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First off, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your height. You say that the women you’ve dated haven’t been all that intelligent. Well, where are you meeting these women? You need to take a class, volunteer, visit a bookstore–do something social that you’re interested in and then you’ll meet women with the same interest as you. If you want a brainy woman, then hanging out at a nightclub won’t increase your chances of finding an intelligent woman. (Note: I’m not saying that ALL women at nightclubs are not intelligent, but a lot of them are not looking for serious relationships and just want to hookup).

You need to start behaving positively otherwise no intelligent woman will approach you. Also, since you hate when women say that your height makes them feel protected, why don’t you try dating a tall woman? That way, you won’t seem “tall” too her since she’ll be close to your height.

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I looked at your pic, and I didn’t find u ugly or fat, not even unattractive. I’m sure there are ppl who are attracted to u without being desperate and/or ugly and/or stupid. I’m only 5′ and dating a big 6′ 2″ guy as well. He’s definitely sexy in my eyes. I think u should take it being tall as an advantage.

And I have to agree with others that all the problems are coming from within. You created these problems and make them as your own obstacles. Try to look at things in a more positive way. You make things the way they are. I’m fortunate enough to have met my partner, who’s always sunny and at peace with himself. And he taught me how to appreciate the unimportant things in life and be happy with self. And I hope that you realize a lot of ppl here who are complete strangers would want you to be able to find your own inner peace as well.

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Dear Dolkite, I am a counselor and see that you are deeply wounded. Yes you need therapy. You are so angry at the world and bitter for the cards you’ve been dealt. You really need to see a professional to help you see reality and find happiness with yourself before anyone will truly be attracted to you. That goes for friendships too. People do not want to spend time with someone who exudes negativity and hatefulness. Please know that losing weight will not make you happy. You are broken on the inside not the outside. That is what you should be consumed with “fixing.”

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Most women prefer tall men–period..

no one wants to date a short shrimp-when you put on a pair of heels you tower over the man..

I know plenty of men that would do anything for your height.

I think you need to get out more and accept when people compliment you–even if you don’t agree but first I think you should talk to a professional about your perception of your body image.

for the record, women LOVE tall men, I have never EVER dated a man under 6’5..
its my preference..and I am in my late 30′s..my current b/f is 6’8, bald and sexy to me!!!

most men would kill to be bigger and some men are killing themselves trying.

For the record, I am not unattractive.

humans like what they like, you are attractive to some, just not to you..

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“They were neither physically attractive nor intellectually engaging…basically, they were desperate. That is not an idle assumption…i dated several females despite my misgivings in order to give them a fair chance….I was always sorry for it later on.”

was really an eye opener. You lost me now. You think you’re ugly, yet you demean others who you think are ugly and stupid.

Yeah, I guess you’re right. Dating is going to be a bitch when you’re hypocritical about what you’ll lower yourself to be with.

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about your latest post: Okay, with this kind of attitude, you could be the hottest guy AND you would still be alone. So you hate yourself and hate the world, because it is full of desperate unattractive and dumb people.
Your life is not going to get better if you´re unwilling to change your mind about how terrible everything is. You need to find a way to make yourself happy. Move out of town and get a new life, why not! Find new hobbies, go places. Do you really just wanna waste your life? Things are not going to get better just by themselves, you know. YOU have to make them better.

And about your diet: 450 calories, really? For a guy? Are you kidding me. I am a female, 5’4” and 100 lbs. And I eat about 1500 calories a day – and it’s working for me. I used to be about 20 lbs heavier, but I wanted to lose weight and tried to eat little and it just didn’t work – I lost some weight but I was restricting myself all the good stuff and ate really healthy, I was unable to stick with that kind of diet. You’ll end up stuffing your face with Oreos, believe me. You should find a healthier and more natural way, if you intend to keep your weight off. (ever heard about yo-yo effect?)

I hope you will read this and think about it. Good luck.

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I think it has less to do with your looks and more to do with your pessimistic attitude (not to mention the fact that you are clearly stereotyping anyone who shows any interest in you as having an emotional problem). I’ve dated short men, tall men, skinny men, fat men, what they have in common is that they were interesting, enthusiastic, and confident. That matters.

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what can I say, make do and stop whining? :/

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