Gabriel Aubry “has finally woken up and is going for the money” in his custody battle


A lot of you see Gabriel Aubry as a victim fighting back at the parental alienation and public smearing that he’s suffered at the hands of an ex with a lot more power and resources at her disposal. I don’t think of it as one-sided as that, but I respect your opinion and understand it. I just see both sides as over the top lately, but I do see how it’s more on Halle and how Gabriel is on the defensive role. He is fighting very hard to make sure he still has a relationship with his daughter, Nahla, while Halle is trying to cut him out of Nahla’s life at any cost.

Well now Gabriel is asking for a lot of money in his custody battle, according to both TMZ and Radar. He’s supposedly going for $20k a month child support, which sounds excessive to us, but let’s remember that Halle is worth $70 million. TMZ paints it as Gabriel being greedy, since TMZ gets their stories from camp Halle. Radar, typically camp Gabriel, explains that Gabe is fed up and claims that if he doesn’t get the money he’ll write a tell all about Halle. Now we heard this stuff about the tell all before, but in the earlier version Gabe was too good a person to write one and didn’t want his daughter to have to read it someday. Now he’s claiming that he’s further along in the process of dishing the dirt on Halle, and that he has some six figure offers from major publishers. Does this make him look bad because he wants money, or does this make it look like he’s pushing back from the corner he’s been placed in?

TMZ has learned what Gabriel wants in the way of $$$ — and it’s a lot. We’ve learned Aubry has filed legal docs asking the family law judge to force Halle to give him $15,000 – $20,000 a month for a proper home.

Gabriel has also asked for a laundry list of other things from Halle, including what we’re told is a “very large” amount of money for the little girl’s clothing, as well as money to take the child to Canada to visit his family.

We’re told Halle is fighting Gabriel tooth and nail on his request. The hearing on the money issues was scheduled for Monday, but it’s now been put off until April 9, in part because the family law judge wants to see what the dependency judge does to Gabriel. – From TMZ

Halle Berry is working hard to lock her ex-boyfriend and baby daddy, Gabriel Aubry, into a non-disclosure agreement to prevent the Canadian born model from spilling all about their tumultuous relationship, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting.

But, it’s going to cost her dearly, as a source tells RadarOnline.com that Gabriel is sick of being portrayed as “an abusive father, a racist and a fool” and is planning to hit Halle where it hurts — in the wallet.

As RadarOnline.com previously reported, Aubry is being urged by his friends to write a tell-all book about his relationship with Berry. And, although he is wary as he wishes to spare the feelings of the warring couple’s daughter, Nahla, a source close to the situation says he has been approached by publishers offering high six figures.

“Gabe has finally woken up and is going for the money because he knows there is no way he can fight to keep his daughter without it,” the source says. “If he doesn’t get the money he wants from Halle, he is going to go ahead a write a tell-all. Gabe has two separate high six figure offers on the table from NY publishers. Halle is terrified of this happening; it’s her worst nightmare come true — and she’s talking settlement money but locking Gabe into a non disclosure deal. So one way or another he’s going to get paid.

“Gabe has taken a lot of flack without fighting back, but now the gloves are off and he’s going all out. – From Radar

[From TMZ and From Radar]

If a woman was asking for $20,000 a month in child support, would we call it excessive? Probably. Many of you wrote in our last post that you would buy Gabriel’s book if he wrote one. I think he’s just using it as leverage to get Halle to both drop her suit trying to strip him of access to their child and pay child support. The more support Gabriel can get from Halle, the more it legitimizes his role in their daughter’s life, or at least that may be how he’s trying to spin it. I doubt he’s going to write a book. If Halle would have played nice from the beginning it would have been much less expensive for her, that’s for sure. The core issue is Nahla and the fact that she deserves to have parents who respect each other’s role in her life. I don’t see Gabriel as doing anything that would make him deserve being shut out like this.

Gabriel and Nahla are shown at the zoo on 2-19-12. Halle is shown outside Nahla’s school on 2-2-12. Credit: WENN.com

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  1. Maguita says:

    1 – Those California laws in all matters of child support are so intricate and complicated. How can you see through them is beyond me. I think it becomes easier to manipulate them to your advantage with all those precedents. But hey, if the mother of your child can ask for such things, why not the baby daddy.

    2- Aubry, stop threatening, and write the damn book. This is like selling the cow after giving away the milk for free.

    All this has become quite silly. And none of it is looking good for Nahla.

    • carrie says:

      1/ they were not married so can he have a child support?
      2/ i won’t buy his book (don’t trash about your mum of your kid )
      3/ poor kid

      • Maguita says:

        The same way the girlfriend of a basketball player gets child support. Or the ex-girlfriends of P-Diddy get child support, and a beautiful house to live in.

        That is my point: California laws are so intricate when it comes to child support.

