UH! I leave for like 30 minutes to go buy vodka and bananas (breakfast of champions) and that’s the exact moment when Jesse “Douche Supreme” James decides to make his big apology. Let’s see what we’ve got here…Jesse’s statement, given to People Magazine: “”The vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded. Beyond that, I will not dignify these private matters with any further public comment. There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way. This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.” Um… so, I think he’s saying that he cheated, but not in the way Bombshell is saying…? Sorry, I don’t speak Lying Womanizing Douche. Here’s a bit more from Fox News:
Jesse James apologized to his wife Sandra Bullock and his children Thursday amid rumors that he was cheating on her for months with a fetish model.
James denied the “vast majority” of the “unfounded” rumors against him in a statement released to People magazine, but acknowledged that he was to blame for the situation.
“It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way,” he said. “”This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.”
The apology comes on the heels of a tough week for Bullock. Instead of traveling to England with her The Blind Side co-stars for a celebratory bash and the film’s Brit premiere, the Oscar-winning actress is embroiled in a cheating scandal thanks to James.
Friends who have known the couple for years tell Fox 411 that the doting husband we’ve been seeing at awards shows is only one half of the man Sandra, 45, married in 2005.
“Jesse can be a very loving, protective and committed man. He cares about Sandra and would often feel like her personal protector, but he can turn on a dime on a person and be extremely angry and nasty if he is in a bad mood,” a source tells Fox411. “He has a strong temper. I’ve seen him yell at young girls in their twenties who were at events to talk to Sandra. He can swear and cut people down in an instant – it’s very intimidating and threatening. He is scary when he lashes out at someone.”
In the face of his wife’s charmed year as Hollywood’s darling actress, James grew increasingly uncomfortable with her burgeoning fame.
“Jesse hates being in the public eye and it made him even more uncomfortable and easily upset,” the source said. “He refused to divulge a detail of his personal life and it seemed like it was because he wanted to keep Sandra out of excess limelight, but now it looks like practice for keeping his own life completely hidden and shuttered.”
“When Sandra and Jesse were first married, they did everything together. He attended events and dinners with her and wanted to be by her side at all times. He would hang back quietly and keep to himself or investigate what she would have to do next and make sure he approved before she had to do it. He was VERY involved in her every move. Over the last two years, they’ve been apart more and the almost abnormal closeness they once shared had dissipated.”
[From Fox News]
You know what I kind of like about Jesse’s statement? That he’s not fake-groveling, or showing off an exhibitionist’s flare for the dramatic tell-all apology. That’s the only nice thing I can say about it. Because it’s basically a non-denial denial, a whiff of p.r. smoke. He’s apologizing publicly for private actions that he won’t confirm or deny he engaged in. Mindf-ck.
I really think Sandra has left him for good. But, considering there are kids involved, I think Sandy and Jesse will be talking, and I’m preparing myself for reports about how they’re “working through some sh-t” et cetera. But I think their marriage is over. Poor Sandy. Sandy, if you want to come to Virgina, I’ll draw a bath for you and I’ll roast you a nice chicken.
Jesse is still wearing his wedding band too:
At least we didn’t have to wait as long as we did for Mr. Woods; however, he did go the “watered down” route.
is ‘poor judgment’ his pet name for his peen?
It’s true!!! disgusting, I don’t know much about this idiot, ( the image says it all IMO), but when I saw him in the Apprentice I thought he was as dumb as a sack of rocks. Sandy what were you thinking?
I’ve been thinking about that a lot, Heaven, and I really do think Sandy was dickmatized. I think the sex was really great, and she built the relationship from there.
@tiki:
um no, I believe it’s ‘vanilla gorilla’. hahaha
and furthermore, did douche mcdouche pants take off his ring for the alleged trysts, or did the mistress just overlook that?
Maybe she will come to Virginia…after all, she is from there originally!
I’ll say this for him, that’s the most heartfelt apology I’ve read from a dude who cheated on his wife.
What a Tiger Woods-ian “apology”. He’s “saddened” that he did this?
Well I’m positively disgusted and outraged, Jesse, so you’d better come up with a better apology than THIS.
