Angelina Jolie turns to her brother James Haven & son Maddox in tough times

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Back on Wednesday, we covered the main points of Star Magazine’s cover story this week, all about how Brad Pitt is drinking, partying and flirting with other women while Angelina sulks, cries, and stays in hotels. Given that the magazine came out a day before Brad’s interview in Parade (where he called Angelina his soulmate, and was generally more forthcoming about their relationship than he has been, ever) came out, the whole Star piece just seems like just another in an endless line of “Brangelina is splitting… soon… just wait for it, it’s coming!” stories. But now that I’ve read the full article, there’s some other interesting stuff in the piece.

According to Star, Angelina was calling Brad incessantly while he was in Berlin for the Inglourious Basterds premiere. She was nagging him so much “Brad finally shut his phone off” and continued flirting with an “old flame” – German director Katja von Garnier. After getting shut-out, Angelina turned to the other men in her life, her brother James Haven and her oldest child, Maddox:

Between their long-distance battles, Angie tried to relax by flying her Cessna airplane to Las Vegas with sons Maddox and Pax.

“She stayed over at the Wynn with the boys,” an insider says. “She told Mad it was a early birthday present, and he was so excited!”

Angie also carved out some time to visit her brother James Haven, who lives in Las Vegas part-time, for some much-needed comfort.

“Angie has been turning to James a lot lately, since things have gotten so difficult with Brad,” the source adds. “She said she felt like she just needed to see him and get a hug.”

Even before their [latest] blowout, Angelina was in dire need of alone time. Insiders say she’s been escaping to a suite at Raffles L’Ermitage Hotel in Beverly Hills, where her beloved mother, Marcheline, lived up until her death from ovarian cancer in 2007.

“Angie likes to go to March’s old suite and be alone and think and cry,” the insider says. “She slips away whenever things get really bad with her and Brad. Sometimes she leaves late in the evening and spends the night, sometimes she only stays a few hours.”

The actress was spotted leaving the hotel alone on July 12, still looking upset as she drove away.

Unfortunately, [the kids] are caught up in the family meltdown. Little Shiloh has been throwing tantrums whenever Brad leaves the house, and she yells at Angie and Brad when they fight, the insider adds. “During a recent blowup, Shi ordered Angie, ‘Stop yelling at Daddy!’”

Shiloh even threw one of her dolls at Angie after a particularly fierce fight with Brad.

Maddox, meanwhile, is a mama’s boy and very protective of Angie, another source reveals. “Every time Angie and Brad fight, Maddox runs to her defense.”

[From Star Magazine, print edition, August 17 2009]

Aw… that thing with Maddox running to his mom’s defense is sweet and sad. He is a mama’s boy, I totally believe that. It reminds me of all of those old stories about Princess Diana and Prince William, when Diana and Charles were still together. William would look after his mom too – I wonder if that’s how Maddox really is, the typical oldest child, the peacemaker, the compromiser. I’d bet he is. And I also believe Shiloh is her Daddy’s girl. But where does Zahara fall? I won’t believe Shiloh’s having tantrums unless I hear something about Zahara deigning to intercede in her parents’ fight. By the way, whatever happened to the quietly fabulous James Haven? He used to give quotes to the press about his sister every few months, but he’s been quiet for a while. Maybe he’s got a good boyfriend!

Here’s Angelina Jolie and James Haven picking up Maddox from school in Prague in May 2007. Images thanks to WENN.com .

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  1. maddie says:

    I can see this happening because look at the time line.

    They meet on a movie set while making a film.

    They hook up while he is still married, but tell the world otherwise.

    She has a child already that Brad seems to adore (a good thing) she gets pregnant right away (which is a bad thing)

    They are both actors which means time spent apart on movie sets which is not a good thing.

    They adopt two other kids between Jolie getting pregnant with twins.

    So yeah they were sexually attracted to one another on the film set and they do seems to have some things in common but, a relationship built on a fire of sexually attraction and the like will burn out with the droplets of every day life. kids large amounts of time spent away from each other, things do drift apart.

