Priyanka Chopra was bullied when she came to America at the age of 13

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Priyanka Chopra covers the new issue of Complex, and this interview is… something. Full disclosure: this is the first time I’ve ever sat down and read a full-length interview with Priyanka. I’ve always liked her and rooted for her, just at a “yay, Indian ladies are doing it for themselves” level. But she doesn’t want to be seen as an Indian actress, just as actress. Unfortunately, because Mindy Kaling is right about almost everything, women of color still have to answer questions about what it’s like to be a woman of color rather than their art. Priyanka talks to Complex about stereotypes, being victimized by an African-American bully when she was 13, about her love of Tupac, about how she would love to be James Bond and not a Bond Girl. You can read the full piece here, and here are some highlights:

She’s a child of destiny: “I’m so not a planner. I’m destiny’s favorite child, other than Beyoncé.”

Fame: “I’ve been famous for more than half my life. I don’t know anything else anymore. This is my normal.”

Coming to America at the age of 13: “I was bullied by a freshman named Jeanine. She was black, and supremely racist. Jeanine used to say, ‘Brownie, go back to your country, you smell of curry,’ or ‘Do you smell curry coming?’ You know when you’re a kid, and you’re made to feel bad about where your roots are, or what you look like? You don’t understand it, you just feel bad about who you are… I told my mom, ‘I don’t want to do this anymore.’”

Her music career, and love of Tupac: “Nineties music has influenced me tremendously. Movies became my profession, but music was always my heart, in a way, my passion…I was supposed to be Mrs. Shakur. Then he died. Yeah, I wore black to school for 30 days.”

She didn’t want to do an Indian-centric American TV show: “That’s exactly what I didn’t want to do. I was very sure I did not want to be the stereotype of what Indian people are seen as, which is Bollywood, and henna. That’s all great! It’s what we are, and I love it. I love saris; I love music; I love henna; I love dancing, but that’s not all we are. I wanted to be seen as just an actor, not because of my ethnicity or where I come from. I think global entertainment needs to become like that. It needs to be about the best person for the job rather than what you look like or where you come from. And I wanted to be one of the first people to take a step in that direction.”

Indian actors playing stereotypes: “There are so many Indian actors who have crossed over, and have done a lot of work in the West, but they’ve always been made to speak like Apu [from The Simpsons]. I want to be able to break the stereotype of what Indian people or people of South Asian descent are supposed to be. Nobody’s supposed to be anything. You can be whoever you want. And I want young people to see that.”

#OscarsSoWhite. “Art should not be bound by barriers or language. The Hindi film industry is a testament to that. We speak only Hindi, but we premiere in Germany and Japan. Our films do phenomenally well there. We transcend the barriers of language and culture. We welcome you in. I think that’s what art should be, and I hope America reaches that place.”

Her “Daddy’s Little Girl” tattoo: “He was always about the fact that I didn’t have to fit in. I didn’t have to be a boy to be successful. In India, boys are looked at to be the workers. Girls are supposed to get married and have babies. My parents gave me the ability to be fearless in whatever I do. My mother is a double MD, and I’m from a family of overachievers, so don’t even ask.”

Her ambition: “Box office is king. We’re in the business of entertainment. If your business makes money, it’s successful, then you’re successful. It’s the simple truth of business.”

Whether she would be a Bond Girl: “I get that all the time. But f–k that—I wanna be Bond.”

[From Complex]

There’s a lengthy discussion about how she got the role in Quantico, and a backstory I knew nothing about – ABC signed Priyanka to a contract and basically gave her all of their scripts and let her choose. She chose Quantico because the character was a blank slate as far as race/ethnicity. She also throws some subtle shade on the insular quality of the Hollywood system, where no one who works in LA even knew that she was a major star in Bollywood and she’s consistently treated like she’s “new” to all of this. As for Priyanka wanting to be James Bond and not a Bond Girl… Angelina Jolie said that! She said that years ago, after she was approached to be in one of the Daniel Craig movies.

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Photos courtesy of Complex.

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  1. LizLemonGotMarried says:

    I LOVE that they signed her and said, take your pick. That is FREAKING awesome! Go Priyanka!

    • Erinn says:

      Right?! Wouldn’t that just be the coolest offer? Man – to have your choice of scripts, and for her to choose it that way. She’s pretty awesome.

  2. Margo S. says:

    She is so stunningly beautiful. Inside and out! Love her! I want her to be bond too!

    • V4Real says:

      She’s my new girl crush.

      I just don’t like the way they photoshopped her legs in that pic. It’s like they made the part right around the knee area too narrow. It doesn’t match up with her hips.

    • Elle says:

      I remember first seeing the ad for Quantico and I think I might have actually gasped she is so ridiculously gorgeous

  3. NotSoSocialButterfly says:

    Impossibly gorgeous woman. Love the Bond comment.
    As to Mrs. Shakur… well, they possibly could have made the most beautiful children the universe could ever conceive of, and could you imagine the force of will they would have possessed?

  4. me says:

    Good for her.

  5. Locke Lamora says:

    There are pettitions to make Gillian Anderson the new Bond. I’d love that.

    I’m meh about her. She’s awful on Quantico, but she is beautiful and seems like a nice woman. So good for her.

