Jennifer Aniston: ‘I still have messages from my husband’

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Marie Claire has a new interview in their March edition with some of the stars of He’s Just Not That Into You. They all talk about dating, naturally, and Jennifer Aniston expresses skepticism about online dating. This isn’t surprising, because she’s said in the past that Facebook is “like dancing with the devil.” Ginnifer Goodwin and Drew Barrymore also say they’re wary of meeting people online.

Marie Claire: You all have, um, colorful dating pasts. If you weren’t celebrities, how would you choose to meet men?

Drew Barrymore: Drunk in a bar. No, wait – kidding!

Jennifer Aniston: I’d have to be dragged out to places. Well, like I am now.

Marie Claire: No Match.com? No Facebook?

Jennifer Aniston: No, No, No. The Internet freaks me out.

Ginnifer Goodwin: I think it’s the Devil. We’re pack animals! We’re supposed to be connecting face-to-face.

Jennifer Aniston: The Internet warps reality. If you’re an Internet person, real life will fall short of what you have been privy to online – sexually, emotionally. It’s so unreal and gives you this sense of order where there isn’t any. You can’t drag and paste life!

Marie Claire: You don’t feel you can get to know someone onelin?

Drew Barrymore: You think people tell the truth about themselves? Every guy is 6’4″ with a huge schlong. That’s why people love it so much. Internet does
not equal sodium pentothal.

[From Marie Claire, print edition, March, 2009 via Gossip Rocks]

Considering the men these women have dated, they would all do well to vastly increase the pool of available guys by looking online. Aniston’s biased view of the Internet just shows her lack of experience with it. It must be hard for celebrities to date, though, and contacting guys through Match.com isn’t quite as easy when you’re famous.

Jennifer Aniston expressed love for the analog world – she said she saves answering machine tapes of her exes, including her ex husband, and likens it to saving love letters. She didn’t quite use the “ex” prefix for Pitt, though:

Drew Barrymore: I remember when I first started dating, the big thing was Radioshack answering machines. It was such a huge deal to run home and check your messages. And when you could actually check from another phone? That was, like, the craziest thing ever!

Jennifer Aniston: I still have the cassette tapes of messages from my first boyfriend, my second boyfriend, my husband… it’s like saving love letters.

[From Marie Claire, print edition, March, 2009]

Maybe Aniston is one of those “verbal” people, to use some dime store psychology, as opposed to “feeling” or “visual” types. It would explain why she fell in love with a musician, as unsuitable as he is. She may be more sound-oriented than most and misses her exes’ voices. I wonder how much she listens to those tapes. It seems a bit strange to me, but I do save love letters, and if it had occurred to me I might have saved some answering machine tapes. Those e-mails my college boyfriend sent me are long lost, though.

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  1. Enonymous says:

    I am the complete opposite, I always delete the sexy text messages, phone messages, emails and even quickly through away cards. To me it just feels they take too much space on my phone, computer or house.

  2. bite me says:

    hmmm, did she say my husband, instead of ex-husband

  3. Celebitchy says:

    Yes, biteme, she is quoted as saying “my husband” and there was no “ex” in there.

  4. daisy424 says:

    “….my husband… it’s like saving love letters.”

    Oops!! Freudian slip?

  5. Syko says:

    Hmmmm.

    I might not delete or throw it out immediately, but I sure would after the break-up. And I would probably call him my “ex”.

  6. Kaiser says:

    Jesus, Aniston. It’s been four years. Move on. Say “ex-husband”.

  7. Amy says:

    Maybe she married John Mayer and was trying to slyly slip it in!

  8. Sauronsarmy says:

    Maybe she did and Marie Claire didn’t use so it would create buzz for more sales? Whatever.

  9. red13 says:

    I think movies warp relality so much more than the internet.

  10. Laura says:

    well, when he sent the messages he was her husband, so technically, she saves messages from her husband.

  11. Jacqueline says:

    I find that sad that JA keeps – and plays – old messages from her ex’s. And . . . she did slip-up there on the ‘husband’ . . someone needs to get married to someone else or something

  12. Dani says:

    Why is this a big deal?

  13. Kelly says:

    I feel sorry for Jennifer, she can’t get over Brad.It still hurts.

