Radar: Sandra Bullock has made up her mind and will proceed with divorce

Sandra Bullock, dressed down in her workout clothes, carries Sunny while picking up her stepchildren from school
Radar Online claims to have an exclusive that Sandra Bullock has decided to divorce her cheating husband, Jesse James, and has taken steps to move forward with a divorce. Radar has close ties to the National Enquirer and both publications have consistently solid scoops, so I’m hoping this is true. (The Enquirer broke the story of Tiger Woods cheating and I’m surprised they weren’t the first with this scandal.) They reportedly have a source who says that “[Sandra has] had enough. She’s ending the marriage.” Radar also reports that Bullock is “humiliated and feels that her entire marriage was one big lie.”

A source close to the couple says she has made up her mind and already taken steps toward obtaining a divorce.

As more and more women come forward claiming affairs with the West Coast Choppers star, sources tell RadarOnline.com that Sandra is humiliated and feels that her entire marriage was one big lie. So far four women have been named as cheating with Jesse.

And as RadarOnline.com breaks the exclusive news that Sandra has decided to divorce, her rep told People that Sanda is not considering adopting Jesse’s daughter Sunny “nor have there ever been any plans for Sandra to adopt any of Jesse’s children.”

As RadarOnline.com exclusively reported, Sandra left her Hollywood Hills home Monday for an undisclosed location. The Blind Side Oscar winner has been continuously moving around and staying out of public as she figure out what she wanted to do about her marriage.

A source close to the situation tells RadarOnline.com that Sandra has made the decision to pull the plug on the marriage. “She’s had enough,” the source said. “She’s ending the marriage.”

[From Radar Online]

I hope this is true, but it’s not like it’s a triumph or anything. It’s just freaking sad. It’s sad that this man child cheated on this gorgeous successful woman with a string of tramps and it’s sad that she had to find out during what should have been the pinnacle of her career. It’s also sad that she may lose contact with the children she’s helped raise for five years, James’ three children from his other two marriages.

There’s still the issue of whether Bullock knew that James was a white supremacist who collected Nazi memorabilia. Given how much America’s sweetheart has had to deal with there aren’t a lot of outlets who are willing to question how much she knew. I’m thinking if she files for divorce sooner rather than later, she’ll be able to nip that question in the bud. I’m also still on Bullock’s side and believe if her husband was able to hide his skanks from her he surely could have hidden his more extreme racism. (Not all of it, but she might not have known the extent of it.)

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  1. Rianna says:

    Color me suprised…

  2. nAynAy says:

    Good, she needs to dump his ass toot sweet, and then get herself tested. I mean, have you seen those home-wrecking whores that he’s been with…

  3. Eileen Yover says:

    I know there will be posts on here saying you can’t say for sure that she didn’t know he was cheating and maybe they had an open marriage, blah blah blah…

    But I definitely think she did NOT know and is seriously devastated. If they had an open marriage than why didn’t JJ tell his skank that when he was hooking up instead of saying what he said?
    She just isn’t the type to mess around like that. She’s a Texas girl like me and we Texans don’t share our men. Period.

  4. bellaluna says:

    Sandra isn’t “ending the marriage.” Jesse did that all by his lonesome when he made the decision to cheat on her not once, but multiple times and with multiple women. Sandra’s accepted that the marriage is already ended, and is doing her best to separate herself from this shithead, heal, and move on with her life.

  5. Sad. So sad. I wanted it to work out. I don’t know why. I’m hopeless.

  6. K-MAC says:

    you’d be amazed at what people can hide if they want to….even if she had hints of things (the affairs, racism) she more than likely had no clue as to the depths. Look at her Oscar speech, she discussed how there was no race, religion, creed, sexual orientation that made another person better than the other….this woman had no idea what her husband was up to and I am hopeful that she divorces him, but I agree, it is not like this is a major victory. This is tragic, sad, and now been reduced to a cliche. She sure did not want to do this, but it seems like there are not a lot of choices here…..she can hold her head high and move on. Sandra Bullock deserves to have so much more than this joke of a man she shared the last 5 years of her life with.

  7. Hey, but maybe she’ll come play for my team! Sandy you are welcome, but they come is asshole over on this side to so be careful! xoxoxo

  8. Lori says:

    What the hell is wrong with you Jessie James? Sandra is so amazing to me.

  9. Feebee says:

    Poor Sandy. Hopeful a divorce will set her on the path to getting her life back on track. Lots of heartache to go yet. Hope it doesn’t get too much worse before it gets better for her.

  10. iheartlasagne says:

    I know this is completely unnecessary and annoying, but its tout de suite, not toot sweet, for crying out loud. If you’re going to use a foreign phrase just google it or whatever, please…Also hope Sandra can recover from this mess. Hope that so much of this is being overblown by the tabloids.

