Four year old in Tennesse gets out, drinks a beer and steals neighbor’s presents


Aww, this story made me laugh but it’s also really sad. It has an ok ending, though, or we wouldn’t be repeating it. A four year old boy in Chattanooga, Tennessee broke out of the home he shares with his 21 year-old mother and grandparents in the middle of the night. Little Hayden snuck a beer from his grandfather’s cooler outside, drank it, and then went over to the neighbors house and stole some presents from under the tree. Inside one of the presents was a little girl’s dress so he put it on and was wandering around in the street holding a beer when the cops found him at around 1:45 in he morning. His mom says she has safety devices over the doors so her kids can’t get out (it’s unclear how many other kids she has) but that Hayden must have disabled them. She’s currently divorcing his dad, who is in jail. She thinks the poor kid believes that he can get arrested and go to jail to see his daddy:

haydenA 4-year-old boy, beer in hand, is accused of stealing Christmas presents from his neighbors. It’s a strange story, but also a sad one.

April Wright is 21 years old and is going through a divorce with her husband who is in jail. She says she is not sure how her 4-year-old managed to get out of the house, open a beer, and steal the neighbors presents from under their tree. Now she’s just glad he’s okay and says she won’t let it happen again.

The child, Hayden Wright, was found around 1:45 am Tuesday, wandering the streets of his neighborhood. In a police reports, officers said he was wearing a little girl’s dress and drinking a beer. The police report says the child had to be taken to the hospital to be treated for alcohol consumption.

April Wright said, “Biggest concern was him being out there, getting kidnapped, getting run over, the alcohol, having to have his stomach pumped.”

Wright says she woke up that night at 1:45 am and panicked when she found Hayden was gone. She says she put safety devices on all the doors so her kids couldn’t get out, but Hayden was able to break the safety device off the doorknob and get outside.

Once out, Wright says her four year old followed his father’s footsteps and was found on Blue Spruce Road, drinking.

“He runs away trying to find his father,” she said. “He wants to get in trouble so he can go to jail because that’s where his daddy is.”

The Hamilton County Sheriff’s Office report says Hayden rang the doorbell a few houses down and the neighbor answered, finding the child holding a partially consumeed 12-ounce beer.

Wright said, “He got it out of my father’s cooler in the back and how he got it open I don’t understand because it was one of those tab beers.”

But it doesn’t stop there. The report said Hayden then snuck into a neighbor’s house through an unlocked front door, and stole five wrapped Christmas gifts. One was a girl’s brown dress which Hayden was wearing when police found him.

“Going to the neighbor’s house and taking their presents, very embarrassing,” said April.

She admits she was not just embarrassed, but scared, and rushed to the hospital that night with Hayden. She said she tries to be a good mother and loves her son, but now feels like a failure.

“Kids do things like this and it’s out of your control, you can do the best you can as a mother, everyone makes mistakes, it was an honest mistake,” she said.

Wright did meet with child protective services today who told her she will get to keep custody of Hayden.

[From NewsChannel9 via We Smirch]

Aww I hope that someone gets some counseling for that mother and little boy. Maybe now that this family is on the radar they’ll get the services they need. The mother seemed pretty upset in the news video (above.) She also seemed level-headed and more sad than defensive. At least Hayden is ok.

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  1. ButteryBuddha says:

    She has more?! Ugh. Probably. 🙁 I hope she didn’t get knocked up with all those kids while living at Mommy’s and Daddy’s house. Poor parents.
    I know 5 of those types of people who I graduated with who now live in Mommy’s house with 2 kids who are barely a year apart and different fathers and join facebook groups that say “I hate my baby’s daddy!” No joke! 🙂
    Well, I am glad that the kid is okay! It’s kinda funny but not really because God knows who could have picked him up in the street or ran him down.

  2. Jillian says:

    Another reason why you should never tell your kids daddy’s in jail. Tell them he’s working on an oil rig in Alaska or something for crying out loud.

  3. Nebraska says:

    All I can say is that is really really sad.

  4. Scribe says:

    Something does not ring true about this tale.

  5. Goddess711 says:

    And this is entertaining why? This isn’t funny, it’s horrifically sad. What a strange society we live in where we’ve become immune to shocking situations like this. Will child protection services step in and take this kid or was it a set up situation to get some media coverage? There’s gotta be something else to this, like Balloon Boy? There’s more wrong with this story than just the situation itself.