        And I would ABSOLUTELY read the book. She went from singing his praises for being calm and grounding her when her life gets crazy, to suddenly in the last 7 months being afraid for her daughter.

        If he didn’t care about his daughter, he would have quit a long time ago.

      • Kate #2 says:

        Child support is for the kid, so I don’t think you need to be married in many jurisdictions to get it. Spousal support is another matter, and here at least you aren’t entitled unless you married.

        What I don’t get, though, is how a non-resident parent with limited visitation can get child support. It isn’t as if they have to pay out much for the parenting. In fact why isn’t he the one paying it, given Halle has the child most of the time? That’s how it would be in this country, regardless of relative financial status.

        I also can’t respect any suggestion that he write a tell-all, because my God, imagine his child at school when her friends can just order a copy from Amazon? Horrible. Hope it’s just a threat to get her to back down on his relationship with his child, or he’s as bad as she is.

        One thing you can tell from those photos is that Nahla is confident and relaxed in keeping close physical proximity. That’s not a scared child. Not with that body language.

      • Jaye says:

        Yes…you can get child support if you were never married to your ex.

      • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

        In California they use computer software called the “Dissomaster”. Both parent’s incomes, and the percentage of time spent with the child, are put into the program. The program puts out a number, then “judges discretion” comes into play.

        In this case IMO the judges discretion will go to keeping a balance for the child when she is in both homes. So no million dollar mansion with mom, and trailer park with dad scenario, and vice versa. The state finds that it’s best for the child to have full and continuing contact with BOTH parents, and so uses child support to formulate a semblance of balance, when incomes are highly divergent. It may not seem right to some, but that’s the best the courts can do in order to serve what has been established as being in the best interest of the child.

        Also, at this time HB/GA share 50/50 physical/legal custody. Nahla isn’t with HB all the time, she spends equal time with them both as of the last court order. GA’s visitation may be only temporarily limited pending the “nanny” investigation. If that hadn’t happened none of this would be an issue, as HB/GA share custody equally.

    • Jane says:

      I hope he doesn’t write the book for Nahla’s sake. One thing I am sure he should not do is enter into a non disclosure agreement. If this story is accurate, that is his trump card and he needs to find a way to keep it. Once he legally agrees to not write about their life together, she will start again with the lawyers.

      He may have the money to fight her, but the emotional toll on him and Nahla (especially as she gets older) will not change.

      • autumndaze says:

        Initially, reports stated that he did not want any money. Threatening to write a tell-all seems to have brought out the panic on Halle’s team. If this is the only means to negotiate against Halle trying to bar him from seeing his daughter, then I say, “Battle on, Aubry”.
        I hope his attorney advises him as you say and doesn’t enter a non-disclosure agreement. Could it be leveraged into some type of air-tight custody agreement?

    • mel2 says:

      I read this over the weekend on TMZ and was wondering what took so long for you guys to write this latest saga between Halle and Gabe. I really want him to write the tell all but I know this isnt good for Nahla’s sake. The child support is alittle bit extreme but this is the life style that Nahla is accustomed too. I agree that Halle has backed Gabe up against a wall so now he’s finally got the balls to take her on. I have no respect for a parent who wants a child to be fatherless. Team Gabe/Nahla all the way.

      • Maguita says:

        I think CB was waiting for Radaronline’s rebuttal. Read the same thing over the week-end on TMZ, guess it took longer for the his lawyer to offer up their side of the story… Which is good for them, because if there is one thing they are truly lacking on Gabriel’s side, is good strategy.

    • shazza fox says:

      Hallie has had a difficult time in her adult life stemming from the fact that her father walked out on the family when she was a child. She has a very difficult time relating men her own age. There is a reason she is nicknamed scary Berry. Wouldn’t you think that a woman who blames her unhappiness on an absentee father do her best to prevent her daughter from suffering the same fate?

  2. Lucy says:

    Nahla ALWAYS looks so happy and content with him. It looks like she’s doing community service when she’s with Halle.

    • brin says:

      LOL!

    • brasileira says:

      I was about to say the same. In the pics where she’s with her father, she’s smiley and doesn’t seem to be afraid of him at all (and I think she would demonstrate some sort of fear if she had seen her father acting so angry and violent so many times as Berry accuses).

      When she’s with her mother, though…. I only remember seeing her smiling in pics while playing with Olivier. I think Halle is so miserable that her own daughter doesn’t have much enjoyment while spending time with her.

      • the original bellaluna says:

        Children are very intuitive. They are very “in tune” with peoples’ moods (particularly their parents’) and it shows.

        Little ones don’t possess the ability to manipulate their moods and expressions like adults do.

        It’s very telling that Nahla appears relaxed and at ease with Gabriel, but not with Halle.

  3. Naye in VA says:

    I dont know what their agreement is but dont you have to have primary custody of the child to get support?

    • gg says:

      That’s what I thought. In 99.9% of all cases I’ve seen (I’m a paralegal and I’ve seen lots), the man hasn’t a hope of a prayer of getting primary custody.