    Just think Brad went from being a married man to a divorce man living with jolie and her son Maddox to being a father with Shiloh then adopting Zaharah (sp?) Pax, then have the twins in 5 years.

    Never thought much of him as an actor he was another of “why all the hoopla” as for Jolie I think she is a good actress and liked her in Hackers but if true I hope they work it out with all the kids involved now.

    Most people can not even do a long distance romance with the other living in another state let alone another continent.

  2. boomchakaboom says:

    Aw. Don’t fight in front of the kids.

  3. Miss Wanderlust says:

    That’s what siblings are for right to support each other trough tough times ?
    The fact that they lost their mom only brings them closer together(not in a Oscar-night kind of way but as brother & sister)…i hope !

    Don’t know if i believe the Star story, is there a reporter around when they have these fights or do Shiloh & Maddox call Star magazine for the latest info on their parents ?

    They keep reloading the break-up stories till the day comes when it realy happens….not a Brangelina fan but i hope they last for a very long time or just get it over with….every couple fights once in a while, at the end of the day they are still human ?

  4. tootyfrooty says:

    any time the story says “an insider” you know it’s b.s. Plus the “insider” always has the people saying goofy things no one ever says in real life like “she is over the moon.” That being said I remember a pretty famous actor saying that most of the tabloid stories have some truth to them. Too much too soon for them. Brad never had time to adjust to being divorced from JA before AJ was pregnant. I don’t care who you are, that’s a bit much to deal with – and then add five more kids in a very short time. Waaay too much. If they don’t split it will be to spite everyone that says they will.

  5. Jess says:

    Can’t she just hang out with her brother and it be just that?

  6. Ggirl says:

    Ditto to all of the above. Pitt and Jolie’s relationship always seems to have a polarizing effect on we gossip mongers. In general, people are either fiercely in support of their relationship or they hope for their demise. Personally, I am always skeptical of most celebrity appearances whether they are single or coupled up. It is all image. No one ever really knows what goes on behind the scenes. But it doesn’t take a giant leap to figure out that these two moved WAY too fast with the instant family. When the loins are on fire, just about everything sounds like a great idea!

  7. whatever says:

    I have to agree they moved WAY too fast. But, I think that’s how celebs live their lives–“I want it NOW!” I always thought Brad was too vanilla for her and they seemed like an odd match. But, now that they are together, they should be adults for the kid’s sake. If they do split, hopefully they will stay committed to being the best parents possible. Time will tell.

  8. Beth says:

    I don’t know why I’m bothering to respond to this story since when it comes to Brad and Angelina, everybody believes all of the tabloid stories. You would think that since none of these stories pan out, people would be more skeptical about their validity. According to the tabloids for the past five years especially the past six months there have been 1000 breakup reports, Angelina is pregnant/adopting, Brad is back with Jennifer, Angelina was moving to France, etc. I have to say bull on this Star story, especially about the kids. If the arguments are so violent, I can’t imagine they would fight in front of the kids. Although there aren’t that many pictures of them, if Shiloh was out of control, why hasn’t she been like that in public? If she hated Angelina so much why does she always hold Angelina’s hand whether or not Brad is there? Zahara is actually the daddy’s girl not Shiloh.

  9. .... says:

    I’ve always heard that Angelina is very soft spoken as was her mother. I’m not saying they don’t get into arguements I’m saying that I don’t believe they’d argue in front of the children. Star, InTouch, etc are all a bunch of liars and put stories that would sell to dimwitted nut jobs to make money. Brad and Angie are just fine..

  10. Megan says:

    lies. all lies. sloppy journalism.

