Blake Shelton on homophobic tweet controversy: “I have gay friends”

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US Weekly made the very puzzling decision to feature Lauren Conrad’s “broken heart” on the cover, as if it’s 2007 and she’s still a hot property. She doesn’t have a new book out, and she doesn’t even have a reality show with MTV after they passed on her earlier this year. (She did get a three book deal in April and it’s possible this cover is some kind of tie-in to try and maintain interest in her.)

This week’s US also has an exclusive interview with country star and judge on The Voice, Blake Shelton. A lot of people like Blake on The Voice, and he and his wife Miranda Lambert have a large fan base. Miranda and Blake should have scored the cover instead of Conrad, but maybe their wedding cover didn’t sell that well. Inside, Blake goes on about how much he loves Miranda and how he doesn’t even think about all the beautiful women he sees at his concerts, except for the fact that he notices that he’s not noticing them. He protests a little too much, but it’s kind of sweet. He also explains his drunken Twitter faux pas that was criticized as homophobic when he rewrote a Shania Twain lyric. He’s bumbling, and he likes to get his drink on. As for whether he was cheating on his last wife when he hooked up with Miranda, he denies that but goes on to say a couple of things that make it sound like that could have been the case. He was with Miranda for five years, so he took his time before proposing.

Inset: Did he cheat?
Shelton denies reports that he got together with Lambert in 2005 while he was still wed to Kaynette Williams, 38. (He and his former road manager divorced in 2006.) “I got a divorce, met Miranda and fell in love with her,” he says. “Life isn’t perfect, so you find what makes you happy and you do it.”

Now that you’re such a big star, there must be temptations with other women on the road:
You know it’s so far off my radar, and maybe that’s why it’s different all of a sudden now. I just played a country music festival in Manhattan, Kansas, and there were beautiful girls everywhere. And it didn’t even register. I don’t even go there. I mean, I do notice and say “Oh that’s a cute girl,” and it’s just amazing how it doesn’t ever go through my mind now beyond me thinking, I wish my tour manager would meet her. Or, She’s hot, I hope my buddy asks her out. It’s odd because I’m a normal, everyday red-blooded guy – but now that I’m married, it’s just not there anymore. I’m not blind, but at the same time, I don’t care. It’s crazy!

The Voice catapulted you into the spotlight. How are you handling all of the newfound attention?
It’s odd because the country fans have known me for 10 years, and they’re used to my personality. I could always get away with a lot more as far as my mouth goes. They know I’m either drunk or lying or just full of crap all the time. I mean, I’m not a politician. I’m an artist who makes records, and I am who I am. It’s always just me trying to be funny. But now it’s really polarizing all of a sudden. If I get on Twitter and say, “I just peed my pants!” the world goes, “What the hell is wrong with this guy?” It’s a quick learning curve, and I have to watch myself more these days.

Case in point: You came under fire in May after one of your tweets – that paraphrased a Shania Twain song – was deemed homophobic.
And that’s one of the more g-rated things I’ve ever written! I was just trying to be funny. In my world, there is no hate. I have a lot of gay friends and it makes me look at myself and go, Man, that would devastate me if they were hurt. I say all kinds of crazy stuff, but I learned a lesson. The first person that texted me was Adam Levine. He said, “You’re gonna have to watch what you say from now on. You say stupider stuff on Twitter than I do!” So it made me feel better because he taught me that people care what I say now. None of us ever meant to be TV stars, and we never thought we’d have to be politically correct all the time. So this is new.

[From US Weekly, print edition, July 11, 2011]

Oh he pulled the “gay friends” card. I originally thought he was just retweeting a Shania Twain lyric and that it sounded homophobic from a male point of view instead of Shania’s. That’s not the case, though. He rewrote the lyric entirely so that it sounded like it was threatening to a man that was hitting on him (or Shania). However, he later claimed he was rewriting the lyric from Shania’s point of view and had no idea it would be misinterpreted as coming from his POV. He wrote “Re-writing my fav Shania Twain song.. Any man that tries Touching my behind He’s gonna be a beaten, bleedin’, heaving kind of guy,” and Shania’s original lyric was “Any man of mine better walk the line – Better show me a teasin’ squeezin’ pleasin’ kinda time.” So it’s easy to see how that could be seen as homophobic, but it’s open to interpretation.

I’ve seen Blake on The Voice and he does come across as a really good guy. Maybe this dude shouldn’t drink and tweet anymore. That seems to be all he does lately if you check his Tweets. At least he’s not drinking and driving.

Blake and Miranda are shown on 6/13/10 and 2/13/11. Blake and his wife Kaynette Williams are shown in 2005. Check out his hair! Credit: WENN.com

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  1. Sarah says:

    His tweets crack me up. He’s one of the few reasons I check twitter. Overall he’s a good guy though. He just likes to talk shit but at least he’s honest and says he talks shit. Love him 🙂

    Oh and you called Miranda, Amanda in there once.

  2. Delta Juliet says:

    Wow….a haircut did him a WORLD of good.

  3. Enny says:

    “I got a divorce, met Miranda and fell in love with her,” he says. “Life isn’t perfect, so you find what makes you happy and you do it.”

    Notice he didn’t say “in that order.”

  4. DogBoy says:

    Since when is rewriting lyrics a sin??? If Elton John re-recorded “Don’t Let Your Son Go Down On Me”, it might outsell the original.

  5. gee says:

    @DogBoy LOL!

    I think he’s pretty harmless. That 2005 picture is horrifying though.

  6. mia girl says:

    I have grown to really like this guy and I don’t think he was pulling the “I have gay friends” card. He comes across as pretty genuine and is clearly making the point that he’s found himself in a new public arena where he has to filter more.