  14. gossip_ho says:

    methinks the magazine misquoted JA

  15. Nan says:

    Give her a break! I still say “my husband” when referring to a time when I was with my ex. He WAS my husband at the time – it’s just referring to their role in your life at the time the event occured. People do it all the time. It doesn’t mean she’s not over him or anything. You people are too much!

  16. Chiara says:

    I have saved letters from a very special relationship, and in another that ended unhappily I needed disposal. We have different ways to satisfy memories and emotional needs.

    Drew is too funny as she describes net experiences, where to meet men, answering machines.

  17. Ich says:

    Get a grip! She also said “my second boyfriend”, but nobody focuses on that. It is always about Brad Pitt. She is not focusing on the issue, you guys are.

  18. Annie says:

    Eh. I think those of us who are the more sentimental kind tend to save all sorts of random things.

    I still have the cards my ex from 4 years ago gave me.

    Do I look at them? No. Have I looked at them since we’ve broken up? Nope.

    But I still have them. It’s a memory, and you know, when you’re old and your memory’s going…you’ll be glad to have it to look back, because the people who were in your life help shaped who you are now. Jerks or not. And let me tell you, my ex was a JERK. Worse than what Brad did to Jenn.

  19. daisy424 says:

    @Nan, I never refer to my ex-husband as my husband. We are no longer married.
    I do however have many other names I refer to him now. I would gladly repeat them, but this comment would end up in moderation.

  20. Christina says:

    man, with all the rummors flying around about her, i’m surprised she’s not more careful with her wording…

  21. NotBlonde says:

    Ich is totally right. She didn’t say her ex-boyfriends, she said her first boyfriend and her second boyfriend. Is she not over them either because she didn’t say ex-boyfriends?

    Jeez you people need to get a life. I’ve heard quite a few people refer to ex-husbands as their husband when they are talking about a time when they were their husband. Like someone saying, “Well I was on vacation with my husband in the Poconos…blah blah blah” Everyone knows what she’s referring to and everyone knows they aren’t still together.

  22. kap says:

    OK, now I know it’s not just me. The GQ interview where she’s carrying BPs kids, the “oh he’s doing such wonderful things” Oprah line, the inability to move on with her life, the total hatred of AJ. Yeah, she’s over it alright! How many years has she been in therapy? Honey, it’s not helping.

  23. Ana says:

    Wow. Just wow.
    That’s a lot of emotional baggage to carry around.

  24. cheetahstripes says:

    Enonymous – I hear that.

    Delete, delete, delete! 😉

  25. Cinderella says:

    I agree, she didn’t refer to any of those guys as exes, so what’s the big deal.

    Even if she said ex-husband, it would still ruffle feathers as usual.

  26. WonderUrs says:

    I can see how she would keep things that made her happy, even if the relationship is over now. I got rid of all of the photos and letters from past boyfriends and my ex-husband, but I have a few trinkets, books and a short story that I still treasure. It’s just acknowledging a moment in time of happiness and leaving it at that. And I don’t think that’s pathetic at all, when kept in context. I’ve been happily remarried for six years and have two great kids, but I can still remember the sound of my ex-husband’s (then boyfriend’s) voice on a tape that he made for me fifteen years ago. The tape itself is long gone but the memory of it is nice on a rare occasion.

  27. Monica says:

    It’s almost like she cannot say anything without being critized. She can say something like “I like eating apples” and brandloonies say “OH MY GOD she only likes apples because angelina likes apples. She is so desperate and SAD”

    Get a life and leave her alone

  28. LightHearted says:

    Makes sence to me. When i speak of events that occured during my past marriage, i refer to “my husband” which he was then. If i speak of a current event involving him, he is now my ex-husband. No wishfull thinking involved. A woman dosen’t divorce a man she is obsessed with, or longs to be with. And as they say, when love is gone, it’s over…can’t make it happen again with that person. Drew is such a lovely , talented woman. I see nothing desperate about women who choose to be happily alone, than to be miserablly with the wrong man. Rock On Jennifer and Drew

  29. doodahs says:

    Maybe she said it to ignite the triangle and get Angelina to respond through the media! Maybe John Mayer’s next online video message will be a re-enactment of Jen and Brad’s wedding vows!

