Prince William on his wedding plans: “You’ll have to wait a while yet”

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Prince William has been all over the place the past few weeks, giving interviews and showing up to various events. What’s gotten into the usually press-shy prince? I have no idea. But it was just a matter of time before someone asked him the obvious question, the question that he’s been dodging for years and years. That question? “So, are you going to marry Kate Middleton or what?” The BBC reports that while Will was touring a veterans’ physical rehab center, a blind serviceman asked him that very question (worded differently, probably). Will responded “You’ll have to wait a while yet” (BBC video here). Well, at least Will didn’t say, “You’ll see it happen one day – oops, I mean, you’ll read about – I mean… never mind.”

It’s the question that keeps coming up – and the one he keeps playfully deflecting.

During a visit to a military rehab center on Monday, Prince William was asked by a blinded British serviceman, Simon Brown, whether he could expect an invitation to a royal wedding sometime in the near future, the BBC reports.

“You will have to wait a while yet, I think,” William replied, laughing.

He’s getting used to people asking. Last month during his visit to Australia, it was an elderly aboriginal woman who pressed him for a wedding date.

“As I keep saying,” he replied then, “wait and see.”

William, 27, has been dating Kate Middleton, 28, whom he met at Scotland’s University of St. Andrews, since 2003. They split briefly in 2007 but reconciled.

There has been speculation in recent months that Buckingham Palace might be quietly preparing for a wedding, perhaps to coincide with the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee in 2012 – the 60th anniversary of her coronation.

[From People]

Some days, I actually manage a smidge of pity for Kate Middleton. She’s like the glossiest example of a girl who put all of relationship eggs in one basket, and might have made a disastrous call. She and Prince William have been dating since 2003-ish, so it’s been seven or eight years that they’ve been in each other’s lives romantically, although they have broken up on at least two occasions that were documented, the last time in 2007. Still, let’s go with the longer number – eight years of involvement with a guy, a dude, the future Prince of Wales and the future King of England. Kate might have thought she got the golden ticket. She might have thought that if she bided her time and did and said the right things long enough, she would get her reward, that which she wanted most of all: to be Will’s wife.

Before everyone jumps up my ass and starts yelling about feminism, let me just say – again – that this is really how I think Kate feels. She wants to get married, and she wants it to be William. She’s already planned her life around him and his needs. She only takes on jobs where she can be at the prince’s beck and call. Which is pretty easy for her, considering her family is rich. Nouveau-riche, actually. Which is why the whole relationship is such a coup for her, and probably why she’s put all of her eggs into one basket. And this lack of artifice, this blatant need and want and desire of Kate’s to get married, to settle down, to nail this sh-t down is probably why William continues to make her wait. Maybe if she played it a little bit cooler, got a little distance, took a time out and said to Will, “You know what? I’m taking a job in America, a–hole,” William might realize that Kate is the right choice. Or he might get over her quickly and just start dating a string of pretty, young, well-connected things, and Kate will become Camilla Parker-Bowles incarnate. Either/or.

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William at the rehab facility on February 22, 2010. Kate Middleton on June 27, 2008. Credit for all: Daniel Deme / WENN.

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  1. BeckyR says:

    That is pretty harsh criticism! She is a college graduate, works, keeps her head down and lives her life with grace.
    I think the comment about her parents being noveau riche is a little elitist. Riche is riche whether noveau or not. Good for them. They earned it.

  2. Goosie says:

    I think they’ll get married. I don’t think she’d still be around if she didn’t have a pretty solid idea that it’s “when” not “if”. I remember thinking that she played their previous breakup just the right way…she played the ‘getting on with it’ card and the press shots of her with smiles and friends were great. Wills seemed to realize that she could and would be fine without him.

    But seriously, it’s the Harry & Chelsy wedding that I’m waiting for. I heart Chelsy so much!

  3. ThunderC*nt says:

    Who cares

  4. temeneos says:

    uh, please,

    He does not want to marry her I think, why would he? They both come from families that “appear” to have traditional values, at this point SOMEBODY in the families must have pointed out they need to fish or cut bait. I mean, around “sevenish” years?

    Get married or move on…

  5. asiont says:

    she should get a real job and stop being so boring

  6. Goosie says:

    BeckyR, I believe the noveau riche comment is in reference to all kinds of stuff in the UK about Kate’s background. I remember at their last breakup, it was reported that Will’s friends were deriding her background, implying she’s not really of their (Will and friends) class. Her parents made their money from a party planning business, and the children of earls and ladies and whatnot were turning their noses up at her.

  7. Brooke says:

    pah! to Becky. Waity Katie has simply gathered the requisite resume padding to downplay the fact that she is a well-connected commoner. to say that she ‘works’ is silly; she seems to float aimlessly from one high-placed, disposable, do-nothing “job” to another, propelled on the impetus of her family’s wealth and waiting for William to ASK ALREADY(!). And I think you slightly misunderstand the point of the term ‘nouveau riche’ – it is to denote them as feel they can buy the breeding and/or sophistication they lack. Why didn’t she step up in support of charity until forced by the Queen Mum? Give back to the community in any way of her own accord? This is one difference in breeding – the lack of acknowledgment of ‘noblesse oblige’. That said I am agreed with Goosie that she has done a good enough job and taken enough instruction to corner him into marriage by the time they’re middle aged at the latest, heh.