  11. kim says:

    I find it interesting that there hasn’t been a pic of her at that hotel in years . The pic of her taken July 12th was not at the hotel Oh I asked Starmagazine.com what happened to baby #7 the one they said she was pregnant with back in April.Well I guess Shiloh is their insider source and she was wrong GMAFB.Btw Usweekly claims Zahara is a daddy’s girl and Shiloh is a mommy’s girl all the tabloids pull stuff out their a**es. There are pics of Brad and Pax in NOLA at Green Day Concert last night i guess the insiders didn’t tell the tabs . They always report stuff after the fact a true insider would haveinfo before the pics are released

  12. cee says:

    Why do you keep printing this garbage. In the gorcery store today everyone who looked at the Star article was laughing out loud at the foolishness. Brad and Angie are afamily. So stop giving Star and the rest of the rags any credence.

  13. jann says:

    i don’t believe this story at all, how do they know what was said and by whom? as mentioned above already, the children? i think not, it’s so silly, but every couple have ups and downs, so who cares? still love them, and still think they are the number one hot couple/family in Hollywood in more ways than one.

  14. Rosanna says:

    I doubt Shi gets feisty like that. She’s way mellower than that. I also doubt they fight in front of the kids. And no, they aren’t moving too fast. When love hits there’s no “too fast”, because you just know that the person you’re looking at is the right one, it would make no sense to wait. But most people don’t know (and can’t tell the difference) because they’ve never experienced anything remotely like that, which is totally ok. What is NOT OK is to think that what you haven’t experienced can’t possibly exist and therefore it must either be “wrong” or “fake” or “lame” or “too soon”.

  15. fizXgirl314 says:

    eat something!

  16. Firestarter says:

    While I do not think that the rumors are true about Pitt/Jolie, it isn’t extrordinary that couples have problems in their relationship on occassion. I mean people on this site have no trouble believing things about other couples, but when it comes to Pitt/Jolie, everyone says emphatically “No, none of this is true”

    They are not perfect, and as I stated before, so no one goes off on me, I do not think that they are splitting up, but I do think, like most humans, they do argue, they do disagree and they are not exempt from that. Remember, in every lie or rumor, there is a grain of truth.

    Just saying.

  17. nnn says:

    Of course they argue, they laugh together, they don’t agree all the time, they sleep in the same bed most of the time, they have agreement on certain things and disagreements on others, they sulk at times, then make peace, they make love, they don’t the next day : THEY ACT LIKE IN ANY NORMAL RELATIONSHIP with no linear same all rosy mood.

    Like anyone in here in a couple/relationship does with his/her respective companion. A couple is an union of two individualities not a fusion among the two of them.

    It is actually a sign of good health to argue and get over it. Couple that don’t have some serious problems.

    So why even mention an healthy and normal way of functioning/behaving within a couple and thinking they are about to split because of it, because they do EXACTLY what everyday people, including all of us posting in here who are living in a relationship/couple are doing, meaning arguing with our betterhalf ?

    Is that mean that WE, people being in a relationship, posting in this very much site are also about to break up with our respective companion because we also arguing within our couple ?

    What kind of a logic is this ? Wake up people ! This is reality, not ‘Harlequin’ !

    And perfect couple doesn’t mean that they are in agreement all the time in everything they do or say.

    Perfect couple is for every couple out there, the perception that one was made for the other, that they share a great deal of affinities and have a high level of confidence between each other. My boyfriend is perfect for me in his imperfections and i am to him.

    I am sure, real people with real feelings get that their betterhalf is perfect to them no matter their imperfections within the relationship.

  18. Toe says:

    Phew…easy people…we are NOT at CeleBitchy for counceling. I just wanted to read what CRAP they invented THIS time between Brad and Ange, then read the funny commentaries. For other things i Google. C’mon guys, its weekend. Let us go out and drink some beer like Brad, my treat.

  19. Lys says:

    Do anyone feel sorry for her? Here you do, here you pay.

  20. crazydaisy says:

    I wish Angie would stop dying her hair. It looked better before. Besides, she’s going to end up like Paris and Lindsay with big hunks falling out all over the place if she’s not careful.

  21. DD says:

    @Lys – I think your message is lost in translation.

