Is Kendra Wilkinson saying she can’t have a post-baby orgasm?

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I “forgot” to mention yesterday that Kendra Wilkinson is this week’s Us Weekly cover girl, and that the article is all about her “confessions”. So what is Kendra confessing? Not much. I mean, we pretty much know everything, right? We know that she loves her baby and that she hates what pregnancy did to her body and that she misses sex and that her breastfeeding boobs are so big she wants her implants out or something. However, there is some new information in here. I guess. She says that she “went through some depression” after she gave birth, et cetera:

Even former Playboy bunnies get the blues.

Kendra Baskett admits in the new issue of Us Weekly that she struggled to accept her new body weeks after the Dec. 11 birth of Hank IV, her son with husband Hank Baskett.

“I had my friends over, and it was bad timing,” Kendra, 24, tells Us. “They were really hot and had really nice bodies,” she says of her visitors, which included former Girls Next Door costar Holly Madison and Playboy model Tiffany Fallon.

“I was just hoping Hank didn’t look at them! Having a different body was such a culture shock. I’m so used to being hot and fit.” Although “it wasn’t that extreme,” the reality star says, “I did go through some depression.”

The one-time centerfold adds that her body confidence remains shaky. “I love my legs, and I love my butt, but everything else I hate.”

Everything including her breasts, she says, which “went from a 34C to an E.”

“Now that they’re going down, they’re a little bigger than I want,” she says. “I want to even out my body a little.”

To read more from our exclusive Kendra interview — her plastic surgery plans, how she rebooted her sex life and her diet/fitness habits, plus a sit-down with Kendra’s husband Hank — pick up the new issue of Us Weekly, on newsstands today!

[From Us Weekly]

What’s interesting is that Us Weekly didn’t put Kendra’s other quotes online. I had to look them up on Jezebel. Kendra was asked about her sex life with Hank, and she replies: “Let’s just say that once you have a baby, everything stops working. Your feelings and your nerves just stop because of giving birth. You have to exercise and get massages to help the blood flow back to certain places so you can feel good again.” You know what? “Kendra can’t have an orgasm” is a much bigger story than “I love my legs, and I love my butt, but everything else I hate.” Just sayin’.

Here are a few photos of Kendra at OK Magazine’s Oscar party. She should not be wearing that dress. Or that hair.

Kendra Wilkinson at OK! Magazine Pre Oscar party at Beso restaurant in West Hollywood

Ok Magazine Throws an Oscar Party

Us Weekly cover courtesy of CoverAwards.

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34 Responses to “Is Kendra Wilkinson saying she can’t have a post-baby orgasm?”

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  1. tiki says:

    the woman had a c-section. the strategic zone for orgasms wasn’t affected by the ‘trauma’ of giving birth. i kind of like kendra, but what in the world is she talking about? i gave birth four times. the last two babies were nine and ten pounds respectively. everything still works just fine, thank-you very much.

  2. Scout says:

    Words fail me to express how absolutely trashy this woman (and I use the term loosely!) appears to be! Does she have any idea of the concept of TMI!!! I shudder to think of her mothering skills if she doesn’t see how horrid it is for her to say these things that will be put in print! I hate name-calling, usually, but I must in this instance – she is a classless, dumber than dirt, moron!

  3. Alarmjaguar says:

    Who is she exactly? I will say that I had a c-section and you are out of commission for a few weeks, but I also definitely didn’t feel sexy for longer than that…I can sympathize with her

  4. mollyb says:

    I did recently learn that if a woman has intercourse just after breastfeeding that she likely won’t have an orgasm. When you nurse, your body releases chemicals that contract your uterus–the same chemicals that are released and contract your uterus during orgasm. Maybe she just needs to wait a couple hours before hopping in the sack . . .

  5. JulieNewmar says:

    If the girl can orgasm with Hugh Hefner at the helm… all hope is not lost. She’ll find her groove again.

  6. ,,,, says:

    Oh no! You forgot to finish the title. It should read, “Is Kendra Wilkinson saying she can’t have a post-baby orgasm? And does anyone give a shit?”

    This girl talks way too much about nothing. And it always seems to be in poor taste. Leave some mystery please.

  7. hottathanholywatta says:

    why are we still talking about this chick, how is she relevant??? What kind of work has she done? NEXT

  8. heb says:

    I thought it was pretty obvious she was going through the baby blues because her sunshine and hapiness statements right when the baby was born were right out of a book and almost sugary enough to give a cavity.