      Her wanting to move the child to France is absurd and she knows it, but she just wants to be nasty to him and has deluded herself into thinking she could actually pull this off. So he has little choice but to play along. They’re both paying huge amounts of cash just to play this public sniping game. Or maybe she just wants him to blow all his money fighting her so he will be left broke, for spite.

      Who wins? As usual, only the lawyers.

    • Wendi says:

      Surely if she “needs” to move to France because she’s frightened of her stalkers, then he “needs” to be in a house with top notch security, something that doesn’t come cheap, just in case the same scary stalker decides to go after the little one while she’s there.

    • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

      HB/GA share custody, that’s why HB has to take GA to family court if GA doesn’t agree to what HB wants. GA’s never given up any of his parental rights.

      There’s the custodial parent, and the non-custodial parent, and then there’s visitation. Visitation and income are what child support is based upon. The custodial, and non-custodial label is for legal purposes, and is a non-issue of visitation is anywhere close to 50/50.

  4. dorothy says:

    Normally I wouldn’t be in favor of financially raping this woman. But in this case…I gotta say…Go for it! With what he’s had to deal with, he deserves it.

    • angelb says:

      Does this man work? What does he do except take pictures of him and his daughter walking somewhere. Why should she support him. Get a home brother.

  5. PJ46 says:

    Wow! Halle did not get him to sign a non disclosure deal before she decided to fight dirty. Not a very smart lady.

  6. maemay says:

    If Halle is afraid for her life and “in danger” would’nt she want her child as safe as she is when with her? Perhaps the extra money is to properly protect Nahla from Halle’s stalkers?

    • DreamyK says:

      Right? She wants to have her cake and eat it, too, but she can’t go on about safety and concern and leave her kid hanging out there during visitation. Honestly? The deal with him asking for the moon from Halle stems from the fact that every lawyer will tell you to ask for outrageous things so that there is room to negotiate downward. So I get why he is asking for 20k for housing and more for clothing etc..because he probably expects maybe 25% of that amount to be awarded.

      Halle should really look at Roseanne Barr and her ex Ben and see how much Roseanne has to shell out to ferry him and his new wife to Hawaii for visitation for ten days every month. I’m not sure, but I would imagine that she has to pay for their hotel room too since she was the one who moved there. Talk about ugly. And guess who was court ordered to foot all the legal bills? Yep. Roseanne.

      • MW says:

        Yep, he has been pushed to this point, so he figures he might as well ask for the moon and see what Halle counters with. Halle seems terrified of the idea of a book, and as someone said, that is his trump card. He needs to reach an agreement without signing a non-disclosure agreement. Halle cannot be trusted. One of these days when she is 12 or 13 or so, Nahla will be old enough for the judge to listen to her opinion on all of this. Halle better keep that in mind.

  7. Tifygodess24 says:

    I may be mistaken but I though child support was paid to the parent that has Physical custody aka -Place of residency with the Child…?? BUT Regardless this situation is Ugly and honestly they are both wrong but Halle just seems like a raging bitch.

  8. cmc says:

    I’m still on Team Nahla, which really boils down to being Team Gabriel. I don’t know how Halle managed to get me to dislike her so much, but I can just picture her raising Nahla and buying her absolutely everything her little heart desires and more, and just purchasing her way between Nahla and her father. She seems like a nasty woman and financially, the parents should be able to offer Nahla similar comforts so no one has a leg-up.

  9. jc126 says:

    Wow – look at how terrified and traumatized that kid appears when she’s with her dad! @@

    Team Aubry/Team Nahla all the way.

    • Tazina says:

      I think Halle could make this all go away if she decided to be a reasonable and decent human being in sharing Nahla in a fair manner, and quit being such a complete and utter jerk. I don’t think Gabriel even wants her money. He’s just fighting back at this point because he’s had enough of the witch hunt.

  10. mia girl says:

    Did anyone notice that Tom Hanks limped as he walked across the stage during the Oscars? Apparently Halle Berry was supposed to present with him but, since she backed out last minute because of her forever broken foot, I read he was poking fun at her.

  11. velourazure says:

    why is halle always breaking her foot? this isn’t the first time it’s happened.

    • Marjalane says:

      Probably from stomping it when she doesn’t get her way.

    • Maguita says:

      Because the crazy is weakening her bones. Not just the grey matter in her head.

    • Obvious says:

      she keeps kicking the walls like a child when she doesn’t get her way….which would explain why this one won’t heal, the judge just won’t cooperate with her plans.

      • laylajanelovesgossip says:

        She is diabetic maybe she has nerve damage due to the diabetes. Without the normal sensation she may not realize the force she is applying and hence breaking her foot. Not to mention her bones maybe more brittle due to the diabetes as well.

      • autumndaze says:

        @laylajanelovesgossip

        Neuropathy can occur in association with diabetes.
        I have never read any studies stating that bones are more brittle as a result.

