Jay-Z isn’t going to use the word “bitch” now that has a daughter

Personally, I like the word “bitch.” I think most women feel the word has been reclaimed from “something derogatory men would say about women” to “something women say about themselves, a word that denotes fierceness and awesomeness.” I’m a bitch. And you probably are too, especially since you’re on a site called Celebitchy. Now, just because “bitch” has been “reclaimed” doesn’t mean that the old, derogatory “bitch” name-calling still doesn’t happen. Frequently. For example, rap lyrics are full of misogyny (and homophobia, and racism, and everything else). But from here on out, Jay-Z wants us to know that we are no longer bitches to him. Now that he has a daughter, he will never use the word “bitch.” He wrote a poem about it. For real.

Jay-Z has vowed to drop the word “bitch” from his lyrics after the birth of his daughter Blue Ivy Carter.

The rapper, who celebrated the birth of his first child with wife Beyonce earlier this month, has released a poem dedicated to his daughter in which he promises never to drop the word “bitch” again.

In the poem, the rapper writes: “Before I got in the game, made a change, and got rich/I didn’t think hard about using the word bitch/I rapped, I flipped it, I sold it, I lived it/Now with my daughter in this world I curse those that give it”.

He also goes on to swear he will protect her and that the “degradation has passed”. He writes: “No man will degrade her, or call her name. I’m so focused on your future, the degradation has passed. I wish you wealth, health and insight. Forever young you may pass. Blue Ivy Carter, my angel”.

Blue Ivy Carter became the youngest person ever to be credited on the US Billboard chart last week.

Jay-Z released a new track earlier this week which is titled ‘Glory’ and is dedicated to his daughter. The track features her coos and cries, for which she is officially credited and entered the Billboard Chart at Number 74, the highest new entry on the chart this week.

[From NME]

It’s interesting that it took the birth of his daughter to change Jay’s bitch-calling ways and not his marriage to Beyonce. Married to Bey? Women are still bitches. Fathering a daughter? NO MORE BITCHES. Whatever, I don’t really care. I’m too old to be prickled by insensitive rap lyrics, so it doesn’t make any difference to me. Of course, I’m currently on a mission to reclaim the C-bomb. I’m totally a C-bomb too.

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  1. Beatrix says:

    another PR move in a transparent attempt to get better press. ugh, next….

    • anne_000 says:

      Thumbs up.

    • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

      PR move indeed as he mentions nothing about the words ho, slut, C U next tuesday, etc. that are mainstays of a lot of rap lyrics, and are IMO worse than the B word.

    • Gigi says:

      Yeah, this is right out of Beyonce’s playbook. Jay Z and most of these ex-thug rappers are hypocrites. They use, and sell, these negative ideas as part of their schtick but when they have a kid, suddenly it’s sorry, my child is too good for that sh*t. You know, it’s because it’s THEIR child. Too bad for the other people’s kids they subjected to their crap in the past, only their kids are worthy of respect and reverence. I used to like Jay Z long ago, but the richer he got the bigger an as*hole diva he became. He and Beyonce are so high off their own fumes they don’t even realize how ridiculous they’ve become.

  2. Sasha says:

    I think when a man has a little girl to protect in the world, it can really make him see things in a completely different light. Bey is a grown woman, he knows she can take care of herself. I think Jay will be a good dad 🙂

    • Ruffian9 says:

      It shouldn’t take having a daughter. Quite a few men manage to not call women bitches.

      • kibbles says:

        Exactly. I am uncomfortable with the term “wh-re” and try not to use it or the words “b-tch” or “c-nt” in daily conversation. It’s just crass and I think says a lot for the person using it. Especially when it is a man using these terms. I guess it is like the n-word for blacks. The word is bad as it is but even worse when someone who isn’t black uses it. Kinda shows you the way he views women and their value. Too bad it took the birth of his daughter to change that. I’m guessing it was okay for him to call a woman a b*tch but if someone calls his daughter a b*tch then that person is going down. Newsflash to Jay-Z: ALL women and girls deserve respect, not only his little princess.

  3. Meg says:

    How nice of him. He is real gentelman. We should buy more his albums.

