Teen Mom Amber’s brother blasts MTV: “they are forced to say they’re struggling”

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Teen Mom’s Amber Portwood has been a trainwreck from day one. She’s abused her daughter’s father on camera – twice. She’s lost custody of her daughter, she’s had a suicide attempt, and she’s been in rehab. She’s also she’s been in jail and two of her ex boyfriends also happened to be ex cons. As I’ve mentioned here several times, one of my main issues with Teen Mom is that the girls are shown financially struggling on the show, but that they make very good money behind the scenes. Well Amber’s brother posted a new blog entry calling out MTV for just that, and explaining how his sister got the job in the first place.

For those of you who are wondering whether or not I said everything that was in Life & Style magazine, I will tell you yes and no. Really I did not say anything that no one already knew. Second, the editor of the magazine called me and asked me to either confirm or deny what other sources were saying. Unfortunately this time I confirmed. I love Amber very much but she has changed considerably since she was “16 and Pregnant.” See, back then she was barely making a few hundred dollars a month for doing the show. She was the same person that I had always known her as growing up. As the years went by her salary gradually went up higher and higher. This is because MTV associates are a bunch of sadistic assholes who continued to lure her in with more money as an incentive to stay on the show. Over time a few hundred dollars a month turned into tens of thousands. During this time she also gradually changed. She lost her way and became someone else. She is over-dramatic and thinks of herself as an A-list celebrity.

I personally believe that these little blackout spells that she has is just a cry for help and a way to go back to where everyone will do everything for her, Seasons. It makes me sick to know that so many people look up to individuals on MTV. They are/were people just like you who only got on TV to exploit themselves and act like dumb asses. Let me tell you a story about how Amber got on the show. My ex-wife tried to sign us up for a show called “Engaged and Underage.” They called me and told me that they wanted to film us. I told them that we were already married and they said, “that’s fine.” They wanted to do a special with us. Get married and then turn around and tell our families that we had been married for over four months at the time. I told them that they were not going to make a mockery out of my life. I wish Amber would have had the same mentality as me. When I deployed to Iraq in 2007 Amber found out that she was going to have a little girl. Of course, MTV called my ex and said, “hey, we are doing a show called 16 and pregnant, know anyone who would be a good candidate.” So they got Amber’s name. Had I been home I would have told her just how sadistic MTV was. When I came home on mid-tour leave I found out that she was not only pregnant but that she was also going to be on a MTV show. This made me furious because I knew it would ruin her life. Fast forward to today and we can all see that Amber is a complete train wreck. Most of you might say that it is Amber’s fault because she signed up for the show. I would agree, slightly. MTV is slowly ruining her life day by day and they do not care for one reason, ratings. Now Leah has a dysfunctional mother because she wants to live the lifestyle of the rich and famous. My last point that I wish to make is this. If you are making $15,000 plus a months then why even have a show about struggling mothers. None of them are struggling yet they are forced to say they are. This is no longer a show about how hard it is to be a mother. Instead it is a show about how one can go from being broke as hell to have a shit ton of money for simply having a kid. Now there is going to be a season 4. They are not even TEENS anymore. Call it something else like, spoiled snotty rich inconsiderate hateful bitchy mothers who make thousands for spreading their legs. End of story.

[Shawn Portwoods’ blog via ONTD]

I heard the creator of Teen Mom on NPR’s Talk of the Nation this summer. I was really fired up about the way she completely dismissed the money issue in regards to how the moms are portrayed. I pulled my car over and sent an e-mail to them asking about it, but this was the only thing that creator Lauren Dolgen said about the fact that the stars make over a quarter of a million a season, but are shown trying to make ends meet on the show:

Yeah, we don’t really disclose what our casts get paid, but the girls are compensated… You know, I think all of the girls will have struggles with or without the money they get from the show. You know, they have to raise a child, and they – you know, that costs a lot of money. And they have to raise themselves, too.” – NPR

Bullsh*t, right? MTV is portraying a fake reality and then acting like there’s no problem with it. That’s pretty much what they always do, but they’re tried to act like Teen Mom is some kind of documentary and a cautionary tale for kids who want to get pregnant. It’s just showing the stars, and countless viewers, how to be reality stars. I’m glad Amber’s brother called them out. I doubt his sister would be any more together if she wasn’t on Teen Mom, though. She’d just be broke.