    • Jaye says:

      I think her slow healing time may have something to do with her being diabetic. Don’t quote me on that, though.

      • Marjalane says:

        I thought she said that she “cured” herself of diabetes through diet.

      • beanie says:

        She has had to have injections for years. She is/has never been overweight, so her illness is more serious than just diet.

  12. Jane says:

    I think he has finally chosen his “weapon of choice”. In the past he has always been in defensive mode, waiting for the next thing to come down the pike from Halle. Having money does make a difference in the quality of your legal representation and how long you can continue to fight in the courts. Whatever income he makes probably is not near what she makes and that puts him at a disadvantage to keep fighting for Nahla. Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.

    • laylajanelovesgossip says:

      He was defensive from the JUMP!!They end their relationship then he goes out with Kim Kardashian!! Knowing full well that is gonna get on Halle’s nerves.

      He started something he can’t finish, he will not win. He is calling the paps of course they will be having happy daddy and Nahla time in every picture. DUH!!!!

      • autumndaze says:

        Even when Halle calls the paps her daughter looks miserable.

      • V says:

        how is it that dating someone your ex doesn’t like is the equal to being “defensive?” Is Halle being defensive because she’s dating another man?
        So, to be sure, according to you this man deserves to have his daughter completely removed from his life by an obviously unstable woman because he was seen out with someone who ‘gets on her nerves?’

        I agree, that kid always looks totally miserable with her mom and seems to really light up around her dad. Even if the paps are intentionally summoned by one or both parents the kids face doesn’t lie.

  13. nan says:

    Go get her Gabriel!!!

  14. Catherine says:

    I’m really not surprised about this. I think when you push someone around a lot they eventually get mad and want to get even. I don’t really think this is about really wanting the money as much as he probably wants to hurt her for bullying him so much. I feel bad for the daughter that has to suffer through this. And as for TMZ and their info, I can’t be bothered with them anymore because they are really one sided in this case which to me they should be neutral if they are really a news site.

  15. Gene Parmesan says:

    Halle is worth 70mil?? wow!! But doesnt Gabriel make a lot of money from modelling? isnt he one of the top male models of the past decade? along with David Gandy and Tyson Ballou (my lover)

    • Reece says:

      Yeah but he doesn’t make $70 mil worth. That’s Gisele Bunchen/Heidi Klum money.
      Modelling is one of the few careers where women make WAY more than men.

  16. garvels says:

    Go Gabriel…it is about time that Halle gets a dose of her own medicine.

    • teri says:

      I agree with you just like most of the world who’s commented on this. Halle is using her money to make the father look bad and money does talk loud and clear.

  17. Leek says:

    That third picture is so sweet. How could any loving person want to take that away from their child.

    • Lucy says:

      Because HB is more about being RIGHT and having her way than about what’s best for Nahla. She has shown herself to be a true a$$hole.

  18. CC says:

    Would he be the primary caretaker? Why is he entitled child support if not? I bet that said money will/would/whatever mostly support him, not the kid.

    • Lucky Charm says:

      Whether he has primary custody or not, he is entitled to child support because he makes far less than HB does. The child is entitled to maintain her standard of living, and since he cannot financially provide that by himself he gets child support to help equal the difference. Since HB is the higher earner, she has to pay more towards the monthly support amount the courts set.

      • Kate #2 says:

        Thank you for that. I’m English, and that isn’t the law over here so it was puzzling me somewhat.

  19. Dominique says:

    I’ll never understand how a woman that didn’t grow up with a father and whose relationships with men have been greatly affected by this could want the same thing for her own daughter. Halle is really petty and selfish for everything she’s doing to that kid.

    • Redheadwriter says:

      My thoughts exactly.

    • C Dan says:

      I have been wondering for quite some time now, if maybe Halle’s mother played this way with Halle’s father?! Back then, father’s really had no chance in the courts or society, and if Halle’s mother made it difficult for him to have a role in her life, maybe he just didn’t fight it? Hence the reason, she “grew up without a father and hates men” if she was only getting her mother’s side of the story, who knows what she was told about her dad. Halle didn’t catch her “crazy” from thin air, maybe her mother is as well.?!

      IDK though…who does.

      • TG says:

        This is what I have been thinking for awhile now and many of us have commented about this on here. I believe her mom is the one that created this narcissist “I am a victim” monster.

      • MW says:

        Me too!

  20. mar says:

    from the start, Halle has thrown these silly remarks out there about Gabe, almost like she had an agenda from the start to make him look really bad.

    I do not trust Halle, her past says it all, she is not a nice person.

    I think Gabe should do what so many baby mommas do, get his cut!!!!!

    sorry but that is my opinion

  21. JM says:

    Sign me up for team Nahla = Team Gabriel.

