Amber Heard is a lesbian, just FYI

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I heard over the weekend that actress Amber Heard came out as a lesbian (or maybe she just verified it), but I struggled for a moment to understand who exactly Amber Heard was. Here’s her IMDB page – I’ve seen her in Pineapple Express, although I have no memory of her role in that movie whatsoever. And that’s all I’ve ever seen from her filmography. Huh. Anyway, Amber Heard went to some GLAAD event over the weekend… with her girlfriend. And now everyone is like “ZOMG a C-list actress is a lesbian!” Is it really that scandalous? Here’s Amber’s interview (at the event) with After Ellen:

At tonight’s celebration of 25 years of GLAAD, AfterEllen.com was on the red carpet and talked for a few minutes with actress Amber Heard (The Stepfather, The Joneses, Pineapple Express), who spoke openly (and happily) about her choice to come out and, as she eloquently said, not be “a part of the problem” by staying in the closet. Heard, who was joined by her partner, Tasya van Ree, was also clearly honored to have the privilege of presenting the Founder’s Award to GLAAD/LA Founder and First Executive Director Richard Jennings during the event, held at Harmony Gold in Los Angeles.

AfterEllen.com: What does it mean to you to be a part of this event tonight?
Amber Heard: I’m honored to be a part of GLAAD. I’ve long been a fan and long wanted to be a part of an organization as powerful, as influential and as important as GLAAD. I am acutely aware of the role that the media plays in influencing public opinion and influencing society, and with that awareness comes the burden of responsibility.

I think when I became aware of my role in the media, I had to ask myself an important question “Am I part of the problem?” And I think that when millions and millions of hard-working, tax paying Americans are denied their rights and denied their equality you have to ask yourself what are the factors that are an epidemic problem and that’s what this is. Injustice can never be stood for. It always must be fought against and I just was sick of it being a problem. Because I’m in the media I was aware of it and I luckily was introduced to GLAAD and am honored that they wanted me to be a part of tonight because it is such an important organization. I am so impressed with all the important work that they are doing and I couldn’t see a more important cause to be aligned with.

AE: The media is obsessed with labels and labeling people. As an out actress, is that something that you’re concerned about or is it something you’re moving past because of GLAAD?
AH: It’s hard. I think GLAAD is one of the many reasons that I, as a 24-year-old, can come out. I think that organizations like GLAAD make that possible because if it weren’t for opinions being changed, people being influenced, people being engaged to do the right thing, then there would be no prerogative for anyone to come out. Like I said, I can’t be a part of the problem. I hate the idea of a label just as much as anyone else but I’m with who I’m with, I love who I love and I’m if not a better actress than I was yesterday and my personal life should have no effect on that. I think that the injustice of people staying in the closet is more than I can bear with a clear conscience and I couldn’t sleep at night if I was a part of that problem, if I was part of the lies.

I personally think that if you deny something or if you hide something you’re inadvertently admitting it’s wrong. I don’t feel like I’m wrong. I don’t feel like millions of people are wrong because they love who they love or they were born how they were born. I’m proud to be on the right side of history and I can do nothing more than encourage people to look at their lives and ask “What side of history am I on? Am I doing the right thing or am I doing the wrong thing?” I look at speeches by Martin Luther King and I cry when I read the story of Rosa Parks at the back of the bus, and I can’t help but think if I was in that era what side of history would I be on? Would I be marching on the side of equality or would I be one of these horrible people spreading hate and bigotry?

It’s clear from a person that was born in the ’80s to decide what part of history they’d be on. It’s clear for someone like myself that’s fairly educated and fairly well-rounded and fairly enlightened to be able to say “I would never be on this side of bigots and hatred. I would never be on that side!” But then we have this situation here in my generation, where tons of young people haven’t woken up to the call that this is our generation’s civil rights movement. This is the forefront of human rights. You have to ask yourself what side are you going to be on and if we’re too scared to come out and say who we are, we’ll never get anywhere.

AE: It’s great to see you here with your partner. It’s great that you can do that and you don’t have to be here with a beard!
AH: She’s so beautiful. I mean, you’d have to be crazy not to want to go out with her!

[From After Ellen]

So, Amber is like Rosa Parks, I guess. No, I jest, I understand what she was saying. She’s saying that she wants to stand up for what’s right, and now is the time to be vocal. I get it, and good for her. Here are some more photos of Amber, and her girlfriend Tasya Van Ree. There are a bunch of photos of Amber and Tasya over the past few months, so it’s not like it was some huge secret, in my opinion.