Also, re-read this part of Shawn’s entry “MTV called my ex and said, “hey, we are doing a show called 16 and pregnant, know anyone who would be a good candidate.” So they got Amber’s name. Had I been home I would have told her just how sadistic MTV was. When I came home on mid-tour leave I found out that she was not only pregnant but that she was also going to be on a MTV show.” Does it suggest that Amber got pregnant to be on the show, or just that she was already pregnant and that Shawn’s fiance gave MTV her name? Maybe Shawn doesn’t even know.

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Amber is shown on 4/11/11. Credit: Fame

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  1. Aries_Mira says:

    And guess who truly suffers for it? The kids.

  2. gee says:

    Wowza.

  3. GradStudentEatingHotPockets says:

    That would explain why in the first season of 16 and pregnant Amber talks about her very, very strained relationship with her brother. She never went into details but said something along the lines of “He’s disappointed in me for having a baby.”

    So that’s where his anger is from! It all makes sense now!

  4. teehee says:

    “…mothers who make thousands for spreading their legs”
    Now wait, lets not forget
    “scummy selfish dumbasses who impregnate underage, unfit, underprivledged females as if they bore no liability or responsibility for the potential consequences”; these two comments are the same thing but I am jsut sick of always having to hear the former version of it.
    It takes f*kin two to tan-f*kn-go!

  5. Relli says:

    CB can i just say that i love that you just cited NPR Talk of the Nation. Escapism CAN be smart too…….

  6. Anastasia says:

    I don’t know that I completely believe the brother about how she got on the show. MTV doesn’t contact people, you contact them.

  7. the original bellaluna says:

    GradStudent – Nope. Gary was close friends with Amber’s brother, and he NEVER approved of their relationship – Gary is 4 years older than she. Flash forward to now, when Gary’s un-employed (and has been for how many years now?) and Amber’s a mess, and he’s calling out MTV on their BS.

    Good on him! I like Amber’s brother even more now!

  8. smith says:

    @Anastasia – actually it goes both ways. Producers put out feelers with any and all contacts and people who hear about an open cast send in information, video, whatever.

    It’s stressful because so many people you think will be a lock either drop out, prove to be too much to deal with (even for reality TV) or are simply cut. There’s a casting deadline of course and your job depends on pulling it all together – fast. This is why desperation, ill-advisement and overpayment become the norm. No one cares if someone is hurting themselves or their child, if they look like a supreme idiot or are leaving every 20 minutes to do lines in the bathroom. All that matters is shooting enough footage to get into edit and crank out a show. I couldn’t do it anymore. I can’t watch these shows and I don’t know when or how it will stop.

    It’s not going to be an awful sorry mess when “Teen Mom” is cancelled or moves on, and the money dries up. Look at the “adults” of the “Housewives” series. It will continue to be implosion after implosion.

  9. xxodettexx says:

    siblings putting siblings on BLAST is always great entertainment! and he won me over with this:

    “They are not even TEENS anymore. Call it something else like, spoiled snotty rich inconsiderate hateful bitchy mothers who make thousands for spreading their legs.”

    preach, brotha!

  10. hairball says:

    Why does being white trash get rewarded?

  11. lilly says:

    Amber’s brother appeared on one of the episodes and he seemed so normal compared to his sister – it was shocking. He also called her out on her behavior. Amber’s excuse was her childhood but he pointed out that he had the same childhood and managed to grow up and act like an adult.

  12. Sunnyjyl says:

    Amber’s brother has a good handle on the situation. Too bad little Leah has to suffer.