  11. kelbear says:

    We hear stories of celebs divorcing/cheating/breaking up pretty often. But this one truly is the saddest to me. I can only hope that she can recover from this somehow and keep her head up.

  12. Maddie says:

    For all those who think she knew, think of the women who were married to serial killers, none of them knew, what there husbands were doing, neither did other family members.

    BTK comes to mind as he was involved with his church and was caught when he sent, an email and DVD or CD from his church copier/fax machine.

    Now those wives were with their husband where as Bullock was away making movies, not there 24/7.

    I hope this is true and she does leave his skanky loving a**, what a skeeze he is, I feel for those kids because you have to know that they are being picked on at school because of their father.

  13. lucy2 says:

    I agree, bellaluna, Jesse’s the one who ended that marriage.
    I really don’t think she knew either, and agree it’s possible for people to hide things, even major things. Especially when you consider that she did 2 really big films in the past two years, and then all the award show stuff, she was away a lot and very busy. He took full advantage of that, I bet.

  14. teri says:

    Sandra stay strong girl. I know she will never bash him because she loves Sunny to much. She doesn’t want this to turn into a five year pity party. I don’t know why some guys are so stupid not to be upfront and honest. Jen may have been devestated but Brad was upfront and honest. I give him credit.

  15. Kim says:

    This is a lesson you can’t turn a Porn Star dating, stripper dating,Bay boy into a good boy. Her friends tried to warn her. I just watched the E news special on her. I also learned that she lost her mother and survived a plane crash in 2000. She was still grieving I think

  16. lastwordlinda says:

    @iheartlasagne: I agree with you about the foreign phrase thing. I don’t think some people even know it’s a foreign phrase. Like voila. I have seen people print it or say it as wahla?!?! And then there’s the whole thing where someone says the lightbulb went off in their head (instead of on) and that someone did a 360 (instead of a 180). But, I digress. This thread is about poor Sandra, not illiteracy and stupidity.

    “gorgeous, successful woman” and by all accounts a very nice person. He is a such a loser. I’m sure we’ll be hearing the words “sex addict” and “rehab” about him soon. I wonder where you go for rehab when you are a racist, antisemitic, hate-mongering a**hole. Is there actually a cure for that? The a**hole part, I mean.

  17. mins15 says:

    They people complaining about toot sweet obviously didn’t google it or they would have seen toot sweets is a song from chitty chitty bang bang.

  18. Sudini says:

    I don’t think it’s fair to assume someone is illiterate because they spell a foreign phrase phonetically. I often see that done intentionally, as a form of tongue-in-cheek rather than as a result of illiteracy. If that’s the case, then it’s likely more an issue of reading comprehension.

    Anywhizzle, I’m so glad to see Sandy get up and out of this situation. I pray for her that she heals from this and finds a more worthy person to share her life with.

  19. benny says:

    I think she was naive and didn’t know what he was really like. I don’t think she would have made that Oscar speech about race if she knew what her husband was really like. And I don’t think she would have made those comments about Tiger and Elin Woods if she had even an inkling her husband was cheating.

  20. Sincerity says:

    The sooner the better. Sandra Bullock deserves someone who’s passionately in love with her — not a pretender!!! Bombshell McGee did her a favor! Now Sandra can simply wash her hands of Jesse James along with his unsavory inclinations. Sunlight can not sweeten trash! Sandra Bullock can easily do much better.

  21. meme says:

    This story is so terrible. Sandra is 46 and thought she had the family she wanted. Now that douchebag has forced her to leave it all behind.

  22. juiceinla says:

    good. that is all.

  23. Uzi says:

    @Maddie…You are so right about how some people are able to hide things from their spouses, family members and close friends. And I would add that usually when a couple has an open marriage or one spouse knows that the other cheats there’s an unspoken agreement like “do what you want, just don’t embarrass me and/or don’t get caught.” So good riddance Jesse! GO TEAM SANDRA!

  24. Praise St. Angie! says:

    wow, teri, I’m impressed.

    you managed to not only bring Aniston into a thread that has nothing to do with her, you ALSO did it in a non-Jolie/Pitt thread.

    you’re getting better at the whole Brangeloonie thing, I guess.

    On topic…glad to see that Bullock is going to stand up for herself, but I can’t help but feel sorrow for poor little Sunny. She didn’t ask for nor does she deserve any of this.

  25. Huma says:

    Great. Now you jerks have “Toot Sweet” from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang stuck in my head. WAY TO GO I HOPE ONIONS FALL ON ALL OF YOUR HEADS.