I would also imagine that they will at least keep talking. The kids are not hers biologically, but she has been treating them as her own for years and she does technically have custody of Sunny, right?
If he did nothing then what is he apologizing for. Please don’t tell me the next bs out of his mouth will be that he is apologizing for “knowing/associating” with someone like Michelle Bombshell, but that he never “slept” with her. Or maybe there was no sex, only sexting? LOL. Sexting is the most idiotic term ever.
I find his apology to be, in resume, a way to say: “I messed up, but this is a private matter and you don’t have a right to know about it! However, I’m still issuing an apology because I need to have a good public image during the divorce proceedings/for my show/for any future professional endeavours I may take in the future. So, there you go! Done and dusted!”
First of all, I have to wonder what it is that Sandra Bullock saw in him. He looks like a washed up old pimp.
Second, if you had told me that he had cheated on Sandra with, let’s say, Doutzen Kroes, I would understand it (not on her part, though: he looks positively repulsive). However, have you seen the bizarre creature he was sleeping around with?!?!?!!! God, some men really have no taste.
Anyway, this is sad because it is always unpleasant to watch someone having their heart broken. Still, cheating happens every day and we shouldn’t be surprised that celebrities and semi-celebrities do it. After all, they have more opportunities. Also, I suppose that they end up believing their own hype and think that people want them because they are irresistible, and not because of their fame…
Oh well, let’s see. Who’s gonna be next?
Well, at least he isn’t blaming sexaddiction…but a sleezy douchbag non the less ofcourse
I realize that I don’t know Sandra Bullock personally but I cannot help but feel so heartbroken for her. Regardless of what many commenters think of the reason Sandra was with Jesse in the first place, the reality is that she felt very strongly for him, married him, fought like hell on his side for the best interest of his children and is now devastated by this news.
I’m sending my positive thoughts out to Sandy B. and I hope she finds peace and happiness in the near future.
*but he’s a sleezy douchbag – ugh, I need more coffee
Ugghh, I hate this guy. Poor Sandy–just when she should be celebrating her big win–wham-O! I feel SO BAD for her. She doesn’t deserve this (even if it was bad judgment to date this guy in the first place). I wish her the best!
Please his apology is more genuine than Tiger’s? Are you kidding me, he said nothing, just confirming sort of, what has already been reported.
He is not better, if anything he is worse, because his kids have only know stability since he has been with Sandra.
Like Tiger, he is truly sorry he got caught, nothing more. Now he may be realizing just how stupid his actions were. Not buying it.
This pisses me off so much. What the hell. When I watched Jesse on Celebrity Apprentice, I rooted for him all the way through because he seemed like such a nice guy. Guess you can’t make character judgments about people from just watching them on TV. Also, it angers me even more because Sandra thanked her disgusting husband during her Oscar speech. What a useless man.
Dickmatized? Good call, I say.
You know, teachers should be teaching girls what that is all about in high schools THE WORLD OVER. I know I wish I had been taught that before getting involved with some of the guys I dated.
If he was uncomfortable with having the spotlight on his private life before, then I’m sure he’s having a terrific time now. He couldn’t even take his kids to school without being swarmed by paparazzi. He had to apologize quickly or it would have been worse and worse. But I’ll keep my delusional goggles on and hope (ala Clinton) that it was bad judgement and not the Vanilla Gorilla making an appearance.
I still don’t believe half of what ‘the bombshell’ *ugh* says. Think it’s half truths and her actions/words are contrived and well planned. Doesn’t make it suck any less tho. : (
On the sad, but funny note, I’ve been noting on other sites that Tiger Woods has become a verb, as in “he Tiger Woods himself,” or some such thing…
Whats in the water? every day its a new couple. I love Sandra, but ive been reading on other blogs that she got with Jesse when he was still married and his ex-wife was pregnant,can anyone confirm this? I hope that’s not true because if it is ………….
Oh please, his apology is exactly on the same dipsh*t level as Tigers. He gets no props. They ALL claim “sorry” after the fact. Why not think about how sorry of an act that is to do to someone BEFORE doing it. The same goes for cheating women.