  8. Sumodo says:

    Oh, could it be that the Queen doesn’t want another “Diana” or “Fergie” this time around? That she thinks the young lady is still not ready to join the ranks? And, how old was Charles at the time he married? 32. In 2012, William will be 29 or 30. Par for the course, so far. And, WHY NOT speculate that his mother could be waiting for a very special, aristocratic, titled virgin to wed the next King of England?

  9. TG says:

    Is there not one woman who holds themselves in higher regards and won’t be waiting around for a man to propose, even if he is a Prince. Maybe she is happy in this situation, but if so then why, if they do get married would she have accepted his proposal? If she was so content just to be his girlfriend for 7 or 8 years then why would she decide that marriage is what she wants? Not to say that I wouldn’t be waiting around for a prince, but it would have to be Harry and not Will. LOL And Kaiser, I enjoy your commentary so keep it up!

  10. snowball says:

    I wouldn’t be surprised if they had an “understanding” that when William is of a certain age, they’ll get married. It seems like he’s got stuff he wants to do first – ambitions, like learning to fly and all that other military stuff he’s been doing, and establishing his interests in charity work.

    It’s got to be hard to be Princess Diana’s son, living up to that image while trying to make his own. I also wouldn’t be surprised if his dad advised him to wait until he was a certain age before he got married. I don’t think there’s a problem with Kate, she may always have been his choice, but maybe they both were advised to wait.

    That could be why she’s sort of floating around too. I don’t know, I never got the impression that she was stupid or couldn’t live without William.

    I wouldn’t wait 7 years to get married, but there are probably lots of things going on that make waiting not an issue for her.

  11. Ana says:

    Or maybe, she loves him???? Maybe she’s not ready to get married either?

    Yea, you’re right…I’m crazy.

  12. The Queen Bee says:

    I don’t think there will ever be a wedding between Kate Middleton and William. Eventually they will break up and he will have a hurried romance and engagement to a more appropriate match. I’m surprised she has stayed around as long as she has.

  13. Victoria says:

    Kate diminishes the royal brand.

    Isn’t there anyone else out there with royal or semi-royal genes? How about a princess from Monaco?

    Look at Kate’s lower lip – it protrudes. She’s angry and will not make a good queen!

  14. K McFarlane says:

    Once they are married, straight away comes the pressure to start a family. If they’re not at that point, why rush it? They’re essentially living together anyway without the pressure. She’s not expected to do royal duties as she would be if they were married. They’re in a great situation for now and I’m sure they feel that way too.

  15. blinditemreader says:

    He is not aging well…

  16. benny says:

    Why would anyone in their right mind WANT to marry into that family? Has there been any recent spouses who were actually happier AFTER marrying into that family? I don’t think so.

  17. Carol says:

    Didn’t Prince Edward and Sophie date forever before marrying? Perhaps William is modeling the one member of the family who seems to have gotten it right.

  18. Aussie Mama says:

    Just what the world needs, a Rothchild Bloodline on the throne. That’s the only reason Charles married Diana, for her Spencer bloodline, that linked his offspring to the Rothchilds. She was simply used as a breeding mare, for she was more Royal than the Royals themselves. Then of course disposed of.

  19. Anj says:

    WHO CARES?

  20. canadianchick says:

    Her fertility is starting to decrease at her age so hope they decide and move on. I think he should inveds in Royal hair plugs.

  21. Andrea says:

    ANJ CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anyway, I think its pretty obvious that this girl only wants him for the Crown and status. But what she doesn’t know is that she will have to WORK for it for the rest of her life. She would not be allowed to live a life of endless luxury, but would be expected to perform hundreds of royal duties and take on dozens of patronages. Just because Camilla married in and lowered the standard for royal wives does not mean William’s wife should be. William will be counted on to help save the monarchy after his dad and Camilla’s disastrous role. Why doesn’t this girl realize this?

  22. Essie says:

    Isn’t there anyone else out there with royal or semi-royal genes? How about a princess from Monaco?

    —————————————-
    Victoria, are you serious?? You’re joking, right? If Kate is not good enough for the Brit ruling classes, what makes you think a granddaughter of an ACTRESS would be? No royal family anywhere would want a daughter to marry into that family. Haven’t you noticed that neither Stephanie nor Caroline married a royal* and Poor Fat Albert has never even been seen with a royal daughter.

    *I personally don’t consider Caroline’s third husband to be worthy of being called “royal.”

    Anyway, I’m going to have to agree with Ana . . . maybe Kate is in love with Will and he with her and they both want to wait. It’s not like they are already into their 30s and the clock is ticking. They will be married someday and hopefully they will be happier than poor Diana was with whats-his-name.