  4. Asli says:

    Someone commented that he’d probably use the word bitch about his daughter in a previous post and then BAAM -he vows to never use it again. Interesting.

  5. Cali says:

    Because his daughter is SOOOO special, not his mother…or wife. And after the many many women he has degraded I am glad that he has a daughter so he can catch her giving a bj to her boyfriend lol

    I wonder why he hasn’t stopped using the word N*gga since he has a son.

    • NM9005 says:

      ^ THIS!

    • Lissa says:

      @Cali

      <3 <3 <3 Ha ha! I love this! Ha ha! I almost spit out my coffee!!!

    • Tweakspotter says:

      Exactly!! He’s full of sh*t…

      • anonymoose says:

        We already knew he was. Ah, but now we know he reads this and pretends to cowtow accordingly. Whatever. He gets no love from me until he gets some talent and sheds the obnoxiousness. He’s got a long way to go….Keep tryin.’ The world will be a better place.

    • MaiGirl says:

      Well…Blue Ivy did spring from the loins of Hova. He Begat her, if you will 🙂

      Seriously, though, he must think I’m a DUMB bitch if I buy this change of heart as anything other than album publicity.

    • SG says:

      I know! I’ll believe Jay-Z only if he stops portraying women as ‘hos (hoes?)’ in his videos.

  6. Asli says:

    Someone mentioned him probably using the word bitch about his daughter in a previous post and then BAAM – he vows to never use it again. Interesting.

  7. jc126 says:

    I respect those women who turn it on its head, but I hate the word bitch, because it still has a connotation of being someone’s “bitch”. It’s not an empowering term in the eyes of most of the world, and I think the turning-the-meaning-around sense is lost on most people.
    Regarding Jay Z – I hate people who can’t understand an issue or why something they’re doing is wrong/stupid until they have a kid or can otherwise relate it to their own lives. It reminds me of Tommy Lee saying he only started driving like a sane person, not drunk or speeding, when his kids were born. Like other people don’t matter, too.

    • NM9005 says:

      Both opinions: strong! Agree.

      I think it’s powerful that woman took a degrading term from men and made it positive for them. Beating them at their own game. However, it’s still sucks that as you say, the positive meaning is lost on most people. A woman who is strong-willed, knows what she wants how and when? Bitch! A woman who takes charge and doesn’t like being pushed around? Bitch! A woman who doesn’t care what others say and lives her life by her own rules? Bitch! Sad. I guess some people don’t like women taking control and want them to be caring and considerate all the time, nurturing other people’s needs.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        I know this has been pointed out a million times but as someone who works in the financial services industry the double standard applied to men and women is amazing. Women who are powerful, successful, but demanding of a certain work standard are ceaselessly referred to as ‘bitches’. Men possessing the same professional attributes are looked at as role models who demand respect. After hearing so many women called “bitch” by angry dudes in suits, it starts to really wear thin..

      • @TheOriginalKitten: It’s rampant in academia, too. Just the other day I advocated for more money for our tiny parapsych lab and overheard a fellow professor call me a bitch because I didn’t think more more money was needed for his currently overfunded dead-end project (and no, I didn’t call it that, I simply said that he’s gotten the bulk of the psych department open endowment funds and the “wealth” should be shared.) The males who asked for more funds weren’t called bitches. Just me and another female prof.

      • Asli says:

        @ paranormalgirl – OMG, what assholes!

    • lucy2 says:

      Completely agree about the Jay Z/Tommy Lee stuff, jc126. If they want others to respect them, and their children, treat others with respect too.

    • MaiGirl says:

      Agree with everything you wrote. I find it to be so selfish and immature when people can’t just behave because they should. There has to be something personally at stake.

  8. aquaticmusings says:

    The only time the word bitch really pisses me off is when men use it in a degrading way, or when they use it to name call. I think the reason I feel this way is because I don’t think there is a word or name that exists that we can call men that elicit those same feelings as the word bitch does to women. Then again, it is somewhat easy to make a man feel very small, especially if he has the mentality to call me a bitch in the first place. I don’t play.