    Or.. maybe the media makes a great deal of this crap up to sell adverts and entertain us here?

  30. Melissa-- says:

    Why don’t you get a life, Monica!

    Most of the people here are always criticizing other celebs for any little thing, so why the double standard with Aniston? Why does she get a pass?Aniston fans are so hypocritical.
    Obviously, she loves being in the public eye, so I feel she’s fair game. Just because you are in love with Aniston doesn’t mean everyone shares your obsession. She sounds like she’s still stuck in the past, and people have a right to comment on that if they feel like it.

  31. JUDY says:

    I am sure looking back Jen did give up on her marriage to Brad to easily. I think that marriage had run its course and she knew it too but did suck up the sympathy she could find. If she really had loved him all the much she would have fought for the marriage but she didnt she bailed, and then cried all over anyone who would listen. SHe wishes now she had had a child well I think if she had a baby with Pitt they would stilll be together but she was so into herself and her career she blew it period. I dont think that marriage was ever meant to last and better off that they claaed it a day when they did. I think they are both better off. SHe had a chance to have her children with Brad and when she was at a good age to hjave kids too.Now she is 40 and not married and getting desperate.

  32. NotBlonde says:

    Calm down Melissa. Jennifer Aniston clearly doesn’t “get a pass” with anything on this site and apparently not with plenty of people who comment on this site. She’s an actress. Of course she likes being in the public eye. But this means nothing and is nothing. People are using this as an excuse to say “ZOMG she’s still obsessed with Brad!!!” when that is just silly.

  33. NotBlonde says:

    Judy is the Ned of the Jennifer Aniston posts.

  34. someone says:

    but she did give those ex-boyfriends a prefix: first boyfriend, second boyfriend. she didn’t say first husband, or more properly, ex-husband. she is a sad, sad person.

  35. Ophelia says:

    I agree with Monica. And Melissa- take an ativan or something! Jebus!

  36. cee says:

    She sounds alittle strange and I think she does not think before she speaks because she is trying to be provocative, again like Angie. But she forgets Angie is Angie. Jen needs to delete those tapes and find a nice man.

  37. sissoucat says:

    Come on, she has a movie to promote, what did you expect ? She does a really good job.

    Whenever we stop talking about the movie, she has a little slip about Pitt-Jolie, or comes back with Mayer or leaves him.

    I wouldn’t be surprised if that had next to nothing to do with her real private life.

  38. CSF says:

    Why does she have to mention Brad Pitt in EVERY interview she does? Move on already.

  39. Ami says:

    She didn’t say my first ex-boyfriend or second ex she kinda just spoke in the present tense so she didn’t say ex-husband. She also didn’t mention Jolie what is the matter with you people? Must you bring her into everything? Can’t you understand the point she was trying to make here or are you purposely misunderstanding? She was basically saying that a face to face date is better than online dating. Her examples was telling you a little about her life and the things she holds dear her exes voices on answering machines. Note she didn’t just say Brad but all of them showing she doesn’t favour just one of them but all of them as a sort of symbol.

  40. Melissa-- says:

    Not-blonde: it’s Jen’s own comments that make her seem obsessed with Brad. She keeps talking about him in interview after interview, adding more fuel to the fire. Why tell the press she keeps these mementos?? And, she calls him “husband”??? Seriously, she sounds stuck in the past. That may be why she’s dating an immature rocker when she says things like she can’t wait to start a family. She seems whacky and neurotic. I think the Jen fans need to stop personally attacking anyone who disagrees with them. It’s hypocritical. And don’t peg me for a Brangeloonie, I can’t stand them either.

  41. She's really sick says:

    I simply don’t understand why this crazy ignorant woman filed for divorce. Dumb move on her part but she wants the pity party? never

  42. hmm says:

    Is she ever responsible for any words that come out of her mouth? “The magazine must have misquoted her…I always refer to my exes in the same way..blah, blah, blah.” Stop making excuses. I have never heard a woman refer to her ex-husband as her husband. I understand that women who are widowed refer to their husbands in that way but not someone who has gone through a divorce. You know the guy who misled her and lacks a sensitivity chip. And one would assume that given the public nature of her split and the Vogue debacle that Aniston would be a trifle more careful when giving interviews. Make all of the excuses you want. If BP wanted her back she’d go in a heartbeat and deep down all you Fanistons know it.

