Is John Mayer already cheating on Katy Perry by stepping out for ‘sex dates’?

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Last week, the tabloids were oddly fixated on Katy Perry and John Mayer on the subject of texting. In Touch published a story that Katy has been texting back and forth with ex-husband Russell Brand because “she needs that peace of mind that comes with connecting with someone you loved.” For John’s part, Star went with a story that has him sexting all sorts of chicks behind Katy’s back and that Katy had caught him once, and they fought about it. We didn’t mention these stories at the time because … meh.

Now things are getting slightly more interesting though. Life & Style has heard from one of John’s “friends,” who says that John has had a long-running f*#k buddy since early 2011. And supposedly, John has never stopped seeing this woman even though he and Katy are an official couple. Nobody would be surprised if this story was true, right?

John Mayer

Katy Perry and John Mayer looked “quite affectionate” together on Dec. 12 in NYC while seeing A Christmas Story: The Musical. But looks can be deceiving.

An Insider reveals to Life & Style, on stands now, that John has been seeing a secret woman since early 2011. “They meet frequently, just for sex dates,” confides the insider. “And they sext each other almost constantly.”

While Katy thought John could be the answer to her relationship woes, he’s been playing her from the start. “She’s totally into him,” the pal confesses to Life & Style. “There’s a part of her that thinks she’s definitely reformed him, so she’d be totally devastated if she knew that John was cheating on her.”

The insider continues, “John and this woman have incredible sexual chemistry and have been seeing each other nonstop since their first encounter almost two years ago.”

Katy and John have been spotting together numerous times on various dates since the summer.

[From Life & Style]

I have no problem believing this story. If his reputation is any indication, John probably has issues with monogamy, and since Katy is always attending events and travelling, he’s got plenty of opportunity to get it in elsewhere. I also do think that John likes having a famous girlfriend. Katy is probably (I guess) good for his image, and Katy likes the thought of reforming bad boys. My take on her has always been that Katy goes for unrepentant lotharios because she likes the idea of being the very special snowflake that can “tame” them and make them give up all of those other chicks. Of course, this relationship will end in disaster, but don’t they all?

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  1. Riana says:

    “My take on her has always been that Katy goes for unrepentant lotharios because she likes the idea of being the very special snowflake that can “tame” them and make them give up all of those other chicks”

    I’m being totally non-snarky, what gave you this impression?

    I can’t see Katy taming anyone, most of her relationships seem to focus on being with these wild guys and supposedly she was the one partying when Russell wanted to spend time alone at home.

    Nothing about Katy Perry has ever suggested she’s on a mission to make a bad guy good.

  2. handsome man saved me from the monsters says:

    Isn’t she irrelevant yet? Like kesha, should have only been a one hit wonder

  3. Miss Kiki says:

    Katy Perry annoys me no end, however even though we know they’re dating but are they actually exclusive? Don’t get me wrong Douchey Meyer is the type that would totally be banging other chicks behind your back BUT Katy might know and this could simply be a case of they’re both banging other people but being seen together publicly.

    • OutstandingWoldCitizen says:

      John Mayer is an a-hole! Why would any woman in their right mind – especially knowing his track record – seriously date him? He is more than likely sexting other chicks in her presence. Can’t wait to hear the song she pens about him.

  4. pamspam says:

    How does he still get women? Ick.

    • erika says:

      no kidding….he is GROSS.

      and put away your damn Indiana Jones hat you douchewrangler! are ye’ lookin’ far dat crazy crystal skull now mister mayah?’ are ye’ now?

      what pisses me off, no angers me about mayer is if these ‘blind gossip’ stories are true, that he impregnated both taylor swift (ummm…jail bat at the time, 19) AND Jessica Simpson. They both obviously aborted ….if true.

      Now, I AM totally Pro Choice, but more ‘Pro Reasonable Choice’ and I despise men/women who use aborton as birth control and my opinion is if you (man/woman) have had one abortion so far in life, let it be a lesson, but more than that? come on, get help.

      And this goes for guys too. If you’ve gotten a girl pregnant/aborted 2+ times….you’re doing something wrong. My boyfriend’s best friend, some douche, silver spoon/trust artist got 3 women pregnant (all aborted) one including his own psychiatrist…nice. I wanted to kill him. he just never got it.

    • Paulyp says:


      There is a blind item on that basically tells the story of Swift falling hard for Mayer and he used her……. when she figured it out, she also discovered she was pregnant. She had the baby terminated and broke up with him…. because of her “good girl image”, she never considered having the child out of wedlock with a douchebag like Mayer. it’s one of the reasons she “beards” with gay male celebrities. I t is much safer that way….. the truth of the story is arguable.

  5. BLOGAHOLIC says:

    Love the black dress minus the cape like thing.

  6. FirstTimer says:

    I don’t even know what Katy was thinking when she started going out with Mayer.

  7. hoya_chick says:

    Chanel sweat suit? Interesting. JM is gross. He was gross when he dated Jen (both times), gross when he dated Jess, just all around gross. Any woman who dates him should not be surprised by his behavior. Women who think they can change men are fools. People rarely, if ever change who they are innately. If a man really wants to change he does so on his own not because a woman wants him to. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

  8. marie says:

    I have a hard time seeing what’s attractive about him, from my look-there’s nothing..

  9. Elceibeno says:

    That vest doesn’t look good with rest of the outfit

  10. True..Dat says:

    I can’t believe they have lasted this long!

  11. Sweet Dee says:

    They give me hyperemesis gravidarum.

    …No? Is that not how you use that?

  12. Karen says:

    Ladies love their dicks (figuratively, and literally)

  13. KellyinSeattle says:

    I’m so square, I don’t like “bad boys”, unless I’m watching Cops. John is just gross to me…women who flock to douches …well I’ve never understood. Give me a clean cut, All American dork anyday.

  14. Minnie says:

    I don’t know about the big dong theory. Remember when he wore the “Borat” swimsuit and posed with an US Weekly? Didn’t look like much of a package to me…

  15. Cecada says:

    If he has great chemistry with this “secret” lover than why not just stick with her? If it was just about sex, he probably would. I think it’s more complicated than that.

    Could it be that he gets off on hurting women emotionally and using them sexually? You know, a passive aggressive mysogynist?

    What a creep; I don’t care how impressive his junk supposedly is. Yuck.

  16. Hahahahaha says:

    this woman is linked to a sexual fantasy that involves WHEEL chair sex…thats all:)

  17. mln76 says:

    Mayer likes his main squeezes to be brainless between, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Aniston,and Taylor Swift there is probably a total of seven brain cells. Only an idiot would fall for his douchery. Katy fits right in.

  18. Holden says:

    Yes, reforming men totally works! I’m sure he does have an f-buddy, because he can. Seems like it would be pretty easy to follow him and find out…

  19. skuddles says:

    Oh Katy, don’t you know a pig is a pig is a pig? Mayer is that pig. Leave him to his sty and his pig women and find a better guy.

  20. Annie says:

    Never get involved with a man like that. He’ll never ever change. You’ll just get hurt.

  21. Melissa says:

    It’s too bad that lying stalkers can get away with making up stories. One tells a lie and it gets picked up and repeated until people who believe everything on the internet believe it. It’s a sad commentary.