  9. Jaded says:

    Yeah, he’ll prolly replace it with “ho”.

  10. aquaticmusings says:

    Or we could pick another from the treasure trove of names that exist to degrade women. One of my favorites? Trollop. What a geam. Can we bring it back? Plleeassee?

  11. Samigirl says:

    …so what word will replace b*tch in his songs? He says it more often than I can count! Also, I think it’s kind of nice and all, but I’m still rolling my eyes at him. Yes, it’s his child, and he loves her, but he has at least one other kid, right?

    • Naye in VA says:

      he has an ENITRE song on Watch the throne calles “thats my bitch”. see how long this lasts

      • Sigh. says:

        And don’t forget “99 Problems (And a BITCH ain’t one)”

      • Mingy says:

        i know! in that song in reference to beyonce, he says “..get your own dog, ya heard? thats my bitch”..my husband was the one that pointed that out to me and said how wrong that is..i still like that song lol..cuz of elly jackson.

      • MsCatra says:

        So does that mean we’ll no longer be hearing “99 Problems” to advertise video games? I’d never heard the song before hearing it in that ad (more of rock girl). Funny how it just popped up in those ads but NOW he’s not using bitch anymore. Right. Is he going to donate his royalties for it, since I believe he’s listed as a writer on the track? Yeah, that’s totally what will happen, I’m sure.

    • Rose says:

      I know, doesn’t he have a fully grown son in Paris?! He must feel great right now!

  12. Bad Gal Addiction says:

    What a f*cking hypocrite! And his 9 year old son doesn’t deserve a poem or a song? I lost all my respect…

    I guess they replace it with “chick”, that’s what they do all the time in clean versions.

    • Hakura says:

      You’ve voiced my opinion exactly here… All this fanfare about his newborn daughter with ‘entertainment industry powerhouse/celebrity‘ wife Beyonce…Writing songs/poetry, making moral vows like some fairy-tale ‘knight’ to a princess…

      That’s all ‘well & good’ (& comes off as complete soap-opera grade theatre)…But where the hell are all the public mentions & tributes of undying love & devotion to his son? Correct me if I’m wrong, but he *does* have a son, correct? Some say yes, some say no…

      • Asli says:

        Here is a picture of them together. You can tell Jay-Z does NOT want to be there. Poor kid!

        http://egyptsaidso.com/rumors/so-jay-z-does-have-a-son/

      • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

        That’s some outfit she’s got on.

      • Hakura says:

        @Jo ‘Mama’ Besser – Wow, I hadn’t even noticed her outfit… Jeez… She’s breaking a basic fashion rule…

        Nothing wrong with showing off a part of your body that you’re proud of… But the rule states that you only showcase *1* exposed body area per outfit…Balancing it out with more covered (less revealing) pieces…To keep it from looking tacky (& in this case, hooker-ish, like she just wrapped 1 of those big cloth dinner napkins around her middle, put on heels, & went on her way… With JayZ’s little son in-tow, no less.)

  13. kay says:

    I like bitch. It can mean so many things. C-bomb doesn’t bother me in the least, but “retard” very much does.

    I like “cow” to describe some behaviours, it seems more encompassing then bitch.

    I cannot believe though, he felt the need to make an announcement over this. drama. queen.

  14. Bite me says:

    How nice of him

  15. e.non says:

    heh … and marrying beyonce didn’t make him rethink that slur….

  16. spinner says:

    What a nice thug.

  17. womanfromthenorth says:

    The “C” word… not one that a man should EVER use… unless he wants to be killed.

    It should only be used my one woman to another, face to face. And when the “C” word get dropped the droppie knows she’s gonna get smacked and so on.

    I have tried to tell men at another website that they have no right to use the “C” word. They could give a shit..lol

    Oh and great JZ do it for your kid not your wife… really. If you had a boy, would this be happening?? I think not…

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      According to the above posts, he DOES have a son (news to me but I don’t really follow these two).

      • womanfromthenorth says:

        I was thinking this kid… don’t know how many he really has. And I have my answer now, thanks.