What’s so hard about saying “I like tatooed sex freaks instead of the girl next door type.” why try to have both when he can’t be honest to both? Because these lame a$$ public “I’m sorry” apologies are just that. If anything he should have said that to Sandra in private… Before In Touch and his mistress got ahold of his nuts and gVe ’em a twist
Kaiser – You are so right. I love the “dickmatized”. I love Sandy so I hope she is well. If I were her I would have done the London premiere and not give this goat any credit to my life.
And as my mom always said to me when I got in trouble. Are you sorry or sorry you got caught. Why are they never sorry enough not to do it. Didn’t he know that would hurt Sandy?
Someone’s been reading other blogs again.
Skanky Ho Bag got paid $30K to sell the story to In Touch.
He is only sad he got caught.
Same with Tiger.
Well, I think he issued a statement (or his people did) because if he didn’t everyone would be screaming for him to. I’ve read that on this site, something like “why doesn’t he just release a statement?”
He’s still a total douche. And his choice of mistress…yuck.
I don’t like it. Sounds to me like he’s still waiting to see what he can get away with lying about, and not like he’s only attempting to maintain a modicum of privacy. Doesn’t do it for me, hope it never does it for Sandra. She seems as if she genuinely deserves much better than that.
I’m obviously in the minority here, but I’m not so sure he slept with her. B*tch is crazy and apparently has a history of making false allegations about sleeping with married men. He may have communicated with her or met her, but I think there’s a lot we don’t know about here.
I do feel terrible for Sandy and the kids, but I’ll reserve my judgement for when(if ever) we know more.
“Jesse hates being in the public eye and it made him even more uncomfortable and easily upset”
Bull! He has his own tv show. What a crock.
“I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me” – UGH. The worst, most insincere, trite “apology” ever. Couldn’t get more cliché than that.
“Poor Judgment”- my fanny. Poor judgment is when you spend $200.00 on a pair of $20.00 shoes. You can’t call it poor judgment when you crawl in bed with another woman when you are married and have children. It’s nothing but being completely selfish.
I hate to bring this up, but this is about par for the course. If the wife/gf is away for extended periods of time, that’s usually going to be a problem and the husband/bf little head is going to start doing the thinking. Add fame to the mix and it’s really really hard for these men..and women..to have a faithful marriage. He is sorry he got caught. If you are going to be a tramp, be a smart one. I cannot believe tramps who send text messages, why not just send a trackable email? And what good tramp leaves a message on a phone?? There needs to be a new Learning Annex class, How Not to Become a Stupid Ho. As I have mentioned, they live near me, and no I don’t know them well by any means, but they are both nice people and the worst part of cheating is not the sex, it’s the betrayal of trust. In what should be one of the best months of her life, for this to happen, I truly feel so sorry for her. Jesse, you stupid ho.
aw i was so hoping this wasn’t true. poor sandra bullock. obviously i don’t know her but she seems so nice in interviews and i really like her in all her movies. poor lady.
But they cheat! All men living are either cheating or will eventually cheat on their wives/girlfriends, why cant women understand that? There is simply not a man who can be faithfull.
@ CB Rawks: it’s true that he has his own show but think about how totally different it would be to be getting all the love and praise in a forum that you prepared for and have control over, versus the equivalent of having rotten eggs thrown at you over and over again by most of the country and not even being able to hide from it at home.
There’s really not any way that it can’t completely suck.
Hey, Slymm….. you okay? Something you maybe wanna talk about?
I’m sure the “addiction” claim is forthcoming, followed by “rehab” in some form or another.
I’m heartbroken for her too. She seems so genuine and nice, and it really stinks.
I just don’t get how he did this to her, after everything she did for his kids. I hope she can still be a parent for the kids, because clearly their dad is an a-hole.
@ Katalina76 –
No, you’re not alone. I agree with you. I don’t simply think Jesse was being evasive; I think that the skanky skeeze is elaborating, embellishing, whatever you want to call it, to make her story more interesting (albeit not necessarily more believable) and to make herself more money.
On a separate note, if Jesse didn’t actually cheat, public sentiment will probably keep Sandra from trying to work it out with him, even if she decides she wants to.
@ Hum –
It’s not what’s in the water, it’s what’s in men’s pants that’s the problem.