    Does the fact that she’s so beautiful affect the way she represents people? I often read from people of colour how they don’t feel represented in Hollywood. As an Eastern European-ish woman, the only thing we get to be in Hollywood movies are prostitutes where looks doesn’t really matter, but the Eastern European actresses who do cross over are models with no accents or you get Ana Karenjina or Natasa Rostova played by posh British actresses, so I never feel like they represent me. Of course, this is far from the way POCs are treated, but it gives me a tiny bit of taste.
    So, when women like Piriyanka or Lupita make it big, does it make women of colour feel represented? Because, while they are women of colour, they are both incredibly beautiful from incredibly priviledged backrounds, so they’re not exactly average women.

    • Andrea says:

      I find that most women that make it in Hollywood are beautiful and privileged and if your not, I’m sure there’s a surgery that can fix it. Hollywood does not represent women accurately. No matter what colour or nationality.

      • Sarah01 says:

        I would like to see Berta Vasquez as bond, not sure if she is able to speak English fluently though. Or maybe Natalie dormer, Rosario Dawson or Michelle Rodriguez.

        For me Prianka is too contrived. But I love the fact she called out the person who bullied her. All ethnicities have people who are racist.

        Totally agree with the fact that Indian actors play a stereotype, I mentioned this before but Dev Patel has a very nice English accent but almost always has to play the “apu” in every movie he’s in.

  6. Snowflake says:

    Wouldn’t it be great to have a female version of James Bond? Female agent who goes on missions and picks up boy toys along the way? I’d go see that.

  7. Naya says:

    This isnt fair. Nobody should be this beautiful.

    • Locke Lamora says:

      Buzzfeed had her pictures from when she was a teen, and judging by them ( if they are real), she had a lot of surgery. A whole lot.
      Nothing wrong with that, but with a lot of money, and the right surgeon, most people can be this beautiful.

      • Fiorella says:

        Weird how it didnt quite work for Heidi montag (or is it just me that I don’t find her surgeries worth it considering she looked decent before)

  8. Tania says:

    I would love to see a female Bond. And I love that Priyanka doesn’t need to preach feminism, she lives it. Good for her.

  9. She is beautiful.

  10. Chaz says:

    Unfortunately im India she is also very well-known for having an affair with one of their biggest Bollywood stars. His connections helped her get a lot of places. His wife had her excluded from a lot of the inner circle events, which made it harder for her in India. Then all of a sudden she is being offered whatever she wants in a big HBO series in the US.
    She’s beautiful, but her acting isn’t all that.

  11. batata says:

    Now this is a beatiful,exotic,fiery woman.A truly beauty.

  12. WTW says:

    How sad that a black kid bullied her. This is “othering,” or “horizontal racism,” at work. When I was in elementary, I became fast friends with an Indian boy (I’m black). Also, one of my teachers was South Asian and wore traditional dress every day, so this would have been unacceptable.

  13. ItDoesntReallyMatter says:

    Who isn’t bullied at 13? I am
    white and was bullied by both white AND black girls. Girls of all colors are bullied at that age, she isn’t special. 😉

    • Fiorella says:

      Yep we only had (mainly ) 3 ethnicities at my middle school and it took me 3 seconds to think of 3 of my bullies Asian native and white. Actually they were (separately) super mean and violent but from what bullying is according to my kids kindergarten teacher that wasn’t bullying as no conflicts lasted very long.

    • me says:

      I’m Indian and was bullied by most y White kids, though there was a few Black kids who bullied me too. Oddly, one of my bullies was also Indian. Bullying surpasses skin color.

      • censorednt says:

        @me
        Thank you , not discounting her experiences sadly kids of all races can be Aholes. I will admit that find it suspect that she was only bullied by a black kid or this is the incident that she choose to highlight ????
        Sounds like pandering to white people to me …Sorry
        Pity she didnt also mention how her career in India benefited from colorism and how dark skin Indians are treated badly

  14. Naddie says:

    I’ve never seen her acting, but judging by the comments here, she’s just another hot one getting roles because of her looks. Plus, I’m tired of women making sexy poses all the freaking time. Not saying it’s wrong, just tiring and unoriginal.

  15. Fiorella says:

    I kind of feel bad for Janine getting called out. I can think of a girl we were kind of mean to around that age, she was overweight but also just a really annoying conceited person. She lost weight after high school and is naturally insanely pretty and always wanted to be an actress. Would hate to get called out by her if she ever makes it because I reacted to her pushiness back then. Most 13 year olds are somewhat mean (at least 20 years ago when few parents knew how to raise kind mindful souls)

    • batata says:

      Naaah…I actually think that Janine deserves being called out.I bet she considered herself “so smart,so special,so good”…so above that Indian girl…and now look where is P and where’s this girl Janine who’s only relevant because P names her.I also bet that Priyanka felt much worse when this girl mocked her than this Janine must feel now being called out.It’s just a little payback.It’s ok.

    • OriginallyBlue says:

      Ya. I mean it’s been 20 years. Obviously it will be difficult to figure out who she is, but i would hate if the stupid shit I did at 13 get brought up 20 years after the fact. Who knows what kind of person she is now.

  16. nicegirl says:

    I love Priyanka.

  17. Taxi says:

    I watched 2 episodes & wanted to like it based on the premise. Quit. Sorry.
    Utterly implausible plot with holes like Swiss cheese, absurd stereotypical characters from a college co-ed dorm.
    Chopra doesn’t act, she emotes & poses. Her accent is distracting in this role, given the usual backgrounds of real FBI & CIA people.

    • FishOutOfWater says:

      Agreed. Quantico completely missed the mark for me. Then again, I didn’t fall in love with Grey’s Anatomy, I don’t like Suits, and the list goes on. I think Netflix TV shows are generally more compelling than half of the stuff on cable, with a few exceptions.