  6. snowball says:

    I never had to put safety locks on the doors going outside and my kid never tried to leave in the middle of the night either. Is this a more common thing than I know of? And why is grandpa keeping a cooler full of beer in the backyard?

    I feel so sorry for this little guy that he thinks if he’s bad, he’ll go to jail. No kid should even have jail on his mind at that age.

    ITA, Jillian. What was the purpose of telling a 4-yr. old that daddy was bad and went to jail and he’s not coming back?

    I’m torn between being disgusted with this mother and feeling sorry for her too, since she’s obviously not terribly equipped for motherhood yet.

    “Kids do things like this and it’s out of your control..” Adolescents and teenagers do things that are out of your control. You ought to be able to control your 4-yr. old.

    Why is she saying she made a mistake? I didn’t understand that part. I hate to be all Jesse Ventura with conspiracy theories, but I’m sort of with Scribe. Something seems weird about all this.

  7. wif says:

    The neighbour answered the door, to see a drunk 4 yr old, but he was left to wander the streets drunkenly when the cops found him??????????????? That’s odd.

  8. lilred says:

    How the heck did he get that beer bottle open? I can hardly open them.

  9. lastwordlinda says:

    Something is wrong with this story. I hope the truth comes out although no matter what happens to this child, he doesn’t have a chance in hell with such a lousy start to his life.

  10. MizzExpert says:

    This isn’t the first time this happened. She’s more embarrassed about being found out than about endangering her young child. You get no chances for an ‘accident’ if you jeopardize your child’s safety through negligence.

    This poor little guy has obviously had experience in busting out/running amok/and getting into the booze. How sad that his future is already mapped out for him at the age of four.

  11. wif says:

    Snowball, I wanted to address your comment that you never needed to put safety locks on your doors. My kids are the same, BUT I have a neighbour who raises her kids in a manner very similar to my own and her kids regularily escape from the house and are clever enough to thwart her attempts to keep them in. These kids are just very kinesthetic learners and learn best by being out in the world and trying stuff. So how you mother (considering that my neighbour and I are similar, but have very different children) does not necessarily have as much of an impact as we may wish to think.

    So I’m giving this woman the benefit of the doubt, for now. Until we hear more.

  12. Jammy says:

    Okay I am horrified by this story…..and why is the media (and the mom too) showing the kids pic. He is 4yo for godsake. I can understand that he might have figured of the babylock and snuck out. But how could the neighbour (whose bell he rang) in good conscience let a 4yo out in street. Heck I stop and pick up stray pups and try to find their owners. Had I been in neighbours situation, I would be sitting there with the kid waiting for 911 to respond or if I knew where he lived ringing the bell to his house. The whole situation seems so bizzare.

  13. Bam Bam says:

    I agree with Scribe, the story doesn’t sound true especially the supposed naivete of the mother, the kid learned to drink beer from someone, and first neighbor ignoring a 4 year old in the middle of the night? Did the mother actually report the kid missing or just acted stupified when the police came? How were the cops informed? A chunk of this story is missing.

  14. GatsbyGal says:

    Ahh, a typical day in Tennessee. A 21-year-old mother of multiple kids whose dad’s in jail. It’s like a Maury episode waiting to happen.

    That being said, there’s no fucking way a 4 year old can open a bottle of beer, or even a can of beer. Little fingers wouldn’t be strong enough. This story doesn’t sound true. He probably found a bottle that was already open and left at toddler-level.

    Also…wouldn’t a beer taste awful to a kid? They still taste awful to me. This mother probably raised him on beer and thinks it’s hillarious. Trash.

  15. Lantana says:

    I’m with wif. Why in the world would a neighbor open the door to see a 4 yr old with a half-consumed beer, and let the kid go on alone? Hell even without the beer in hand, you don’t shut the door on a 4 yr old in the middle of the night…seems fishy.
    And @GatsbyGal – haven’t you ever seen a 4 yr old open a can of Coke? I don’t think it’s an issue. And as far as beer tasting awful…I remember the first time I tasted beer was at my grandparents and I was probably 8, and I thought it was the most wonderful taste in the world. There’s a reason they call it nectar of the Gods. (Sadly I no longer drink beer.)