@#34 (sorry can’t read your name)
i agree. I think cheating is VERY common even for “normal” couples. For celebs, I think it’s par for the course.
I never know why people are shocked by it.
To humiliate someone by going public though? THAT seems to be a very trendy new low, these days.
Bad judgement? He consciously decided to cheat. It’s not like he chose the chocolate brown towels when he should’ve gotten the blue ones. Sheesh! I hope that Sandra will be okay, cos she really did love him.
And of course he’s going to be wearing his ring still. He thinks she’s going to forgive him and act like nothing ever happened. I hope he’s wrong. Don’t be an Elin, Sandra. (Unless Elin is just milking Tiger for everything he has before she divorces him.) This is so sad for her. As for tarnishing her Oscar win, I think the things should be separate. She was going on the info she had at the time, and she deserved to win. He’s the one who sleazed it up after the fact.
That seems honest to me. I imagine it was brushed a lil by the PR guy, but I hear him in there meaning it.
She should go to Virginia, at least for the Banana Vodka breakfasts. I totally would.
Somewhere in Florida, Tiger Woods has one hell of a smile on his face.
for why!!!!!! i swear i just dont understand why men want to dip their tools in some walking petri dish? its so beyond disgusting, and disrespect, endangering your partner to god knows what kind of disease is another form of abuse.
Damn! I did not want this to be true. Sandy needs a bunch of us to show up at her house with snacks, drinks and a cache of weapons. We’ll figure out the details later. Damn!!!
Sandra doesn’t deserve this. He is such an idiot.
Translation: I’m sorry that I can’t fool you anymore into believing I’m a good guy, and that you no longer worship me. I’m mostly sorry about being caught.
boooo 🙁
I feel so sorry for Sandy because she was always gushing about her husband, she wanted to believe that his past didn’t matter that he wasn’t that man anymore. Let this be a lesson to women everywhere, do not marry a man who likes to date and marry porn stars, date him all you want but don’t think your going to change his ways. If Jesse was truly sorry about everything he would have confessed this to Sandy before it ended up in a tabloid, his only sorry he was caught!!
You know, I wonder how people even continue to be in relationships if they expect cheating or aren’t surprised when someone cheats on them.
If you don’t think you can trust a man to keep it in his pants, don’t marry him.
If you think he can, and he ends up doing it anyway, you have every right to be shocked, pissed, annoyed, and downright disgusted.
Same goes for women who cheat.
Novarean, EXACTLY!
Since when is he shy? Didn’t he have his own tv show pimping his ugly motorbikes?
Well when you engage in an affair with a married man, yourself, do you really think in the end that he won’t cheat on you?
Jesse and Sandy were having an affair while he was still married to Janine, and she was pregnant to boot!
Ridiculous thinking among these women who think they can change a cheater!
Remember, if you get him that way, you’re going to lose him the same way!
Most men are lead around by the “little guy”. And most men cheat. I used to travel with many guys and they had the “300 mile rule”. Which means, if you’re 300 miles from home, it isn’t cheating. I used to think that was really funny until i realized that they really believed it.
He’s sorry that he caught cheating. Nothing more and nothing less.
@cletus, honey i am very fine thank you, and no there isn’t a thing i want to talk about! I just stated the facts as they are. Every average man is cheating or will cheat, how much more a famous man!
if you notice, men who marry outside their leauge usually cheat with the most loser skanks available. why? because they are despearate and needy enough to constantly feed their ego. intelligent women with class refuse to play those grade school games.
i thought maybe the apology meant that he “only” did the out of line sexting, but didnt actually physically cheat. but i can be really naive sometimes.
JESSE YOU ARE A POOR EXCUSE OF A MAN! YOU HAD A GOOD WIFE WHO HELP YOU THRU YOUR COURT FIGHT WITH YOUR EX AND THIS HOW YOU PAID SANDRA BACK BY MAKING A FOOL OF HER. SANDRA YOU HAVE FAN WHO LOVE YOU. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH YOU WILL GET THRU THIS. FROM 1 OF MILLION OF YOU FANS
Um…Slymm27:….that’s just sad, dude…and not at all true. I’m sorry you believe that it is.
