Sienna Miller: It’s “human instinct” to be “selfish” when you’re in love

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These are new photos of Sienna Miller exiting rehearsals for the play Flare Path in London yesterday. She looks good – minus the too heavy and slathered-on red lipstick. Considering she was just in a theatre rehearsal, why the “hooker at night” lipstick? Nevermind, it’s Sienna. Anyway, Sienna has finally spoken out about her most recent split from Jude Law, and the subsequent rumors that she was boning every guy she saw post-split (and maybe even pre-split):

Sienna Miller finds suggestions she dumped Jude Law for a co-star “laughable”.

The 29-year-old actress — who called time on her 13-month relationship with the “Alfie” star in January — insists the split was “amicable and mutual”, and slammed recent rumours she is dating Joe Armstrong, who she stars with in London stage production “Flare Path,” as “ridiculous”.

She said: “I’m single! Poor Joe is like, ‘What’s going on?’ We all find it ridiculous and laughable. I do feel very picked apart by it. When two people have separated and have both stated that it’s amicable and mutual yet, regardless of that. It’s not a nice feeling to have people talk about you behind your back and for it not to be true and for you not to be able to retaliate.”

However, the “Edge of Love” star — who first dumped Jude in July 2005 after it was revealed he has been having an affair with his children’s nanny Daisy Wright – admitted it is “human instinct” to be selfish in relationships.

Sienna added to Time Out magazine: “I think there’s a human instinct to be selfish, especially in matters of the heart.”

[From Time Out via CTV]

Poor Sienna! Can’t she just bone people quietly without anyone saying anything? It reminds me of her reaction to being photographed topless with a married man – it was basically the same, “Woe is me, I’m SO MALIGNED” crap. Besides, given her sexual history, it does seem like the tabloids were picking off low-hanging fruit when they claimed she might be having a romance with any of the dudes she was photographed with immediately after her split from Jude. And seriously, it’s not like Sienna is one of the top celebrity women or anything – she’s a B/C-list actress who is more famous for who she dates and what she wears.

Speaking of Sienna being a victim, Now Magazine (a British tabloid) has a funny story about the on-going feud between Sienna and Kate Moss:

We know Kate Moss is never going to choose Sienna Miller as a bridesmaid, but after 8 years of feuding you’d think the two would be bored of falling out. Not yet, according to our spies!

Just weeks after Sienna, 29, and Jude Law called off their wedding, sources tell Now: ‘Kate’s delighted they’ve split for good and she’s been calling Jude to make sure he’s OK.’

To add insult to injury, 37-year-old model Kate, who’s planning a July wedding to fiancé Jamie Hince, has said she’ll help Jude find a new girlfriend.

‘She’s made sure he can come to her big day,’ says the pal, ‘and she’s promising to find him his dream woman by the end of the year.’

However, friends in camp Sienna tell us she’s peeved at Kate’s interference.

‘She’s finding Kate’s behaviour upsetting,’ says a friend. ‘She thinks it’s immature. She can’t believe Kate’s being so indiscreet.’

[From Now Magazine]

Hahaha, the idea of Sienna bitching out someone for being indiscreet is hilarious. Kate has been on Sienna’s ass ever since Sienna dated and dumped Rhys Ifans, a close friend of Kate’s. I believe that Kate even warned Sienna that if she (Sienna) broke Rhys’s heart, Kate would cut a bitch. Sienna promptly dumped Rhys for the very married Balthazar Getty, and Rhys eventually recovered from being Sienna’d.

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  1. TQB says:

    If by “selfish” she means “able to find excuses to bone a married dude” than I guess I have to disagree. Many of us manage to restrain that instinct, honey.

  2. brin says:

    Awww…poor sensitive slut.

  3. beth says:

    @TBQ: i immediately wondered if she meant that too. why is that…

  4. Scarlet Vixen says:

    I.DON’T.GET.HER. She is not great at anything–not particularly pretty, cute, etc., not a good actress, and I think her style is crap posing as fashionable. Can she please just disappear into oblivion already?

    Wow, I’m grumpy today!

  5. Brittany says:

    The stories about her make her sound really easy. You’d think she’d have a better film career. Hm.

  6. KJ says:

    Team Kate Moss.

    She smacks herself in the face with dildos and is protective of her friends’ hearts. Mah bitch.

  7. gabs says:

    She looks like Michelle Williams a bit now. Team Kate Moss! lol

  8. to says:

    she has had some work done. she was looking slightly weathered, but now looks dewy fresh.

  9. Rita says:

    Kate is going to speed dial every girl in class to get poor Jude a date for the prom. Yeah, that’s what he needs.

    If selfishness was an indication of being in love, this world would be Eden.

  10. Julie says:

    I don’t think she had work done. She just looks clean, like she’s not using much if anything.

  11. funny_girl says:

    I saw her in “The Edge of Love” with Keira Knightley a few yrs ago, her acting was fine, she’s pretty and seems nice in interviews. She would do well in Hollywood were it not for her ruthlessness in her love life.