  13. the original bellaluna says:

    Sunnyjyl – Maybe Amber’s brother and his wife will get awarded custody of Leah. Hopefully!

    hairball – Because white trash is all kinds of entertaining – the jokes just write themselves – provided it’s not in YOUR family. 😀

  14. Twez says:

    Whatever tanning that girl is doing, she needs to stop. She looks like she’s made of polished brass.

  15. almond says:

    @ Twez LOL, I nearly chocked.

  16. Kerissa says:

    I definitely agree with her brother, but he should also realize that she is suffering still because scrutiny from family can be the worse kind of punishment. He doesn’t have to worry about her never being humbled – it will come. Money isn’t everything. Lotto winners have shown that time and again that money doesn’t fix problems. We all saw how she treated her mother and had to come crawling back to her because she realized she was messing up her family. But I will say that I don’t know how to react – they should have made the show “True Life” style and made it so that all they did was film the struggle, nothing more. Or kept the salary the same few hundred dollars, since they still are struggling parents. They could still work normal hours at a normal job and make ends meet; that’s a normal life. I do appreciate that MTV at least wants to portray teen pregnancy negatively and not that they’re getting paid and living these lavish lives. The only thing is that none of these people have jobs…and no one questions that. That’s not accurate for what a teen mom would encounter. So you’re crying about money but taking out loans for boobs instead of getting a job? The only one who appears to have a normal job is Farrah. That’s just my opinion on the issue in its entirety, though.

  17. Amanda G says:

    I don’t feel sorry for any of the teen moms. I feel sorry for their kids. Amber was a mess from day one. MTV didn’t do that. There are two things MTV does that piss me off… 1) show domestic violence and not require the cast members to get help. 2) pay the moms an obscene amount of money when it should be the KIDS that get paid.

  18. tsktsk says:

    @teehee thank you for that. It is never the man/boy fault. I have NO problem with people calling out these spoiled, immature, idiotic girls but what I do have a problem with is them completely ignoring the spoiled, immature, idiotic BOYS who are just as much responsible. But, with men who don’t ever want to take responsibility for anything and bitchy females who are ALWAYS looking for a change to bitch about other women it is no wonder they never get called out for the crap they do. The teen dads get shit loads of money too. And, I don’t know why anybody is surprised by this. There is no such thing as REALITY tv, especially on MTV. The last teen mom show is completely scripted and you can tell by the horrible acting.

  19. tsktsk says:

    I would just like to add that the fact that so many people sit on the internet arguing and cursing each other out over what is happening on the show makes me want to lose all hope in humanity. I can’t remember for the life of me how I came up on the message board for TM but my GOD was it a site to see. These people were outright dragging each other over, taking sides like children and just acting a plum fool. I would love to convince myself that they were all children w/no clue but I know that is not that case. SMDH. All this mess is scripted. How can they not see that? And, I agree, Amber was a mess when the show started. There is no hope for her unless she finally cut out the bull shit and get it out her head she is NOT A VICTIM. Nothing is ever her fault.

  20. tsktsk says:

    “There is no hope for her unless she finally cut out the bull shit and get it out her head she is NOT A VICTIM.”

    edit:….get it out her head she is a victim

  21. the_porscha says:

    @Anastasia, four of my college friends were on various incarnations of MTV’s “True Life” and three of them got on through a recommendation that MTV got from another person they had been vetting for a show; only one contacted MTV to get on herself. Now, I’m not suggesting that every 3 of 4 people on an MTV show is a result of the same thing, merely stating that the people I knew who were on True Life were called up out of the blue by producers who’d gotten their info from other people, and then they chose to move forward once they got their offers.

  22. Blakesley says:

    Although I’m a big fan of Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant,one of the reasons I find the authenticity questionable is because one of the executive producers is a fictional filmmaker.Dia Sokul.I can’t remember the title,but it sometimes plays on IFC.It looks so much like her MTV shows.

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