This just blows…Sandy just seems like the coolest woman in the world.
Sorry about the double post. Please delete this one.
What an asshole this guy is. I feel sympathy pains for Sandy and the kids. He hates the paps, then he should’ve kept his stuff out of the skanks. Now he’s getting what he deserves but dragging innocent folks in with him. Hang in there, Sandy, you deserve a great guy and I hope you find one. Wasn’t he married to a porn star previously? That should be a red flag right there. What a tool. Idiots like him seem to think they won’t get caught? I didn’t see the Apprentice show, but he must be dumber than a box of rocks.
Oh, my… I’m reading this everywhere right now and I can’t believe it! He looked like a decent guy…
What surprises me the most is that he cheated on Sandra with a trashy “feminine” version of Marilyn Manson… How stupid could he possibly be?
I hate cheaters, but at least he has had the decency to apologize.
I don’t think it is any of our business what he did, especially not gory details. But he better be giving her chapter and verse.
I also think he woke up and realized really fast that he was in deep doodoo, with this all over the internet. I don’t know what she’s going to do, but if they end up back together, it will be partially because of Sunny. Also, he’s got a lot of work ahead of him and has to show a willingness to do what it takes to win her back.
he is a dog –
@Slymm27 – I’m sorry that the only men you’ve ever known are worthless douchebags. There ARE good men out there. I know because I’ve got one myself.
When will people understand that generalizations simply aren’t true? “All men are cheaters” is the equivalent of “All black people are criminals” or “All women are golddiggers” or any other broad sweep like that. It’s shameful.
59.sandra:
March 18th, 2010 at 7:43 pm if you notice, men who marry outside their leauge usually cheat with the most loser skanks available. why? because they are despearate and needy enough to constantly feed their ego. intelligent women with class refuse to play those grade school games.
AMEN TO THAT SISTAH!! I HAVE HAD IT DONE TO ME WITH 2 BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN… I TOOK MINE BACK.. IF THE WORLD ONLY KNEW..
I don’t like that this story is getting so much time. I guess because I like Sandra Bullock so much. It’s on ET and the other entertainment shows talking about the “other woman” which is exactly what the ho was hoping for in the first place. She is going to milk this for all it is worth and probably make a fortune selling her story and pictures. (You know how some shows say they are not paying for interviews but then they pay for pictures and videos.) Anyway, it seems like these shows are tearing Sandy down in the process by replaying her speeches, interviews, etc. in which she talks about Jesse.
It’s bad enough to find out your spouse is cheating but then have it all over the news and internet. That would be too much for me! (Yes, I know that I don’t get paid the big bucks and live the life they do.) I wonder why Jesse, Sandy, or their people didn’t pay her off. Or, make an arrangement with In Touch.
To ME: It’s not about the fact he cheated.
It’s about the fact that without Sandy, Mr. Bandito wouldn’t have custody of his 3 kids. She JUST made a touching public appearance where won a HUGE award. So what’s this douche do?
Repay Sandy’s carefully organized lifestyle with a DISGUSTINGLY pitiful looking WP-Nazi-Loving skank who’s More than Ready for her close-up media strip search.
Appalling behaviour for any human being.
(I still reserve my right to believe Janine has something to do with this!)
Because Sandra didnt know about it, I have been there DONE THAT! Sandra is too moral to “Pay People Off”.. not her style.
I feel bad for Sunny. It would be nice if Sandy got together with Liam Neeson and took Sunny with her.
““Jesse can be a very loving, protective and committed man. He cares about Sandra and would often feel like her personal protector, but he can turn on a dime on a person and be extremely angry and nasty if he is in a bad mood,” a source tells Fox411. “He has a strong temper…He can swear and cut people down in an instant – it’s very intimidating and threatening. He is scary when he lashes out at someone.”
Wow, this SO describes an ex of mine I spent WAY too much time with before coming to my senses. And the reason it took so long? Dick.ma.tized. To an extent I previously would not have believed possible.