  43. UrbanRube says:

    I get why she keeps the messages from when she had a husband, which is probably what she was thinking of as she ran up her timeline, first boyfriend, second boyfriend, husband. I don’t think she thinks of him as her husband in the present tense.

    But I don’t get why she admitted that in print.

  44. unreal says:

    4 years later and she is still saying “husband” not “ex husband”? What is wrong with this woman? No one I know calls an ex anything other than an ex. Those of you making excuses for this sorry excuse for a woman need to examine why you are doing so. She has been in therapy for 20+ years and it does not seem to be working as she seems to be unable to accept reality. Run John run, as fast as you can.

  45. what what? says:

    Let’s see her ex husband has 6 kids with a woman that he is loudly proclaiming to all in the world that he really really loves, and that he only ever wanted kids with this woman. And she refers to him in an interview as her husband? This chick is either really dense and dumb, or sees her only effective PR is still to attach herself in anyway possible to her EX. The EX who left four years ago and has never looked back. GRRRRR! How pitiful.

  46. Crystal says:

    Angelina keeps stuff too. It’s much sexier to keep her old boyfriends/husband’s vile of blood then some old cassette tape.

  47. Dirty Martini says:

    I think the most telling thing is that she felt the need to elaborate …..my first boyfriend….my second boyfriend….my husband.

    What’s up with that? She cant just say “all my ex’es” and move on?

    Never mind, I just answered my own question.

    Clearly this needy psycho can NOT just move on.

  48. I don’t know how Aniston feels about Pitt – but I do know how she feels about media attention . . .

  49. Anon says:

    @what what?: exactly this is the man her fans say is a cheat. He has 6 children with someone else, children from another person is usually enough to make an ex quite unattractive. She has money, looks, a career. Move on, let it go geez she is like the Miss Havisham (Great Expectations) of the 21st century Jennifer is an Archetype of a scorned woman. She probably still plays the wedding video ugh!!!

  50. Cha Cha says:

    I guess I’m the only one that has thought of this to type on here, but when is the last time you’ve heard of people using cassette tapes for answering machines or what not?! Drew talks about answering machines and exes way back in the day. 4 years ago, hell 10 years ago, we were waaaay beyond cassettes, so the whole statement she makes is complete bullshite anyway! Especially from a millionaire who has people for her answering machine. Was she drunk?

    I can’t even see her logic anymore. All three of them suck.

  51. c says:

    ANYway…I agree with Drew about internet dating thing. It’s horrible. Rarely do I encounter a guy who isn’t retarded-emotionally, social skills-wise, and communication-wise. Big waste of time. I’d rather take my chances with meeting someone in person.

  52. what what? says:

    Well Crystal if Angelina does indeed keep the flower press with a drop of an EX’s blood, she has not said so in an interview. And I imagine with 6 kids to keep up with Angelina does not have the time to revisit EX’s. Why would any self respecting person tell the world they keep cassettes, and thanks Cha Cha for your logic, of EX’s messages to them? Why do this and more to the point why tell anything this if you actually do? Sounds like a potential stalker to me. EX equals EX, period.

  53. czarina says:

    Wow…one slip of the tongue ignites a blogging frenzy….

    Trying to read huge secret agendas and motives behind the lack of two letters seems just a tad of an overreaction….

  54. Rosanna says:

    Wow so in the past that nobody is an ex???? Geeeeeeeeeeeez

  55. SoBored says:

    Meh, sounds like a whole lot of who-shot-John.
    He left her the messages when he was still her husband. Recent messages would be from her ex.

    Why read so much into a really very innocuous comment?

  56. Goddess711 says:

    F**K yeah, Go Jen!
    That’s something she will always ALWAYS be able to say – Pitt the dawg was her HUSBAND. Sounds like Jolie will have to pop out another couple of offspring to seal the deal with dawg. You know, to make sure he doesn’t cut and run when he wakes up!
    I hope this whips that nutbar Jolie into a frenzy that reveals that much further what a crazy beyatch she is!
    Go Team Anniston!!! LOL

  57. louiseb says:

    i too still get misty when i see pictures of jen and brad looking in love and married. but now, he looks pasty and bloated and acts self important so yeah it’s just hard, so i hope she feels better that she had him during his adonis years.