    She dated Jude Law very shortly after he split from his wife so that looked suspicious. Then the whole Balthasar Getty episode…urgh!

    Stop blaming other people Sienna..its YOU thats the problem. Bloody drama queen! No wonder shes pissing people off..

    Oh I remember reading that Balthasar Getty’s wife is very influential in Hollywood so that probably cost her some acting gigs.

  12. Estella says:

    First, the red lipstick is not enough to distract from those fug boots.

    Second, I don’t understand Sienna’s comment about being selfish in affairs of the heart. When I am in love, I find myself wishing love for everyone and being more selfless than selfish. This makes me think Sienna may know a lot about lust but very little about love. There is nothing wrong with being a pleasure-seeker, but don’t make comments as though the rest of us put our own desires before the desires of others. That’s just you, girl.

    Third, could I get some pics of Avan Jogia for HOT GUY FRIDAY! Pleeeeeeease!

  13. original kate says:

    isn’t love supposed to make you a better -and therefore less selfish- person?

  14. Arianna says:

    @KJ
    haahahahahahah that was hilarious!

    i really… just dont care enough about her to care about this.

  15. emine says:

    @ original kate – yes it is , but someone has forgot to tell it to sienna too

  16. operagirl says:

    Don’t smack me . . . but except for the heavy-handed lipstick, I really like her makeup here.

  17. tapioca says:

    I think what she means by “selfish” is “I don’t care how much this affair hurts your wife, as long as I’m getting some”, which at least is pretty honest. Oh, and poor, dumped Rhys Ifans is currently boning Pushing Daisies’ Anna Friel, which I personally think is a little bit of an upgrade.

  18. dread pirate cuervo says:

    Why is Sienna dressed like a poor person? Attn: Hussy, you are famous. People will give you cool clothes for free.

    I don’t understand her “selfish” comment. It doesn’t make sense to me with the rest of the story on her break-up. Is she trying to say, I’m not boning 20 dudes, but if I was, it’s ok?

  19. beth says:

    correction: TQB. Sorry.

  20. Tiffany says:

    @ Kaiser. Reminder from previous request. Total Vintage/Old School Hot Guy Friday and/or Hot Girl Friday. You can honor Jane Russell and some of the other greats I can look at Jon Hamm all day long but lets mix it up a bit. Also, bring back Vintage Scandal Tuesday!

  21. Kat says:

    Slut, slut, slut, slut, slut, slut….slut, slut, slut, slut, sluuuuuuuuuuut.

    I will never, ever feel sorry for her. She reminds me of tacky, ill mannered and ill educated girls I went to high school with who thought being sluts and dumbing themselves down when the guys were around was, like, totally awesome. She’s not fit to clean dog poop off my shoes.

  22. merry says:

    “I think there’s a human instinct to be selfish, especially in matters of the heart”
    Actually, Sienna, it’s quite the opposite.

  23. Darla says:

    This woman never ceases to amaze me with the magnitude of stupidity she exhibits when speaking. Does she think that everyone is going to jump up and say “you’re right!! we should all be as selfish as you!!”. I amazed she has the mental fortitude to feed herself without injury. She and Leanne Rimes must have the same speech writer, from the Cecil B Delusional PR firm.

    Hey, Sienna, you dumb bitch, you quit chucking mah wood!

  24. Oh be quiet Sienna! I really enjoyed Timothy Olyphant for HGF. I watched Justified last night too! He seems really laid back.

  25. the original bellaluna says:

    Um, no, f*cktard: When you’re in love you are LESS selfish. At least, I am. I will sacrifice like a mo-fo for my husband or kids; any day, any time.

    edit: @ notpretentious – If she even THINKS of approaching my beloved Timothy, I will un-sheath my slut/hater shank (and USE IT) with a vengeance the likes of which she has never seen!

    The red lips could be a result of the rehearsal – in theatre/dance performances that require harsh lighting (washes you out), make-up is generally very hard-looking in the stark light of day. But then, why are eyes nearly naked? Oh Sienna, you slut-bag.

  26. lrm says:

    i don’t get the ‘hate’ [so tired of that term but if the shoe fits] towards sienna.
    i dont find her that offensive; i also don’t find her anymore slutty than a number of other celebs. in fact, she’s fairly straight and narrow in comparison….she’s had a few flings in her 20’s -who hasn’t?
    I find her gorgeous and with great fashion sense.
    i have no idea what the kate moss thing is about-but perhaps kate is jealous. sienna is direct competition, and kate is ageing way worse than sienna, even with teh age difference factored in.

    I think Ms. Moss is threatened by Sienna’s fashion icon tendencies…she doesn’t want to be upstaged.

    I also have enjoyed sienna in the few films i’ve seen her in. I mean, I’m not a huge fan, I just like her style and find her a decent actress thus far….I also don’t think what she says has a victim ring to it.