    • Laura says:

      I actually use the C-word to describe myself, in a playful manner. I won’t use it on anyone else. However my friends and I will affectionately call one another tw*ts, and sometimes use that silly phrase “Tw*t’s that? I c*nt hear you!”

  18. HotPockets says:

    These two are still greedy and image obsessed, nothing has changed.

  19. I.want.shoes says:

    Jay-Z gets a “B!tch please” from me.

  20. Mingy says:

    all of their attempts for good press is so pathetic..i guess they took their heads out of their ignorant asses for a sec and realized how wrong and shameful they are…good!

  21. SASHA-NOT-SO-FIERCE says:

    BITCH PLEASE!

  22. TheOriginalKitten says:

    If a guy ever called me the c-word or even REFERRED to a woman as a c-word in my presence then I’d probably throat-punch him. I even don’t like it when a man refers to a woman as a “bitch”. But I don’t mind if a woman refers to herself or another woman as a “bitch”. I think I need to re-think the “logic” behind this! 🙂

  23. Jackie says:

    i’m proud to be a bitch. that’s just how i roll.

    i don’t need jayz to define the usage of the word. it’s ours now.

  24. WTF says:

    I have to call foul here. Not all rappers use the term bitch, not even a majority, nor does rap music have the market cornered on misogyny, homophobia or racism.
    I’m a big fan of hip hop. I don’t like Jay Z, and I’ve never liked his music. So now he sees the error of his ways? His mother is a woman and so is his wife, but they weren’t important enough to stop using misogynistic language? I blame both of those….(wait for it)…..bitches!

    • Hakura says:

      I always feel conflicted when it comes to a lot of (all) rap songs. (Don’t get me wrong, there are many rap songs I like, though I prefer R&B+Rap songs) & I’d never put a whole genre in 1 category.

      But it seems like *most* of the time, when I really stop to listen to what’s being said… It comes down to either (very) explicitly describing what some guy ‘has done, is doing, or wants to do’ with/to a woman (or 3…)

      …*Or* will talk about violence &/or drugs/alcohol. Like I said, they aren’t all like that, & definitely no offense intended to those who are really into rap. It just bums me out to hear great music only to realize the lyrics are unnecessarily over-the-top nasty.

  25. Miffits says:

    Totally off topic but that’s some weird body language going on in the last picture.
    He’s got his hand on her neck and she’s leaning away from him with a subserviant smile.

    • Asli says:

      I see your point. He’s got his hand around her neck which is usually a dominant move – think lions – and is putting a bit of pressure on too. Weird.

  26. DomCoug says:

    C-Bomb..? Aint gonna happen…. it’s waaaay too crude and vulgar to be…ever. Just sayin

  27. kazoo says:

    What about retiring “nigga?” No, he’ll never do that.

  28. Seagulls says:

    If you really want to take back the c*bomb, read Inga Muscio’s book of the same name, if you haven’t already. It changed my mind on it!

  29. Sunshine says:

    Oh well, isn’t he just special all of a sudden? I hope there’s a special place in Hell for this turd and his hideous demon of a wife. God I loathe them both and feel so so bad for that poor little baby. Money can’t buy those demons their souls back ya know!

  30. Jules says:

    He looks like a camel.

  31. Dani says:

    This kind of reminds me of when Madonna decided to write childrens’ books. Yeah, like that.

  32. beth says:

    Bitch, please. You and your ilk have degraded women for years. You have polluted and degraded OUR daughters But, now that you are a father of a daughter, now you have seen the light? You are a piece of work.

    • kibbles says:

      I know. Give me a break, Jay-Z and Beyonce. Now they are writing songs and preaching about girl power when their millions were made from songs and videos that degrade women.

  33. Riana says:

    I’m kinda indifferent to the word bitch but I never really saw ‘reclaiming a word’ as working. You can call yourself something, repeat it over and over, soften yourself to it but as soon as someone calls you it purely to hurt and degrade you the word is right back where it started.

    I know a lot of women shrug at bitch but will castrate a man for c-bomb (which was always the stronger of the two).

    As for Jay Z…jigga please! He and his wife are such a joke. Glad to know until you physically created a respectable girl child (that poor boy in Paris) we were still bitches but now…well shucks, your daughter is one of us. Guess WE’RE not so bad.