    Plus, he is known for rewriting other people’s lyrics and posting it on twitter and yes, he writes them from the POV of the artist or song subject. It’s just a silly, but pretty funny thing he does from time to time. I think people over-reacted, but lesson learned for him!

  7. Laughternrain says:

    Its like the saying, “I’m not racist, some of my best friends are black”. Seriously, claiming to have gay friends proves nothing. Whats he going to say? “Yes, I AM homophobic, whatcha gonna do about it?” Of course he’d deny it. He should have just said I’m not homophobic, some of my best friends are gay. Which, he basically did. Whenever a sentence begins with “I’m not racist, but…”, or “some of my best friends are gay”, you know its bs.

  8. Stephie says:

    She’s beautiful and all but every time I see a pic or video of Miranda I can’t help but think FOREHEAD!! She has a massive forehead. Hasn’t hurt her tho.

  9. Quest says:

    He seems to really love Miranda. I like him and seems pretty down to earth.

  10. lilred says:

    He’s kind of like the weird Al of country lol.

  11. Rita says:

    Blake is a good guy. Watch him as a coach on The Voice and you can see his heart is in it and he genuinely cares about the performers.

    He’s a simple guy and with all the “politically correct” whispering that goes on in our overly sensitive society, anybody is vulnerable to finger pointing. Blake hasn’t spent much time worrying about whose delicate toes get stepped on but he’s starting to as he’s more and more in the LA lights. I’m with Blake so Man-Up America. There’s no place for bullying or taunting but for God’s sake, we got big problems so cinch yer britches.

  12. Nah, nah & nah... says:

    I have black friends. I have gay friends. I have black gay friends. I have black gay friends who usta didn’t be gay (publicly) but were always black (publicly) who met their spouse (in some states) before they were gay but after they were black. Life is confusing, huh?

    Congrats to him and the new wife. They’re cute together. Wish them all the best. Hope he hires someone to tweet for him (them) in the future.

    Oh, I’m black. But, not gay. But I have gay friends. Just sayin’ (kinda like he seemed to be), is all.

  13. flutters says:

    I don’t think Blake was subconsciously or consciously being homophobic. I believe his explanation of the Shania rewrite thing.

    However he’s not being truthful if he’s really denying reports about whether he cheated with Miranda. This was Nashville’s worst kept “secret” that started with the June 2005 rehearsals for the taping of CMT’s Greatest Duets, where Blake and Miranda sang You’re The Reason God Made Oklahoma. They were spotted all over each other before he got divorced in 2006.

    I do believe Blake’s 1st marriage had problems that preceded him meeting Miranda Lambert. But he wasn’t separated from his wife when he got together with Miranda. I’ve read reports that his wife found out about their affair in the worst, stereotypically country way but I don’t know how true that part is.

    By the way, Miranda Lambert has a song called More Like Her and it’s about a time when Blake Shelton was trying to sort things out between his wife Kaynette and Miranda. It’s actually a good song. Miranda’s a really good writer and she’s a pretty good singer too.

    These 2 are fortunate that their careers and the tabloid scrutiny on them weren’t that big at the time this happened. Instead they’re having their breakthroughs and getting the Tim/Faith treatment 6 years later.

  14. nan says:

    Adorable couple. Made for each other.

  15. Cheyenne says:

    Uh-huh, and Strom Thurmond used to say some of his best friends were colored. 🙄

  16. Oi says:

    Old news. Let it go. He was not being homophobic. Can we please stop with looking for them around every little corner, in every little thing? even Adam Levine defended him after GLAAD sanctimoniously demanded an apology.

  17. original kate says:

    “US Weekly made the very puzzling decision to feature Lauren Conrad’s “broken heart” on the cover, as if it’s 2007 and she’s still a hot property.”

    LMAO! we carry lauren’s books in my bookstore and we’ve never sold any, not even during a 40% off sale. i’ve never had anyone even ask for them. i tried reading one during my lunch break and i could not stop laughing.

  18. jover says:

    You beat me to the comment stephie; her forehead is odd and large; she looks like an aging vegas showgirl or barfly – not a flattery look at least to me.

  19. ElleGin says:

    Paranoia much?

  20. ! says:

    It’s amazing what people will excuse, provided it comes from the right kind of person.

  21. Kimble says:

    I’m off to follow Blake Shelton …

    Loved him on The Voice – the only one without buckets of skeevy!!!!

  22. Nah, nah & nah... says:

    Ummm Cheyenne? I feel ya, right in the ticker, but Strom Thurmond usta DIDN’T say his babymomma on the side was colored. Kinda different in that Blake ain’t got no babymomma on tha side, so ta speak, and just said he ain’t lookin’ for one.

    Oh, and Blake also didn’t say colored or use any kinda homosexual pejorative in his Tweetsplanation. ‘Cause he’s colored, too. Kinda pinkish. Not at all redneck-y. Although he’s quite country. I should know. Some of my best friends are country-er.

  23. harfang says:

    @Kimble “Loved him on The Voice – the only one without buckets of skeevy!!!!” Totally agree, and I was expecting to enjoy both Cee-Lo and Xtina. They and the Maroon 5 kid are such repugnant corporate cogs, next to this sweetpea with an above-average brain. Blake gives me a little hope for the people on his team.

  24. aenflex says:

    cupla rednecks…notice that sorta goes hand in hand with homophobia, racism, prejudice and bias?

  25. Jay says:

    So if a woman said the exact same words it’s OK, but if a man says it it’s homophobic? The sexism may not be where you think it is…

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