  22. Laura says:

    Jolly is purely selfish and lives by mood of the moment.. smile pretty for the camera—— it is all you really have going for you.. What will you do when all of those kids grow up and put real demands on you.. And why did you never love Brad enough to marry him.. is it because you don’t trust him..well I don’t either.. he was a married man when you seduced him away from Jen.Simple minded will do anything for sex.. I wonder how it feels to be him..don’t really wanna know..!!

  23. Laura says:

    Curious.. How come her brother doesn’t have big fat liver lips…?? No Botox ?

  24. Laura says:

    jolie isn’t jolly,
    and Brad is the Pitts..

    And everyones waiting for the next shoe to drop.

  25. Ramona says:

    Laura…If you remember correctly it was Angelina Jolie that started the Bee Stung Lip look in the first place because hers was like that naturally. If you look back at some of her pictures when she was a young child her lips looked exactly the same…I have a beautiful daughter with the same pouty lips and full smile and it never fails to amaze me that someone will ask her where she got her lips done and she graciously answers ‘The Lord did it’…lol

  26. Ramona says:

    One think I’m curious about though is why does Angelina only appear in public wearing the drab colors Black,Gray,Silver and when she is on the Red Carpet she usually wears something in the color of ‘Nothing’, I don’t get it, unless she is making a statement about how she sees the world as a dark,dreary and mournful place, or her perception of it anyway…

  27. K McFarlane says:

    This story is so silly. How would Star magazine know what Shiloh says when her parents fight? It has to be made up.

    Somtimes I don’t know what to make of all these stories. My gut says that they are rubbish. A small part of me says “there’s no smoke without fire”. But then why make up silly details that there’s no way that they could have known?

    A month or so ago everyone was saying that they haven’t been photographed together, Brad doesn’t mention Angie anymore in articles etc. Well since then they were photographed taking the kids to McDonalds and Brad sung her praises in an interview. But instead of changing anyone’s mind, the doom-mongers just point to new “evidence”.

    What’s kind of ironic is that I don’t remember reading endless “they’re in trouble” stories before Brad and Jen split. Which proves I guess that we really don’t know anything.

  28. K McFarlane says:

    Laura your comments make no sense but if you look right back at photos of AJ as a child she always had the big lips. Siblings don’t have to look the same!

    Why do you assume it’s Angelina who doesn’t want to get married? But also, after three failed marriages between them, I can fully understand why they’d feel that marriage doesn’t mean anything.

    No one can seduce anyone away from a happy relationship. Maybe a one night stand. But you don’t leave a committed and happy marriage for sex.

  29. elusive says:

    Laura, he has those lips, just to a lesser degree. I find it scary how much these two look alike.

    I dont think there is any weight to these rumors the rags keep pouring out. I think they probably have the same relationship issues you and I do, sans money trouble. What would you do if you were seriously rich and found someone equally rich you were incredibly attracted to, and youre looking to start a family and so are they…youd multiply like crazy cause you can afford it.

    I’m not sure if they’ll be the Kurt and Goldie of our time and spend the rest of their lives together unmarried, maybe they’ll split up – you never know. I just dont think it’s happening now. He’s working, and schmoozing, which is his job…she’ll be doing it soon for salt and he’ll be back with the kids – then it will be “ANGIE’S HAD ENOUGH, LEAVES KIDS AND BRAD” (again)

  30. Amy says:

    I think the “grain of truth” comments are stupid. Tabloids always make things up. If the rumors were true where are the weddings, the other 100 kids they were supposed adopt or birth, why are they still together, why isn’t Angelina in France?

  31. Ursula says:

    No happy person drinks as smuch as Mr Pitt does. Something is not right when you drink like that. It does not take Einstein to work that out. I guess Bradly has discovered that getting hooked to a crazy and collecting 6 children in 3 years is nuts. (no pun intended)

  32. Mary Jane says:

    I’m with Tow… e’en though it’s Monday morning! Angie and Brad are soooo last year…

  33. Magsy says:

    Tough times? Please…

  34. stacy says:

    he never actually said angie was his soulmate. just a thought.