  58. NotBlonde says:

    Melissa I didn’t personally attack you at all. I did not label you a Brangeloonie I didn’t even use that term and no one else did. I was trying to say that people like to tweak Jennifer Aniston’s words to make them fit their vision of her which is the “desperate, 40 year old, childless, single” woman who is “still obsessed with Brad”. Drew Barrymore made a comment about answering machine cassette tapes and that struck a memory that she had of keeping cassette tape messages of former boyfriends and her former husband. You forget and seem to ignore that she also said her first and second boyfriends.

    Is she still obsessed with them? Can someone answer that question for me. I’m not joking and I’m not trying to be a jerk. She also said my first boyfriend and my second boyfriend. You guys pick out “my husband” and say she’s still can’t get over Brad, but does that also mean she can’t get over the two other exes?

  59. NotBlonde says:

    Sorry to comment again but this was also a good point someone made up there which I’ll elaborate on:

    Would it make sense to you that Drew Barrymore made a comment about cassette tapes, Jennifer Aniston thought about cassette tapes, remembered that she had some, remembered what they were of and then said, Yea I’ve got cassette tapes and this is what’s on them? And she thought of them in order from when she got them, first boyfriend, second boyfriend, then her husband..then her mind wandered to why she kept them: oh, it’s like keeping love letters.

    Simple dialogue and thought-process analysis. Everyone pretty much thinks the same way in terms of connecting information to other information.

    If you think she’s so pathetic and boring and desperate, why do you read about her and comment about her so much?

  60. Camille says:

    @ NotBlonde: “If you think she’s so pathetic and boring and desperate, why do you read about her and comment about her so much?”

    The same sort of thing could be said concerning all of your posts concerning Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt…
    Just saying….

  61. Anon says:

    @NotBlonde: as long as Jen doesn’t think she’s pathetic, desperate or boring is all that really matters. The rest of us may be a bored ( it’s below zero where I am) I hate to think of rich, attractive women pining for an X. Especially in this Millennium.

  62. Ter says:

    Maybe they omitted “husband, at the time”. But taken in context, as others have mentioned, with “my first boyfriend. . .”, then it’s just not a big deal for me, methinks the mag wants it to appear so.

  63. , says:

    Goddess711: YOU are psycho! Brad is her EX husband! her ex not her present.

    Angelina has him now and they have six healthy children.

    Does jen listen to these tapes. CREEPY

  64. DD says:

    eh big deal. she slipped the word husband word lol. In conversations I’ve accidentally said boyfriend when referring to an ex. I even accidentally said my girlfriend when referring to a girl friend which got me a lot of sly glances from co-workers.
    Not saying she’s not over him, but don’t think she needs to be slammed for saying the husband word or even for not being over him if that is the case.

  65. Crystal says:

    Angelina keeping blood in a vile of her exes was a joke by the way.
    I like Jennifer. She seems down to earth and very likable. I don’t get the venom that Brangalina fans throw at her.

  66. Diva says:

    Woman is a frickin media genius… just keep feeding the tabloids with “oops” “my husband”s and your face is all over EVERYTHING!

    As long as referencing anything to do, even remotely, with Brad, her love life, or having children makes the collective tongues wag, Jennifer Aniston will continue to pepper her soundbites with them.

  67. cheetahstripes says:

    LOL @ Goddess711, I’m not a fan of the whole Brangelina/Jen trio of terror but your post made me chuckle. Thanks for the laugh!

  68. cheetahstripes says:

    Diva, as if AJ “casually” mentioning falling in love with Brad when she knew damn well that was during a time frame he was still married wouldn’t get tongues wagging?! (And that seemed to start all the recent JA snips back at her.) Puhleeze, it’s not just Jennifer. All **three** of those needy attention seekers are out of control with the gossip-worthy soundbites.

  69. Sasssy says:

    I want that suit she is wearing. the rest are her problems she can go and kiss the devil in hell.