LOS ANGELES, CA - DECEMBER 03: Actress Amber Heard and guest attend GLAAD Celebrates 25 Years Of LGBT Images In The Media Show on December 3, 2010 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Valerie Macon/Getty Images)

NEW YORK - NOVEMBER 16: Amber Heard and Tasya Van Ree attend the Society of Sloane-Kettering Cancer Center's 2010 fall party at Four Seasons Restaurant on November 16, 2010 in New York City. (Photo by Donna Ward/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CA - DECEMBER 03: Actress Amber Heard attends GLAAD Celebrates 25 Years Of LGBT Images In The Media Show on December 3, 2010 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Valerie Macon/Getty Images)

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  1. irishserra says:

    She reminds me of a really skinny ScarJo.

  2. Rasputina says:

    Old news.

  3. sasa says:

    Damn, what a hot couple!

  4. jj says:

    aww she’s gorgeous

  5. danielle says:

    Good for her. Too many starlt’s would hide that, or maybe say they were “bi” to seem sexier to men.

  6. Liana says:

    I worked with Amber on Criminal Minds when she played Lila. She was really nice.

  7. lin234 says:

    She was the girl zombie in Zombieland. That’s where I recognize her. She did a great job.

  8. yoyo99 says:

    OMG her GF is smoking hot

  9. Lisa says:

    She played Seth Rogen’s gf in PE.

  10. The_Porscha says:

    They are both gorgeous women. From what I understand, Heard’s sexuality was previously an open secret, but no matter: good for the two of them being out, open and together and happy. Congratulations!

  11. Anon says:

    I remember her from Criminal Minds, and I think she might also have played the son’s girlfriend in The Stepfather.

    They make a ridiculously gorgeous pair – and I think it is great that she is acknowledging the relationship in the media and using it to benefit gay exposure in Hollywood.

    And not to sound like a fangirl Liana.. but what is the rest of the CM cast like?

  12. Johnny Depp's Girl says:

    Although I applaud her choice not to stay “in the closet” in which I totally am against….(and I am heterosexual)

    I have to say, they are a cute couple but…..

    Who cares?

  13. PrettyTarheel says:

    Liana, thanks so much! I couldn’t quite put my finger on where I knew her from…
    PS-Any dish on Matthew G? I am a huge Spencer Reed fangirl, and not even ashamed to admit it.
    Also, props to Amber for being vocal!

  14. Jackson says:

    Who?

  15. Hollowdoll says:

    Every little bit helps. I agree bearding and pretending to be someone your not should not be happening any more. I’ve seen her in a few things and she’s a pretty good actress.

  16. SamiHami says:

    First off, no idea who she is so don’t really care. Secondly, though, why is it still considered “news” if someone is gay? I mean, who really cares who other people have romantic relationships with, as long as we’re talking about adults?

    I just don’t get the need to “announce” something like your sexuality. It’s just not the big deal it used to be.

  17. jay says:

    Okay, I applaud her desire to just be herself, and I totally agree that equality is the right thing to do. But she comes off a bit harsh on those that aren’t directly in the open; I think each person’s journey and choice to have their private life broadcast is…well, their choice. Doesn’t make them a “problem” to the movement, doesn’t diminish their own life and their choices. It’s a difficult walk, made worse by both those that abhor someone else’s identity and actively seek to make it wrong/illegal/degraded/etc., and those that champion the opinion it’s all or nothing, i.e., you MUST be publically out and proud, or you aren’t truly being yourself. Not necessarily true. I think a person has right to their own privacy if they wish it, to handle their life their own way. I’m not sure it’s clear; I think someone can be very supportive of gay rights, be gay, and still not trumpet it to the world at large. Perhaps it’s not their given personality; doesn’t mean they are hiding or being detrimental. If a person isn’t actively campaigning for/being instrumental or making an effort for discrimination, whether in office or privately, I say let them live their life. It’s theirs.

    Sorry, I’m befuddled a bit with words, but I think she’s overly harsh with the “problem” commentary. I get what she’s saying but I think it’s poorly worded and perhaps thought out.