    I don’t care what went down between him & Halle. A child needs their father and Halle’s flavor of the moment is not a suitable replacement. If Halle really wanted what was best for her daughter, she’d suck up whatever issues she has with Gabe and be civil. It can be done but only if both parents behave like adults not spoiled brats.

  22. QoFE says:

    CA child support laws are simple. Using a computer program, the court inputs both parents income and the computer spits out the number based on income and time spent with both parents. Custody has nothing to do with it…..just like not paying support (ordered or not) does not affect visitation rights (read: you can be a total deadbeat and still see your kid as much as allowed).

  23. sassenach says:

    There is no way Halle is worth 70 million. Where are you getting that figure from? She barely works and is not in the top tier salary A-list catergory.

    He is not asking for money for legal fees, he is asking for money to live on and that is a big difference. he is going after her money because he doesn’t get many jobs and his restaurant that Halle bought him failed. She is crazy but he is weak and a leech and needs to make his own money.

  24. Violet says:

    Having to deal with ongoing custody issues, plus regularly having to temporarily relocate to wherever Halle is living and/or working, must be incredibly expensive as well as disruptive to Gabriel’s career.

    Considering Halle’s net worth and the hoops she makes him jump through in order to spend time with his child — nevermind her underhanded batsh*t stunts — I don’t even think he’s asking for an outrageous amount. I hope he gets the support he’s requesting.

  25. Jayna says:

    Get a job. You have the kid only half the time. Loser.

  26. Gal says:

    Halle is trashing Gabriel and Nahla will read all about it someday. I hope he doesn’t write the book (even though I would probably read it), but uses it for leverage. Halle sucks.

  27. Dap says:

    It’s about time.

  28. dorothy says:

    Hope she’s retired from acting, cause this behavior just ruined her career.

  29. Agnes says:

    they both seem like petty idiots, with halle being the waaaay bigger one. they should think about the well-being of their kid and just give up this feud. move on, good god.

    • MW says:

      Just curious, but what would you suggest that GA be doing instead so as to not look like a “petty idiot”, and still retain even a snowball’s chance in Hell of ever seeing his daughter again? I just think having no press on his behalf (giving up the feud) would be a huge error, but maybe there is a better way he could handle this that I just do not see?

  30. skuddles says:

    Well I do recall reading a short while ago that Berry informed the court that she is much more financially capable of raising Nahla than Aubry. I suspect that has a lot to do with why he’s going for the gusto now. I’m glad to see he’s fighting back.

  31. Ameilia says:

    This bitch needs to be knocked on her ass. She is a psychotic woman who wants to make everyone else look bad so she isn’t the one who looks like a crazy loon. I hope he nails her hard

  32. Ameilia says:

    And since she CHOSE to have the kid with him, she needs to grow the F up. Stop acting like a spoiled 2 year old who didn’t get her way. God these stars are pathetic human beings

    • Sugar says:

      True that! That is why I like celebitchy it gives us hard working normals a great outlet to bitch about the stars who bring it on all by their behaviors. Having survived thru the horrors of the custody battle myself, there are parents out there who truly make it evil plain & simple for the other parent -they want to hurt them but they do it thru their children making it even all the more diabolical. I truly see HB in that role.

  33. Loulou says:

    As a fellow French-C, Halle’s type is an aberration and I see Gabriel sticking it to her for the serious digs (no pun intended) at his child rearing skills. Sadly, he’s stooping to Berry’s level by attacking what she stands on to beat him down – the money – but economic domination is the only language Berry speaks. She’s loveless and overall gives the vibe of a “preying” mantis. Nahla hopefully has uncles and aunts to make better role models, so she can grow up in a healthy and grounded way. Off my soapbox now.

  34. TheOriginalVictoria says:

    Team f–king Halle Berry. I have taken a side after all and I’m only taking Halle’s side because as I said before Aubry is just as much a piece of sh-t as she is but I feel that since mainstream is treating her like sh-t, I’m gonna stand by her. I’ll still call her out but she’s got my support on this site 100%

    Threatening a tell all? Most black folk who follow black entertainment already know the majority of shit about Halle so I guess he’s got to take it to mainstream right so she can really be ostracised.

    Right….I like the way you think Aubry. LOL.

    He is SUCH a victim and a great person that instead of taking the high road and letting Halle fail on her own, he’s going to get even more petty at his daughter’s expense! Which is what I already knew. He’s a douche just like she is. They are both wrong and it makes me think Halle hasn’t lied as much as people wanna believe.

    Halle, a sista has your back.

  35. boo says:

    To me Halle is a self-centered entitled little diva, and Gabriel is a great dad, I’m team Gabriel all the way. Get that money, and get that visition. Why not? Women do it all the time, why can’t he?

  36. Blue says:

    This poor child. Both her parents are assholes. There is 3 sides to every story so I’m on team innocent child.
    Also I thought child support was awarded to the parent who has primary custody? I doubt he’s going to get all that money though.

