Kelly Clarkson on what would happen if her daughter is gay: ‘Oh, I don’t care’

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Kelly Clarkson gave a new interview to Pride Source and while none of the quotes are going to cause a commotion, it’s still an interesting piece. Kelly is promoting her new album, obviously, and as we’ve seen before, she’s definitely pandering a little bit to the Motherhood Industrial Complex. With Kelly, though, it seems genuine. I buy that she’s genuinely thrilled beyond belief to be a mom and she thinks River Rose is the most perfect baby ever. Pride Source even asks her what her reaction would be if River Rose came out to her, and Kelly’s reaction is really cool. You can read the full interview here. Some highlights:

Whether she’s a gay icon: “I guess it’s hard to fathom you can be an icon in general. I don’t consider myself an icon at all, but no – I have a lot of gay and lesbian friends and they like my stuff, so I guess it’s not so hard for me to think (the gay community) might like my music. But I don’t know … I’m not an icon. I’ve only been doing this for 13 years. You’ve gotta be doing it for a good 20 to gain that status.

She’s always been different: “I’ve always been different. I’ve never been the girl that has to feel like she has to get all dolled up every day. I’ve always been kind of a tomboy. I’ve always been very outspoken, and, you know, my mom is too. I don’t know any other way to be. It’s just my personality.”

Raised as a Southern Baptist: “At my church, whenever I did attend Sunday service, that was never talked about. I know that is what the doctrine of Southern Baptist is, but they also said don’t drink and dance, but we drank and danced! (Laughs) I don’t think I grew up in some hardcore community where people were like that. I grew up in a very accepting household. I was taught to accept everybody how they are, and I admire my mom for that. She’s never taught me hate.

What would happen if River Rose was a lesbian: “Oh, I don’t care. I mean, here’s what I hope for her: I just hope she finds love. It took me a while, man. And there was a lot of heartache throughout those years. You know, as long as she’s happy, I don’t care either way, and neither does my husband. And we have two other kids as well, and we don’t care either way for all of them.

Pop stars selling sex: “There’s a reason why women have been revered as long as we have been – even back in the day most statues are of us; most paintings are of us – (and it’s because) we’re a beautiful form, and I get it. I get that that is sexy and I’m so in support of that. I love a sexy video. I don’t even mind raciness. I don’t mind that at all. I just mind when people use that as the entire basis of their career. The only reason that I say that is because I feel those people are short-sighting themselves. I’m like, “You’re far more talented than that.” Yes, you can be sexy and risque, but some of these women have these amazing voices and these amazing ideals, and they have more to offer than just that.

Gay rights & the way forward: “I think it’s silly that we’re still talking about gay rights. I just live in this world where people are accepted, so it’s very hard for me to even realize that that still exists. It’s hard for me to wrap my brain around it. That (gay couple) was a no-brainer, and I didn’t even think, “Oh, I’m making a statement for gay rights.” I was making a statement for the loss of love and the hope that you can still find it, regardless of what form that comes in. It wasn’t a purposeful thing. Love is love in whatever relationship it may be in.

[From Pride Source]

Yeah, I don’t think of Kelly as a gay icon either, but she has the potential to be, for sure, if her career continues for another decade. I think it’s great that she’s so accepting and “love is love” about LGBTQ issues in general, and specifically about her family. Her words reminded me of what Brad Pitt has always said about his kids too – that he’s considered what would happen if one of them came out and he would be completely fine with it. That’s what we want from this new generation of parents, isn’t it?

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Photos courtesy of Fame/Flynet and Kelly’s Instagram.

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  1. Kitten says:

    I want her to be my friend.

  2. aims says:

    As it should be. If my child came to me and said they are gay, it would be a non-issue. I would be thrilled if someone loved my child the way they should be. The thought that someone could reject their own child because they’re gay hurts my heart.

    • Neelyo says:

      Maybe it’s because I skipped my Zoloft today but your post bought a tear to my eye.

    • homegrrrlll says:

      Honestly I used to care, I thought it would make my son’s life harder. But I was uneducated! This may sound silly, but the Transgendered character on OITNB opened my heart to the issue and I’m a total advocate now for choice. If my son is gay ( right now I can’t tell?) that’s fine. I’m a new and smarter parent and will help usher in new attitudes.

      • Otaku fairy says:

        “Honestly I used to care, I thought it would make my son’s life harder.”

        I do think that’s a valid anxiety and see why a parent would worry about that. Having a worry about other people making your child’s life hell because of their sexual orientation or gender identity wouldn’t make you homophobic or transphobic, as long as you’re still supportive. The people you care about most having your back makes a difference and means a lot.

    • paranormalgirl says:

      I don’t give a hoot what any of my kids identify as, as long as they are good human beings who love truly and honestly and from the heart. And are happy. I want my kids to be happy.