  16. WTF?!? says:

    The mom is a liar and guilty of criminal negligence and endangering the welfare of a child. This boy had obviously been fed beer before. Has anyone here ever seen/remember getting a sip as a little kid? It is the nastiest-tasting stuff ever and is an acquired taste even for adults.
    And there’s no way a four yr old could “break” the safety device off the door; if so, the company is in for a massive lawsuit. Mom was probably passed out drunk and the kid just mimicked what he sees. She failed to set it.
    I hope all her kids are taken away from her.

  17. sdfsd says:

    its sad that i have to even raise this question, but in this day in age my guess seems to me more probable than this story:

    breaking through child locks? opening a BEER? running to neighbors and stealing presents then putting on a dress? To me, sadly, it seems much more probable that he was kidnapped by a neighbor who took a beer from her house, then brought him to their house to do something terrible, then gave him the presents, put the dress on him, and sent him off to wander the streets and be found like this as if he had done it all himself. Someone should really investigate this…

  18. Novaraen says:

    That picture of the kid is from like 2 years ago(he looks to be age 2 or less)…weird they don’t show a recent one.

    Anyway….I have a sneaky little boy myself…so in a way, I feel for the mother. My kid got out and got to the corner of the busy street we live next to in nothing flat. Scared me so badly that now we have alarms on our doors that go off if he opens it. I suggest this mom should do the same.

  19. Novaraen says:

    Oh…but I don’t understand how a little boy like that could open a can of beer….

    I know my kids can’t….and they are 5.

  20. Novaraen says:

    Oh!!… I bet that grandpa thought it would be fun to teach his grandson how to open a beer and bring it to him…something like that. lol.

  21. snowball says:

    I’m sorry to call you by number, but the stupid things get stuck over your name and I can’t read it.

    So, #11 🙂 I really hope your neighbors’ kids aren’t tearing up the neighborhood, drunk on Bud Lite. It sounds like they’re normal, precocious kids.

    We’re going to have to agree to disagree a bit – after nearly 18 years of mothering, I think we exert tremendous impact in many ways on our children. If you can’t keep your 4-yr. old sober and in the house at night, there are probably some bigger issues that mom needs to address.

    In this case, it wasn’t even just mom. There were three adults in that house.

  22. prettytarheelfan says:

    We never make the news for anything good we do. First Andrew Jackson forces the Trail Of Tears, then Al Gore invents the internet, then Lane Kiffin and his nonsense, and now our contribution to early alcoholism comes out.

    I said it’s great, to be, a Tennessee Vol…*retch* (yeah, I know, it was more towards UTC, but it’s all TN, baby).

  23. javelin says:

    It seems that when kids have kids and aren’t able to give them the attention they need the new generation often acts out in self-destructive ways for attention. I wouldn’t put it past a 4 year old to be highly skilled at evading rules. It’s really too bad people without much direction in life tend to not use birth control.

  24. Jackie says:

    How odd! That happened here in the town about 15 mikes from my house except, the child was not drinking beer. Child Protective Services took the child away until the parents were interviewed and their house passed inspection. They had to install child protective locks or something to be able to get their child back. Luckily, it was in the summer so the child didn’t get cold.

  25. Celebitchy says:

    @snowball and the people who can’t see names beneath the icons – what OS and browser are you using? I will try to fix that, thank you, I just need to know more about the problem.

  26. Firestarter says:

    I just shake my head at parents who are so unaware of where their TODDLER children are. If I had a child, I would know where he/she was every minute of the day. Hell, my mom knows my whereabouts at all times and she lives across the country from me.

    Thank God some sicko, child molester wasn’t around, or some perv of sorts. This could have ended so much worse.

  27. diva says:

    The real story is probably that the mother fell asleep while drinking beer and the child drank the rest of the open beer. The criminal aspect of the story is kind of scary, to think that at that age his mind is already formed enough to commit a crime, not good signs. The father probably used to take him along while committing crimes for him to know how to do it.

  28. Trillion says:

    Was this a stunt they pulled to open the door to pitch a reality show? A la “Run Ronnie Run”?

  29. WTF?!? says:

    sdfsd: If your scenario “seems… more probable” to you, you watch WAY too much TV.

  30. wif says:

    “So, #11 🙂 I really hope your neighbors’ kids aren’t tearing up the neighborhood, drunk on Bud Lite. It sounds like they’re normal, precocious kids.”