    • beanie says:

      I’m with you, Blue. I think Halle’s Mom should raise her and the courts dismiss all of Halle and Gabe’s issues. That will teach them both to put the child ahead of whatever they feel for each other.

      • MW says:

        That is the exact reason we have laws to protect our rights, or issues, as you call them. So no one can just arbitrarily ” teach us a lesson” if they do not agree, or if they just randomly favor one person or idea over another with no basis.

  37. Dani says:

    Two adults, both showing their ugly sides. This is what custody battles always end up doing. I do think it is wrong for Halle to try and separate this little girl from her father. Nahla will resent her mother in the future if such happens.

    Now GA threatening to write a tell-all book. Ugh. Tit for tat. Bring in the lawyers and now we see how ugly it can really get. Ultimately nobody wins, especially not the child who has her parents at each other’s throat.

  38. stacy says:

    Halle does come off as mean and nasty — and she appears to have a temper problem.

    Wonder if the judge will see thru her.
    Wonder if her current beau will see thru her as well.

    I wish her no luck in her attempt to stomp on the father of her child’s rights while she tries to ruin the guy’s good name. She’s a sad mean lady.

  39. NO SH¡T says:

    He’s sorry ass bum he’s fine but still a bum she should have got a sperm donor from the beginning then her dumbass won’t be in this mess because money is a terrible thing to waste.

  40. The Truth Fairy says:

    Fight fire with fire!

  41. Embee says:

    Just do not comprehend Halle’s approach to this situation. WHY does she not want her daughter to know the love of her father?!?!

    I hate my ex; I literally despise him. He cost me almost everything: house, job, friends. Still, he loves our daughter, and treats her like a princess, and because of that I simply never tell him he cannot see her.

    Halle’s behavior is indefensible. I think that GA has waited this long to bring out the big guns is testament to his goodwill toward the situaiton, but now that she’s threatening to take his child to another country he will not sit idly by. Don’t blame him, really.

  42. bluhare says:

    Doesn’t he have to be named father on her birth certificate? Did he get the cert modified already?

    I always thought that was a sly move by Halle, not having him listed. Makes a person wonder if she was ready to dump him when Nahla was born.

    • Lucky Charm says:

      IIRC, isn’t that when this $h!tstorm all started, when he requested his name added to the birth certificate? Once he’s named on the bc, he immediately has more parental rights. Which is probably why HB didn’t name him in the first place, she never wanted a father for her daughter.

    • Jill says:

      He could petition the court to have his name put on her birth certificate. If a paternity test proves positive, the court would almost certainly agree.

    • skuddles says:

      Really? I didn’t know that…. yes, that is a pretty vile thing to do and rather telling – clearly she had thoughts of cutting him out of the picture even then. What a lovely human being.

    • the original bellaluna says:

      No. It’s called a court-ordered paternity test, and they are pretty common.

      Once paternity is established, it doesn’t matter if he’s on the birth certificate or not.

  43. Maritza says:

    I’m sure he’s just doing what his lawyer tells him to do. Halle just wants him out of her daughter’s life which is a mean thing to do. So if war is what she wants then Gabriel is going for where it hurts, her pocket!

  44. jano1981 says:

    Hey everyone.
    Just really want to remind u how much you can not see anything from a still photo. He could be telling her that they are going for icecream and these don’t look like just a day of errands, but a visit to the park. My kids are always stoked on park outtings never for errands. Pictures would totally reflect that. I am happy a judge is going to decide on the little ones fate. I know I do not have enough info to make judgement.

  45. MS says:

    Good for him! Nahla is such a gorgeous child and needs both parents involved in her life.

    Halle has never been a very stable individual.

  46. Hypocricy says:

    For me, neither Halle, nor Gabriel has the moral ground.

    I don’t understand how two adults who have made love to conceive a child, one of which carrying that child 9 months creating a life with the genes of the other one, would go to those extremes.

    Every move they made, the both of them equally is not in the best kid interest, it’s in theirs only, to take cheap shots and attack the other parent.

    A child doesn’t need you to have a better home, better toys, a child just need your love and enough to eat. A child doesn’t need to be taken away from one parent who loves her too. A child doesn’t need a tell all book that denigrAte one of her parents, otherwise, at some point, she will take sides at your detriments and it will just fuel counter attacks and unecessary bitterness.

    Both Halle and Gabriel equally are at fault. He is like 35 years old, the best he can do is go on with his life, maybe even recreate a better, fitte, healthier environement for his daughter through another family not some book denigrating the mother of his only child.

  47. Cerulean says:

    Poor Nahla. She is doomed. Both of them are selfish.

  48. sallyreo says:

    My dad was an inspiration to me. My mom on the other hand was mean, vindictive, sorry excuse for a mother.
    Her bro molested me and she said “your
    uncle just wanted to see if you were
    wearing underwear”. I was 7 or 8 years old. I only felt safe and protected around my dad. My dad was my friend, my mentor, and the best father anyone could have. Nahla looks very, very happy around her dad. I pray for her
    and her dad.

