‘revolting pos’ flag. The more women know.

  68. me says:

    What I don’t get is why this is making news now? This interview is from 2014.

  69. j says:

    he sees his wife as an asexual non person who can be satisfied with dinner, clothes, and real estate. she’s not an autonomous human being with her own needs in his eyes. what a shallow, tired, proximal view of a woman.

  70. Dee says:

    Must be hard to go down on a woman when you have to stop every 20 seconds to yell DJ KHALED.