    Idiot.

    Guessing hoes, sluts, tramps is still good to go till he has another daughter. Eye rolllllll.

    • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

      So true, that’s why I’ll never get on the N-wagon. It’s so lazy snd useless.

  34. Turd Fergussen says:

    I adore using the C-bomb. Still, I find it offends other women, though. A shame, really.

    • Rio says:

      I find c*nt to be, if not my favorite curse (that would be sh!t, if only because of its wonderful past-tense usage, “sh@t”) but definitely the most useful. It’s like the über-curse. You cannot top that in the cursing hierarchy. Once that comes out, it’s like, “Whoa, sh!t just got real.”

  35. Kimlee says:

    So what now that he has daughter he has morals and suddenly thinks it’s wrong to refiners women as Bs so what if he would had a son he would be still ok with the word, I forgot he does have a 9year old son. More like it look bad on his part using the B word in a song that is going to be associated with his daughter so he trying to save face.

    As someone else said

    What about the *F* word or the *N* word. Those still okay for him to use.

  36. JD says:

    He can keep using the word bitch as long as I get to keep calling him camel-face.

  37. Julia says:

    If they want to set a nice example for their daughter, both should get back to highschool, get their graduation and extra english classes.

    He should also redeem himself from selling drugs and participate in programs against it.

    They both act like they are ‘clean’ people, have great influence in their community but still oozes trash, greed for money (Bey will take any money from any dicator just to flaunt it and shake it), low education and are one of the main participant in the street culture glamorizing gangsterish attitude and bling bling.

    You are not responsible of where you are born but when you finally get means to better yourself, do it. Get an education and stop talking crap without waiting to have a daughter to do so.

    • Jaded says:

      Right on – well said!

    • chloe w says:

      I 100% agree – just listen to them speak, wow. so ghetto. she is the worst, i’m always embarassed for her.

      this entire baby thing has hurt their rep and I do’nt know that they can recover….fingers crossed they just go away.

  38. Franny says:

    I don’t have a problem with the word bitch either…I wear that label loud and proud.

    But the “c-bomb” I hate. I hate hate hate that word. It just sounds so dirty and crusty.

  39. Skins says:

    Without the “B” word there goes half of his vocabulary

  40. maggie grace says:

    He has such, uh, strong features, and she is so pretty, that it will be interesting what this pillow looks like.

  41. Danziger says:

    C-bomb rocks and you’re my hero.

  42. laylajanelovesgossip says:

    The ONLY name that offends me slightly is when people mispronounce MY NAME. All other names I can careless…

  43. anonymoose says:

    A jacket with shorts? Is that a romper?! Oh, honey, NO!

    The B word is aggressive, pejorative. Not anything to be proud of. There are more dignified, and, even smarter ways to parade one’s integrity than to stoop to trashy language.

    B word is too ambiguous to use proudly. Has too many shades of meaning. Using it is a cop-out.

  44. Blah says:

    It took him a very long and anormal time to finally realize “bitch” is NOT a term that suits a woman.
    Dirty ghetto trash.

  45. Lisa says:

    Um, I read on a couple of other sites that this was fake. Jay Z never penned this poem (never said he would stop using the B bomb).

  46. Jennifer says:

    He’s been calling other people’s daughter bitch for 30 years and now he has a little girl and we can’t use the word?

  47. Petunia says:

    How nice (said in polite sarcasm.) So it was okay to refer to women as “b’s” all this time, except not now that he has a daughter?

    Amazing how people can be so intelligent about not using the N word but the same people will happily use an equally ugly word, the “B” one, on women.

  48. Sam says:

    Thanks Jay Z!!! I get the feeling that women’s position in society is about to propel thanks to you. I hope his daughter grows up and listens to him objectifying and talking down to women.. purely because he’s come out with this douchebag comment and so totally deserves it now. I agree about the c-bomb too! It’s totally not an offensive word if you look deeper into it’s meanings and where it came from!

  49. kiakat says:

    I’m so glad you bitches see this for what it is!! Ugh whatever Jay Z your daughter is so special. I’m sick of these two.