    • anon33 says:

      Sallyreo, I am so sorry that happened to you, and that your mother didn’t believe you. I hope you were able to take the love of your father and get to a better place in your life despite what was done to you.

      • sallyreo says:

        My dad died when I was seventeen, but the witch needed me to help support her
        and my siblings. After a while of constant abuse I left home. Weeks later she apologized and I came back home to help out. She died in 2006 and
        I did not shed one tear. I have forgiven her and moved on…I am blessed, happy and a child’s advocate.
        People don’t realize how often chldren
        are abused not only by stangers but by
        family members.

    • lileneboheme says:

      Oh no, I’m so sorry that happened to you

  49. Coucou says:

    Oooh my goodness, that next to last picture of them, with her touching his face…oh my god, Halle, get a grip, let a girl have her dad…just think of the child FFS. Come to think of it, is Halle close with her own dad i wonder?

  50. Jill says:

    Halle may be a bitch but for his daughter’s sake he should keep his mouth shut.

    BTW that is one beautiful little girl.

  51. chloe says:

    I feel Halle started this sh**&t storm so she’s getting what she deserves, but I still find it sad that Gabriel is having to stoop to her level to fight for his rights as a father. Just because he doesn’t make as much money as Halle he shouldn’t be peanlized in this custody fight, so good for him for asking for the cash. I still feel sorry for that little girl.

  52. MST says:

    I know it’s mean, but I don’t think that child is particularly attractive. She has her father’s beady eyes. It seems that racially mixed children and blonde white women are ALWAYS regarded as beautiful, even if they’re not. If her skin was the same color as Viola Davis’, I don’t think anyone would say she was cute.

  53. Chatcat says:

    Halle wants what she wants when she wants it and is using her kid as a pawn. Nothing makes me sicker then when a parent uses a child like this. I try to live by the adage “there are two sides of every story…” HOWEVER, she seems like a total whack job and I have to feel and side with Gabriel in this case. I believe he is looking out for his little girl and Halle is making it impossible for him.

  54. BerMan says:

    The little girl obviously loves her daddy and he loves her very much. – He’s fighting for this life to keep her close. Geez, alot of other men would let the ex’s have their new boyfriends take the load off. But, not Gabriel. So Kudos to him and win YOUR rights to be with your little girl.

    • me says:

      She already has to pay his travel and hotel expenses so he can visit Nahla when she’s on location with her mom.

  55. Momo says:

    I thought the higher income earner is the one who pays child support?

  56. Mitch Buchanan Rocks says:

    A great discussion as always, the comments are the best 🙂

  57. Katherine says:

    $20,000 is not a lot of money at all for people in their income brackets. Whether he has primary physical custody or not he still has to maintain a home for her when she stays with him. He still has to provide and, in this case, pay security. And because of the batshit bitchy Halle he will have to end up paying attorney’s fees until that child is 18. THAT you can count on.

    I hope he has a barracuda for a lawyer. One that will wisely insert penalties into any agreement they sign.

    You’d think Halle would want to ensure that her daughter has a nice home in a nice neighborhood while she is staying with her dad. This woman doesn’t have an ounce of sense.

    • maemay says:

      True considering the fact that Halle is afraid for her life, would’nt she want her child to have the same protection she has when with her?

      If she did’nt want to pay she should of done a Padma.

      • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

        maemay, that is a great point. I never even thought of that, Gabe doesn’t even have a fence around his yard, and his house is right on the street. And HB has been okay with that, even though she says she’s afraid for herself and Nahla, and that’s why she wants to move to France? That just makes no sense.

    • hmm says:

      He’s a grown man with a lucrative career and it’s not up to Halle to make sure that Gabriel has a nice house. She has earned her money and seems to take good care of her daughter’s needs and if it is important for Gabriel to provide a nice home then he’s capable of doing that for himself and his daughter.

      • me says:

        If he’s the non-custodial parent why does he get child support? Can someone explain this? Everything I’ve read says he has “visitation” and usually that means that he would be paying the child support, not receiving it. It sounds like legal harrassment or borderline extortion to me.

      • aprayerforthewildatheart says:

        As of their last court order they share 50/50 custody both legal and physical. If they didn’t, Gabe wouldn’t have any legal grounds to ask for support. Also it would be much easier for Halle to pick up and leave because the courts wouldn’t see it as disruptive to Nahla’s visitation schedule. There’s a reason HB keeps taking GA to court, and that’s because he’s never given up any of his legal rights to Nahla.

      • maemay says:

        Not a nice house but a safe house considering the mother fears for her life.

    • TG says:

      18? I think it is more like 21 if she goes to college after high school. Or if she gets a job and is fully supporting herself when she is of age then the custody issues will be moot I think. Nahla is one gorgeous girl though.

