Jack Harlow stopped drinking because he hated feeling like hell the next morning

I’m someone who finds Jack Harlow to be very attractive. He has that half-wholesome, half-sleazy good ol’ boy energy which I enjoy. But this is a terrible cover! Rolling Stone did him no favors by using this photo on the cover. Perhaps he wanted to look a little bit soft, a little bit dorky though. Jack is very image-conscious and branding-conscious. He understands that he can’t roll up to the music industry as, like, the next Eminem. That’s what his RS profile reveals, that he’s still figuring out how he wants to position himself in the industry, but he has big f–king plans. Some highlights:

Working with Tory Lanez on the “Whats Poppin” given what Lanez did to Megan Thee Stallion. “I know I’m a good person. My character, my integrity are very important to me. And I think I’ve done such a good job that now I’m being forced to answer for other people’s actions. It doesn’t feel right as a grown man to speak for other grown men all the time. … One thing’s for sure, is that Megan got shot. And I wish her nothing but love and respect.”

It was difficult for him to shed his nerdy aesthetics early on: “It took me a while to take my glasses off. I felt literally tethered to them, because I felt like, ‘You’re the rapper with glasses that can spit really well.’ But when I started to blossom is when I let go of anything gimmicky. I’m as goofy as I am. I’m as smooth as I am. I’m as funny as I am. I’m as serious as I am. I’m all those things. The totality of myself that I’m honoring is why I’m being embraced by hip-hop.”

His fanbase is mostly women: “I f–k with it! . . . To be able to make a song that women like is what it’s all about for me. There’s a lot of things it’s all about, but that’s a huge one. That’s really what you want, to make something that your crush wants to hear,” he said

He quit drinking even though he didn’t have a ‘problem’: Jack looked back at how drinking on tour – one time six nights in a row – was having a noticeable impact on his professional and personal life. “I’m sick of waking up with a dry throat, sick of feeling bloated, I’m sick of the decisions I make on it. I’m in my well-oiled-machine era. Because I can see my future right in front of me. And I feel there’s so many people counting on me outside of myself. I just feel like I’m a man. I don’t feel like I need to do boyish things anymore.”

[From JustJared & Complex]

It’s a powerful thing, when you reach the moment when you decide to stop drinking simply because you’re tired of feeling like sh-t and you want control over your own life. I applaud him for that, although I’m sure he probably still smokes weed or takes edibles. The drinking is such a thing for men in music too, they pride themselves on partying and drinking heavily and still being able to “perform.” For Jack to eschew alcohol at the age of 24 says a lot. As for the Tory Lanez stuff… his answer isn’t great, but it’s good enough. From what I understand, he worked with Lanez before Lanez shot Megan. I also trust that if Megan has beef with Jack, she’ll tell us.

Cover courtesy of RS, additional photo courtesy of Avalon Red.

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  1. Ariel says:

    Men excusing, not caring, and pretending it doesn’t matter that their friend/co-worker/collaborator shot/abused a woman – is a deep problem and a reason our society is so in denial and so wrought with abuse.
    It was the first paragraph.
    And everything else was just noise.
    He does not judge an abuser.
    Lucky him. He probably won’t get shot- as he is not a woman- so why should he care.

    • Beach side knitter says:

      Thank you. This over and over and over.

      I support women until it inconveniences me. Yeah no.

    • K says:

      Here for your comments all day.

    • ANON says:

      Thank you, Ariel. His answer is not good enough at all.

      Bragging/whining that he’s being held accountable. Then saying “it doesn’t feel right” to hold other men accountable. Then saying Megan “got shot.”

      No. Jack didn’t shoot Megan, but his answer is exactly why violence against women continues. Hell, this is why many women don’t speak up.

  2. Noki says:

    I am two years sober now, best personal decision ever! The only down side is i gained a ton of weight,I was one of those drinkers who rarely ate and rediscovered junk and my sweet tooth. But now i have a good balance.

    • Ang says:

      Congratulations! When I stopped 8 years ago I had the biggest sweet tooth for years afterward. I’ve gotten it under control now but I just needed something sweet after every meal, and the more you eat it, the more you crave it. Again, great job on 2 years!

    • Wednesday Addams says:

      I quit drinking 9 months ago, and gained weight because of all the sugar I started eating. I just finally quit sugar this week, and I’m already feeling better and less inflamed.

  3. girl_ninja says:

    He’s a talented young man and I like his sound. I’m actually listening to his new track First Class, the one that samples Fergie’s single. Its a good thing to know you don’t have to drink to enjoy life, good on him. I actually don’t mind the cover.

    • ME says:

      Just listened to it…it’s cleverly done. Never thought a rapper would sample an old Fergie song lol !

  4. Lucía says:

    Oooohhh, guess I might have to check up on his music now…

    • ME says:

      He’s one to watch. His star is only going to rise. He’s super talented. Nail Tech is another good song, also the song he did with Lil Nax X called Industry Baby is also really good.

  5. Normades says:

    I have friends in Louisville that know both him and his mom. He is considered a very nice kid who grew up with great musical influences. They are very popular there. One Friend was a bartender at his new year’s bash 2-3 years ago and said he and his mom were very gracious and tipped every staff member very well.

  6. ANON says:

    I clicked on this story because I love people being responsible with substances.

    Pretty disgusted after reading his interview. No one deserves to be hurt, or abused, or shot, ever. People who tolerate violence like Jack Harlow is doing send the message that it is okay–and that perhaps the victim somehow invited or deserved it.

    It is never the survivor’s fault, and the onus is on ALL of us to condemn violence in our circles.