  50. Meanchick says:

    So the talking llama suddenly has a conscience?

  51. Sasha says:

    He can stop using the word all he wants he’ll still be a misogynist a-hole — it isn’t only about the words you use, it is about your attitude/beliefs — and the fact that a man as old as he is, with a mother & wife, only *now* that he has a daughter sees the word may be offensive is a total misogynist.

  52. TheOriginalVictoria says:

    Yeah, I’m about to go in on this water storaging bacoon. YEAH, you read that right.

    I talked about this on Destiny’s Rehab when Lil’ CokeWayne called Beyaki a bitch and Jay was as silent as he was about his wife’s faux pregnancy. I AM OVER BEY’S MOOMBUMP that he said this and I am dedicating my song Empire State of A Destructive Mind to Mr Joe Camel Carter:

    Yeah you know I come hard
    Straight from the hoods of Marcy
    Had the projects on lock down
    Before I could spell weed
    Say you recognize me
    Not because I’mma star
    But you saw me on the corner
    Iced out in a tinted car
    Like Linus do his blankie
    Snatching yo mama’s gubmint check
    Her crumbsnatchers’ll go crumbless
    Before she give up my brand o’ wet
    Shout out to ma negroes
    Who stayed dead and hopeless
    Took my white girl dough
    So I could make a bigger mess

    In My Hood
    Concrete jungle
    Where people
    Stay slaved up
    There’s nothing you can do
    In my hood
    These streets are meant
    To discourage you
    And that’s what I do
    Welcome to my hood
    My hood

    Rhyming bout how I played you
    Like a Slashed guitar
    And how Da Man rewarded me
    With cash money, hoes and cars
    Started slinging new crack
    And feedin it to the masses
    You fundin all my yachts
    While you still on bus passes
    Giving you false hope
    That if you put two
    Words together
    And spit bacoonery
    You could get out da hood foreva
    As long as you cop a light bitch
    With a European weave
    And who also ain’t afraid
    Of a sell out mentality
    Get accustomed to da new life
    NEVER EVER LOOK BACK
    Brush dem crackies and bitches off
    And get a whole new act
    Come back with a wifey
    And a legitimate
    You’se a balla baby
    Get a fucking surrogate
    Act like yo baby girl
    Don’t deserve to be called a bitch
    They try to come at you?
    Betta please the damn fifth
    Last lesson
    When you wish her well
    Wish her WEALTH FIRST
    To hell with all else.

    LET THE CHURCH SAY BITCH PLEASE.

  53. logan says:

    Well, Mr. Z that is a wonderful pledge to make for your daughter. Just too bad you didn’t take my teenage daughter into consideration when you were writing your songs. Hopefully you can be more of a stand up man and father from this day forward.

  54. Lisa B. says:

    *eyerolling*

    Seriously, what a hypocrite asshole we have here. It looks like women were not respectable beings in his world before nature randomly gave his kid a vagina instead of a penis.
    Because it’s completely okay to call other people’s daughters bitches, hos, sluts and every other name in the book, but not his special and precious daughter, who was probably born with a halo (no pun intended) around her head.
    Shut up, dude. As others said before, if you want to set up a good example for your daughter, get your ass some education first. You can afford it.

  55. original kate says:

    oh, it’s ok to call other men’s daughters “bitch,” is it?

    shut up, jay-z.

  56. Kim says:

    This is step on right direction. Sure we all wish he had figured this out a long time ago but Ill forgive him for not getting it before. Now if he would only stop using the hideous N word.

  57. dj says:

    He is a real FEMINIST isn’t he?

  58. Ha! says:

    This Jay dude is such an eye-sore, it sucks to look at him, gotta wash my eyes! can’t stand the dude.

  59. anon says:

    I don’t care if he stops using the word bitch, I will continue to use the words ASSHOLE, GREEDY, EGOMANIAC, POOR EXCUSE FOR A HUMAN BEING to describe him.
    Suck it, Jay-Z.

  60. Jay-Z: Feminist Icon.

  61. BELLA says:

    Little Blue-jay-z will sure like it…
    now he respects women…..