Feel so sorry for SB, just on a human level. I would be beside myself in her position, just falling apart. And this is twice as bad, because he didn’t just screw over his wife, he screwed over his OWN CHILD (he must have known what would happen if his wife found out, and he must have known that wouldn’t be good news for his kid’s relationship with her).
I totally believe he slept with her. The fact that he’s being cagey in the apology is PR – if he hadn’t slept with her, lawsuits would have been threatened as soon as this tory broke. No way is he innocent with how this has played out.
So, so sad.
I loved her Oscar speech and when she referred to him all choked up and he was tearing up too. Now I can’t help wonder if he was tearing up because he was thinking about how he cheated on her while she made the movie she just won the award for. Probably not, because that would mean he was feeling remorseful.
On an unrelated note, that shadow on Sandy’s chest in the bottom photo creates a funky illusion she has a cave on her belly.
Reading through all the posts & comments these last few days, I need to get some things off my chest:
1. Feeling so sorry for poor Sandra:
I am not. So far, she has yet again demonstrated her poise and grace in dealing with the situation. I’d wager the International outpour of pity is not something she’d appreciate so much.
2. Their marriage (that nobody could fathom in the first place) is now over:
We’ll see. I’m sure she did not go into this marriage a naive blushing High school girl, so they might be able to overcome this. Personnally, I wouldn’t lose one iota of respect for her in that case.
3. We mostly feel for the daughter:
Please! If I want to try to relate to somebody in this scenario, it’s not a 5 y/o who I’ve only ever seen in 2 grainy photos. Sorry, all I care about is Sandra Bullock. If caring is even the right word…
4. She got ‘dickmatized’as the only explanation for her marriage:
Besides the fact that MichaelK can hardly pull this word off… I find it ultimately insulting. So, Sandra let go off her rational thinking because the humping with this guy was so great? Let’s give her a little credit here, for making her choices more wisely, ok?
Ugh. I seem to always end up in long rants on this site. Sorry for that, I guess…
His first wife was a cracked out porn star. He’s just into that.
Sandra, you’re so much better than him. I’ll fix you up!
the saddest thing about all of this is that sandra just received the highest honor possible in acting and just a couple weeks later she finds out the person she loves betrayed her.
from such a high to such a low.
i was never a fan of her acting, but i truly feel for her and hope she gets through this.
she seems like a very strong (and extremely nice) person, i hope she doesn’t go back to him…
How dare Jesse take Sandra’s heartfelt acceptance speeches and turn them into cannon fodder to be used against her on TV and the internet all over the world. I can’t blaspheme him enough.
Go To Hell Jesse. Your PR apology is useless. G*D D*mn Bill Clinton and Jesse Jackson for cultivating this strategy for sleazy men to use, almost verbatim, when they are caught out. Next thing you know Jesse will be in counsel with his personal clergy type person. It would also be funny if said clergy was a Baby Daddy like Jesse Jackson and using monies from a “non profit” to support his Baby Momma.
Sleazy, sleazy, greasy, grimy men and the Ho Bags that screw them.
I should have saved my fingers and just typed – Bill Clinton 101.
But Sandra is no Hillary, Thank God!!
Elin, Sandy, find Lorena Bobbitt on facebook and sharpen your scissors girls.
My momma always told me…once a cheater, always a cheater.
Run Sandy…run!
The skank probably went public with the news now because she was envious seeing Sandra win the Oscar. She wanted to get even.
Poor Sandra, she´s so lovely and classy.
She didn´t deserve this. I knew I didn´t really like that man for her and that he wasn´t good for her, she´s too much woman for him.
Why are people suprised about this? He is a grown man over 25 and no longer able to change his ways. Maybe he wanted to at the beginning of the relationship but it takes a person with a very strong character to be able to do so. If this was the case, he would have changed for the better a long time ago. Wanting something against all odds works only in the movies.
Most if not all of my friends are men. I’m a big tomboy and my best friend has been the boy nextdoor for the last 28 years.
haribo “He is a grown man over 25 and no longer able to change his ways.”
I would say most if not all of my friends have a cheating past…middle school,high school, university and presently….but I know for a fact that now in our mid 30’s/40’s there is a sharp decline in the amount of cheating.