  27. Darla says:

    #26

    Well, there was that whole banging a very married guy while humiliating his wife and kids thing, and the whole dumping Ifans like he was trash thing. She’s just not a really nice person.

  28. Gwen says:

    Well, at least she’s admitting that she’s selfish. I guess she’s just too selfinvolved to notice that lots of people manage to be unselfish in matters of the heart.

    I actually admire Kate for her loyalty to Rhys. He sure got a shitty deal from Sienna. Team Moss and Law 😀

  29. Angel says:

    Of course Team Kate 😀

  30. Anon73 says:

    i think Sienna is pretty, but dislike her personality & character.

  31. TQB says:

    @lrm, she was photographed, topless, making out with the very-much-still-married Balthazar Getty a couple of years ago. His wife was quite upset. So, there’s your hate.

  32. anti says:

    love or lust?

  33. Miss Marie says:

    Shoes are the windows to the soul. Her scuffed up boots are very telling.

  34. meh says:

    well rhys ifans is now seeing anna friel who VERY recently dumped her partner of NINE years, david thewlis (who plays remus lupin) people are speculating that she dumped him for rhys.

    so yeah rhys definitely got over being ‘sienna’d’ and i wouldn’t feel *too* sorry for him at least.

  35. MorticiansDoItDeader says:

    Her heart may be selfish, but her vagina more than makes up for it in generosity.

  36. Cirque28 says:

    @ Estella #12: “When I am in love, I find myself wishing love for everyone…”

    Me too! When I’m in love, it makes me want to spread my happiness around.

    It’s not normal to be selfish when you’re in love, it’s normal to be selfish when you’re selfish.

  37. Flan says:

    Am not usually that annoyed by the ‘second’ woman as some others, because it is ultimately the man who throws away his own marriage, but this one does nothing else.

    Good for Kate that she sticks up for her friends.

  38. Hammer says:

    Geez, what is that high-pitched noise? Oh, it’s just Sienner whining again. Poor baby, she didn’t get enough attention from her breakup with Jude, so she’s dragging it out as much as possible by TALKING ABOUT IT! Ain’t that the way it always goes? She such a user of other people.

    Gwen, me too! Team Moss and Team Law!

  39. original kate says:

    “Oh Sienna, you slut-bag.”

    @bellaluna: *snort*

  40. Mouse says:

    It’s not an instinct lady, it’s an ugly personality trait. but nice try at justifying your behavior.

  41. Theresa says:

    I have always liked Sienna’s look and I think she is quite an accomplished actress. She is also pretty standard for the business as far as her behavior in matters of the heart; she knows she is attractive yet probably suffers from insecurity and esteem issues, chooses men badly, dates erratically, and runs her mouth off a little too often. Not that I feel badly for her, but I don’t find her particularly interesting out of all the other actors and actresses that have behaved the exact same way, but play the game a little more deftly by issuing carefully worded releases supplied by a legal and management team.

    Sometimes I wish that acting didn’t attract such a type, so that the work itself could be appreciated for what it is. Awesome performances are enough for me, I find the rigamarole behind the scenes a distraction from the artform…

    But then again, I must also enjoy the gossipy game, otherwise, why would I be commenting here?

  42. Crash2GO2 says:

    lol @brin!

  43. Newbie says:

    I think it IS human instinct to be selfish when you first fall in LUST. But when the time isn’t right (when that person is CLEARLY married, etc.), it’s rising above it and being selfless that makes you truly human. It’s what sets us apart from the animals.

  44. SHump says:

    My husband likes her. LOL

  45. TheProcastinator says:

    It is supposed to be the other way around. When you’re in love, you become selfLESS. You want to put that person FIRST. Their happiness is YOUR happiness. If they’re happy, you’re happy. You often neglect your own needs, for them. They are the centre of your universe and you would do anything for them and their happiness. Its clear that Sienna has never been in love and has no conception of what it is to be in love and to be selfless.

  46. geekylove says:

    i don’t really care for feelings of any woman who goes after married man with children. yes, i do think the man is more at fault in these cases, but when a girl acts like Miller about it (woe is me, it is love…then she just moves on the next, bigger thing) there is no way for me to stand her.
    why is she still around anyway? she is and always will be a kate moss wannabe to me.

  47. Eve says:

    My husband likes her. LOL

    @ Shump:

    Chances are she’d like your husband too.

  48. Mingo says:

    She’s very sexy and attractive. You women are just jealous of her so you’re saying harsh and nasty things to bring her down. It’s sad really.

  49. jay says:

    Kate Moss popularized drug use and helped ignite eating disorders for years to come (and just generally looks like shit).
    Sienna Miller is a tramp.

    I don’t know, I’m kinda siding with Sienna here. Out of the endless, annoying array of celebrities out there, the constant flow of dipshits vying for attention, is Sienna all that bad? She’s harmless.

    Besides, wasn’t Kate angry at Sienna for jacking her “style”? So I kinda feel like she would look for any excuse to hate her.