  62. BELLA says:

    WOW BLUE JAY-Z WHY DIDNT THEY THINK OF IT???? I LOVE IT!!!!!!

  63. magslivs says:

    C-Bomb. yes RECLAIM IT!
    C U Next Tuesday!

    • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

      My friends and I have reclaimed C U Next Tuesday. That’s what we call men who act like bitches! LMAO!!

  64. Asli says:

    Lol! Anyone notice how Blue Ivy is ”the youngest person to ever be credited on the Bilboard Chart”… Because you can’t live in The House of Famewhores without having broken a record, can you? They probably make Michelle show up with all her awards and written confirmation before they’ll let her in their house.

  65. Shannon says:

    This reminds me of the lady who was against Obamacare until she found out she had cancer and suddenly realized that the new legislation is the only reason she can’t be denied by insurance companies for a pre-existing condition and now she’s all for it.
    So sick of the selfishness involved in these thought processes. Other peoples’ daughters weren’t good enough for Jay-Z to refrain from demeaning women, but his is? That’s screwed up.

    F–k you Jay-Z, and the rest of the selfish jerks out there.

    • Asli says:

      Right on! (I don’t know if it’s hip to say that since it’s not the 70’s but I just had the urge to :P)

  66. Wilhelmina says:

    doesn’t matter…there are plenty of rappers who will refer to her one…and a lot of them will be following Jay-Z’s lead.

  67. Ruffian9 says:

    Yes, because unless a man has a daughter, women are just bitches.
    *eyeroll of cosmic proportions*

  68. miss_bhaven says:

    I think the N word is much more offensive and I hate the fact that people have started using it….It just makes me cringe.

  69. aprayerforthewildatheart says:

    Honestly, just DO it. Why announce it what are you trying to prove, no one cares, Jay-Z!!! “Oh, I used to like Jay-Zs music but now I hate it because he doesn’t say bitch anymore” LMAO! Get over yourself.

  70. Meanchick says:

    Welcome to the world of weaves and skin-bleaching lil BJ!

  71. crtb says:

    Memo to Jay-Z, who supposedly vowed to give up using the word “bitch” in his songs in deference to his new daughter Blue Ivy: TOO LITTLE TOO LATE! Your songs degrading women are already out there and always will be, even if you don’t record any more. The damage has been DONE by you and your fellow rappers and it will take more than erasing a word to change your revolting attitude toward women. If you’re looking for a pat on the back because you might have finally realized the damage you’ve done to the female sex, don’t hold your breath. Blue Ivy will grow up in the misogynistic world you and your fellow rappers created.

  72. Cara says:

    He said this sometime after he had gotten married too, I think. I saw it on TresSugar as well. Of course I still think he is a hypocrite.

  73. missanne says:

    I hope that baby has his nose.

  74. whatevs says:

    oh, how considerate of you.

  75. Sloane Wyatt says:

    He’s a hypocritical Ho, he sells commercial crap and calls it art.

    I do like Mary J. Blige, Marshall Mathers, Kanye, and others who put out great music and feel absolutely no need to FAKE apologize for who they are or pretend to be something they’re not. They are what they is, make great music, and I respect artists who do their thing.

    With my husband or friends, we say “p—-“, and c You Next Tuesday in a friendly happy way (Never ever as a put down), but none of us favors or uses ‘Bitch’. It’s tacky and demeans women, period.

    I don’t want to ‘reclaim’ pejorative terms for women, especially because there are too many out there to count!

  76. meme says:

    It only took 43 years.

  77. DI says:

    no such respect for baby mama??

  78. Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

    So, if he thinks it’s wrong now, on some level he knew it was wrong then. Unless he thought it was just any other gender-specific noun and Beyonce gave birth to a dictionary. I’ll bet that didn’t happen. I can’t imagine what people are going to be compelled to say about his innocent daughter, now. Hell, I’m a tiny bit compelled (just some residual infantile ‘see how you like that!’ contrariness) but the key is to exercise consideration when it comes to other people’s babies. Imagine that, there are people who aren’t me who exist. Crazy world.