    They did once steal a big bag of margerita mix (not the booze, just the mix), sneak outside (post supper, but before bed) and drink the whole thing. Came home super hi on sugar. But never drunk. 🙂

    They’re pretty handy kids to have around in fact, if something goes wrong in the neighbourhood, you know who to contact 🙂

  31. Tia C says:

    Wow, an alcoholic, cross-dressing criminal at age 4. Future sure looks bright for this kid!

  32. fur real says:

    I can’t believe how up in arms all of these people are over it.

    OK, people, so it wasn’t a great situation, but the kid ultimately was alright, so stand down! Dayum. And why would he have to get his stomach pumped if he only drank half a beer? Is that really that serious? (No, for real I don’t know, I’m asking…) It doesn’t sound like a medical situation to me, but I really don’t know.

  33. buenavissta says:

    When my son was 3 he pulled the safety plug cover thingy out of the wall to plug in the iron. This happened in a matter of minutes, with me close by and within hearing range. I caught him as it was heating up. The worst part is that it was the only time he ever saw me use it. (I am a fun mom but a lousy housewife). My point is that even supervised and lovingly-parented kids can do amazing things, like open a beer or scale a 6 foot fence during a family barbeque (my niece, another story).

  34. MizzExpert says:

    Alcohol in any amount is toxic to a child (let alone an adult) but the ratio of body weight to amount ingested is the equivalent of alcohol poisoning which would necessitate the stomach being pumped.

  35. KateNonymous says:

    There does seem to be a lot of information missing from this story. But I also feel bad for the mother, who sounds like she is trying but clearly was not ready for motherhood at 17.

  36. GatsbyGal says:

    @Lantana – no, I’ve never seen a 4 year old open a can of coke. 4 year olds shouldn’t even be drinking coke in the first place.

  37. daisy says:

    I use child locks in my house. The little ones, ages 2 and 3, want to go jump on the trampoline, or ride the outside bikes , and once, want to go with someone to the store. It’s better safe than sorry. but i dont know about the beer. perhaps pops left an open one.

  38. ME says:

    This story seems too bizarre to be true. I have a 4 year old and he is definately NOT capable of doing any of what this story says. Very strange.

  39. WTF?!? says:

    @wif

    Most of the margarita mixes do contain alcohol, as much as 3%.

  40. wif says:

    Not to worry WTF?!? In Ontario there are strict regulations about liqour sales, so nothing bought at a grocery (where the margarita mix was obtained) or convenience store here can contain any alcohol at all.

  41. Juruz says:

    @ WTF

    No they don’t. The mix is flavouring, you generally add tequila afterwards to make it a margarita, otherwise it’s a slushy.

  42. Lita says:

    I think some people are being grossly unfair. The judgementalist in me says “people without kids.”

    Kids do things. Awful, harmful, embarrassing things – even with good parenting. And accidents do happen. You put your kids to bed in a house that you believe to be secure and go to bed sound in their safety – how dare people say that is negligent, for not knowing where they are? You wake and check on them every couple hours – when she found him missing – more than many do! Are you supposed to have no alcohol in your home at all? (and heaps of people have their old fridge in the garage for extra drinks and entertaining). Some kids are real monkeys with their hands, and can do all sorts of things. The kid is missing his Dad – that’s just sad but points vaguely to a happy home, before. She is divorcing jailed-dad and living with her parents presumably to help out and get her life back on track .. good on her! The post said she was sad and embarrassed about the whole thing. Natural!

    I think without any other info on this matter it is just horrific that people have said she is a drunk, druggie, bad mother that should lose her kids! The holier-than-thou pulled out by some people is just unfeeling and inhuman. Obviously the result here was really bad but without any other addition the the story, or any credible likely alt scenario (eg I can imagine the upthread comment that maybe Pops taught him to open beers as possible) what did she do wrong?

    On the other hand, the neighbour that answered the door and did nothing should be reviled.

  43. WTF?!? says:

    Juruz– not so. Next time you’re buying margarita mix, read the label. That’s why letting (US, :o) @ wif) kids drink the mixes is not a good idea.

  44. ccoop says:

    I think this is “Balloon Boy: The Sequel”.

  45. shannon says:

    when i was just learning how to walk i snuck out of the house in the middle of the night and walked several blocks from my mom’s house to my dad’s house. he found me curled up on the doorstep when he woke up in the morning. kids just want to be with their parents!

    maybe this boy watched too much TV too, how do you get crazy ideas like that.

  46. bambi says:

    i dnt think yhe story is true. she needs help no matter if it is true or not if it is true than that kid needs serious help. (:

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