  23. nana says:

    like I always say, do not expect the Prince to end up with 2nd love, it would end up to split ville if he will. This family line usually ends up with the long time love or the first one. Queen Elizabeth met and married the man as if there is no other guy in the world, Charles.. there were lots of women in his life but he keeps on going back to Camilla. Harry, his long time relationship with Chelsea.. on and off. These royals are loyals.

  24. Rio says:

    Lord, his poor hairline, and at only 27! I can’t judge him too harshly, as premature balding/graying is rampant in my family (I went gray at 12), but I always figured that if I were a young man with that type of balding, I’d say “screw it” and shave my head.

  25. ThunderC*nt says:

    People, we all hail from some sort of royalty in some way. Americans should check up on Catherine de Baillon. Over 1 million descendants. Lisa Kudrow is doing a show about this in March. Brooke Shields descends from Louis the fourteenth. Do the royal hand wave now.

  26. Argotsperson says:

    Who wouldn’t want the Right Royal Cock in them? It’s possibly at this time the Worlds Greatest Cock and of far greater prestige than any of ‘your’ Presidents Cocks past or present.

    All Hail The Royal Cock

  27. Sami says:

    I’m just wondering- has anyone else besides me thought that he might possibly be gay?

  28. celandine says:

    Maybe, just maybe, they don’t want to be just another divorce statistic and are waiting until they’re absolutely sure that they want to spend their entire lives together before committing – especially as they’re so high profile, and kids will be expected soon after. I’m 30 and have many friends who’ve been with their spouses since university, but waited until recently to tie the knot, so dating for 7-8 years first isn’t uncommon.

  29. Julie says:

    As I’ve said before, I think these two are a done deal. Kate is bland and boring enough to not steal any limelight away from William. That is what Charles wants for his son and Kate knows it. That is why she is so compliant and such a suck up. I don’t think Charles ever got over how Diana overshadowed him and he will not let that happen to his son.

    Nana: the royals ARE loyal, then they take mistresses.

    Latest gossip/rumor from across the pond: Kate apparently wants William to buy her a house in Mustique just like Princess Margaret had. If William does this, good luck to him. Kate will spend their entire marriage on holiday in Mustique, count on it. Contrary to several other comments here, Kate does not work; why should she start after she gets married.

  30. lambchops says:

    The couples I know who dated more than 5 years and eventually married, never stayed married. In fact their marriages have broken up soon after the weddings. He is just making excuses and can pursue his goals and dreams while married. This is a typical marriage-avoiding excuse that many men make. And I feel sorry for her because she’s wasting some good years with the wrong guy. No amount of money can take the place of self-worth. If he doesn’t know after 5 years, he will never know! Get out, Kate.

  31. Mairead says:

    Why doesn’t he marry someone of Royal lineage? Because inbreeding isn’t considered a good thing. Besides, fat lot of good it did the house of Hanover, then Saxe-Coburg Gothe (later Windsor) in early 20th century Europe!

    As for Monaco – if the idea of them “raising the tone” of the monarchy wasn’t laughable in its own right – they are Roman Catholic. Wills would have to abdicate his right to occupy the throne.

    Camilla isn’t a commoner in the sense Fergie or even Kate is – her family has royal connections going back and she was one of his original suitors.
    As was Diana’s sister, who he nearly did marry and get him into the “Spencer bloodline” (the hell?). And whilst the idea of bringing the Rothschildes into the equations is delightful from a tin-hat wearing NWO perspective, a Jewish heir as the head of the Anglican church could cause an eensy-weeensy problem, no?

    I don’t get the hatred for Kate either. None of you lot would put up with that nonsense or Wills’s boring-unless-drunk ass for very long either. As i’ve said before, I’m not a monarchist in that I don’t believe that any family has a divine right to “rule” (even as a constitutional monarch) over anyone else. But just thinking of them as two twenty-somethings, one of which through accident of birth has a job with a huge responsibility, many British couples don’t get married within a couple of years of meeting (especially when they’re still at university).

  32. LInda Duncan says:

    I don’t think personally he will marry her. He is using her as a handy place-warmer, but I think that he just doesn’t feel comfortable taking that big step of marriage. I think also he is very fond of her; she just isn’t the ONE. I feel that if he was wildly passionate about her he would want that ring on her finger. He can’t use the “we can’t afford a nice wedding excuse” or the “we have to pay down our student debts before we get a mortgage” excuse either! I think he will suddenly meet someone with whom he will blindly, madly, passionately fall in love, will dump Kate, and marry someone for whom he has fallen hook, line and sinker. As my husband said “When you meet the ONE, you get that ring on her finger as soon as you can, before another man gets there first’!!

  33. Aussie Mama says:

    They need to look outside their own family and bloodlines for partners. They’re so imbred as it is. That’s why they suffer from haemophelia, it’s typically an imbred disease and rife amongst royal families. Also, Kate would have some link through somebody, lineage wise, she wouldn’t be an ordinary commoner, don’t be foolish in thinking that at all.

  34. Magsy says:

    He’ll be an even balder groom by then. What’s the big deal anyway why they have to wait soooooo long.The odds are already against him with so many divorces in the house of Windsor.