<< last image next image >>
Jessica Alba says she doesn’t plan on being her kid’s best friend
Featured Links
- Olivia Rodrigo reacts to fan’s tattoo typo [Hollywood Life]
- Gigi Hadid is looking chic [Socialite Life]
- Cool alien abduction illusion on Taylor Swift tour [Buzzfeed]
- Kimora Lee Simmons reacts to daughter’s relationship [JJ]
- How is the new season of The Circle? [Pajiba]
- Bill Paxton was in the Fish Heads video [Seriously OMG]
- Red, White & Royal Blue gets a sequel [E! Online]
- Al Green, Teddy Pendergrass gain boost in streams from Kendrick [Yahoo]
You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed.
10 Responses to “Jessica Alba says she doesn’t plan on being her kid’s best friend”
Comments are Closed
We close comments on older posts to fight comment spam.
Parents can be parents and share a friendship with their children at the same time, it is a way of sharing a mutual respect with each other.
Dina Lohan’s parenting problems may not be because she is friends with her daughter but it is because she likes to act her daughter’s age, there is a difference. Good parenting and friendship do in fact go hand in hand, more so when the child is older. Some parents just do not know how to balance that though. Being a strict parent and having all this rules does not always equal being a good parent.
At least she recognizes that there’s a balance. My mother was always my friend, but I never doubted who was the parent.
what I´ve learned from my mother is…
be a mother first, friend later!and that will come (AND ONLY)with the years, with maturity…but while raising me she was very firm and strict, and we had our issues, MANY of ´em!!!!But all that turned out for the better!!!And now I am just starting to see that…
It´s important to set boundries and its important for a child to understand their own limitations…and that for eveything that you do, good or bad, there will be consequences!!!Or else they grow up thinking theres NONE!
And the world out there doesn´t work quite like that and we all know that!!! Our relationship (me & my mother)today is totally different than it was 10 years ago…we have so much more in common and MUCH more respect for each other as individuals…and the love that have always been there just gets BIGGER and BIGGER,even tho is hard to believe that can get any bigger, but it always does!
It’s refereshing to see someone in the public eye who isn’t afraid to say that they’re putting their job as a mom ahead of being their child’s friend.
@Larissa – I couldn’t agree more or said it better myself.
My mom was also pretty strict with me growing up and said countless times that she loved me but she wasn’t here to be my best friend. Since I’ve moved on my own we’ve gotten much closer – more like friends. And since I had kids our bond is even stronger.
See, my mother and I never had that tension, even when I was a teenager, because I knew that she was both my friend and my mother from the very beginning. There are lots of ways to raise good kids and have good relationships with them, depending on the personalities and needs involved.
Also, while it’s good to hear a celebrity say this, it’s also true that lots of people have theories about how they’re going to parent–right up until they become parents. Here’s hoping Jessica Alba sticks to this one, and can carry it out well.
ugh – i can’t stand these “my kids and i are best friends” type of parents. newsflash: the only reason teenagers are “buddies” with their parents is so they can get away with more crap. children need a parent while growing up, they have enough friends. when kids are out of college and are adults themselves, then they can be friends with their parents. like my sisters and me with our mom. now she is our friend and we sometimes include her in girls’ nights out, etc, but when we were growing up she was the long arm of the law and we respected that, even if we didn’t like her for it at the time. our dad was a dad then and now – with 5 girls and no sons he pretty much sat at the door with a loaded shotgun!
I agree with Larrisa. My mother gave me the same advice.
Be a parent first and foremost. They can get friends in school and in the neighbourhood.
When I left home and had a child of my own I would say now that my relationship with my Mother is more friendship than mother daughter but when I was younger, she was definately Mum all the way.
She probably decided to have the kid cause it’s trendy now for celebs around her age to have one. Anyway…NEXT!
@ Kate, you took the words right out of my mouth. I don’t have a need for a 12 yr old friend, but I am a parent of a 12 yr old. My child has her own friends, what she needs from me is unconditional love, disciplne (sp?), boundaries, a shoulder to cry on if needed, etc., which she will not get from her friends. We can be friends when she grows up, parenting first, friends later.
My child and I have a great relationship, we talk, laugh, play and have good times together so you can have a great relationship with your child without trying to be their friend.
This my opinion, and what works for me. Everyone is different and does things different.
“My child and I have a great relationship, we talk, laugh, play and have good times together so you can have a great relationship with your child without trying to be their friend.
This my opinion, and what works for me. Everyone is different and does things different. ”
DivaStar, I definitely agree with that last paragraph. But if the one preceding it is true, how are you not her friend as well as her mother? Your friendship with her is different than with other people, of course, but how is it so different that it isn’t even friendship?