    She’ll have her body back in no time, but its felling like its taking longer since she’s talking about it all the time.

  9. ogechi says:

    Vain!!!

  10. lillsche says:

    honestly, i do not get it why people in the us are so crazy about this chick…

    in my eyes she is stupid as a mouldy piece of bread. and she would say or do anything just to get some public attention.

  11. princess pea says:

    Kendra got fame by sleeping with a dirty old man and taking her clothes off for money, so it makes sense that there’s no such thing as tmi in her world.

  12. manda says:

    All the haters can just not click on her stories. My goodness, it’s not THAT hard to not read things you don’t care about.

    I’m glad she’s talking about what she’s experiencing, I don’t think things like that should be kept secret or in the dark. Again, if someone is not interested in what she’s going through, post-baby, then don’t read it!

  13. RobN says:

    I think this is what happens when you base your entire life on being the hot chick and skip the parts that make you a healthy, intelligent young woman.

  14. bellaluna says:

    While I have never been a fan of Kendra, I have begun to like her more and more since she got married and had her baby. Yes, she likes to over-share. No, she’s not the brightest bulb in the box. But you can tell she loves her husband and especially loves her baby. The names people call her are just cruel, and unnecessary. Leave the poor girl alone.

    As far as her post-baby body being a “culture shock”: no, it’s not a culture shock, but it IS a major shock to the system, especially when it’s your first baby. When you’re pregnant with your first, you hear about morning sickness and labour pains and nothing in between. No one tells you that your boobs hurt when someone merely looks at them; they don’t tell you about having heartburn so bad your esophagus can actually be burned by your stomach acid; they don’t mention that your first stretch marks will most likely be on your ass (from your growing hips!); and they most certainly don’t tell you your stomach has the texture of bread dough, but not as firm.

  15. ,,,, says:

    I am not a hater. I don’t hate Kendra in the slightest. I understand that since I don’t care, I don’t have to read it. I just don’t understand why anyone would care.

    Like someone else said, she is famous because she lived with and supposedly had relations with a living corpse and took her clothes off for money. Now she has a baby and is getting a bunch of magazine covers because it.

    Lots of women have babies. It’s special yes, but it’s not out of the ordinary. She has no discernible talents from what I can tell. Having and raising a baby is not a talent, nor is constantly talking about it to gossip rags.

    And lastly, if I were pregnant or had just given birth, I would rather read a book to gain the appropriate knowledge. I think I’d learn a lot more.

  16. ThunderC*nt says:

    This one is trash throughout the generations. I bet you could not find even one redeeming ancestor of hers.

  17. Alexis says:

    Why is everyone being so mean?

    Kaiser, were you saying she shouldn’t wear that dress because she gained a lot of weight during pregnancy? Or did you just mean that it is ugly?

    Give her a break, her entire identity revolved around being a playmate, of course she’s depressed now that she no longer looks that way! Couple that with regular post baby blues, and I feel sad for her.

  18. Joseph says:

    She’s a filthy stank-ho who got famous by sleeping with an 80 year old man while somone took pictures.

  19. GatsbyGal says:

    Oh god, if that’s true, I feel so terrible for her. I dunno what would be worse – never having an orgasm your whole life, or being able to have one and then losing the ability. Both seem like nightmare scenarios to me. Poor girl, I hope she’s able to fix that. I think I’d go mad.

  20. Little.grrl.lost says:

    What’s this bish famous for again? Cause she certainly doesn’t seem to have any discernable talent. All she seems to do is overshare and exploit her baby. Honey, people have babies all the damn time, you’re not special. I wish there was a good taste filter on life.

  21. cara says:

    who the hell is she and should I care,no.

  22. Shawna says:

    I don’t care about Kendra, but I do like hearing about any woman’s account of pregnancy/birth. While I don’t care about her ideas on, say, health care or war, I certainly appreciate her direct experience as a mom.

    And thanks, Tiki, for calming my fears — “Oh no! I can’t get pregnant!” 😉

  23. bubbles says:

    not to be mean, but I hope her man does more than just look at other “hot” chicks, maybe that’ll be a wake=up call for her and she realizes why he married Hugh Heffners sloppy seconds in the first place. ewwwwww!