  3. bettyrose says:

    It’s great that the world has changed so much in just a few years, but I still think it’s weird to applaud parents for being decent humans. Isn’t a healthy happy child who grows into a contributing member of society the most anyone can hope for in parenthood? But I think she’s basically saying that.

    • littlemissnaughty says:

      I think most people are more relieved than anything when someone makes a statement like that. I know I am because even if it should be the norm, it’s really not.

  4. Murphy says:

    The best reaction I ever heard to the question/idea that one’s child might be gay was Jackie on Roseanne (in baby talk to baby Andy) “I’ll march in a parade with you, yes I will!”

  5. a cut above says:

    Love it. And I think the job of parent is to love and accept the kid that you HAVE, letting go of all your preconceptions of what you wanted them to be like.

  6. msw says:

    She also makes a good point about sexuality in music. Be sexy, yay! But women are more than that.

    • Kitten says:

      She articulated that so well right?
      She didn’t get on her high horse, she didn’t get preachy or slam other women….

    • JosieJ says:

      Completely agree. I loved what she had to say and how she said it. I think of Miley. She is talented but I’m sick of the over sexualized everything about her. We get it.

    • lucy2 says:

      I love what she said about it, and I think she’s right. It’s fine to be those things, but just don’t be ONLY those things.

    • mia girl says:

      Yes! That is one of the best answers to date to that type of question.

      All female singers should take that response, print it, frame it and hang it on the wall.

    • Otaku fairy says:

      And she doesn’t resort to prudish misogynistic language to get her point accross- she’s not playing chastity police or modesty cop, like other famous feminist celebrities have been doing. She’s not saying “Don’t be sexy, naked, raunchy or wild”-which is what others have been saying. She’s saying you can be that, but don’t just be that. Show other things too throughout your career. I think it’s balanced advice.

    • Josefa says:

      Yeah, she absolutely nailed it. It happens so much in the industry. Girls like Rita Ora and Nicki Minaj really ARE talented, but they minimize themselves so much with their music and videos.

  7. Sayrah says:

    She has always seemed like such a genuine person. I want to be her friend too

  8. JosieJ says:

    I love Kelly and enjoyed this interview. I think she is very genuine about motherhood. Kelly can sing anything and sing it amazing.

  9. INeedANap says:

    OMG THOSE BABY CHUBBY CHEEKS
    Seriously, her baby is wildly adorable. Congrats to her and her family!

  10. Rhiley says:

    I don’t think she is a gay icon, like Cher, but I think NPH and David Burka’s first dance was to one of her songs which is pretty sweet and kind of an honor. I have always liked Kelly Clarkson minus her taste in hairstyles. She seems like a great mom.

    • Santia says:

      Isn’t it odd that Cher was considered such an icon by the gay community and yet she had so many issues when her child came out, as first gay, and then transgender? Such a difference between public perception and reality.

      • Rhiley says:

        Yeah, and she played a lesbian on film way before Chaz came out as a gay woman. But I think Cher is probably a lot more conservative than she lets on.

  11. minx says:

    She sounds like a very nice, level headed person.

  12. kri says:

    Her baby is very fortunate-KC has always struck me as a very good person. She seems genuinely happy, and not an industry product. I admire her. Go Kelly!

  13. nicegirl says:

    This really hits home for me, and I completely understand how Kelly feels.

    My child (no longer a little one, almost a grown man!) recently (LAST WEEK, y’all) ‘came out’ to me that he may be bi, and it is, truly, no big deal to me, whatsoever. He is such a light, such a wonder, such a gift, I think – OF COURSE he sees many as worthy of love! I am forever blessed to be his mother, and I pray he receives all good things life has to offer. I am so, so, deeply, proud and amazed by who he has become – he accepts everyone and appreciates almost everything, is hard working, genius level intelligent, warm, honest, non-judgmental and yet stands up for his beliefs and those of others. AND he still talks to his mother, about the real? MY CUP RUNNETH OVER

  14. Diana B says:

    God, I love her so much.

  15. JH says:

    If you truly love your kids, it is simply a non-issue. Happiness, health and kindness- that’s all that matters.

  16. Lulu says:

    I love seeing pics of River because she always looks like a happy, loved and content little baby. It’s sad when you see photos of kids like North who always look miserable but this kid makes me wanna pinch her little smiley cheeks!

  17. Amanda says:

    That’s a really random question to ask a new mom. I don’t know the context of the conversation, but it’s still odd.

    • Tiffany says:

      @ Amanda. I believe she did the interview for a publication that caters to the gay community.

      I am waiting for the day to just say it is a publication.

      • get it together says:

        I don’t think it’s wrong or discriminatory to say a magazine caters to the gay community. To me, almost every magazine caters to a certain community. Runner’s World caters to the running community. Vogue, Elle, and the like cater to the fashion community. Latina magazine caters to the hispanic community, etc.

  18. Josefa says:

    I’ve always loved Kelly. She has always striked me as a genuinely grounded and easy going person.