  70. Ursula says:

    Every one needs to take a chill pill. He was her husband. Let her use him for publicity. AJ has used him for the last four years. He is a tool, any one can use him.

    I love that clip on AJ on SNL. Sheer genius.

  71. so what says:

    Here we go again, people get over it, she didn’t mean anything by what she said..he was her husband when he left the messages..so stop trying to read some hidden meaning into that statement.

  72. ogechi ohalee maryjane says:

    Jenny say whatever,the truth is that i love u so much…

  73. Diva says:

    The difference is, keekee… oh, I’m sorry, “cheetahstrip”, this article isn’t about Jolie, so I don’t feel the need to mention her here.

    My comment was not a knock on Aniston. Keeping her face in front of everyone is her job. And she’s damn good at it.

  74. vdantev says:

    Let it go JA, let it go ! I never let my ex go until I burned all her love letters. Put it in the past or you’ll have not future- kinda like now.

  75. CSF says:

    Jen: you to realize that He’s just not that into you. So please stop talking about Brad all the time and Move on.

  76. boomchakaboom says:

    I’m late to this party, but it’s weird to refer to an ex-husband as “husband” no matter how recently or how long ago the marriage ended. The boyfriends were categorized as first and second,i.e. the past, but the husband was clearly put in terms of the present. I’m beginning to think J.Anniston is basically a jerk.

  77. Syko says:

    Crystal, it’s a “vial”, not a “vile” And there was never a vial of blood, it was a smear of blood. Sort of like a blood brother thing, only no exchange of body fluids.

  78. Canuck says:

    It doesn’t say she listens to them, just that she has kept them. Who doesn’t have a few old love letters stashed away in a box somewhere. That doesn’t mean that you are pulling them out and reading them every day.

    As for the “my husband” reference, that seems perfectly normal to me in the context of the rest of the sentence. First boyfriend, second boyfriend, (only to date) husband… had she already remarried, perhaps she would have said first husband rather than ex-husband, as it gives more continuity with the rest of her sentence. What’s the big deal?

  79. PJ says:

    I don’t understand why so many people get upset whenever JA refers to her former husband. It’s like they have this rule that she should never mention him again, ever.

    We still talk about Jen and Brad. Does this mean we’re insane also? Maybe WE should get over it!

  80. Goddess711 says:

    Guess Jen was “psycho” too when she believed ol’ faithful was just off making a movie and calling home to tell her he loved HER at the time when he WAS her husband.
    Hey everybody, when did ADULTERY stop being a punishable crime..wait…did I just see a picture on the main page of Dawg Pitt completely plastered with puffy face, squinty eyes and the cheesiest mustache since the handlebar?
    Shudder. Guess somebody’s drinking his “what the f**k have I gotten myself into?” away?
    So let’s all get this straight as we know it: at the time Dawg Pitt left messages on Jen’s machine, she’s indicating they were still officially married at the time, so, indeed he would be her husband when he left the messages. OR maybe yeah she’s just doing another Vogue vicious slam at AJ that can only be interpreted if you read the invisible ink parts. Yeah. That’s gotta be it.
    Devious.
    Crafty.
    Bitchy.
    Thumbs up TEAM ANISTON!!!!!! WOOOHOOO!!!!

    rotfl!

  81. lrm says:

    Um,did she say ‘ex first boyfriend’,ex second boyfriend’ in the interview?
    I think she said first boyfriend,second boyfriend,husband…
    meaning that this is what the messages are-from a time when these men were in her life in a certain role.

    Anyway,i think it’s ridiculous/dysfunctional to keep old messages past the age of 25…i mean,highschool sweetheart stuff gets saved for awhile,but after that,you need to move on.
    Live in the present.
    But,I don’t see the distinction with the husband here;she included him with the rest.
    Regardless,if she’s not over him,so be it. Everyone grieves differently over a relationship loss.

  82. Leanne says:

    I am over 25 and still keep letter’s and cards ect of my first spouse who passed away 8yrs ago…Not that I read them all the time but they are in my trunk and sometimes read over them and remember the good times….Goddess771….You are completely right…Regardless of what people say..look at the woman, absolutly georgeous…I love her suit!!! Regardless of all the people out there who love Bragelina, there is the same amount or more who have lost respect for them…Jennifer has done nothing wrong..It is not completely her fault the relationship did not work…I would have filed for divorce too if my husband was doing what Brad was doing..

