Comments on: Mackenzie Phillips on end of 10 yrs of sex w/ dad; ‘most shocking celebrity story’

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By: icky

icky — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:11:57 +0000

OMg Hatsumomo- or whatever your name is – you DO sound obnoxious. Take your big fat ego and all the “awesomeness” that is you and post on a message board for perfect people (as they are so few and far between, as you say) I mean come on! aren’t you a little bit ashamed of yourself?….why the ugly posturing? When people have been harmed, it is very hard to repair the damage – from what I understand, it takes years. Is that okay with you, huh? take it down a notch or three…jeez some people

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By: Ms Bateaux

Ms Bateaux — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 01:58:44 +0000

The Truth Will Set You Free. The reason you take drugs is to escape the shame and pain you feel inside. I was a rape victim and know all too well the pain inside your stomach that you go through when you try to cover or hide something, it makes you sick. Sharing and writing helps to relieve the pain. I’m sure she will be forever shamed by this, but the pain of the past has been released so that she can have closure, an move on in her journey for peace.

There are so many mentally handicapped, special needs children who were from families that have been shown to be “incestuous”. Mental handicaps may skip a generation or two but it will show up in the offending family. They are Gods children and they all look alike no matter what color they are. My rape was by a friends sisters boyfriend, not a family member. Lets pray for Mackenzie and not prey on her for speaking and standing her own truths as she recalls it; she’s trying to find peace. Peace of mind.

Dr. G

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By: SolitaryAngel

SolitaryAngel — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 20:45:24 +0000

@ Tia C: I was wondering the same thing; that video freaked me out–boy, is that guy whacked out of his mind.

@hatsumomo: You are unreal. And not in a good way.

@ everyone else who DID go through abuse: I hope your demons leave you alone at night, and give you peace.

I don’t know if what happened really did; we will never know and I will not watch any video of it. BUT one reason she might have waited so long to tell was for the simple fact that if she had told while he was still alive, he would have twisted everything she said and made her out to be the bad one. That’s what they do. Tell you never to say anything or no one would believe you; they will all hate you and Mommy might make me go away forever. They say YOU are making me do this to you.

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By: JustV

JustV — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:31:26 +0000

teehee, i agree completely with your comments.

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By: Tia C

Tia C — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 12:11:41 +0000

No one is saying anything about Tamerlane’s wacked-out video – did anyone watch that shiz?

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By: AA

AA — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:55:19 +0000

I do not know whether her allegations are true or not.

BUT: for the people who say that she is no victim because she was a consenting adult, or ask how could she consent:

It is more common than you think to engage in a relationship with a person who raped you or abused you, if that person is family or a friend. It is a desperate attempt to rationalise it and pretend you are in control and you were not raped. It is unhealthy, but a coping mechanism nevertheless.

The circumstances of a rape, e.g. by someone you know and have to maintain a relationship with, a date-rape, a sexual encounter under the influence of drugs/alcohol that you do not remember consenting to, have impact on how you may deal with it. Often it is easier for the victim’s mind to convince themselves that they consented and this was what they wanted, than admit they were violated & have to deal with teh powerlessness of it.

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By: teehee

teehee — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:52:08 +0000

Hmm along that line of reasoning, people love to buy explosive tell-all books about sexual escapades and love to buy sex tapes from celebrities etc, and that somehow is better or good.
But this is wrong, when its the exact same information–
So like if it is amusing to us, it is “right” to do it, but if it no longer amuses us or makes us uncomfortbale, the same act is suddenly “wrong” and so is the person who engages in it (sells the book/makes the video).
Double standard, or, shifting standard much…
Just an observation.

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By: teehee

teehee — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:41:05 +0000

Thanks to everyone who is sharing their story and speaking out.
I liek the fact that things can be consensual but not healthy or right or good for you, given the state of mind you can be in when consenting, or even the motional and psychological(or chemical!)condition you are in.
Really there is no one way to anyones personal story, each event has to be considered by the people involved in it who know themselves, the other persons invovled, and other external factors that lead to the events that occurred, and only they have the right to assess and identify the outcomesd or consequences as ‘good or bad, acceptable or not’. The experience is wholly personal and cant be assessed from the outside.
There is a lot of complaint about trying to make a profit by selling a book— but why is it bad to profit off of a book about bad events but its ok to profit off a book abotu posditive events?
If she shared ab ook of all the family recipes and stories of her cooking with her dad, no on would claim selfishness and extortion… But if she discloses something that is ethically and psychologically relevant and weighted people dont know where to stand on it (because they dont have the information!) or dont even want to hear about it and are quicker to banish the idea and her possible intentions. Why?…I mean honestly I dont get it pep-le profit off of books daily, and reality shows, clothing lines etc…and they decide what to do with the money they make, too.
How come she has to do anything more than share her story in order for her sharing to even be acceptable at all…is she tainted for what she has been through, and I will also add for what she has DONE?

Maybe it is an issue of holding judgement against her for “being so messed up” and acting out that way well into later life. But she still has a right to share her story and be heard and believed, if and when this is indeed a true story, and it does still help to shed light on the plight of the millions of victims, and help them maybe understand themselves better, too.
I for one would want to read the book for that reason alone.

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