    Also, bellaluna, well said. 🙂

  26. SandyFan says:

    Uh – the iron cross that’s the basis for his business logo is a universally-known Nazi symbol. It may have other associations (like motorcycles), but those are secondary; the iron cross is known the world over first and foremost as a Nazi icon. His surfboard with a portrait of Hitler is another little clue, as are the photos of him in Nazi regalia. He might well have hidden his cheating with other women, but the Nazi stuff was right in front of Sandra’s eyes.

  27. fantastica says:

    It’s not like she has a choice but to divorce him, she wouldnt have a fan left if she didnt so the public made the choice for her.

    People cant even begin to fathom america’s sweetheart knowing she is living with a nazi worshiper even though it was right in front of her face….Really not much of a compliment because it is saying she is really stupid.

  28. here we go says:

    I have yet to see any photos of Jesse in Nazi regalia or of this alleged surfboard. If they exist, they’ll eventually turn up. Until then, it’s best not to make assumptions, especially about what Sandra may or may not have known.

    That being said, it’s obvious that Jesse did cheat and Sandra deserves better. When she’s ready to move on, she will.

  29. fantastica says:

    I meant to say in last post that I think it is cool for Celebitchy to have the balls to actually post comments about whether she knew about the white supremecy thing or not. Regardless of the truth or what people want to be true, it is only right to air each side, so thanks.
    Some like Huffington post moderators wont even allow it to be a discussion. You must be fun to party with….and you have some depth, a truly exceptional and rare combination nowadays…

  30. nanster says:

    @lastwordlinda – freakin’ hilarious, but it needed to be said. I have often wondered if I’m the only person who notices that kind of stuff. 😉
    As for Jesse James, how he handles the next couple of weeks will definitely bring out his true colors. If he ever loved or respected Sandra at all, he will quietly give her her divorce and fade back into relative obscurity. Somehow, I just don’t see that happening.

  31. PJ says:

    For the sake of women all over the world, I hope she ditches him. Bullock is a role model for other abused wives who will hopefully be inspired by her courageous response to the situation.

    “Only” four women have come forward claiming to have had affairs with him, which means there are probably dozens more women who are keeping quiet. This is just the tip of a very ugly iceberg.

  32. Mrs. Rut says:

    I keep picturing Sandra laying in the bed grieving like Carrie did over Big in the movie. Watching that movie made me feel like her heart had been ripped out, and I can imagine that is how Sandra feels. Very sad….

  33. Mistral says:

    I just read the “toot sweet” thing as someone being cute. You know, anglicizing it…

    I don’t believe Sandra new about the Nazi stuff. I mean, how many of us know what our significant others keep at work–how many of us have even been there? You know? It is possible to keep stuff from the people you love…

  34. Cinderella says:

    He better not go after her money. He’s taken everything else from her, that asshole.

  35. Beth says:

    Good riddance Jesse. Sandra has always been too good for him.

  36. Whatever says:

    Yeah, I hope she has a no cheating clause in her prenup. I’ve heard from lawyer friends that those clauses are pretty standard in prenups now.

  37. TG says:

    I wonder if she can file for an annulment and list fraud as the reason or how does that work can she file for a divorce and list fraud and would that enable her to get out without having to give Jessie the douche anything?

  38. Ruffian9 says:

    Actually yes, she IS the one ‘ending the marriage’. Legally. By divorce. Good on her.

  39. Ruffian9 says:

    “It’s not like she has a choice but to divorce him, she wouldnt have a fan left if she didnt so the public made the choice for her.”

    I don’t get this…. Of course it’s her choice. I doubt she’s making this decision based on public opinion.

  40. CB Rawks says:

    We love you Sandra. Things will get better.

  41. canadianchick says:

    I get so mad about how JJ has treated her, about his lineup of filthy skank hoes and white power crap,that I’m nearly speechless (someone alert my husband as he’d like the quiet time LOL). I’m praying that she gets some SERIOUS poetic justice. I hope she gets the most cutthroat lawyer money can buy, and I hope she ends up with true and faithful love. Facing her side of 50 must be scary but she’s well respected, beautiful inside and out, and I believe she will land on her feet.

  42. Aspen says:

    “toot sweet” was anglicanized long ago, as were many French terms over the centuries. It’s a common figure of speech meaning “quickly” in both America and the UK. It’s called etymology. Get over it.

  43. Jag says:

    This is good news! Sandra, once the pain subsides, you will see that the skanks did you a favor in that you only invested 5 years of your life with the sleaze JJ, instead of 20 or more. You will find someone more deserving of you, who will make you happy, and the kids can contact you if they wish.

  44. Sandra says:

    Poor Sandra.i feel so sorry for her.she is a great actress and wonderful woman.I like all her movies.she is the best and deserves best in her life.Love you Sandra.Leave Jesse James.He’s an idiot!You don’t deserve him