They sowed their wild oats young and then grew the F up! The ones who still cheat are immature(Beer pong/fake tans/obscene amounts of hair gel)…and I know this and still love them because they dont cheat on me (friend remember)
I had hoped, like most people did that JJ had reached this point of maturity!
This guy has been married twice before and too a porn star. What made marriage to him a good thing. It’s just sad. People just want to do what they want to do at the time. Sanda and Jesse are just two different type of people. Who should have of never gotten together. I am sorry I didn’t see what she saw in him, from the very beginning. He got a whole lot more then he gave to her. (In the marriage) I am sorry she got hurt, but she will get over it and move on. I just wish women would stop being so needy for a guy. Just to have a guy in their life. Be secure in who you are first. Be happy with yourself. If you are single, attractive and rich. Do better than a twice divorced biker dude, with an ex-porn star as an ex-wife
You get what you get when you marry it.
I use guy, because he is not a man. A real man wouldn’t do something stupid like this. A real man would not disrespect his wife and children, so this guy that Sandra is married too, should get every bad thing that comes his way.
There are an awful lot of celeb couples breaking up.. and the rags are missing all of it. I think ITW had this story for some time and held it. I guess they wanted the BANG for after the Oscars. The sad thing is how she was going on and on about how wonderful he was and how great their relationship was. This hit her out of the dark. From some of the reports I have seen they had spend a lot of time away from each other when she was filming.. and I didn’t know they lived in LA.. I always thought they lived somewhere else. That bit was news to me.. Plus if the woman’s claim of them having a shame marriage and that it was just for PR.. that is a bit sick..
Well maybe the Rags should widen their scope.. focus on other couples then the usual one or two that the put on EVERY single week.. A lot of men/women in hollywood have been going wild under the radar.. mainly because the rags focus on just a select few people.. Which I note they have been wrong about.. But man look at all the real crap that is actually out there. Sandy is a strong woman. I can imagine she is a bit beaten.. but not broken. It must be hard to know that you did not know the person you loved. Sad.. but I don’t pity her. She knows the truth and now she can make a better choice. I don’t see her milking the public pity. She just needs time. I hope she can get through this..
I still don’t understand why these women like to run to the tabloids and vomit all the nasty details of their affairs with married men? It certainly does not make them look good and if they are hoping it will make the man they slept with come running to them and they will live happily ever after, fat chance. When you look at all the married male celebrities or politicians who had affairs many of them stay married or if they do get divorced they do not end up with their mistress long term. Enjoy your fifteen minutes honey, you will soon be back in the gutter with the rest of the trashy w#%@es. You will be in good company.
Nice, thoughtful post, katyalia. I agree. 🙂
My first reaction was to feel awful for her (and I still do to a certain extent), but then I thought, you know, she’s a gorgeous, smart woman with tons of friends and she can make her own choices without anyone feeling sorry for her – and I don’t think she’d appreciate this nationwide wave of pity she’s getting.
And the rest of what you said, too…
Sandra’s no fool. She’s never striked me as some needy, desparate to get married type like Jennifer Love Hewitt. I think she probably thought long and hard about Jesse’s past before she married him.
She’s a smart, strong woman. She’ll get through this just fine.
He knew what he was getting into when he married a movie star so I don’t fall for that “I don’t like being in the public eye” crap!!
Irishserra, these “boys” don’t owe us an apologie only their families. I do think Sandra is last person who deserves this king of humiliation and heartbreak. Altough it is good she found out I don’t think I could ever by an In Touch magazine again for being so insensitive to such a lovely human being.
A leopard never changes their spots. She knew he was white trash when she married him. What did she expect, when she stayed away so long with her career? He used her.
If JJ doesn’t like being in the public eye, why did he sign on for multiple reality shows and marry a high profile actress? B*tch, please.
Well Jesse, too late to be sorry! In general, Men are such jerks, they don’t know how to appreciate a good woman when they have one and when they lose one, they go about crying like babies. Good for Sandra, she knows what she wants and it ain’t YOU.
What a great post my friend. I am a facebook fan and mostly spend my time playing some facebook games and just chatting out with my colleages. Surely, there are so many ways we can use facebook and I really love using it. I hope they have something more new to come for all of us.