    JMHO

  18. Patrice says:

    I don’t know; something about this whole thing screams PR stunt to me. If Amber really is gay then more power to her, but just the way she worded everything in the interview sounds like she was being fed lines by some publicist or something (she definetly hasn’t spoken so articulately in interviews before).

    I’m just incredibly wearing of all of these celebrities who are coming out during awards ceremonies, rallies (Anna Paquin as bi) etc. From what I know, coming out is one of the most personal, introspective moments of a persons life and it just seems a little bit strange to me that if these guys were genuinely coming out for the first time that they wouldn’t have spoken to their families and friends first.

    Maybe Amber just meant that she was coming out publicly for the first time, but why with the backdrop of an awards ceremony…I don’t know, timing seems dubious.

  19. Ron says:

    I think it’s great for her to come out now as opposed to playing it safe an coming out after she’s really established. Good for her! the more people who are out and not ashamed the better! And… love a me a hot lipstick lesbian couple!

  20. Beth says:

    I don’t even know who this person is. I’ve never HEARD of her. HAHAHAHA. (My apologies for the pun, I’ve been baking all morning and I’m a little punchy.)

  21. devilgirl says:

    Her GF’s photos are amazing. She is a really gifted photographer, IMO.

    EDIT- I have to kind of laugh at some responses here, saying she more or less did it for publicity, yet people complain when others are in the closet. I don’t get it.

  22. terryo says:

    A very beautiful couple. Wonder who “the little woman” is…hhmmm

  23. Liana says:

    I doubt she did this for personal publicity, She didn’t talk to a mainstream publication like “People.” She talked to “After Ellen.” She wasn’t really closeted as much as she just didn’t shout her sexuality from the hilltops.

    As for the CM cast; quick rundown on my impressions: Matthew – awesome, twisted, funny, smart, quite a beautiful man in person (amazing bone structure). Thomas – complete gentleman. Holds doors open for you. Really funny, too. Quick witted. Shemar – Subtle sense of humor, BEAUTIFUL in person. Very nice. Paget – my girl crush. Sarcastic, funny, really talented. Joe – papa bear. Unbelievably supportive and a team player all the way. Kirsten – bubbly, funny, friendly, wicked sense of humor. AJ – just a sweetheart. Mandy – he was kind of a jerk. Not really social and the atmosphere was noticeably different when he left. Noticeably better. That bummed me out because… Inigo Montoya, you know? Lola – kept to herself a lot, but she was OK. Not rude or anything, just not really talkative. She could be really sarcastic and funny, though. Like Paget so much better.

  24. fay says:

    She is beautiful!

  25. Kim says:

    Ive never “heard” of her in my life – pardon the pun but honestly who is she? I didnt see Pineapple Express maybe that was her only role.

  26. gee_gee says:

    I have seen “Pineapple Express” and I still don’t remember her. Being gay might be the only thing that will distinguish her from the ranks of the bland blonde actresses.

    She should color her hair or wear a sign or something.

  27. clorismetchum says:

    she looks a lot like my oldest daughter except my daughter has a darker blonde hair tone so everytime i see a picture of thi girl i’m like “WHAT THE HECK IS JOANNA DOING IN HOLLYWOOD?!” and now that amber is saying she’s a lesbian it’s kind of throwing me off, because now i’m wondering (hypothetically) if joanna turned out to like trips to tuna town, would i be okay with this? i consider myself pretty liberal, and the guy that does my hair definitely has some sugar in his tank, so i’m okay with the gay, but would i want my own flesh and blood being one? it makes me question myself. and i don’t like it.

  28. LittleDeadGirl says:

    I’d so love if we could move on from people annoucing who they like to fuck. Just makes me sigh. Nobody cares sweety, really, nobody. Or when celebs announce they are vegan or love the color pink or whatever. Can we stop knowing about your personal life? Just act in the fucking movie and shut up. Though this isn’t their fault completely, it’s the whole media/PR/ Hollywood machine but christ I’m sick of it.

    gee-gee : Awesome comment made me snicker

  29. Kristin says:

    Wow Cloris, your post saddens me. So judgmental and snobby. “Trip to tuna town” “sugar in his tank”?

  30. Amy says:

    She was pretty great as the lead in All the Boys Love Mandy Lane, which itself was a refreshing slasher movie.

  31. Anon says:

    Thanks for the rundown Liana! I love to hear that some of my favourite actors/actress’ are awesome in person. (:
    And it is too bad about Mandy.. it makes me glad that he left (even if I loved his character).

