Princess Delphine of Belgium is the 57-year-old half-sister to Belgium’s King Philippe. She wasn’t really raised to be part of the Belgian royal family – she was King Albert’s love child, the result of a long-standing affair between the king and a woman from Belgian nobility. But Delphine was always raised within the aristocracy. She ended up going to court to fight for her right to be “included” in the royal family and to use Belgium’s royal style. Well, Delphine gives interviews, and she was asked this week about Prince Harry’s situation. She was enormously compassionate.
Princess Delphine doesn’t come from your usual royal background. Her birth was the result of an shocking, years-long affair between King Albert II of Belgium with Baroness Sybille de Selys Longchamps, and she didn’t know her real father—known to her as a family friend—was actually the king until she was 18. Armed with DNA, Delphine, 57, fought for nearly two decades to prove that King Albert was her dad and won her legal battle in 2020. While speaking to the “It’s Reigning Men” podcast, Princess Delphine shared her incredible story—but she also opened up about how she relates to Prince Harry.
Explaining that she was a “politically exposed person” and “had no protection,” Delphine—who, like Prince Harry, is not a working royal—said she understood how the Duke of Sussex felt. After being asked about Harry, she said, “”I do follow a little bit of Harry because Lady Diana was just part of my life when I was in England… Then she had these children and everything, and then this death was just horrible…I feel very sorry for Harry because I think that was traumatic for him. I think Harry suffered so much, and I think he was traumatised and it’s coming out now.”
Referencing the Duke of Sussex’s recent court battle in the U.K. over his security, Delphine said, “I think there is this thing about security. I think it’s to do with what happened to his mother. I understand the guy. He’s just traumatized.”
“And I understand, so he’s doing these things, and everybody’s bullying him, but not thinking about his trauma,” Delphine continued. “And I just find it terrible because he’s just been kind of left.”
[From Marie Claire & The Daily Mirror]
She’s referencing her own childhood in England – she’s only seven years younger than Princess Diana, so she would have grown up watching Diana and Charles’s wedding and watching them welcome their sons. I think for so many women of that generation – born in the 1960s, close in age to Diana – there’s always a strong interest in Diana’s story and the stories of Diana’s sons. I don’t think Delphine is wrong either – I also think Harry has been repeatedly traumatized, and the traumas have been compounded by decades of neglect and abuse. I also think his security fight was partially about Diana too, and he likely learned more about his mother’s situation in her final years throughout his security case.
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- Belgian artist Delphine Boel pictured during a press moment of Delphine de Saxe-Cobourg Gotha after the Brussels appeal court granted her to be a Princess and to have the name of her biological father, Belgian King Albert II, Monday 05 October 2020, in Brussels. THIERRY ROGE,Image: 567389534, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: UK and USA ONLY – Fee Payable Upon Reproduction – For queries contact Avalon.red – sales@avalon.red London: +44 (0) 20 7421 6000 Los Angeles: +1 (310) 822 0419 Berlin: +49 (0) 30 76 212 251, Model Release: no, Credit line: THIERRY ROGE/Avalon
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- The Duke of Sussex during the unveiling of a statue commissioned of his mother Diana, Princess of Wales, in the Sunken Garden at Kensington Palace, London, on what would have been her 60th birthday. Picture date: Thursday July 1, 2021.,Image: 619146822, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: NO UK USE FOR 48 HOURS- Fee Payable Upon reproduction – For queries contact Avalon sales@Avalon.red London +44 20 7421 6000 Los Angeles +1 310 822 0419 Berlin +49 30 76 212 251 Madrid +34 91 533 42 89, Model Release: no, Credit line: Avalon.red / Avalon
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- 5th CANNESERIES pink carpet – day 4. Princess Delphine of Belgium attends the pink carpet during the 5th Canneseries Festival – Day Four on April 04, 2022 in Cannes, France.,Image: 680213443, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: Olivier Huitel/Avalon
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- Charles, Prince of Wales, and Diana, Princess of Wales, on holiday in Majorca, Spain, with their sons Prince William and Prince Harry. They are guests of King Juan Carlos of Spain and his wife Queen Sofia. They are staying at their holiday home, the Marivent Palace, which is situated just outside the capital city of Palma.
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“ and everybody’s bullying him, but not thinking about his trauma”
Bingo. The rats like to bring out the Diana card when it suits Chuck, his minions and the Lazies but Harry mentions his mother – “Mummy” card on her funeral casket – and they deride him.
There was so much compassion for those two boys in the immediate years after Diana died but it was a conscious decision they made to turn the red-haired Harry into some feckless young man to rehab Chuck’s woeful record as a single father, while praising the equally damaged golden haired Willy.
Yes, Harry is going through the trauma and he doesn’t understand why the propaganda overwhelmingly criticises HIS decision to protect his wife and his kids. He doesn’t want to lose any more people killed by the Windsor death cult but the rats and the Palaces like to ignore that. It’s their inconvenient truth that everyone can see…but them.
So more power to the Sussexes. The rats and the Palaces are cannibalising each other in their hate for Harry and his wife…but it ain’t working. The numbers don’t lie.
As Harry has pointed out, his own father and Camilla turned him into a feckless character to shield themselves from negative publicity. It was and remains appalling.
She’s right. He was “just left” from the moment Charles told him his mother was dead. I also don’t think he had any idea about the residual trauma of his mother’s death until he met Meghan and she insisted that he work on himself, treat her with respect, and found a woman strong enough and unimpressed enough to stand up for herself. He learned a lot.
I agree with you. I also think he didn’t fully understand the overall trauma of his upbringing, outside of his mother’s death, until he met Meghan. I think there was a lot that he just accepted as “the way it is” and I think Meghan helped him to see how messed up so much of that was, and I think he’s still dealing with that.
