Ayo Edebiri: ‘I had to slap literally God’s gift to humanity, Julia Roberts’

Ayo Edebiri is one of three November cover stars for Vogue Magazine. Nicole Kidman and Greta Lee are the other two. Vogue chose well – Greta, Nicole and Ayo have some of the hottest careers in Hollywood today. Ayo is 30 years old and she’s busy, busy, busy. This cover profile is mostly about After the Hunt, but Ayo has been booked solid for the past two years, and she’s booked solid for the next two years as well. It couldn’t have happened to a woman more prepared for it, honestly. She appreciates where she is professionally and the only thing she complains about is not having enough time to stay at home so she can clean and read books. Some highlights from Vogue:

She’s an early riser because she’s a former New Yorker: “No matter how early you get up in New York, there’s always somebody who’s either earlier or their day hasn’t finished. But in LA, it’s office hours.”

She’s lived in LA for six years, but it’s only felt like home recently: “I don’t really think I started to enjoy living here until last year. I liked it, but I don’t think it really meant anything to me. And I missed a lot of my friends on the East Coast.”

She attended a No Kings protest in LA recently: “It was actually amazing. We’re in such a weird empathy drought, which it’s hard not to be—you want to save your own skin. But it’s like, If we’re supposed to be evolved people, we extend care to each other.”

Her character in After the Hunt: Maggie, to put it plainly, is a bit of a pill. She’s affected, sneaky, entitled (her adoptive parents are major Yale donors), and she takes a grating pleasure in talking down to people, especially men. Edebiri will often build playlists around her characters, and for Maggie, the sound profile was “a lot of noise. A lot of chaos and depressed, misplaced anger.” She also had, from early on, a very clear—and fairly devastating—vision for her look: “I sent Luca a bunch of girls with bad wigs, basically. I was like, I think that’s who Maggie is.”

She had to slap Julia Roberts in a scene, and Julia insisted that Ayo do it for real: “It was horrible. I had to slap literally God’s gift to humanity, Julia Roberts.”

Her dream vacation: “If I were to have 10 weeks at home—my dream—I would just be like, Great: I see two friends a week, I work out, and then I clean. I yearn to dump and donate.”

Turning 30: “I was one of those tragic children where, literally, an adult would come to me at a party and be like, ‘You’re going to love 32.’  It’s so beautiful to know yourself more. I’m grateful for that—to just be learning about the depths of my heart, the things that I really care about. It wasn’t very long ago that I felt like I had all the time in the world. And now, I think maybe it’s because I’ve lost people”—a close friend of Edebiri’s died two years ago—“my parents are getting older, the world is in various states of disarray…”

Whether she wants to get married & have a baby: “I think about it quite politically, to be honest. If I have a baby, am I going to have this baby in America, where funding for research for the maternal death rate is being snatched away at every second? And I’m a Black woman, but also I’m in a position of relative privilege. So would I be able to afford a doula or private care that somebody else would not be able to afford? My brain goes there. But in terms of my own personal timeline, I’m not too concerned because I’m not putting that sort of pressure on myself.” Then, hearing what she’s just said: “My grandmother will be like, ‘That’s the wrong answer. You want a male husband and you want a baby tomorrow.’ ”

[From Vogue]

That part about what she thinks about when she considers motherhood is amazing. To give that kind of answer to Vogue! To talk about the politics of it, to vocalize your concern for giving birth to and possibly raising a child in America in this day and age. But she’s right and that’s another reason why the birth rate is declining. Also: while Ayo absolutely works her ass off and she’s incredibly talented, I also feel like she’s had so many industry figures who see her work and her talent and they’re just like “wow, I need to work with her and make sure that she’s getting everything she needs.” That seems to be the reaction to Ayo across the board – like, this young woman is something special, let’s make sure she’s protected from a lot of the bullsh-t.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, cover courtesy of Vogue.

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9 Responses to “Ayo Edebiri: ‘I had to slap literally God’s gift to humanity, Julia Roberts’”

  1. Jais says:

    It’s hard not to just love ayo and root for her. She looks gorgeous on the cover. I’m gonna assume this is not Annie Leibovitz. It made me laugh when she said her grandma would want her to answer with a male husband and a baby tomorrow.

  2. LeonsMomma says:

    She is the GOAT. I haven’t been excited about a talent in a long time. The episode she directed on “The Bear” — “Napkins,” focusing on Tina (Lisa Colón-Zayas) — was AMAZING. (And the actress was great in this too. Not sure who the writer was for the episode, so kudos all around.) I also see Julia Roberts is a fan and to have someone of her power and star wattage looking out for you is awesome. (Ayo can take care of herself, but in that industry, it is good to have someone like Julia on your side.)

  3. QuiteContrary says:

    She is a gem!! Her answer about Black maternity was so great — I’m glad she said it to a magazine like Vogue, which just laid off a bunch of talented women of color from Teen Vogue.

  4. Mightymolly says:

    Having a baby is extremely political and I love her for saying it. Shout it from the rooftops! Pregnant people and new parents should have tons of support. That’s how you value families.

    I also like what she said about adults telling her she would love adulthood. I was surrounded by miserable stressed out adults as a kid and was terrified of entering the adult world (which I delayed as long as I could with degrees and travel). Now I tell all the stressed out young people in my life that adulthood is great. Kids need to hear that it gets better, especially those who aren’t seeing themselves represented in happy healthy examples of growing older.

  5. Ciotog says:

    I love her.

  6. Latte says:

    She is gorgeous and so real for saying that about having a baby!

  7. Jgerber says:

    She slapped Julia Roberts and Julia insisted on it. That’s a dream come true for me. Never liked her and she didn’t deserve the Oscar (imo).

  8. Nanea says:

    I adore Ayo from afar. She’s cute, intelligent, versatile, gifted, hardworking, funny. But I somehow missed her turning 30.

    I read Ayo’s answer about having a baby while Black — and think of Serena, who had Olympia while Black. And with all her money, she still had to advocate for herself and her health because she wasn’t being taken seriously by the medical personnel when she had that blood clot in her lung that required surgery. Plus the C-section scar that required surgery, and all the other surgeries she had to have.

    Since then, things have only gotten worse.

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