  24. girl says:

    Maybe I am weird but I have nursed for years have never had a problem with the big 0. I have also never heard that complaint from women I know who nurse in a similar pattern to the one I do (nursing on demand).

    Maybe it is more of a mental block? I don’t know. It seems more likely that if she had a vaginal birth that she might have problems down there what with a possible episiotomy, tears, inept doctors or a doc giving his best shot to remedy a shoulder dystocia or the like. I could be wrong.

  25. p3rp3tu4 says:

    She doesn’t have a filter, that is refreshing. She loves sports so I am sure she will try her best to get in the shape she wishes. 🙂

    Idk how women sleep with a baby in there kicking around?

  26. sad clown says:

    if my hair looked like her does in this foto? i couldnt come either! gawd!

  27. Dani says:

    I don’t see anything wrong with her wearing that dress. You don’t have to be a size 0 to wear a dress like that, her weight there is fine. Infact, to me she looks better than before the baby. Theres a possibility it was meant as a “that dress is ugly comment” but imo I don’t think thats how it was meant, though.

    *shakes head*

  28. Saggy says:

    Gee…She’d hate to be me, with my 41 year-old saggy G’s. She is young and pretty. She’ll bounce back.

  29. DrM says:

    I like Kendra…and I think the fact that she’s willing to admit to having to make adjustments to all areas of her life, sex included, is actually helpful to other young women. I had similar trouble after my second child was born and yes it does fix itself. It would have made me feel less like a freak if I thought anyone else had ever gone through it as well…If Kendra had lost all her weight really quickly and was going on about how ‘easy’ it all was she’d then be criticised for setting a ‘bad’ unhealthy example for other women…girl can’t win.

  30. princess pea says:

    I have no respect for young women who need information about pregnancy and babies and have to get it from Kendra in US Weekly and People. There are excellent books out there, many of them are even (ghost)written by celebrities. So even the shallowest airhead who needs to hear it from someone pretty and famous can get that information without the pages of a supermarket tabloid. Seriously, we don’t advocate believing Brange stories in the tabs, WHY would that be a reputable source for biology lesson?

    http://lmgtfy.com/?q=books+about+pregnancy

  31. DIANE says:

    Who the heck is this person? My guess would be a cousin of Heidi Montag. If she can only get press by talking about orgasms…maybe she oughta try adult films. I’d bet she’s more than qualified to play that role.

  32. mouth.like.a.sailor says:

    hey, i totally understand how she feels……. i went through the exact same thing after having my first child… i had been a 1/2 my whole life, never weighed over 110lbs ever, i was just naturally thin. but then i had a baby and the weight just STAYED. and STAYED. and STAYED> and even when i thought i was losing weight i still weighed 140lbs, which is a HUGE difference when you are 5’2 and used to weighing 100lbs, like her. and i also couldn’t have an orgasm, it was really weird and i didn’t enjoy having sex and it SUCKED. i was so thrown out of whack, i didnt know which way was up or down or forwards or backwards, all i knew is how much i loved that baby and how much i loved being a mom. it was incredibly conflicting.

    i think it’s good that she talks about this stuff because nobody else does, not even 5yrs ago when i had my first child….no one else really talked about this stuff AT ALL so i had no idea if it was normal or weird or if should see a doctor or just wait it out or whatever. i think there is a whole new generation of young girls having babies and their point of reference for what is ok or not ok is girls like her and the kardashian and whoever else.

  33. mb says:

    honestly, if you were offered a million dollars, to look hot, and barely sleep with an old man, have the opportunity to see the world, do something out of the fucking box, YOU WOULD.

    she’s hot. she has a big heart. she’s had a very exciting life that we all dream of-not necessary sleeping with an old man, but shit, that nasty sex once a month would be worth it. just pretend he’s someone else.

    i gained 15 lbs when i started college, & it’s hard to deal with. i feel gross and unhappy. also unhappy because i moved far away from home. no matter what this weight wont come off! and even though i’m only 145 now, girls have called me fat. wtf is this world coming to? i shouldn’t have to be judged. neither should she. she’s not fat, i’m not fat. but if we have a lil junk in the trunk we are looked at different. fuck you guys!

  34. nene says:

    U haters r just stupid and dumb,kendra is d best,hw many teeneger can hv a past rough life abd turn out to be a woman happily married wit a kid,she had a filthy past I agree bt d fact she’s willin to share dat wit d public shows hw much she regret n is willing to change.