  32. beth says:

    she’s one of the most beautiful girls ive ever seen in my life. well, good for her for going out there and helping to dispel that sad ole myth that lesbians are ugly and cant get men. trust me, i LOVE men, but this is one up for the WOMEN – gay, straight, swinging both ways… 🙂

  33. jaye E says:

    @Little Dead Girl…clearly, there are people who DO care. Homosexuality is a hot button issue and I think people who announce their sexuality are showing solidarity to that small town teen who feels like they are alone in the world. People are STILL very judgmental and vitriolic when it comes to the gay community, so for someone to publicly identify themselves gay, even in our more open times, is still very brave.

  34. t says:

    LittleDeadGirl, if you don’t care about celebrities’ personal lives, why are you reading a gossip site?

    And man, that is one beautiful couple.

  35. LittleDeadGirl says:

    #34: Well I hope it does give hope to the small town teen but I dunno when I went through rought times I never got all warm and fuzzy cause a celebrity had pseudo gone through them too. But maybe some people do and I certainly hope that is what happens. I don’t see it as all that brave in Hollywood (it is brave everywhere tho and kudos others) which is a pretty liberal town (or from the outside anyway) … haven’t half of them come out of the closet by now?

    #35: For Hot Guy Friday of course, some of the fashion, and for Kaiser’s sarcastic commentary on celebrity lives 🙂 plus makes me feel better to make fun of them. Mostly HGF though …

  36. Emily says:

    @clorismetchum, you don’t like something just because it makes you question yourself? Wow.

  37. Crash2GO2 says:

    @LittleDeadGirl: “#34: Well I hope it does give hope to the small town teen but I dunno when I went through rought times I never got all warm and fuzzy cause a celebrity had pseudo gone through them too.”

    With all due respect, just because they are actors doesn’t mean their lives are necessarily any cushier than yours when it comes to dealing with difficult issues.

    Best to you. Like (and am kind of disturbed) by your handle!

  38. jay says:

    I’ve been out all day but I need to address the comment about “who you fuck”. Please. This is the crux of the problem to many. IT.IS.NOT.ABOUT.SEX. It’s about attraction, it’s about who your heart feels for, who you want to spend your life with, including all the things that go into that, and not just fucking. Sheesh. Every time it gets reduced to just a physical, base level, it makes it even more frustrating to explain. And really, WHY should it have to be explained. Fuck THAT.

    It’s offensive.

  39. embertine says:

    Yes! I’m in with a chance!

    (haha, not really, she is so out of my league I might as well be a different species)

  40. coucou says:

    @clorismetchum – got a giggle out of your post…you kind of remind of my mom, and her youngest daughter is definitely a lesbian…

    @kristin – why “saddened” by Madame Metchum’s freedom of speech? I don’t get most of the knee-jerk defensiveness regarding gay issues.

    I live in France, and in their movies, they often use the word “pédé” (queer) in a comedic sense and the world doesn’t fall apart, i mean, it’s not said in an attackful way, so why the defense?

    I think the vehement defense says more about the person defending than it does about the perceived offense. Yeah, there are plenty of examples where apologies are in order, but can’t we all just lighten up a bit…the spiral of defense and attack, man, it’s just so old…

    This couple is so cute…it just occurred to me that you don’t see many lesbian couples putting out sex tapes to promote their careers…wonder why that is?

  41. LittleDeadGirl says:

    Crash2GO2 – You may be right. I guess I’m a little jaded about celebrities but I should be more sympathetic to them and what they have gone through because like you said they have their own troubles. For every Lindsy Lohan there may 3 or four Amber Heards that may be genuine in their emotion.

    Best to you as well. Thanks for the compliment … the handle actually came from a comic book I used to read a long time ago called Lenore. I think of it in that context and remembering the comic book makes me laugh. I do hope it doesn’t offend or disturb anyone too much.

  42. skeptical says:

    as one of the gay kids in a not-gay-friendly area… i’m GLAD when a nonfussy person just says “yea, I’m gay” cuz it gives me one more person to point to and say “I’m not abnormal! Being gay is totally normal for many people”

    Amber Heard seems very normal and nonfussy.

    I am very annoyed at lindsay lohan because
    1. her shenanigans have made it easier for peeps to tell me that i’m just “gay for show” or crap like that.

    2. her behavior annoys me in general.