  58. lola8 says:

    Have you seen Halle’s stalker? Looks like Karma really is a b!tch. 🙂

  59. me says:

    I think it’s only fair to say that nobody really knows what Gabriel may or may not be saying/doing to wind Halle up. I’ve had personal experience with nutters who are antagonistic in a passive aggressive way, then when I got upset, the nutter pulled a “who me? Little innocent me?” act. So all I’m saying is that, before bashing Halle, take it under consideration that everything that glitters isn’t gold. Gabriel may appear the injured party but that could just be his spin.

  60. Kosmos says:

    From the beginning, I don’t see why she did not agree to equal custody, with the child living primarily with the mother? Why did she have issues with this simple plan? She had a child with the father, she was with him in a relationship for five years, not just a few months. The union didn’t work out and now she wants him out of the picture, but legally she has to give him rights. The length of the relationship alone proves that there was some kind of commitment at one time. I’m sure she doesn’t like having to share her daughter with the father post-breakup, but she has to abide by the rules just like everyone else who has had to do this. She shouldn’t be treated as a privileged person. She should have thought about this possible outcome before she decided to have a child with Gabriel. I hope he wins joint custody. As long as he’s a good father, he should not have fewer rights than the mother, sorry.

  61. Mooshi says:

    My son is gifted and after 11years of his fathers abandonment, (he was 5), he still feels the pain.

    I went to drop off my son for visitation and his fathers house was empty.

    This child loves her father. Its obvious. Please spare her that pain. Her mother is being selfish.

    • Mooshi says:

      And to add to that.

      MY x husband was a cheater. And I thought it was best that his child still see his father no matter what. He loved his daddy.

      I never asked for alimony and only a modest child support (and he had a thriving business).

      MY personal anger over his infidelity was not the issue. My SON was the issue.
      And my son’s emotional needs to me were more important.
      Grow up Halle

  62. Hypocricy says:

    If Madonna, who is a greater star could manage to have a great relationship with Carlos Leon while she was living outside the US raising their child while Carlos who had a less lucrative career than Gabriel managed to raise his daughter well when she was sent to him at times, i don’t understand why those two can’t !

    It’s the exact same situation and Madonna’s child was more at risk since she is the bigger name.

    I don’t know why these two can’t just sit down and talk and stop hating each other because that’s where it stinks and starts.

    Lola has a great chemistry with her father, step father and mother though she wasn’t raised with her father.

    The thing is her mother and her father get on well, Madonna made sure to raise her child respecting and loving her father even speaking spanish.

    Halle and Gabriel should stop hating each other, thinking aboput that example. then and only then, they will find a compromise while their daughter will be as grounded as Lola because their parents will keep that tenderness and respect for each other.

    • Jill says:

      Totally agree. I’m not a Madonna fan at all but she and Carlos León did handle the divorce well and acted like adults instead of two spoiled kids flinging sand at each other in the sandbox.

  63. Jennifer12 says:

    Halle is pretty much trying to bury him under legal fees. He does not have the endless money she does. Her selfishness is ridiculous and her ugly behavior worse. Look at the body language in those photos; grow the hell up, Halle. He’s the child’s father. Suck it up, live your life, parent your kid and be civil. Jesus.

  64. Petunia says:

    These two give me the ICK factor. Halle loves to smear her exes and is frothing t the mouth to get Nahla away from Gabriel. Gabriel, meanwhile, has those troubling violence charges pending against him. And now THIS? They’re both so over the top that it’s un-freaking-believable.

  65. skuddles says:

    It’s so obvious this little girl is nuts about her Dad. She looks so happy and relaxed and comfortable with him. They both radiate joy. What an awful pity it would be if they were taken from each other.

  66. lola says:

    I lost all respect for Halle Berry when she did her hit and run way back. And then she had ANOTHER hit and run. In the second case, she had the audacity to claim she was victimized because she had to have stitches in her head. Helloo—you fled the scene of an accident and you are the victim?

    She seems like a gigantic narcissist to me.

  67. Adrien says:

    I don’t follow this case at all. But I want to know why Halle named her daughter after a Lion King lioness. I can’t take this custody case seriously.

  68. bagladey says:

    If Halle is making it a necessity for Gabriel to get money that he doesn’t have, to fight these legal battles that Halle keeps creating, then he has to write the book; and I will buy it in support of him and his dedication to remaining in his daughter’s life, and because I’m dying to read it: I want to know how the crazy beyotch behaves behind closed doors.

  69. the original bellaluna says:

    I honestly think Gabriel is using this as leverage against Halle to make her play fair. LONG OVERDUE, IMO.

    I would (and will) pay full retail price for this book, if it ever comes to light, because I firmly believe she’s the one acting like a child when it comes to getting her way.

    Shame on Halle for letting it get this far, for embroiling Nahla in this mess, and for trying to deny her daughter a daddy who loves her enough to go to such lengths.