  83. sonia says:

    Jen is 40 I’m sure she had a
    her 1st boyfriend when she was approximately 15. So she has answering machine cassettes from 25 y.o. ago.WOW that’s interesting.

  84. Beth says:

    I am SO SICK of Jennifer clinging to the ex. She sounds pathetic.

  85. Beth says:

    And this is the kind of stuff that would prob make a guy run the other way to know- Coo coo

  86. i dont keep pixs,letters,tapes or anything that reminds me of my ex..That is the reason i normally move on easily wtout any form of bitterness or anger…But i cant also judge anybody who decides to do otherwise…
    Brangelina is attention seekers and psychos…Jenny is an example of a real woman…PERIOD

  87. L.S. says:

    Oh my goodness! Jen, needs to just let it go. Her “husband” is gone! He has 6, count them 6, children with another woman. And he seems very happy by the way. I used to really feel sorry about the way the press wouldn’t stop asking Jen about Brad and Angie. But, now it’s like she can’t wait to talk about the whole affair (in Vogue, GQ, and now Marie Claire.) Message to Jen: You look fantastic, have a young guy, and a great career. Please, think of the Beatles song and just “Let it be.”

  88. NotBlonde says:

    L.S. casually mentioning how she keeps cassette tapes of old boyfriends and her former husband’s voicemail messages in the context of the conversation where Drew Barrymore was talking about cassette tapes = “can’t stop talking about Brad” to you?

    I really do not understand how or why people are so weirdly obsessed with tearing this woman down when she has done absolutely nothing remotely hate-worthy. She’s vanilla. She’s boring. She stays out of the spotlight until she has to promote something then disappears. I just don’t get what is “desperate” or “pathetic” about her.

  89. Enn says:

    I tend to stay out of these Brad/Jen/AJ threads because it gets too crazy, but I can honestly say that when I refer to my ex-fiance (we split a year ago) during a story or something that took place while we were together, and I’m talking to people who didn’t know him personally, I say “my fiance.” I also have a couple of shoeboxes with notes, ticket stubs, cards, and pics from several exes. That doesn’t make me a crazy stalker lady who lives in the past; it makes me someone who is at peace with the relationships that ended and likes to remember the good times. The alternative is being bitter that I “wasted my time” or somesuch.

    Give Aniston a break, kids.

  90. Enn says:

    Oh, shoot, I forgot to mention – I had an answering machine with a cassette recorder as late as January 2004. It had worked for about eight years, so why replace it until I had to?

  91. deasy says:

    dear jennifer aniston,
    I am one of your fans
    I know that u have respect with your ex husband. But I don’t want to interrupt your personal life, but as a mature woman, we both know that Brad Pitt is not worth too much at all.
    He is not handsome & rather disgusting
    so enjoy your life with John Mayer
    hahahahha
    Just you know, Angelina Jolie is a f***ing BIATCH

  92. Autumm Leaves says:

    Jen isn’t over Brad. Obviously. Look, I love Jen, I love Brad, and Angie. There comes a time in our lives when we have to seriously move the f*ck on. When a relationship ends, you have to let it go. Those men aren’t ever coming back. Why hold onto junk? The excuses need to stop and accountability needs to take over. Brad has moved on in every way that matters, emotionally, physically, mentally, and it’s time for Jen to do the same. Brad is her EX husband and her boyfriends are her EX boyfriends. Ex as in the past as in not in the present.

  93. Autumm Leaves says:

    BTW, Jen looks gorgeous.

  94. Rekha says:

    Its hard to overcome the emotions and feelings

  95. Nana says:

    big deal. ‘my boyfriend, my second boyfriend, my husband…’ that doesn’t mean ANYTHING. she just told what she does…

  96. Marly says:

    Good, why she just move on with Brad!! She looks like this schol girls who just idolize their ex boyfriends..Grow up!

  97. myspace girl says:

    Maybe online dating isn’t great for celebrities, of course, but for ordinary people is just as useful as night clubs. People can lie to you as easily off line than on line.