Meghan has a wise healing energy …I remember someone saying that she rescued Harry . He was lucky ..she knows how to fix lost and broken souls. Look at all the dogs who she adopted and nurtured . Harry was given the same Meghan cherishing and how he has grown in confidence and joy . She is the best thing to have happened to him since he lost his mother ..who was another nurturing spirit .
It’s amazing people outside Britain, away from the hate scribes, can see so much more clearly and compassionately.
She’s right. Harry has said that he doesn’t want a repeat of history.
Very well-said, and a refreshing change from the gaslighting we constantly hear from various British minor royals and royal-adjacents who insist that Harry is just thin-skinned and melodramatic.
Harry really is an excellent advertisement for the wonders of therapy, his progress made all the clearer in contrast with a brother who endured the same uniquely traumatizing childhood, but refuses to seek help to work through those issues and remains angry and bitter.
Sybille De Selys Longchamps! That is one aristocratic name. It just drips inherited jewels.
Yes, she’s got it right. Harry was traumatized and frankly, abused. His father and the leeches he feeds in the media are still doing it.
On a shallow note, Delphine has very pretty, striking eyes.
I don’t know. It’s good that she shows compassion, but this reads to me like “Be nice to Harry; he’s going through some sh*t.” Like all of his recent choices have been because of childhood trauma – “it’s coming out now” – and he’ll come to his senses once he gets over it.
At the end of the day, without any of that trauma, his actions have made sense. The way the press and that family treated Meghan…makes total sense. Any person would have done the same to protect their family against the cruelty and racism. They were not being protected and he did what he had to do.
I think that’s nice of her 💖
Wow she hit the nail on the head! He was traumatized!
Whenever I think about how that family treated Diana, and then Harry, I just rage on their behalf. It’s a shame Diana isn’t still with us.
He doesn’t want safety because of his trauma, but because there is racism, misogyny and real death threats against him, his wife and his children. He certainly doesn’t want safety because of the fear caused by the trauma. Harry’s fear is real!!! The trauma is a different issue and should not be associated with it under any circumstances. They did the same thing to his mum when they labelled her paranoid. She was not paranoid!
Yes, thank you. That’s what I was trying to say.
Childhood trauma lives on and is a cloud that casts a long shadow over all of life’s experiences, including fear. The trauma issue is not separate, it is an integral part of all the emotions even into adulthood.
Yes, but in this case the trauma is being used by others to challenge his perception of a real threat. No one has the right to do that. Regardless of what Harry has experienced in the past, which is bad enough, he can distinguish with absolute certainty between threats of the present and those of the past.
He says it very plainly in Spare.
That no one talked about trauma and mental/emotionally difficulties like the Duchess of Sussex did, except one person, his mom had.
He talked about the palace planting stories, and relentless “media” chasing her, and he could see history repeating itself. He was honestly scared they were going to kill his wife the way they killed his mother.
And it is why he doesn’t want Meg in England ever without a fully security detail.
I mean, look what the british “media” did to them in NYC a year or two ago where they were driving insanely chasing them.
I will not forgive anyone making Miss Doria cry.
In The Me You Can’t See (the 6 part mental health doc Harry did with Oprah on Apple TV- which is not all about him, he’s just in it a little bit- he states that his mother was killed while she was in a relationship with someone who wasn’t white, and that is not lost on him.
He worries that they will kill his wife and his children like they did his mother.
His family made life dangerous for his mom, now his wife and children.
It isn’t “just coming out now”, it’s been a factor his whole life. And his need for security is perfectly rational, not simply trauma-based.
It’s very rational but without the trauma involved he might not realize that danger.
Of course, he’s traumatized! It shouldn’t take a royal adjacent from the continent to have that point acknowledged and taken seriously.
But her comments focussing so much on trauma would give the casual reader the idea that Harry is fighting for security and not because of trauma but real security threats. Harry is dealing with his trauma very well because he sought help to cope with it.
Just a picky note, Belgian monarchs are styled “King/Queen of the Belgians” instead of “King/Queen of Belgium.” I’ve never really understood why, something about it being a hereditary and constitutional monarchy, or a hereditary vs. a constitutional monarchy, I dunno, basically they represent the people of Belgium rather than a geographical region.
In antiquity and Middle Ages monarchy was a popular monarchy referring to the people or nation. Interestingly Belgium is a multinational state so maybe as a way of uniting the Dutch, French and Germans they opted to use Belgians. Interestingly Belgium was once a territory of Spain which is where Flamenco derives from the Flemish and influenced by the Flemish who settled in Moorish Spain with its Arabic culture. And Belgium chocolates because of the Spanish bringing back Cocoa from the Americas. There are lots of Marteens in Belgium from the Spanish surname Martín..Martinez..ez is of or son of. Anyway I trace my genealogy New Mexico to Mexico to Spain to France to Belgium.
That’s fascinating ! Thanks for sharing that. Always learn so much from this site!
Absolutely love the print and colors of her dress. So energizing.
I’ve seen that photo of Diana in the yellow dress and Harry a million times, but I don’t think I’ve ever focused on how lovingly protective she was holding him with her arms supporting him and her hand curled around to caress his little chubby fingers. And he emanates contentment. Knowing their future as we look back on that photo is heartbreaking.
“born in the 1960’s”. That’s true. I was just 2 years younger than Diana, so that summer was mesmerizing for me – couldn’t believe someone “my age” was marrying the future king of England.
I started college two months after their wedding, and then it seemed, next thing I knew I heard the announcement on the radio that she was pregnant (with Wills). Believe it was on my bday, so it stuck.
What very different lives. She could have been a junior in college when she was married, to a man in his 30s, and pregnant. It was mindblowing.